Explore every episode of the podcast Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce
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| Why Your Husband Won't Talk To You (And How To Fix It) | 11 Sep 2026 | 00:15:02 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! He talks to everyone at the party. Then you get in the car and he goes silent. You ask a question. Nothing. You tell him about your day. Nothing. And you start to wonder if every other woman in that room was prettier, or funnier, or more interesting than you. Here's what I've learned after years of this work. Most men don't go quiet because they stopped caring. They go quiet because somewhere along the way, talking stopped feeling safe. In this video, I break down the three things that get a man to open up again. Stop the attack. Change the environment. Go first. The first one is the hardest, because most women don't know they're doing it. There is a difference between a complaint and a criticism. A complaint is about behavior. A criticism is about character. One sounds like "I wish you'd talk to me the way you talk to them." The other sounds like "what is wrong with you." He hears the second one even when you meant the first. Then he defends himself. Then you feel contempt. Then he stonewalls and stares at the floor and it's like you aren't even in the room. John Gottman called those the four horsemen, and they predict divorce with frightening accuracy. The second thing is environment. Not the dinner table. Not the bedroom. Not the living room with the game on. Outside if you can manage it, because nature settles people down. Timing and place matter more than the words you pick. The third thing is the one nobody wants to hear. Transparency breeds transparency. You go first. You tell the story about you. You stay open before he is, and then you wait, and you don't push. And whatever you do, don't say "we need to talk." That shuts a man down before you've said anything at all. I walk through all three, including what to do if you've already tried being open and he gave you nothing back. He can talk to you. He just has to feel safe enough to do it. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Is AI Ruining Your Marriage? What You Need To Know | 28 Aug 2026 | 00:13:04 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! AI can give you brilliant relationship information. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How To Get The RIGHT Help For Your Marriage | 21 Aug 2026 | 00:17:14 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Doing nothing feels safe. It isn't. When your marriage starts falling apart, most people freeze. You don't want to make it worse. You don't want the conflict. You don't know what to say. So you wait and hope it settles on its own. It almost never does. You really only have three options when trouble shows up. Do nothing. Get the wrong help. Get the right help. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam walks through all three, and why the second one does more damage than most people realize. The wrong help is rarely obvious. It's the friend who's still angry about her own divorce. It's family who love you too much to be objective. It's a counselor carrying bitterness she's never dealt with. It's a good-hearted couple online who saved their own marriage and now assume yours looks like theirs. None of those people are villains. They just aren't equipped to help you. A testimony is not a method. Caring is not a plan. He also covers what to actually look for. The right education. Values that match yours, or at least get respected. Someone who treats the marriage as the client instead of picking a side. And the questions to ask before you book a single session, including how they calculate the success rate they advertise. One warning worth repeating. If someone diagnoses your spouse without ever meeting your spouse, walk away. Most people don't wait because they stopped caring. They wait because they're hoping it resolves itself. Get help early. Even if your spouse isn't there yet. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How To Punish My Cheating Spouse | 14 Aug 2026 | 00:12:48 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! They didn't make a mistake. A mistake is grabbing the wrong bag at baggage claim. A mistake is an accident you didn't choose. What happened to you was a choice. They knew. And calling it a mistake is just a softer word for something that isn't soft at all. So the anger makes sense. The urge to make them feel a fraction of what you're feeling makes sense. Which brings us to the actual question. How do you punish a spouse who cheated? There are four doors. Body, mind, heart, and soul. Physical, intellectual, emotional, spiritual. And three that people walk through most often: their money, their reputation, and their kids. Here's the part that gets left out. They all work. You really can make their life miserable. You can keep them guilty for thirty years. You can call the boss. You can tell the church. You can make the children choose. The problem isn't that punishment fails. The problem is what it costs the person doing it. Destroy them financially and you may be destroying money you need. Destroy their reputation and you hand your own name to the same gossip. Keep them anxious and guilty and you have to stay in that room with them to do it. And parental alienation isn't protection for your kids. It's your pain, routed through them. You have every right to punish them. The question is what it turns you into, and whether that's the person you want to be five years from now. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Do Cheaters Always Cheat? | 07 Aug 2026 | 00:12:59 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Do cheaters always cheat? If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Standing When Your Spouse Checks Out | 31 Jul 2026 | 00:12:49 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Everyone around you is starting to ask the same question. Why are you still trying? Your spouse is checked out. Maybe they've stopped sleeping in the same bed. Maybe they've moved out completely. Maybe there's someone else. And nothing you've tried has moved the needle even an inch. So the people who love you start looking at you sideways. They think you're standing in a graveyard. Here's what they're missing. Standing for your marriage doesn't require certainty. It requires confidence. You can't be certain what your spouse will do. They're a grown adult making their own choices, and nobody can honestly promise you a specific ending. But you can be confident that change is possible, because we've watched thousands of couples walk out of situations that looked exactly like yours. And here's the part almost nobody tells you. Standing changes you long before it changes anything else. In this video, one of our coaches shares what three years of standing actually looked like. His wife stayed in the affair the whole time. The marriage ended in divorce. And he still says he'd do it all over again. Not because standing saved the marriage. Because standing made him someone worth being. If your confidence has been living inside your spouse's approval, this one is going to sting a little. In the best way. Because it's never wrong to do the right thing. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Dr. John Gottman Reveals All The Top Secrets For Great Relationships | 24 Jul 2026 | 00:57:55 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Most marriage advice is recycled fluff. This is not. I sat down with Dr. John Gottman, the man who has spent 40+ years studying what actually makes marriages work and what destroys them. Not opinions. Not theories. Exposed-to-thousands-of-couples-in-a-research-lab findings. And what he told me? Some of it will surprise you. The couples who last, the "masters," aren't the ones who avoid conflict. They're the ones who lean into it without getting defensive. They stay curious instead of critical. They treat their spouse's complaints like information, not attacks. We also got into the stuff nobody talks about openly. Why most couples are embarrassed to discuss sex. Why compatibility is actually a myth. What commitment really looks like on a Tuesday morning when you're frustrated. And how the way you respond to "no" in the bedroom determines everything. Dr. Gottman told me that after 35 years of marriage, he still looks forward to talking to his wife at breakfast every single morning. If your marriage feels disconnected, boring, or like you're roommates, this conversation will show you why. And more importantly, what the research says you can do about it. This is one of my favorite interviews I've ever done. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Affairs, AI, and a 30 Year Crush – Reacting To Unhinged YouTube Comments | 17 Jul 2026 | 00:16:36 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You leave the comments. I read them. This week I'm going straight into the ones that made me stop scrolling. The bold ones. The angry ones. The ones that questioned everything I teach. A woman still carrying a crush from 30 years ago, wondering why it still hurts. A commenter convinced that saving a marriage means forcing two miserable people to stay together. Someone who swears you could never ask your spouse what makes them feel loved and actually get an answer. A person certain that once a cheater, always a cheater. And one comment about AI that I could not let go of. Here's what I keep coming back to. The future doesn't have to look like the past. But only if you're willing to fix what was actually broken. You can walk away and start over, but if you never deal with what pushed the other person away, you carry it straight into the next relationship. That's the push and the pull. The things you do that make your spouse feel seen. And the things you do that quietly make them feel like you don't love them. Most of us are moving too fast to even notice the difference. Then there's AI. I'm not scared of the technology. I'm scared of what happens when people turn to their phone at 2am instead of to God, to a friend, to the hard and vulnerable conversation with the person sitting right in front of them. I'm scared of a generation losing the skill to actually be a good husband or a good wife. Rant included. Hope included. Because there is always hope. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How To Identify A Limerent Affair | 10 Jul 2026 | 00:10:48 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You're convinced nobody has ever felt what you're feeling right now. I understand why. But I've sat with hundreds of people who felt the exact same thing. The obsessive pull toward someone who isn't your spouse. It has a name. Limerence. It feels like the deepest love you've ever known. It isn't. It's a spike. A chemical high wrapped around a fantasy you've built in your mind, one where you can't see their flaws and they can't see yours. And here's what nobody in the middle of it wants to hear: it ends. Every time. In this video, you'll hear the story of a man who was sure he was the exception. He walked away from his marriage, his family, all of it, because being with her felt like the only thing that mattered. Three years later he was back, trying to rebuild the life he'd torn apart. Limerence draws people together. It was never built to keep them together. That takes a different kind of love entirely. If you're in the early stages, deep in the thick of it, or trying to pick up the pieces after it, this one is worth your time. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| "My Husband Paid Me $2000 To Marry Him" – Answering Listener Questions | 03 Jul 2026 | 00:16:34 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You made a commitment. But you're not sure you'd make it again. That's where a lot of people are. And in this episode, I answer their questions honestly. One woman has been married 41 years. She loves her husband. She's just never been in love with him. She's asking if it's too late, or if this whole thing was a 41-year mistake. Another asks the thing most separated spouses are afraid to say out loud. If we're both doing fine apart, if we're both becoming our best selves, what would ever bring us back? And one man wants an answer to something bigger. Does God change hearts? Or has his wife's decision already settled it? Here's what I keep coming back to. Love is a choice. But it's also a process. Follow the path and you can fall in love with almost anyone. Stop following it and you can fall out of love without ever meaning to. PIES is where it starts. Physical, intellectual, emotional, spiritual. But it's the first step, not the finish line. Becoming your best self doesn't pull someone back on its own. Two people don't fall in love just by standing side by side as their best selves. There has to be a lean in. There has to be acceptance. A safe place where someone is finally allowed to be who they are without being asked to change. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How to Get Your Spouse to ACTUALLY Talk to You Again | 26 Jun 2026 | 00:15:27 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What to do in the first 72 hours after your marriage crisis: Watch Here 👉 https://bit.ly/4wgrNiq Most conversations with your spouse aren't going anywhere. They're stale. They're tense. Or they've stopped happening altogether. Every time you try to talk, it turns into the same fight. You go in circles. And somehow you land worse than where you started. Here's the shift: stop circling. Start looping. A circle erases. Every fight burns down whatever progress you made and resets you to zero. Sometimes below zero. A loop builds. You lay one track, you save it, you build on it. Layer by layer, day by day, until you look up and it's a real marriage again. In this video, I'll show you how to do it. The first track you always lay down (hint: it's not the problem you think you need to solve). How to bank a win instead of tearing it back down with your very next sentence. And the six loops you move through in order, because you don't get to pick where you start. You earn your way up. Same couple. Same conversation. Two completely different outcomes. I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes, and for 14 years I've helped people save marriages everyone else said were over. If you're tired of having the same fight on repeat, this is where you start. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Our Counselor Told Us To Divorce... We Saved Our Marriage Instead | 22 Jun 2026 | 00:37:17 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Everyone told Scott to walk away. The affair. The lies. The cold distance that built for months. On paper, this was the marriage other people would tell you to end and not feel bad about it. He didn't walk away. Not because he was naive. Not because he excused anything. Because he still loved his wife, and he could not live with never having tried. In this conversation, Scott takes me back to 2019, the year his marriage came apart, and walks me through how it came all the way back. He found out at 4 in the morning. The phone going off. His wife not in the bed. The search he ran to figure out who was texting her is the thing that led him to Marriage Helper. What he learned there changed how he showed up. He stopped reacting. He stopped trying to control her. He stayed calm in the exact moments most people detonate. By the time his daughter pulled him aside and asked if he knew, he was already further into his own healing than anyone around him realized. Here is the part people argue with me about. "You're letting the cheater off the hook." "Once a cheater, always a cheater." We see it in the comments every week. Scott answers it head on. He never permitted anything. He was powerless to control someone else's choices. Accepting what you cannot control is not the same as excusing it. For a year, they were divorced in every way but the judge's signature. She moved states away. The settlement was nearly done. Then she came home. One year to the day after the workshop they attended together. Today their marriage is stronger than it was in the first 24 years. Scott coaches on our team now. His wife leads breakout groups at our workshops. If your marriage is the one everyone says can't be saved, this is the story to sit with. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| What To Do When You're Stuck In A Sexless Marriage | 19 Jun 2026 | 00:19:01 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You think it's a sex problem. Most of the time, it isn't. When the spark is gone and one of you is always "too tired," the instinct is to fix the bedroom. Buy something. Try harder. Schedule it. But the bedroom is almost never where the problem started. Up to a third of couples are living in what researchers call low-sex or no-sex marriages. You are not broken. You are not the only ones. And you are not stuck. Here's the part nobody tells you. A fatigued woman cannot get aroused. That isn't an attitude problem. It's physiology. So if she's running on empty all day and you're waiting for her to come alive at night, you're working against her body, not with it. Real intimacy is "into-me-see." It's what happens when the relationship outside the bedroom is healthy enough to follow you into it. Everything outside affects everything inside. And everything inside affects everything outside. This video walks through what's actually driving the distance. The exhaustion. The resentment. The slow drift where your passion quietly moved toward the kids, the job, the to-do list, and away from each other. It also covers what this won't fix. Physiological issues need a doctor. Past trauma needs a trained counselor. Those are real, and they matter. But if the problem is the relationship itself, that's the good news. Because that's the part you can actually change. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Am I Wrong For Questioning My Marriage After What My Husband Told Me? | 15 Jun 2026 | 00:23:25 | |
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| The 4 Things That Make Your Spouse Want to Come Home | 12 Jun 2026 | 00:21:22 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Your spouse wants to leave. Okay. Let them. But here's what nobody tells you. Even if they walk out that door, there's still one person you're left with. You. So you might as well become someone you actually like living with. And here's the secret most people miss. That's also the one thing most likely to bring your spouse back. In this video, I teach you the framework I call the PIES. Four areas of your life. Four ways you become the most attractive version of yourself. Physical. Intellectual. Emotional. Spiritual. And I teach it while making an actual pie, because every ingredient matters, and so does every part of you. Physical isn't about a magazine cover. It's sleep, movement, food, and the energy to handle a marriage in crisis. Intellectual is becoming a fascinating person to talk to again. Emotional is being the sugar, not the salt. The compliments, not the complaints. Spiritual is living in line with what you actually believe. Here's the part you have to hear. This only works when you do it for you. Not as a tactic. Not to manipulate them back. People don't leave what they have unless they believe what they're going to is better. So be the better. I'll show you how. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| The Ultimate Guide To Saving Your Marriage When You're The Only One Trying | 05 Jun 2026 | 01:17:13 | |
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| Stop Asking Your Spouse To Work On The Marriage – Part 1 | 29 May 2026 | 00:23:33 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Click here to watch part 2! https://bit.ly/4dLDJRu Asking your spouse to work on the marriage isn't working. Because they don't want to work on the marriage. That's the whole problem. Stop asking. Nobody wants more counseling. Nobody wants another conversation about "us." Nobody wants to be handed a printout of what's wrong with them on Halloween night. They need a different reason to walk through the door. In this video, Amber and I break down how to actually get a resistant spouse to a Marriage Helper workshop, even when they've filed, even when there's an affair partner, even when they've already said it's over. The shift: Stop selling the marriage. Find what actually motivates them. Take "us" off the table. Treat it like a business agreement. Your job is to get them through the door. Our job is the next 3 days. That's how marriages get saved, not by convincing your spouse to love you again, but by getting them in the room where the work actually happens. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How To Choose Between Yourself And Your Marriage | 22 May 2026 | 00:12:07 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Click here to sign up for coaching → https://marriagehelper.com/coaching ---------------------------------------------------- You don't have to pick between yourself and your marriage. That's the lie that keeps people stuck. Stay and shrink. Leave and grieve. Endure the mistreatment or end the marriage. Those aren't your only options. In this video, Nathan breaks down the difference between pain and damage, and why getting this wrong is the reason so many marriages either dissolve or destroy the people inside them. Pain is what makes you stronger. Damage is what breaks you. One you push through. The other you stop. And most people can't tell them apart. He walks through two real client stories. Both women were hurting. Both were asking the same question. "Do I keep showing up, or do I walk away?" But the right answer for one was the exact opposite of the right answer for the other. One needed to lean in. The other needed to put up boundaries. And the moment they figured out which was which, everything changed. Not just for them, but for their marriages too. Because here's what nobody tells you: What's best for you is often what's best for the marriage. You don't have to choose. But you do have to know the difference between the pain that's making you stronger and the damage that's slowly killing you. That's what this video is about. How to tell which one you're in. What to do about it. And how to stop walking on a broken leg in the name of saving your marriage. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| I've Been Teaching This Marriage Principle Wrong For 14 Years... | 15 May 2026 | 00:14:29 | |
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| Counseling vs. Marriage Helper Coaching... What's The Difference? – MH LIVE | 13 May 2026 | 01:01:23 | |
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| 3 Things To Know Before You Start Standing For Your Marriage | 08 May 2026 | 00:20:42 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Marriage advice isn't dead. Bad marriage advice is dead. Nobody wants to "just give it time." Nobody wants to be told to punish their spouse into coming back. Nobody wants a counselor telling them to have a revenge affair to "even the score." (Yes, real counselors actually say that.) You want your marriage back. With your dignity intact. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam walks through the 3 things you HAVE to do before you start standing for your marriage. Decide if you really want this. Get honest about your own contribution. Pick the right path. Not nothing. Not the wrong thing. Most people skip step one and burn out by week three. Most people refuse step two and stay stuck for years. Most people fall into step three's trap and make everything worse. 32 years. Hundreds of thousands of couples. A 70% success rate. If your spouse just told you they want out, watch this before you make a single move. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| The First 3 Steps To Save Your Marriage | 01 May 2026 | 00:27:49 | |
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| How To Stop Your Spouse From Leaving... Stop Trying | 24 Apr 2026 | 00:08:58 | |
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| How To Stand Up For Your Marriage Without Ending It | 17 Apr 2026 | 00:14:00 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Click here to learn about our Marriage Saving Workshop Program 👉 https://bit.ly/485yuKm --------------------------------------------------------------------- Standing for your marriage isn't being a doormat. Nobody wants to beg. Nobody wants to plead. Nobody wants to text their husband's affair partner tips on how to cure his headache. Yes. That actually happened. To a friend of mine. She chose misery over being alone. She ended up in the hospital. Her house stayed dark for months. She became a shell of the woman she used to be. All because she was too scared to stop allowing it. In this video, I break down the difference between being a doormat and being a bulldozer, and why there's a third option most people never learn. You can't control what your spouse does. You can control what you allow. You can control how you treat yourself. That's the shift. I'll walk you through the three changes in thinking that help you respect yourself again, set the right kind of safeguards, and actually make your spouse take notice. Not by punishing them. Not by pleading with them. By becoming someone worth respecting again. Because here's the truth. You'll keep enduring whatever you keep allowing. Life is already hard enough. Don't let a lack of self-respect make it harder. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How A Spouse Feels After Cheating | 10 Apr 2026 | 00:13:54 | |
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| This Could Change The Way You Think About Sex | 03 Apr 2026 | 00:14:56 | |
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| What Most People Get Wrong About Marriage | 27 Mar 2026 | 00:16:56 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Are you stuck in the same relationship patterns and wondering why nothing ever changes? In this video, Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, breaks down what most people get wrong about marriage and relationships, and what you actually need to do to turn things around. Drawing from a powerful biblical story and real-life experience, Dr. Holmes shares why real relationship change starts with you, why getting uncomfortable is the key to a thriving marriage, and how to stop waiting for your spouse to change so your marriage can finally move forward. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| When You Feel Like You're The Only One In The Marriage | 20 Mar 2026 | 01:00:37 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! This week's live show, streamed on March 18, 2026 If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| The 1 Thing You Can Do To Stop Your Spouse From Leaving | 13 Mar 2026 | 00:15:49 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Are you in panic mode because your spouse wants to leave, has moved out, or is talking about divorce? Your instincts are probably telling you to do whatever it takes to pull them back—but that might be pushing them further away. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| I Want To Save My Marriage But I Don't Know How To Start | 11 Mar 2026 | 00:56:41 | |
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| The Missing Piece To Saving Your Broken Marriage | 27 Feb 2026 | 00:09:22 | |
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| The Real Reason for Sexual Disconnect In Your Marriage | 20 Feb 2026 | 00:13:48 | |
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| What Sexual Frustration Actually Reveals In A Marriage | 18 Feb 2026 | 00:59:55 | |
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| Can One Person Save a Marriage? The 7-Step Path to Stopping Divorce | 13 Feb 2026 | 00:11:03 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! If your marriage has gone from "good" to "bad" and you’re terrified that you’ll be divorced in the next six months, you are not alone. Most people think it takes two to save a marriage—but at Marriage Helper, we’ve spent 30 years proving that one spouse can change the entire dynamic of a relationship. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| The Marriage Turnaround Plan (Step-By-Step Guide) | 11 Feb 2026 | 00:58:41 | |
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| Why The Affair Partner Doesn't Actually Matter | 04 Feb 2026 | 00:58:37 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In today's Marriage Helper LIVE, Dr. Joe and Dr. Kimberly explain why focusing on the affair partner doesn't actually matter, and take live questions from callers. This show also features segments from Micheal Felker and Nathan Grounds. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Why Your Confrontation Is Pushing Your Spouse Away | 03 Feb 2026 | 00:13:33 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Why Confronting Your Spouse's Limerence Always Backfires (And What to Do Instead) If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| What To Do If Your Spouse Has Checked Out | 29 Jan 2026 | 00:13:16 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Does it feel like you are living with a ghost? Your spouse comes home, eats dinner, and sleeps in the same bed, but they aren't really there. If you are dealing with a spouse who is indifferent, numb, or emotionally walled off, you are likely asking yourself: "Can a marriage like this be saved when I'm the only one trying?" In this video, Coach Nathan from Marriage Helper explains exactly why your spouse has checked out and how to get them to check back in—without forcing them. 👇 FREE RESOURCE: 10 TEXTS TO RECONNECT WITHOUT PRESSURE 👇 https://bit.ly/4b1Yfh6 IN THIS VIDEO: You will learn the difference between "Push Behaviors" (which drive your spouse further away) and "Pull Behaviors" (which invite them back in). We break down the psychology of the "emotional callus"—how your spouse became numb over time—and introduce you to the S.M.A.R.T. Contact method to begin dismantling their walls. KEY CONCEPTS EXPLAINED: Why has my spouse checked out? Rarely does a spouse check out overnight. Just like playing a guitar builds calluses on fingertips to resist pain, your spouse has built emotional calluses to shield themselves from negative emotions, feeling unheard, or shame. To save the marriage, you must stop pressing on the "bruise" and start changing the environment. What is SMART Contact? If you want to save your marriage, you need to stop "Push Behaviors" (begging, pleading, forcing relationship talks) and start using SMART Contact.
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| Why Your Wife Wants A Divorce | 22 Jan 2026 | 00:20:09 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! If you are watching this, it’s likely your wife wants a divorce, and you want to save the marriage. If you are willing to take responsibility and step up as a leader, not a dictator, but a true husband and father, this video is for you. 📖 Download Our Free Workshop Brochure
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| Does Moving Out Save Your Marriage Or End It? | 15 Jan 2026 | 00:11:35 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Does moving out save your marriage or is it the first step toward divorce? If you are desperate for peace and thinking about packing your bags, you need to watch this video first. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How Long Will It Take To Save My Marriage? | 08 Jan 2026 | 00:13:41 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Is there a timeline for saving a marriage? If you are asking "How long will it take to save my marriage?" the honest answer is that there is no magic formula or set number of days. It relies entirely on consistency over time. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam explains that saving a relationship is not an immediate event. It is a process of changing the negative narrative your spouse has about you by consistently doing the right things, even when it feels like it is not working. In this episode: Dr. Joe Beam breaks down the typical pattern of marriage dissolution and shares the hard truth about separation. Did you know that once a physical separation occurs, the likelihood of divorce rises to between 75% and 80%? Dr. Beam explains why this happens using a concept called Negative Affect. This is when your spouse interprets everything you do through a negative filter. Even when you try to change or work on your PIES (Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual attraction), your spouse might attack you or criticize you. Why do they do this? Because your positive changes are messing up the negative narrative they have created to justify leaving. You will learn:
It is unfair that you have to do the heavy lifting right now. However, if you are the one standing for the marriage, you are the one who has to change the dynamic. It is not easy, but we have witnessed "hopeless" couples turn it around even after years of struggle. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How We Saved Our Marriage After An Affair And Addiction | 02 Jan 2026 | 00:58:04 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Learn how they saved their marriage after an affair and addiction, even after 25 years of what looked like a "perfect" life. In this raw and honest interview, Aaron and Rena Garcia open up about the secret pornography addiction and infidelity that nearly destroyed their family, and the specific steps they took to rebuild trust from the ground up. If you are asking, "Can a marriage survive infidelity?" or "Is it possible to heal from betrayal trauma?" this video provides a real-life roadmap. Aaron, a former pastor, lived a secret double life for decades, while Rena was completely blindsided by the discovery. They discuss the intense physical reality of betrayal trauma (flooding), the shame of addiction in the church, and why they believe leaving isn't always the "easier" option. In this video, we answer hard questions like:
Rena and Aaron’s story proves that while trust is lost in buckets, it is earned in drops. With the right help, including the Marriage Helper workshop, they didn't just go back to their old marriage... they built a new, stronger one. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How To Avoid Divorce During The Holidays | 26 Dec 2025 | 01:17:13 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Did you know that divorce filings increase by 30% in January? It’s not a coincidence. The holidays don't just magnify relationship problems; they market a perfection that no marriage actually has. If you are dreading this Christmas because you feel like you are walking on eggshells, you are not alone. In this video, I’m sharing the exact "Stop The Chaos" plan you need to implement next week. This isn't about fixing your whole marriage in one day. It is about damage control. It is about getting through the holidays without becoming a statistic. I was where you are 12 years ago. I know the fear, the loneliness, and the overwhelming anxiety. But I also know there is hope. In this video, we cover:
🎄 THE "STOP THE CHAOS" PLAN FOR CHRISTMAS:
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| I Analyzed Sherrone Moore & Here's What I Found... How Limerence Affects You | 19 Dec 2025 | 00:10:39 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! The shocking termination of Michigan head coach Sherrone Moore has dominated the headlines, but beneath the sports scandal lies a profound psychological phenomenon: Limerence. In this video, we break down the reports from USA Today and Sports Illustrated to analyze the behavior leading up to Moore’s firing. From the alleged years-long affair to the reports of stalking and the "kitchen scissors" incident, we look at these events through the lens of relationship psychology. Was this just a lapse in judgment, or was it the destructive cycle of limerence? If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| Marriage Helper LIVE - December 10, 2025 | 15 Dec 2025 | 01:13:35 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! This episode is from the Marriage Helper LIVE Call-In Show from December 10, 2025. Marriage Helper LIVE airs live on YouTube, every Wednesday at Noon CT. To listen in or have a chance to call into the show, you can head to https://youtube.com/@marriagehelper If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| What To Do If You JUST Got Served Divorce Papers | 11 Dec 2025 | 00:10:48 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Getting served divorce papers can feel like the final blow, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage. If you’ve just received the filing, you are likely feeling panic, fear, and anger. In this video, we break down exactly what you need to do immediately to stay sane, protect yourself, and maximize your chances of saving your marriage. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How To Fall In Love With Your Spouse Again In 2026 | 04 Dec 2025 | 00:22:05 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Have you lost those feelings of attraction? Are you wondering if it’s even possible to fall back in love with your husband or wife after years of distance, hurt, or "storms" in life? Link to Kimberly's YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| The Shocking Truth About Which Marriages Won't Be Saved | 28 Nov 2025 | 00:12:27 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Can your marriage be saved after an affair, separation, or even after divorce papers have been filed? Is there a point where a relationship is truly "too far gone"? If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||
| How To Know If You're Being Controlling Without Realizing It (QUIZ) | 20 Nov 2025 | 00:12:48 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Is your behavior accidentally destroying your marriage? In this video, Kimberly Beam Holmes reveals one of the top predictors of divorce—second only to affairs—that most people don't even realize they are doing. Control is a silent relationship killer. You might think you are just trying to "help" your spouse, protect your family, or make sure things are done "the right way." But to your partner, it feels like intrusion, intimidation, and a lack of trust. At Marriage Helper, we see thousands of couples in crisis, and control is one of the hardest hurdles to overcome—but it IS possible. In this video, Kimberly breaks down the psychology behind why good people become controlling, the 5 distinct ways control manifests in a marriage, and gives you a 5-question self-assessment quiz to see if you are guilty of these behaviors. In this video, you will learn:
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| Are You Being Gaslighted In Your Marriage? | 13 Nov 2025 | 00:23:53 | |
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Are you being gaslighted in your marriage, or is something else going on beneath the surface? In this video, Kimberly Beam Holmes breaks down what gaslighting actually is, how to know if it’s truly happening, and when a painful pattern in your marriage might be caused by miscommunication, different backgrounds, fear, or unhealed wounds—not intentional manipulation. If you’ve ever felt confused, crazy, or like you’re losing your grip on reality during arguments with your spouse, this is the video you need to watch. You’ll learn the real signs of gaslighting, what makes it different from normal disagreements, and the three key statements you can use to set boundaries, stay grounded, and stop getting pulled into endless arguments. Kimberly also explains why the term “gaslighting” is often misused, how fear can drive controlling behavior, and why two people can remember the same event in completely different ways. Most importantly, she shows you what to do when you feel invalidated, dismissed, blamed, or overwhelmed in conversations with your spouse. In this video, you’ll learn:
Whether gaslighting is happening or you’re simply stuck in damaging communication loops, this video gives you actionable next steps to protect your sanity, improve conversations, and move your marriage toward healing. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz | |||