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THE MEDITATION In this gentle episode, Kathryn introduces a soothing meditation practice inspired by veteran teacher James Baraz and an ancient teaching from 12th-century Tibetan master Noguma. Noguma reminds us that the goodness we search for is often overlooked simply because it is too close, too deep, too simple, or too good to accept.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Goodness Is Already Present: True joy doesn't require traveling far or overcomplicating things; it often lives in the immediate sensations and small details of our daily lives. Savor Small Moments: The most profound senses of ease and warmth often come from unassuming, everyday experiences like a warm drink, a kind conversation, or a gentle touch. Somatic Anchoring: Allowing positive feelings to settle into the body as a physical sensation (rather than just an intellectual thought) deepens our capacity to feel grounded and content. BEST MOMENTS "The goodness we are looking for is so close, we cannot see it. So deep, we cannot fathom it. So simple, we cannot believe it. And so good, we cannot accept it." "The most profound joy often arrives in the smallest packages." "Allow yourself to be... someone who has enough, who is enough, who is sitting right in the middle of something good." TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk LINK TO THE INTERVIEW  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/46OGKW54FiUEvkkA6muNBm?si=86797becfba14a76  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/3-1-james-baraz-awakening-joy-in-children-kindness/id6783327960?i=1000778463857 LINK TO THE CONVERSATION Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2fITpzqDY7j9P3d5srnsg3?si=187635ebdc974b78  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/3-2-perfect-parenting-is-a-myth-heres-how-to-begin/id6783327960?i=1000778786170  HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/  

THE CONVERSATION  Ever feel like you’re constantly giving your parenting a pass or fail test? Grab a cuppa and join us in the lounge as we unpack our recent conversation with mindfulness teacher James Baraz. We’re ditching the impossible pressure of perfectionism, exploring the quiet radicalism of simple kindness, and discovering why our mistakes might actually be our greatest teaching moments. From the joyful art of “joy spotting” to taking a much-needed parent time-out, this chat is a warm hug and a gentle invitation to lean back, take a breath, and give yourself some well-deserved grace.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Model, Don't Just Tell: Children learn how to treat themselves by watching how we treat ourselves, not from our lectures. Drop the Measuring Stick: Constantly grading your parenting leads to unnecessary burnout and disappointment. Practice Joy Spotting: Actively looking for simple moments of delight trains the brain to build stronger pathways for positivity. Normalize Mistakes: Singing or acknowledging that everyone makes mistakes teaches children self-compassion and repair. When in Doubt, Relax: Taking brief timeouts to recharge makes us far more resourced for our families. BEST MOMENTS "Children don't learn how to treat themselves from what we tell them. They learn from what they see us do." "Make sure your happiness is not at the expense of somebody else's suffering." "When in doubt, relax." "Our children are sobering and profound mirrors for our parenting." "Are you giving life a pass or fail test in everything you do?" CHAPTERS 00:00 – Welcome to the Lounge 01:57 – The Only Classroom Rule You Need 05:46 – Rockstars, Hippies, and Teaching 09:02 – Children as Our Profound Mirrors 11:50 – Everyone Makes Mistakes 14:05 – The Power of the Parent Time-Out 17:16 – The Art of Joy Spotting 23:02 – When in Doubt, Relax 28:51 – Put Down the Parenting Measuring Stick TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk LINK TO THE INTERVIEW  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/46OGKW54FiUEvkkA6muNBm?si=635936f4fa504119  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/3-2-perfect-parenting-is-a-myth-heres-how-to-begin/id6783327960?i=1000778786170  HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/   

THE INTERVIEW  Ever noticed how children naturally sparkle when someone simply notices what’s good in them? In a world that endlessly pressures parents and children to do more, be more, and achieve more, finding genuine ease can feel completely out of reach. James Baraz - author of Awakening Joy and co-founder of Spirit Rock Meditation Center - joins this comforting, insightful conversation on how looking for intrinsic goodness alters the way children see themselves. From classroom lessons in 1960s Queens to simple daily practices like ‘joy spotting’ and setting heart-centred intentions, James shows how self-compassion forms the bedrock of thoughtful parenting. Instead of striving for perfection, discover how modeling our own humanness, admitting mistakes, and taking essential breathers creates space for children to flourish. Tune in for a gentle reminder that kindness always begins within.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Focusing on Goodness: Looking for intrinsic worth in children naturally brings out their confidence and resilience. Growth Through Mistakes: Normalising parental mistakes models healthy risk-taking and self-compassion for children. Practicing Self-Kindness: True patience with children starts by cultivating forgiveness and care toward oneself. Intentional Simplicity: Pausing daily busyness allows space for genuine presence and creative inner exploration. Savoring Positivity: Taking fifteen seconds to truly register moments of joy re-wires the brain for greater well-being. BEST MOMENTS “Make sure that your happiness is not at the expense of somebody else's suffering.” “If you are looking through the lens of love and goodness, you will see it more.” “When a parent is willing to learn and make mistakes, what a great model that is for a child.” “Parenting is a very sobering and profound mirror for what's going on in you.” “It's the time you spend with your rose that makes your rose so special.” CHAPTERS 00:00 – Finding Goodness in a World Driven by Achievement 06:45 – The Single Golden Classroom Rule 12:20 – Parenting as a Mirror for Self-Awareness 19:24 – Embracing Mistakes and the Growth Mindset 25:25 – Starting with Kindness Toward Yourself 31:15 – Setting Simple Intentions at Home 37:06 – The Mental Freedom of Letting Go 46:50 – Joy Spotting and Taking in the Good 57:44 – The Four Faults of Awareness 01:03:28 – Kindness as a Daily Practice TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/   

In this meditation pod, Kathryn Lovewell introduces a gentle, grounding exercise led by Liz, inspired by a recent conversation with behavioral specialist Andy Baker. This episode focuses on recognising the familiar, sometimes critical inner voices like the "I should have" or "I'm not good enough" scripts and meeting them with warmth and curiosity rather than judgment. KEY TAKEAWAYS Trust Over Calm: The opposite of anxiety isn't necessarily calm; it is trust. We can offer ourselves the trust to explore our internal scripts with curiosity instead of judgment. Embrace the Wandering Mind: It is completely natural for the mind to be busy during meditation. You can simply let your thoughts drift in and out like clouds across an open sky without needing to follow them. Recognising Inner Scripts: We all carry familiar internal narratives, such as "I should have" or "I am not good enough," which are often inherited from past figures, teachers, or cultural expectations. Curiosity Over Judgment: Acknowledging these inner scripts and the physical sensations they bring without judgment allows us to soften our emotional responses and keep from treating these stories as absolute facts. Shifting the Narrative: Transforming rigid, critical self-talk into softer, gentler preferences (like changing "I should" to "I would have liked to") creates immediate emotional breathing room and fosters profound self-kindness. QUOTES "The opposite of anxiety isn't calm. It's trust." "Perhaps the most generous thing we can offer ourselves is the trust to meet our scripts with curiosity rather than judgment." "Thoughts will drift in and drift out, like clouds moving through an open sky. You don't need to follow them." "Feel the difference. From 'I should,' which sits like a stone, to 'I would have liked,' which breathes, which leaves room, which acknowledges a preference without turning it into a verdict." "Awareness alone is enough. Just see it. Just to name it. Just to know that it is a story. And that you are not only your stories." TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk LINK TO THE INTERVIEW & CONVERSATIONS Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xPQKEwTz3BJIb4hsKlDRr?si=6ac0f0e1d69e43ad  https://open.spotify.com/episode/5s7TtyCgbe4gFVqam733Dk?si=4ae1a9b14b494d90  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/2-1-andy-baker-curiosity-beats-judgement-every-single-time/id6783327960?i=1000777473476  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/2-2-why-your-inner-critic-lies-negativity-bias-and/id6783327960?i=1000777473581  HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com Kathryn Lovewell | LinkedIn Liz Walker | LinkedIn CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of The Inner Voice Lab. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/  

THE CONVERSATION Your inner critic isn't telling you the truth - it's just running an old script. In this reflective solo episode, Kathryn and Liz unpack the biggest ideas from their recent conversation with behaviour specialist Andy Baker, exploring how negativity bias, inherited beliefs and old family "scripts" quietly shape the way we see ourselves as parents. They dig into Andy's idea that we're wired to notice the snake, not the flower, and talk candidly about their own experiences of guilt, isolation and self-judgement in the early years of motherhood. Along the way, they explore the difference between reacting and responding, why behaviour is really communication, and how showing empathy to our future selves can change the way we parent today. Listeners will come away with practical ways to catch their inner critic in action, ideas for staying curious instead of judgemental with their children, and a gentle reminder that struggling doesn't mean failing. If you've ever wondered whether you're doing enough as a parent, this honest, warm conversation is for you. Press play and give yourself permission to lighten up. KEY TAKEAWAYS Notice when you're "looking for snakes" - our brains are wired with a negativity bias that makes us scan for threats and mistakes, so deliberately look for the good ("the flowers") in your child's behaviour rather than only clocking what's gone wrong. Get curious instead of judgemental when your child (or you) reacts strongly - ask "I wonder why that happened?" rather than jumping straight to fixing, correcting or assuming, since behaviour is communication, not a verdict on character. Practise empathy for your future self by setting things up the night before, whether that's prepping for tomorrow or simply pausing before reacting, so you're not leaving problems for a more stressed version of yourself to deal with. Watch for the "second arrow" - the extra suffering caused by berating yourself for struggling in the first place - and consciously choose not to pick it up when you're already having a hard day. Build genuine connection with other parents who can normalise the chaos; isolation amplifies self-doubt, while one honest conversation with someone in the same boat can be an enormous relief. QUOTES "I noticed the snake, not the flower." "Scripts aren't facts." "That second arrow is actually causing us way more suffering than necessary. We don't need to take the second arrow out - don't pick it up." "You don't have to believe every story your mind tells you. Sometimes the most compassionate thing we can do is pause, get curious and ask, is this actually true?" "If your future self could sit beside you right now, what would they thank you for?" TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk LINK TO THE INTERVIEW  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xPQKEwTz3BJIb4hsKlDRr?si=1a9a53ebd370492b  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/2-1-andy-baker-curiosity-beats-judgement-every-single-time/id6783327960?i=1000777473476  HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/   

THE INTERVIEW Why do so many parents end the day feeling like they're getting it wrong, even when they're trying their very best? In this conversation, Kathryn Lovewell and Liz Walker sit down with Andy Baker - bestselling author, behaviour specialist, and host of the Able to Care podcast - to unpack the invisible "scripts" that shape how we judge ourselves and our children. Andy shares how being the victim of violent crime at 16 sent him on a lifelong path into human psychology, and how that journey led him to a simple but powerful belief: understanding people starts with understanding ourselves. Listeners will learn why swapping judgement for curiosity changes everything, how the phrase "be good" often means nothing at all to a child, and why practising empathy for your future self can transform exhausted, reactive moments into calmer ones. This is a warm, honest, and genuinely practical conversation for any parent, carer, or educator ready to question the rules they didn't know they were following. Tune in for a conversation that might just change how you talk to yourself. KEY TAKEAWAYS Catch "should" and "shouldn't" language in your own head and swap it for "it would have been nice if" - this simple shift turns a rigid rule into a preference and instantly reduces frustration toward others. Practice "empathy to your future self" by pausing before reacting and asking how you'll feel about this moment tomorrow, not just how you feel about it right now. Replace vague instructions like "be good" with specific, explicit expectations - a child (like an employee) can't meet a standard that was never actually defined. Treat difficult emotions as data rather than a problem to solve immediately - sadness, guilt, and anger are information about unmet expectations, not proof that something is wrong with you. Build deliberate play, fun, and rest into daily life rather than leaving it to chance, since role-modelling balance teaches children more than any lecture about balance ever could. QUOTES "The opposite to anxiety isn't calm, it's trust." "None of us would want to be judged by our worst moment of who we are as a person, and yet we do it to others all the time." "If you're not okay, they're not okay." "I was really on the surface showing the world I've got my shit together. Underneath, I was that person in the toilet crying." "You are wonderful just the way you are, but that doesn't mean there's not room for improvement." TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/   

In this meditation episode, Liz introduces a gentle guided meditation led by Kathryn. Drawing inspiration from teen self-compassion researcher Dr. Karen Bluth, this episode shifts the focus away from the youth in your life and places it entirely on you. As parents, teachers, and caregivers, the most powerful tool we have is not a facade of perfection, but how we navigate our own moments of falling short.  KEY TAKEAWAYS The Power of Imperfection: You don't need to have everything figured out to be a great role model.  The Background Hum: Beneath our daily actions runs a quiet internal commentary that often judges, evaluates, and finds fault. Becoming aware of this voice is the first step toward changing it. The Self-Compassion Gap: There is often a stark contrast between the gentle way we speak to loved ones and the harsh way we speak to ourselves. Bridging this gap is where true self-compassion begins. A Shared Human Experience: Feeling inadequate, isolated, or overwhelmed is not a personal failure. It is a universal thread of the shared human condition. The Blueprint for the Next Generation: Children are incredibly observant; they absorb how we treat ourselves when things go wrong. The voice we use internally becomes the blueprint for their own inner dialogue. QUOTES "The most powerful thing that you can model is not having it all together. It’s knowing what to do when you don’t." "The gap between how we speak to the people we love and how we speak to ourselves is exactly where self-compassion begins." "You are a person who's trying... a human being in this world, this challenging world right now. And that's not nothing, that is actually quite a lot." "Sometimes we can experience feelings of not being enough, of being isolated, of struggling... These are not personal failures. They are the human experience." "The voices our children grow up with begin with the ones that they hear from us, including the ones that we use about ourselves." TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk LINK TO THE INTERVIEW & CONVERSATIONS Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7EfvwLr0mnzbBtsWljkk0b?si=88433039d9ea4712  https://open.spotify.com/episode/1g6mcqMihKtcOOSrvWMtww?si=6481657865f34451  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/1-1-dr-karen-bluth-why-self-compassion-matters-more/id6783327960?i=1000777473058  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/1-2-how-self-compassion-helps-teens-cope-with-lifes/id6783327960?i=1000777473498  HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com Kathryn Lovewell | LinkedIn Liz Walker | LinkedIn CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of The Inner Voice Lab. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/  

THE CONVERSATION Your teenager doesn't need to get it right. They need to know how to be kind to themselves when they don't. In this debrief episode, Kathryn Lovewell and Liz Walker sit down to unpack the ideas that stayed with them after their conversation with Dr Karen Bluth, creator of Mindful Self-Compassion for Teens. They explore why self-compassion is so often misunderstood, why teenage pushback can actually be a healthy sign of growing independence, and what it really means to model self-compassion openly rather than privately. Along the way, they share honest personal stories - from burnt dinners to teenage heartbreak - that bring the research to life. Listeners will come away understanding why self-compassion is a learnable skill at any age, how modeling it benefits the whole family, and why reminding a teen "you matter" may be one of the most powerful things a parent can do. Grab a cuppa and join them in the lounge for this warm, reflective conversation. KEY TAKEAWAYS Recognise that self-compassion is a learnable skill, not an innate trait - it can be developed at any age, even well into adulthood. Model self-compassion out loud rather than privately, so teens can see and absorb the behaviour, since they learn far more from what they observe than what they're told. Treat teenage pushback and disagreement as a healthy sign of individuation, not a problem to fix or take personally. Practice compassionate listening during a teen's hard moments - sit beside them without trying to fix, minimise, or lighten the situation. Build a daily habit of noticing and naming the good, using it as an antidote to the negativity bias that teens (and adults) default to. QUOTES "Teens don't need to be perfect. They need the skills to support themselves when life gets hard.” "We motivate ourselves with kindness, not with a great big stick." "Everything that looks like struggle is actually healthy."  "Your young people are listening far less to what you tell them to do, and far more to how you speak to yourself." "Resilience isn't built through criticism. It's built through connection." TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk LINK TO THE INTERVIEW  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7EfvwLr0mnzbBtsWljkk0b?si=3961673ce3894cc2  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/1-1-dr-karen-bluth-why-self-compassion-matters-more/id6783327960?i=1000777473058  HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/  

THE INTERVIEW What if the biggest challenge facing today's teens isn't exams or peer pressure, but the voice inside their own head? In this conversation, Kathryn Lovewell and Liz Walker sit down with Dr Karen Bluth, researcher, author, and creator of Mindful Self-Compassion for Teens, to explore why adolescence can feel so overwhelming and what actually helps. Drawing on nearly two decades in the classroom and years of research, Karen unpacks why teenage pushback is a natural part of individuation, how parents can model self-compassion instead of self-criticism, and why one simple message - you matter - can change a young person's trajectory. Listeners will learn how self-compassion is a trainable skill at any age, why noticing joy and gratitude counteracts the teenage negativity bias, and practical first steps for supporting a struggling teen without needing clinical training. Tune in for an honest, research-backed conversation every parent, carer, and educator needs to hear. KEY TAKEAWAYS Recognise that teenage pushback and disagreement is a normal, healthy sign of individuation - not a problem to fix or take personally. Model self-compassion openly in front of your teen, since kids internalise the behaviour they observe far more than what they're told. Use the "doubt the doubt" reframe when self-criticism arises - question whether the critical voice is even accurate before believing it. Build a daily habit of noticing small moments of joy and gratitude, since teens (and adults) default to a strong negativity bias. Repeat one core message to your teen consistently: they matter, exactly as they are, even if they push the message away. QUOTES "What if the biggest challenge facing today's teens isn't exams or peer pressure? What if it's the voice inside their own head?" "There's nothing wrong with you. This is the human experience, and we all go through this." "In order to model self-compassion, you have to be actually doing it. You can't fake it." "Doubt the doubt." "They matter, that the world needs them, the world needs their unique voice." TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/ 

Raising Kind Minds asks: What sort of voice will your child grow up with? Because every word they say to themselves begins with what they hear from you. Hosted by Kathryn Lovewell and Liz Walker of Kind Mind Academy, this podcast helps parents, carers, and educators shape the inner voices of the next generation and strengthen their own along the way. When we nurture a child’s inner voice to be kind, we equip them with the skills to navigate and cope with friendship fires, playground dramas, teenage storms, exam pressures, social media influence, and all the challenges of modern life with confidence and calm. Each episode blends expert insights, real‑life stories, and practical mindfulness and self‑compassion tools to help adults learn and model healthy self‑talk, soothe their inner critic, and guide children to do the same. Grounded in evidence‑based methods from Mindful Self‑Compassion, positive psychology, and neuroscience, Raising Kind Minds is your invitation to think kinder, feel stronger, and raise children who are happy in their own skin. HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of The Inner Voice Lab. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. LINKS https://kindmindacademy.com/ https://theboosterway.com/ www.linkedin.com/in/kathrynlovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizwalker8/

THE CONVERSATION Ever caught yourself losing your cool over screen time or stressing about getting every single parenting decision right? You are certainly not alone! In this warm reflection, we unpack our recent conversation with therapist Joy Huang, exploring the universal pressures families face regardless of culture or background. From heated "hot wars" and distant "cold wars" over devices to the heavy burden of trying to raise a "successful" child, we dive deep into why so many of our reactions are actually driven by hidden fear and shame. We discuss why striving for a "10 out of 10" parent rating is setting us up to fail, and how aiming to be a "good enough" parent creates a far healthier space for everyone. Plus, we explore the beautiful bonsai tree analogy—learning to respect our children's unique nature rather than forcing them into an ideal shape.  Key Takeaways Shift from Perfection to "Good Enough": Striving to be a perfect parent creates unnecessary pressure; aiming for "good enough" builds a healthier family environment. Fear Drives Reactions: Household conflicts, especially over devices, are often fuelled by underlying parent anxiety about a child's future. Embody Self-Care First: Children absorb how adults treat themselves; modelling self-compassion teaches kids how to handle their own stress. Respect Unique Natures: Like bonsai trees, children thrive when their unique individuality is nurtured rather than aggressively shaped. Pause to Reconnect: Taking a brief moment to stop and check in with your inner voice allows you to respond from wisdom rather than panic. Quotes Direct from Transcript "What if being a good enough parent is actually healthier than trying to be a perfect one?" "Your voice today becomes their voice tomorrow." "Our kids learn by what you do, not our words." "Better to be ourself, not our better self." "Can we allow ourselves to be that messy human that we are?" Episode Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to the Lounge: Unpacking Joy’s Insights 01:40 – Hot Wars, Cold Wars, and Family Conflict 05:15 – The 3 Parent Traps Driving Household Tension 10:10 – Device Warfare: Why Reactions Stem from Fear 15:10 – 3 Simple Steps to Stop Yelling and Start Tending 18:15 – Why Aiming for a 10/10 Parent Rating Fails Us 21:00 – The Burden of Proving You’re a Good Parent 25:30 – Modeling Self-Compassion for Our Children 30:30 – The Bonsai Tree: Respecting Your Child’s Nature 33:00 – Be Yourself, Not Your "Better" Self TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk LINK TO THE INTERVIEW Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0FrmtYb3WSe4UJ6E0e17jV Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/4-1-joy-huang-why-your-inner-voice-matters-more-than/id6783327960?i=1000779587789 HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@raisingkindmindspodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

THE INTERVIEW What if the greatest gift you could give your child isn't academic success, but the way you talk to yourself when things go wrong? In this episode, we sit down with Joy Huang, founding lead trainer at Hailan Family Wellbeing in China, to explore how self-compassion can completely redefine family dynamics. From heated screen-time arguments to the heavy burden of trying to be a "perfect" parent, Joy shares gentle, practical insights on shifting from fear-based reactions to calm, wise responses. We discuss why children absorb our daily habits far more than our advice, how to quiet the harsh inner critic, and why embracing being "good enough" offers families room to breathe, repair, and flourish. Whether you're navigating daily household stresses or struggling with parental guilt, this conversation is an encouraging reminder that loving yourself is where true family transformation begins. 5 Key Takeaways Modeling Over Instruction: Children absorb how adults treat themselves during moments of stress far more than verbal advice. The "Good Enough" Standard: Releasing the pressure of 100% perfection allows parents to respond from wisdom rather than guilt or fear. Internal Dialogue Drives Reactions: Pausing to listen to inner anxiety or anger helps prevent harsh outbursts during family conflicts. Immediate Relationship Repair: Acknowledging lost temper on the same day models healthy accountability and emotional regulation. Ripple Effect of Compassion: Cultivating self-care in one caregiver can positively impact dynamics across multiple generations. 5 Direct Quotes "You’re going to love yourself before you can truly love your children." "We don’t need to be in a better self. We need to be better at being ourselves." "All parents who love their children will feel the way you are in your situation." "You are a human being with limitations... but make sure that in all situations, you tried your best." "It’s about being willing to return, repair, and reconnect." Chapter Timestamps 00:00 – The Power of Your Inner Voice 03:15 – Understanding Cultural Expectations & Parental Pressure 07:53 – Community-Based Peer Support & Connection 16:30 – De-escalating Screen Time Battles 21:40 – Moving From Reaction to Wise Communication 29:15 – Embracing the 60% "Good Enough" Parent 33:20 – How Repairing After Conflict Teaches Children 47:45 – Practical Mindfulness Exercises for Kids 01:01:35 – 3 Steps to Cultivate Everyday Self-Compassion TAKE THE SELF-TALK QUIZ https://bit.ly/RKMSelfTalk HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS https://RaisingKindMindsPodcast.com https://KindMindAcademy.com https://TheBoosterWay.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/KathrynLovewell https://www.linkedin.com/in/LizWalker8 CONNECT WITH RKM ON SOCIALS https://www.facebook.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.instagram.com/RaisingKindMindsPodcast https://www.youtube.com/@raisingkindmindspodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@RaisingKindMindsPodcast HOST BIOS Kathryn Lovewell is the founder of Kind Mind Academy, an award-winning international speaker and best-selling author specialising in Self-Compassion. A Senior Certified Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher and creator of The Booster Way®, she has spent over a decade helping adults, families, and educators transform self-criticism into confidence and self-trust. Kathryn blends science, storytelling, and humour to make personal growth relatable, and accessible. She’s real, she’s been there, and she’s passionate about helping people stop beating themselves up and start living happier, kinder lives. Grounded, heartfelt, and a little mischievous, Kathryn believes laughter and compassion are equally powerful medicine. Liz Walker is the co-founder of Kind Mind Academy and co-host of Raising Kind Minds. Known for her warmth, humour, and emotional intelligence, Liz brings genuine humanity to every conversation. With decades of experience in business, personal development and client care, she pairs practical wisdom with deep compassion. Liz doesn’t do hype; she believes real change begins with honesty, kindness, and a good laugh at ourselves now and then. She is passionate about helping people feel seen, safe, and supported as they learn to lead their lives with more self-belief and joy. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/