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| Mouthing Off About Men Of "God," Their "Pick Me" Side Kicks And Atheist Hate | 12 Aug 2025 | 00:54:38 | |
Episode 32 - For all the angry girls ready to rage out. We’re talking politics babes. Men are at it again and because I’m an equal opportunity hater I’m dragging their “pick me” side kicks with them. It’s hard to believe that the mormon corridor could get anymore crazy, but it has! From politicians changing laws for their pedo relatives (nightmare nepo baby shit), church apologist claiming mandatory reporting hurts victims, all the way to christian nationalism running amuck in Idaho. Prepare for updates on my mission president cheating (ALLEGEDLY) story, mouthing off about men of “god” and sharing your submissions along the way. Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Subscribe to the newsletter Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| Pouting w/ Ruth Delgado About Relationships | 05 Aug 2025 | 00:59:04 | |
Episode 31 - For all the lost girls still just figuring it out. I chat with Ruth Delgado about her experiences growing up with 13 siblings! 10 of which are adopted from all different parts of the world. We really dive into the complexities of relationships in large adoptive families, navigating her identity as a Black woman in a predominantly white community, and the complexities of her speaking about her story. She discusses the emotional challenges of being the 'golden child,' her fears of repeating unhealthy patterns as a parent, and her journey to reconnect with her biological family. The conversation also touches on her experiences with romantic relationships, the impact of sibling loss, and her evolving relationship with spirituality and faith. Ruth emphasizes the importance of community and the need for more representation of people of color in influencer spaces, especially in Utah. Ruth's Social: @ruthann848 Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Subscribe to the newsletter Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| Pouting About Mormon Reality Tv Moments | 27 May 2025 | 01:11:45 | |
Episode 22 - I'm diving into the portrayal of Mormonism in reality TV from the mid-90s to the present, focusing on key shows like 'The Real World', 'My Husband's Not Gay' and of course I had to end with this season of 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.' What did these shows portrayals of Mormonism get right, what do they exaggerate and why does Mormonism fascinate pop culture? Let's talk about it! I get into how these shows have shaped public perceptions of Mormon culture, confused them about the differences between the mainstream Mormon church and its offshoots, and the experiences of individuals navigating their identities within the framework of Mormon beliefs. I highlight the impact of Mormon doctrine on LGBTQ+ identities and the societal expectations placed on individuals, particularly women. The discussion also critiques the portrayal of these issues in reality TV shows, emphasizing the backlash against harmful narratives and the emotional toll on those involved. Ultimately, I reflect on how Mormonism serves as a mirror for broader American cultural themes and how it might actually be the "best" tv villain we've ever seen. Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server! @poutymouthpodcast @taramherbert Want to catch up on the shows mentioned in today's episode? Get a 30 day Free Trial on Hulu! | |||
| Pouting About Being a Soft Girl in a Hard World w/Sierra Nicole Rose | 20 May 2025 | 01:28:28 | |
Episode 21 - Sierra Nicole Rose is here! We delve into Sierra's experiences with adoption, identity, and growing up as a black girl in a predominantly white community. Sierra shares her journey into modeling and acting, the development of her confidence, and her reflections on Mormon teachings and ancestry. We explore the weirdness that comes when mormon adoptees are doing temple work for their dead biological ancestors without knowing their living family. We get into how boring Mormonism truly is! We mouth off about the new garments, cognitive dissonance that makes it hard for our mormon families to understand where exmormons are coming. Socials: | |||
| Mouthing off About Purity Culture | 12 May 2025 | 00:38:14 | |
Episode 20. Welcome back to Season 2 of Pouty Mouth! I share my experiences living in Kyrgyzstan and the cultural shifts that have come with it. I reflect on my journey of personal growth, the importance of community, and my evolving sense of fashion and self-expression. I introduce new segments for listener submissions and share some spicy submissions about the most hilariously wrong things we believed about sex from being raised in purity culture. The episode concludes with the launch of a new Discord community for listeners to connect and share their stories. Join here: https://discord.gg/HpJ3YhTTqN. (must be 18+) Follow @poutymouthpodcast Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Season 2: New Beginnings 02:52 Life in Kyrgyzstan: A Cultural Shift 05:52 Reflections on Religion and Personal Growth 09:09 Community and Connection in a New Environment 12:10 Fashion and Self-Expression: A New Wardrobe 15:12 Health, Beauty, and Self-Care in Kyrgyzstan 17:55 Building a Podcast Community 20:51 Introducing New Segments 24:12 Oral Traditions: Exploring Purity Culture 29:51 Discord Community: Pouty Girlz | |||
| EP. 19 Mouthing Off About "Failed" Adoptions w/ Cadon Sagendorf | 25 Feb 2025 | 01:14:50 | |
In this episode, I speak with Caden Sagendorf, a transracial adoptee, about his unique adoption story and experiences growing up in a predominantly white Mormon family and being placed into foster care. Caden shares his journey from being adopted at birth to navigating his identity as a Black and Latino individual in a community with few people of color. He discusses the challenges of growing up in a religious environment, the impact of racism and microaggressions, and his struggles with mental health. Caden also opens up about coming out as gay, the complexities of leaving the Mormon church at a young age, the importance of advocacy for foster care and adoption rights. Follow @poutymouthpodcast | |||
| Pouting About Belonging w/ Markeeda Elliott | 18 Feb 2025 | 01:35:25 | |
In this episode of the Pouty Mouth podcast, Markeeda Elliott shares her profound journey as foster care adoptee raised in a Mormon household. She discusses her early experiences of being adopted, the complexities of her identity, and the impact of her upbringing on her mental health. Marquita reflects on her reconnection with her birth family and the challenges of navigating trauma, therapy, and the expectations of Mormonism. Her story highlights the struggles of adoptees in finding their place within their families and communities, as well as the importance of understanding and healing from past experiences. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of adoption, identity, and faith, particularly within the context of Mormonism. They explore the challenges of growing up in predominantly white spaces, the impact of trauma on personal development, and the ongoing journey of deconstructing religious beliefs. The discussion highlights the intersection of race and religion, particularly for Black individuals within the Mormon community, and the importance of building a supportive family environment amidst differing beliefs. In this conversation, we discuss the challenges faced by mixed-faith families and the impact of adoption on racial identity. Follow @poutymouthpodcast for discussions and updates | |||
| Pouting About Abuse in Adoption w/ Coko Springer | 04 Feb 2025 | 01:20:21 | |
In this episode of Pouty Mouth, host Tara Herbert speaks with Coko Springer about her unique journey through foster care and adoption by a Mormon Family. Coko shares her experiences of being adopted into a Mormon family, the complexities of identity and name changes, and the impact of her upbringing on her sense of self. The conversation delves into the challenges of navigating cultural differences, the importance of understanding one's roots, and the emotional struggles associated with being a part of a blended family. Coko's story highlights the resilience of individuals in the face of adversity and the significance of connection and belonging. This conversation delves into the complexities of growing up in a foster care system, the challenges of identity and belonging, and the impact of systemic racism. We share personal stories of warmth and loneliness, navigating cultural disconnects, and the struggles faced by their biological and adoptive families. They reflect on their experiences within the Mormon community and the journey towards understanding their identities as individuals raised in predominantly white environments. This conversation delves into the complexities of childhood trauma, family dynamics, and the impact of religion on personal identity. The speakers share their experiences with foster care, health struggles, and the journey of breaking free from toxic relationships. They explore the challenges of finding connection within their biological families and the importance of embracing life beyond societal expectations. | |||
| Getting Mouthy with a Former Mormon Trad-wife w/Jennie Gage | 28 Jan 2025 | 01:24:51 | |
In my conversation with Jennie we dive into her life as a former Mormon trad-wife, the choice feminism we were all raised with and how she's rebuilt her life after leaving an abusive marriage and Mormonism. Jennie gives such valuable insight into the ways Mormonism has harmed, continues to harm women and what we can do differently now. Follow Jennie @lifetaketwo Follow @poutymouthpodcast | |||
| Pouting About Mormon Women's Mental Health | 21 Jan 2025 | 00:55:19 | |
*Spoilers Alert - Today I'm getting into Shari Franke's book, "The House of my Mother." We get into the themes that stuck out to me and talk about how Mormon mom's makes for great social media influencers but often times are struggling with stunted development, deep shame and mental health issues. Tell me what you thought of this episode on IG @poutymouthpodcast | |||
| Pouting About the BYU "honor code" w/ Jayci Underwood | 14 Jan 2025 | 01:50:44 | |
Jayci Underwood was branded with a scarlet letter when national news got out that she was pregnant with BYU's star athlete, Brandon Davies' baby. Brandon sat out the rest of the 2011 NCAA tournament and was encouraged by coaches and church leaders to not admit paternity to either of the two women he had gotten pregnant. Without support from her family, the father of the children, and at the encouragement from her church ,Jayci made the difficult decision to place her child for adoption. Jayci and I talk about her upbringing in the church, the circumstances that led up to her decision, the consequences she faced vs Brandon Davies and what her relationship is like now with her 13 year old son she placed and his adopted parents. Follow Jayci on IG and TikTok @Jayciunderwood | |||
| Pouting About Big Life Changes | 07 Jan 2025 | 00:55:05 | |
In this episode I'm pouting about into some personal big life changes, my mixed faith marriage, what it was like being companions with Whitney Leavitt from Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and some alleged tea that happen while we were on our missions. | |||
| Pouting About The Plan Of "Happiness" | 30 Jul 2025 | 00:54:23 | |
Episode 30 - Whether you're grieving what you've lost or already living in your post-Mormon glow up, this episode is your permission slip to build a life that is just so fucking yours. We're mouthing off about the concept of happiness from a Mormon perspective vs contrasting it with personal experiences and insights gained after leaving the church. We explore the promises of Mormon heaven for women - spoiler it fucking sucks! I also get into complexities of life after leaving Mormonism, including grief, identity, and the pursuit of personal dreams. Let's pout about how to create a fulfilling life beyond religious constraints. Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Subscribe to the newsletter Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| Pouting About De-influencing w/Aleja Briles | 29 Oct 2024 | 01:18:12 | |
In this episode of the Pouty Mouth podcast, Tara Herbert interviews Aleja Briles, a former Mormon influencer who shares her journey from being a prominent figure in the Mormon community to becoming an ex-Mormon. Aljha discusses her upbringing as a Colombian immigrant in a Mormon household, the complexities of family dynamics, and the challenges she faced during her mission. The conversation delves into the expectations placed on women in the church, the struggles of identity, and the impact of cultural background on her experiences. She shares her journey from being a Mormon influencer to navigating her identity and faith after leaving the church. She discusses her unexpected romance, the rise of her influencing career, and the challenges of modeling within the constraints of modesty. The conversation culminates in her current adventures in van life, symbolizing her quest for freedom and self-discovery. Follow Aleja: @Alejabriles @aalejabriles Follow @poutymouthpodcast @taramherbert | |||
| Pouting About LDS Adoption Scam w/ Kauri Taylor | 22 Oct 2024 | 01:39:00 | |
In this week's episode of Pouty Mouth, I'm thrilled to have Kari Taylor join us to share her deeply personal journey through adoption, Mormonism, and the challenges of infertility. Kari opens up about her complex family dynamics and the trauma of being adopted into a large family while navigating her racial identity in a predominantly white religious environment. We delve into her experiences of leaving Mormonism and the revelations that came with understanding her adoption story more fully. Kari's story is one of resilience and healing, as she discusses the impact of racial identity, the church's influence on her self-perception, and the journey to find her own path outside of the church. Join us for an eye-opening conversation about faith, family, and finding one's true self.
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| Pouting About Race and Religion w/Channel Achenbach | 22 Oct 2024 | 01:11:10 | |
This week I'm pouting with Chanel Achenbach about her experiences with Mormonism, including her conversion, the challenges of navigating her racial identity within the church, and the impact of church teachings on her self-perception. Chanel shares her journey of seeking truth, confronting racism, and ultimately finding her own identity outside of the church. Our conversation highlights the complexities of being a black woman in a predominantly white religious community and the importance of building a supportive community.
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| Pouting About Connection | 24 Sep 2024 | 00:38:18 | |
Send me a voicemail or note with your thoughts about today's episode! Follow me on social media: TikTok - @taramherbert IG - @poutymouthpodcast In today's episode I'm pouting about the complexities of my relationships with my adoptive parents, mixed-faith marriage, and biological family. I talk about the emotional challenges of navigating these relationships and the desire for deeper connections, while also addressing the impact of my upbringing on my parenting style. 00:00 Introduction to the Pouty Mouth Podcast 02:16 Navigating Adoption and Mormonism 10:44 Family Dynamics and Mixed-Faith Relationships 18:54 Exploring Biological Family Connections 30:03 Parenting in a Mixed-Faith Marriage 42:54 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions | |||
| Pouting About Motherhood and Womanhood w/Brittany Hartley | 11 Sep 2024 | 01:10:10 | |
Follow Brittany on social media @nononsensespirtuality Leave a voicemail or a note with your thoughts and we'll discuss on @poutymouthpodcast. Today I'm talking with Brittany Hartley! We discuss the impact of adoption, and deconstructing Mormonism, me as an adoptee and Brittany as an adopted parent. We explore topics such as the trauma of adoption, the ethical considerations of adoption, the importance of cultural connection, and the challenges of racial identity. We also touch on the internalized racism and shame that can be perpetuated by religion, our experiences with motherhood and the existential crisis that can arise from losing all anchors in life. We explore the feelings of uncertainty and the void that can arise when leaving a religious community, as well as the impact of adoption on their sense of connection and bonding with their children. Overall, our conversation highlights the healing and growth that can come from embracing vulnerability and redefining one's own values and spirituality as women and mothers. 01:18 The Impact of Adoption on Children and Families 04:48 The Importance of Acknowledging Racial Identity in Adoption 09:08 The Role of Shame and Anxiety in the Context of Religion and Adoption 15:49 Nihilism and the Loss of Anchors in Life 34:48 The Void and the Path of Uncertainty 36:44 Rebuilding Anchors and Rituals 38:56 Making Peace with Death and Embracing Uncertainty 40:14 Taking Risks into Authenticity 41:35 The Gifts and Terrors of the Void 42:25 The Healing Power of Psilocybin Mushrooms 44:58 The Impact of Religion on Motherhood 46:44 Reframing Values and Rituals 49:00 Finding Safety in Science and Authenticity 51:45 Creating Family Culture and Rituals 52:12 Respecting Individual Paths and Choices 53:30 Shifting from Leading to Holding Hands 55:34 Shadow Work in Motherhood57:21Leaving Gifts Behind 01:00:57 Defining Values and Creating Family Culture 01:02:44 The Gift of Imperfection 01:04:35 Maintaining Connection and Supporting Individual Paths | |||
| Pouting About LDS Family Services pt 1 | 03 Sep 2024 | 01:02:30 | |
Link to article from today's episode What are your thoughts on this episode? Join the discussion: Follow @poutymouth on Instagram Follow @taramherbert on tiktok Today we're pouting about adoption in the United States, and how LDS family services has shaped it. I get into how adoption legally works like, the loss of rights and access to biological family, immediate maternal separation, and the lack of consideration for biological fathers. I talk about the impact of adoption on mental health, the concept of the adoption fog, and the role of Mormonism in shaping my adoption experience. I emphasize the need for reform in the adoption system and challenges the notion that adoption is a solution to infertility and abortion. 01:29 Understanding Adoption in the United States 08:12 The Impact of Adoption on Mental Health 13:52 The Adoption Fog: Fear, Obligation, and Guilt 15:46 Mormon Teachings About Adoption 37:36 The Role of LDS Social Services in Adoption 43:27 Coercion and Unethical Practices in Adoption 45:23 The Changing Landscape of Adoption 53:33 The Need for Reform in the Adoption Industry | |||
| The One About Navigating Identity as an Adoptee w/Marisa Cannon | 27 Aug 2024 | 01:19:05 | |
TW: Self Harm, Sexual Assault Follow Marisa on Instagram @marisamaecannon Leave your thoughts in a voicemail Share your thoughts from this episode Today I'm joined by Marissa Cannon, the 2023 Miss Bikini USA, she shares her story of being an adoptee and an ex-Mormon. She discusses her childhood in Arizona and the strict Mormon upbringing she experienced. Marissa talks about the challenges she faced in Utah, including the lack of racial diversity and the strict rules imposed by her parents. She also opens up about the bullying she endured and the impact it had on her self-confidence, particularly regarding her natural hair. Marissa reflects on the missed opportunities and restrictions she faced due to her parents' strictness, but also acknowledges that it may have kept her from engaging in certain negative behaviors. She also discusses her journey with bipolar disorder and the importance of seeking help for mental health issues. She discusses the challenges she faced, including ADHD, anxiety, and self-harm, as well as the trauma she experienced from being assaulted by her grandfather. 00:00 Introduction and Accomplishments 01:25 Childhood and Adoption 04:15 Growing Up in a Strict Mormon Household 07:01 Challenges of Racial Diversity 10:48 Cultural Shock and Switching Schools 14:06 Navigating Dating and Reactions to Race 20:12 Lack of Education on Adoption and Race 26:52 Self-Confidence and Hair Struggles 32:04 Missed Opportunities and Restrictions 37:14 Journey with Bipolar Disorder 00:32 Growing up as an adopted child in a Mormon family 10:48 Challenges faced: ADHD, anxiety, and self-harm 20:12 Trauma from assault and the impact on mental health 30:38 Discovering birth family and navigating relationships 40:36 Creating inclusive environments for transracial adoptees 49:54 Importance of accessing medical history 59:57 Supporting adoptees: financial assistance and amplifying voices 01:10:08 Leaving Mormonism and reclaiming identity 01:20:12 Final Thoughts | |||
| The One About Mormon Influencer Drama | 20 Aug 2024 | 00:49:47 | |
Leave me a voicemail with your thoughts Leave me a note with your thoughts Follow @poutymouth on Instagram Follow me @taramherbert on TikTok I discuss the online drama surrounding the Ballerina Farm and the secret lives of Mormon wives. I share my thoughts on the controversial article about the Ballerina Farm and the patriarchal dynamics within Mormonism. I also talk about the marketing of Mormon influencers and the reduction of women to their traditional roles. I get into the drama surrounding the show 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' and the reactions from the Mormon community, my excitement and support for my close friend, Whitney Levitt, who is a cast member on the show. The conversation also delves into the experiences of the cast members, including their relationships, adoption, and career choices. I host share personal anecdotes and reflections on Mormonism and the challenges faced by Mormon and ex-Mormon women. 00:00 The Online Drama of the Ballerina Farm 02:01 Exploring the Patriarchal Dynamics within Mormonism 07:16 The Marketing Strategies of Mormon Influencers 27:39 Drama Surrounding 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' and Backlash 33:28 Representation of Mormonism and Community Reactions 41:31 Cast Members' Experiences: Relationships, Adoption, and Careers 45:19 Personal Reflections on Mormonism and Challenges Faced by Women | |||
| The One About Adoption Misconceptions | 06 Aug 2024 | 00:56:06 | |
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In this episode I address some of the comments and misconceptions surrounding adoption. I discuss the trauma of adoption, the complexities of adoptee experiences, and the need for reform in the adoption system. I share my feelings about being adopted and the challenges of forming attachments with my biological family. The challenges and sacrifices that adoptees and their families make, as well as the misconceptions and stereotypes surrounding adoption. I also want to emphasize the importance of compassion and understanding when discussing adoption and encourage an open dialogue and support for adoptees and their families. 00:00 Introduction and Addressing Comments 03:02 The Trauma and Complexities of Adoption 06:17 The Need for Adoption Reform 10:23 Challenges of Forming Attachments with Biological Family 32:53 The Complexities of Adoption 43:24 Navigating the Challenges of Leaving Mormonism 56:19 Breaking Down Stereotypes and Misconceptions 01:03:19 Fostering Compassion and Understanding in Adoption 01:04:46 Creating a Supportive Space for Adoptees and Families | |||
| The One About Adopted Sisters | 30 Jul 2024 | 01:00:00 | |
TIGGER WARNING - talk of suicide If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health or substance abuse you can call the SAMHSA national hotline at (1-800) 662-4357 to find treatment near you. Looking for a therapist in your area that accepts your insurance? Search Headway.co, Psychology Today or ZocDoc. Today I'm having a conversation with my sister Kailie and we discuss our different experiences growing up in the same adopted family. We talk about Kailie's adoption story, her challenges of being biracial, our experiences with Mormonism, and struggles with depression. We also touch on the erasure of our biological identities and the need for support for birth parents. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities of adoption and the impact it can have on an individual's sense of self. We talk a lot about mental health and offer advice to adoptees and adoptive parents, emphasizing the importance of therapy, communication, and understanding. 03:06 Navigating Identity: Growing Up in an Adopted Family 06:02 The Challenges of Being Biracial 08:51 The Impact of Mormonism on Mental Health 12:04 The Erasure of Biological Identities in Adoption 15:10 The Need for Support for Birth Parents 29:32 Navigating Mental Health and Self-Discovery 45:39 The Complexities of Adoption 55:01 Therapy, Communication, and Compassion 57:14 Breaking Free from Religious Beliefs | |||
| Pouting About Wedding Night Horrors and Virgin Exams | 14 Jul 2025 | 01:01:13 | |
Episode 29 - If you've ever had a premarital exam or been impacted by horrible sex education this episode is for you! Can we just promise to never stop pouting about premarital exams and the impact of purity culture on women's sexuality? I get into my personal stories on the subject and share yours throughout this episode, I'm crashing out and trust me you will too. The amount of misconceptions surrounding sex, virginity and the expectations placed on women during our wedding nights is astounding. I just know if there is a god she’s as pissed as we are about all of this. Buckle up babes! Want to hear the read of the rest of the submissions? Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Subscribe to the newsletter and you wont miss out on any updates! Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| The One About Gay Stuff | 23 Jul 2024 | 01:10:36 | |
In this conversation, Dean and I discuss experiences and the challenges of being LGBTQ+ in a religious community. We explore topics such as allyship, coming out, and the intersection of religion and sexuality. Dean shares his personal journey of coming out to his parents and the mixed reactions he received. We also touch on the lack of comprehensive sex education in our upbringing and the impact it had on our understanding of our own sexuality. Links to things we discussed: 01:11 Exploring Questions of Allyship and Coming Out 14:15 Challenging Cultural Norms in Utah 22:49 Discovering Sexuality and the Lack of Sex Education 25:50 The Impact of Inadequate Sex Education 29:42 Stigma and Anxiety Surrounding HIV 33:41 Double Standards in Relationships 42:37 The Milestone of Legalizing Gay Marriage 47:11 Concerns about Regression in LGBTQ+ Rights 49:56 The Challenges Faced by Queer Students at BYU 50:43 The Impact of BYU's Policies on LGBTQ+ Individuals 55:22 The Privilege of Not Having to Think About LGBTQ+ Issues 01:02:05 Understanding PrEP and Its Relevance to the LGBTQ+ Community | |||
| The Line Between Insanity and Religion | 02 Jul 2024 | 00:37:23 | |
Welcome to the first episode of Pouty Mouth! I'm your host Tara Herbert. In this episode I talk about my journey out of Mormonism, and explain who this podcast is primarily for, ex-Mormon and ex-evangelical women who are trying to find a life that feels less controlling. I caution active Mormons that the podcast may not be for them. I also explore the possible reasons why young women are leaving organized religion, including issues of sexism and limited individuality. I want to create a space for discussing adoption and race within Mormonism, as well as spirituality and leaving Mormonism. Follow me on IG: @poutymouthpodcast | |||
| Trailer | 18 Jun 2024 | 00:00:40 | |
A different kind of church, coming soon... | |||
| Pouting About Mormon Bridal Showers and Receptions | 08 Jul 2025 | 01:01:28 | |
Episode 28 - We're getting into the unique aspects of Mormon wedding receptions and bridal showers, sharing stories you submitted! Get ready for all the cringeworthy elements of Mormon wedding culture, including the weird gifts, focus on sex and God. I also get into yurt camping, trying fermented horse's milk and what it's like being black in Kyrgyzstan. Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Subscribe to the newsletter Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| Mouthing Off w/ Karlos Dillard About Aborting Adoptions | 01 Jul 2025 | 01:06:35 | |
Episode 27 - Karlos Dillard and I explore Karlos's life as a transracial adoptee and his experiences in foster care. We discuss the impact of drug culture on families, racial dynamics in the foster care system, and the challenges of navigating identity and sexuality. The conversation also touches on the influence of religion on personal beliefs and the critique of religious hypocrisy. Karlos shares his reflections on being Black abroad and the societal implications of race and privilege, culminating in a discussion about the themes presented in 'The Handmaid's Tale.' In this conversation, Karlos and Tara delve into the complexities of adoption, trauma, and the foster care system. Karlos discuss's his personal experiences with foster care, the challenges of navigating identity as queer individual, and the impact of trauma on mental health. The dialogue also touches on the importance of education, the struggles of homelessness, and the significance of finding one's voice and community. Karlos shares his journey of emancipation and the lessons learned from his past, emphasizing the need for support and understanding for queer youth in similar situations. Follow Karlos @wardofthestate1.0 Download Karlos's books : Ward of the State and Abort the Adoption Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Subscribe to the newsletter Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| Pouting W/ Eden Strader About Temple Marriage and Queerness | 24 Jun 2025 | 01:05:36 | |
Episode 26 - Eden Strader shares her journey from growing up in a strict Mormon environment, the challenges of her abusive Mormon marriage, divorce and embracing her queerness! We get into the parts of the Mormon temple ceremony we did not enjoy, how Eden left her abusive marriage and what coming out looked like for her. She highlights the importance of community and acceptance, especially after leaving a restrictive upbringing. Eden also shares her current endeavors in creating safe spaces for sapphic individuals and her relationship with her family as they navigate acceptance and understanding. Follow Eden on socials @edenstrader @notedenstrader Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Subscribe to the newsletter Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| Pouting About Mormonism VS Handmaids Tale | 17 Jun 2025 | 00:33:56 | |
Episode 25 - Trigger Warning & Spoiler Alert: Mention of r*pe and su!c!de We're starting off with submissions for "Oral Traditions" all about Mormon Missions today! Then we dive into the main topic, Mormonism VS Gilead (theocratic society in Handmaids Tale). I've gotten a lot of DMs about not being able to watch it because its so triggering or loving it and I wanted to break it down so that you could understand the similarities even if you've never watched Handmaid's Tale or plan on never watching it. Consider me your exmormon vid-Angel on all things Handmaids Tale! There is mention of r*pe and suicide, I don't go into any details of specifics but take care of yourself. I draw parallels with the dystopian narrative of The Handmaid's Tale and Mormonism. I discuss the control over sexuality, reproductive rights, the dynamics of patriarchy, and the societal pressures faced by women in both contexts. This episode culminates in a reflection on the importance of rebellion and self-identity in the face of oppressive structures. Follow me on socials: @poutymouthpodcast & @taramherbert Join the Pouty Girlz Discord Server Make a podcast submission (anonymous) Leave a voicemail submission(anonymous) | |||
| Mouthing Off w/ Tenesha Luckett About Being a Non-Mormon and Celebrity Hairstylist in Utah | 10 Jun 2025 | 00:55:02 | |
Episode 24 - Tenesha Luckett is here! She's a celebrity hairstylist from Utah, know for her work on Gabrielle Union Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, and most recently The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. We get into her journey of growing up in Utah, being a non Mormon, becoming a sought-after stylist for celebrities and the infamous feud with Monica or 'Reality Von Tease.' She discusses her experiences with identity, racism, and the challenges of being a single mother while navigating the beauty industry. Tenesha also speaks about the dynamics of friendship and professionalism in the hairstyling world, and the importance of representation in the beauty industry. | |||
| Getting Mouthy w/ Adoptee Apostate | 03 Jun 2025 | 01:11:54 | |
Episode 23 - Trigger Warning, mention of suicide Ideation, attempts and molestation. Sariah and I dive into her story as a Chinese transracial adoptee raised in a Mormon family. We get into her relationships with her adopted family, the complexities of navigating mental health, perfectionism and what happens when you're sexually assaulted by a family member as an adoptee in Mormonism . We discuss Sariah's struggles on her Mormon mission, the challenges of knowing she was a lesbian and not being believed when she came out to her Mormon family. We mouth off about our least favorite adoption teaching in Mormonism and we talk about what she's done to heal from her trauma. Follow Sariah @TheAdopteeapostate IG & TikTok Follow @poutymouthpodcast | |||