Explore every episode of the podcast Relationship Doctor
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| The Beginning of the End, Episode 3: Jessie | 09 Aug 2022 | 00:14:48 | |
This is The Beginning of the End, a Relationship Doctor mini-series from author and podcaster Jessie Stephens. Jessie's debut book, Heartsick, follows three stories of heartbreak, the kind of heartbreak that upends a life, and puts words around a brand of grief that we, as a culture, do not respect enough. In this three-part mini-series, Jessie shares three brand new stories, unique to the podcast. In episode three, Jessie turns inwards, and tells us her own story of heartbreak. Purchase Heartsick: Read a transcript of this episode on Simplecast. Relationship Doctor is a Quick and Dirty Tips podcast. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter. | |||
| The Beginning of the End, Episode 2: Laura | 02 Aug 2022 | 00:23:56 | |
This is The Beginning of the End, a Relationship Doctor mini-series from author and podcaster Jessie Stephens. Jessie's debut book, Heartsick, follows three stories of heartbreak, the kind of heartbreak that upends a life, and puts words around a brand of grief that we, as a culture, do not respect enough. In this three-part mini-series, Jessie shares three brand new stories, unique to the podcast. In episode two, we hear the story of Laura. Purchase Heartsick: Read a transcript of this episode on Simplecast. Relationship Doctor is a Quick and Dirty Tips podcast. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter. | |||
| How Your Bedtime Routine Impacts Your Relationship | 03 Jan 2022 | 00:08:51 | |
What does your bedtime routine say about your relationship? More than you might think. In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, breaks down the science behind bedtime. | |||
| Should You Set New Year’s Resolutions with Your Partner? | 27 Dec 2021 | 00:18:19 | |
In this week's episode of Relationship Doctor, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt is joined by Dr. Nanika Coor of Project Parenthood and Dr. Monica Johnson of Savvy Psychologist for a panel episode on New Year's Resolutions. | |||
| What Gifts Will Have the Biggest Impact on Your Relationship? | 20 Dec 2021 | 00:11:18 | |
Do you struggle to find the perfect gift for your partner? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, breaks down the science behind why we give gifts and what research says is the best kind of gift for your partner. | |||
| “Picking Your Battles” Isn’t the Best Thing for Your Relationship | 13 Dec 2021 | 00:08:55 | |
Fact: your partner will bother you sometimes. Conventional wisdom says to pick your battles and not sweat the small stuff, but in this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains how that can actually have a chilling effect on your relationship. | |||
| Can a Relationship Survive Cheating? | 06 Dec 2021 | 00:10:10 | |
If you or your partner cheat, is it the end of your relationship? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, talks about the complex issue of cheating and what it may mean for your relationship. | |||
| Is a Little White Lie on Your Dating Profile Okay? | 29 Nov 2021 | 00:07:08 | |
Have you ever seen an online dating profile that makes a person seem almost too good to be true? In this week's episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, talks about how common it is for people to lie when dating online and when it actually matters. | |||
| The Surprising Health Benefits of Expressing Affection | 22 Nov 2021 | 00:07:49 | |
While you might have guessed that being affectionate can improve your relationship's health, did you know it can improve your physical and mental health, too? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains the health benefits of affectionate communication. | |||
| Where Should You and Your Partner Spend the Holidays? | 15 Nov 2021 | 00:09:08 | |
The holidays can be a time of great joy and good food, but can also be a source of tension in our relationships. In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, provides advice on how to navigate difficult conversations about where to spend the holidays this season. | |||
| Which of These 7 Types of Love Defines Your Relationship? | 08 Nov 2021 | 00:08:13 | |
Which of the seven kinds of love are you experiencing in your relationship today? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains the Triangular Theory of Love and the three core components of love that are the pillars of romantic relationships. | |||
| How To Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work | 01 Nov 2021 | 00:09:19 | |
How can you build and sustain a meaningful and happy relationship while long-distance? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains how you can maintain your long-distance relationships. | |||
| The Beginning of the End, Episode 1: Samantha | 26 Jul 2022 | 00:14:27 | |
This is The Beginning of the End, a Relationship Doctor mini-series from author and podcaster Jessie Stephens. Jessie's debut book, Heartsick, follows three stories of heartbreak, the kind of heartbreak that upends a life, and puts words around a brand of grief that we, as a culture, do not respect enough. In this three-part mini-series, Jessie shares three brand new stories, unique to the podcast. In episode one, we hear the story of Samantha. Purchase Heartsick: Read a transcript of this episode on Simplecast. Relationship Doctor is a Quick and Dirty Tips podcast. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter. | |||
| The Myth of Love Languages | 25 Oct 2021 | 00:09:00 | |
Love languages have been a pop culture sensation for nearly 30 years—but are they based in any actual science? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains why love languages are not scientific, but why they may be useful anyway. | |||
| There's no such thing as a perfect person | 18 Oct 2021 | 00:07:32 | |
Does online dating feel more like a game and less like a process of finding your right person? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains why having too many choices in your dating apps may actually lead you to be less satisfied in your resulting relationships. | |||
| Relationship Research is WEIRD—Here's Why | 11 Oct 2021 | 00:08:12 | |
Why is it that some relationship research doesn't resonate with you and your experiences? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains why some relationship data is just plain WEIRD. | |||
| Stop Comparing You and Your Partner to "Perfect" Online Relationships | 04 Oct 2021 | 00:07:35 | |
Perfect relationships don't exist. So why do we pretend they do when we look at other couples on social media? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains how social comparisons can negatively affect your relationship. | |||
| 5 Ways You Can Support Your Partner | 27 Sep 2021 | 00:08:54 | |
Have you ever felt like your help went unnoticed or was unappreciated by your partner? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains invisible support efforts and the different ways we provide support to our partners. | |||
| Will My On-Again Off-Again Relationship Work Out? | 20 Sep 2021 | 00:09:12 | |
Ever wanted to give a relationship a second chance? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains the risks of on-again/off-again relationships. | |||
| Stuck in a Situationship? Here's How to Define the Relationship | 13 Sep 2021 | 00:08:01 | |
Stuck in a situationship and aren't sure how to make it into a relationship? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt explains why defining your relationship is important for your mental health and how to have that risky conversation. | |||
| The Investment Model of Relationships | 06 Sep 2021 | 00:07:36 | |
While it may not happen consciously, everyone does a cost-benefit analysis of their relationship in difficult moments. What considerations lead people to stay or leave their relationships? | |||
| Never Use Secret Tests in Your Relationship | 30 Aug 2021 | 00:09:31 | |
Ever used a secret test, like waiting for a partner to text you first, to assess the state of your relationship? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains why secret tests can actually be harmful to your relationship | |||
| What is Ghosting and Why Do People Do It? | 23 Aug 2021 | 00:07:40 | |
Have you been ghosted by a romantic partner? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains why people resort to ghosting when things aren't working out, and how to cope with being ghosted if it happens to you. | |||
| What is Ethical Non-Monogamy? | 22 Mar 2022 | 00:14:14 | |
This week, we're dropping an episode from another great podcast here on Quick and Dirty Tips—The Savvy Psychologist. Listen to the Savvy Psychologist in Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app: https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/savvy-psychologist | |||
| How to Avoid a Gray Divorce | 16 Aug 2021 | 00:07:42 | |
In light of the recent divorce announcements of several high profile couples in their 50s and 60s, Relationship Doctor Rachel Vanderbilt explores some of the reasons for the rise in "gray divorce." | |||
| Why You Should Embrace Small Talk on Dating Apps | 09 Aug 2021 | 00:07:17 | |
Small talk on dating apps can feel awkward and corny--but it's also a way to assess compatibility before you waste your time. | |||
| Is It A Bad Idea to Cohabitate Before Marriage? | 02 Aug 2021 | 00:07:39 | |
Data from the 1980s and 1990s showed that moving in with a romantic partner before marriage was associated with an increased risk of divorce. But that conclusion doesn't tell the whole story. | |||
| Coming Soon: The Relationship Doctor Returns | 19 Jul 2021 | 00:01:43 | |
The Relationship Doctor podcast will return to your favorite podcast app for weekly episodes beginning August 2. Now hosted by Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, Relationship Doctor will bring friendly advice based on cutting-edge relationship science right to your ears. Make sure to follow Relationship Doctor wherever you get your podcasts. | |||
| 22 - How to Reconnect with an Intimate Conversation | 30 Dec 2019 | 00:09:49 | |
The goal of any intimate conversation is simple: to know your partner more fully, and to be more fully known by them. Everything else is secondary. TRANSCRIPT: https://quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/mental-health/intimate-conversation | Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: www.quickanddirtytips.com/podcasts JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephenSnyderMD/ | Twitter: https://twitter.com/SexualityToday | |||
| 21 - How to Thrive in a Relationship Even If You Have Anxious Attachment Style | 23 Dec 2019 | 00:10:26 | |
If you're among the one in five adults with anxious attachment style, you're probably extra sensitive to signs of emotional danger in a relationship. Here's what you can do. TRANSCRIPT & LINKS: Read the transcript: https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/marriage/anxious-attachment-style | Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: www.quickanddirtytips.com/podcasts JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephenSnyderMD/ | Twitter: https://twitter.com/SexualityToday | |||
| 20 - Why "We Need to Talk" Isn't the Best Way to Save Your Relationship | 16 Dec 2019 | 00:09:57 | |
One of you wants to talk about your relationship. The other one would cheerfully rather submit to a tax audit. Here are some practical suggestions. TRANSCRIPT & LINKS: Read the transcript: https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/marriage/we-need-talk | Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: www.quickanddirtytips.com/podcasts JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephenSnyderMD/ | Twitter: https://twitter.com/SexualityToday | |||
| 19 - 4 Love Lessons from Mister Rogers' Neighborhood | 09 Dec 2019 | 00:10:54 | |
Children's TV host Fred Rogers had an unusual capacity for love that few of us can attain. But his example can inspire the rest of us to love more deeply. TRANSCRIPT & LINKS: Read the transcript: https://quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/medical-conditions/childrens-health/mister-rogers | Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: www.quickanddirtytips.com/podcasts JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephenSnyderMD/ | Twitter: https://twitter.com/SexualityToday | |||
| 18 - Is Your Relationship Text Smart? | 02 Dec 2019 | 00:11:00 | |
Texting in a relationship can be fun, sexy, and even useful. But there are also some huge pitfalls to avoid. Is your relationship text smart? TRANSCRIPT & LINKS JOIN THE CONVERSATION | |||
| 17 - What Should You Do if Your Partner Is Addicted to Video Games? | 25 Nov 2019 | 00:10:28 | |
Some people have trouble regulating their use of video games. Here's what to do if you think your partner might be one of them. TRANSCRIPT & LINKS JOIN THE CONVERSATION | |||
| How Parenthood Changes Your Relationship | 15 Feb 2022 | 00:10:59 | |
How can you maintain your relationship after the birth of your first child? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, looks at the research. Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows. Subscribe to the Relationship Doctor podcast. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter. Links: | |||
| 16 - The Secret Art of Intimate Communication | 18 Nov 2019 | 00:11:06 | |
Intimate communication is inherently risky, but that's where the greatest rewards are. Here's a quick guide to doing it right. TRANSCRIPT & LINKS JOIN THE CONVERSATION | |||
| 15 - How the New Science of Adult Attachment Can Help You Love Better | 11 Nov 2019 | 00:12:11 | |
Science has learned a lot recently about our instinct to stay secure by keeping people close. Here's how you can put this knowledge to work. TRANSCRIPT & LINKS | |||
| 14 - 10 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship | 04 Nov 2019 | 00:10:48 | |
Is your relationship growing strong, or is it time to ... leave? (Yeah, pun intended.) TRANSCRIPT & LINKS JOIN THE CONVERSATION | |||
| 13 - The Best Way in the World to Keep Your Partner Happy | 28 Oct 2019 | 00:08:43 | |
You don't need gifts or fancy vacations to make your partner happy—it's a whole lot simpler than that. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/dating/keep-partner-happy Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| 12 - How Not to Have a One-Sided Relationship | 21 Oct 2019 | 00:09:21 | |
It's easier than you think to find yourself in a one-sided relationship. Here are three things to look for in a good, equal partner, and they all begin with the letter R. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/one-sided-relationship Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| 11 - The Best Way to Win an Argument with Your Partner | 14 Oct 2019 | 00:07:56 | |
The best way to win an argument is to make sure your partner feels like they’re winning, too. Here's how. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/romance/win-argument Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| 10 - Three Ways to Prevent a Sexless Relationship | 06 Oct 2019 | 00:09:15 | |
Sex can take a backseat in a relationship for surprising reasons. Here are three ways to keep physical intimacy alive and prevent a sexless relationship. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/prevent-sexless-relationship Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| 9 - How to Handle Negative Self-Talk on a Date | 30 Sep 2019 | 00:09:22 | |
When you have no idea what the other person is really thinking, it's easy to assume the worst. Here's how to keep your brain from sabotaging your dating life. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/ Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| 8 - How to Make Tough Decisions as a Couple | 23 Sep 2019 | 00:08:40 | |
For thirty years, I've watched couples struggle with tough decisions, where compromise just isn't possible. Here's what works, and what doesn't. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/decision-making-relationships Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| 7 - Are Soulmates Real? | 16 Sep 2019 | 00:08:16 | |
Are soulmates real? Believing you've found your one true match may not be the best thing for your relationship. Here's another way to look at "the one." Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/mental-health/are-soulmates-real Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows: FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| Don’t Let Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship | 08 Feb 2022 | 00:09:17 | |
Stressed out by Valentine's Day? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains how you can make your Valentine's Day special instead of stressful. | |||
| 6 - Are Politics Ruining Your Relationship? | 09 Sep 2019 | 00:08:58 | |
What do you do when you love someone but their politics drive you crazy? Is it possible to stay connected across a political divide? Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/politics-relationship FOLLOW RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR | |||
| 5 - 7 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Try an Open Relationship | 02 Sep 2019 | 00:11:37 | |
Open relationships can be complicated. Before you go looking for that first extramarital hookup, see if you can answer these seven questions. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/romance/before-you-try-open-relationship | |||
| 4 - Three Kinds of Long-Distance Relationships and How to Survive Them | 26 Aug 2019 | 00:11:00 | |
If you want to thrive as a long-distance couple, first figure out what stage your relationship is in. Then plan accordingly. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/relationships/kinds-of-long-distance-relationships | |||
| 3 - Three Ways to Save Your Relationship from Technology | 19 Aug 2019 | 00:13:42 | |
Want to save your relationship from digital distraction? Make sure you understand the psychology of how online media really works. Read the transcript at https://quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/mental-health/save-relationship-technology | |||