"The second I feel that I am cured and it no longer exists, is the moment that it invites itself back in." In the conclusion of our powerful conversation, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) Aja Chavez joins host Terry Maguire to move beyond symptoms and into the real work of recovery. We tackle the "uncomfortable conversations" that save lives, including how to decode the "FINE" acronym and why you must directly ask about suicidal thoughts.
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Aja Chavez brings both professional expertise and the lived experience of surviving a 2008 suicide attempt to discuss depression as a chronic condition that requires long-term management, much like diabetes. This episode provides a practical roadmap for those feeling like a burden, explaining how medication provides a "floor beneath your feet" and how to build a personal "wellness wheel" that incorporates therapy, spirituality, and even the smallest moments of joy. Whether you are struggling to get out of bed or trying to reach a partner who is pushing you away, Aja’s blunt clinical insights and compassionate perspective offer a way forward.
About Our Guest: Aja Chavez, LMFT, LPCC, is a clinical expert specializing in adolescent mental health and crisis intervention. She is a dedicated advocate for lowering barriers to care and helping individuals rediscover their worth through evidence-based therapy and holistic wellness.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 – [Intro: Why Depression is Never Fully "Cured"]
01:04 – [Review: Laziness vs. Clinical Depression]
05:54 – [The Lies Depression Tells: "You Are a Burden"]
09:28 – [Why Therapists Don't Give You a "Lies vs. Truth" List]
12:36 – [How 988 and Crisis Hotlines Actually Help]
14:26 – [Managing Depression Like Diabetes]
17:22 – [Decoding "FINE": F***ed Up, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional]
19:25 – [How to Support Someone Who Pushes You Away]
22:42 – [Finding Free and Low-Cost Mental Health Resources]
27:02 – [Why You Should Never Say "At Least..."]
32:01 – [The Power of "Wellness Wheels" and Small Joys]
35:50 – [Medication: "Do You Want to Be Pretty or Dead?"]
42:26 – [The Role of Prayer and Spirituality in Recovery]
47:31 – [The Safest Move: Asking Directly About Suicide]
❓ Questions the Video Answers:
- Is clinical depression a permanent condition?
- How can I help someone with depression who refuses help?
- What does the "FINE" acronym mean in mental health?
- Why does depression make me feel like everyone is better off without me?
- How do I find therapy if I don't have insurance or money?
- Can I use the 988 crisis line if I'm not in an immediate emergency?
- Does depression medication change your personality or make you a "zombie"?
- How can I tell if my teenager is depressed or just being moody?
- What is a "wellness wheel" and how do I build one?
- Is it okay to ask someone directly if they want to kill themselves?
- Why shouldn't I tell a depressed person they have "so much to be grateful for"?
- Can prayer and medication work together for recovery?
- Why is irritability a sign of depression instead of sadness?
- How do I support a partner when they get mean or defensive?
- What are "glimmers of joy" and why do they precede hope?
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