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Our Whole Childhood with Patrick Teahan

Patrick Teahan

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Frequency: 1 episode/26d. Total Eps: 50

This is "Our Whole Childhood" - hosted by Patrick Teahan - where we discuss everything childhood trauma, from the issues that we experience, to the stuff that comes up in our families, and to the healing work that we're all trying to get done. No clinical jargon—just real, personal stories of growing up with childhood trauma and the journey to healing.

Learn more at www.patrickteahan.com

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Why Are Victims Expected to Do All the Work?

Season 2 · Episode 15

Monday, November 17, 2025 • Duration 24:05

This episode tells the story of Thomas, a survivor who went no contact with his abusive father after a public meltdown at his wedding, and how the world around him quietly blames him for the relationship he didn’t break.

From well-meaning coworkers saying “all families have stuff,” to relatives insisting “you’ll have to let it go,” Patrick explores why the burden to forgive and reconnect so often falls on the person who was hurt, not the person who caused the harm.

Learn how survivors like Thomas are pressured to “be the bigger person,” while abusers avoid accountability, and how to stop carrying that emotional labor yourself.

Topics include:

Why abusive parents are rarely held accountable
How relatives and in-laws minimize harm to “keep the peace”
The shame, guilt, and invisibility survivors feel when going no contact
The hidden motives behind advice like “just forgive”
How to flip the script and protect your peace

If you’ve ever been told to reconcile with someone who never took responsibility for the pain they caused, this episode offers validation, and a new way forward.

Keywords: family estrangement, toxic parents, no contact healing, emotional abuse recovery, accountability, narcissistic parent, trauma recovery, boundaries, forgiveness pressure, inner child healing

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Toxic Mothers and the Impact on Daughters

Season 2 · Episode 14

Friday, October 24, 2025 • Duration 46:07

This episode explores how growing up with a toxic or emotionally unavailable mother can shape a daughter’s sense of worth, identity, and boundaries, and how to finally break free.

Rather than focusing on blame, Patrick unpacks the lasting emotional damage that daughters carry into adulthood and the path toward self-trust and emotional independence.

Learn why patterns like people-pleasing, guilt, and over-responsibility aren’t flaws, they’re survival strategies that once kept you safe. Through stories, insights, and tools, Patrick guides you toward seeing your story with compassion and clarity.

Topics include:

How toxic maternal behavior damages self-perception
The “good daughter” role and its emotional consequences
Guilt, shame, and the confusion between love and obligation
Reparenting yourself and building healthy emotional boundaries
Reclaiming confidence and connection without losing yourself

You’ll leave this episode with practical tools to stop carrying emotional responsibility for others, repair your self-image, and begin building the safety your mother couldn’t provide.

Keywords: toxic mother, mother-daughter trauma, emotional abuse, inner child healing, childhood trauma recovery, boundaries, reparenting, self-worth repair, codependency, healing tools, family roles, emotional neglect

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Triggered Parents Make Triggered Kids

Season 2 · Episode 5

Thursday, May 8, 2025 • Duration 26:25

Our biggest fear is that we’re failing our children somehow.”
If you’re worried—because most parents are—this video will help you approach that fear with compassion and clarity.

In this video, you’ll learn:

Real-life “no-one-tells-you” parenting stressors, from biting toddlers to boundary-pushing tweens.

How to spot and rethink your personal triggers by tracing them back to your own childhood.

Practical “reset” tools: what to say to yourself (and your child) when you feel that hot-button reaction.

Healthy parenting concepts for responding with patience, even in your most challenging moments.

Additional Thoughts:

1. If you’re struggling with hitting your children, yes, that causes damage—try to get that issue resolved first.

2. I believe that a child needs at least one engaged and loving parent working on themselves.

3. Repairing is discussed in the webinar - it’s never too late to repair and be real about failings.

4. Amplifying situations such as co-parenting with a toxic person are real issues. Try to just focus on your own parenting. A parenting coach can be very helpful in those situations if available.

5. No parent is perfect, but that cannot be used to self-enable or minimize.

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Is It Anxiety or Childhood Trauma?

Season 2 · Episode 4

Wednesday, April 30, 2025 • Duration 22:39

Anxiety rarely shows up without a backstory. In this video, I’m diving deep into how childhood trauma — especially experiences rooted in neglect and abuse — can shape the anxiety many of us struggle with today.

These issues often get labeled just as anxiety.

We'll explore:

1️⃣ The root causes of anxiety tied to our past

2️⃣ How those early experiences can still affect us in the present

I’ll walk you through a list of childhood trauma-related issues that might help you connect some important dots in your own life. These topics can be intense, so please take care of yourself as you watch. This isn’t about blaming the past, but about understanding it — because when we understand where anxiety comes from, we can begin to loosen its grip. I’ll also share my personal thoughts on anxiety, therapy, and how trauma differs from general anxiety.

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Estranged Parents, This Is For You

Season 2 · Episode 3

Monday, April 7, 2025 • Duration 42:25

While this episode is directed at parents who are struggling to understand why their children have gone low or no contact, I think many of you—especially those who have lived through painful or invalidating family experiences—may find it deeply resonant.

In it, I speak directly to estranged parents about: Seven of the most common blind spots I’ve seen in 15+ years of working with childhood trauma.

Why insight without accountability is never enough.

The disconnect between intention and impact.

What real reconciliation actually requires.

If you’ve ever felt like your parent didn’t—or couldn’t—see the truth of your experience… this may feel like someone finally saying it out loud.

And no, I don’t recommend sending it to your parents.

But I do hope it brings you some clarity, validation, or even peace.

Keywords: Childhood trauma, estrangement, no-contact, low-contact, healing.

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Rebuilding Emotional Security After Childhood Trauma

Season 2 · Episode 2

Friday, March 21, 2025 • Duration 55:27

In this episode, we explore how childhood trauma, like neglect or toxic parenting, affects emotional security and shapes our relationships. We discuss how these early experiences can lead to insecurities, especially in romantic relationships and when receiving feedback. You’ll hear practical tips for healing, building trust in yourself, and improving emotional resilience.

Topics include:

How neglect or toxic parenting impacts emotional security
How childhood insecurities show up in romantic relationships
Dealing with feedback without feeling triggered
Tips for rebuilding trust and self-worth

Join us for an insightful conversation on healing and finding emotional balance.

Keywords: Childhood trauma, emotional security, relationships, healing, self-worth, feedback.

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My First Client - "Slow Jack"

Season 2 · Episode 1

Friday, January 31, 2025 • Duration 36:00

In this season 2 opener, we look back at a pivotal childhood experience with "Slow Jack," my first client. This story goes beyond a simple interaction—it’s about the genuine moments I experienced as a child in an adult world. No clinical jargon—just real, personal stories of growing up with childhood trauma and the journey to healing.

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The Witch's Daughter - With Orenda Fink

Season 1 · Episode 25

Thursday, January 2, 2025 • Duration 01:12:31

In this episode, Orenda Fink opens up about her journey growing up in chaos with an alcoholic mother struggling with mental illness who self-identified as a practicing and often vindictive witch. As she navigates the trauma of her childhood, Orenda escapes to pursue music, forming bands like Little Red Rocket and Azure Ray. We explore the lasting impact of childhood trauma, the codependent other parent, the fine line between mental illness and the myth of magic, and the ongoing search for healing and self-discovery. A raw and moving conversation about resilience, family, and mental health. Don't miss it!

Learn more about Orenda Fink: Orendafink.com

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Get Your SH*T Together!

Season 1 · Episode 24

Monday, December 30, 2024 • Duration 36:45

In this episode, I discuss mental health, psychology, functioning, self-care, relationships, childhood trauma, substance abuse, emotional regulation, dysthymia, depression, anxiety, conflict, alcohol, growth, progress, sobriety, and men's mental health.

I've given a broad overview about possible reasons for not having one's SH*T together. I related them to being in the context of childhood trauma, but they don't always have to be. These issues can also be in line with problems ranging from ADHD to neurodivergent. It's important to consult a licensed professional. I educate on topics related to childhood trauma and voice my content around that issue. This episode is not a definitive diagnostic tool.

Access the full-length, extended video version of "How to Get Your SH*T Together" in my healing membership.

Use code "GYST25" for 25% off your first two months!

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9 Random Examples of Shame (PTSD & CPTSD)

Season 1 · Episode 23

Monday, November 18, 2024 • Duration 37:27

Today's episode covers where hidden shame comes from and to how to tackle it!

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3 Ways To Work With Toxic Shame - Part 2 - Episode 9:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dnOzP29OWA&t=1037s

11 Oddly Specific Childhood Trauma Issues:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lULd-wnWjT4&t=1567s

Toxic Shame and Childhood Trauma Course:
https://membership.patrickteahantherapy.com/c/toxic-shame-and-childhood-trauma-webinar-e-course/

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