Explore every episode of the podcast REBUILD with Pamela J | Life Rebuilder Coach [faith, finance, business, mindset, relationships, real estate, retirement]

Have you ever wondered how to discover what you're good at, what are your unique gifts and talents and how to grow your capacity for these? Pamela J walks you through several exhibits and questions so you can not only determine your own gifts and talents, you can also help others around you discover theirs -- your children, your partner / spouse, your friends, your coworkers, your work team, and more. As always, thanks for watching / listening. Be sure to comment by sharing your unique gifts, talents, and how you're increasing their capacity. xo, PJ

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Who will inherit your inheritance? The estrangement epidemic has put estranged parents and grandparents in a position they never wanted to be in: 'The Inheritance Dilemma' and how it affects the will and living trust. It was never supposed to be this way. I feel your pain and hope you gain some clarity after watching / listening and that you still find joy in the suffering. 

xo, PJ

P.S. I can't wait to read your comments and if you, too, are facing a similar dilemma and what are your potential solutions.

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The estrangement epidemic is no laughing matter. It is destroying extended families, causing division, and uprooting the family ecosystem. We cannot let the enemy win! In this episode, I challenge you to examine your heart and to join God's ground army to battle this sick culture -- one the enemy absolutely loves. Enjoy! xo, PJ

--> As promised, here is the link to the entire podcast / playlist so you can watch the entire collection: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVkz2VePeNq8 

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What actually is a healthy multi-generational family? Are extended families being cast aside in search of the 'perfect family' or 'fantasy family'? In this video, I present 10 points of consideration, points that I believe constitute a healthy multi-generational family. I'm curious about your thoughts...which of these 10 points impacted you most and why? Do you have anything else you would add? Here's to perfectly imperfect multi-generational families. May they live long and prosper in the land in which they have been given.

xo, PJ

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Pamela J shares 10 points of encouragement for you to hold onto as you Rebuild a Live You Love! To further help you along, grab this free guide I created for you: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide. I'm excited for the new path you are walking -- today looks bright and the future even brighter.

xo, PJ

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10 things I no longer fall for as a Woman, Mom, and Grandparent that you can steal shamelessly! When you're in the process of rebuilding and creating a life you love, you will find that many things no longer serve you so you'll need to take a bold stand and make some decisions (grab this free gift as it will help: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide). I'm excited for the new path you are walking -- the day looks bright and the future even brighter. xo, PJ

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This is the first of a podcast collection concerning the Estrangement Epidemic. You may know it as cut-off culture, low contact, no contact, or any other new label that gets slapped on to make it 'seem normal' or as a means of adult children 'finding their peace' or 'their safe space' or 'building their own non-bloodline family tree'.

Pamela J shares her thoughts, insights, and opinions throughout this podcast collection. Regardless, it is essential for you to rebuild and create a life you love through estrangement. You only have this one life to live so let's not waste it chasing what may never be. Let's trust that God is doing a mighty work and will continue to do so as you grow and expand your capacity. Please be sure to like, subscribe, and share so that others may benefit from this information.

Let me know in the comments below what step you are taking next to find joy through estrangement.

We shall overcome!

xo, PJ

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A Freedom-Filled Life is definitely a life worth living and striving for, but I'm pretty sure it's not quite what you are thinking! Jump in and take a listen -- I can hardly wait to hear your biggest takeaways and what steps you will take next. 

Here's to your Future Freedom-Filled Life!

xo, PJ

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Debt Dumping Tracker: https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt

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https://youtu.be/6cHjlwzZXNE?si=6WzCeptOrdcCniOO 

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*Pamela J's Recommended Reading List: 

PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc 

Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG 

Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill  https://amzn.to/3Lnn9Nl  

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3XabTGu 

The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz 

As A Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/49Zzlhc 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQ9wtP 

The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco: https://amzn.to/3ZiQsnR 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qnXsuN 

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://amzn.to/4r2Mg87 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4ti6zQd 

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: https://amzn.to/3ZeuPVR 

(audible not available)

The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch: https://amzn.to/4rq9HI6 

(audible not available)

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins: https://amzn.to/3NVbCpK 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qt8YFq 

One Rental At A Time by Michael Zuber: https://amzn.to/3LV2Vex 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZV2HqQ 

Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://amzn.to/3LUPyem 

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XLEAR Nasal Spray: https://amzn.to/46OCIFy  

PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc 

Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG 

Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K 

Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0 

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This video is intended for you, even though it is a tribute to my brother's brief life here on earth. I hope you are able to take the actions I recommend and prepare your heart, and house, for your appointed time. I want you to live a joy-filled life while you are here and have peace. Be sure to let me know what impacted you most!

xo, PJ

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*Pamela J's Recommended Reading List: 

PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc 

Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG 

Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill  https://amzn.to/3Lnn9Nl  

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3XabTGu 

The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz 

As A Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/49Zzlhc 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQ9wtP 

The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco: https://amzn.to/3ZiQsnR 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qnXsuN 

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://amzn.to/4r2Mg87 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4ti6zQd 

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: https://amzn.to/3ZeuPVR 

(audible not available)

The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch: https://amzn.to/4rq9HI6 

(audible not available)

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins: https://amzn.to/3NVbCpK 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qt8YFq 

One Rental At A Time by Michael Zuber: https://amzn.to/3LV2Vex 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZV2HqQ 

Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://amzn.to/3LUPyem 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQaWEF 

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Debt Dumping Tracker:  https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt  

How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide  

Become a PJ Insider (my monthly newsletter): https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider  

*PJ's Favorite Things

XLEAR Nasal Spray: https://amzn.to/46OCIFy  

PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc 

Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG 

Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K 

Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0 

Smooth Wood Hangers, 30 Pack: https://amzn.to/4kk5MKK 

BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag: https://amzn.to/3ZQ32Lz

HIGH YIELD SAVINGS ACCOUNT:

WEALTHFRONT: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8 

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*NOTE: When using these links, Pamela J may earn a small commission via the vendor. The price to you remains unchanged -- it's simply a way for you to help support the channel, buying what you will grow to love as well. Pamela J only shares what she has tried, proven, and loves, too, because she cares about you. 

I'm so glad you're here for Part 4 of 4: Get Your Mindset Right Series. In this episode, Pamela J, host of The Rebuild Project shares how garbage in equals garbage out and why inputs equal outputs and how to use them to hit your 2026 goals and targets.

Watch this Next: (you can skip forward to the episodes you may have missed -- or rewatch the series as it can only help :)) Happy New Year 2026: Let's Get Your Mind'Set' Right (a series you don't want to miss)!

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WEALTHFRONT High Yield Savings Account: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8 

*Pamela J's Recommended Reading List: 

PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc 

Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG 

Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill  https://amzn.to/3Lnn9Nl  

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3XabTGu 

The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz 

As A Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/49Zzlhc 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQ9wtP 

The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco: https://amzn.to/3ZiQsnR 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qnXsuN 

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://amzn.to/4r2Mg87 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4ti6zQd 

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: https://amzn.to/3ZeuPVR 

(audible not available)

The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch: https://amzn.to/4rq9HI6 

(audible not available)

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins: https://amzn.to/3NVbCpK 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qt8YFq 

One Rental At A Time by Michael Zuber: https://amzn.to/3LV2Vex 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZV2HqQ 

Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://amzn.to/3LUPyem 

or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQaWEF 

GIFTS From Me to You:

Debt Dumping Tracker:  https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt  

How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide  

Become a PJ Insider (my monthly newsletter): https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider  

*PJ's Favorite Things

XLEAR Nasal Spray: https://amzn.to/46OCIFy  

PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc 

Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG 

Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K 

Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0 

Smooth Wood Hangers, 30 Pack: https://amzn.to/4kk5MKK 

BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag: https://amzn.to/3ZQ32Lz

HIGH YIELD SAVINGS ACCOUNT:

WEALTHFRONT: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8 

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*NOTE: When using these links, Pamela J may earn a small commission via the vendor. The price to you remains unchanged -- it's simply a way for you to help support the channel, buying what you will grow to love as well. Pamela J only shares what she has tried, proven, and loves, too, because she cares about you. 

I'm so glad you're here for Part 3 of 4: Get Your Mindset Right Series. In this episode, Pamela J of The Rebuild Project explains how to eliminate chaos and take control of your life by filtering your thoughts, words, and actions. Success leaves clues (see if you can find those easter eggs!) as you step into rebuilding your life and legacy after loss and creating that life of your dreams.

Listen now so you can take action and level up your mindset today!

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PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling) 

The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz   

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Debt Dumping Tracker: pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt 

How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: pamelajandco.com/decisionguide 

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♡ PJ's Favorite Things

PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling)

Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K 

Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0 

Smooth Wood Hangers, 30 Pack: https://amzn.to/4kk5MKK 

BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag: https://amzn.to/3ZQ32Lz 

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Part 2 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series In this episode we explore Facts or Feelings, Discernment or Deception: how to tell the difference and why it even matters.

Pamela J walks you through storytelling, personal experience, and challenges you to not be led by your feelings, emotions, or deceiption and to, instead, be led by facts, discernment and reason so you can take every thought, action, and reaction captive.

Be sure to subscribe so you get notified when future episodes drop.

This series will be life changing for you, in a good way!

Thank you for being here,

xo, PJ

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Part 1 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series In this episode we explore Victim Mentality vs Victor Mindset.

Pamela J walks you through storytelling, personal experience, and challenges you to lay down labels and trauma bags so you can stop wallowing in your victim past and, instead, wade confidently into your victorious future. Be sure to subscribe so you get notified when future episodes drop.

This series will be life changing for you, in a good way!

Thank you for being here, xo, PJ

Here is the link I referenced to become a PJ Insider: https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider

Happy New Year 2026! To help you start the year off right, Pamela J is releasing a series of episodes during the month of January all around mindset mastery. You definitely don't want to miss this so be sure to subscribe or give a follow so you don't miss a single episode. 

If youre on YouTube, be sure to drop your Word of the Year in the comments. Pamela J is responding to every one so she can cheer you on!

Here's to your best year yet :)

xo, PJ

Merry Christmas! May your day be filled with blessings and good cheer, whether family and friends are far or near. I've got a special treat for you here, to help set you up for a successful new year. Be sure to let me know what you did in the comments below -- I'm praying it's not all for show. ;)

Let's Go!

xo, PJ

Grab one or more of my gifts to you :) found below:

Dive Deeper with my free debt dumping tracker: https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt   

Make Decisions that work for you, not against you: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide 

Become a PJ Insider: https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider 

In this episode Pamela J challenges you to open yourself up to traditional and non-traditional house hacking methods that can help you reach your debt dumping or real estate investing goals faster. The question is, what are you willing to give up, temporarily, to get there?

Be sure to comment over on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@pamelajandco and let us know what you are committed to doing. Pamela J is responding to all comments.

As always, like, share, subscribe, and leave a 5-star reveiw so we can get this info in front of everyone who can benefit as we REbuild together. 

xo, PJ

debt-freedom tracker (gift for you): https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt   

recommended book: 'Outwitting the Devil' https://amzn.to/3Lnn9Nl or try audible: https://amzn.to/3XabTGu (a small commission may be earned, the cost to you is the same)

In this episode, Pamela J challenges you to do three things to truly dump your dumb debt so you can begin investing in real estate (the right way), like you said you wanted! Remember? Nothing happens overnight and nothing happens without a committed commitment from you. Accountability starts TODAY so make a decision, draw that line in the sand, and take action.

You've got this!

I'm cheering for you and coaching you daily.

xo, PJ

TIMESTAMPS

0:00 Introduction: Overcoming Debt
0:29 The Debt Elimination Mindset
1:56 Understanding Dumb Debt
4:14 Breaking Free from Dumb Debt
5:09 The Power of Decision and Commitment
10:21 Creating and Executing Your Debt Plan
12:51 Continuous Learning and Growth
14:39 Conclusion: Rebuilding Your Life

Mindset Mastery is key to a positive trajectory and forward momentum when it comes to rebuilding your life so you can move toward your target, not away from your target. In this episode, Pamela J walks you through three key points to help you take every thought captive and speak life over yourself and others. Be sure to leave a 5-Star Review and let us know what action steps you'll be implementing right away to Master Your Mind.

Here is the link for the book, Outwitting the Devil, that Pamela J recommends:: https://amzn.to/4rzXvp7

**Pamela J may receive a small commission for purchases made via this link, however, the cost to you remains the same.

CHAPTERS AND TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 Introduction and Personal Story

2:44 Point 1: Capturing Thoughts and Words

5:25 Point 2: Starting and Ending the Day God's Way

6:24 Point 3: Deciphering the Voice of the Holy Spirit

7:27 Conclusion and Additional Resources

Debt is HEAVY! It's time to break free from your debt ball and chain, forever, for good. In this episode, Pamela J provides three key things to do right away to start dumping your debt. Be sure to subscribe, follow, and comment as it helps the algorythm so others can find us. 

Here are the links referenced in this episode: 

Decision Making Guide: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide (free to you)

Dump Debt Tool: https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt (free to you)

Book | Good Morning Holy Spirit by Benny Hinn: https://amzn.to/3M2e3pH 

email Pamela J with any questions, comments, or other: hello@pamelajandco.com 

Thanks for being here! 

xo, PJ

Here's the link for the guide I reference so you can learn how to make decisions that work for you, not against you: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide 

In this Episode: By implementing these three things, my life started changing for the better (and your's can, too)!  

What I Offer: I'm here to be your coach, mentor, and kick-you-in-the-butt guide so you can have the life you've dreamed of and rebuild that new life and legacy for you and your family. 

What I'm Reading: Good Morning Holy Spirit by Benny Hinn. Get it here in paperback, hardcover, or audible: https://amzn.to/3Ks7hsC 

Become a PJ Insider and get behind the scenes insights, private launches, and more; delivered straight to your inbox at no cost to you: https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider  

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When I found myself drowning in dumb debt, I took a look in the mirror and knew I had to change the person who was looking back at me. MEEEEE. This was a harsh reality but a necessary one. Once I stopped digging a deeper hole with dump debt and, instead, started dumping it, my life changed significantly -- so much so that I was able to go from $25K in Student Loan debt to owning 3 rental homes in the span of just 7 years.

It's not easy (because if it was EVERYONE would do it) but it's oh, so worth it. If this sounds like something you want, too, welcome. I'm here to be your coach, mentor, and kick-you-in-the-butt guide so you can have the life you've dreamed of and rebuild that new life and legacy for you and your family.

Let's rock this!

xo, PJ

Welcome to THE REBUILD PROJECT, your go to podcast for rebuilding your life after loss whether it be from death, divorce, bankruptcy, or breakup. We use a Biblical approach when it comes to Business, Money, and Mindset with a focus on Faith, Family, and Freedom.

The goal is to pull up our bootstraps and rebuild our lives by managing and stewarding God's money, God's way, and ultimately make heaven extremely crowded. Pamela J is your host -- she is a single mom, a serial life rebuilder, an education and real estate investor, and a perpetual mentor.

Her passion is to help you stand up, take the reins of your life into your hands by partnering with God, and to position you to build your real estate portfolio.  If you're anything like Pamela J, you don't have time for compound interest to take affect like the stock market requires yet you still want to build something tangible as your financial legacy, like real estate, then this podcast is for you. 

This is not death, divorce, bankruptcy, or breakup recovery. This IS a podcast for those who are sick and tired of being sick and tired and are ready to do something different with their lives so they can be the best for themselves and for someone else, should the opportunity arise. 

Here is the link to Pamela J's free gift to you to get you started: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide. 

Let's get rockin' and rollin'!

xo, PJ

As promised, here is the link to my FREE guide 'How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You'

In this episode Pamela J discusses the fallacy of functional vs dysfunctional familes and how you can go about making single parenting beauty-filled vs victim-filled.

Together let's REBUILD and make something beauty-full, just as God designed (even though it might look a bit different). 

>>Be sure to stick around for the personal declaration and the blessing (both at the end and both totally worth it!). 

Let us know what you think about this episode by emailing hello@pamelajandco.com and then, as always, if you can like, share, follow, and leave a 5-star review so others can find us faster, that would be greatly appreciated.

We are so grateful you are here.

Love you, mean it!

xo, PJ

As promised, here is the link to my FREE guide 'How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You'

In this episode Pamela J shares more about her personal journey and why you need her decision guide to shorten the timeline to REBUILD and get your life back on track. 

Take a listen and let us know what you think by emailing hello@pamelajandco.com 

We are so grateful you are here.

xo, PJ

Welcome to REBUILD: Money, Business, and Mindset advice for Single Parents. Take a listen and let me know your takeaways via email at hello@pamelajandco.com. 

To get the freebies I mentioned in this trailer and to explore more, visit my website: pamelajandco.com 

Let's get to work and REBUILD your rock solid future!

With love, xo PJ

Join Pamela J as she shares, raw and real, insight into her abortion experience, compliments of the Death Cult, and how she evolved and became a relentless advocate for the Culture of Life.

Thank you for listening and please remember to:

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Take a listen and let me know what you think -- you can DM me on social media or send an email to hello@pamelajandco.com.

May you be forever UNWAVERING in your healing journey and in your quest to use your voice.

xx, 

Pamela J

Leadership is a lifelong commitment to learning, applying, and improving --> then rinse and repeat. Pamela J discusses 4 Quality Attributes of an Effective Leader and why this works in your everyday life at home and in the workplace. Apply these attributes and watch what happens with your team. 

Send an email to hello@pamelajandco.com and let me know which attribute you will be taking action steps to implement this week. I will personally respond and I cannot wait to hear from you!

Currently Reading: Discrimination and Disparities by Thomas Sowell

Currently Learning: Real Estate Investing -- I hired a Real Estate Investing Coach and joing a Community of like-minded people!

Charitable Giving: tpusa.com, preborn.com

My Gifts for YOU: Daily Improvement Plan Guide and Template ; Debt Dumping Tool

Thank you for listening and please remember to:

1. Leave a positive review if you haven't already.
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May you be forever UNWAVERING as you learn, apply, and improve your leadership skills.

I believe in you, I really do.

Stay true!

xx, Pamela J

Before you can begin to get your voice out to the world, there are some things you need to determine.

Pamela J dives into these three essential things:

1. For What Do You Stand?
2. What Is Your Platform?
3. What Is Your Why?

Send an email to hello@pamelajandco.com and let me know what steps you will be taking next! I will personally respond and I cannot wait to hear from you!

Currently Reading: Discrimination and Disparities by Thomas Sowell

Currently Learning: Real Estate Investing (Pods and YouTube)

Currently Giving:  Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan;

Charitable Giving: tpusa.com, preborn.com

Thank you for listening and please remember to:

1. Leave a positive review if you haven't already.
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May you be forever UNWAVERING in your quest to find and use your voice for such a time as this.

I believe in you, I really do.

xx, Pamela J

Is Divine Providence real? 

In this episode, Pamela J discusses the failed assassinaton attempt on Donal J Trump's life, Saturday July 13th at 6:11pm in Butler, Pennsylvania and how both divine providence and courageous leadership played a role in saving DJT's life.

Pamela J became much more interested in politics during 2020 when her eyes, ears, and brain were opened due to many events that didn't make sense or have logic or reason behind them. 

Listen in as Pamela J shares why she believes God is doing a mighty work in DJT and how God is using him for a purpose not yet fulfillled. 

Due to the nature of this episode, there are no sponsors or product promotions, only a call for you to accept Christ as your saviour if you have not yet already done so. 

If you'd like to follow Pamela J, you may do so on Social Media: @pamelajandco

Her website, where everything pretty much happens, is: https://pamelajandco.com 

May you be forever UNWAVERING in your quest to fulfill your God-given purpose here on earth until it's time for you to go home and enter the pearly gates of heaven. 

In Jesus' Name, 

Amen

You're either green and growing or ripe and rotting. In this week's UNWAVERING episode, Pamela J brings you 3 ways to add value to others so you may continue to grow as a value add leader. 

Recent Book Review: CHAOS, Charles Manson, the CIA, and the Secret History of the Sixties by Tom O' Neill

Currently Learning (Book): One Rental At A Time by Michael Zuber

Currently Reading: Discrimination and Disparities by Thomas Sowell

This Episode sponsored by Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan

Thank you for listening and please remember to:

1. Leave a positive review if you haven't already.
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May you be forever UNWAVERING as you focus forward, grow, and go.

I believe in you, I really do.

xx, Pamela J

Happy Independence Day in the USA!

Pamela J shares why she loves the USA, why our Freedom is so important, and why we need to fight to preserve and conserve them.

Thank you for listening, liking, subscribing (following), and sharing. If you are so inclined to leave a review wherever you listen, I would be forever grateful. This helps make the show easier for others to find by positioning UNWAVERING better inside the algorithm. 

You can follow Pamela J on SM --> @pamelajandco

Website: https://www.pamelajandco.com 

Stay Free My Friend,

xx, Pamela J (PJ)

Let's talk anniversaries, two of them, and speaking of talking, why is it so difficult to dialogue with those on the left? If it's not their way, it's they highway, so it seems anyway. Can we please bring back the ability to debate and find common ground -- there is always something with which we can agree! 

Pamela J further shares why she is a Christian Conservative and what this actually means and why it's essential that Conservatives actually conserve. 

What Pamela J is currently reading and where you can purchase: CHAOS Charles Manson, the CIA, and the Secret History of the Sixties. Grab it here, 

What Pamela J is currently learning and a book for you to purchase for starters: https://amzn.to/3xyMXPR 

This episode is brought to you by Pamela J's very own Daily Improvement Plan, her gift to you in exchange for an email address so she knows where to send it.

Grab it here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

As always, like, share, and leave a 5 star review so one more person may be positively impacted -- we've gotta outsmart the algorithm somehow! 

Follow Pamela J on Social Media (IG, X, FB, Pintrest and more): @pamelajanco, literally everywhere but mostly hanging out on IG.

Until next time, may you be forever UNWAVERING as you focus forward, grow, and go.

xx, Pamela J

In this episode Pamela J unpacks the desire to keep picking up your trauma bag, the purpose it is serving, and why it's time to burn that baby for good. You are responsible for your life, for choosing to continue to carry your trauma bag with you wherever you go, and whether or not you choose to be a victim for life or victorious for life. 

Pamela J encourages you to get out of the therapy sickness cycle and take charge of your life once and for all. As a result, you will be happier and more joyful once the weight of your trauma bag has been lifted. 

This episode is brought to you by Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan. For those interested in becoming a more effective leader at home or work, you can get your copy of Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

Follow Pamela J on Instagram, X, Pinterest, and Meta: @pamelajandco

Leaving a 5-Star review and/or sharing means more women will be able to benefit by listening to this podcast and following the show. I'd be grateful if you would be inclined to do either or both.

Together let's toss the trauma and be forever UNWAVERING in our pursuit of joy and enjoyment.

Until we meet again my friend, thank you for listening and sharing. 

xx, Pamela J

Pamela J shares three reasons why every leader needs a daily improvement plan and the three skills / qualities that every leader possesses. True leadership paves the way, punches fear in the face, and has an attitude of always learning, growing, and improving. Listen and learn as Pamela J further breaks these elements down in this bite-sized episode. 

This episode is brought to you by Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan. For those interested in becoming a more effective leader at home or work, you can get your copy of Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

What Pamela J is reading now; CHAOS Charles Manson, the CIA, and the Secret History of the Sixties. Grab it here, 

Follow Pamela J on Instagram, X, Pinterest, and Meta: @pamelajandco

Leaving a 5-Star review and/or sharing means more women will be able to benefit by listening to this podcast and following the show. I'd be grateful if you would be inclined to do either or both.

May you be forever UNWAVERING in your leadership pursuit.

xx, Pamela J

As an avid reader, Pamela J makes a commitment to bring one book review per month to her listeners. This month she takes you inside 'Bad Therapy, Why the Kid Aren't Growing Up by Abigail Shrier'. You definitely will benefit from listening to this episode as there is action you want to take as a parent, grandparent, or parental figure. 

***You can purchase Abigail's book here.

***Download Pamela J's Debt-Dumping Tool, complete with printable graphics to keep you on track and motivated with visuals: https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt 

***Follow Pamela J on Instagram, X, Pinterest, and Meta: @pamelajandco

***Leaving a review (5-Star if Apple Podcast) and/or sharing means more women (and men) will be able to benefit by listening to this podcast episode and following the show. I'd be grateful if you would be inclined to do either or both. Sharing truly is caring when it comes to podcasts!

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

Be Forever Unwavering,

XX, Pamela J

Consumer debt eats away your greatest wealth-building tool, your income. The sooner you can eliminate all consumer debt, the sooner you will be able to begin to build wealth. Consumer debt includes student loans, personal loans, car loans, and credit cards. 

Pamela J shares her personal consumer debt-free journey and introduces Dave Ramsey who was her guide and mentor as she was unwavering about chipping away at her mountain of credit card and student loan debt. Because of how this journey positively changed her life, Pamela J is an advocate of consumer debt-free living and encourages her listeners to become the same. 

***Download Pamela J's Debt-Dumping Tool, complete with printable graphics to keep you on track and motivated with visuals: https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt 

***Follow Pamela J on Instagram, X, Pinterest, and Meta: @pamelajandco

***Leaving a review (5-Star if Apple Podcast) and/or sharing means more women (and men) will be able to benefit by listening to this podcast episode and following the show. I'd be grateful if you would be inclined to do either or both.

It's your time to be consumer debt-free and to stop feeling trapped, strapped, and hopeless.

Let's be forever UNWAVERING. 

xx, Pamela J

[CREATOR'S NOTE: This episode was recorded on 5.5.24, long before Harrison Butker gave his commencement speech. It's uncanny how similar our messages are, which one can only credit as downloads from God as He continues to use His people, His earthly warriors,  to deliver His truth.] 

The nuclear and multi-generational family is in crisis and it's impacting the home and the workplace. The displacement of men in both arenas is emasculating men and creating apathy among them. As women continue to climb the ladder in the workplace, continue to buy the lie that they don't need a man, and continue to displace men at home and in the workplace; men, who are wired innately to provide, protect, hunt, and gather, find themselves in a place of near uselessness. This is dangerous as they can then only turn to television, video games, porn, drugs, alcohol, or other addictions as they NEED to do something with their time. If they are not feeling valued or needed, what is left for them? Yet at the same time, women want men who lead and then complain they can't be found, failing to recognize the contribution women are making to create this crisis.

Ladies, we cannot have our cake and eat it, too.

If we want men to step into their masculinity, then we need to step into our femininity. We need to allow men to lead in the home and in the workplace. We need to follow our maternal instincts when we bring children into the world and plan accordingly in our marriages. 

There is hope to heal if we are willing to face the truth and then take action.

Let's be UNWAVERING together. 

xx, Pamela J

For those interested, you can get Pamela J's free Daily Improvement Plan mentioned in this episode here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

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Other mentions: Suzanne Venker (follow her)

Leaving a review (5-Star if Apple Podcast) and/or sharing means more women (and men) will be able to benefit by listening to this podcast episode and following the show. I'd be grateful if you would be inclined to do either or both.

Leadership, or LeadHERship, as Pamela J likes to call it, can be difficult for women when it comes to figuring out how to use feminine energy (vs masculine) when leading at work and at home. The world wants to tell you that acting like a man is best, however, this works against every natural biological gift you were given at birth. When you tap into your feminine energy and use it to lead, you will have a wealth of input into every decision that needs to be made because a man filled with masculine energy will seek you out. Take a listen as Pamela J challenges the messages of the feminist movement and, instead, offers a more natural and complementary solution to leadership.

For those interested, you can get Pamela J's free Daily Improvement Plan mentioned in this episode here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

Follow Pamela J on Instagram, X, Pinterest, and Meta: @pamelajandco

Leaving a 5-Star review and/or sharing means more women will be able to benefit by listening to this podcast episode and following the show. I'd be grateful if you would be inclined to do either or both.

xx, Pamela J

Are you wondering if it's possible to be both feminine AND lead well? Do you have a desire to lead, as a woman, without displacing men? Are you feeling conflicted about how a woman who leads can also be fulfilling her Biblical duty? If yes, then, girlfriend, congratulations, you're in the right place! 

Hi and welcome to UNWAVERING, a leadership show for women who are seeking to tap into their feminine energy so they can design, build, and lead their life in a way that makes a positive difference for themselves and their loved ones. If this is something you are seeking, then you simply need a guide and a proven path, packed with common sense and practical application to get you there.

This is where I enter. I'm your host, your guide, Pamela J, of Pamela J + Co – Life and Leadership Coaching for Women. My mission is to teach women how to be effective leaders while honoring their femininity and without usurping men. 

I recently made the decision to bring my coaching and leadership experience to the online space where I can better serve you, and I am so excited! I've been studying and practicing leadership for years by investing in continuous learning and then applying what I learned via utilizing my own daily improvement plan while leading individuals and teams.

In fact, you can grab a copy of your own Daily Improvement Plan workbook,  if this is something you're interested in for yourself. It's yours to download for free in exchange for an email address so I know where to send it. I've put the link in the show notes to make it easy for you, otherwise, you can go to: pamelajandco.com/DIP.  

To further guide you along on your leadership journey, I'll be bringing an aspect of my time tested, tried and true, 7F Formula every week to the show so that you can start applying these practical steps right away. After all, I want you to win, to rise to the top, and to ultimately be the cream of the crop.

Without further adieu, I look forward to serving you with excellence by bringing you hope and inspiration coupled with practical application so you can begin to create and lead the life you desire – both personally and professionally.

So that you never miss an episode, you'll need to follow this show wherever you're listening now – and be sure to share with a friend or loved one who could also benefit from this community. 

One last note, I intentionally named this show UNWAVERING because that's exactly what I want for you – to be forever UNWAVERING as you design, build, and submit to leading a life you desire.

Personal Disclaimer: this show is definitely NOT for the easily offended. I mean, you do want to grow, don't you?

I believe in you, I really do.

Now let's go have some fun while we lead well by tapping into our feminine energy and applying common sense.