Have you ever thought about that word: Parenting?Parenting is actually about us, not about our kids. Sure, part of the job of parenting is 'child-rearing,' or 'raising kids,' or whatever you want to call it. With one of my kids, I used to say that it is "my privilege to supervise her while she raises herself." But really -- parenting is not about them. It's about WHO we're BEING while we are doing the work of loving them and guiding them. Our journey is to be with them on their journey -- and that can get complicated sometimes. Messy. Confusing! If you are a parent who knows that this journey of parenting is definitely calling on you to learn some stuff -- if you know that your spiritual or emotional journey in life is being challenged -- then tune in to some highlights from this year's podcasts about the Inside Adventure of Parenting And remember -- however or wherever you are on this fascinating journey of yours -- we're glad that you're on it with us!  Related Links:Why Focus on Parents? Complex Kids Need Our Guidance:  https://youtu.be/me7EkzVWUnAParents: Are You Making Your Kids Your Job?:  https://youtu.be/nkzQZ0h_5v4The Parent Paradox: Avoid 'Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-Solving:  https://youtu.be/726RKC7-8-kWhen it Feels Like It's All Just Too Much:  https://youtu.be/bGCCSYUdIaMRecognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Andreas Krafft holds a doctorate in Management Sciences from the University of St. Gallen, specializing in Organizational Psychology, Culture, and Development. With academic expertise in Social, Work, and Health Psychology, as well as Positive Psychology from the University of Zürich, he serves as an associate researcher and lecturer at St. Gallen and teaches at universities in Zürich, Lisbon, and Berlin. He is co-president of swissfuture, a board member of SWIPPA and DACH-PP, and leads the International Research Network of the Hope-Barometer, with multiple publications on hope. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Andreas Krafft about hope.  Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Andreas stresses that our perceptions of the future play a significant role in shaping our present behaviors and quality of life.In his book "Our Hopes, Our Future," Andreas argues that maintaining hope is a responsibility we owe to ourselves and future generations.Andreas highlights the importance of viewing the future as something to be actively constructed and shaped. Related Links: https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-662-66205-2Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Complex kid, 19-year-old Leighton Katz was a perfectionist struggling with depression, anxiety, and executive functioning, who embarked on a journey of self-acceptance and discovery to find a balance between her perfectionist tendencies and her unique way of thinking. 12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too! Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Leighton Katz about finding support and coping with anxiety and perfectionism issues as an adolescent.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:The challenge of starting tasks she doesn’t want to do, or is told to doThe shift from doing well in school to struggling, and what contributedThe skills and tools she uses now to navigate and cope with her complexitiesConnect with ImpactParentswww.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Enjoy our second installment of takeaways from the 2022 International Conference on ADHD. Elaine and Diane explore the irony of technology addiction in young people, discussing strategies to help create a game-life balance and avoid the pitfalls of problem screen use, while empowering kids to play to their strengths and stay curious. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss technology and gaming research as presented at the 2022 International Conference on ADHD.12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too! Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The correlation between screen use, excessive gaming, and severe ADHD.Understanding the four types of screen use and the three types of gamers.The risks and benefits of gaming, and how to collaborate with kids on a gaming agreementRelated Links:Surgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbOpinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb  Connect with Elaine and Diane:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn: @impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

An 18-year-old perfectionist student, Sophie Didier, diagnosed with ADHD, bipolar disorder, and Tourette's, is forced to confront the challenges of her diagnoses and the stigma attached to them, all while striving to reach her goal of understanding and managing her condition.Improve Conversations and Build Trust with Young AdultsAt ImpactParents we promise you this: it’s not too late. As professional coaches and the moms of 6 young adults, in this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and build trust with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world are improving relationships with their young adults using these tools. You can, too! Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Sophie Didier about the impact of multiple diagnoses in complex kids.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:How having ADHD, bipolar disorder, and Tourette’s impact a young person's lifeThe impact of finding the right medication for a person's individual needsHow to be better equipped to recognize and respond to your child’s needsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Debbie Steinberg Kuntz is a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of Bright & Quirky. When she started her family counseling practice a decade ago, she had no idea this would be her specialty. But her sons, now teenagers, had some unique strengths and challenges that she dove deeply into understanding.Debbie learned that they were ‘2e’ or ‘twice exceptional,’ meaning they are smart and also have unique brain wiring that makes accessing those smarts at times challenging. As she researched and found solutions for them, she started to share the learning with families in her private practice near Seattle. You may know that in the Seattle area, they have many highly skilled, uniquely wired people working for nearby high-tech companies (i.e. Amazon, Microsoft). Debbie’s practice includes many such families, eager for information on raising 2e kids.Top of Form Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Debbie Steinberg-Kuntz about addressing strengths and unlocking the full potential of 2e kids. Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The "Bright and Quirky" phenomenon and how parents can find help for 2E kidsThe benefits of focusing on your child's strengths over their lagging skillsManaging your child's internet use and creating balance of online and offline learning  Executive Function Podcast EpisodesEp 006 Executive Function Skills: What Every Parent Needs to Know with Seth Perler Anxiety Podcast Episodes Ep 014 Anxiety 101: Letting Go of Expectations, A SUCCESS STORYEp 015 Parenting Anxious Childhood Emotions with Eli Lebowitz 504/IEP Podcast EpisodesEp 077: Accommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role? with Elaine & DianeEp 089: Honoring Individuality: ‘Different’ Changes The World with Jonathan MooneyExperimenter Mindset Podcast EpisodesEp 034: Growth Happens in Times of Failure with Beth McGaw COME BACK in April of 2023 to register for our Online Tech Summit in MAY! Connect with Debbie:Brightandquirky.comInstagram Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a parent interested in Suicide Prevention, but feeling frustrated in your attempts to get Mental Health Awareness out there? Are you being told to just ‘educate yourself’ or ‘do more research’, but finding it difficult to make tangible progress? If you’re feeling the pain of not being able to get the Mental Health Awareness you need, then this episode is for you.Suicide Prevention Speaker and Trainer, Frank King blends his experience as a 7-times TEDx Talker on Mental Health, a clean, clever stand-up comedian, and as a warrior in his own lifelong battle with depression and thoughts of suicide, for content-packed and eminently listenable keynote presentations and workshops.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Frank King about suicide prevention and what parents can do to make a positive impact.12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too! Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How Frank merged his personal experience with his comedic talent to help others in the workplace who struggle with suicidal thoughts.What is Chronic Suicide Ideation and how can you change your thinking when presented with a challenge?What is the three-legged stool of suicidality, and the importance of understanding how a suicidal person is thinking. It isn’t just about wanting to die. What parents can say and do. If You or Someone You Know is Thinking About Suicide:988 Lifeline  Dial or TEXT 988National Alliance Mental Illness (NAMI) Links Mentioned:The Message of You: Turning Your Life into a Money Making Speaking Career by Judy Carter Related Articles:Articles on Depression for Parents: The Arduous BattleWhat I’ve Learned About Parenting a Teen with DepressionTreating Depression & Anxiety Disorder in People with ADHDWhen Parenting is Scary: Parenting Kids with Depression, Anxiety, and MoreWhat To Do if You Suspect Depression in Your KidSigns of Adolescent Depression Video: Distraction & Depression Connect with Frank:Website Twitter Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Hannah Majchrak, a bright and determined complex kid, is tested for ADHD and Anxiety, she discovers the key to managing her condition and defies expectations by flourishing despite her diagnosis.Improve Conversations and Build Trust with Young AdultsAt ImpactParents we promise you this: it’s not too late. As professional coaches and the moms of 6 young adults, in this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and build trust with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world are improving relationships with their young adults using these tools. You can, too! Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Hannah Majchrak about her experience as a teen, managing anxiety and learning differences.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:What it is like to be a complex kidThe difference between anxiety and stressManaging a learning disability and finding success in life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Healthcare Engagement Consultant, David Lavietes delivers unique advice for parents of complex kids about problem solving, insights into human behavior and decision-making, and how different kinds of jobs depend on different kinds of problem solving.  Listen to this special Parenting With Impact episode with David Lavietes about the most effective way to help their children problem solve and make decisions, ultimately empowering them to take ownership of their own lives. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Insights into how people think, feel, and act so you can engage more appropriately.Why people make certain decisions and the importance of personal motivation to changeUsing different problem-solving methodologies to find solutions that work best for the individual Related Links:Stumbling on Happiness Book by Daniel GilbertBlink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking Book by Malcolm Gladwell3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you feeling frustrated and helpless because the strategies you've implemented to help your child with their complex needs aren't yielding the desired results and your mental wellbeing is suffering?Meredith Walters is a coach and author who loves to help people remember who they are and what they have to give the world. She helps others express their calling in powerful and practical ways, in their current job or something new. 12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too! Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Meredith Walters about growing up with depression and anxiety, the lessons learned, and hope for other teens going through the same.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:How to manage complex issues in young adulthood.How medication can help in managing depression and anxiety.Managing depression and anxiety by feeling emotions and connecting to passions.Connect with Meredith:Website Free guide with 50 practical ideas, resources, and exercises to help you find your calling without losing your mind (or your shirt.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The New Year is a great time to reset expectations and make plans for the future. Elaine and Diane believe that taking responsibility, acknowledging the need for a reset and designing how to do it differently can create opportunities for a fresh start. Motivation GuideIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how we can shift from a place of desperation to a place of inspiration.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Using milestones for a fresh start and a do-overBreaking out of repetitive patterns in our relationshipsStrategies for resetting our expectations and shifting our perspectivesConnect with Elaine and Diane:www.impactparents.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you feel like you can’t achieve balance, no matter how hard you try, that you put in the effort, but are not seeing results, you aren’t alone.For 25 years, Jo Dodd worked in Corporate America for a Fortune 500 company. With every passing year came more stress.Jo was completely overwhelmed and felt like she was failing in every aspect of her life. She was fighting a daily battle to keep a smile on her face and put one foot in front of the other. In 2020, She was furloughed and it was then that her world began to change. She’d always had a dream of writing children’s books. So, she spent my time writing books, getting her coaching certificate, and dreaming of a life where she could touch hearts with her books. These days, Jo is designing her life where she gets to be the Mum who has time to spend with her kids. She is writing books with her younger sons and enjoying every moment of watching their excitement as they too become published authors! Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Jo Dodd about reimagining your life in a way that is fulfilling and brings value to others.Ten Self-Care Tips for ParentsDo you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How to transition your thinking and actions to achieve greater balance and well-being.The importance of self-care and its essential role in a healthy family.The power of positive thinking, embracing diversity, and crushing fear. Jo Dodd’s Books:Dear Mama Bear with the F*cked Up Hair Take That, Fear! Tilly Toad’s Heavy Load We All Like Different Things  Connect with Jo:Website Instagram Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the three A’s: Awareness, Acknowledgment, and Action. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of approaching challenges with an open mind and a willingness to experiment."Commit to calm before you take action;" By cultivating a sense of calm and mindfulness, parents can make more deliberate and effective decisions in response to their children's behaviors.Elaine and Diane highlight the value of involving children in the decision-making process and seeking their feedback. Related Links:Welcome to Parenting With Impact:  https://youtu.be/FykSBnaWXhkHow Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools:  https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.:  https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_PAccommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role?:  https://youtu.be/2tfQ4nZDs2E?si=Ysl6UyqmxyZyIIUdSelf-Awareness, Self-Regulation & Self Management:  https://youtu.be/V49MEzft064?si=jSOOO4ZmjvEiaVu6The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily Tasks:  https://youtu.be/Z6AiUIxhWnE?si=cXo9oxKWOX1YE-PA  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s tempting to ignore the looming shadow that is college. It’s the monster under the bed, the squirrel in the attic – we leave it alone and hope it goes away. But as usual, denial isn’t the answer. How DO we prepare our teens for college readiness and college success?Theresa E. Laurie Maitland earned her M.Ed. and Ph.D at the University of Pittsburgh. She has been a Learning Specialist and Academic Coach at the Learning Center at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill since 1994, working with students with learning, attention and emotional challenges, assisting them in turning those challenges into gifts. In 2003 she became a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC). She has been the primary investigator on research projects studying coaching and its impact on college students, and investigating the graduation rates and enrollment patterns of college students with ADHD/LD. Dr. Maitland co-authored Coaching College Students with ADHD: Issues and Answers, Ready for Take-Off: Preparing Teens with ADHD or LD for College, and On Your Own: A College Readiness Guide for Teens with ADHD/LD.  10 Parenting Tips for School Success with Complex KidsThere are only 10 tips in this FREE parent’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents -- and they’re the only ones you need to give you the foundation to help your kids find school success! Used by parents all over the world, you learn quick steps to lighten the load and help smart kids feel good about school again.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Theresa Maitland about how preparing early on is the best way to help your kids through the transition from high school to college.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Be the co-pilot and help your child make decisions and practice independenceAcknowledging your child’s specific difficulties helps them to address it with othersGet your child to plan their future and have an ongoing conversation with them about it Related Articles:Parenting Through DenialSteps To College Readiness- It’s Not Too LateHow Do I Stop Nagging My Kids?                  The 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part 1: Self-AwarenessThe 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part 2: Self-AdvocacyOvercoming Learning Challenges- A Complex Kid Speaks OutA Manifesto from a Teen with Learning DisabilitiesOther articles for post High School readinessWhen Teens with ADHD Turn 18A Letter to My Teen About to Leave HomeSenior Year for ParentsFostering Independence and When to Let GoIs a Gap Year a Good Fit?Selecting a College for a child with ADHDPreparing Complex Child for College AdmissionsPreparing Complex Students for Success at CollegeWhat Does School Readiness Mean with ADHDScholarships and Aid BooksPreparing Teens with LD and ADHD for CollegeCoaching College StudentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you want your children to be emotionally intelligent, socially competent, and self-regulated? Dr. Michele Borba is sharing a 7-step solution to help them gain the skills they need to be successful.Dr. Michele Borba is an educational psychologist, best-selling author, and TODAY show contributor who has spoken to over one million participants on five continents and to countless media about child development issues.She blends 40 years of teaching and consulting experience with latest science to offer sound, realistic advice to parents, teachers, and child advocates about helping children thrive.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Michele Borba about how to empower your child and promote resilience with the 7 key skills Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How parents can make a difference in their child's lifeWhat kids need from adults to thriveHow to foster resilience in kids Links Mentioned:Thrivers: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine Connect with Dr. Michele Borba:Website Twitter Instagram Facebook YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you ever wish you had someone in your life who was reliably calm and collected, a voice of reason available at a moment’s notice? Turns out, you know that person– it’s the voice of your pre-frontal cortex.Unfortunately, that voice takes on a different tone for people with ADHD. For them, fear and anxiety take over.Tamara Rosier, PhD, is founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan, where she and her staff work with individuals with ADHD (and their families) to learn strategies and develop new skills to live effectively with ADHD. Dr. Rosier is also the president of the ADHD Coaches Organization. She is a popular conference and keynote speaker, is a frequent guest on podcasts, and has published numerous articles about living with ADHD. She lives in West Michigan.Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their TracksIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Tamara Rosier about how to get a stronger sense of how to work with fear and anxiety in ADHD and help create a voice of reason.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Emotional override is a kid’s subconscious attempt to “rewrite their brains.”Anxiety can be used as a motivating force for individuals with ADHD.Creating a voice of reason will create calm and allow identification of the root cause.Links Mentioned:Taking ADHD/LD from Stress to De-StressFive Motivators to Get Anything DoneWhat is DBT and How Does It Differ from Other Treatment?A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?Connect with Dr. Rosier:Website Instagram LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel like you're constantly fighting an uphill battle to get your neurodiverse child the help they need, and nothing you're doing is working? Today’s guest will give you hope. Jonathan Mooney is a widely sought-after speaker whose work has been featured in The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, The Chicago Tribune, USA Today, HBO, NPR, ABC News, New York Magazine, The Washington Post, and The Boston Globe. Jonathan is a dyslexic writer, speaker, and do-gooder who did not learn to read until 12 years old. Despite the low expectations of others, he graduated from Brown university with an honors degree in English Literature. Jonathan has won multiple awards, including The Harry S. Truman fellowship for public services, was a finalist for a Roads Scholarship, LA Achievement award from The Lab school of Washington where he shared the stage with then Vice President Joe Biden. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Jonathan Mooney as he teaches us to honor what each person brings to the world and to not be a judge of “normal”.Motivation Guide:In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The importance of self-advocacy for neurodivergent learners.Strength-based versus deficit-based approaches to neurodiversity.The power of positive future-focused thinking for neurodivergent learners.Links Mentioned:Learning Outside The LinesNormal SucksConnect with Jonathan:Website LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emotions can influence our behaviors quite directly. When you are proud of your kids, emotions might help you celebrate and share your joy, and encourage your children to continue on a path to success. When you are ashamed of your kids, they might interfere with your ability to be as supportive as your child needs you to be.Susan Bauerfeld, PhD is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Wilton, CT. Bringing a combination of skills and experience with CBT, attachment theory, neuropsychology, cognitive remediation, coaching and parenting her 3 wonderful, challenging boys, she is an ardent proponent of facilitating change through education, understanding, skill development and practice. She offers workshops, psychotherapy and guidance for parents looking to strengthen their relationships and effectiveness with their children, and ADHD coaching for teens and adults. Dr. Bauerfeld holds an MA and PhD from Fairleigh Dickinson University, a BA from Trinity College and is a member of APA, CTPA, CHADD and Phi Beta Kappa.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Dr. Susan Bauerfeld about how emotions influence behavior and how to manage them.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Shift from shame and blame to a more productive approachTackling the real challenge, rather than focusing on the threatProblem-solving from your frontal lobe, and overcoming the “Amygdala hijack”Connect with Dr. Bauerfeld:Website:  https://susanbauerfeld.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Elaine and Diane sit down to cover what stood out at the International Conference on ADHD in Dallas, Texas this November. The growth of the conference over the years highlights many perspectives and approaches to ADHD.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss this year’s International Conference on ADHD, in Dallas.Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The growth of the coaching industry in relation to ADHDThe increase in diversity and perspectives at the conferenceThe idea that emotions are real and should not be shut down Connect with Elaine and Diane:www.impactparents.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you had to choose one word to describe the community that you want to live in and your children to grow up in, what would it be?Guest expert, Dr. Shauna Tominey, poses this question early on in this interview. It’s a question she’s asked countless individuals over a series of years, and she explains that almost everyone’s answer tends to point back to social and emotional skills. Words like “safe,” “happy,” “compassionate,” and “accepting” come up frequently.Dr. Shauna Tominey is an Assistant Professor of Practice and Parenting Education Specialist at Oregon State University. She currently serves as the Principal Investigator for the Oregon Parenting Education Collaborative, an initiative to provide high-quality parenting education to all Oregon families with children ages 0-6. Previously, Dr. Tominey served as the Director of Early Childhood Programming and Teacher Education at the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. As a former educator and family service professional, Dr. Tominey blends practical experience with research to develop and test programs aimed at promoting self-regulation and social-emotional skills for children and the adults in their lives. She is the author of “Creating Compassionate Kids: Essential Conversations to have with Young Children.” Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Dr. Shauna Tominey about creating compassionate kids and families.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:ADHD kids need extra practice in developing social and emotional skills.Repetition is key! Keep practicing, and it will eventually become commonplace.Compassion and patience are needed as social and emotional skills are developed. Related Blogs:Six Things to STOP Saying to your (ADHD) KidsCompassion is a Cornerstone of ADHD ManagementWalking on Eggshells? How to Help ADHD Kids Control EmotionsHow Are Values Guiding Parents And Kids? Choosing Self-Compassion Over Self-EsteemHow to Stop the Madness: Mindfulness to Get Happier ADHD Families A Huge “aha” Moment: Set Realistic Expectations for ADHD Kids  Connect with Dr. Tominey:www.creatingcompassionatekids.orgCreating Compassionate Kids: Essential Conversations to have with Young ChildrenLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a parent of a young adult looking to create deeper, more meaningful relationships with them? You may have been told to simply "communicate more," but what if you're still struggling to bridge the gap?This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Mary Christine O'Connor Thomsen is a former SEPTA head and parent of two adult children. She has used the coach approach to shift her parenting style and rebuild her relationship with her children.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Mary Christine O’Connor Thomsen about rebuilding family relationships using the coach approach.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How a shift in focus from results to participation can transform relationshipsThe importance of connecting with other parents for support when raising young adultsThe "gift of matter-of-fact" can manage triggers and regain perspective.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sharon Saline knows a thing or two about what complex kids want. As a clinical psychologist and author, she has interviewed kids with ADHD about what they want their parents to do differently.Sharon Saline, Psy.D., clinical psychologist and author of the award-winning book, What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life and The ADHD solution card deck specializes in working with kids, young adults and families living with ADHD, learning disabilities and mental health issues. Her unique perspective - as a sibling in an ADHD home, combined with decades of experience as a clinical psychologist and educator/clinician consultant - assists her in guiding families and adults towards effective communication and closer connections. She lectures and facilitates workshops internationally on topics such as understanding ADHD, executive functioning, anxiety, different kinds of learners and the teen brain. Dr. Saline is a regular contributor to ADDitudemag.com and PsychologyToday.com, a featured expert on MASS Appeal on WWLP-TV and a part-time lecturer at the Smith School for Social Work.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day. Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Sharon Saline about the 5 things most ADHD kids wish their parents did differently.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Recognizing effort goes a very long wayHow you can help them to manage what they are feelingIncluding your child on decision-making when possible Related Blogs:There Are Only 5 Motivators For People With ADHDHow To Help (Without Enabling) Your Kid: The Four Roles of the Parent Rewards Systems: Why They Work and How To Start One Moms Have Feelings Too: 7 Ways to Deal with Rude (Pre) Teens4 Tips to Introduce an ADHD Child to Systems and Structures Connect with Sharon:Website: https://drsharonsaline.com/The ADHD solution card deck  What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The brain is a very complex and fascinating thing. How does it affect you wellbeing, and what can you do to improve overall brain wellness?Dr. Jackson is a Board-Certified Cognitive Specialist and a Doctor of Chiropractic. As a life-long student, her studies have continued with extensive post-graduate education in the areas of neurodevelopmental disorders, clinical translational research, nutrition, and functional neurology. Years of clinical work, hands-on experience with over 1,000 children and adults, being a mom, and the desire to help each individual maximize their potential led her to where she is today. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Rebecca Jackson about how to help your child have a healthy brain and be their best self.Motivation Guide: In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How the brain works and how it affects our everyday livesThe concept of neuroplasticity and how the brain can change at any ageHow to improve brain function through brain training and other exercisesConnect with Dr. Jackson:Dr. Rebecca JacksonWebsite Instagram LinkedIn  Brain Balance:Website FacebookTwitterYouTubeLinkedInInstagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the world of childhood ADHD, you may have heard of Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), and you might even have some opinions about it, too. It often travels with untreated ADHD. But as the medical community begins to understand the overlap between ADHD and Autism, we want to invite you to learn more about a presentation of Autism called PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance). To be honest, there’s some controversy about this diagnosis, because it exists in the UK and Australia, but not officially in the US. So, let’s focus instead on the reality of what’s going on when a child resists and avoids the demands of life! In our community, we’ve learned that if you can understand what’s underlying troublesome behaviors, you can support them better. And this conversation with Nicola is guaranteed to help you do just that!  Nicola Reekie is a parent to a young, autistic person who has a PDA profile. PDA is an abbreviation for Pathological Demand Avoidance or, as some prefer, Pervasive Drive for Autonomy. Her mission is to support families and professionals in understanding PDA, and she founded The PDA Space to provide resources that will deepen their understanding to create a safer environment for young people. A solution-focused therapist, Nicola collaborates with many amazing families, education and healthcare professionals to information and an excellent support network that supports their emotional well-being and helps to create calm in often challenging situations. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Nicola Reekie. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The episode highlights the significance of approaching individuals with PDA with compassion and understanding, focusing on their unique needs rather than demanding conformity.Nicola emphasizes the importance of establishing connections and collaborating with individuals with PDA.Nicola explains framing behaviors as neurologically driven rather than defiant can shift the perspective and reduce stigma. Links Mentioned:Bloody Awesome Parents Awards:  https://www.myfamilyourneeds.co.uk/baps/Website:  https://www.thepdaspace.comAutism, PDA & Combative Behaviors:  https://youtu.be/fmFRyyelMsQConnect with Nicola:Website:  https://www.thepdaspace.com/Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1632926726873571YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@thepdaspacenicolareekie264/videos Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Siblings fight – we wish it didn’t happen, but sometimes there’s nothing we can do. Or is there? Sometimes, a fight is just a fight. But more often than not, there’s a deeper issue at play. For example, a squabble over a stuffed animal may actually be a competition for attention.Roya Kravetz is a Board Certified and ICF Credentialed Life Coach specializing in strength-based coaching for children, teens, adults, and parents whoselives are affected by ADHD or similar behavioral and/or organizational challenges.She is also a certified Career Coach, mainly for clients with an ADHD diagnosis. Roya is Co-Founder and a Thought-Leader for Parenting 2.0, an international movement that facilitates positive change by nurturing a more proactive life skills educational process.She has been published several times and is a regular speaker at local, national and international conferences. Fluent in three languages, Roya coachesclients nationally and internationallyTop 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their TracksIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Roya Kravetz about some of the best ways to help kids get along, especially siblings in a family with ADHD. Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:What is the impact of ADHD on family dynamics?How important it is to educate both the child and the parents about ADHD?How do ADHD coaches help to modify the family dynamic? Related Blogs:Pick Your Battles To Achieve Family PeaceHow to Get Siblings to Love Each Other3 step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & TeensSix Things to STOP Saying to your (ADHD) KidsWhy Nagging Doesn't Work, Especially for Kids with ADHDRelationships by Design Connect with Roya:WebsiteFacebookTwitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you struggling to understand why your complex child behaves and responds the way they do? There are many nuances to the what and why, it often requires an expert to analyze it for you. Enter Mikki Gaffen Stone. Mikki is a Licensed Board-Certified Behavior Analyst and Certified Youth Mental Health Specialist. She has travelled widely, working with families on three continents, in 8 countries.Her background as a registered nurse, Montessori teacher and preschool assistant teacher - and as a parent herself - gives Mikki a broad range of experience and understanding to draw from when working with the diverse needs of children and parents.Mikki's favorite place to start is with communication and understanding. Enhancing understanding between parents and children is an excellent place to begin when looking to create safe, happy homes for all family members to enjoy. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Mikki Gaffen Stone as she shares her unique perspective on coaching parents of complex children to see beyond labels and find their child’s strengths. Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:What is masking, and why do people do it?How can you teach empathy if someone doesn't have the inclination for it?What are the benefits and drawbacks of making eye contact? Connect with Mikki:WebsiteFacebook LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"I don't know anyone with ADHD who doesn't have trouble with sleep," says Guest Expert Dr. Roberto Olivardia, kicking things right into gear for this week’s podcast. Along with eating and general impulsivity, sleep is a top complaint Olivardia hears from parents of the kids he works with.It’s important to know that it’s not kids being difficult that causes the problems. Research shows that, for many with ADHD, their circadian rhythm can actually be offset, which makes it hard to fall asleep.Roberto Olivardia, Ph.D., is a Clinical Psychologist and Lecturer in the Department of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He maintains a private psychotherapy practice in Lexington, Massachusetts, where he specializes in the treatment of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and in the treatment of eating disorders in boys and men. He has spoken on numerous podcasts and webinars and presents at many talks and conferences around the country. He currently sits on the Professional Advisory Boards for Children and Adults with ADHD (CHADD) and the Attention Deficit Disorder Association (ADDA). He also serves on the Scientific Advisory Board for ADDitude and is a Featured Expert for Understood. Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Roberto Olivardia about understanding the connection of sleep to ADHD management.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Sleep is a fundamental issue for people with ADHDUnderstanding how sleep affects you kid helps map out a course for solutionsCreate a mutual understanding with your child to create sleep routines Related Articles:It All Starts with SleepFive Things to Get Your Kids (or Anyone) to Do What You AskConnect with Roberto:https://add.org/professional-directory/dr-roberto-olivardia/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all want our kids to be able to regulate and manage their own behavior. Kids with ADHD are particularly prone to risky behaviors, which are often a way of seeking out stimulation. How do we manage risky behavior?Listen to this insightful Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to address and manage risky behavior in ADHD kids.12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The manifestation of risky behaviors in kids with ADHDHelp manage risky behaviors and encourage good decisionsIdentifying the underlying causes, and addressing themConnect with Elaine and Dianewww.impactparents.comInstagram@impactparentsFacebook@impactparentLinkedIn@impactparentsTwitter@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If so – you probably find yourself frustrated and flustered at times, unsure how to support without enabling, how to guide without hovering – and how to help make sure your child or students are able to learn strategies to take ownership of their education and become independent over time.10 Parenting Tips for School Success with Complex KidsThere are only 10 tips in this FREE parent’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents -- and they’re the only ones you need to give you the foundation to help your kids find school success! Used by parents all over the world, you learn quick steps to lighten the load and help smart kids feel good about school again.Michelle Cooper and Michelle Grey are mothers with a background in business and strong organizational and interpersonal skills. They help small businesses and residential clients reach their full potential by becoming more efficient and productive. Both are Certified Professional Organizers, members of the National Association of Professional Organizers and the Institute for Challenging Disorganization. They are founding members of the NAPO special interest group for student organizers. In addition to maintaining separate businesses, the Michelles work together to make a difference in the lives of children. Student Organizers of Atlanta works with all age students. While they do collaborate with teachers, the majority of their efforts are spent working one on one with students and their families. Based on extensive research on individual learning styles and brain function, they established a comprehensive method to design organizational systems that accommodate each student's unique needs. Student Organizers of Atlanta provides public speaking throughout the Atlanta area. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Michelle Cooper and Michelle Grey about organization skills for complex kids.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Understanding your child’s needs and how they process informationUnderstanding a hands-on approach is needed before your child is self-managedTackling frustration of why your kids “can’t just” do something Related Blogs:3 Tips for Parents when School is Hard for Complex KidsOutrageous Homework Advice for Kids with ADHDConnect with “The Michelles”:Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A pill is not always the fix-all for any condition. ADHD is no different. For some, the medications can create more problems than they solve. Dietary changes can offer an alternative. Dana Kay is a board-certified holistic health and nutrition practitioner, two times international bestselling author, and the CEO and founder of the ADHD Thrive Institute. As a mother of a child with ADHD, she knows firsthand the struggles that come with parenting a neurodiverse child and the freedom that is possible once parents learn to reduce ADHD symptoms. Dana has been featured in Forbes and Authority Magazine and on Medium, Influencive, Thrive Global, and various other online media. She has also been a guest at multiple parenting and ADHD summits and podcasts. Her mission is to help families reduce ADHD symptoms naturally so that children with ADHD can thrive at home, at school, and in life. Listen to this information-filled Parenting With Impact episode with Dana Kay about her journey of finding an alternative to medication to treat her child’s ADHD through dietary changes. Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Removing the toxic load from your child’s life can reduce inflammation.Is chelation the right choice for your child?Your health is highly impacted by your gut, including your brain function Links Mentioned:Thriving With ADHD BookCure Your Child with Food Book  Related Articles:Going Gluten Free  Eating Gluten was Making a Mess of My DaughterGoing Gluten Free Reduced my Daughter’s Toxic Load, But Wasn’t PanaceaIs Gluten Taking the Blame for an Herbicide Problem? Article  Connect with Dana:WebsiteFacebookInstagramYouTubeLinkedInPinterestTikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Backpack? Check. Lunchbox? Check. Brushed teeth? Check. You breathe a sigh of relief, rushing your kids to the bus stop. You just barely make it before the bus leaves, and you look down.Shoes. You forgot to check for shoes. Morning madness strikes again.Sound familiar? Check.As parents of complex kids, we have had many struggles getting our kids out the door. It's a universal challenge. And this week’s guest expert interview with Dr. Michele Novotni gives the scoop on some simple tricks to manage morning madness. Dr. Michele Novotni is an internationally recognized expert in the field of ADHD. She spearheaded the lobbying efforts for the U. S. Senate Resolution for a national ADHD Awareness Day, and is the former president of ADDA, a best-selling author, psychologist, coach, consultant for Shire, and parent of a young adult with ADHD. The author of What Does Everybody Else Know That I Don't? and The Novotni Social Skills Checklist, she has served as a resource for national publications such as The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, Seventeen Magazine, MSNBC.com, and more. A columnist for ADDitude Magazine, she and was the technical editor for ADHD For Dummies.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Dr. Michele Novotini about minimizing stress and mayhem in the mornings before school.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Learning to problem-solve WITH your child, not for themSetting alarms to help with time managementIncorporating additional time to allow for last-minute tasks Related Blogs:Let Your Kids Create Their Own Systems and StructuresMornings and Teens with ADHD- Can They End in “I Love You”?Related Course:Minimize Meltdowns Connect with Dr. Novotini:Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gender identity is a topic today amongst youth. If you are a parent who has a child who is questioning their gender identity, you certainly have a lot of questions about how to best support them on their journey. Cate “Cash” Ashby is a licensed psychotherapist in New Mexico and California and Florida. They hold a Master’s degree in counseling from the College of Santa Fe. Cash specializes in counseling individuals and families who want to focus on issues related to gender and sexuality. They work with: LGBTQ folks specifically focused on transgender and clients who desire to process their gender identity with a supportive therapist, supporting Queer folks in their journey to alignment within themselves and their surroundings, educating parents, family members and employers as to how to help create gender-affirming relationships and environments.Cash utilizes the following approaches: Following the WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health) standards of care for mental health for transgender and non-binary individuals; Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)-a researched-based, a modified type of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Its main goals are to teach people how to live in the moment, develop healthy ways to cope with stress, regulate their emotions, and improve their relationships with others; The research and curriculum of Dr. Brené Brown, PhD-New York Times Bestselling Author and Social Work scholar. Listen to this informative Parenting With Impact episode with Cash Ashby about how to begin the conversation and be supportive of your child if they are questioning or changing their gender identity. “Parenting Gender and/or Queer Kids with Neurodiversity”Raising complex kids with gender &/or sexuality identity differences can be isolating, frustrating and scary. Add a layer of neurodiversity and it can feel like we’re parenting in a whole new dimension. This FREE one-page resource guide provides parents of neurodiverse kids who identify as queer or questioning with links to established resources, organizations, influencers, and books (for kids and adults), and an invitation to join an online group: Gender &/or Queer Kids with Neurodiversity (Parent Group).Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Addressing a shift in your child’s gender identity with an open mind and respectHonoring both perspectives of parent and child based on lived experiencesHow to handle exploration of medical changes Links Mentioned:What is DBT and How Does it Differ From Other Treatement?WPATH, The World Professional Association For Transgender HealthThe Transgender Training InstituteImpactParents Neuro-Queer Support GroupNEW: 4 Week Support Group for Parents!Connect with Cash:Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A child that is both gifted (a 130 IQ, according to the Columbus Group) and has at least one learning disability (LD) may also be referenced as twice exceptional (or 2E).Dr. Michael Postma is a consultant, speaker, and author dedicated to the holistic development of both gifted and twice-exceptional children. Over the last two decades, Dr. Postma has worked in the field of gifted/talented education as both a teacher and administrator in the Public School system, and was the architect of the Minnetonka Navigator Program, a magnet school for highly and profoundly gifted students. He currently is the Executive Director of the SENG (Supporting the Emotional Needs of Gifted) Organization (SengGifted.org), lives in Surf City, NC and is the father of four children, three of whom are twice-exceptional.Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Michael Postma about what it means to be twice exceptional.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:How does “gifted” interact with learning disabilities?The importance of social/emotional development in gifted individualsSocietal shortcomings in recognizing and addressing challenges for 2E kidsLinks Mentioned:Five Motivators to Get Anything DoneUnderachiever or Overachiever?The Link Between Brain Maturity & Academic Success with ADHDPlay Your Way to a Higher IQ  Connect with Michael:Gifted And ThrivingInstagramFacebookLinkedInLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Revolutionizing the education system through technology is a hot topic today. How are the needs of ADHD students a part of the conversation? Elaine and Diane sit down with Entrepreneur, Adrien Harrison as he talks about his targeted courses that offer solutions to the particular struggles of ADHD learners. Adrien is a serial entrepreneur, startup advisor, and the founder of Smart Course, an education technology and healthcare startup offering online courses, marketplaces, and a collaborative platform for caregivers of kids with special needs. Adrien consults for hundreds of founders, advising them on finding product-market fit, business development best practices, UI/UX design, digital marketing, online course creation, B2B/B2C sales, mindset, and scaling startups. He provides an end-to-end solution for entrepreneurs from market validation to product management to full-stack branding to sales and marketing optimization. Adrien’s main focus, Smart Course, tackles the lack of effective education for people with special needs or learning disabilities. Smart Course takes a tailored approach to student’s diverse personalities, skills, and problems; customizing and iterating its approach with data-driven content that leads to action and results. That way, students, clients, and caregivers can collaborate with the confidence and resources necessary to achieve their goals. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Adrien Harrison about an innovative way to customize learning for ADHD kids.10 Parenting Tips for School Success with Complex KidsThere are only 10 tips in this FREE parent’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents -- and they’re the only ones you need to give you the foundation to help your kids find school success! Used by parents all over the world, you learn quick steps to lighten the load and help smart kids feel good about school again. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:What are the commonalities of learning issues for Middle School children?How can we simplify what teachers need to learn and do to support ADHD kids?The challenges of coordinating parents/teachers/kids on a single system.Links Mentioned:ADHD in Middle School Summit ADHD Summit  Related Videos:What do Teachers Really Know About ADHD? Teacher Training and ADHD  Connect with Adrien:Website Twitter Facebook LinkedIn YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Robert Melillo is a leading expert in developmental neurological conditions such as ADHD, autism, OCD, tics, dyslexia, anxiety, and depression in both children and adults. With extensive knowledge of brain function, he has perfected a noninvasive, multi-modal method to significantly improve and correct many neurological disorders. His expertise in functional neuroanatomy and neurophysiology is unparalleled, backed by 30 years as a clinician, professor, brain researcher, and bestselling author. His book Disconnected Kids, soon to release its 3rd edition, is a cornerstone in its genre, translated into 16 languages. Co-founder of Brain Balance Achievement Centers and developer of the Melillo Method®, he also runs the Melillo Center for Developing Minds in NY. Dr. Melillo directs the National Institute for Brain and Rehabilitation Sciences and co-hosts the web series Disconnected Kids Reconnected Families with his wife Carolyn, boasting over 3 million views. He also hosts The Melillo Method Podcast, Everything Brain. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Robert Melillo.  Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Robert explains disruptions in brain connectivity between hemispheres are linked to neurobehavioral and mental health issues, indicating the importance of targeted interventions, especially within the first six years of life.Robert stresses the importance of paying attention to developmental milestones, as they are crucial in shaping brain development.Robert emphasizes that all adult mental health issues stem from childhood, particularly from imbalances in the right and left brain development.  Related Links: Website:  https://www.drrobertmelillo.comFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/DrRobertMelillo/LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-melillo-a287b618b/X:  https://x.com/DrRobMelilloInstagram:  https://www.instagram.com/DrRobertMelilloYouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@drrobertmelilloCourses:  https://www.drrobertmelillo.com/courses/Books:Disconnected Kids:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399172440?ref=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1&social_share=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1Autism: The Scientific Truth About Preventing, Diagnosing, and Treating Autism Spectrum Disorders--and What Parents Can Do:  https://www.amazon.com/Autism-Scientific-Preventing-Diagnosing-Disorders/dp/0399159541/ref=sr_1_5?crid=28322IR43ZVSL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.lFnY7GWjvemw1XXB6ee5pIh_Szg7dz8jQB2geNhTOZx9OVMT9TmfuH_44ThEsYpQiT-YqypYifYAPnXy9YQP7Wymi_Q5iyuljW_zpSF9ysCzVaZ__1MO33ffI8KR3Oh4GBzLmzKy6xYoUrnbUf33fo7x5zSEQzifQRw4Cjh1GwkhqcW_HbPBIXkfDLb9n4VbT3kkUvlhy-_OerkwvD3qzsHXll_KhzsNTLDzd-QcWa0.qjfOWKBKA9ArOlyjgcvi5stog6IpSg-v1uwaQXBkOqc&dib_tag=se&keywords=dr+robert+melillo&qid=1727101629&s=books&sprefix=dr+robert+melill%2Cstripbooks%2C162&sr=1-5Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s chaotic world, stress is an unfortunate fact of life, for us and our kids. For complex kids, it can be paralyzing. Luckily, Guest Expert Mary Anne Richey has a few effective strategies for helping complex kids manage stress.Mary Anne Richey is a Licensed School Psychologist who has been employed by the School District of Palm Beach County for thirty years as a middle school teacher, assistant principal, high school guidance counselor and currently as a school psychologist. She also maintains a private practice offering psycho-educational evaluation and consultation. She has presented many workshops on education related topics to local, state, and national conferences. She was selected Florida School Psychologist of the Year for 2012 and is currently a candidate for National School Psychologist of the Year for 2013. She earned bachelor's and master's degrees from Virginia Tech and a master's degree from Florida Atlantic University. She co-authored a book, Raising Boys with ADHD – Secrets for Parenting Healthy, Happy Sons, published by Prufrock Press in 2012. Mary Anne's proudest accomplishments are her two children, both Ivy League graduates and happy, successful adults. Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their TracksIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Mary Anne Richey about 4 tips you can use to manage stress for both you and your child.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:There are two types of stress: distress and eustress- what is the difference?What is your relationship to stress and how do you process it?Create a coping menu with your child, to arm them with tools that help. Related Articles:Stressed Out? 3 Stress-Management Tips for ParentsHijacked By Emotions? Tips to Get Everyone Back on TrackUsing Stress to Help Performance, Anxiety, and Self-EsteemA Parent's Best Question: Is It Naughty of Neurological?Teaching Self-Control to ADHD Kids, One Structure at a Time3 Steps to Respond Without Reacting3 Tricks to Relieve Mental Stress (Every Day)5 Steps to Improve Cooperation with Your Kids with ADHDHow to Help (Without Enabling) Your Kid: The Four Roles of the ParentRelated CoursesMinimalize Meltdowns Course Connect with Mary Anne:Raising Boys With ADHD: Secrets for Parenting Healthy, Happy SonsLinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parents often find themselves stuck in particular phases of parenting. How do we foster independence and empower them to take ownership of their lives? When do we find ourselves enabling vs helping them develop independence? Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the 4 phases of parenthood- from complete dependence to independence.  Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Independence is a process, not a moment of time. What are the 4 stages of parenting?Identifying the difference between wanting independence and being capable of it.Are you stuck in director mode? How do you get into collaboration mode? Related Podcast Episodes:Podcast on Independence PyramidThe What and Why of Behavior TrainingEmerging Adults Related Article: How to Help (Without Enabling) Your Kid: Four Roles of the Parent Images:Parenting Phases For Complex Kids image Connect with Elaine and Diane:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn: @impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all come into parenting with a lot of preconceived notions of how things should be. We read traditional advice from experts or inspirational quotes about the life-changing gift of parenthood. But early on, when it comes to raising a child with ADHD, not many people have a lot of familiarity with Executive Function.Dr. Bertin is a developmental pediatrician and author of How Children Thrive and Mindful Parenting for ADHD and Mindfulness and Self-Compassion for Teen ADHD, which integrate mindfulness into pediatric care, and a contributing author for Teaching Mindfulness Skills to Kids and Teens. Dr. Bertin is on faculty at NY Medical College and the Windward Teacher Training Institute, on the board of directors for APSARD, the American Professional Society of ADHD and Related Disorders, and on the advisory boards of Common-Sense Media and Reach Out and Read. Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Dr. Mark Bertin about executive function and how even a basic understanding of it can provide clarity in understanding your complex kid.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:What is executive function, and how does it play into your child’s challenges?Practical solutions are easier when you understand what your child’s challenges areMindfulness plays an important part in understanding executive functionRelated Blogs:Worst Parenting Advice For Complex KidsCan You Actually Improve Your Child's Executive Function?A Parent's Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?Calm the Chaos: The Benefits of Practicing Mindfulness with ADHDConnect with Dr. Bertin:Website FacebookTwitter: @MarkBertinMDLinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Once our kids are in high school and even college, they should be getting comfortable with advocating for themselves in getting the support they need in their education. What does the journey look like—should look like—on the way to that independence? Laura J. Patey, M. Ed. Is the Dean for Academic Advancement at Wesleyan University, in Middletown, CT. She has over thirty years of experience in higher education, serving as director of services for students with disabilities at Wesleyan, Lesley University, and Wheelock College. Ms. Patey is a strategic educational leader with extensive experience working with students and faculty to ensure equal opportunity for individuals with disabilities in accordance with the ADA and has experience as a special education teacher, vocational rehabilitation counselor, consultant, and co-owner of a private, for-profit rehabilitation agency Sydney Taylor-Klaus has a BA from Wesleyan University in Middletown, CT (class of 2020), with a double major in Chemistry and Neuroscience and Behavior. Diagnosed with Dyslexia in Elementary School, her love for math and science balanced her struggles with reading and writing. Over the years, Sydney learned to use strategies to manage her challenges, and became her own best advocate. After High School she took a Gap Year because she knew she needed a brain-break. Since college, she has been working as a medical assistant with her sights set on medical school -- a perfect match for her passions for science, teaching, and caring for other human beings! An avid Ultimate Frisbee player she found a passion for rock climbing as a second sport throughout the pandemic. Listen to this motivational Parenting With Impact episode with Laura Patey and Sydney Taylor-Klaus about how to talk to your kids and encourage them to advocate for themselves in setting up accommodations at school. 10 Parenting Tips for School Success with Complex KidsThere are only 10 tips in this FREE parent’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents -- and they’re the only ones you need to give you the foundation to help your kids find school success! Used by parents all over the world, you learn quick steps to lighten the load and help smart kids feel good about school again.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:What are the foundations of seeking accommodations in high school and college?The importance of seeking support in college to understand needs on the college level.Understanding the PURPOSE of accommodations is key in taking ownership. Links Mentioned:https://www.wesleyan.edu/studentaffairs/disabilities/Parents/transition.htmlRelated Articles:How do I Motivate My Child to do… Anything!?Five Motivators to Get Anything DoneADHD Behavior Management- Is It All About Teaching Motivation?  Connect with Laura:Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One of the most basic beliefs we carry about ourselves has to do with how we view our personality. You may have heard your child say something along the lines of, “Oh, I’m just not a math person,” or, “Organization isn’t my thing.” You may even recognize these types of attitudes in yourself. This is what’s known as a “fixed mindset,” a concept that originated in the book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck.Dr. Maggie Wray is an ICF-certified Academic Life Coach and ADHD coach, with a Ph.D. in Neurobiology and Behavior from Cornell and a Bachelor’s in Astrophysics from Princeton. She is passionate about helping students develop the skills they need to be successful in life, and believes that many of the skills that are most essential to students’ long-term life success are not being taught in school. In 2012, she founded Creating Positive Futures to help students develop the executive functioning skills, mindset, and study skills they need to excel in school but are often not learning in the classroom. Her unique coaching programs combine research-based strategies about neurobiology and the psychology of learning with the lessons she learned as a student at two Ivy League universities and her experiences teaching and coaching hundreds of teens over the past 10 years. Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their TracksIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Maggie Wray, joined by Diane Dempster about “fixed” and “growth” mindsets in kids and adults, and how you can tweak and rewire your habits to nourish your child’s mindset.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:What is the difference between a growth mindset and a fixed mindset?How can one develop a growth mindset?Changing the way you respond to scenarios help in developing a growth mindsetRelated Blogs:How To Motivate Your Child To Be A Lifelong LearnerThree Steps To Learn From Mistakes Without ShameSurprising Strategy for ADHD Management: CelebrationRelated Products: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. DweckConnect with Maggie:WebsiteLinkedInLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is your child having difficulty paying attention? What signs should you look for when trying to identify Inattentive ADHD? The signs and symptoms are not always typical signs of ADHD. Today, we dive into Inattentive ADHD so we can recognize it and make sure our kids get the support they need.Kristin Wilcox has a Ph.D. in Pharmacology from the University of Mississippi Medical Center and has spent over 20 years in academia as a behavioral pharmacologist studying drug abuse behavior and ADHD medications at Emory University and Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. She has authored several manuscripts published in peer reviewed scientific journals and presented her research at international scientific meetings. Her book “Andrew’s Awesome Adventures with His ADHD Brain” shares her son’s experiences with inattentive-type ADHD, and her insights on parenting an ADHD son. Dr. Wilcox serves on the executive board of the Inattentive ADHD Coalition, wanting to increase awareness and understanding of the inattentive subtype of ADHD in children and adults.Cynthia Hammer was diagnosed with inattentive ADHD in 1992 when she was 49 years old. In the next year she started the non-profit organization ADD Resources and was the director for 15 years. In March of 2019 she started a new non-profit, the Inattentive ADHD Coalition with a mission that children with inattentive ADHD are diagnosed by age 8 and adults with inattentive ADHD are readily and correctly diagnosed when they seek help.Listen to this insightful Parenting With Impact episode with Kristin Wilcox, PhD. and Cynthia Hammer about inattentive ADHD- what it is, what to look for, and why it is often missed. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Inattentive ADHD is often misdiagnosed- how does it differ from ADHD?Understanding can offer opportunities for conscious self-managementTeachers are not trained to recognize the signs, but are eager to know more Links Mentioned:Andrew's Awesome Adventures with His ADHD Brain  ADHD EvidenceInattentive ADHD In Boys ArticleADHD QuestionnaireRelated Articles:Five Motivators to Get Anything DoneComplex Kids: How To Motivate Your ChildTell Your Child About a Diagnosis: 7-Step Guide for ParentsHelp ADHD Kids Ask For Help Connect with Kristin and Cynthia:WebsiteTwitter Instagram Facebook Kristin’s Facebook LinkedInLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Many parents of complex kids are tired of feeling overwhelmed. They want to be done with the chaos – at least, the kind of chaos that is in their control. It's not always an easy task, but it can be done!Kricket Harrison is a Performance & Productivity expert working with businesses to increase performance, productivity and profits. As a professional speaker, Kricket is known for her dynamic and interactive presentations on the human side of business She is the creator and founder of the SMARTSuccess® Club, an online accountability program.Kricket has a degree in Psychology and Organizational Communication from the University of Texas. She is a certified coach with a specialty in ADHD adults and has presented at the ADDA, CHADD and ADHD Coaches Organization conferences. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Kricket Harrison about coping with feeling overwhelmed.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Chaos is often caused by poor planning and procrastinationElimination of procrastination- getting over the “penalty rush”Creating new patterns to unlearn your learned behaviors that no longer serve youRelated Blogs:Managing Anxiety with ADHDFind Your Village A New Look at Finding What WorksConnect with Kricket:WebsiteLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Much like parents arrange for accommodations at school for our complex kids, we need to create an accommodating environment at home. What does that look like? What does your kid need to support a skill that needs to be developed? Does your child need accommodations or remediation for lagging skills, and why is it important to know the difference?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss accommodations and remediation and what you need to know about providing those at home for your child.10 Parenting Tips for School Success with Complex KidsThere are only 10 tips in this FREE parent’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents -- and they’re the only ones you need to give you the foundation to help your kids find school success! Used by parents all over the world, you learn quick steps to lighten the load and help smart kids feel good about school again.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Identify if your child is read for remediation or if they still need accommodationWhat kinds of accommodations can you create at home to help your child?Remember to meet your child where they are and build up from there Relevant Links:When School Says No… How To Get The Yes!A Huge “aha” Moment: Set Realistic Expectations for ADHD KidsHow To Get ACT and SAT Accommodations for ADHD Part 1How To Get ACT and SAT Accommodations for ADHD Part 2  Connect with Elaine and Diane:www.impactparents.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emotions are a tricky thing. They can be beautiful and powerful … but not always rational. When they become intense or come on too strong, they are hard to handle. When they’re always intense, it can feel intolerable! DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) -- which is different from traditional talk therapy and more targeted than CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy) -- can teach complex kids how to handle intense emotions so they don't always feel so overwhelmed.Dr. Vay is the director of the DBT program at Peachtree Comprehensive Health (Peachtree DBT) in Atlanta, GA. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Professional Counselor Supervisor. Dr. Vay is the President of the DBT-Linehan Board of Certification™ and a DBT Linehan Board of Certification, Certified Clinician ™.Prior to working in the outpatient setting, Dr. Vay has worked in a residential setting applying DBT to adolescents at the residential level of care. While working in the residential facility, Dr. Vay lead the team in becoming the first residential treatment center to become a DBT-Linehan Board of Certification, Certified Program. She is also one of the official Site Reviewers for future programs seeking certification through DBT-Linehan Board of Certification.Dr. Vay has also received intensive training in Radically Open DBT(RO-DBT), Prolonged Exposure-DBT for trauma (DBT-PE), DBT-PTSD, DBT protocol adapted for children (DBT-C) as well as Level One and Two of Theraplay® and Group Theraplay®.Dr. Vay also supervises other clinicians and provides DBT consultation to other DBT clinicians who are either seeking certification or just wish to enhance their adherence to the treatment model.Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Dr. Kimberly Vay about DBT treatment for emotional regulation.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:What DBT is and how it helps emotionally sensitive or avoidant children copeHow group and individual therapy is utilized in DBTHow is DBT different from CBT?Related Blogs:Stress and the ADHD Brain: There's Only One AntidoteI Learned to Parent ADHD- from My Dog TrainerLet The Feelings FlowExecutive Function Strategies for Children3 Tricks to Relieve Mental Stress (Every Day)What to Do When Emotions Get IntenseCalm the Chaos: The Benefits of Practicing Mindfulness with ADHDParents are Missing Link to Empower Kids with ADHDConnect with Kimberly:Website  Facebook LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The family unit. It sounds simple on paper, but how do you really work together as a family, especially when one or more family members have ADHD? Do you know how to run optimally as a family when someone is struggling?Sharon Saline, Psy.D., clinical psychologist and author of the award-winning book, What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life and The ADHD Solution Card Deck specializes in working with kids, young adults and families living with ADHD, learning disabilities and mental health issues. Her unique perspective – as a sibling in an ADHD home, combined with decades of experience as a clinical psychologist and educator/clinician consultant – assists her in guiding families and adults towards effective communication and closer connections.Dr. Saline lectures and facilitates workshops internationally on topics such as understanding ADHD, executive functioning, anxiety, different kinds of learners and the teen brain. Dr. Saline is a regular contributor to ADDitudemag.com and PsychologyToday.com, a featured expert on MASS Appeal on WWLP-TV and a part-time lecturer at the Smith School for Social Work.Listen to this insightful Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Sharon Saline about family systems therapy and how to identify what is working and what isn’t within a family unit when one or more members have complexities such as ADHD.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Identifying factors affecting your complex kid within the family dynamicCreating guidance for your complex kid to provide support rather than criticismCompassion for yourself is just as important as compassion for your child Related Articles:Relationship Battles: Lay down Your Sword and Shield Model Self-Respect for your Kids: Tame the Bully Within Connect with Dr. Saline:WebsiteTwitter Instagram Facebook Pinterest YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whether you’re talking about ADHD, Autism, or 2e, developing neurodivergent brains in kids require adults to understand what it takes to get activated. The ADHD brain, for example, is understimulated. It doesn’t respond to rewards the same way as neurotypical brains. And it has a complicated relationship with motivation. So how can you help kids with ADHD (and other kinds of neurodiversity) to get essential stuff done? One key motivational tool is novelty. Join us to understand better why ADHD brains thrive on novelty, how novelty and motivation are tied together, and how you as a parent or a professional can integrate novelty when supporting your kids (of any age!). And remember: this fundamental hack can serve you well with all members of your family and community. Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.Ed., LPC, is a former educator, author, and speaker. Inspired by her own experiences as a neurodivergent person, she is dedicated to destigmatizing neurodiversity and supporting neurodivergent people of all ages. She hosts The Neurodiversity Podcast, which explores the psychological, educational, and social needs of neurodivergent people, and is the author of several books, including "Teaching Twice-Exceptional Learners in Today's Classroom"(Free Spirit Publishing, 2021), "Raising Twice-Exceptional Children" (Taylor & Francis, 2022), "A Parent's Guide to Gifted Children" (Gifted Unlimited, LLC, 2023), and "Neurodiversity-Affirming Schools" (Free Spirit Publishing, in press). She speaks at statewide, national, and international conferences and is in private practice in Missouri. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Emily Kircher-Morris.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Emily highlights the importance of incorporating novelty in educational settings to engage neurodivergent individuals effectively.Tailored strategies and support, like universal design for learning, are crucial in catering to the specific needs of neurodivergent students and those facing situational neurodiversity challenges.Emily stresses the importance of validating parents' efforts in supporting their neurodivergent kids, acknowledging the learning journey both for the child and the parent in understanding themselves and their unique needs.Links Mentioned:Podcast:  https://neurodiversitypodcast.com2E Kids & Adults: When Easy is Hard and Hard is Easy:  https://youtu.be/jP756LLv3XUWhat's Different About a 2E Kid?:  https://youtu.be/B2-vJYDv8KUMotivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.:  https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_PRecognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775sHigh-Tech Solutions for Those with ADHD:  https://www.blogtalkradio.com/attentiontalkradio/2020/11/04/high-tech-solutions-for-those-with-adhdBooks:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1953360173/?tag=im0ea3-20 https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1646322142/?tag=im0ea3-20Free Gift: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/34OZKxF Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all know the drill: birth, school, college, adulthood. It’s a formula that somehow became mandatory – a script that we’re expected to follow. But what if that outline isn’t quite the right fit for your child? What if your smart teen isn’t ready for college?Judith S. Bass Certified Educational Planner Judith S. Bass, Certified Educational Planner, is the founder of Bass Educational Services, LLC, an educational consulting firm in the DC area. Ms. Bass provides comprehensive college and postsecondary planning for students with AD/HD and other learning differences. With over 30 years’ experience as an educator, admissions counselor, and educational consultant, Ms. Bass is a leading expert in educational consulting for students with learning challenges. She earned a Certificate in College Counseling from UCLA and is an instructor in UC-Irvine's College Consultant Certificate Program. Ms. Bass has published numerous articles in local and national publications. She regularly conducts presentations on college and postsecondary planning to parents and professionals throughout the DC and Baltimore areas, and at regional and national conferences. Ms. Bass has just published CollegeWebLD, a searchable database of the disability services available at U.S. colleges and universities.Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Judith Bass about how and when to approach your child about going to college. Will they need a gap year? Is college right for them?12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too!Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Time and distance may be necessary for your child to find motivationWhat are the options available to your child if they don’t go to college?The ideal times to address life after high school with your child Related Blogs:Is a Gap Year a Good Fit for Your Child?Standing Up For Kids Who Are Falling BehindConnect with Judith:WebsiteYouTubeFacebookTwitterInstagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A child who feels most comfortable in the gaming world is not necessarily wasting their life. How can we turn this interest into a way to teach life skills, and perhaps find a career goal within the programming world?Dan Clark runs the service MindJam - online 121 mentorship and guidance for children struggling with SEN, anxiety, stress and social issues; through gaming and game design.He set this up in the pandemic and less than 2 years later he has 16 mentors supporting over 400 young people and is still growing.MindJam uses gaming, coding and game creation, digital music and digital art, as a platform to develop positive play, problem solving and social and technical skill development, through friendly, positive and low-demand sessions.In 2021 Dan was a nominated finalist for BAFTA Mentor of the Year.As a father of two autistic children, which brings great understanding of how SEN impacts the whole family, Dan has created a company that has helped so many young people, and through his dedication and passion he is making sure MindJam grows to support as many who are struggling as possible. MindJam is based in the UK, but also supports young people in the US, Australia, New Zealand, Canada and many other places around the world! Listen to this intriguing Parenting With Impact episode with Dan about the benefits of using the gaming world to connect with kids who struggle with interaction and engagement in the regular world. 12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Utilizing gaming as a way to connect with your child in an impactful wayTranslate gaming skills into life skills- engagement, problem solving, design & strategyWhat are they different types of games, and what skills do they hone?Related Links:Surgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbOpinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb Connect with Dan:Website FacebookLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parenting with ADHD is no easy task, even if you've been doing it for years. There is always something surprising to deal with, and inevitably something you thought you'd handled doesn't get done. The challenge of focusing on yourself when you have so much to do in focusing on your kids often throws you way off balance.John Willson has a Masters in Outdoor Therapeutic Recreation Administration. He is the Executive Director of SOAR, a non-profit school and adventure camp serving youth diagnosed with learning disabilities and ADHD. He is the past President of the Learning Disabilities Association (LDA) of North Carolina and serves on the national board for CHADD. He has led hundreds of adventure courses with youth diagnosed with LD & ADHD. He actively presents to parents and professionals at local, state and national conferenceTen Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with John Willson about managing balance of life, kids, work, especially when you have complex kids.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:The importance of equal attention to both your child and what you need to get doneDiscover John’s 4 strategies to being a more effective parentSimple actions of self-care that pay big dividends Related Blogs:Find Your Village 5 Steps to go From Stressed Mom to Happy Mom Relaxation Guild- Why I Can't Sit Down How Do I Stop Nagging My Kids? The Power of Positive Transitions: SMILE SWITCH! Four Things Every Successful Supermom Knows  Connect with John:Website  YouTube LinkedIn Facebook Twitter Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices