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Are you in panic mode because your spouse wants to leave, has moved out, or is talking about divorce? Your instincts are probably telling you to do whatever it takes to pull them back—but that might be pushing them further away.

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How do you get a spouse to stay? You cannot force or manipulate someone into staying in a marriage. To truly save your relationship, you must shift from controlling behaviors (begging, pleading, guilt-tripping) to influencing behaviors. You do this by stopping what we call "Push Behaviors" and working on yourself to become a safe, welcoming place that your spouse wants to return to.

In this video, Marriage Helper coach Nathan explains the exact psychology behind why your attempts to hold on tightly are backfiring, and what you can do instead to create an environment of genuine connection.

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If you are watching this, it’s likely your wife wants a divorce, and you want to save the marriage. If you are willing to take responsibility and step up as a leader, not a dictator, but a true husband and father, this video is for you.

In this video, Dr. Joe Beam breaks down the psychology behind why women leave and introduces the concept of the "Push" and the "Pull." It isn't about magic bullets; it's about understanding the deep-seated "whys" behind her decision and taking specific actions to turn it around.

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If you are asking, "Why does my wife want a divorce?", it almost always comes down to three specific dynamics.

1. The Push (Driving Her Away) This occurs when your behavior evokes negative emotions in your wife. Even if you didn't mean to, things like angry outbursts, ignoring her, controlling behavior, or making her feel disrespected push her out the door.

The Fix: Identify what behaviors are causing her pain and STOP them immediately.

2. The Lack of Pull (No Emotional Connection) You might not be pushing her away, but you aren't drawing her in. A lack of pull means you aren't evoking positive emotions. She needs to feel heard, understood, accepted, and safe.

The Fix: Learn to listen to understand (not to fix) and create a safe emotional space.

3. The Outside Pull (A Better Option) This isn't always another man. An outside pull can be a dream, a career, a new self-image, or a lifestyle she desires more than her current life with you.

The Warning: Do not try to attack the outside pull (or the other guy). It will only make her defend it. Focus on fixing your own pushes and pulls.

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If your wife has said "I love you but I'm not in love with you," or if she is already filing for divorce, panic is your enemy. Many men react by begging, pleading, or getting angry—all of which act as "pushes."

Dr. Joe explains that saving a marriage requires:

Owning your part: Admitting that you may have contributed to the breakdown.

Willingness to learn: Moving past "I know everything" and seeking expert help.

Urgency: Understanding that waiting for her to "come to her senses" usually leads to divorce.

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The devastating truth of infidelity can leave you feeling lost and heartbroken. But there is hope. In Part 1 of this series, Dr. Joe Beam, a renowned marriage expert from Marriage Helper, offered crucial guidance on confronting your spouse and rebuilding trust.

Now, this video tackles the emotional journey of healing to save your marriage while reintroducing passion in your union.

Key struggles addressed:

• Navigating the rollercoaster of emotions: Anger, confusion, even a surge of desire – we understand it all. Learn healthy ways to manage these intense feelings.
• Breaking free from the "forgiveness trap": Forgiveness empowers you to move forward, not excuse their actions.
• Overcoming the "comparison game": Reclaim your focus on rebuilding intimacy and rediscovering the unique spark in your relationship.
• Escaping the "spectator effect" in the bedroom: Learn powerful techniques to be fully present and rediscover physical connection with your spouse.

More than just sex: We'll guide you through practical tools and ideas to create a whole new level of intimacy and passion in your marriage.

• Spark emotional connection: Remember those deep, meaningful conversations? We'll help you get back to that place of emotional vulnerability.

Discover a new way to make love: Forget the baggage of the past. Learn a step-by-step approach to rediscovering sexual pleasure together, starting fresh

Navigating the restoration of trust is a delicate dance, and we address the common misconception that a straying partner can't change their ways. Listen to real-life stories and professional advice on how to dissect the root causes of infidelity, the importance of professional therapy, and harness the power of forgiveness. We provide a roadmap for couples to mend their connection and foster a renewed sense of mutual fulfillment and affection. For those embarking on this arduous yet hopeful journey, our conversation will equip you with the resources and encouragement needed to rebuild a stronger, happier, and more passionate marriage.

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Feeling lost and hopeless after an affair? You're not alone. Wondering how to rebuild intimacy and reignite passion with your spouse? This video is for YOU. You can save your marriage.

Marriage Helper Expert Dr. Joe Beam offers guidance and hope for couples struggling with the aftermath of infidelity. He explores the two most common types of affairs and their impact on your sex life. Learn:

• How to stop comparing your spouse to the affair partner
• Why focusing on the emotional connection is key
• Practical tips to rebuild trust and intimacy
• Resources to help you heal and reconnect (including Marriage Helper's communication guides!)

If you're ready to move forward and create a stronger, more fulfilling marriage, watch now!

Who is this for?

• Couples dealing with the aftermath of an affair
• Anyone feeling disconnected or unfulfilled in their sex life
• Individuals struggling with guilt or shame about an affair

Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

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Many people believe myths about marriage. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes from Marriage Helper dispel some of the most common myths, providing insights based on their decades of experience helping couples save their marriages.

They discuss:
- The myth that engagement equals commitment
- The myth that divorce rates are improving
- The myth that finances and infidelity are the main reasons for divorce
- The myth that seeking professional help is a sign of failure

If you're struggling in your marriage, don't give up hope! There are resources available to help you rebuild your marriage. Marriage Helper offers a free consultation to help you determine the best path forward. Save your marriage and visit https://marriagehelper.com/booknow to learn more.

Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

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Feeling unheard and unseen in your relationship?

Is your spouse constantly seeking admiration or making you feel like you're never good enough? You might be dealing with narcissistic traits in your partner. But before you throw in the towel, listen up!

This episode of Relationship Radio dives deep into the world of narcissism, unpacking the two major types: grandiose and vulnerable narcissism. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will help you identify these behaviors and offer practical communication tips to navigate a challenging relationship.

Here's what you'll learn:

• How to identify the signs of grandiose and vulnerable narcissism in your spouse
• Effective communication strategies to deal with narcissistic behaviors ️
• Ways to build a stronger, healthier marriage, even with narcissistic challenges
• The importance of self-esteem in navigating difficult relationships

Is this episode for you?

• Are you constantly walking on eggshells around your spouse?
• Does your partner put you down or constantly need reassurance?
• Do you feel unheard and unseen in your relationship?
• Are you committed to making your marriage work, despite the challenges?

If you answered YES to any of these questions, then this episode is a MUST-LISTEN!

Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

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Is an intense infatuation a sign of true love, or is it something else entirely? This episode explores the concept of limerence and its potential impact on relationships. In this eye-opening episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes of Marriage Helper dive deep into the powerful and often misunderstood phenomenon of limerence.

Discover:
- What limerence is and how it differs from romantic love
- The warning signs of limerence: how to know if you or your partner have crossed the line
- Powerful questions to assess how to set boundaries and protect your marriage relationship
- What to do if you're facing the destructive forces of limerence

If you're struggling with confusing emotions or have questions about the health of your relationships, this episode is for you!

⚠️ The video discusses 13 warning signs of limerence, which include: ⚠️

1. Heightened focus on the other person (limerence object).
2. Halo effect where the person in limerence cannot see any flaws in the limerence object.
3. Decrease in productivity due to being so focused on being with them, daydreaming about them, or thinking about future plans together.
4. Deep longing, craving, or almost unquenchable drive to be emotionally connected to the limerence object and for them to reciprocate those feelings.
5. Willingness to sacrifice everything in life to be with the limerence object.
6. Obsessive thinking about the limerence object.
7. Hurting other people around them due to their focus on the limerence object.
8. Changing habits that they never thought they would change.
9. Having hyper vigilance and being overly attentive to any sign that the limerence object is moving towards or away from them emotionally.
10. Experiencing emotional highs and lows based on the limerence object's actions or perceived actions.
11. Being in a state of ecstasy or misery based on interactions or lack of interactions with the limerence object.
12. Unable to see the limerence object's flaws.
13. Turning against anyone perceived as being between them and the limerence object.

Resources mentioned in the video:
Interview with Dr. Helen Fisher
Ethical Non Monogamy Episode
Jealousy and Insecurity Episode
Intervention: How To

Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationshi

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Is your marriage foundation crumbling under the weight of jealousy and insecurity? These destructive emotions can lead to heartbreak and resentment.  But there's hope! In today's episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes and Dr. Joe Beam tackle jealousy in marriage head-on. They'll help you understand the root of fear of abandonment and how it fuels jealous outbursts and controlling behaviors.

You'll discover:

- The Source of Jealousy: Uncover the hidden fears that sabotage your relationship, and how to address them with compassion.
- The Power of Self-Love: Learn to find peace, self-worth, and break free from the cycle of insecurity – even if you've struggled in the past.
- Guidance for Both Partners: Whether you're the jealous spouse desperately seeking reassurance or you're on the receiving end of mistrust, these strategies are your roadmap to healing.
- Marriage Transformation: Break the chains of jealousy harming your marriage foundation, replace them with trust, respect, and a deep, unwavering love.

If you long to save your marriage and build a stronger foundation, free from the cycle of marriage problems, this episode is your lifeline. Get ready to discover proven strategies for solving marriage problems and reigniting the spark of connection.


Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

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Is your marriage hanging by a thread? Do you question if marriage restoration is possible after a devastating betrayal? In this deeply personal episode of Relationship Radio, we welcome Chris and Karista Stutzman. Their marriage restoration testimony is a powerful reminder that hope and healing exist, even in the most challenging circumstances.

Chris and Karista candidly share their struggles with infidelity, limerence, and the breakdown of communication that nearly led to divorce. They found themselves on a  path of despair, unsure if their marriage could be saved.

Their journey to restoration led them to Marriage Helper.  Through workshops, coaching, and the guidance of the team, Chris and Karista gained invaluable tools and insights. They learned how to:

• Rebuild trust after infidelity
• Develop effective communication skills
• Understand the underlying patterns contributing to their relationship difficulties
• Process the emotional wounds of betrayal
• Find support and community with others facing similar challenges

This episode explores the transformative power of Marriage Helper. You'll learn how its resources provided Chris and Karista with a roadmap for healing their marriage and building a stronger, more resilient relationship.

If you feel lost or hopeless about your own marriage, let Chris and Karista's story ignite a spark of hope.  Their journey demonstrates that restoration is possible, and Marriage Helper can be a vital catalyst for change.

Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

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