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In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler dives into daily efficiencies, planning systems, and the power of structure in building a productive life. He answers listener questions on balancing flexibility with discipline, handling unexpected events, creating rituals around planning, and becoming an early riser.

Ryan also shares practical tactics like using buffers, after-action reviews, and categorizing different types of days to stay consistent and effective. Whether you’re aiming for better routines or long-term growth, this conversation offers actionable strategies you can apply immediately.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Introduction and episode setup
02:14 – Balancing flexibility and structure
06:59 – Consistency with non-traditional work schedules
11:44 – Daily tactics for continual growth
16:30 – Handling the unexpected in planning
21:10 – Becoming an early riser
25:50 – Making daily planning a ritual
33:57 – Closing thoughts and resources

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Over time, it’s likely that you have drifted off course. Like a boat without a navigator, it’s easy to let the current of reality, overwhelm, and frustration take you off course. My guest today, Larry Hagner has been a father for over two decades and knows firsthand what the drift looks like as a dad and how to steer yourself back on course.

Today, we talk about staying awake and vigilant when it comes to leading your wife and kids, the first “domino” to fall before things go horribly wrong, how to get your wife back on course if she starts to drift, in what ways do you become lethargic, monotonous, and bland in your life (and, what to do about it), and learning to build “conversations of curiosity.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up
00:11 - Larry’s Knee Injury Discussion
04:33 - The Forge Event Recap
04:57 - The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood Book Launch
07:47 - Understanding the Drift
09:17 - Introducing Lance: The Avatar of the Drift
15:30 - Helping Your Spouse Overcome the Drift
16:12 - Getting Out of the Drift as a Man
23:51 - Coaching Consistency in Men
29:57 - Being a Man of Your Word
31:02 - Motivating Your Wife Respectfully
36:56 - Impact of Kids on Relationships
38:02 - Motivating and Guiding Children
41:50 - Creating Psychological Safety for Kids
47:22 - Building Trust Through Questions
53:30 - Navigating Single Fatherhood
55:09 - Finding Common Ground with Your Child
59:35 - Connecting with Larry and The Forge Event

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can confront and overcome betrayal in both personal and professional life. Drawing from his own recent experiences, Ryan offers practical strategies and hard-earned insights to help men navigate betrayal with strength, clarity, and integrity. He emphasizes respect, self-control, and learning valuable lessons rather than succumbing to anger or despair. This episode is a call for men to rise above hardship, establish healthy boundaries, and move forward with resilience and purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Introduction
02:15 – Facing betrayal in life and business
04:37 – Responding with respect and rationality
06:50 – Treating innocent bystanders gracefully
09:12 – Learning the lessons from betrayal
11:32 – Recognizing red flags early
13:54 – Building strong boundaries
18:43 – Final thoughts and encouragement

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging AMA episode of the Order of Man podcast. They kick off with light-hearted banter on Labor Day plans and "fake holidays," then dive into a headline sparking debate: Cracker Barrel's logo change and why people fixate on trivial issues. 

Listener questions cover helping kids handle bullies, pacing new relationships, picky eaters, prioritizing battle plan tactics, monetizing podcasts, hard-fought life lessons, and staying focused amid chaos. Packed with practical advice on masculinity, family, and self-improvement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Opening Banter and Setup
00:58 - Weekend Plans and Labor Day Discussion
02:45 - Headline: Cracker Barrel Logo Controversy
11:50 - Helping Kids Navigate Bullies
25:11 - Pacing a New Relationship
37:23 - Dealing with Picky Eaters
40:38 - Prioritizing Battle Plan Tactics
43:23 - Monetizing Podcasts and Iron Council Origins
45:45 - Biggest Hard-Fought Lessons
01:07:22 - Maintaining Focus in Crises
01:21:49 - Episode Wrap-Up and Calls to Action

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You ever seen an old house and think, “Man, I’d love to fix that up.”? Or, an old truck, and imagine the day where you and your children would drive around in that thing? Or, maybe an old project you’ve been meaning to finish but never got around to it?

My guest today, Tye Nichols, feels the same way. In fact, he’s invested thousands of his own money to put into an abandoned golf course he’s had visions of reviving. Today, we talk about his dream of reviving his golf course, Fairway Fields. We talk about finally believing in yourself, casting vision so other people will believe in you, overcoming doubters on your path, what to do when times get tough, and whether or not to “sell out” when it comes to chasing a dream.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Catching Up After Years
01:00 – Family Life and Moving Back to Maine
02:50 – Why Buy an Abandoned Golf Course?
05:55 – Building Trust and Taking Advice from the Right People
07:15 – Ordinary vs. Extraordinary
09:20 – Lessons from Jocko and Realizing People Are Just People
13:10 – Humility, Work Ethic, and Earning Opportunities
16:50 – Big Dreams for Fairway Fields
19:30 – Reimagining a Rural Golf Course
24:30 – Taming Nature and Learning the Hard Way
26:45 – Local Support and Community Excitement
28:30 – Making Ends Meet While Building a Dream
32:40 – Long-Term Vision and Scaling Up
34:40 – Overcoming Doubts and Finding True Commitment
37:10 – Support from His Wife and Family
39:25 – Turning Away from a Rough Past
41:00 – Rock Bottom and Deciding to Change
42:30 – Why Strangers Believe in His Vision
45:55 – People Want to Support, Not Tear You Down
47:30 – Advice for Men with Big Dreams
49:30 – Where to Connect with Tye

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the crucial question of how to initiate boys into manhood. Drawing from personal experience as a father and mentor, Ryan outlines key principles such as separation, challenge, risk, and meaning that help shape rites of passage.

He emphasizes the importance of deliberate and intentional practices for raising boys into strong, capable men—especially in a society that often resists such growth. This episode offers fathers, mentors, and even single mothers clear considerations for guiding the next generation of men.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:40 – The challenge of raising boys in today’s culture
03:00 – Separation from women in rites of passage
05:27 – Building challenge and risk into the process
07:50 – Age-based milestones for boys
10:05 – Responsibility, puberty, and independence
12:21 – Honoring achievements with meaning
14:33 – Public celebration and recognition
16:58 – Marking and family mottos
19:16 – Reintroduction as young men
21:37 – Course promotion and final thoughts

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In this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle powerful questions from the Order of Man community. From knowing which battles are worth fighting, to bringing God into past trials, to addressing blind spots at work without sounding like a complainer — they cover practical wisdom every man can apply. They also dive into handling public haters, having hard conversations about addiction, and reflecting on past interviews. Honest, challenging, and inspiring — this one’s packed with lessons for intentional living.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Opening and headlines
08:07 – Choosing your battles
19:45 – Inviting God into past trials
29:50 – Approaching leadership with blind spots
41:01 – Telling your wife about addiction
48:27 – Responding to public haters
56:45 – Interviews Ryan would redo
01:02:41 – Promotions and closing

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We all know that one guy who is tough, resilient, loves a fight, and can make things happen, even when he’s behind. I think, in a way, we all want to be that guy. I’m convinced that a man who is scrappy is a man who can achieve everything he wants in this world – even if it first seems out of reach.

My guest today, Pete Roberts, agrees. And, he knows a thing or two about the resourcefulness and scrappiness it takes to revive an American tradition – manufacturing. You know him as the founder of Origin and Jocko Fuel. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, how and why a man needs to define success, regular people building irregular things, what he looks for in people to hire and promote to leadership in his organization, and making yourself capable of carrying burdens.

00:00 – Catching Up After Years Apart
01:15 – Origin and the Almost Reality Show
03:20 – Building a Brand with Authenticity
05:40 – Jiu-Jitsu as Life’s Greatest Teacher
10:40 – From Passion to Purpose in Business
18:50 – Regular Guys Doing Extraordinary Things
21:45 – Breaking Free from the System
25:40 – Ty’s Story: Taking a Risk on Yourself
33:05 – Spotting Talent: Deep Selects and Leadership
40:45 – Redefining Success and Carrying the Burden
46:20 – Breaking the Cycle for Family and Legacy
52:40 – Losing $6 Million and Firing Myself
01:00:15 – Restarting with New Purpose
01:06:20 – The Truth About Success and Struggles
01:08:20 – New YouTube Channel and Final Promotions

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In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler shares ten powerful strategies to become more influential in every area of life. From building strength and dressing with purpose to mastering communication, practicing honesty, and making exceptionalism the standard, Ryan delivers actionable insights for men who want to lead with integrity and impact. He also emphasizes the importance of follow-through, consistency, and lightheartedness in building trust. Whether at home, at work, or in the community, these principles equip listeners to show up as the man they are meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Introduction
02:28 Build Strength & Muscle
04:56 Dress Your Age & Occasion
09:38 Learn to Communicate Well
14:26 Use Self-Deprecation
15:38 Get Good at Saying “I Don’t Know”
18:39 Get Good at Saying “I Don’t Agree”
23:03 Be Ruthlessly Consistent
25:13 Make Exceptionalism Your Standard
29:43 Follow Through on Commitments
31:38 Laugh, Smile & Be Lighthearted
34:00 Bonus – Never Let Them See You Sweat
36:20 Closing Remarks

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In this week’s AMA, Ryan and Kipp tackle tough listener questions on becoming more self-aware, navigating the pain and decisions around infidelity, and setting boundaries to disincentivize bad behavior in relationships and parenting. 

They also explore meaningful rites of passage for young men, fostering responsibility in teens, and the lessons they wish they could share with their younger selves. Honest, direct, and actionable, this episode blends inspiration with real-world strategies for men striving to lead with integrity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Introduction
03:18 First listener question – Skill, habit, or mindset shift
14:09 How much infidelity is too much to forgive
27:06 Considering separation over chemical dependency
39:55 Rite of passage for your son
46:44 Handling entitled teenagers
54:44 Advice to your teenage self
01:05:32 Promotions and closing remarks

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Why can’t women just understand men? Why can’t men just understand women? The short answer is, “we’re not supposed to.” If we were, we wouldn’t really have any need for each other, would we? My guest today, Adam Lane Smith, has made it his life’s work to get closer to helping men understand women and help us understand our own natural tendencies in relationships.

Today, Adam and I talk about emotional starvation, the concept of CEO/COO between men and women, the ‘red flags’ that your marriage is struggling, what men and women do to cause each other pain, and how men can lead in their relationships much more effectively.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Finding Purpose and Chasing It
00:59 – Building a 200-Year Family System
02:51 – Two Worlds: Secure vs Insecure Attachment
05:55 – Teaching People Safety vs Creating Secure Attachment
07:27 – Maslow’s Hierarchy and Emotional Safety
10:46 – Safety for Men as Peace
14:19 – Security Starts Outside the Relationship
17:38 – Rebuilding a Marriage After Decades
20:53 – Invalidation and Dismissal in Relationships
22:23 – Venting vs Bringing Concerns
27:18 – The Purpose of Female Feelings as Data
29:36 – Men and Women’s Brains Are Meant to Interlink
32:05 – The Ancient Fear of Not Being Believed
37:25 – Emotional Starvation in Relationships
40:38 – Signs She’s Thriving or Starving Emotionally
45:13 – Four Levels of Safety Women Need
48:24 – Level 1: Physical Safety
50:07 – Level 2: Resource Safety
52:00 – Choosing the Right Woman for Your Circle
55:08 – Defining Masculine and Feminine Roles
58:32 – How Men Decide and Women Refine
01:02:05 – Level 3: Emotional Safety
01:04:29 – Level 4: Bonding Safety

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler passionately defends hunting, addressing misconceptions and highlighting its ecological and ethical benefits. He explores the historical role of hunting in human survival, its impact on conservation, and the reverence of consuming what you kill. Michler provides data-driven arguments to counter anti-hunting sentiments, emphasizing population management, habitat preservation, and sustainable practices. He also offers practical advice for aspiring hunters. 

Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges assumptions and celebrates hunting’s role in human tradition and environmental stewardship.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Addressing Hunting Misconceptions
04:09 - The Cycle of Life and Homo Sapiens
08:10 - Consequences of Stopping Hunting
10:33 - The Truth About Trophy Hunting
12:56 - The Decency of an Honorable Death
15:21 - Hunting vs. Slaughterhouse
17:43 - The Reverence of Eating What You Kill
20:04 - Sustainable Hunting Practices
22:27 - Hunters’ Contributions to Conservation
27:15 - Getting Started with Hunting

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In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp explore the tension between motivation and meaning in today’s self-help culture. They dive into headline topics like the Tim Kennedy stolen valor controversy, then tackle listener questions on marriage doubts, healing journeys, ex-partner conflicts, starting a podcast, and when to pivot in life.

Expect honest, grounded advice around boundaries, intentional living, and balancing life’s demands without burnout. A must-listen for men navigating growth, fatherhood, and purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Tim Kennedy & the Stolen Valor Debate
08:29 - Should You Have Doubts Before Marriage?
16:35 - Mistakes When Starting a Podcast
22:34 - Growth & Healing: What's Top of Mind
27:01 - Parenting Disagreements with Your Ex
32:30 - When Is It Time to Quit or Pivot?
38:42 - Handling Overwhelm & the Four Quadrants
46:19 - Living an Intentional Life
55:31 - Reclaiming Your Identity from People-Pleasing
1:04:00 - Hiring Help: Building a Team for Your Mission

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Boxing is known as the “Sweet Science,” but the name doesn’t quite do it justice. The amount of work, effort, blood, sweat, tears, and beatdowns is anything but sweet. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t so many powerful lessons to be learned from what my guest today, Ed Latimore, calls the “Hurt Business.”

Today, Ed and I talk about how and why people either buy into you (or not), why the next win or loss is just a setup for the next experience of your life, the power of consciously choosing to start over in life and after setbacks, why you’re only as good as your last win, and why “old endings” are nothing more than “new beginnings.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Intro & reconnecting
02:05 – Early podcast memories
04:05 – Building influence through storytelling
06:20 – The power of brand over product
08:40 – Writing the memoir: process and lessons
10:21 – You're only as good as your last win
17:06 – Everything is an audition
23:33 – When to throw in the towel
30:10 – Why most people shouldn’t box
33:22 – Fighting serious people comes at a cost
35:01 – Who chooses a life of combat?
39:32 – The worst guy to fight
46:00 – Identity, curiosity, and starting over
48:56 – How to connect with Ed
51:20 – Nobody’s coming to save you
52:33 – Final thoughts & wrap-up

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Ryan Michler, in this week's Friday Field Notes, delivers an inspiring episode on becoming a steadfast presence for family and community. He shares seven actionable strategies to navigate life's challenges while supporting others, emphasizing clear communication, firm boundaries, and emotional resilience. 

Michler urges men to embody trustworthiness and capability, ensuring they’re the reliable "rock" others depend on during tough times. Packed with practical advice and motivational insights, this episode empowers listeners to lead with strength and serve those they love.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction: The Challenges of Life
02:03 - Communicate Your Desires
04:14 - Have Clear Boundaries
06:41 - Do Not Lie
09:02 - Honor Your Word
11:20 - Stay Emotionally Level-Headed
13:41 - Become More Capable
16:04 - Build Your Presence
20:46 - Conclusion: Serve Those You Love

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, diving into listener questions on career leaps, mentoring kids, handling feedback, and setting boundaries. From advice on applying for a higher job to being a positive role model for a niece and nephew, they share practical insights for personal growth. 

The episode also explores the evolution of the Iron Council and the value of its community, offering actionable tips for men striving to thrive.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Catching Up and Weekend Recap
03:59 - Applying for a Higher Job
08:05 - Being a Role Model for Kids
15:08 - Evolution of the Iron Council
25:19 - Handling Performance Review Feedback
35:31 - Balancing Boundaries and Openness
44:37 - Battle Planner Clarifications
48:44 - Staying Connected with Order of Man

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We’re all tempted, at times, to allow our ego to get the better of us. Many of us feel like we’re on top of the world until the precise time we find ourselves on the bottom of it.

My guest today, Aaron Hale, found himself in just that scenario as an Explosive Ordnance Disposal tech on a routine assignment when he was blown up by an Improvised Explosive Device (IED) that caused him to lose sight and, later, his hearing. Today, we talk about the fear of being stuck, gratitude for our struggles and adversities, overcoming our greatest fears, how positivity and negativity are infectious, and how you can re-size your ego or have it re-sized for you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Guest Welcome
00:15 - Aaron's Military Background and Injury
01:10 - Details of the IED Incident
02:04 - Injuries Sustained from the Explosion
04:36 - Medical Evacuation and Tom Cruise Encounter
06:34 - Recovery at Walter Reed
08:31 - Realization of Permanent Blindness
09:20 - Mental State Post-Injury
11:12 - Family Support During Recovery
13:11 - Connecting with Fellow Injured Veterans
17:01 - Overcoming Suicidal Thoughts
19:46 - Adapting to Sensory Loss
21:30 - Battle with Bacterial Meningitis
25:17 - Inspiration from Eric Weihenmayer
26:58 - Transition to Running and Physical Challenges
30:49 - Learning to Run Blind
34:47 - Running Badwater 135 Ultra Marathon
40:34 - Experiencing Runs Without Sight
42:45 - Building Trust with Guides
44:45 - Loss of Balance and Adaptation
51:22 - Mastering the Art of Falling
52:13 - Future Goals and Ventures
54:02 - Launching Point of Impact Podcast
56:13 - Gratitude for Life’s Challenges
58:19 - Closing Thoughts and Appreciation

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the overwhelming stress men face in their roles as providers and protectors. He offers five practical strategies to manage stress effectively, emphasizing personal responsibility over societal expectations. Michler encourages men to identify stress triggers, eliminate distractions, prioritize health, break monotonous routines, and adjust life's tempo without losing direction. 

Through actionable advice and personal insights, he empowers listeners to reduce stress and enhance performance, ensuring they can serve their families and communities without crumbling under pressure. Join the conversation at facebook.com/groups/orderofman.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction to Stress and Masculinity
02:04 - Overview of Five Tips
04:18 - Tip 1: Identify the Root of Stress
06:34 - Tip 2A: Remove Stressors
09:01 - Tip 2B: Eliminate Distractions
11:28 - Tip 3: Prioritize Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health
16:05 - Tip 4: Mix Up Your Routine
18:27 - Tip 5: Change Tempo, Not Direction
20:48 - Recap and Call to Action

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In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into listener questions, exploring themes of faith, letting go, and pursuing purpose. They discuss building male camaraderie through action, overcoming overthinking, and embracing "I don't know" to find peace. From marathon training insights to serving others and knowing when to offer empathy versus tough love, this episode offers practical wisdom for men striving to live with intention. Join the Iron Council brotherhood at orderofman.com for more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up
05:29 - Strengthening Faith and Prayer
12:39 - Marathon Training Insights
16:44 - Letting Go and Overcoming Overthinking
30:39 - Defining a Life Well-Lived
36:25 - Going All-In on Order of Man
46:07 - Empathy vs. Tough Love in Leadership
53:54 - Reincarnation Animal Discussion
57:19 - Battle Planner and Closing Thoughts

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We’re all well-aware of the stigma associated with men’s mental health. Men are often told overtly or covertly to be just be quiet, do your job, and get your work done. And, while there is certainly some validity to us getting the job done when people are relying on us, it’s also valid to consider the mental and emotional battles we often fight as men.

Today, I am joined by retired Green Beret, Nick O’Kelly to talk about his time in service the mental and emotional anguish he faced, and what he’s done to overcome the challenges of anxiety, depression, and even suicidal ideation. We talk about how a man begins to confront these issues, finding the balance between bearing down and getting the help we need, how to find teams and avenues of support without feeling weak, and how to confront the stigma (even though we all deal with it) of men’s mental health

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Men's Mental Health Stigma
01:05 - Balancing Pride and Duty
03:12 - Debating Vulnerability
04:27 - Military Career Transitions
06:36 - Family Dynamics and Decisions
09:22 - Managing Career Expectations
11:36 - Spousal Support and Sacrifice
14:36 - Masculine and Feminine Dynamics
18:37 - Expectation Management Challenges
21:23 - Trust in Relationships
25:16 - Decision-Making Struggles
28:26 - Imposter Syndrome in Financial Planning
31:58 - Onset of Mental Health Struggles
37:55 - Consequences of Seeking Help
43:29 - Personal Anxiety Experience
47:32 - Spiritual and Physiological Factors
52:29 - High Achievers and Mental Health
54:16 - Connecting with Nick's Work

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares an inspiring message about becoming the person you aspire to be through consistent action. Reflecting on his adventures, from Alaska to Africa, he emphasizes that small, daily habits shape identity and success.

Michler addresses overcoming setbacks like divorce or financial struggles, urging listeners to combat imposter syndrome and act now. He breaks down practical steps across four key areas—calibration, connection, condition, and contribution—to live with purpose and achieve goals, encouraging men to take small victories and seek guidance to expedite progress.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:03 - Introduction and Reflections on Adventures
02:23 - Overcoming Setbacks and Imposter Syndrome
04:50 - Calibration: Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health
07:08 - Connection: Building Meaningful Relationships
09:32 - Condition: Prioritizing Physical Health
11:56 - Contribution: Adding Value and Financial Wisdom
14:22 - Celebrating Small Wins and Staying Consistent
16:39 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

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In this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos tackle listener questions on emotional intelligence, co-parenting challenges, manifesting goals, and personal growth. They share practical strategies for managing emotions, setting boundaries in difficult relationships, and taking action to achieve dreams. Reflecting on Ryan’s book Sovereignty, they discuss evolving perspectives on life’s past, present, and future. With personal anecdotes and actionable advice, this episode inspires men to show up authentically and pursue excellence despite life’s challenges.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
01:57 - Emotional Intelligence Strategies
22:00 - Navigating Co-Parenting Conflicts
38:15 - The Power of Manifesting Goals
43:36 - Reflecting on Sovereignty’s Past, Present, and Future
55:15 - Aligning Personal Goals with Purpose

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Considering how often we utilize technology, we don’t spend as nearly as much time as we should protecting ourselves against the inherent vulnerabilities and bad actors who would exploit the very tools designed to improve our lives. The fact of the matter is, cybersecurity has become a huge issue (only to become more relevant as technology advances).

My guest today, Dr. Eric Cole, has spent decades learning, understanding, and teaching people how to protect themselves and their loved ones from cyber-threats. Today, we talk about the apps that are more dangerous than others, how best to keep your children safe from online predators, what he calls, cyber-hygiene, why passwords are dead and what to do about it, and why social media will never fully protect children.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction  
00:21 - Welcoming Dr. Eric Cole  
00:26 - Importance of Cybersecurity for Families  
01:24 - Dangers of Sharing Personal Information Online  
02:47 - Targeting Vulnerable Individuals  
04:26 - Impact of Technology on Parenting  
05:45 - Prevalence of Child Exploitation  
08:12 - Monitoring Kids' Online Interactions  
10:00 - Social Media Security Measures  
12:16 - Identifying Suspicious Accounts  
15:00 - Limiting Kids' Access to Smartphones  
19:09 - Balancing Technology Use  
22:32 - Monitoring Social Media Comments  
26:00 - Risks of Location Tracking in Photos  
30:06 - Moving Beyond Passwords  
32:31 - Avoiding Malicious Links  
35:13 - Value of Online Protection Services  
37:51 - Cell Phones and Privacy Concerns  
43:03 - Importance of Software Updates  
45:20 - Benefits of Using VPNs  
46:43 - Upgrading Technology Safely  
49:20 - AI as a Tool, Not a Replacement  
52:43 - Practical Cybersecurity Tips  
54:24 - Closing Remarks  

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can embrace calculated risks to achieve success in relationships, health, wealth, and quality of life. He shares five actionable strategies—defining your vision, measuring risk versus reward, hedging bets, conducting a SWOT analysis, and seeking coaching—to ensure risks are prudent and aligned with personal goals. Michler emphasizes preparation and intentionality to minimize threats and maximize opportunities, urging men to act boldly yet wisely.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:26 - The Importance of Calculated Risks
02:10 - Know What You Want
03:52 - Measure Risk vs. Reward
06:11 - Hedge Your Bets
10:39 - Avoid Complacency
13:00 - Conduct a SWOT Analysis
15:24 - Seek Coaching
17:45 - Connect and Take Action

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, leadership, and life challenges. From choosing dream podcasts to reclaiming sovereignty in marriage, they share actionable insights and heartfelt advice. 

Ryan reflects on a decade of Order of Man, while both discuss overcoming mid-season slumps with mindset shifts and practical strategies. Tune in for inspiration, humor, and wisdom to become the man you're meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Intro and Banter
02:34 - Top Podcasts to Guest On
07:12 - First Cars and Nostalgia
11:20 - Crafting and Sticking to Your Vision
19:17 - Reclaiming Sovereignty in Marriage
33:18 - Order of Man: Proud Moments and Growth
37:07 - Rucking vs. Rolling in Q3
39:58 - Handling a Spouse’s Gas Tank Habits
46:32 - Beating the Mid-Season Slump
52:29 - Wrap-Up and Announcements

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Every man is different. Some men are intense and need to learn how to pull back on the reigns. Others are passive and need to learn how to crack the whip. My guest today, former Navy SEAL and French Foreign Legionnaire is a man who more closely resonates with the former but understands the implications of both.

Today, Taylor and I talk about how and why men self-sabotage themselves, the importance of internal vs. external validation, how a “Battle Rhythm” helps a man maximize his performance, why success doesn’t “flash,” it “glows,” and why every man is searching for inner peace and clarity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:18 - Welcoming Taylor Cavanaugh
00:55 - Taylor’s Early Struggles and Navy SEAL Aspiration
03:55 - Roots of Self-Sabotage
06:04 - Strengths as Weaknesses in Military Life
09:10 - Backsliding Despite Purpose
11:39 - Transition to Civilian Life
14:45 - Building Internal Discipline
16:25 - Addressing Different Personalities
20:40 - Importance of Battle Rhythm
23:12 - Morning Routine for Clarity
25:36 - Turning Point from Despair
29:36 - Joining the French Foreign Legion
31:05 - SEAL Experience in the Legion
34:16 - Lessons in Simplicity and Patience
37:26 - Significance of a New Identity
40:35 - Starting Coaching from the Legion
43:48 - Connecting with Taylor’s Programs
44:50 - Closing Remarks

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the multifaceted role of a man as a provider, extending beyond financial support. Drawing from Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, he outlines fou key provisions: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Michler emphasizes equipping loved ones wit skills, emotional resilience, and a sense of purpose rooted in objective truth. With actionable insights he inspires men to lead their families toward abundance and fulfillment. Tune in to learn how to ste into your role as a protector, provider, and leader.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00- Introduction to Providing for Your People  
02:40 - Physical Provision: Meeting Physiological Needs  
05:03 - Mental Provision: Ensuring Safety and Skills  
09:47 - Emotional Provision: Building Resilience and Belonging  
14:41 - Spiritual Provision: Guiding Toward Purpose  
19:24 - Framework for Effective Provision  
21:07 - Closing and Call to Action

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In this episode of the Ask Me Anything series, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson dive into hard-hitting questions from listeners about fatherhood, masculinity, personal growth, and navigating life’s toughest transitions. They discuss what it means to be a man in today’s culture, the power of physical discipline, balancing martial arts training, and overcoming shame and failure.

With raw honesty and practical insight, they challenge men to take ownership, build resilience, and lead with purpose—especially when life demands a reinvention from the ground up.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
00:00 News & personal updates
14:22 Devotional roles: husband, father, son
22:43 Thoughts on Liver King
28:18 Balancing jiu-jitsu with other martial arts
34:47 Leading yourself through life transitions
42:43 Fitness and its impact on mindset and leadership
52:53 Training goals into your 50s, 60s & 70s
55:34 Identity, inner dialogue, and breakthrough moments

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Is there a clear and deliberate agenda against men and boys in culture today? Or, is it simply a byproduct of the relative ease of modern times. My guest today, Pastor Douglas Wilson, makes the case that it’s a combination of both and, more accurately, than “modern times,” a result of “wealthy times.” And, if that is the case, what should men do for ourselves and for the future of our children and this world?

Today, Doug and I talk about rebuilding strength and order in our lives and instilling it in our boys, how exactly men can step up against the lunacy and degeneracy we see in modern culture, why men make inferior women and vice versa, why reality calls for us, as men, to reckon with the dangerous times in which we live, and why masculinity cannot (and, should not) be legislated away.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Welcome  
01:03 - Softness in Society and Masculinity  
03:36 - Exploitation in a Soft Society  
04:17 - The Need for Righteous and Hard Men  
06:30 - Hard Times Create Strong Men  
07:58 - Men's Role as Protectors  
09:16 - Historical Context of Church Femininity  
14:53 - Corporate vs. Individualized Worship  
17:51 - Egalitarianism and Traditional Roles  
20:27 - Reclaiming Masculinity in Culture  
22:57 - Preaching for Truth vs. Consensus  
24:30 - Learning Masculinity Through Imitation  
28:54 - Single Mothers and Masculine Role Models  
31:19 - Balancing Risk and Safety in Raising Boys  
37:06 - The Impact of a Pampered Society  
41:49- The Decline of Risk-Taking in Men  
46:18 - Male-Female Dynamics and Patriarchy  
53:29 - Masculinity as Sacrificial Responsibility  
57:13 - Promoting Man Rampant and Other Works  

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the crisis of male isolation, emphasizing the need for strong male connections. He introduces the "BBQ Test," a framework to evaluate potential brothers-in-arms based on five key questions: enjoyment, resilience, depth, principle, and capability. 

Michler challenges men to reject cultural lies about lone masculinity, urging them to build networks of virtuous men. He shares personal insights and offers the Iron Council as a resource for forging these bonds. Join Ryan to discover how to cultivate meaningful, growth-oriented relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - The Struggle of Male Connection
02:39 - Importance of Frameworks and Networks
05:06 - The BBQ Test Concept
07:32 - Question 1 & 2: Enjoyment and Resilience
10:01 - Question 3: Deep Thinker or Stooge
12:21 - Question 4: Principled Man
16:44 - Question 5: Capability
18:43 - Evaluating Your Circle
21:08 - The Iron Council Solution
23:30 - Call to Action

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Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into powerful listener-submitted questions around change, brotherhood, leadership, emotional vulnerability, and navigating fear in uncertain times. They explore how desperation and inspiration spark transformation, the traits that make up a strong inner circle, and the importance of vigilance in a chaotic world. 

Additionally, they explore spiritual perspectives, navigating major life transitions, and emotional expression as fathers. Real talk, real insight — this episode offers practical and heartfelt guidance for men striving to lead with strength and clarity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Opening Banter & Headlines
08:08 – Desperation vs. Inspiration: How Change Happens
15:42 – Building Your Inner Circle
32:22 – Dealing with Eternity and Purpose
41:10 – Managing Fear in Uncertain Times
49:15 – Leading Through Major Life Transitions
52:43 – Emotional Expression as Fathers
59:00 – Iron Council Invitation & Wrap-Up

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Too many men are wandering around aimlessly through life doing just enough in their existence to make it through one more day. That’s part of the reason I founded Order of Man and bring in incredible men like my guest today, Cody Jefferson. Cody is on a mission to help men find their purpose and live a life they’re called to live.

Today, Cody and I talk about why so many men feel they’re always behind and never enough, the pressures a man faces daily and how to relieve them correctly, the source of joy and peace in a man’s life, how your body will tell you a lot about your attitude and efforts in life, why men should focus on who they are, not what they do, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Friendship
01:11 - Trusting God's Timing
02:59 - Learning from Challenges
05:41 - Being Known vs. Being Seen
07:07 - Overcoming Vices
09:24 - Impact of Self-Sabotage
11:24 - Fear of Success
13:35 - Transition from Ministry
14:38 - Practical Self-Care
19:35 - Lessons from Past Mistakes
23:18 - Health Crisis and Realization
27:04 - Divine Inspiration
30:24 - Importance of Wise Counsel
34:57 - Death and Resurrection
40:13 - Understanding Purpose
43:14 - Calling to Help Others
46:46 - Judging Actions vs. Souls
49:36 - Overcoming Ego
53:16 - Areas of Growth
57:21 - Building a Deeper Connection

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Ryan Michler shares six essential books for fathers in this heartfelt episode of *Friday Field Notes*. Reflecting on fatherhood’s profound impact, he draws from personal experiences, including a near-death hunting trip with his son. Michler recommends reads like *The Boy Crisis* and *Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters* to help fathers navigate modern challenges, raise resilient sons, and nurture daughters’ self-worth. Emphasizing sovereignty and emotional regulation, he inspires men to lead with purpose,0making this episode a powerful guide for fathers committed to growth. 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction to Fatherhood’s Importance
02:31 - Father’s Day Reflections
04:52 - Book 1: The Boy Crisis
06:09 - Book 2: Iron John
07:09 - Book 3: Wild at Heart
09:36 - Book 4: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters
11:02 - Book 5: Men’s Work
12:02 - Book 6: Sovereignty
14:31 - Closing Thoughts and Resources

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle listener questions in this Friday Field Notes "Ask Me Anything" episode. They explore escaping life’s ruts, timing for starting a business, simplifying battle plans, staying disciplined, interviewing high-profile figures, and sharing advice confidently. Recorded early due to a hunting trip, their practical insights and relatable analogies inspire men to take action and live purposefully. Join the Iron Council at orderman.com/ironcouncil for more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Hunting Plans
09:38 - Escaping Life’s Ruts
18:00 - Timing for Starting a Business
24:21 - Simplifying Battle Plans
34:31 - Maintaining Discipline
45:31 - Framing a High-Profile Interview
51:10 - Sharing Advice Confidently
01:03:21 - Iron Council Enrollment and Wrap-Up

Very few men think of relationships in the frame of the “sexual marketplace,” although the rules and principles of attraction and connection can very much be understood as an economic model, of sorts, of perceived value. And, the man who offers the most perceived value, is the man who gets the girl. Whether you’re married or single, understanding the intricacies and nuance of what makes a man attractive to a woman will help him get more of what he wants from her.

My guest today, psychologist Orion Taraban joins me to discuss these dynamics between men and women so we all get more of what we’re after in relationships. We cover the importance of knowing your value and knowing what is valuable to the opposite sex, why love has little or nothing to do with attraction, what is known as the “Madonna-Whore Complex,” the concepts of Captains and Passengers as it relates to dating and mating, the difference between talking and communicating, and how best to make yourself more attractive.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction to Captain and Passenger Roles
00:30 - Orion Taraban’s Background and Book Success
01:30 - The Role of YouTube in Building an Audience
03:24 - Orion’s Communication Style and Credentials
07:04 - The Captain and Passenger Metaphor
11:33 - Prerogatives of the Captain
12:23 - Liabilities of Female Captaincy
15:29 - Sexual Marketplace Dynamics
18:38 - Love and Relationships
20:15 - Male Sexuality and Objectification
26:16 - Attraction and the “Bad Boy” Myth
28:12 - The Two Women Concept
32:21 - Communication vs. Talking in Relationships
37:24 - Self-Knowledge and Attraction
41:14 - Double Standards in the Sexual Marketplace
47:20 - Body Count and Sexual Novelty
51:17 - The Coolidge Effect and Male Drive
56:13 - Monogamy and Historical Context
59:54 - Relationships as Economic Transactions
1:03:36 - Marriage as a Business Partnership
1:09:48 - What Women Want in Men
1:16:01 - Standing Out in the Sexual Marketplace
1:23:12 - Where to Connect with Orion

In this powerful episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles imposter syndrome, urging men to reject feelings of inadequacy and embrace their divine purpose. He challenges the notion of being an imposter, labeling it as selfish and rooted in insecurity. 

Michler provides a candid, no-nonsense perspective, offering five actionable steps to reframe negative self-stories, unpack insecurities, and lean on others’ belief in oneself. With raw honesty, he inspires listeners to recognize their worth and take bold action to become the men they’re meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:30 - Introduction to Imposter Syndrome
02:56 - The Selfish Nature of Imposter Syndrome
04:42 - Acknowledging Strengths and Weaknesses
06:54 - Value is Subjective
08:56 - The Comparison Trap
11:07 - You’re Not an Imposter, You’re Learning
12:57 - Imposter Syndrome is Just a Story
14:58 - Unpacking Insecurities with the Five W’s
17:07 - Journaling to Confront Insecurities
19:11 - Rewriting Your Past Story
21:22 - Crafting a New Story
24:50 - Leaning on Others’ Belief in You
27:05 - Rejecting Imposter Syndrome
29:11 - Moral Imperative to Be Your Best
31:18 - Closing Thoughts and Iron Council

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In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson dive into key questions from listeners on navigating relationships, living with purpose, processing intense emotions, and making tough life decisions. They also explore personal family traditions, the importance of frameworks and accountability, and how to know when it's time to pivot. With honest, practical insights and stories from their own experiences, this episode is packed with value for any man seeking growth, clarity, and strength in all areas of life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Intro and catching up
01:38 – Navigating early relationship struggles
08:05 – Living life unabashedly
16:41 – Family summer traditions
20:17 – Processing strong emotions like anger and sadness
30:11 – Running away or moving toward opportunity
40:11 – What would you prioritize if your life was on the line?
45:06 – What to cut out to move forward
48:31 – Turning knowledge into action
54:24 – Preparing for the Forge event & final thoughts

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I believe that most men know they’re leaving room on the table for personal and professional growth and while their diagnosis may be correct, the prescription is wrong. Most men seem to believe that if only their circumstances were different (their boss, their wife, their financial prosperity, etc.), their lives would be better. But the reality is a new circumstances, without a change you yourself, will only produce more of the same.

My guest today, Andrew Shaw, has made it his life’s work to help men break free from the patterns that are holding them back, many of them subconscious. Today, we talk about discipline, resilience, the importances of what he calls, “choice points,” the critical differences between taking fault and taking responsibility, and how many men have over-corrected against the attack on masculinity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction
00:27 - Discussing Content and Masculinity
02:34 - Cultural Views on Masculinity
06:15 - Overទ - Reactions and Overcorrections
08:17 - Common Issues Men Face
15:17 - Masculine Traits and Relationships
23:24 - Starting with Self-Alignment
28:14 - Embracing Discomfort for Growth
35:42 - Physical and Emotional Integration
46:40 - Connecting with Andrew

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Ryan Michler delves into the concept of the "integrity gap" — the disparity between what men know they should do and what they actually do. He explores how this gap hinders personal growth, results, and relationships, urging listeners to bridge it through actionable steps. Michler provides six introspective questions to help men align their actions with their aspirations, fostering purpose and impact. Tune in to discover how to close the integrity gap and become the man you’re meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introducing the Integrity Gap
02:23 - Risks of the Integrity Gap
08:17 - Impact on Your People
10:41 - Who Are You Ideally?
14:56 - Who Are You Currently?
18:22 - What Needs to Happen Daily?
20:14 - What Information Do You Need?
22:38 - What Systems Do You Need?
24:50 - What Do You Need to Do Right Now?
26:34 - Adapting to Life’s Challenges

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In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle questions around forgiveness, grief, confidence, and masculine responsibility. They explore how to regain momentum after major life setbacks, navigate strained relationships with parents, and balance humility with confidence. 

The hosts also discuss toxic masculinity, fatherhood, and the importance of modeling strength and integrity. This episode is a call to rise above a “heart at war” and live as a man of purpose—even in the face of fear, trauma, and adversity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Opening & News Headlines
03:50 – Forgiving Parents Without Reconnecting
17:18 – Confidence and Humility in One Hand
24:35 – Facing Mortality & Leading Your Family
35:42 – Regaining Momentum After Loss
40:59 – Prioritizing Fitness vs. Financial Goals
48:37 – Why Most Men Stay Stuck
59:05 – Toxic Masculinity, Feminism & Prevention

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From the time we were little boys and young men, the topic of sex has always seemed to conjure up thoughts of embarrassment and shame. It’s unfortunate (to say the least) considering that most men equate sex with the woman in their lives an integral part of the relationship and connection.

My guest today, Alex Grendi, has made it his life’s work to explore men’s relationships with sex and how we can not only get more of it but make it more meaningful for ourselves and the women in our lives. We talk about porn’s impact on sexual relationships, how to overcome childhood shame around the conversation of sex, how to solicit and ask for feedback in your performance in the bedroom (including how to ask for what you want), why nice guys never get what they want from intimacy, and the psychological and physiological issues men deal with when with their lady.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:25 - Misconceptions About Men and Sex
00:56 - Shame and Societal Expectations
02:05 - Defining "Good" at Sex
03:22 - Impact of Pornography
04:32 - Healthy Perspective on Sex
06:01 - Creating Safety in the Bedroom
07:44 - Balancing Quickies and Intimacy
09:18 - Pornography and Performance Issues
10:54 - Navigating Religious Shame
12:02 - Talking to Kids About Sex
14:57 - Overcoming Shame and Insecurity
18:19 - Steps to Address Performance Anxiety
22:51 - Managing Stress for Better Intimacy
25:05 - Exploring Non-Genital Pleasure
29:24 - Importance of Foreplay
32:18 - Honoring Your Own Needs
36:14 - Mastering Edging Techniques
41:30 - Removing Ejaculation as the Goal
44:42 - Communicating Desires Effectively
50:28 - Leadership in Intimacy
53:06 - Reframing Sexual Intentions
55:42 - Connecting with Alex Grendi

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful concept inspired by Gladiator and Marcus Aurelius: “What we do echoes in eternity.” Michler emphasizes the importance of adopting a long-term perspective in life to avoid emotional impulsivity, short-term gains, and scarcity mindsets. 

He shares three key mindsets for maintaining focus on lasting goals and three practical strategies—pausing before acting, applying the “five-five-five rule,” and prioritizing long-term results—to achieve meaningful outcomes. Michler’s insights inspire listeners to make decisions that resonate beyond the present, fostering a legacy of impact and growth.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:18 - Introduction
02:42 - Why Long-Term Perspective Matters
07:21 - Avoiding Short-Term Thinking Traps
09:38 - Strategy 1: Stop Before You Act
11:56 - Managing Emotional Responses
13:57 - Strategy 2: The Five-Five-Five Rule
16:04 - Strategy 3: Focus on Long-Term Results
18:06 - Building Lasting Relationships
20:27 - Recap and Call to Action

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In this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler—joined midway by Kipp Sorensen—tackles questions from listeners about discipline, balance, relationships, and personal growth. They share insights on training consistency in summer, defining identity, healing after breakups, and leading a family with intensity and joy. 

Whether you're navigating divorce, redefining your vision, or trying to stay focused in a distracted world, this episode delivers powerful mindset shifts and practical takeaways to help you become the man you're meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Intro & Memorial Day Reflection
02:49 – Staying Consistent with Training in Summer
05:02 – Balancing Drive and Family Presence
09:46 – Responsibility vs. Enabling in Family
14:28 – Dating After Divorce
22:20 – Discovering Identity and Vision
32:48 – Lessons from Darkest Moments
42:49 – Financial Readiness for Marriage
46:13 – Moving On After a Breakup
50:20 – Closing Remarks & Call to Action

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Every single man listening to this is familiar with discipline and has applied it (to varying degrees) in his life. We generally think of discipline as an overall good thing (and, I think it is) but it can often lead to bouts of frustration and unnecessary suffering if utilized incorrectly.

My guest today, Craig Ballantyne, makes the case that discipline, although, a powerful force for productivity comes with strings attached, and isn’t the end-all, save-all it’s often made out to be. Today, we talk about what true discipline is not, why chasing the wrong target is so common and what to do about it, what I call the “self-help hangover” and how to avoid it, why you should know the distinction between standards and expectations, and how to avoid what Craig calls, “The Doom Loop” in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Defining Discipline
00:42 - Level 10 Effort and Level 10 Problems
01:48 - Identifying Your Level 10 Problem
04:21 - The Importance of Focus and Self-Reflection
06:32 - Calibration and Goal Setting
07:54 - Facing Difficult Conversations
10:44 - The Hero’s Journey and Overcoming Fears
13:13 - Personal Growth Through Challenges
15:49 - Suffering vs. Sacrifice
18:54 - Reframing Sacrifice for Joy
21:21 - Choices and Personal Responsibility
23:44 - Inspiring Stories of Resilience
25:35 - Motivation and Maximizing Potential
27:54 - Breaking the Doom Loop
30:27 - Effortless Discipline Systems
33:46 - The Power of Systems Over Willpower
37:09 - Accountability as a Life Hack
40:31 - Raising Standards for Success
43:55 - Standards vs. Expectations
46:12 - Controlling Thoughts, Words, and Deeds
48:27 - Identity and Core Values
50:35 - Creating a Vision for Your Future
52:45 - Where to Connect and Learn More

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares four strategies to avoid bitterness amid life's challenges. He urges men to take responsibility for their circumstances, emphasizing decision-making, reframing adversity, learning from experiences, and applying lessons for growth.

Michler highlights the dangers of victimhood and encourages gratitude and proactive change to transform struggles into opportunities. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, he inspires listeners to rise above frustration and embrace their potential. Visit orderofman.com/battle-ready for tools to implement these principles and become the man you're meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:10 - Introduction: The Trap of Bitterness
02:30 - Strategy 1: Make a Decision
04:55 - The Stories We Tell Ourselves
07:24 - Strategy 2: Reframe Your Circumstances
09:47 - Gratitude as a Tool for Growth
11:30 - Strategy 3: Learn from Experiences
13:50 - Strategy 4: Apply the Lessons
15:47 - Embracing Discomfort and Responsibility
17:54 - Tools for Improvement: The Battle Planner
20:05 - Closing: Take Action, Rise Above

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In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle listener questions on toxic leadership, writing books, jumpstarting motivation, the meaning crisis, and connecting with stepkids. They explore overcoming self-help burnout, emphasizing the power of fun to recharge motivation, and discuss finding purpose in a pleasure-driven culture. With practical advice and personal insights, they inspire listeners to take action, build influence, and live meaningfully. Join the conversation at orderofman.com and themensforge.com.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Weekend Recap
02:55 - Dealing with Toxic Leadership
19:06 - Writing Books: Plans and Challenges
23:53 - Jumpstarting Motivation
34:44 - The Meaning Crisis: Causes and Solutions
43:23 - Overcoming Self-Help Burnout
54:41 - Building Influence with Stepkids
01:02:15 - Community Updates and Resources

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Purpose is a factor of life that every man knows will improve his quality of life. Unfortunately, we seem to be in an era when purpose is increasingly abysmal in the lives of too many men. Men in all walks and stages of life are floundering around aimlessly, wondering why they’re anxious, depressed, and alone.

My guest today, Garrett Unclebach, former Navy SEAL, is a man who is intimately familiar with why and how purpose drives men to step up, take charge of their lives, and succeed. We unpack why a man must look beyond himself, how surrendering in certain circumstances could lead you to an incredible place you’ve never considered, the power of equanimity and how to cultivate it, why being faithful when you have nothing leads to a life of prosperity and abundance, and how to judge what you should be doing and who you should be doing it with.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:35 - Ryan’s Recent Event in St. Louis
01:00 - Garrett’s Men’s Group and Camping Trip
02:40 - Developing Leaders and Train the Trainer
05:00 - Rewarding Leadership Moments
06:27 - Hunting Memories and Mentorship
07:16 - Family and Fatherhood
09:29 - Shared Hunting Experiences in Africa
11:25 - The Impossible Life and Control
12:32 - Mentoring Navy SEAL Tadpoles
14:46 - Finding Peace Beyond Outcomes
16:39 - Balancing Heart and Consequences
19:10 - Joseph’s Dream and Purpose
22:35 - Discovering Purpose Through Heart and Hand
25:09 - God’s Plan and Personal Growth
26:51 - The Question Every Man Asks
29:31 - The Power of Perspective and Beliefs
32:43 - Faith, Works, and Serving Others
35:57 - Transformation Over Behavioral Change
39:13 - Balancing Service and Personal Fulfillment
42:09- Living and Dying for Purpose
45:01 - Equanimity and Staying Under the Weight
47:35 - Taking Responsibility for Choices
49:32 - The Mindset of Inevitability
52:30 - Resilience vs. Delusion
56:33 - Learning from Scars and Pain
58:09 - Chip on the Shoulder Mentality
01:01:28 - Purpose Over Temporary Identity
01:03:13 - Mission vs. Vision
01:05:22 - Connecting with Garrett and Closing

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how creating options leads to true freedom. Expanding on the concept of "discipline equals freedom," Ryan argues that personal responsibility, open-mindedness, and sovereignty are key to unlocking a life of choice. He shares four actionable strategies to cultivate options, emphasizing self-improvement, avoiding rigid thinking, aligning relationships, and prioritizing liberty.

Ryan inspires listeners to take control of their lives and pursue their desired path.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction to Options and Freedom
02:35 - Fix Yourself First
04:59 - Never Pedestalize Anything
09:43 - Coinciding vs. Conflicting Interests
14:05 - Sovereignty as the Path to Liberty
17:45 - Reclaiming Your Sovereignty
20:00 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging Ask Me Anything episode, tackling listener questions on sobriety, respect, body image, entrepreneurship, and relationships. From navigating a teen’s insecurities to balancing co-parenting conflicts, they share practical advice and personal insights. With humor and heart, they explore overcoming the comparison trap and building a fulfilling life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - Episode Intro and Roomba Mishap
00:01:50 - Sobriety and Overcoming Past Mistakes
00:07:52 - Respect: Earned vs. Given
00:13:24 - Supporting a Teen’s Body Image Struggles
00:22:25 - Bedros Kulian Event and Personal Growth
00:24:17 - Escaping the Comparison Trap
00:32:55 - Men’s Forge Event Plans
00:35:54 - Starting a Business: Key Tips
00:44:24 - Co-Parenting and Team Commitments
00:49:00 - Fitness Goals and Gym Humor
00:51:51 - Letting Go of Relationships
00:57:53 - Call to Action and Closing

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Leadership is a word that has become completely bastardized in modern culture. Everywhere you turn, someone is hyping you up on why you need to become a better leader, the benefits of leading versus following, and how exactly you should do it. But what if I told you, it’s not the tactics that make you a leader but the mindsets that spell the difference.

My good friend, brother, and leadership coach, Kipp Sorensen, joins me today to talk about what it really means to lead in a world where every man thinks they’re leading well. We address the two types of destructive leaders, the “BAR” acronym (behavior, actions, results) and which to focus on, how 83% of people in the workforce view their position in the company (and what you can do about it), why a “compensation” package is about more than just money, and the do’s and don’t’s of effective leadership.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Business Talk  
01:48 - Exploring Leadership Challenges  
04:30 - How Authority Changes People  
06:18 - Persecutors vs. Rescuers in Leadership  
10:26 - Stanford Prison Experiment Insights  
13:07 - Balancing Motivation and Honesty  
17:19 - Becoming a Leader-Coach  
21:41 - The Mindset of Great Leadership  
23:21 - Applying Leadership at Home  
29:49 - Defining the Leader-Coach Role  
36:31 - Balancing Accountability and Empathy  
41:29 - Focusing on Results, Not Behaviors  
49:54 - Ownership and Choice in Leadership  
56:00 - Handling Limited Resources  
01:02:09 - Leading Family vs. Employees  
01:09:20 - Closing and Kipp’s Contact Info

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