Explore every episode of the podcast Relationship Transformers
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| Relationship Kerfuffles? It’s Not Your Fault | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:16:16 | |
➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: It’s Not Your Fault! We’ve been handed an old & broken relationship paradigm that stopped working DECADES ago… and relationships have been falling apart ever since. The breakdown in your relationships (all relationships) is NOT your fault (nor your partner’s). In this episode, I will show you the startling discovery I made about the old & broken relationship paradigm that we’ve been handed, the invisible ways it’s been destroying your relationships and the NEW relationship paradigm we invented to SOLVE the problem! This is revolutionary!! In this episode, I’ll show you the OLD relationship tactics and patterns (that you are unknowingly repeating every day) that BREAK DOWN relationships today… and the NEW relationship tactics and patterns that you can put in place instead… to BUILD UP your relationship! What’s great is… it will feel so much happier and peaceful to use the NEW way, and it brings a huge RELIEF to release the old & broken ways!! And the BEST PART… you don’t need to convince anyone else to DO THIS with you! Everything I will show you can be used by you, single-handedly, to build up any relationship in your life, even if the other person doesn’t want to learn this or hear about it! I made this discovery over 20 years ago… and for the last 14 years, we have taught thousands and thousands of people, from all across the globe, the NEW relationship approach to building up relationships (marriage, parenting, friends, family, work, etc.). And in that time, the students in our RelationshipU program have had a 1% DIVORCE RATE & a 99% success rate over a 6-year study period of their results! Those results are unheard of, and that’s because THIS WORKS! If you don’t know what I share with you in this episode, you are unnecessarily suffering and possibly likely to be blindsided by pain and upset in the future (and it’s not your fault). Don’t be left out… Find out what Demand Relationship™ and Relationship Development® are now! — Key Points Discussed: The old relationship way: Demand Relationship™ (00:00) The breakdown from the win-lose paradigm (03:40) The Two Roles in Demand Relationships™ (05:46) Introducing Relationship Development® (10:20) Final words (14:59) — Additional Links & Resources: 🎧 Listen to the training on relationships being closed loops here: https://martinopodcast.com/podcast/02-can-this-unusual-cesar-millan-tactic-help-your-relationship/ 🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com 👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com 👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c 👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt 👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com — We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world! Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home! Let’s connect: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/ — We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately. | |||
| Can One Person Change a Relationship? Here's The TRUTH | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:14:20 | |
➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: Have you ever felt like everything around you — movies, social media, and society — insists it takes two to change a relationship? Couple’s counseling usually backs this idea, but let me tell you… it COULD NOT be farther from the truth! If there’s one thing we’ve proven from our 14 years of experience in transforming relationships, it’s THIS: One person is ALWAYS changing the relationship — whether they know it or not! In this episode, I share a personal (and unflattering) story from my days of being known as the “Ice Princess” — so NO JUDGING! This story is PROOF that it just takes ONE PERSON to change the dynamics of a relationship (and that ONE person was NOT even me!). If you feel like you’ve tried EVERYTHING to get your partner to change the relationship, this episode is a must!! Tune in to learn how you can single-handedly get the results you want in your relationships…without needing them to agree or get on board! — Key Points Discussed: Story time: That time Stacey threw a sandwich at a guy (00:00) How 1 guy changed everything in that moment (08:13) This 1 act can change someone else’s life forever (10:14) The Closed Loop tool you can reuse (11:30) Final words (13:24) — Additional Links & Resources: 🎧 Listen to the explanation about relationships being closed loops here: https://martinopodcast.com/podcast/02-can-this-unusual-cesar-millan-tactic-help-your-relationship/ 🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com 👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com 👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c 👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt 👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com — We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world! Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home! Let’s connect: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/ — We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately. | |||
| 46: I’m Not The One That Needs To Change | 19 Mar 2020 | 00:13:02 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a common point of view that most people in a relationship have that negatively affects their relationships without their knowing. And that is the view that they have something figured out more than their partner and so they have to get their partner to subscribe to it too so their relationship can become better. That’s a common thing that Paul and Stacey hear from their program participants all the time. One particular relationship transformer who was doing the 14-Day Boost Program posted on the relationship transformers Facebook group about how she loved the program module on alignment, especially where they were learning about how to get to the win-win, instead of staying stuck in the win-lose. She felt that it was a great module for her husband to learn from, but she needed advice on how to make him listen to it. That’s a great example of that detrimental point of view and Paul and Stacey will seek to deal with it in this episode. It’s part of our natural wiring to think that way because it comes from the demand relationship wiring that is just so deep in our blueprint, and we must learn to shift away from it by first realizing that there is no “me and you” in a relationship. Partners in a relationship are one, and if one partner loses in any way, then the other one loses too. Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey lay out all the steps you will need to take to build a win-win relationship with your partner. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 45: How Can I Get Them To See That…. | 12 Mar 2020 | 00:26:15 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a dynamic where someone in a relationship gets stuck in the false belief that their way is the right way and that their partner’s way is all wrong. The issue between a couple could be just about anything, but with this dynamic, one partner feels that their way of solving the issue or their perspective on the issue is the correct one while their partner’s is not, and so they feel that they must make their partner see their way and agree to it. Paul and Stacey see this dynamic all the time among couples, and it sucks the energy out of people, causes kerfuffles, doesn’t solve anything, and in the end completely breaks down a relationship. A great example of that dynamic is with Susan, one of Paul and Stacey’s students. Susan and her husband Daniel were at loggerheads with each other over their parenting styles. Daniel preferred a disciplinary approach with their kids while Susan was trying to implement a relationship development parenting kind of approach. This made them go head to head all the time, with each being frustrated with the other because they were both trying to convince each other to go with each other's approach. This dynamic is very destructive, but it’s not anyone’s fault because it’s deeply wired into our blueprints. Most people have been conditioned to think that they must always convince others to see things from their perspective, and this is what Paul and Stacey will seek to help us break away from before they can give us the relationship development tools we need to move forward in the best way possible. If you’re familiar with that dynamic and you wanna learn how to make it a thing of the past in your relationship or marriage, then listen in to this episode. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 44: Is He Just Being An ASS? | 05 Mar 2020 | 00:28:35 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very common complaint that they get from women about how their husbands are too blunt and mean in their conversations, and how that triggers or embarrasses them. Stacey will share the story of one of their relationship transformers who asked them what she should have done when she asked her husband if she could take a certification class for her work, but he responded in a rude way. The lady felt her husband was an ass and treated her like crap, which she didn’t deserve. The root cause of such an issue is the fact that masculine and feminine perspectives are worlds apart. For the feminine, when a man speaks in very blunt and direct language, a woman feels like the man has made his decision, and she either has to go by it or against it. But in reality, what happens in such a situation is all a misunderstanding of how the masculine is wired. If the woman in that situation gets a similar response from another woman, she wouldn’t find it mean or rude. The same applies when men talk to other men. When a man asks another man for his opinion on a subject, he gets a very blunt and direct response because it’s in men’s nature not to sugarcoat things, and they understand each other in that regard. They are wired to be logical and assertive when tackling issues. So really, the best way to deal with such situations is to understand how other people are wired, and interact with them in a way that brings out the best in them, instead of assuming everybody's wired like us and interacting blindly, which then triggers the other person. Paul and Stacey will talk about that farther, and tell us where we can start in implementing that solution, so we can start experiencing kerfuffle free interactions with our loved ones. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 43: Give Him The Answers To The Test | 27 Feb 2020 | 00:30:10 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible expectations that women have of their partners and the harm they cause their relationships. They will start off by sharing a story from a long time ago of how Stacey ruined their Valentine’s Day. Paul had told Stacey that he would take her out to dinner for Valentine’s when he got back from work, and she was so excited about it. She got a nice new outfit and was expecting Paul to send her a large bouquet of flowers to her office. So every time a truck drove down the street, she would think it was her delivery. As time went by, and she hadn’t gotten any deliveries, she started thinking that maybe Paul was planning to bring the flowers himself, but when he finally got there, all he had for her was a single red rose. Stacey didn’t express any disappointment to his face, but deep down she couldn’t believe that Paul had just given her a single red rose for Valentine’s. She then started thinking to herself that maybe Paul would make up for that by taking her to some really magical place for dinner, but to her shock, Paul took her to a restaurant they were both familiar with, and he had not made any reservations. It was Valentine’s so the place was packed, and thus they didn’t get a table. They went to two more places and still couldn’t get a table, so they just got take out (Chinese food) and went home. At that point, Stacey was so grumbly and unhappy with the way the night had turned out, and at some point Paul asked her why she was so upset when all he was doing all night was trying to make things nice for her. To him, everything was alright, and he was just doing his best to show Stacey that he loved her, and give her a great Valentine’s experience. This story highlights the root cause of the problems brought about by women’s invisible expectations, and it all boils down to the differences in the feminine and the masculine. Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey dive deeper into that and share the best action steps to take to ensure that the problems caused by invisible expectations will be a thing of the past in your relationship. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| [REPLAY] 08: The Lies About Relationship: But What if My Partner is… (Part 3) | 20 Feb 2020 | 00:29:46 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way. Key Points Discussed:
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| 42: Taking Sides | 13 Feb 2020 | 00:13:40 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a topic that is literally fundamental to what we think of when we think of relationship struggles. And that is the tendency of taking sides when we re-tell stories or people re-tell stories to us, mostly about terrible situations, either with their partners, or their parents, or somebody at their workplace. And when they tell us, we immediately go right into it with them either to console them or to hopefully give them some advice. In the process, we end up taking sides because we have the best of intentions with that person. Even in life in general, when we're looking for advice, or we're giving advice, we always get into that pattern of taking sides. That whole pattern is fundamental to relationship situations, and we can literally hear it everywhere we go. You could just be walking through the grocery store, and you will hear people telling stories about how horrible somebody else was to them, or whatever the situation was. That tendency has insidious and destructive effects, and if we don't awaken to it, it's can destroy things for us as we know them. Paul and Stacey will turn that pattern on its head, show us how destructive it is, and what we can do instead to not only learn to take personal responsibility in all our relationship situations but also strengthen those relationships for the long haul. Take out your pen and paper because you won’t wanna miss the lessons from this. Enjoy! Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 41: Our Driving Kerfuffle (Fighting In The Car) | 06 Feb 2020 | 00:25:05 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a persistent and repetitive kerfuffle that they used to have often in the car when Paul was driving, and it’s a kerfuffle that a lot of couples can relate to. They’re going to share a clip from their previous three day live immersion event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, where they ended up sharing the story of that kerfuffle in great detail. It all revolved around how Paul drives, and to give a little context to that, Paul is a very confident driver and can drive pretty fast. He spent more than a decade of his youth as a professional driver and so he’s always keen when he’s driving. But with the fast driving, Stacey, who is not a fan of intensity, used to constantly have issues when they were on the road. She actually used to be terrified, and that would in turn distract Paul. He used to get pissed off about it because he felt like Stacey didn’t trust him and her reactions would endanger them on the road. That became a trigger for Paul and he didn’t know how to deal with it. Stacey tried to sort it out by shifting her reactions from yelling and making all sorts of sudden movements, to tapping her hand, which meant that she was still terrified. That was until one night when they were driving and Stacey realized there was a huge difference in their eyesight. Paul could see really far ahead, and that’s what made his driving so good despite going fast. Stacey on the other hand couldn’t see as far, and so to her, Paul always seemed to be driving fast somewhat in darkness which is what made her feel scared. From then on, she started leaning on that skill that Paul had that she didn’t, and that was the breakthrough for both of them that put an end to the kerfuffle. Stay tuned for more on that and how you can apply the lessons from it into profoundly changing your marriage. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| [REPLAY] The Invisible Force That Is Killing Your Relationships | 30 Jan 2020 | 00:16:35 | |
This week we are replaying one of our most popular episodes! In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force blocks people from getting the results that they desire in their relationships and keeps leading them in the wrong direction. Paul and Stacey will expose it and teach you how to overcome it. Key Points Discussed:
- Additional Resources: - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. - If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 40: Relationship Development Parenting Part 2 - The Misery of Parenting | 23 Jan 2020 | 00:12:54 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part two of the two-part series on relationship development parenting. They will share the second clip from behind scenes of their filming for the Relationship Development Parenting Program that they will be releasing this year. In this particular clip, they addressed the issue of misery in parenting. This is a topic that might ruffle some feathers with a lot of people, but it’s a not so open secret that it affects a lot of parents in our society today. Most, if not all parents, have moments when they struggle with their parenting, and it’s an issue that they don’t like to talk about or admit because they fear that it may make them sound like bad parents, but this issue has to be discussed openly for it to be solved, and Paul and Stacey will do just that. When a parent finds themselves being miserable in their parenting, they usually think it’s because they hate their kids, but the reality is that it all comes from the fact that they hate demand parenting because it never works. Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey dive deeper into that, and share how you can solve it today so you can stop demand parenting, break its chains on your family's legacy, create a new foundation for your kids based on relationship development parenting, build up your relationship with them instead of watching it deteriorate over time, and prepare them for a future where they will be able to navigate life. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 39: RD Parenting Podcast Part 1: Demand Parenting | 16 Jan 2020 | 00:18:33 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part one of a two part series on relationship development parenting. They teach a lot of tools on how people can stop doing demand parenting with their kids, and start doing relationship development parenting so they can create peaceful harmonious households, build up their relationships with their kids over time, and reduce the kerfuffles that they have of parenting. They are actually building a relationship development parenting program which will hopefully be released in 2020. It's going to be a substantial program with lots of tools and strategies, and they've so far been recording and filming content for it. They will share a couple of pieces from that filming that are so key to helping parents in their relationships with their children. Parents always have the absolute best of intentions, but parenting kerfuffles keep happening because they don’t realize that they’re applying demand parenting by using their leverage as the power players to try to get the results that they want from their kids. It's a really predictable pattern, and it's only so easy to fall into demand parenting because nothing can ever prepare us for being parents. To help us out on that, Paul and Stacey will break down how to apply relationship development parenting, so that we can learn from that and create shifts in our households that will help us build phenomenal relationships with our children. Listen in and enjoy! Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship? AVOID Doing This… | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:16:38 | |
➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, it's NEVER enough to make your partner happy? Or you might be pleasing them at your own expense, and at some point you wonder “what about me?” If this is your reality, and you feel resentment bubbling up…let me be the one to tell you: NO, you're not crazy!! There’s a predictable pattern that CAUSES resentment! Until you see it, resentment can keep sneaking into your relationship, even when people have the best intentions. In a long-term relationship… I KNOW you’ve felt the INFURIATING feeling of sacrificing just to please someone else only to wind up in a situation where they are still unhappy! Unlike everything you’ve been taught… PLEASING others in relationship does NOT fix things and it usually BACKFIRES! This is a predictable pattern with a predictable outcome. In this episode, I’m going to REVEAL the predictable pattern that you UNKNOWINGLY keep falling into! There is a way to BUILD UP your relationship, without pleasing, without compromise and without settling for things you aren’t happy with! Let’s dive in! — Key Points Discussed: The predictable pattern loop of pleasing (00:00) In a long-term relationship and STILL pleasing? Here’s what to do instead (03:26) A real-life example of this strategy applied: student’s example (09:25) Final words (14:58) — Additional Links & Resources: 🎧 Listen to the explanation about trigger boomerang loops here: https://martinopodcast.com/podcast/02-can-this-unusual-cesar-millan-tactic-help-your-relationship/ 🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com 👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com 👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c 👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt 👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com — We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world! Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home! Let’s connect: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/ — We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately. | |||
| 38: Why Most Goal Setting Fails | 09 Jan 2020 | 00:10:17 | |
In this episode, Stacey will dive into step two of their 10-step planning and strategy day framework, and talk about the thing that keeps us from seeing the biggest version of ourselves and the reason why most goal-setting/strategy setting doesn't actually work. The way most people do their goal setting does not work to create results and it eventually backfires which makes them feel bad, and ends up creating a very vicious cycle. There's actually a strategic reason for that, and Stacey will unravel it so that we can be well aware of it before we do our goal setting. One thing that is core to every goal-setting process is visualization. That basically entails looking back at the year that has already passed and writing down everything that we are grateful to have achieved. But that process is not as easy as it sounds because people actually do it in a way that does not work, and Stacey will share some strategies around how to do it properly. She will reference a story by Steve Harvey about the flea in a jar where he talks about how a flea can jump as high as six feet, but if put in a covered mason jar can only jump as high as the point where it hits the jar’s lid. That refers to how we all have limitations instilled in us by the people around us who expect us to live life the way they think we should live it, and achieve what they think we can achieve. Stacey will dive deeper into that and quickly teach us how to actually do our goal setting so that we can get great results. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 37: Groundhog Day | 02 Jan 2020 | 00:30:35 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the strategy and planning framework that they use in both their business and personal lives to get results that exceed their expectations every year. They just recently shared the framework with their Relationship U students and they got so much power from it to easily set achievable goals for this new year. So many people do their annual goal setting, but it never actually works because they use the traditional kind of goal setting which is really counterproductive or counteractive to getting real results. That’s because with that kind of goal setting, one is always working against themselves. For example, you may say that you want to make $50,000 extra in cash by April 1st 2020, but there's a lot of things that will happen that will cause it to backfire, because what you’ll have done by setting that goal, is to focus on the lack of the $50,000 more that you want to have in cash. And anytime you focus on the lack and believe in it, that’s what you’ll get in the end. It can be very daunting when you think about the year ahead, all the outcomes you want to create, and the achievements you want to have, but with Paul and Stacey’s framework, you’ll be able to avoid flying blind into 2020 and achieve all your goals for the year. Listen in for more on that. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 36: Follow the Yellow Brick Road | 26 Dec 2019 | 00:17:55 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the Yellow Brick Road, a tool that they created to help people learn how life works, and what is required to move from one level of life to another. They teach the tool to all their students, and Stacey even taught an expanded version of it to 5,000 entrepreneurs at a Funnel Hacking Live. In the movie, The Wizard of Oz, there is a yellow brick road that people follow to get to Oz, and that yellow brick road that Paul and Stacey created is somewhat similar in that when we are talking about life, everybody has an Oz. That Oz could be a goal, an outcome, or a purpose, and for every Oz, there is a yellow brick road that one must follow to achieve it or get to it. The yellow brick road looks more like a video game with different levels, and it has all of the lessons, challenges, and experiences to prepare a person to be the version of themselves that they need to be in order to reach and hold their Oz. Like with every video game, when one fails at one level, they can’t go on to the next one until they’ve repeated the one they’ve failed at and succeeded. And that’s the exact same way that life works. Paul and Stacey will expound more on that in this episode, and if you listen in, you can expect that it will definitely change your life for the better. Enjoy! Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
- Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat? Click here to get your ticket now! - You can find this episode and more at: - Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts! | |||
| 35: How To Work With Your Spouse | 19 Dec 2019 | 00:34:55 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will answer the question, “What are the strategies for being able to work with your spouse in a way that strengthens your marriage instead of weakening it?” This is something that they get asked a lot because most spouses who work together find it nearly impossible to separate their marriages from their businesses. Most of those spouses end up failing at one of those things, and usually, it’s the marriage that loses out since it’s easier to do business than to do marriage. Why? Because there are plenty of easily accessible resources everywhere like books and courses about business to help people run their businesses much more easily, but similar resources for marriage are limited. Spouses working together is always a magnifier for their marriage relationship. If they have things in their marriage relationship that they can't talk about, it's always a hundred times that in their business relationship. That’s the dynamic that people need to understand, and Paul and Stacey will share the four main things that spouses who work together or wish to work together can do to ensure that they achieve the desired win-win in both their marriage and business relationships. Key Points Discussed:
Additional Resources:
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| 34: My Spouse Triggers Me | 12 Dec 2019 | 00:10:24 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about triggers and how to go about them. We all have those moments where we get triggered by our partner, and unfortunately, people don’t know what to do in that moment, and it happens to the best of us. The one thing that’s most important to know is that every single trigger is unique, and therefore requires a unique solution that only we ourselves can come up with and not our partners. There’s so much value in a person learning to solve their triggers instead of reacting to them because every piece of trigger one solves puts back a piece of themselves back into making them whole. If your partner ever triggers and you need to know how to react better when they trigger you, then this episode is just for you, because Paul and Stacey will be sharing some very valuable action steps that you can take to start accomplishing that. Key Points Discussed:
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| 33: When People Make Promises That They Don't Keep | 05 Dec 2019 | 00:10:26 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the surprising answer they have to the popular questions, "Why do people make promises they don't keep?" and "What can I do when my partner keeps making promises they don't keep?" These are two questions that plague a lot of relationships (including with family and friends) because people tend to award blame on the other person when in reality they too are party to the problem. Paul and Stacey will share a clip from their recent Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Live Event, where someone from the audience asked them about this issue, and Stacey dropped some life changing gold truth bombs in her answer, so stay tuned to find out more. Key Points Discussed:
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| 32: How To Catapult Your Relationship To The Next Level QUICKLY | 29 Nov 2019 | 00:32:40 | |
In this episode, Stacey will share a special video that she recorded where she shares the three secrets that can revolutionize the way any of us does relationships. She will talk about how we can implement the relationship development tools in our relationships in order to get the love and passion that we really want. She will then dive into the three secrets and talk about each of them in detail while sharing the real life actionable steps we can take to turn our relationships around for the better. Stacey will also talk about their amazing Black Friday sale where they’re offering huge discounts on the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2020 tickets, and so much more. Listen, learn, and don’t forget to go get your Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2020 ticket now. Key Points Discussed:
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| 31: It's Not Fair | 21 Nov 2019 | 00:26:15 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very powerful dynamic that keeps so many people stuck and miserable. It’s a dynamic that goes beyond marriages, and into all the relationships that people have in life, and it impacts us every single day, and yet it’s invisible to us. Paul and Stacey will reveal what it is, how people have a lot of misconceptions about it, and how it always puts us in endless battles with the people that we are in relationships with. They will also share the action steps we can take right now to stop being victims of the dynamic, so we can start experiencing joy and fulfillment in all our relationships. Listen in and learn. Key Points Discussed:
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| 30: Your Plant Is Dead | 14 Nov 2019 | 00:18:46 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the biggest mistake people make with their relationship development method, mainly from misinterpreting it to mean that they should put up with things or just let things go. This comes from a deeply wired demand relationship thinking which only results in things staying the same or getting worse. Paul and Stacey discovered that their students didn’t quite understand that implementing the relationship development tools and strategies is supposed to result in one’s partner changing in response to how they show up differently, and so this episode is geared towards teaching us how to implement relationship development properly, so we can get to experience the changes that we really want to see in our relationships. Key Points Discussed:
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| 29: Breaking the Chains of Demand Parenting! | 08 Nov 2019 | 00:26:17 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share some behind the scenes content from their recent relationship development parenting live event day and specifically focus on sharing one major nugget that we can all implement immediately in our parenting. Listen in as they dive into the differences between demand parenting and relationship development parenting, and share some real-life parenting scenarios where relationship development parenting works perfectly so we can easily apply the same with our kids at home. Key Points Discussed:
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| Can This Unusual Cesar Millan Tactic Help Your Relationship? | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:17:49 | |
➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: Ever thought a dog trainer could teach you the secret to a happy relationship? (hehe) Before you run out and grab some puppy treats for your significant other (YIKES!) dive into this episode! There’s been an invisible dynamic happening in your HUMAN relationships… that is CAUSING kerfuffles! And it’s happening EVERY SINGLE DAY. In today’s episode, I’m going to reveal this POWERFUL dynamic and show you how you can use this Predictable Pattern to create the results you WANT in your relationship and stop some of the kerfuffles you do not want. And yes… I’m going to share a funny story about how Cesar Milan, The Dog Whisperer, has been teaching something about DOGS for decades…that can be applied to humans too! If you do NOT see these Closed Loop patterns in your relationship, then you are suffering unnecessarily! I’ll show you the piece you’ve been missing, so you can start creating the results you want! If you’re tired of the same old kerfuffles and ready for some harmony at home, this episode is here to help! Let’s dive in! — Key Points Discussed: How Cesar Milan’s approach to dogs is similar to relationships (00:00) How to apply this to humans (04:05) The closed loop of relationships (08:01) Examples of closed loops (11:20) Final words (15:50) — Additional Links & Resources: 🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com 👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com 👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c 👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt 👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com — We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Methodology. For 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world! Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home! Let’s connect: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/ — We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately. | |||
| 28: It Only Takes ONE Person To Transform Any Relationship | 31 Oct 2019 | 00:37:33 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share their most popularly downloaded episode where they explained in detail how it’s possible that it only takes one partner to transform any relationship. There have been thousands of people who have single-handedly saved their marriages, transformed their relationships, and divorce-proofed their marriages. Society has for many years been brainwashed to believe that it takes two people to achieve all that, but the truth is that with Paul and Stacey’s relationship development methodology, one person can indeed transform a relationship all on their own, and in the episode, they share just how people can implement that methodology in their marriages and relationships. Key Points Discussed:
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| 27: Ten Year Look Back | 24 Oct 2019 | 00:23:00 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the story of where they were 10 years ago when they lost everything and had to start over. It all started when they lost their consulting business and started experiencing financial difficulties that pushed them to get jobs. Fast forward 10 years, they’re now doing great, and they will share how overcoming financial challenges helped them create relationship development for the benefit of others. Their story will help you plan out your future towards success and fulfillment in your personal and professional lives, so you won’t wanna miss it. Enjoy! Key Points Discussed:
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| 26: Your FRIEND Is F’ing Up Your Life | 17 Oct 2019 | 00:17:25 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the well-meaning people in our lives who have the best intentions for us, and how they might be negatively affecting our lives. Advice is something that we all get every day, from every body, even when we’ve really not asked for it. That’s because the people in our lives always have an opinion about everything, and Paul and Stacey will teach us how to see that dynamic and navigate it in a way that doesn’t negatively impact us individually, and doesn’t destroy the relationship with them either. Enjoy! Key Points Discussed:
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| 25: Why Learning MORE Is Moving You Backward | 10 Oct 2019 | 00:14:50 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about how learning more actually moves people backward in their relationships. People get obsessed with knowledge, especially those who are growth-oriented, and they’re always looking for the next thing to learn. Tune in as Paul and Stacey show us how that not only blocks us from getting the results that we want in our relationships, but also moves us backwards, and away from our goals. Key Points Discussed:
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| 24: Why Nothing Changes | 03 Oct 2019 | 00:20:31 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share with you one of the biggest reasons why nothing changes for you. They hear these statements from people all the time; “I've asked a million times, but nothing changes” or “We talked and agreed to X, Y, Z, but still nothing changes.” Often it comes down to how YOU interpret and respond to the situations that you are presented with. Paul and Stacey will dive into how you can begin to see things in a positive light and alter how you respond to these situations that once would trigger you. If you’ve ever experienced that yourself, then you need to listen to today's podcast. Key Points Discussed:
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| 23: Hand of Vlad | 26 Sep 2019 | 00:13:16 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip of themselves teaching one of the most powerful tools LIVE during Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019. The session was all about the importance of recognizing and seizing opportunities whenever they present themselves to us. They talked about the hand of Vlad, a tool that we all need to learn in order to seize opportunities and solve any challenges that we come across in life. Listen and learn. Key Points Discussed:
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| 22: Why Living in Balance is Making You Miserable | 19 Sep 2019 | 00:23:25 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share all about how the societal pressure to live in balance is making you miserable and creating crap results. The fact is, when everybody tells you you have to live in balance, all that does is make you feel bad about yourself. You feel bad because you think that you're not getting good results by not living in balance. Listen in to learn how you can live out of balance and create extraordinary results for yourself and your family. Key Points Discussed:
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| 21: When Your Spouse Tells The Kids Something You Do Not Agree With | 12 Sep 2019 | 00:13:49 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip from the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat during the live Q&A segment. A woman got up to ask a question about what she can do when her spouse tells their kids something that she absolutely does not agree with. Has that ever happened to you? Of course, it has! Well, Paul and Stacey’s answer on how to solve this might surprise you, but it will surely give you some great actionable tips on how to implement impactful relationship development parenting and teach your kids how to navigate life the right way. Key Points Discussed:
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| 20: Getting Your Way | 05 Sep 2019 | 00:17:27 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip of themselves teaching live at their recent RBR 2019 event. The title of the session was, "Getting Your Way in Relationships", and it was all about overcoming the challenges that couples have whenever they try to get their way in their relationships. Listen in as they tackle that and share some action steps on how to overcome the culprit in the picture, accidental alignment predicament, which negatively impacts marriages and families. Enjoy! Key Points Discussed:
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| 19: We Moved to Idaho | 29 Aug 2019 | 00:34:56 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share their experience moving from Pennsylvania to Idaho. They’ll talk about how hectic it was to pack up and move across the country, and the numerous challenges that that presented for their business and personal lives. If you wanna learn how to live by design and transform your life, listen in as they share why they chose to move to Idaho, the good and bad of the moving process, their kids’ experiences through it all, and some of the very interesting things that the movers had to say about them. Key Points Discussed:
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| Love Isn’t Enough to Save Your Relationship | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:23:06 | |
➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/ — We’re kicking off SEASON 2 of the Relationship Transformer Podcast with this Episode! Join Stacey Martino, founder of Relationship Development and inventor of the Relationship Development Method, as she dives into…
Stacey also dives into the 3 Things that MOST people think are the CAUSE of their relationship troubles…but they are WRONG, those 3 things are NOT the cause. She also REVEALS the eye-opening truth… the REAL CAUSE of relationship struggles (that no one showed you before). In this episode, Stacey dives into what WORKS to stop the arguments and increase harmony. She shares about the Relationship Development Method that she and Paul invented that has helped thousands of people, over the last 14 years, to single-handedly transform their relationship, save their marriage and bring harmony back to their home. So that you can be clear on whether or not Relationship Development could work for you, Stacey also shares what challenges the Relationship Development Method is designed to solve and gives a list of issues that the Relationship Development Method is NOT designed to solve. This episode is packed with eye-opening revelations, so dive in. — Key Points Discussed: The old and broken relationship tactics (00:00) Relationship skill sets (04:36) Who Relationship Development does NOT work for (10:20) The results you can get with Relationship Development (18:28) Final words (22:21) — Additional Links & Resources: 🚀 Catapult your relationship to the next level in just 3 days at our upcoming live online event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. Get your tickets here: https://relationshipbreakthroughretreat.com 👉 (FREE VIDEO TRAINING): How to Fix Your Relationship Even If Your Partner REFUSES to Change: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com 👉 Before You Put Your Trust in the Hands of a Marriage Counselor, Watch This: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/lmt-optin-c 👉Get “The D.I.R.T.” Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://MartinoPodcast.com/Dirt 👉 Book a FREE 1:1 Session with an RDO Advisor: https://HelloRDO.com — We are Stacey & Paul Martino, the creators of the Relationship Development® Method. For over 14 years, we have been helping thousands and thousands of people, from all over the world with outstanding results! Our Relationship Development Method empowers you to single-handedly transform your relationship, create your unshakeable love, and bring harmony to your home! Let’s connect: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPC/ — We are NOT mental health practitioners. The content in this podcast is based on our proprietary Relationship Development® Methodology, which is a skill-set based method for relating between humans. If you need mental health or safety assistance, please seek a professional immediately. | |||
| 18: Behind The Scenes of RBR 2019 | 22 Aug 2019 | 00:27:49 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk all about the just concluded Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019. They will talk about what their favorite moments were, what the challenges were, how things went behind the scenes, and most importantly, the breakthroughs that different attendees experienced. Listen in to get that behind the scenes look at this life changing event, get a feel of what it would have been like to attend, and get some tools you can use to build better relationships in your life. Key Points Discussed:
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| 17: What If My Kid Wants To QUIT? | 15 Aug 2019 | 00:19:31 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will answer a question about what to do when one’s kid wants to quit something. So many parents have struggled with this because no parent wants to raise a quitter, but whatever it is cannot be forced on them from a demand relationship approach. Tune in as Paul and Stacey share the relationship development tactics you can use to tackle this issue with your kid and make sure that they’re A-okay moving forward. Key Points Discussed:
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| 16: My Kid is Triggering Me (And Everyone In The House) | 08 Aug 2019 | 00:42:06 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will be tackling the question of how to handle your kid when he or she triggers you. This is something that happens to every parent, and the biggest reason why parents can’t seem to find a solution to that problem is because they think that “fixing the kid” is the key, but its not. Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey dive into the issue of demand parenting, and learn how you can use relationship development parenting to get the results you want in your household and for your children. Key Points Discussed:
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| 15: Why Go To Live Events? | 01 Aug 2019 | 00:25:43 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey are going to talk about the power of immersion events in profoundly changing a person’s life versus just general learning. Learning is important and can be resourceful, but people usually tend to forget whatever they learn with time, but when they attend an event on what is important to them, they get to both learn and experience, and it’s the experience that sticks with them their entire lives. Paul and Stacey will also share the kind of action steps you can start doing now in regard to getting into beneficial live events to really start walking towards making that lasting change that you so desperately need in your relationship. Key Points Discussed:
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| 14: Fights Every Couple Will Have | 25 Jul 2019 | 00:43:13 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey are going to dive into the most common fights that all couples have. When it comes to real life issues like parenting, money, work, family of origin, religion, spirituality, health, education, and others, most couples think that they share similar opinions until they get confronted by their differences on the same. That brings about conflicts between them, and because they lack the tools to tackle that, the conflicts become frequent and eventually lead them to a worse place than they would have intended. Paul and Stacey will teach you what you need to know to overcome all that and build the relationship that your family deserves. Key Points Discussed:
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| 13: What Women Think About Men | 18 Jul 2019 | 00:24:18 | |
In this episode, Stacey is going to talk about the feminine, and how women unknowingly get stuck in a dynamic that exhausts them, makes them feel miserable, causes kerfuffle, and zaps the passion right out of their marriage. Most women don’t understand how the masculine is wired, and so they tend to expect their men to react like women to different situations, and when they don’t, they get upset about it which causes a rift between them. Stacey will teach you how to stop looking at your man from a feminine lens, so that you can relate to him in a way that builds your relationship instead of breaking it down. Key Points Discussed:
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| 12: Paul Speaks To The Men | 11 Jul 2019 | 00:30:20 | |
In this episode, Paul, with Stacey’s support, will be speaking directly to men, and women too, about how men see relationships. Men tend to view the topic of relationships and marriage as a feminine topic when in reality they need to know what makes a relationship work because they relate with so many different people in their lives. This episode will help in having men’s voice heard and understood, by giving women an inside look at the masculine perspective. Paul and Stacey will also share some insights on the steps men can take to become their masculine selves authentically and really understand relationship dynamics. Key Points Discussed:
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| 11: STOP Being A Pleaser, It’s Not Helping! | 04 Jul 2019 | 00:32:26 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will take on one of the most common and pervasive relationship killers, and it's called pleasing. This isn't just about love relationships, because when a person is a pleaser in any of their relationships, they are most likely pleasing in many of their relationships, and that actually causes way more damage than good. Paul and Stacey will talk extensively about it and share some very effective tools that we can use to stop being pleasers and embrace the relationship development practices that will help us achieve true happiness in all our relationships. Key Points Discussed:
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| 10: Reignite Your Passion (Part Two) | 27 Jun 2019 | 00:28:08 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will continue with part two of their reignite the passion series, and talk about what actually kills the passion in long-term relationships. It is something that impacts almost everyone at some point in their long-term relationship, and yet it remains invisible to almost everyone. They are going to expose that passion killer today to empower you to reignite the passion. Key Points Discussed:
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| 09: Reignite Your Passion (Part 1) | 20 Jun 2019 | 00:18:49 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the truth about why passion fizzles in long-term relationships and what we can do to reignite it! They will dive into the two most common phases of a relationship where people need help in creating an unleashed passion that is hotter than it's ever been. Paul and Stacey will be very detailed about this so it can help you get the kind of relationship you deserve. If you are looking to reignite the passion in your relationship, don’t miss out on this value-packed episode! Key Points Discussed:
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| Huge Announcements For What’s To Come | 03 Sep 2020 | 00:45:03 | |
First things first, let’s celebrate the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. This was the first RBR we did online. We reached so many more people than past in-person breakthrough retreats. We delivered multiple breakthroughs, and we were so happy to see people achieve great results. We are reimagining several of our programs to better serve you and we have several releases coming out this fall. One of them is the Relationship Development Parenting Program. It has three courses for you in the program - the 14-day boost program, the quick start program, and the yearlong program. With that said, we’ve retired the 2nd edition of the Relationship Breakthrough Quickstart Program. We are also creating a brand new Relationship Breakthrough Program that will be launching on September 23rd. We are so excited about this because the new program is completely reimagined with some awesome new features. The other huge announcement we want to make is that we will be holding, for the first time ever, a 2nd Relationship Breakthrough Retreat in a year in December. We’ve always wanted to hold two RBR events in a year and it is unbelievable that this year we’ll finally be able to do that. Key Takeaways
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| 08: The Lies About Relationship: But What if My Partner is… (Part 3) | 13 Jun 2019 | 00:29:46 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way. Key Points Discussed:
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| 07: The Lies About Relationship: But My Partner is Not… (Part 2) | 06 Jun 2019 | 00:28:57 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will go into part two of busting the marriage and relationship myths that are misleading people today. They are going to dive into the "but my partner is not..." myths, which are the myths where people will say that their relationships are not working, or that they are hard, or that they might not be with the right person. Key Points Discussed:
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| 06: The Lies About Relationship (Part 1) | 30 May 2019 | 00:25:48 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey bust a lot of the marriage and relationship myths that keep people so enslaved in their own lives. They are also going to debunk some beliefs about what relationship development really is, and hopefully all that will set you free, and totally revive your marriage or relationship. Key Points Discussed:
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| 05: How Do I Know When It's Time To Leave | 23 May 2019 | 00:30:19 | |
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the very confusing issue of whether an individual should leave their marriage and give in to divorce. This is something that a lot of people in someone’s life will prescribe when their marriage is in trouble, but the truth is that none of them has the right to do that. Paul and Stacey will expose that for the lie that it is and tell us the best way to go about an impending divorce situation. Key Points Discussed:
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