Explore every episode of the podcast Productly Speaking: Real Stories for Product Managers
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| S6E4: Zero Budget, Six Figures Later with Razy Shah | 28 juil. 2026 | 00:43:04 | |
When execution stops being hard, what becomes visible? For Razy Shah, it was a three-hour meeting with a restaurateur who had no budget. He went in planning to spend an hour. He left energized but uncertain. Years later, that meeting turned into a six-figure contract. This isn't a story about networking strategy or playing the long game. It's about what we choose when nothing is forcing our hand. As AI takes over more execution, the space between what we can do and what we should do gets wider. Razy runs a digital marketing agency that lost its first client to ChatGPT in May 2023. He's spent the years since asking what matters when the craft becomes cheap. This conversation is about judgment, restraint, human connection, and the moments that don't look important until much later. About the Guest: Razy Shah is the co-founder of a digital marketing agency he's been running for over a decade, working with small businesses, startups, and large companies across Southeast Asia. Quotable Moments: "The hardest thing to choose is restraint. Making sure that even though the AI has written my LinkedIn post, I put in the time, the care to look through it, to improve it further." "We are all very fixated on the short term outcome. We don't think of the longer term potential benefits. You're just very short term, very outcome driven, not so much long term thinking and relationship driven." "Across all of these countries, the top thing that people cited was human connection. That's the only thing that we can do in the age of AI. We have to go out there more, meet people, connect, provide value." Resources Mentioned:
Listen and Connect: If you've ever said yes to something that didn't make sense on paper, or found yourself wondering what still matters when the work gets easier, this one's for you. Subscribe to Productly Speaking wherever you listen, and if this episode landed, share it with someone who's trying to figure out what good work looks like right now. | |||
| S6E3: What Listening Actually Costs with Stan Slovin | 21 juil. 2026 | 00:46:40 | |
Have you ever walked out of a meeting convinced everyone was aligned, only to discover weeks later that half the team heard something completely different? Stan Slovin has spent years working with leaders who thought they were listening, until the silence, the turnover, and the failed projects proved otherwise. In this conversation, we dig into the small tells that reveal when someone has stopped hearing you, the moment a CEO's dinner table question changed his relationship with his daughter, and why the impulse to solve instead of listen might be costing you more than you realize. This isn't about communication frameworks or active listening checklists. It's about what actually happens when people feel unheard, and the surprisingly simple shifts that turn surface interactions into conversations that build trust, clarity, and better work. Quotable Moments: "When you talk, you're only repeating what you already know. But when you listen, you actually may learn something." "The number one reason clients leave is never because of performance. It's because they feel that they were not listened to." "Listen more and say less. Because that's really where it comes down to." About the Guest: Stan Slovin works with leaders and teams in high-stakes environments where listening isn't optional. He's the author of a book on better listening and has seen firsthand what happens when the people doing the work feel like their voices don't matter. Call-to-Action: Next time someone on your team starts talking, try this: don't solve, don't respond, don't finish their sentence. Just ask them to tell you more. You might be surprised by what you've been missing. If this episode landed for you, share it with a PM who needs the reminder that listening is still the most underrated skill we have. Resources:
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| S6E2: When the To-Do List Is the Identity with Alex Adamopoulos II | 14 juil. 2026 | 00:47:05 | |
Have you ever sat through yet another transformation announcement and quietly thought, "here we go again"? Alex Adamopolous II has lived through enough of those moments to know the truth: organizations don't struggle with new processes. They struggle with the humans trying to figure them out. In this conversation, Alex shares what 45% of workers won't tell you in surveys about burnout, the wardrobe app startup that failed because they asked all the wrong questions, and why AI is creating the pressure test that product people have been both asking for and dreading. We talk about the gap between learning something in a training room and actually applying it when the stakes are real, the discomfort of embracing ambiguity when moving from project to product thinking, and what happens when teams suddenly have time for strategic work but aren't sure they can deliver it. This is transformation fatigue, methodology dependency, and the messy truth about change, told by someone who helps teams navigate it every day. Guest Alex Adamopolous II leads product development at Emerge and has spent years helping organizations navigate the human side of transformation. He specializes in work-based learning and building product capabilities in teams transitioning from project-based to product-led thinking. Quotable Moments "We were more obsessed with the shiny object, the idea of an app that could help people manage their wardrobe. Today, looking back, we would have killed the idea sooner if we had recognized those product management challenges more up front." "Transformation fatigue honestly looks like exhaustion with the same initiatives or what appears to be the same initiatives being instituted by leadership over and over again." "Just because AI can get things done at the speed of light doesn't mean that all of our human experience is immediately invalidated. We have to remain critical thinkers in the way that we use AI." "It's now a pressure test. Are we capable of that strategic work that we always wanted more time for? And interestingly enough, I think this is an opportunity rather than a negative." Resources Emergn Reports and Research:
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| S6E1: Nobody Said No with Richard Abi Chahla | 07 juil. 2026 | 00:48:36 | |
What happens when you spend eight months building something impressive, only to discover the people who promised to use it actually don't want it? Richard Abi Chahla knows that moment. The deflation. The walk back to the team. The hard conversation about wasted months and sweat equity. In this conversation, Richard shares what he learned from that 2016 failure and how he now uses AI not to build faster, but to learn faster. We dig into the messy reality of validating your riskiest assumptions first instead of the comfortable ones, why having a confident CEO armed with ChatGPT can be dangerous, and the three pillars every startup must stand on before writing a single line of code. If you've ever felt the pull to just keep building because stopping feels too painful, this one's for you. GuestRichard Abi Chahla helps subject matter experts and founders use AI to accelerate product discovery and validation. He has been building startups since 2011 and now uses AI to compress market research from weeks into days, but only after learning the hard way what happens when you skip the uncomfortable questions. Quotable Moments"If it's going to fail, let it fail in the research phase or let it fail in the validation phase. It's better than it failing whenever you have poured a lot of development money on it." "I am not smarter than you. I just tried more times than you've done. I just failed more times than you have tried." "The issue that I've done early on was that I was trying to avoid the riskiest assumption. I was trying to postpone it because I want to hear the good things." Resources Mentioned
If you've learned something the hard way in product, or you're currently staring down a risky assumption you'd rather not validate, we want to hear from you. Share your story, your question, or just say hello at productly.fm. And if this episode resonated, please share it with another product person who might need to hear it. We're all figuring this out together. | |||
| S5E4: Authenticity Over 'Fake It': Lessons in Leadership and Life with Reese Gifford | 05 mai 2026 | 00:35:23 | |
At some point in your career, you have to decide who you’re going to be when things are uncomfortable. In this episode of Productly Speaking, returning guest Reese Gifford joins Karl Abbott to talk about authenticity and humility, not as polished leadership traits, but as choices made under pressure. The kind that cost you something in the moment and only make sense later. Reese reflects on entering tech in the late 90s as a young woman with no roadmap, learning early that preparation wasn’t about impressing people. It was about survival. She shares what it felt like to be underestimated in public, to carry the weight of always being “ready,” and to unlearn the belief that strength means having it all together. They dig into the moments product leaders know well but rarely talk about. The pause before responding when someone comes at you hard. The risk of saying “I don’t know” in a room that expects certainty. The quiet judgment call between speaking up and staying silent, and how either choice will be interpreted. This conversation isn’t about getting it right. It’s about keeping your integrity when the incentives pull you in other directions. About doing your homework, telling the truth kindly, and choosing honesty even when it complicates things. If you’ve ever wondered whether being thoughtful is read as weakness, or whether slowing down might actually move things forward, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best possible way. Quotable Moments
About the Guest Reese Gifford is a product and technology leader with a career spanning cloud, security, open source, and global platforms. She has led work at the intersection of innovation and real-world impact, and brings a deeply human perspective shaped by decades of learning, unlearning, and showing up with care.
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Call to Action If this episode felt familiar in that quiet, uncomfortable way, you’re not alone. Share it with someone who’s trying to do good work without losing themselves in the process. Subscribe wherever you listen, and pass it along the old-fashioned way. Real stories still travel best by word of mouth. | |||
| S5E3: Navigating the Complexity of Product Leadership with Rick Lewis | 28 avr. 2026 | 00:37:13 | |
What if the moment everything tilts sideways at work could actually make you better at your job? In this episode, Rick Lewis sits down to talk about the messy middle of change, the kind that knocks the wind out of a team long before it becomes one of those polished “growth stories.” Rick brings stories from big reorganizations, mergers that paired frenemies into one team, and the kind of customer feedback loops that only surface after months of digging. He talks about the small, painfully human moments that happen when people cling to the old way because it feels safer, and the surprising clarity that shows up once you stop trying to control what can’t be controlled. There is a moment in this conversation where Rick describes two teams who once competed against each other suddenly being told they’re on the same side. The awkwardness, the reluctance, the gradual warmth that followed. If you've ever walked into a room where no one quite trusts the situation yet, this one will land close to home. And then there’s his simple, grounding ritual: stepping outside, clearing his head, and coming back to the problem with a little less fear and a lot more perspective. It’s the kind of habit product people rarely talk about but quietly rely on. This episode is for anyone who has ever looked at change and thought, “I know this is supposed to make sense eventually… but right now it just feels like loss.”
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About the Guest Rick Lewis is a product leader who has navigated startups, acquisitions, global teams and more than his share of thorny restructures. Formerly VP of Commercial Products at Element, he now works on AI solutions at Element Materials Technology. He brings a calm, grounded way of working that only comes from years spent facing ambiguity head on.
Call to Action If Rick’s stories helped you feel a little less alone in the chaos of product work, stick around. Subscribe, share the episode with someone who’s grappling with change of their own, or reach out if you’ve got a story that deserves some daylight. Product work is rarely tidy, but it goes down easier when we learn from each other. | |||
| S5E2: Finding Balance in Product Management with Katie Tamblin | 21 avr. 2026 | 00:49:36 | |
Ever had one of those weeks where the roadmap is bursting at the seams, everyone wants one more thing, and you can practically feel your balance slipping through your fingers? This conversation with Katie Tamblin goes right into that moment. Katie shares the kind of stories product people don’t usually admit out loud. There’s the time she walked into a team with seventy‑two product “priorities” taped around the room like a horror‑movie timeline and had to help the organization face the truth about impossibility. And the moment she realized she was about to pass along the very harm she was receiving from an overwhelmed manager and had to ask herself, “What kind of leader do I want to be?” What follows is an honest, funny, and surprisingly comforting look at how balance, empathy, humor, and human limits shape the work we do. Katie talks openly about burnout, unreasonable expectations, why saying no is an act of care, and how creativity survives only when we give ourselves actual space to think. If you’ve ever felt stretched thin or stuck between competing demands, this one might feel a little too real in the best possible way.
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About the Guest Katie Tamblin is a seasoned data and software advisor with more than twenty years leading product, data science, technology, and marketing teams. She’s also the author of The Lean-Agile Dilemma and someone who has lived through more than a few “how did we get here” product moments.
Call to Action If this episode made you feel a little more normal in the chaos of product work, you’re in good company. Subscribe, share it with a teammate who’s quietly drowning under too many priorities, or pass it along to the person who needs to hear that saying no is not a moral failing. Real product stories travel best person to person, usually over a much‑needed cup of coffee.
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| S5E1: From Punk Rock to Product Management with Scott McCarty | 14 avr. 2026 | 00:45:17 | |
Ever wonder how a punk‑rock kid hauling amps through Midwest basements ends up helping steer one of the world’s most widely used pieces of enterprise software? Yeah… us too. In this episode, Scott McCarty invites us into the winding, deeply human story behind his career — a life that didn’t unfold in straight lines so much as heartfelt pivots. Scott shares what it felt like when the band he’d poured his whole identity into began losing steam and what it meant to walk away from a dream with no backup plan except “maybe I should get a computer job.” He talks about the moment he first saw a command execute on a remote machine, a tiny spark of wonder that would eventually pull him into NASA, startups, and finally product management. Along the way we explore the late‑in‑life discovery that helped him make sense of all those turns, the surprising lessons buried in punk‑rock logistics, and the hard‑won understanding that you don’t need to be a superhero to make a difference. Sometimes your 3 percent of influence is enough. This is an episode about reinvention, humility, agency, and finding meaning in the mess. A warm, honest conversation for anyone who’s ever looked at their path and thought:
“How did I end up here… and does it all matter?”
Spoiler: it does. And Scott tells us why.
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About the Guest Scott McCarty is the Global Senior Principal Product Manager for Red Hat Enterprise Linux. His path from punk‑rock basements to enterprise software leadership is shaped by curiosity, resilience, and a willingness to step into the unknown. After roles in sysadmin work, NASA, startups, sales, and product marketing, he found his home in product management, where he helps guide one of the most widely used Linux platforms in the world.
Call to Action If Scott’s story rings true to your own winding journey in product work, share this episode with someone who might need that same bit of encouragement today. Subscribe and leave a quick review so more real product stories can find the people who need them. And if you’ve got a messy path or hard‑earned lesson of your own, reach out. Productly Speaking is where stories like yours finally get their space.
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| Season 5 Trailer: The Human Side of Product Management | 31 mars 2026 | 00:02:31 | |
Product management gets talked about like it’s all clarity, confidence, and momentum. But most of the time, it’s not. Season 5 of Productly Speaking explores the human side of product work — authenticity, balance, uncertainty, and values. These are conversations about what product management actually feels like when things are unclear, when the roadmap breaks, or when the rules everyone repeats stop making sense. This season features conversations with Scott McCarty, Katie Tamblin, and Rick Lewis, and closes with a conversation about values, integrity, and authenticity in leadership with Reese Gifford. I slowed the show down this season, reworking the sound and flow to make space for more honest, reflective conversations, the kind you usually only have after the meeting ends. No frameworks. No polished PM stories. Just real people talking about what actually happened and what it taught them. Season 5 launches April 14th, with new episodes released weekly. | |||
| S4E4: AI, Product Failure, and the Skills PMs Need for What’s Next with Dina Atia | 10 févr. 2026 | 00:32:56 | |
AI is supposed to feel magical. So why does it so often leave product teams confused, overpromised, or quietly disappointed? In this episode, Karl sits down with Dina Atia, a PM working on AI products at Microsoft, to talk about what it is actually like to build in the middle of the hype. Dina shares candid stories from the trenches, like watching teams chase “cool” AI ideas that never quite map to real human needs, and the moment she realized AI was not a mysterious genius but also definitely not “just matrix math,” either. Along the way, she tells a surprisingly relatable story about learning to solve a Rubik’s Cube, and why that experience changed how she thinks about intelligence, perception, and expectation‑setting with stakeholders. They also dig into the emotional side of AI adoption, including the fear of being made redundant, the discomfort around privacy and environmental impact, and the quiet tension PMs feel when bold visions collide with very incremental progress. This is a grounded, honest conversation about hype, disillusionment, and what it takes to keep building thoughtfully when everyone else wants miracles. If you have ever felt caught between excitement and skepticism, or responsible for translating big promises into something real, this one will hit close to home. Productly Speaking: where product management gets real. Key Quotes:
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| S4E3: Beyond Dogfooding: Balancing Complexity and Market Insight with Jake Bowen-Bate | 03 févr. 2026 | 00:33:16 | |
What if the thing you are closest to is actually what is blinding you? In this episode, Karl talks with Jake Bowen-Bate about the quiet, human challenges of building products in fast‑moving environments. Jake shares what it really feels like to work in places where you are building the plane, flying it, and still figuring out how the controls work, all while knowing the money might literally run out if you get it wrong. The pressure is real, the workload never quite matches the capacity, and the fear hums in the background more often than anyone likes to admit. They also dig into a surprisingly emotional story about “dogfooding” your own product. Jake reflects on the moment he stepped away from a product he had lived inside for years and started using the market leader instead. What he discovered was uncomfortable, eye‑opening, and deeply human. Features he once dismissed as nice to have suddenly became things he felt he could not live without. It forced him to confront how easy it is to lose empathy when familiarity turns into tunnel vision. This conversation is about curiosity, humility, and the emotional attachments users form that never show up neatly in a backlog. If you have ever felt stretched too thin, questioned your own assumptions, or realized a little too late that users care about things you overlooked, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar, in the best possible way. Key Quotes
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| S4E2: Why Lean and Agile Struggle in Chunky Corporates with Katie Tamblin | 27 janv. 2026 | 00:40:06 | |
What happens when all the advice you followed turns out to be wrong for the job in front of you? In this episode, Karl talks with Katie Tamblin about the lived reality of building products inside what she calls “chunky corporates” and why so many well‑intentioned product efforts quietly fall apart there. Katie shares hard‑earned stories from decades inside large organizations, including the moment she realized that everything she knew about building new products simply did not apply to replacing systems that people depended on every single day. She tells a vivid replatforming horror story where a team got all the way to the brink of launch, only to discover that almost none of the real data actually worked in the new system. What followed was not a quick fix, but an 18‑month delay, a lot of stress, and some very uncomfortable conversations. Along the way, she explains why customers will never happily “move into a tent” while you rebuild their house, no matter how optimistic the plan sounded on a slide. This is an honest, empathetic conversation about pressure, misalignment, investor expectations, and the emotional toll of trying to modernize systems without breaking trust. If you have ever felt stuck between how product work is supposed to look and how it actually feels inside a big organization, this episode will make you feel very seen. Featured Quote: "Lean and Agile were designed for building software for the first time that no one’s using yet. Chunky corporates are managing decades of existing products and data—that’s a completely different beast." – Katie Tamblin What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
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| S4E1: From Failure to Breakthrough: The Product Manager’s Journey with Lee Fischman | 20 janv. 2026 | 00:37:03 | |
Have you ever realized a mistake only after you hit send? In this episode, Karl sits down with Lee Fischman to talk about the very human side of product work, the part that rarely makes it into neat success stories. Lee shares lessons shaped by decades of building products across wildly different industries, including the hard-earned habit of letting every message sit before responding. Not because it sounds wise, but because he learned the consequences the painful way, more than once. They also revisit a moment when a product seemed completely dead on arrival. While working on an internal chatbot platform with almost zero adoption, Lee chose an uncomfortable path and reshaped how the product showed up for its users. That shift did not come from clever ideas, but from paying attention to how people actually worked and what they needed help with, even when it conflicted with how the product was “supposed” to be used. Along the way, the conversation touches on humility, messy communication, navigating difficult personalities, and why product management is ultimately about people, not artifacts. If you have ever felt the weight of unclear expectations, second-guessed a decision after making it, or wondered how much of this job is really about human relationships, this episode will feel like a knowing nod rather than a lecture. Key Quotes:
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| Season 4 Introduction | 13 janv. 2026 | 00:01:39 | |
Welcome to Season 4 of Productly Speaking! In this short kickoff episode, host Karl Abbott introduces the theme for the season: Why do products fail and what can we learn from those failures? We’ll explore the hidden risks, organizational dynamics, and human factors that shape product success or lead to disaster. If you’re a product manager, founder, or anyone building products, this season will challenge your assumptions and help you think differently about success and failure! Subscribe so that you don't miss an episode! | |||
| S3E5: The Truth About Roadmaps: Why Dates Don't Deliver with Janna Bastow | 12 août 2025 | 00:35:41 | |
Have you ever put something on a roadmap knowing, deep down, it probably was not going to happen on that date? In this episode, Karl talks with Janna Bastow about the uncomfortable truth behind most roadmaps and the moment she realized they were quietly training teams to overpromise. Janna shares the story of building her first roadmap tool and the surprising pattern that emerged when almost every product manager came back asking to “just move everything over by a month.” It was not a tooling problem. It was a human one. That realization led to a rethink of what roadmaps are actually for and a format that gave teams permission to be honest about uncertainty without losing credibility. Janna reflects on the tension of showing direction without false precision, the pressure to make promises you cannot keep, and the relief that comes when stakeholders finally see a roadmap as a conversation instead of a contract. This is a warm, candid conversation about trust, expectation‑setting, and why product work so often feels like balancing honesty with survival. If you have ever felt anxious presenting a roadmap, exhausted by shifting dates, or quietly blamed yourself for things slipping, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. Key Quotes
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| S3E4: Open Source, Real Business: Lessons from Mozilla and Microsoft with Reese Gifford | 05 août 2025 | 00:28:16 | |
What happens when the people building your product do not work for your company, and still feel deep ownership over every decision? In this episode, Karl talks with Reese Gifford about the lived reality of building products in open source, where community passion can be both your greatest strength and your hardest constraint. Reese shares what it was like stepping into Mozilla, falling in love with the mission, and then navigating the very human tension between keeping Firefox open and free while still figuring out how to keep the lights on. She tells candid stories about moments where product decisions sparked community backlash, including the pushback around Firefox accounts and monetization efforts that made sense for the business but felt uncomfortable for users who believed everything should remain untouched. These were not abstract tradeoffs. They were emotional, public, and deeply personal conversations about trust, privacy, and sustainability. This is an honest look at product management without a clear chain of command, where influence matters more than authority and where doing the “right” thing rarely pleases everyone. If you have ever struggled to balance ideals with reality, or felt the weight of decisions that affect people far beyond your org chart, this conversation will stay with you. Key Quotes:
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| S3E3: How to Make Pigs Fly (and Other PM Miracles) with Ali Rakhimov | 29 juil. 2025 | 00:34:11 | |
What if being a great product manager had less to do with sounding smart and more to do with getting your hands dirty? In this episode, Karl talks with Ali Rakhimov about a product career that started far away from tech titles, roadmaps, or polished decks. Ali shares how he quite literally tripped into product work while trying to solve real problems in K–12 schools, like watching student cash disappear at the front office and deciding someone had to fix it. No role, no playbook, just curiosity and a willingness to tinker until something worked. Ali also tells the deeply personal story behind his book, Make Pigs Fly, and why it was written to be read in stolen moments of quiet. As an immigrant learning English through short, memorable phrases, he explains how storytelling and simple language became survival tools long before they became professional skills. Along the way, he reflects on burnout, learning to say no, telling bad jokes that no one laughs at, and why confidence is built by failing in public and coming back anyway. This is a warm, honest conversation about blue‑collar product work, the courage to ask “dumb” questions, and why the best PMs are builders at heart. If you have ever felt like you did not belong, struggled to be understood, or wondered whether you were doing product “the right way,” this episode is a reminder that showing up, trying, and caring still counts for a lot. About the Book
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| S3E2: Remote Realities: Product Management in a Hybrid World with Flora Taagen | 22 juil. 2025 | 00:40:16 | |
What if your path into product management started behind a coffee counter, in the middle of a global pandemic? In this episode, Karl talks with Flora Taagen about a journey into product management that looks nothing like a straight line. Flora shares how she went from studying computer science to serving coffee during COVID, where suddenly “making coffee” also meant rethinking safety, budgets, and how a small business survives when the rules change every week. That experience, it turns out, translated surprisingly well into product work. She also reflects on discovering the PM role for the first time through a Microsoft program led by two women who helped her see that big‑picture thinking, empathy, and curiosity mattered just as much as technical depth. From volunteering in healthcare to working on Azure Linux with teammates spread across the world, Flora talks candidly about learning where she adds the most value and how customer impact became her guiding motivation. The conversation digs into the lived reality of working on truly distributed teams, where video calls are the office, hallway conversations have to be intentional, and showing up on camera can make the difference between connection and isolation. Flora also shares how AI tools have quietly changed her day‑to‑day work, not by replacing judgment, but by helping her stay present, ask better questions, and move faster without burning out. This is a thoughtful, grounded episode about finding your way into product, building trust at a distance, and learning that the skills you pick up in unexpected places often matter more than the ones you think you’re missing. Key Quotes
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| S3E1: Teaching Product Through Real World Experiences: A Conversation with Adil Hussain | 15 juil. 2025 | 00:37:40 | |
What if you were already doing product work years before you ever heard the job title? In this episode, Karl talks with Adil Hussain about a path into product management that started with a teenage side project and quietly grew into a career. Adil shares how, at just 14, he and a co‑founder were building websites, talking to users, and figuring out what people actually needed, without realizing they were doing product work at all. It wasn’t until much later, sitting in a tiny meeting room with a manager and a PM, that the pieces finally clicked. Adil reflects on coming from customer support, spending his days on the phone with real users, hearing frustrations firsthand, and mentally sketching how he would fix things if the product were his. That experience shaped how he thinks about saying no, telling better stories, and carrying responsibility once you’re no longer allowed to quietly promise “we’ll add it to the backlog.” The conversation also weaves through Adil’s time in government and the private sector, including a moment helping his mum renew her passport online that crystallized what good digital services can feel like when they actually work. Along the way, he talks candidly about mentoring aspiring PMs, breaking down buzzwords into plain language, and why real product work looks nothing like the polished posts you see online. This is a warm, grounded episode about learning product by doing it, caring deeply about users, and discovering that the most valuable skills often come from places that don’t look like “product” at all. Resources Mentioned
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| S2E5: Dealing with High Stress Environments with Kevin Bailey | 18 mars 2025 | 00:29:55 | |
What happens when the thing you worked so hard to build starts quietly working against you? In this episode, Karl talks with Kevin Bailey about the hidden cost of high‑growth success and what burnout really looks like when it sneaks up on you. Kevin shares the story of building a bootstrapped startup with two friends in his twenties, watching it explode from a team of three to over a hundred people, and suddenly feeling the shift from excitement to fear. What once felt creative and energizing turned into pressure, scarcity, and constant mental noise, all while juggling a new baby and very little sleep. He reflects candidly on the moment he realized most of his stress wasn’t coming from what was actually happening, but from the stories he was telling himself about the future. From there, Kevin describes how learning mental performance tools normally reserved for elite athletes changed how he handled uncertainty, setbacks, and the constant weight of leadership. The conversation explores what it feels like to live in fight‑or‑flight at work, why negativity can take over even when things look “successful” from the outside, and how small shifts in awareness can help you get back to doing your best work instead of just surviving the day. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own head, exhausted by the pressure to perform, or worried that burnout is becoming your default state, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best possible way. Quotes: "The vast majority of our stress is perceived stress. If you're, you know, on a bench press or something trying to put up your max weight, that's going to be real stress in the moment. But the vast majority of our stress is fear of the future, rumination on the past." "In order to be able to get into flow state, you have to be able to recognize what pulls you out of flow state." Guest Information:
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| S2E4: Navigating the Intersection of Product and Sales with Richard Cawkill | 11 mars 2025 | 00:33:39 | |
What really happens when sales and product have to sit in the same room and agree on what matters? In this episode, Karl talks with Richard Cawkill about the lived reality of working at the messy, often misunderstood intersection of sales and product. Richard shares what it feels like to carry a number, build long‑term relationships with customers, and still genuinely care about protecting the integrity of the product. From two‑year sales cycles to last‑minute deal pressure, he walks through the moments where collaboration either quietly works or very publicly falls apart. He reflects on a turning point in his own career, moving from a place where sales feedback felt invisible to one where he could actually see customer insights shaping what got built. That shift changed how he thought about trust, ownership, and why “just one deal” can’t always dictate the future of a product. Along the way, he offers a candid look at why salespeople can feel protective of accounts, why product teams can feel defensive of roadmaps, and how both sides are often reacting to the same pressures in different ways. The conversation also dips into Richard’s experience as a founder, building a sustainable watch brand on the side, and how that taught him what real ownership looks like when there’s no one else to hand decisions to. It’s a thoughtful, human discussion about pressure, alignment, and what it takes to actually work together instead of just saying you do. If you’ve ever felt the tension between closing today’s deal and building tomorrow’s product, or wondered why “we’re all on the same team” doesn’t always feel true, this episode will feel very familiar. Quotes:
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| S2E3: Navigating the Intersection of Product and Marketing with Austin Fuller | 04 mars 2025 | 00:37:33 | |
What if the biggest risk to your product isn’t what you build, but how you talk about it? In this episode, Karl sits down with Austin Fuller to unpack the very human tension between product and product marketing, and why getting that relationship wrong often shows up much later, in churn, confusion, or missed expectations. Austin shares what he’s learned from years of listening closely to customers and prospects, including why the most honest feedback often comes from people who haven’t bought yet and don’t feel the need to be polite. He tells stories from the middle of that sometimes‑awkward triangle between sales, marketing, and product, where everyone is trying to help but speaking slightly different languages. From uncovering overlooked use cases hidden inside the product to watching launches fall flat when teams aren’t aligned, Austin brings the conversation back to real moments where small disconnects quietly snowball into bigger problems for customers. This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation about curiosity, listening, and the cost of assumptions. If you’ve ever shipped something that didn’t land the way you expected, struggled to explain what makes your product special, or felt caught between what customers say they want and what the product can realistically deliver, this episode will feel both familiar and reassuring. Memorable Quotes from Austin Fuller: "Product marketing is taking your understanding of the product and the magic of the product and taking an understanding of the market and connecting the two." "A lack of alignment with product and marketing creates a lot of dysfunction for the customer. Expectations for the customer become misaligned with what you can deliver, which results in churn." "It becomes difficult to launch products and features when product and marketing aren't working well together." Call to Action: Follow Austin Fuller on LinkedIn. | |||
| S2E2: Managing Stress and Influence Without Authority with Keith Allen Johns | 25 févr. 2025 | 00:41:51 | |
Have you ever ended a workday exhausted, knowing you were busy all day, but unsure what actually moved forward? In this episode, Karl sits down with Keith Allen Johns to talk about the invisible weight product managers carry and why the stress of the role so often shows up at work and at home. Keith shares his own journey from climbing to the C‑suite to realizing that something still felt off, and how that search for “what’s missing” led him to work closely with product managers who feel responsible for everything but in control of very little. He tells vivid stories from his coaching practice, including a product manager who thought his biggest problem was being interrupted while working from home, only to discover it was fear, not frustration, driving his reactions. Another moment comes from a senior executive who started every day answering email in bed, convinced it was necessary, until a small change in awareness quietly transformed how she performed and felt at work. The conversation explores what it really means to influence without authority, why self‑awareness is a prerequisite for collaboration, and how storytelling becomes easier once you’re calm enough to truly see the people around you. This episode is a compassionate, practical look at how stress shapes our decisions and how stepping out of autopilot can make both product work and life feel more manageable. If product management has ever felt like a constant state of urgency, or if you’ve wondered why the job feels so heavy even when things are “fine,” this episode will feel like someone finally put words to it. Memorable Quotes from Keith Allen Johns:
Call to Action: Listeners are encouraged to connect with Keith Allen Johns on LinkedIn or visit his website at www.keithallenjohns.com to learn more about his coaching programs and upcoming events. | |||
| S2E1: Mastering the Craft of Product Management with Michael Palmer and Evie Brockwell | 18 févr. 2025 | 00:43:17 | |
What happens when two product people stop chasing perfection and start talking honestly about the job? In this episode, Karl is joined by Evie Brockwell and Michael Palmer for a wide-ranging, refreshingly human conversation about what product work really feels like day to day. Michael shares the excitement and pressure of stepping into BBC iPlayer, including the surreal experience of watching real people sit on a couch in a mock living room while testing new ideas for one of the UK’s most iconic platforms. It is a reminder that behind big brands and bold ambitions, product decisions still come down to watching humans struggle, succeed, and surprise you. Evie reflects on leaving a high-profile corporate career to work for herself, turning product thinking inward to test her own assumptions, experiment with different paths, and learn, sometimes the hard way, that passion and traction do not always show up where you expect them to. Together, they talk candidly about burnout, confidence, learning to say no, and the quiet damage that comes from letting your calendar run your life. The conversation also touches on growth, from learning to trust data without losing judgment, to using AI as a helpful assistant rather than a replacement for thinking. Through it all, Evie and Michael bring warmth, humor, and honesty to topics many product managers feel but rarely say out loud. If you have ever wondered whether you are focusing on the right things, felt overwhelmed by expectations, or wished product conversations sounded a little more real and a little less polished, this episode will feel like sitting down with peers who genuinely get it. Quotes:
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| S1E8: And Then I Went Ice Skating | 23 avr. 2024 | 00:36:11 | |
What do ice skating, a broken leg, and product management have in common? In this reflective season finale, Karl and Danielle look back on the first season of Productly Speaking through a story neither of them planned to tell. Karl shares the unexpectedly dramatic moment when a casual family ice skating trip ended with a broken leg, surgery, and weeks of forced stillness. What started as a personal setback became a powerful lesson in lived experience, empathy, and how much we take basic accessibility for granted until we lose it. That experience reshaped how Karl thinks about product work, slowing down, and truly understanding the people we build for. Together, Karl and Danielle connect that moment to the conversations they have had all season about curiosity, tinkering, burnout, and the emotional weight product managers carry. They talk honestly about empathy, not just for users and customers, but for teammates and for yourself, and how easily caring deeply about problems can slide into exhaustion. The episode weaves together stories from the season, from struggling with feedback and self doubt to learning how to care without taking on everyone else’s stress. It is thoughtful, personal, and quietly funny, including a sharpie carried everywhere just in case inspiration strikes, even if the only place to write is your own hand. If you have ever felt the emotional pull of product management, questioned your own impact, or needed a reminder that lived experience matters more than perfect process, this episode is a grounding and human way to close out the season. | |||
| S1E7: The Triad of Design, Engineering, and Product with Johannes Marbach and Callum Upfield | 16 avr. 2024 | 00:38:40 | |
What does great product work look like when everyone actually trusts each other? In this episode, Karl and Danielle sit down with Johannes and Callum for a candid conversation about what really happens when product, design, and engineering work well together. Both guests share lived experiences from inside teams where things either quietly clicked or slowly unraveled, often based on how early people talked, listened, and gave feedback. Johannes reflects on why knowing the “why” behind the work matters more than the tech itself, especially when you are responsible not just for code, but for people. Callum shares the designer’s side of the story, including the invisible thinking that goes into good design and the frustration of getting feedback too late, when there is no time left to change course. Together, they talk about moments where sharing unfinished work early made everything better, and moments where waiting too long made things harder than they needed to be. The conversation explores trust, feedback, and what it takes to speak with one voice as a team, even when there is healthy disagreement behind the scenes. There are honest reflections on documentation, collaboration, and the relief that comes when teams stop reacting and start feeling steady. This is a grounded, human episode about partnership and progress. If you have ever felt the tension between moving fast and doing good work, or wondered why some teams feel calm while others feel chaotic, this conversation will feel reassuringly familiar. | |||
| S1E6: The 2 Hour Design Sprint with Teresa Cain | 09 avr. 2024 | 00:37:08 | |
What if solving a hard product problem did not require days of meetings, just two focused hours and the right people in the room? In this episode, Karl and Danielle talk with Teresa Cain about the real moments that led her to rethink how teams solve problems together. Teresa shares how the pressure of remote work during the pandemic, combined with leadership expectations and life as a working parent, pushed her to find a faster and more human way to bring teams into alignment. What began as a practical workaround quickly became a repeatable approach that energized teams instead of draining them. She tells stories from inside organizations where trust was the biggest obstacle, not time. Teams struggled at first with the idea that everyone could contribute ideas equally, especially when senior leaders were in the room. Teresa explains how small shifts, like anonymizing ideas and tightly time‑boxing conversations, helped people speak up and actually listen to one another. The conversation also explores what happens after the session ends. Teresa is candid about how momentum can be lost if teams do not follow through, and why delivering on what was agreed matters just as much as the session itself. Along the way, she reflects on writing her book during an intense period of life, using writing as both a creative outlet and a way to make sense of everything she was learning. This is a thoughtful, practical episode about trust, focus, and the relief that comes when teams stop spinning and start moving together. If you have ever felt stuck between endless discussion and rushed decisions, this conversation offers a refreshing and very human perspective. | |||
| S1E5: Navigating the Beautiful Mess with John Cutler | 02 avr. 2024 | 00:40:34 | |
What happens when you stop looking for the “right” answer and start sitting with the mess instead? In this episode, Karl and Danielle talk with John Cutler about a product career that never followed a straight line. John shares stories from an eclectic early path, including dropping out of school, building a wildly inappropriate CD‑ROM bartending game in the late 90s, and learning the hard way that having a great idea does not guarantee anyone will distribute it. That experience, full of excitement, disappointment, and scrappy problem solving, quietly shaped how he thinks about products and people. John also reflects on why he started writing, not to teach or prescribe, but to think out loud. He talks candidly about The Beautiful Mess as a place to explore doubts, patterns, and uncomfortable truths about work, including the slow creep of self‑doubt and what he calls self gaslighting. Writing, for him, became a way to learn, to notice when he was getting stuck in his own head, and to remember that many others feel the same way, even if they rarely say it publicly. The conversation touches on the gap between how product work is often portrayed online and how it actually feels inside companies, the pressure to perform certainty in uncertain environments, and the quiet relief that comes from admitting you do not have it all figured out. There are moments of humor, humility, and honesty that make this episode feel more like a late‑night conversation than a lesson. If you have ever felt overwhelmed by expectations, questioned your own ability, or wondered whether it is okay to enjoy product work without turning it into your entire identity, this episode will feel deeply familiar. Show Notes: https://www.productlyspeaking.com/2024/04/02/episode-5-navigating-the-beautiful-mess-with-john-cutler/ | |||
| S1E4: Driving Success in Your Startup with Adam Strong | 26 mars 2024 | 00:35:53 | |
What does it really take to say no to a huge deal and mean it? In this episode, Karl sits down with Adam Strong for a candid, thoughtful conversation about the messy reality of product work and careers that rarely follow a straight line. Adam shares his journey from technical support and people management into product leadership, and eventually out the other side into solutions architecture, with honesty about the tradeoffs along the way. One story that really lands is Adam’s time at a scrappy startup, where he became a one‑person product team by necessity. He sold the product, ran demos, implemented it, trained customers, handled support, and wrote the documentation. It was exhausting, formative, and deeply clarifying. Another moment hits when he talks about the courage it takes to tell senior leadership not to close a lucrative deal because the customer is simply not a good fit, and why making that call is a quiet marker of real maturity. Karl and Adam explore what it feels like to sit with ambiguity, why unhappy customers are often the most valuable ones to talk to, and how product decisions tend to stick with you far longer than you expect. Adam also reflects on hiring, knowing when to step aside, and the satisfaction that comes from building something stable enough to hand off with confidence. This episode is grounded, honest, and refreshingly human. If you have ever questioned your career path, felt overwhelmed by competing inputs, or wondered whether it is okay to change direction after finding success, this conversation will feel like a welcome exhale. | |||
| S1E3: Customer Success Helps Focus Product Direction with Amy Taylor Mitchell and Trevor Mishler | 19 mars 2024 | 00:30:30 | |
What if your product problems are not really product problems at all, but expectation problems? In this episode, Karl and Danielle talk with Amy Taylor Mitchell and Trevor Mishler about what actually happens to young companies once the first customers say yes. Drawing from careers spent deep in customer conversations, Amy and Trevor share stories from early stage startups where excitement, pressure, and limited resources collide in ways that quietly shape the future of the business. Amy reflects on her journey from banking into technology during the 2008 crash, and how working across regions and cultures taught her that what customers expect can vary wildly depending on where they are and who they are. Trevor brings stories from startups that chased growth too quickly, closing deals that looked great on paper but created long term pain when customers were never quite the right fit. Together, they talk about the uncomfortable moments where saying no to a customer is actually the kindest thing you can do, and how misunderstanding value early on often leads to churn much later. There is also a powerful story about a customer who appeared happy by every measure, until a renewal conversation revealed a reality no dashboard had captured. This is a grounded, human conversation about listening closely, choosing deliberately, and resisting the urge to fix everything with more features. If you have ever wondered why a product that seems well loved still struggles to grow, or felt the tension between closing deals and setting honest expectations, this episode will feel both familiar and clarifying. | |||
| S1E2: Navigating the Challenge of Product Market Fit with Bob Handlin | 12 mars 2024 | 00:42:03 | |
What if being ten times better still is not enough? In this episode, Karl and Danielle talk with Bob Handlin about the hard lessons that only show up once a product meets the real world. Bob shares a story from his time working on a storage product that was undeniably fast, jaw‑dropping fast, the kind of performance that should have won the market on the spot. And yet, deal after deal fell apart when the people who had to use it every day realized it did not fit how they actually worked. Bob recounts traveling city to city, standing in parking lots at user groups just to start conversations, and slowly uncovering an uncomfortable truth. The product solved a technical problem brilliantly, but it asked too much of the people responsible for operating it. For them, “good enough” was already good enough. Speed was not the thing keeping them up at night. Another pivotal moment comes when Bob describes walking into his boss’s office after a year of effort and saying, plainly, this is not going to work. Letting go of something you believe in, after investing time, reputation, and energy, turns out to be one of the hardest calls a product manager can make. This is a thoughtful, experience‑driven conversation about humility, listening past the obvious signals, and recognizing when the real barrier is not the product itself, but the lives and pride wrapped around existing solutions. If you have ever wondered why a clearly better product struggles to land, or felt the weight of deciding when to stop pushing, this episode will resonate deeply. | |||
| S1E1: The Art of Revealing Customer Needs with Jennifer Scalf | 05 mars 2024 | 00:41:59 | |
What if the most important thing you can do with customer feedback is slow down and really listen? In this episode, Karl and Danielle are joined by Jennifer Scalf, someone who has spent nearly two decades living in the space between products and customers. Jennifer shares what it is actually like to walk into high‑stakes conversations where something is not working, tensions are high, and everyone wants an answer fast. Instead of rushing to solutions, she explains how presence, curiosity, and trust change the outcome of those moments. Jennifer tells stories from her own experience stepping into customer calls where she did not have every answer, but made it clear she believed the customer and was fully there with them. She talks about how simply showing someone that they are heard can unlock far more honest conversations, and how small details, like noticing how someone prefers to communicate, can instantly shift a relationship. The conversation also dives into the harder moments, when what a customer wants cannot or will not happen. Jennifer walks through how she brings those realities back with empathy, telling the story of the customer’s world and the product’s history in a way that respects both sides. It is thoughtful, human work that takes time, energy, and care. This episode is a warm, deeply practical reminder that signal rarely comes from louder voices or faster answers. It comes from attention. If you have ever struggled to separate real needs from noise, or felt the pressure to fix before you understand, Jennifer’s perspective will feel grounding, generous, and refreshingly real. | |||
| S0E4: Product Manager as Coach | 30 janv. 2024 | 00:39:42 | |
What can ice hockey teach you about being a better product manager? In this episode, Karl and Danielle explore the idea of the product manager as a coach, drawing inspiration from the fast, physical, and surprisingly strategic world of ice hockey. Karl shares a moment of realization while watching a game, noticing how coaches constantly adjust lines, manage energy, and respond in real time to what is unfolding on the ice. It turns into a thoughtful metaphor for product work, where decisions often need to be made quickly, with incomplete information, and with real people behind every move. They talk about the emotional side of coaching, too. What happens when a key player is suddenly out, when the team loses momentum, or when personalities clash. Those moments feel very familiar to anyone who has worked on a product team through change, burnout, or shifting priorities. The conversation highlights how much of the role is about protecting the team, keeping people motivated, and knowing when to step in and when to step back. The episode also digs into why simple labels like “mini CEO” fall short, and why coaching and conducting might be more useful ways to think about leadership in product. There is humor, curiosity, and plenty of honest reflection about how nuance often gets lost in catchy phrases, even though nuance is where the real work lives. This is a reflective, lightly playful episode that invites you to rethink what leadership looks like in product management. If you have ever felt like your job was less about making decisions and more about guiding people through uncertainty, this conversation will feel both validating and familiar. | |||
| S0E3: Zizzer-Zoof Seeds and Product Market Fit | 23 janv. 2024 | 00:36:31 | |
What if you are working incredibly hard to sell something that nobody actually needs? In this episode, Karl and Danielle unpack the now infamous Zizzer‑Zoof Seeds, borrowed from a Dr. Seuss poem and uncomfortably familiar to anyone who has ever poured energy into a product that just will not land. Through humor and honesty, they explore what it feels like to go home with sore feet after another long day of trying to convince people they want something that does not quite fit their world. They share stories of early product work where effort was high, intentions were good, and results were stubbornly absent. Is the problem the sales pitch, the market, the timing, or the thing itself? The conversation moves through moments of realization where attachment to a solution clouds judgment, and how easy it is to blame sales, competitors, or customers instead of asking the harder question of whether the problem is real in the first place. The episode also touches on the emotional side of letting go. Walking away from an idea you believed in, or admitting that a market is tapped out, can feel like failure even when it is the healthiest move. Along the way, Zizzer‑Zoof Seeds become a surprisingly useful stand‑in for shiny features, bloated products, and well meaning teams heading in the wrong direction. This is a thoughtful, lightly witty conversation about learning when to stop pushing, when to listen harder, and when to change course. If you have ever felt stuck selling something that should work but does not, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best possible way. | |||
| S0E2: The Pickle Jar | 16 janv. 2024 | 00:32:18 | |
What happens when you join a team full of smart, capable people… and you grab for the jar they’ve already tried everything to open? In this episode, Karl and Danielle talk candidly about the realities of being a product manager at different stages of a product’s life, and why impact can feel wildly different depending on where you sit. They share the story behind the “pickle jar effect,” that uncomfortable moment when you arrive as the new product person, eager to help, only to realize the problem is harder, more emotional, and more shared than it first appeared. They reflect on lived experiences from both ends of the spectrum. Being early in a product’s life, where experimentation is constant and being wrong is part of the job. And being seven levels down in a large organization, where strategy is set far above you and influence matters more than authority. Along the way, they talk honestly about resentment, humility, and the quiet work of earning trust when teams have already been trying their best. The conversation also explores why different stages of a product demand different skills, and how self‑awareness can make or break your effectiveness. There are moments of humor, like comparing product work to endlessly replaying Super Mario levels, and moments of recognition that will feel very familiar if you’ve ever tried to make change without a title to back you up. This episode is a thoughtful look at collaboration, influence, and knowing when to grab the jar and when to ask for help. If you have ever struggled to make an impact in a new role, or wondered why the same approach works in one team but fails in another, this conversation will resonate. | |||
| S0E1: What Does It Mean To Be a Product Manager? | 09 janv. 2024 | 00:40:20 | |
What if the best way into product management is never planned at all? In this inaugural episode of Productly Speaking, Karl and Danielle start where most product careers actually begin: by accident. They share the very human stories of how each of them “tripped and fell” into product management, not through a carefully mapped career plan, but through moments where something simply clicked. A conversation, a challenge from a manager, a role that suddenly connected all the dots of past experience. Danielle reflects on the moment she stopped feeling effective as a designer and was challenged to step up, rally a room, and prove impact in front of engineers and leadership. Karl talks about walking into what he assumed would be a polite “no thanks” conversation, only to realize that product management tied together everything he had done before, from customer work to technical problem‑solving. Neither story is polished or linear, and that is exactly the point. From there, the conversation widens into what makes product management so hard to teach. Why books, courses, and webinars can inspire but never fully prepare you. Why empathy, judgment, and lived experience matter just as much as technical skill. And yes, they even explore whether you could product manage something as simple, and as complex, as a coffee shop. This episode sets the tone for the entire podcast. Thoughtful, honest, and lightly playful, it is about people more than roles and curiosity more than credentials. If you have ever wondered how product managers actually find their way into the job, or felt like your career only made sense looking backward, this first conversation will feel like coming home. | |||
| Show Trailer | 07 déc. 2023 | 00:03:59 | |
What happens when two people from opposite sides of the Atlantic realize they’ve been asking the same product questions all along? This short trailer introduces Productly Speaking, a podcast hosted by Karl Abbott and Danielle Kirkwood, two product managers who both found their way into the role from somewhere else. Karl came up through support at Red Hat. Danielle moved from design into product while working in Silicon Valley, then brought that experience back to the UK startup scene. Different paths, different accents, and just enough cultural friction to make the conversations interesting. In the trailer, Karl and Danielle talk openly about why they wanted to make this show in the first place. Too much product content sounds polished but skips the messy parts. The webinars that promise everything and deliver very little. The reality that no one trains to be a product manager, and most of the job only makes sense once you’ve lived it. They share what listeners can expect from the podcast. Honest conversations, real stories from people doing the work, and a willingness to stretch product thinking beyond software into everyday situations. There’s humor, self‑awareness, and a clear intention to keep things grounded and human. If you’ve ever felt like product management content didn’t quite match your lived experience, this trailer sets the tone for what’s coming. Thoughtful, practical, and a little bit irreverent, Productly Speaking is about the job as it actually is, not how it’s usually sold. | |||