Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments – Details, episodes &amp; analysis

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Case Study: What to Do When Your Child Says "No" to Everything

Season 5 · Episode 344

mardi 27 août 2024 • Duration 15:28

What do you do when a nine-year-old flat-out refuses to take a shower? How might giving your child more autonomy reduce daily power struggles? In today's episode, we dive into these nuanced dynamics of connected parenting.

Joining me today is Jade, a dedicated mother juggling a blended family and her journey into connected parenting. Jade shares her struggle with her strong-willed nine-year-old daughter who challenges the status quo by simply saying, "No." Together, we explore the beauty of natural consequences, the search for autonomy in adolescence, and the importance of connection over control.

In This Episode:

Embracing natural consequences over artificial punishments
Supporting your child's search for autonomy
Prioritizing connection to improve cooperation
Guiding with questions instead of dictating
Empowering children through their own decision-making

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Maintaining Connection During the Teenage Years

Season 5 · Episode 335

jeudi 25 juillet 2024 • Duration 12:53

Have you ever felt like you're losing your little one as they grow into a teen? Imagine the mix of pride and heartbreak as your child starts to pull away, seeking independence while you long for those cozy, close moments. How do we navigate this bittersweet transition?

Today, I explore the emotional rollercoaster of transitioning from parenting young children to guiding adolescents. It's a journey filled with unexpected challenges and poignant moments of letting go. As our children grow and seek more independence, we often feel a deep sense of loss, coupled with the fear of not being needed anymore. But this phase, while challenging, is also a crucial period of growth for both parents and children.

I’ll share with you my own struggles and realizations during my daughter Esme's transition into adolescence. From feeling like the center of her world to navigating the painful moments of rejection and the need for autonomy, I want you to understand how important it is to reframe these experiences. By leaning into connection, understanding our children's need for independence, and finding new ways to bond, we can maintain a strong, supportive relationship.

In This Episode

The emotional impact of children growing up
Coping with feelings of loss
Understanding your child's need for autonomy
Navigating the push-pull dynamics of adolescence
Balancing safety and independence
Maintaining connection through the teenage years

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Manifesting the Relationship You Want

Season 4 · Episode 245

jeudi 14 septembre 2023 • Duration 13:33

As a parent, I have come to understand the significance of positivity and self-belief. In today's world of parenting, it is crucial to reshape our relationships with our children. Instead of labeling them as "difficult," we should view their behaviors as a sign of struggle and support them accordingly. By fostering strong connection with our kids, we can bring a positive change in family dynamics and have a profound impact on our children's lives.

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Why I Don’t Correct My Kids

Season 4 · Episode 244

mardi 12 septembre 2023 • Duration 17:25

Today I want to challenge some long-standing parenting beliefs, specifically the idea of correction and why the conventional methods of correcting our kids might not be as effective as we think. Children already know when they've made a mistake and our role as parents should be to connect and empathize rather than correct. I encourage you to try a ten-day challenge where you put aside correction and focus on nurturing your parent-child relationships through empathy, play, and affection. I truly believe it’s a journey worth exploring.

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Unpunished: Understanding Your Parenting Instincts

Season 4 · Episode 243

jeudi 7 septembre 2023 • Duration 11:15

As parents, we often encounter difficulties when our children bring up unresolved emotions and behaviors from our own upbringing. It is essential to be aware of these emotions and reprogram our natural parenting instincts so that we can respond with love, kindness, and understanding instead of anger and punishment. Today, I would like to share an excerpt from my book, "Unpunished," along with some useful journaling prompts that can help us explore our own history and emotions as parents. By doing so, we can gain a deeper understanding of our reactions to our children's behavior and improve our parenting skills.

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Understanding Your Child's Temperament

Season 4 · Episode 242

mardi 5 septembre 2023 • Duration 13:35

As parents, we often encounter kids with two distinct temperaments. The first type values their authenticity and won't betray themselves, even if it means risking their relationship with their guardian. The second type of child remains loyal to their caretaker and will do anything to comply with their wishes, often leading to a lack of personal growth. Rather than resorting to control to bring these kids to a middle ground, we can help them find balance by using connection and unconditional love.

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The Mother Wounds

Season 4 · Episode 241

jeudi 31 août 2023 • Duration 12:01

I was deeply hurt by two mothers when I was young, my biological mother who left when I was twelve, and my stepmother who came into the picture shortly after. Both of these mother wounds shaped the way I began my parenting journey and set me on a path that would have been similar for my children.

But it was this that led me to find connected parenting and I was able to change the way I parent and in turn, limit the mother wounds for my kids. If we want to prevent these mother wounds then we have to do the deep transformative work in our parenting.

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Sibling Rivalry: Why What You’re Doing Is Making It Worse

Season 4 · Episode 240

mardi 29 août 2023 • Duration 10:20

Today, I'm digging into sibling dynamics. From my own struggles with my sister growing up to parenting my two daughters, it's been a journey. When I became a parent of two girls I immediately started overcorrecting their fights, because I didn't want their relationship to be like mine was growing up. But that only fueled the fire. It took me a while to realize my actions were rooted in my past triggers.

Here's the deal: connection is everything. Sibling relationships thrive when individual bonds are strong. Check out today’s episode and the replay of my masterclass on Sibling Rivalry, it could be a game-changer for you.

Check out my masterclass Sibling Rivalry: Why What You’re Doing Is Making It Worse

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Case Study: I Didn’t Want to Spank

Season 4 · Episode 239

jeudi 24 août 2023 • Duration 24:48

As a parent, Casey faced immense pressure to resort to spanking her children. However, upon discovering my podcast, she felt a strong connection to my approach towards parenting. By joining the Connected Parent Mastermind, she was able to eliminate the use of threats and punishments altogether. Through this, she was able to foster a deeper connection with her children.

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