In this episode, we tell the story of how our podcast got its very particular name and how our multicultural backgrounds have brought us to interrogate ourselves regarding issues like nationality, identity, and sense of belonging.

After sharing our own crazy mixed-up stories of how we grew up and got to where we are today, Hazel and I discuss the various doubts and concerns that naturally arise when discussing our backgrounds. It all begins with that harrowing question… “So, where are you from?”.

Some of the topics we touch on  are:

• Nationality versus identity
• What do you feel versus how you are perceived?
• What are the pros and cons of living across borders?
• Where is home? A place? A feeling?
• How has mobility changed over the years?
• What are the superpowers of people who grow up multiculturally?

Come enter our crazy, multilingual, international world and explore these questions and so much more as we open up about our personal experiences over a cup of coffee, Americano, espresso, cafe solo, or whatever gets you moving!

In this episode, Hazel and I explore the dynamics of being in relationships with partners from diverse cultural backgrounds and the unique challenges that arise. While my husband and I share Italian roots, we were raised in different countries, each with its own customs and traditions. Similarly, Hazel and her husband communicate in Spanish but hail from entirely distinct cultures.

Join us as we delve into a variety of intriguing topics:

• Does sharing a language equate to having a shared cultural connection?
• What challenges arise when marrying someone from a different cultural background?
• What are the common clashes and complexities in multicultural marriages?
• How does raising children influence relationships between couples from vastly different backgrounds?
• What lessons can we learn from these experiences, and how do we foster growth and empathy?
• Is the root of conflict always cultural, or do familial customs play a significant role?
• Do bilingual couples switch languages based on the topic of conversation?
• How does living far from family impact a relationship?

We enjoyed a lively conversation filled with humor and anecdotes about the ups and downs of intercultural relationships. We discovered that every family, regardless of origin, has its own cultural norms. Many challenges faced by intercultural couples mirror those experienced by partners from the same hometown. Ultimately, the foundation of a successful relationship lies in communication, empathy, and a willingness to learn and grow together, no matter the language spoken. Tune in for an engaging discussion that celebrates love across cultures!

Jen Brister and her Spanish mum https://www.instagram.com/p/DAQPHc9sOFF/ 

“How to Avoid Getting 'Hit by Air' in Italy” by Dany  Mitzman - BBC  https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-15987082

“Building a Successful Intercultural Marriage and Family” - Grant Hilary Brenner MD, DFAPA  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/experimentations/202401/building-a-successful-intercultural-marriage-and-family

Come enter our crazy, multilingual, international world and explore these questions and so much more as we open up about our personal experiences over a cup of coffee, Americano, espresso, cafe solo, or whatever gets you moving!