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| 82. Lessons From Building a Triad with The Kink Collective | 08 Sep 2026 | 01:09:31 | |
Cat, Natalie, and Joshua from The Kink Collective talk about their experience building a triad. We talk about honesty and transparency in non monogamy, especially when telling the full truth feels scary because you’re worried about your partner’s reaction, and what happens when you struggle to trust a partner who isn’t fully transparent. Natalie also shares her experience entering an established relationship, navigating Joshua’s other partners, and realizing she sometimes compared Cat to her own mom because of their significant age difference. Finally, we talk about letting go of expectations about what a relationship is “supposed” to look like and allowing their triad to develop organically. Resourced mentioned: https://kinkcollective.net/ Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 81. When Your Partner Doesn't Want Non-monogamy with Courtney and Nate (the Mono-Poly couple) | 26 Aug 2026 | 01:00:47 | |
When Courtney proposed opening their marriage on their 17th anniversary, their relationship was struggling. Nate was a devoted father and provider, but he had become emotionally distant. Courtney’s proposal was initially met with anger, judgment, and fears that she was trying to replace him. Through therapy, difficult conversations, and learning to sit with jealousy instead of trying to fix it, Nate gradually came to understand that Courtney’s desire for non-monogamy wasn’t a rejection of him, it was part of who she is. As Courtney began dating, Nate saw her become happier, more present, and more connected to their family. At the same time, he worked on himself and became the partner Courtney had been missing. Today, more than two decades into their marriage, Courtney and Nate have built a mono-poly relationship that works for them. In this episode, they share what it took to get there. Resources mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0gQfpMLtNwt6lHBskEhEoJ?si=846f1b613a1e49e6 https://www.patreon.com/Polycurious/posts/getting-over-ask-167701931 The Mono-Poly Couple YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheMonoPolyCouple Courtney's website (coaching, books, retreats): www.courtneyboyercoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/themonopolycouple/ Polycurious ep.80 How To Process Jealousy and Difficult Emotions: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7CtSRE2pLUVQDldirevmT8?si=77aacf23ba004382 https://www.polycurious.com/resources https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| Open to Open Panel Recording | 16 Jul 2026 | 01:29:56 | |
In this special episode, I'm sharing a live recording from Open to Open, a panel discussion I joined in Denver hosted by coaches Bella Schauer and Booster Blake. We share our personal experiences and answer questions about New Relationship Energy, honesty, repair after conflict, and boundaries, Resources mentioned: Couple's Fall Retreat info: https://www.bella-paints.com/retreats Bella's email: Elizabethbellaschauer@gmail.com My episode with Jessica Esfandiary: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep35 My episode with Bella & Patrick: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast2/ep76 https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep12 https://drive.google.com/file/d/1OAYSWfsjuhOzXoZ9KLargqVlzu6QCssY/view?usp=sharing Connect with me Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 80. How To Process Jealousy and Difficult Emotions | 08 Jul 2026 | 00:26:56 | |
In this solo episode, I'm sharing the emotional processing tool that's completely changed the way I handle difficult emotions. It's called RAIN, and while I didn't create it (it was popularized by meditation teacher Tara Brach), I've adapted it over the years for myself and my coaching clients. It's become one of the most effective ways I know to work through jealousy, calm my nervous system, and show up to difficult conversations feeling grounded instead of reactive.
Resources mentioned: https://www.polycurious.com/resources More on RAIN: Breathwork Exercise I'd recommend you listen to this, as it's a good explanation of how focusing on your body interrupts the thoughts (helpful for the allow part) Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| Opening Up Without The Mess (Meet-up) | 18 Jun 2026 | 00:46:17 | |
What We Cover
Questions To Discuss When Opening Up Your Relationship Patreon: What To Do When Your Partner is On a Date (goes over RAIN exercise for jealousy) Ep. 48 Don't Ask Don't Tell But Different Want more support? Reach out for coaching at polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com 💌 | |||
| Bonus ep.79 Exploring Bisexuality as a Man | 26 May 2026 | 00:19:35 | |
In this episode, Sam opens up about discovering his attraction to men later in life, what it was like having his first boyfriend, exploring sexual compatibility for the first time, and working through internalized shame around bisexuality. https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hy7CGmqLikpnSJNfQPOPO?si=AMPvFjE1RAeuSYiI0Z9S_Q https://www.samcharlescoaching.com/ Sam's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexcoachsam/ Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 79. The Problem with NRE (New Relationship Energy) with Sam Charles | 26 May 2026 | 01:10:46 | |
Sex and relationship coach Sam Charles joins me to explore the shadow side of New Relationship Energy: the nervous system rollercoaster. We also talk about the reasons he is no longer over-compromising in romantic relationships, and he shares great tips for navigating the challenges that can emerge in non-monogamy when people are unclear about their agreements, intentions, or capacity. Resources mentioned: Sam's Bonus Polycurious episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4BWfzyptQrpHiAmfd9CgJK?si=RaTk0JFsQ-2bDdZqLyJR-w https://www.samcharlescoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/sexcoachsam/ More on NRE: https://open.spotify.com/episode/58QeAd7h1yCBOlAbKDUEAU All About New Relationship Energy: https://www.patreon.com/posts/in-case-you-it-131384186/ Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 78. Domming at a Sober Kink Party & My Daddy Issues | 12 May 2026 | 00:37:16 | |
Today I share my experience unexpectedly domming someone for the very first time at a sober kink party, and how stepping into my dominant side helped me rethink my relationship with non-monogamy, begin to untangle some of my daddy issues and feel incredibly empowered. Resources mentioned https://www.instagram.com/carnivaldngn.co/ Polycurious Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious https://www.patreon.com/posts/143817525/ Let's Talk About Sexual Desires Episode: https://www.patreon.com/posts/112339837 Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 77. Kink, Power Dynamics & Knowing When to Walk Away with Vee from Girls Gone Deep | 28 Apr 2026 | 01:08:45 | |
Today, Vee from Girls Gone Deep shares her journey into kink, what makes a great dom, and what people can actually gain from exploring BDSM dynamics. We also dive into what it feels like to want a level of commitment your partner can’t offer, and how to know when it’s time to walk away Resources mentioned: https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/episodes Bonus ep.77 Can You Deescalate Without Breaking Up?: On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3UDJ7xPvTfSkYfF8w60M7T?si=j8_tVDw5QpmT2f2Ak21LtQ On Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/can-you-de-of-up-156628493 https://www.patreon.com/posts/next-wed-and-156707476?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link What To Do When Your Partner is On a Date Episode (RAIN): https://www.patreon.com/posts/112573033/ https://www.njoytoys.com/product/purewand/ https://www.instagram.com/ambergrubenmann/ https://open.spotify.com/episode/00bB5cIFH7SHl3GJ3inBik Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 76. I Said Yes to ENM But My Body Panics with Bella & Patrick | 14 Apr 2026 | 01:06:37 | |
What if your head is on board with non-monogamy, but your body freaks out when your partner dates someone else? Today, Bella and Patrick, who started their relationship long-distance and non-monogamous, share how they learned to navigate multiple partners, set clear agreements, and regulate their emotions. Resources mentioned: https://www.bella-paints.com/coaching https://www.instagram.com/bellashepaints/ Bella’s Relationship Agreement Guide https://www.bella-paints.com/shop/p/the-relationship-agreement-guide Book Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Sacred Sons Men’s Group Patreon episode: What To Do When Your Partner is On a Date (where I talk about the RAIN method) | |||
| 75. Can You Learn Compersion? ft. Evolving Love Project | 31 Mar 2026 | 01:10:09 | |
Abbey and Liam from the Evolving Love Project return to share more about their journey opening up their relationship. They unpack why fairness doesn’t always mean doing the same things, reflecting on Abbey dating solo for two years before Liam did. They also explore whether compersion—the feeling of joy or happiness for your partner’s experiences with others—is something you can learn, and how it differs from simply feeling turned on by that idea. Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Resources mentioned: https://substack.com/@evolvingloveproject?utm_source=global-search Evolving Love Podcast: When Abbey Vetoed Fer: https://open.spotify.com/episode/47hASJGbb3UfcaWQTxinxC Ep.42 Can Non-monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Abbey and Liam: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep42 Evolving Love Project website: https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/ Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 74. Do This Before Opening Up with Nancy & Jonny | 17 Mar 2026 | 01:08:06 | |
Nancy and Jonny spent months focusing on education, workshops, community, and strengthening their communication before taking their first steps into non-monogamy. In this episode, they share what that intentional process looked like, the challenges they encountered, and how moving slowly helped them build a deeper sense of safety and trust in their relationship. They also share practical communication tools that helped them navigate difficult emotions, including one simple but powerful question partners can ask each other: Do you need to be helped, hugged, or heard? Resources mentioned: Queering Existentialism (Unlearning Mononormativity workshop and others): https://www.queeringexistentialism.com/ https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1JszNHS2Bw95szUQtDaTG8?si=iModwn0YSR6lbcNv8dVouA&pi=K4mgv1OrTY2g1 House Of Scorpio Lip Service Party https://www.houseofscorpio.com/index.html Book: All Fours By Miranda July https://mirandajuly.com/all-fours/ New York Jacks (Masturbation Party): Sucia Events https://linktr.ee/suciasundays My Episode with Evolving Love Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/47hASJGbb3UfcaWQTxinxC Ep.52 How to Find Safety with Leo and Luna: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep52 My Break Up Story and Tips for Going Through a Breakup Part 2: https://www.patreon.com/posts/my-break-up-and-143818808 Join my Patreon (for the Meetups) here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 73. I Wanted Sex with One Partner But Not The Other with Libby Sinback | 03 Mar 2026 | 01:09:23 | |
What happens when you stop wanting sex with your long-term partner(s)… but not with someone new? In this episode, I’m joined by relationship coach and host of Making Polyamory Work, Libby Sinback. Libby shares openly about a four-year period in her marriage when she and her husband didn’t have sex and what it took to find their way back to intimacy. Resources mentioned: Learn more about Libby here: Morgan Burch’s post about sex not being a physical need here: https://www.instagram.com/goodmorgantherapy/p/DU01M50AD6s/?img_index=3 Emily Nagoski’s books here: https://www.emilynagoski.com/books Making Polyamory Work episode with Drew here: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/makingpolywork/episodes/Leaning-In-e3c7lgc/a-acbv8i2 Poly Parents Miniseries here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFX44KoR8S4&list=PLuhHN8kw_43UM2tkDWg8xwIZbOQBE__Ee Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 72. I Questioned Monogamy and Heteronormativity and Couldn’t Go Back | 17 Feb 2026 | 01:06:14 | |
In this episode, JJ shares how he went from being in a monogamous relationship to fully embracing his queer and non-monogamous identity. He opens up about working through shame and what it’s been like navigating queerness and non-monogamy as a man in a heteronormative culture. Resources mentioned: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-72-nre-150958971?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link Non-escalator relationship menu: https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/pwkdxp/v3_relationship_components_menu_last_update_for/ Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 71. Can BDSM Be Therapeutic? with Nicolle Hodges | 03 Feb 2026 | 01:15:11 | |
In this episode, Nicolle Hodges shares how she discovered the world of kink, became a lifestyle dominatrix, and realized BDSM can be profoundly therapeutic (the subject of her upcoming book!). She also reflects on her experience in a polyamorous relationship, including navigating a throuple, and explains why she ultimately decided to step away from non-monogamy. https://www.instagram.com/nicolledoublel/ Nicolle's Substack Both Sides of The Slash: https://nicolledoublel.substack.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious | |||
| 70. Jealousy is Information with Kayla + Carl (Part 2) | 20 Jan 2026 | 00:41:13 | |
In part two of my conversation with Kayla and Carl, we explore how jealousy can be a powerful source of information, helping us understand what we want more of and how we can grow. We also talk about a major milestone in their non monogamy journey: Carl’s first experience stepping outside his marriage, which was also his first sexual connection with someone other than Kayla. Resources Mentioned: https://medium.com/@kaylamerz/truth-sex-and-non-monogamy-8f1e42c8fde4?postPublishedType=initial Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 69. Non-monogamy Saved Our Marriage with Kayla + Carl (Part 1) | 13 Jan 2026 | 00:59:39 | |
Kayla and Carl, a married couple with young kids, share how non monogamy helped them move out of a decline in sexual connection and communication. While Carl was initially not interested in exploring outside the relationship himself, his support of Kayla’s exploration became a major turning point. Kayla, who is seven years older and had often felt more in charge in the relationship, began to see Carl differently: more confident, grounded, and secure. That shift had a powerful impact on their intimacy. This episode explores how non monogamy can introduce new sexual energy into a relationship and help long-term couples who feel stagnant find their way out of a rut. Resources Mentioned: Listen to Part 2 of our conversation on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Watch Parents Mini Series on YouTube (ep.42 - ep. 46) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFX44KoR8S4&list=PLuhHN8kw_43UM2tkDWg8xwIZbOQBE__Ee Listen to Poly Parents Mini Series: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep42 https://medium.com/@kaylamerz/truth-sex-and-non-monogamy-8f1e42c8fde4?postPublishedType=initial Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 68. Having Three DADT Partners with Alex & Skyler | 16 Dec 2025 | 01:03:45 | |
In this episode, we explore what it looks like to navigate three Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell relationships in which all partners want escalation, while Skyler is not ready to step onto the relationship escalator with any of them. This tension is especially present for Alex, who is in her mid-thirties and thinking seriously about partnership, stability, and having children. Skyler shares how he moved from a long-term monogamous marriage into non-hierarchy and unexpectedly found himself in three relationships, while Alex reflects on meeting Skyler shortly before her divorce and falling in love while still grieving. Together, we unpack when Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell dynamics can feel protective versus when they can become harmful and how non-hierarchy can create tension when people’s futures are uncertain. Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 67. What Two Terrible Breakups Taught Me with Jesse | 04 Dec 2025 | 01:09:42 | |
Today, Jesse opens up about two challenging breakups that unfolded in the context of non-monogamy, how those endings impacted his reputation within his community, and how they shaped the way he saw himself. He also shares how later, healthier relationships helped him rewrite those old narratives. We talk about why we’re often drawn to people who aren’t actually a good fit for partnership, why even “bad” relationships can be valuable for the growth they spark, and how those experiences ultimately help us get clearer about what we want and lead us toward more grounded, nourishing connections. Bonus Patreon Content with Jesse: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-67-male-145030257 Breaking Up for The Right Reasons: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-67-up-145030787 Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch Polycurious on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 66. All Roads Lead To Poly with Fer (Your Host) | 18 Nov 2025 | 00:59:51 | |
In this episode, I finally sit on the other side of the mic. I’m interviewed by my friend A (who you might remember from the episode with her husband J). We talk about my upbringing, what I learned about my sexuality (including discovering masturbation much later in life), my journey with Seth as my primary partner and eventually finding a second partner, what it was like to navigate conflict with two partners, and why I’ve become such a big believer in not future-tripping and instead listening to your intuition in the moment. Join my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Breakup episodes 1 + 2: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Fer + Seth’s episode 12: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep12 Fer + Seth episode 48: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep48 John Part 1 (Patreon): https://www.patreon.com/posts/meet-my-partner-138151166 John Part 2: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep61 Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 65. Making Peace with Your Insecurities with A & J (Part 2) | 04 Nov 2025 | 00:54:07 | |
In the second part of my conversation with A and J, we talk about how J learned to face and work through his insecurities instead of letting them dictate how A connects with others. We also explore how differently they’ve each approached non-monogamy, with A actively dating while J has taken things more slowly as he continues to unpack his religious upbringing and lifelong monogamous conditioning. Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 64. Should You Have Rules When Opening Up? with A & J (Part 1) | 21 Oct 2025 | 01:03:50 | |
A and J opened up their relationship after nearly three decades together, when menopause sparked a surge in A’s libido. In this episode, we talk about their process of untangling enmeshment, how they moved from a rule-heavy dynamic — with J, who was initially hesitant about non-monogamy, setting most of the boundaries — to having no rules at all. We also explore how those early rules revealed insecurities that J eventually chose to face and work through, rather than letting them control how A connects with others. Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 63. Handling Big Emotions in Polyamory, Triads and Breakups with Evita Sawyers | 07 Oct 2025 | 01:07:41 | |
Today, Evita Sawyers ((@Lavitaloca34) shares how she went from letting jealousy and anger take over to becoming more grounded and less reactive. We talk about her experience being in a triad and how opening her marriage revealed gaps in her relationship with her husband, ultimately leading to their breakup. This episode explores how non-monogamy can uncover powerful truths about yourself, serve as a path for personal growth, and highlight both the strengths and limitations within your relationships. Resourced mentioned: Patreon Bonus Content: Evita Sawyers on Leaving Religion, Dating Out of Jealousy and Finding Commitment in Non-Monogamy Follow Evita on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lavitaloca34?igsh=a2RqOHU5ZTdoMmRi Follow Evita on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1Evne8bz9V/?mibextid=wwXIfr Patreon Bonus Content from This Conversation: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Poly Love Documentary: The Untethered Soul Michael A Singer https://untetheredsoul.com/untethered-soul The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319 No Mud, No Lotus by Thich Nhat Hanh https://www.parallax.org/product/no-mud-no-lotus/ Loving What Is By Byron Katie https://thework.com/loving-what-is-revised-edition/ More Than Two: https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706 The Ethical Slut: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664 Nonviolent Communication: https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528X The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown: https://brenebrown.com/book/the-gifts-of-imperfection/ Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtas Follow Polycurious on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast | |||
| 62. When Your Partner Chooses A Nesting Partner with Roshi & Frankie | 23 Sep 2025 | 00:56:18 | |
Roshi and Frankie have been navigating a long-distance polyamorous relationship for over three years, where they both have other partners. Today, we talk about:
Resources mentioned: Bonus content from this episode on Patreon (on Roshi's search for a nesting partner and Frankie's experience asking for what's important to her): https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-62-when-139590497 Ep.6 Facing Insecurities Head On with Frankie: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep6 Where is Frankie Now? (Patreon): https://www.patreon.com/posts/120772218/ Ep. 55 Aryn & Josh From Couples Therapy: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep55 Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Facebook | |||
| 61. Meet My Secondary Partner Part 2 with John | 09 Sep 2025 | 00:49:24 | |
In my conversation with John, my secondary partner, we get into how our relationship grew from friends-with-benefits into partnership. We revisit an early incident that brought up his fear of disappointing partners and my own struggles with trust and safety, and how that shaped our early days. I share what it’s been like to face my fears around partnership and learn to find safety within myself, while John opens up about practicing vulnerability, accountability, and breaking old patterns of people-pleasing. Listen to part 1 on my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/138151166/ Listen to How I Went From Polycurious to Poly Part 1 here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/127305023/ Listen to How I Went From Polycurious to Poly Part 2 here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/127307117/ Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube | |||
| 60. Two Families, One Polycule with Catherine and Brian | 01 Jul 2025 | 01:03:45 | |
Catherine and Brian went on Feeld looking for a threesome but things took a turn when Catherine fell for a woman who’s also married with a daughter. Now the two couples (and their kids) have formed a loving polycule built on honesty and care. In today’s episode, we talk about how Brian stays sensually connected to the dynamic by being submissive, even though he’s not sexually involved with Catherine’s girlfriend. We get into how they’ve navigated Catherine having threesomes with her girlfriend and her girlfriend’s husband. We also explore the importance of staying open to evolving dynamics, and why asking thoughtful questions can go further than quick reassurance when your partner is struggling in non-monogamy. Resources mentioned: Bonus content: Accepting myself as a submissive man with Brian: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-60-as-154020880?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link Bonus content: Raising a child in a polycule: https://www.patreon.com/posts/133008939/ Ep.46 More Than A Mother with Molly Roden Winter More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (book) Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube | |||
| 59. Masculinity & Non-Monogamy: A Man’s Memoir with Adam of Seek the Risk | 17 Jun 2025 | 00:57:58 | |
Adam is the author of Seek the Risk, the only memoir I know of by a man about non-monogamy. In this episode, he shares how being with a female partner who was more sexually active than he was challenged his sense of masculinity. He talks about how he overcame those feelings using techniques from his extreme sports background, including recognizing harmful inner narratives and reframing fear. Patreon Bonus Content: What Other People Think vs. What You Know About Yourself Get Adam's Book "Seek the Risk" Write to Adam: adam@seektherisk.net Read Adam's Substack: Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here: https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube | |||
| 58. All About MFM Threesomes with Didi & Alex | 03 Jun 2025 | 00:56:27 | |
In the second part of my conversation with Alex and Didi, we’re diving deep into MFM (male-female-male) threesomes, something they’ve explored together, and that Alex has a lot of experience with solo. He shares how he went from feeling uncomfortable with seeing his partner receive pleasure from another man to actually making it one of his biggest kinks. We talk about why this dynamic can be incredibly enjoyable, how to avoid jealousy, and how shifting your mindset can transform the entire experience. Follow Didi on Instagram at ethicallynonmongamous: https://www.instagram.com/ethicallynonmonogamous/ Listen to Didi's podcast, The Non-Monogamous Spectrum Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0hwFZNSmLwDdDI1aUOvfT5?si=a2c04ea3e07c49aa Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-non-monogamy-spectrum/id1818259334 Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube | |||
| 57. Navigating Couple-to-Couple Play with Didi & Alex | 20 May 2025 | 01:00:11 | |
Today, Didi and Alex talk about what it’s like to be in a relationship where one partner is just beginning to explore non-monogamy while the other has years of experience. We also get into the complexities of couple-to-couple play, including the communication challenges, mismatched expectations, and lessons learned from their early experiences. Patreon Bonus Content: Navigating Couple-to-Couple Play with Didi & Alex Follow Didi on Instagram at ethicallynonmongamous: https://www.instagram.com/ethicallynonmonogamous/ Listen to Didi's podcast, The Non-Monogamous Spectrum Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0hwFZNSmLwDdDI1aUOvfT5?si=a2c04ea3e07c49aa Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-non-monogamy-spectrum/id1818259334 Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Get my free guide to opening up here https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Facebook | |||
| 56. Can a Kinky Relationship Be Asexual? Annie Undone Says Yes | 06 May 2025 | 01:04:07 | |
Today, Annie Undone opens up about her long-distance Dominant/submissive relationship (where she was the dom) with an asexual partner and what it taught her about intimacy. She also shares her journey from monogamy to polyamory and back again, her experience leaving an abusive marriage and dating someone 14 years younger, and why staying grounded in yourself outside of romantic relationships is so important. Resources mentioned: From Polycurious to Poly Part 1: https://www.patreon.com/posts/127305023?utm_campaign=postshare_creator Polycurious YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@polycuriouspodcast Annie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annie_undone/ Annie's writing: https://ko-fi.com/annieundone/shop FetLife: https://fetlife.com/ Discord: https://discord.com/ Feeld: https://feeld.co/ Get my free guide to opening up here https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok Facebook | |||
| 55. Aryn & Josh From Couples Therapy | 22 Apr 2025 | 01:01:51 | |
Today Aryn and Josh from Couples Therapy discuss their decade-long journey navigating polyamory, including their experience in a triad, Josh’s process of overcoming discomfort with Aryn dating other men, and how they use conflict as an opportunity to model how they want to be treated by each other. Watch Couples Therapy on Paramount: https://www.paramountplus.com/shows/couples-therapy/ Listen to the episode with Lorena (Josh's Ex): https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep40 Get my free guide to opening up here https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Facebook | |||
| 54. When Their Actions Don't Match Their Words with Daniella Guimaraes (Velvet Ties) | 08 Apr 2025 | 00:53:33 | |
Daniella Guimaraes is a non-monogamous matchmaker and founder of Velvet Ties social club. Today she shares her CNM journey, why she prefers starting relationships fully open, and lessons from a past partner whose actions contradicted his words. She also tells us how Velvet Ties is bringing the community together and what you have to do to become a part of it. Learn more about the Croatia trip here (make sure to mention Polycurious for $500 off): https://partiful.com/e/ULTwpIFxb5ocL6qjFAwl Learn more about Velvet Ties here (make sure to mention Polycurious for $500 off): velvetties.com Follow Velvet Ties and Daniella on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/velvetties_/ Get my free guide to opening up here https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Facebook | |||
| 53. How to Fortify Your Relationship with Lamees and Nick | 25 Mar 2025 | 01:07:15 | |
Lamees and Nick are a monogamous couple who previously tried non-monogamy and decided it wasn't right for them. Today, they discuss their journey and introduce their "relationship fortification" framework for having honest conversations about relationships. Visit the relationship fortification website here: https://www.relationshipfortification.com/ Follow relationship fortification on Instagram here https://www.instagram.com/relationshipfortification/ Get my free guide to opening up here https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-up Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok Facebook | |||
| 52. How to Find Safety with Luna & Leo | 11 Mar 2025 | 01:30:51 | |
Today, I’m sitting down with my dear friends Luna and Leo for what might be the longest and most insightful conversation I’ve ever recorded. Luna shares her journey of leaving a toxic non-monogamous relationship and finding something healthier and more fulfilling with Leo. We dive into their personal triggers, how their past experiences shaped them, and the self-awareness they’ve gained through opening up. Plus, we talk about the baby steps they’re taking to build a relationship that honors both freedom and emotional security. Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok Facebook | |||
| 51. Hotwife, Mono-Poly or Something Else? | 25 Feb 2025 | 01:07:25 | |
Ellie and Cole went from both being non-monogamous to just Ellie playing with others. But that doesn’t mean Cole doesn’t benefit! Ellie shares videos and pictures of her encounters and brings the sexual energy into their relationship when she gets home. We dive into how this (some might say hotwifing) arrangement works, the conversations that made it possible, and their journey from playing together to settling into a mono-poly dynamic. Listen to Ellie's podcast 'Kink with Alex + Ellie Substack: https://talkingkinkpodcast.com Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6tg4geRbYCJWl2SmwweVod Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/talking-kink-with-alex-ellie/id1727462400 To My Stag, My Hubby full audio: https://soundgasm.net/u/ParcaeNona/To-my-Stag-my-Hubby Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Whatsapp community here https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram Tik Tok Facebook | |||
| 50. Mono-Poly and Non-hierarchical | 11 Feb 2025 | 01:02:57 | |
In this final episode of the Mono-poly mini-series, my assumptions about these relationships get seriously challenged! Shy is solo poly, non-hierarchical, and a relationship anarchist, while Gabrielle, who’s monogamous, has a surprisingly open (some might even say poly) mindset. We dive into what non-hierarchy actually looks like in practice and how even monogamous partners can benefit from polyamory. Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Mono-Poly Whatsapp community here. https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreonhere https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Instagram | |||
| 49. When You're Non-Monogamous and Your Partner Isn't | 04 Feb 2025 | 01:09:02 | |
In this episode, I sit down with Cassie and Schuyler, a couple navigating a mono-poly dynamic—Cassie is open to dating others, while Schuyler has remained monogamous (so far!). We dive into their journey of embracing this relationship style, from Cassie overcoming feelings of guilt to how their dynamic has deepened their connection. Resources mentioned in this episode: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-49-112857174?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_fan&utm_content=web_share Ep.2 Finding the Type of Relationship That Works for You Ep.12 She's Open He's Not with Fer & Seth Book a free exploratory call with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Mono-Poly Whatsapp community here. https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Visit our website polycurious.com Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com | |||
| 48. Don't Ask Don't Tell But Different with Fer & Seth | 28 Jan 2025 | 00:52:50 | |
In this episode Seth and I talk about why he’s never lost his confidence as a monogamous man in a non-monogamous relationship. We unpack how we approach "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" (spoiler: it’s not what you think!) and share what we’ve learned about making a mono-open dynamic work. Resources mentioned in this episode: Ep.12 She's Open He's Not with Fer & Seth Book a free exploratory call with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join our Mono-Poly Whatsapp community here: https://www.polycurious.com/community Join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Follow Polycurious on Visit our website polycurious.com Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Polycurious is one of the 25 top non-monogamy podcasts: https://podcast.feedspot.com/non_monogamy_podcasts/ | |||
| 47. How to Deal with NRE (New Relationship Energy) | 30 Oct 2024 | 00:18:41 | |
Today I'm giving you a little sample of a Patreon episode. Feeling NRE (New Relationship Energy) in non-monogamy for the first time? If you're connecting with someone outside your primary relationship, you might freak out a bit (I sure did!). Here’s what I wish I knew:
Resources: Join my Patreon at patreon.com/c/Polycurious Book an exploratory call here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min | |||
| Announcement! | 03 Sep 2024 | 00:02:50 | |
| 46. More Than A Mother with Molly Roden Winter | 16 Apr 2024 | 01:05:46 | |
In the last episode of the Poly Parents mini-series I spoke to Molly Roden Winter, author of the New York Times Bestseller More: A Memoir of Open Marriage. We spoke about her experience overcoming shame as a non-monogamous mother and how opening up her marriage helped her grow and learn about herself. Get Molly's book here! Follow Polycurious on Join our WhatsApp community here! Visit our website polycurious.com Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Get $10 off STD Check here | |||
| 45. Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh from Monogamish | 09 Apr 2024 | 00:49:09 | |
Today, I talk to writer and coach Sarah Stroh (Monogamish_me on Instagram), a week before giving birth. We speak of how becoming pregnant changed the dating game for her and put her identity as a flirty and adventurous person into question. She also tells us about what led her to decide to co-parent with a friend and how that influenced her partner. Connect with Sarah: Follow Polycurious on Join our WhatsApp community here! Visit our website polycurious.com Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Get $10 off STD Check here | |||
| 44. Opening Up After Two Decades Together | 02 Apr 2024 | 00:42:46 | |
In the second part of my conversation with this couple, we discuss their transition from being open to polyamory, partially due to their three kids leaving for college. They each share their unique methods of dealing with jealousy and other challenging emotions, as well as how they've adapted to these feelings. Finally, they talk about their experience of revealing their non-monogamous relationship to their children, and the unexpected outcomes that followed. Resources mentioned in this episode: Carol & David's Episode: Unlearning Monogamy Esther Perel's Questions to Build Adaptability Join our WhatsApp community here! Follow Polycurious on Visit our website polycurious.com Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Get $10 off STD Check here | |||
| 43. Opening Up After Two Decades Together | 26 Mar 2024 | 00:43:11 | |
This couple decided to open up their marriage after two decades together. Today, they share some of the challenges they faced during that transition, such as learning how much to share about their outside relationships with one another. They also tell us how they used Craiglist (believe it or not) to find a match for their first non-monogamous date. Lastly, they give great tips around finding community. Follow Polycurious on Join our WhatsApp community here! Visit our website polycurious.com Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Get $10 off STD Check here | |||
| 42. Can Non-Monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Evolving Love Project | 20 Mar 2024 | 01:17:34 | |
Abbey and Liam are the voices behind Evolving Love Project, a platform that explores non-monogamy and conscious relationships through Abbey’s writing, their podcast, and conversation evenings and retreats in Australia. In our conversation they tell us how being non-monogamous has helped them reconnect with their independence and return to their family life feeling refreshed. They also reveal how their sexual relationship changed after having their son and what they did to bring back the spice and reconnect. Lastly, we speak of their experience coming out as non-monogamous parents in Australian television. Connect with them: Evolving Love Project Substack Resources mentioned in this episode: Book: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel Follow Polycurious on Visit our website polycurious.com Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Get $10 off STD Check here | |||
| 41. Getting Comfortable with MMF Threesomes with Chamberlin & Michael | 24 May 2023 | 01:02:00 | |
Chamberlin and Michael struggled a lot in their relationship, having periods of opening and closing, cheating and hurting each other and ultimately breaking up. About a month after they broke up, Chamberlin found out that she was pregnant. And for reasons we discuss in the podcast, this pregnancy completely shifted their relationship, for the best. Today we also talk about Michael’s process getting comfortable with having threesomes with other men. So if you are in a heterosexual partnership where you might want to bring a second man in, you might find some useful insights in here. Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Visit our website polycurious.com Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Follow Polycurious on: | |||
| 40. Metamours Who Are Friends with Aviva, Lorena & JD | 17 May 2023 | 01:05:15 | |
Today I chat with metamours JD and Lorena, as well as their common partner Aviva (a metamour is a partner’s partner.) Even though Aviva and Lorena were dating first, JD has become Aviva’s nesting partner. And today we chat about how even though that transition was a little difficult, Lorena was also very happy for Aviva and JD, someone she knew and really liked. I was left feeling warm from this conversation as I could really tell there is so much love and respect between the three of them. I hope that regardless of whether you are close with your metamours or not you can take them as an inspiration in your journey. Resources discussed in this episode: Follow Aviva on Instagram at avivalaviv Check out her website avivalaviv.com Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Visit our website polycurious.com Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Follow Polycurious on: | |||
| 39. Intimacy and Psychedelics with Sarah Tilley | 10 May 2023 | 00:52:32 | |
Today I speak to Sarah Tilley, Founder and CEO of Beautiful Space. Sarah is a psychedelic guide, integration specialist and couple therapist. Today she tells us about her work leveraging the power of psychedelics in relationships. We also talk about what couples might do to increase intimacy even without the use of these substances. Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Visit our website polycurious.com Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Follow Polycurious on: | |||
| 38. Twelve Lessons in my Polycurious Journey | 09 May 2023 | 00:37:02 | |
In this episode I talk about the 12 lessons I have learned in my Polycurious journey.
Resources discussed in this episode:
Follow Polycurious on: Visit our website polycurious.com Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here: https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Get $10 off STD Check here | |||
| 37. How to Have a Good Threesome with All The Feels (Part 2) | 03 May 2023 | 00:56:29 | |
Today I bring to you the second part of my conversation with Natasha + Jeremy, sex coaches and educators behind All The Feels. They give amazing tips around communication in and outside of the bedroom. Jeremy talks about ways that are sexy and respectful to approach women and they both share how to have a threesome that is fun and sexy and where everyone feels safe. We also talk about what one can do if you have a sexual desire or preference your partner doesn’t like. Resources discussed in the episode: Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - Carolyn Elliott Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead Pussy: A Reclamation - Regena Thomashuer Dr. Eva Cadell Certified Sex Coach Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30min Join my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious Visit our website polycurious.com Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com Follow Polycurious on: Instagram Tik Tok Facebook YouTube Twitter | |||