Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2311: Pursuing personal goals with single-minded focus can lead to an unintended consequence: neglecting your relationships. Dr. Gwendolyn Seidman explains how the mindset we adopt when chasing goals can make us more one-sided, not just about the goal itself, but in how we view and maintain our relationships. By becoming aware of this, we can better balance our personal ambitions with nurturing healthy connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/when-whats-good-for-me-isnt-good-for-us/ Quotes to ponder: "Once you’ve committed to the decision to take the job, you’re no longer weighing the pros and cons, but instead figuring out how to break the news to your current boss." "The implemental mindset may make you consider everything, not just that goal, in a one-sided manner." "When pursuing a relationship goal, personal goals are put on the back burner." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2310: Cara Harvey emphasizes the importance of self-care for moms, highlighting that it's not about indulgence but about sustaining your well-being. She shares practical advice on integrating self-care into a busy day, even if it means finding small moments for yourself. Prioritizing self-care, according to Harvey, is crucial not just for personal happiness but for creating a positive home environment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/how-to-fit-self-care-into-your-day/ Quotes to ponder: "We find time to do things that are priorities to us. The things that we think are important are the ones that get done during the day." "We deserve to take some time during the day to center ourselves and do what makes us happy." "I’ve never regretted doing something that I know will make me happier for myself, my family, and my kids." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2301: Staying active as a parent can feel overwhelming, but Steve Kamb from NerdFitness.com shows that it's not only possible but can be a fun way to bond with your family. By turning exercise into play, such as hiking, creating games, and even doing push-ups with your kids, you can integrate fitness into your daily life without it feeling like a chore. Embrace a mindset of flexibility and creativity to make fitness a family affair. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/how-to-stay-active-when-you-have-a-family/ Quotes to ponder: "Exercise doesn’t have to feel like a chore. In fact, exercise can be damn fun." "It’s about finding a way for you ALL to enjoy healthy habits." "Become MacGuyver, and exercise anytime, anywhere." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2211: Steven Keys of Trip Of A Lifestyle.com highlights the power of shared goals in strengthening relationships. By setting and achieving goals together, even small ones, partners can enhance their bond and experience greater happiness and fulfillment. The article suggests starting with simple tasks and gradually moving to more significant, life-changing goals to keep the relationship exciting and purposeful. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.tripofalifestyle.com/perspective/the-high-five-factor/ Quotes to ponder: "Setting a goal together with someone you care about can enhance your relationship in the same way personal goals can enhance your life." "The more times you find yourself high-fiving your partner, the more you’re gonna like each other over time." "By setting out to accomplish something together, you immediately tackle the issue of boredom in long-term relationships." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To submit a question that you'd like help with on the show, email it to Greg at advice@oldpodcast.com Greg Audino answers a listener's question about how to manage feelings after divorce and rebuild a life for yourself when you're not over your ex Episode 1311: Q&A - Trying to Stop Loving Someone - Getting Out of a Divorce & Still Being In Love with Your Ex Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emma Scheib with Highly Sensitive Refuge talks about the extraordinary nature of the highly sensitive child Episode 1310: Your Highly Sensitive Child is Normal. No Wait, She's Extraordinary by Emma Scheib of Highly Sensitive Refuge Co-founders Jenn Granneman and Andre Sólo's mission is to prove that high sensitivity can be strong. It’s okay to be a highly sensitive person (HSP). In fact, the world could use a little more of what HSPs have. They are the voices of Highly Sensitive Refuge, a community where HSPs can be themselves, take a break from the harshness of the world, and feel understood. Our founders are Jenn Granneman and Andre Sólo. The original post is located here: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/highly-sensitive-child-is-normal/   Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Margaret Rutherford asks if we're teaching our children to be perfectionists instead of helping them to be vulnerable Episode 1309: Are We Teaching Our Children to Be Perfectionists by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Helping Kids Be Vulnerable Dr. Margaret Rutherford has been a psychologist in private practice for over twenty-five years. She’s the author of “Perfectly Hidden Depression”, and hosts a weekly podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford, where she offers compassionate common-sense directions, ideas and goals toward the changes listeners want to make in healing.  The original post can be found here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/what-are-we-teaching-our-children-about-vulnerability/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alysha Jeney of Modern Love Counseling talks about whether or not it's wise to stay friends with your ex Episode 1308: The Ex: Should You Stay Friends With Them by Alysha Jeney of Modern Love Counseling Alysha Jeney is the founder of Modern Love Counseling. She is a MA, LMFT practicing in the Denver area. She focuses on offering counseling services for adult couples, individuals and business partners, and she also has advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), making her ideal clients people that are motivated to make changes in their lives and willing to take brave risks within themselves; ready to take ownership and push comfort zones.  The original post can be found here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/the-ex-should-you-stay-friends-with-them/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stella Grizont of Woopaah shares how to stop feeling frustrated with someone. Episode 1307: How To Stop Feeling Frustrated With Someone by Stella Grizont of Woopaah on Personal Relationships Stella Grizont works with over achievers who are seeking deeper career fulfillment and with organizations who are dedicated to elevating the well-being of their employees. She studied Economics at Columbia University's Barnard College and was one of the first 150 people to earn a Masters in the Applied Positive Psychology (aka the science of happiness) from the University of Pennsylvania. She now lives in New Jersey with her husband and toddler, who continue to teach her what life is all about. The original post is located here: https://www.woopaah.com/blog/2018/3/6/how-to-stop-feeling-frustrated-with-someone Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Orna and Mathew Walters of Creating Love on Purpose answer a listener's question about how to turn a friendship into something romantic Episode 1306: Can I Turn a Friend Into More by Orna and Matthew Walters of Creating Love on Purpose Orna and Matthew are Soulmate Coaches who specialize in helping their clients finally get it right this time when it comes to love. Dedicated to busting the myth that love is SUPPOSED to happen by accident, they help identify Your Love Imprint® to shift patterns that have caused love to previously elude you. They are here to help change the world one individual, one couple, and one family at a time. They believe that when they support the creation of a happy couple, we’ll have more happy families, and happy families create happy communities, happy communities create happy towns, cities, and states. Happy towns, cities and states, create happy nations. Happy nations equal a happy love filled world. They are dedicated to empowering their clients to get happy and attract the love they deeply desire. The original post is located here: https://www.creatingloveonpurpose.com/can-i-turn-a-friend-into-more/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask Dr. Neal your question about health, nutrition, diet, fitness, and more here: http://OLDPodcast.com/ask or call: 614-568-3643 Episode 1305: Q&A – How to Motivate Clients, Friends & Family to Exercise (Tips to Keep Other People Inspired Every Day). The original post is located here: http://oldpodcast.com/motivate-others-exercise Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Kelly Flanagan talks about why digital connection can't replace analog companionship Episode 1304: Why You Can’t Replace Analog Companionship with Digital Connection by Dr. Kelly Flanagan Clinical psychologist Dr. Kelly Flanagan is the co-founder of Artisan Clinical Associates in Naperville, IL. He writes weekly about living out redemptive stories on his popular blog, UnTangled. Kelly has also written two books, one titled Loveable: Embracing What is Truest About You, So You Can Truly Embrace Your Life, and another named True Companions. Kelly is married to another clinical psychologist named Kelly, and the couple has three children The original post is located here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/why-you-cant-replace-analog-companionship-with-digital-connection/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To submit a question that you'd like help with on the show, email it to Greg at advice@oldpodcast.com Greg Audino answers a listener's question about how to rebuild a relationship with an old flame that has shown back up in their life Episode 1303: Q&A - How Do I Rebuild a Relationship With an Old Flame Who Has Shown Back Up in My Life Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jen of This Time of Mine shares 5 simple steps for recovering after yelling at your children Episode 1302: How to Recover After Yelling in 5 Simple Steps by Jen of This Time of Mine on Calming Techniques For Parents Jen is a busy mom to four energetic kids and between taking care of them, running the household and trying to keep up with everything else she does and enjoys, she’s often found herself fantasizing about the moment she can finally sit down for the night. But through it all, she’s found that she’s happiest when she’s intentional in her approach. And even though it’s not always easy, she knows when she parents and lives her life on purpose, that’s when she can make the biggest difference for her children. She founded This Time Of Mine to use as a platform to teach as many parents as will listen. She wants to meet you where you are and help you fall in love with parenting all over again.  Because she knows how hard it can be.  She also knows that when we learn to parent and live with intention, we can create more good times than bad. We can help our children WANT to do what’s right. And we can become the role model that walks along beside them.  The original post is located here: https://thistimeofmine.com/how-to-recover-after-yelling/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2210: Carolyn Hidalgo explores the delicate balance of expressing one's true feelings without imposing on others. She shares her journey from living by others' expectations to finding her authentic voice, emphasizing the importance of communicating from a place of love and curiosity to maintain open and respectful relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-speak-your-mind-without-making-someone-else-wrong/ Quotes to ponder: "Would you rather be right or free?" "The social mask forms the moment we’re born and we hear our first words." "Out beyond ideas of right and wrong there is a field. I will meet you there." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply shows you how to help your sensitive child reach their potential Episode 1301: The Sensitive Child: Helping Him Reach His Potential by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply A certified Speech Pathologist, Adina received her Master’s degree from Hunter College in New York in Communication Sciences. Adina worked in preschools for the developmentally disabled in the New York area before staying home full time with her family. In 2010, she launched Parenting Simply as a community to help parents connect with their children and learn simple, practical and easy to implement skills to create a peaceful home. Parenting Simply’s mission is to reduce the stress that parents and children feel by giving parents communication and organizational tips that can help parents maintain a loving and calm home. The original post is located here: https://parentingsimply.com/the-sensitive-child-helping-him-reach-his-potential/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kristena Eden of Core Living Essentials talks about being honest with your spouse. This is part 2 of 2. Episode 1300: [Part 2] This is My Marriage Not Yours by Kristena Eden of Core Living Essentials on Being Honest With Your Spouse Kristena is a professional life coach, author, speaker, teacher, and overall marriage and relationships expert. She has over 25 years of training education and experience, and in that time has developed a proven process, unlike traditional therapy, to help you see the world in a new way and your place in it. Her approach has even helped many PTSD patients acclimate back into life. The original post is located here: https://corelivingessentials.com/this-is-my-marriage-not-yours/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kristena Eden of Core Living Essentials talks about being honest with your spouse. This is part 1 of 2. Episode 1299: [Part 1] This is My Marriage Not Yours by Kristena Eden of Core Living Essentials on Being Honest With Your Spouse Kristena is a professional life coach, author, speaker, teacher, and overall marriage and relationships expert. She has over 25 years of training education and experience, and in that time has developed a proven process, unlike traditional therapy, to help you see the world in a new way and your place in it. Her approach has even helped many PTSD patients acclimate back into life. The original post is located here: https://corelivingessentials.com/this-is-my-marriage-not-yours/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Faye Williams with No Sidebar shares 3 things she learned from losing her mother Episode 1298: 3 Things Losing My Mum Taught Me About Life by Faye Williams of No Sidebar on Recovering From Loss No Sidebar was created by Brian Gardner and is all about designing a simpler life. He and the contributing authors want to help you figure out what's getting in your way, at home and at work. They want to help you let go of distractions, online and off--to turn down the noise that disrupts the quiet of your heart and soul. The original post is located here: https://nosidebar.com/death-taught-me-about-life/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Wanderer fills us in on who should contribute to a 529 plan. Episode 1297: Who Should Contribute to a 529 Plan by Wanderer of Millennial Revolution on Saving for Education Expenses Wanderer retired from his engineering job at a major Silicon Valley semiconductor company at the age of 33. He now travels the world seeking out knowledge from other wealthy people, so he can teach people how to become financially independent themselves. The original post can be seen here: https://www.millennial-revolution.com/invest/529-plan/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Keith Wilson helps you build a life around your values and not let the wrong emotions take over Episode 1296: Who is Driving Your Bus by Keith Wilson on Building a Life Around Your Values Keith Wilson is a licensed mental health counselor and certified alcohol and substance abuse counselor in New York State, with more than 30 years experience. Keith has done a lot of writing about ways to improve your relationships and become the person you would like to be. His newest book is The Road to Reconciliation: A Comprehensive Guide to Peace When Relationships Go Bad. The original post is located here: https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/who-is-driving-your-bus-b811ebeda4d6  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To submit a question that you'd like help with on the show, email it to Greg at advice@oldpodcast.com Greg Audino answers a listener's question about how to get comfortable having more free time and more alone time without a busy schedule to distract Episode 1295: Q&A - How Do I Get Comfortable Being Alone and Not Having a Busy Schedule to Distract Me - Minimalist Struggles Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shawna Scafe of Simple On Purpose talks about planning a mom retreat Episode 1294: Planning a Mom Retreat (For Work, Rest and Play) by Shawna Scafe of Simple on Purpose Shawna Scafe is a mom of three small kids who started blogging after her first son was born. She wanted to share her c-section story in order to help herself work through the disappointment she felt about it. She read a book on minimalism that changed how she viewed her life. She started asking questions about why we have so much, do so much, work so much and we feel so restless and overwhelmed. Shawna is trying to live life on purpose, set dreams and goals for herself as a mom, wife and woman and she is trying to share it openly with everyone. The original post is located here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/mom-retreat-ideas/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Crystal Karges talks about why pregnancy and postpartum can trigger eating disorder relapse Episode 1293: Why Pregnancy and Postpartum Can Trigger Eating Disorder Relapse by Crystal Karges on Health Tips For Moms Crystal Karges is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and mama of five specializing in intuitive eating for mothers and families. She's passionately committed to helping you and your children enjoy freedom with food as a family. She helps overwhelmed mamas ditch diet culture for good and heal their relationships with food and their bodies so they can confidently raise intuitive eaters and enjoy eating together as a family again. Because when mothers thrive, families flourish. The original post is located here: https://www.crystalkarges.com/blog/why-pregnancy-and-postpartum-can-trigger-eating-disorder-relapse  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Diana of Love in 90 Days tells you what you should do when the relationship is moving too fast Episode 1292: What Should You Do When The Relationship Is Moving Too Fast by Dr. Diana Kirschner of Love in 90 Days PBS Love expert, psychologist and bestselling author, Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. has helped thousands of singles and couples to find the relationships of their dreams. Along with her team of expert Love Mentor and dating coaches, she uses a unique approach to empower women by phone/Skype all over the world to heal from heartbreak and find lasting love. Dr. Diana is the author of the new books, Find Your Soulmate Online in 6 Simple Steps and 30 Days to Love; the relationship advice book, Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love and the bestselling dating book, Love in 90 Days, which is the basis for her one-woman PBS TV Show Finding Your Own True Love. Talk with an expert Love Mentor coach for 40 minutes for free, and get special VIP treatment by mentioning the Optimal Living Daily podcasts: http://lovein90days.com/dating-coach The original post is located here: https://lovein90days.com/what-should-you-do-when-the-relationship-is-moving-too-fast/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2209: Steve Pavlina emphasizes the principle of Love in personal growth, illustrating how a supportive, positive environment can significantly enhance one’s growth and well-being. He contrasts two morning scenarios to demonstrate how enriching connections and conscious choices can lead to a more fulfilling life, urging readers to actively create environments that foster positive growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2010/11/the-power-of-connections/ Quotes to ponder: "It’s not enough to avoid the negatives. You need to add the positives. Otherwise, you’re still likely to stagnate." "Alignment with the principle of Love is one of the key differences between unconscious and conscious growth." "Supportive people are repelled by negative-minded people." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kristine Klussman shares how to find the meaning of connection through oneness. Episode 1291: Find The Meaning of Connection Through Oneness by Kristine Klussman Kristine Klussman specialized in Health Psychology (Behavioral Medicine) at Harvard Medical School, then founded and ran the Health Psychology program and post-doctoral training programs at California Pacific Medical Center in San Francisco. She found her work with cancer and cardiac patients inspiring, uplifting, and humbling. She found so many of those going through life-threatening illness were - sometimes for the first time in their lives - absolutely clear what truly mattered to them: authenticity and connection. In 2016, she founded a non-profit to focus full-time on trying to understand, explain and teach what she now believes is the single most meaningful and rewarding aspect of our existence. The original post is located here: https://www.kristineklussman.com/find-the-meaning-of-connection-through-oneness/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Evan Marc Katz helps a reader whose boyfriend acts like a boyfriend, but hates the label Episode 1290: He Acts Like a Boyfriend But He Doesn’t Like the Title by Evan Marc Katz on Early Stages of Dating Dilemmas Dating coach Evan Marc Katz has been billed as a “personal trainer for smart, strong, successful women,” helping singles find love since 2003. Thousands of his clients have fallen in love, gotten married, started families, and found happiness, after only a few months of coaching. It’s an unlikely career for a man--much less a man who was called a “serial dater” by CNN--yet that’s what makes Katz such a unique coach. By helping women understand men--what they think, how they act, and what they really want--he empowers them to make healthy, informed choices in love. The original post is located here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/he-acts-like-a-boyfriend-but-he-doesnt-like-the-title  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Leo Babauta of Zen Habits talks about how to have healthy friendships Episode 1289: The Secret to Interpersonal Happiness by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits on How to Have Healthy Friendships Leo Babauta created Zen Habits, which is about finding simplicity and mindfulness in the daily chaos of our lives. It's about clearing the clutter so we can focus on what's important, create something amazing, find happiness. The original post is located here: https://zenhabits.net/interpersonal Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Margaret Rutherford helps you understand why you might be fighting in relationships Episode 1288: Do You Fight To Be Right - 5 Reasons Why You Might by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Arguing in Relationships Dr. Margaret Rutherford has been a psychologist in private practice for over twenty-five years. She’s the author of “Perfectly Hidden Depression”, and hosts a weekly podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford, where she offers compassionate common-sense directions, ideas and goals toward the changes listeners want to make in healing.  The original post can be found here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/do-you-fight-to-be-right-5-reasons-why-you-might/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Greg Audino answers a listener's question about how to begin the process of decluttering Episode 1287: Q&A - How Can I Begin the Process of Decluttering - Understanding the Unique Value of Every Item in Your Life Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Julie Morgenstern encourages parents to delegate household tasks Episode 1286: Don't Do it All Alone by Julie Morgenstern on Delegating Household Tasks Julie Morgenstern is an organizing & productivity consultant, New York Times best-selling author, and speaker. For over 30 years, Julie has been teaching people all around the world and at all stages of life how to overcome disorganization to achieve their goals. Her mission is to free each individual to make their unique contribution to the world - by helping them design their own systems for managing time and space that feel natural and are easy to maintain. This Inside Out approach to organizing everything gives readers, listeners, and clients the energy and knowledge they need to get (and stay) organized. The original post is located here: https://www.juliemorgenstern.com/tips-tools-blog/2020/1/10/dont-do-it-all-alone  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jen of This Time of Mine shares 5 simple and delicious smoothie recipes that kids will love Episode 1285: 5 Simple and Delicious Smoothies Your Kids Will Love by Jen of This Time of Mine on Nutrition For Kids Jen is a busy mom to four energetic kids and between taking care of them, running the household and trying to keep up with everything else she does and enjoys, she’s often found herself fantasizing about the moment she can finally sit down for the night. But through it all, she’s found that she’s happiest when she’s intentional in her approach. And even though it’s not always easy, she knows when she parents and lives her life on purpose, that’s when she can make the biggest difference for her children. She founded This Time Of Mine to use as a platform to teach as many parents as will listen. She wants to meet you where you are and help you fall in love with parenting all over again.  Because she knows how hard it can be.  She also knows that when we learn to parent and live with intention, we can create more good times than bad. We can help our children WANT to do what’s right. And we can become the role model that walks along beside them.  The original post is located here: https://thistimeofmine.com/5-simple-and-delicious-smoothies-your-kids-will-love/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ali Cornish of Everthrive shares her thoughts on changing the way we react, cope, and communicate. Episode 1284: It's Not Them, It's You: Changing the Way We React, Cope, and Communicate by Ali Cornish of Everthrive.org Ali Cornish created Everthrive as a response to the increasing pace, materialism, and detachment of today's society. Through words and photos, she brings awareness to the importance of living simply, healthfully, and authentically. Life can be better lived when we disconnect from distraction, slow down, and focus on what is truly important. In addition to managing and contributing to Everthrive, she also helps others create compelling content for websites, campaigns, and social media ventures through The Media Acorn. The original post is located here: http://everthrive.org/blog/2018/5/9/its-not-them-its-you-changing-the-way-we-react-cope-and-communicate Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kyle Benson with The Gottman Institute gives you 5 steps to inspire your partner to join you in attending couples therapy. This is part 2 of 2. Episode 1283: [Part 2] 5 Steps to Inspire Your Partner to Join You in Attending Couples Therapy by Kyle Benson of Gottman The Gottman Institute understands that the human family is in crisis, and that all individuals are capable of and deserve compassion. It is their mission to reach out to families in order to help create and maintain greater love and health in relationships. They are committed to an ongoing program of research that increases the understanding of relationships and adds to the development of interventions that have been carefully evaluated. It is their goal to make their services accessible to the broadest reach of people across race, religion, class, culture, sexual orientation, and ethnicity. Want to improve your marriage in 60 seconds or less? Over 40 years of research with thousands of couples has proven a simple fact: small things often can create big changes over time. Got a minute? Sign up for The Gottman Institute's Marriage Minute at http://OLDPodcast.com/marriage The original post is located here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/5-steps-to-inspire-your-partner-to-join-you-in-attending-couples-therapy/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kyle Benson with The Gottman Institute gives you 5 steps to inspire your partner to join you in attending couples therapy. This is part 1 of 2. Episode 1282: [Part 1] 5 Steps to Inspire Your Partner to Join You in Attending Couples Therapy by Kyle Benson of Gottman The Gottman Institute understands that the human family is in crisis, and that all individuals are capable of and deserve compassion. It is their mission to reach out to families in order to help create and maintain greater love and health in relationships. They are committed to an ongoing program of research that increases the understanding of relationships and adds to the development of interventions that have been carefully evaluated. It is their goal to make their services accessible to the broadest reach of people across race, religion, class, culture, sexual orientation, and ethnicity. Want to improve your marriage in 60 seconds or less? Over 40 years of research with thousands of couples has proven a simple fact: small things often can create big changes over time. Got a minute? Sign up for The Gottman Institute's Marriage Minute at http://OLDPodcast.com/marriage The original post is located here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/5-steps-to-inspire-your-partner-to-join-you-in-attending-couples-therapy/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2208: Travis Hornsby offers insightful guidance on choosing between Roth and Traditional retirement accounts when managing student debt. He explains the advantages of each option and provides specific recommendations for different financial scenarios, helping listeners make informed decisions about their retirement savings strategy. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.studentloanplanner.com/roth-traditional-student-debt/ Quotes to ponder: "Most resident programs are located in higher tax areas with a high cost of living. That means our reader is probably not deciding where to put his next $15,000, but more like his next $5,000." "You’re protecting against downside risk in retirement when you save in a Traditional account. If you’re going for Public Service Loan Forgiveness, you should really focus on building assets and protecting against the worst case scenario, which is you having to work forever." Episode references: The Mad Fientist - Traditional IRA vs. Roth IRA: https://www.madfientist.com/traditional-ira-vs-roth-ira/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Andre Solo with Introvert Dear talks about the importance of alone time Episode 1281: According to Science, Alone Time Is Really Good for You by Andre Solo of Introvert Dear Jenn Granneman is the founder of Introvert, Dear and author of The Secret Lives of Introverts. She started Introvert, Dear in 2013 as her personal blog. She was living with an extroverted roommate, dating an extroverted guy, and working an extroverted job (teaching 4th grade). Jenn wanted to write about what it was like being an introvert living in an extrovert's world. In true introvert form, she wrote her blog anonymously for almost two years. Jenn had no desire to be in the spotlight. And she had no idea her little blog would become this! Now, with the help of quiet ones around the world, she is on a mission: to let introverts everywhere know it's okay to be who they are. The original post is located here: https://introvertdear.com/news/how-alone-time-is-actually-good-for-you/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Greg Audino answers a listener's question about whether or not all relationships are transactional Episode 1280: Q&A - Aren't All Relationships Transactional - The Truth About Conditions in Relationships Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply shares the best way to keep your family happy Episode 1279: The Best Way to Keep Your Family Happy by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Mutual Respect Within Families A certified Speech Pathologist, Adina received her Master’s degree from Hunter College in New York in Communication Sciences. Adina worked in preschools for the developmentally disabled in the New York area before staying home full time with her family. In 2010, she launched Parenting Simply as a community to help parents connect with their children and learn simple, practical and easy to implement skills to create a peaceful home. Parenting Simply’s mission is to reduce the stress that parents and children feel by giving parents communication and organizational tips that can help parents maintain a loving and calm home. The original post is located here: https://parentingsimply.com/the-best-way-to-keep-your-family-happy/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kevin of Financial Panther assesses daycare costs and why he sends his son to daycare Episode 1278: Looking At Our Daycare Costs And Why We Send Our Son To Daycare by Kevin of Financial Panther Kevin is an attorney, writer, gig economy expert, side hustler, and the blogger behind Financial Panther. He paid off 87,000 worth of student loans in just 2.5 years by choosing not to live like a big shot lawyer. He started Financial Panther to share all he knows about personal finance, travel hacking, and making more money by side hustling. The original post is located here: https://financialpanther.com/looking-at-our-daycare-costs-and-why-we-send-our-son-to-daycare/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ira Israel shares 10 ways to survive your childhood now that you're an adult. Episode 1277: 10 Ways To Survive Your Childhood Now That You're An Adult by Ira Israel on Emotional Connections & Self Growth Since 2011, Ira Israel has been working in private practice as a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC #31) and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #50646), teaching sold-out transformational workshops, producing a series of best-selling mindfulness DVDs, and writing about psychology, philosophy, Buddhism, yoga, film, art, music & literature for the Huffington Post, Good Men Project, Mind Body Green, Thrive Global, Medium and Quora. The original post is located here: https://iraisrael.com/10-ways-survive-childhood-now-youre-adult/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach tells you how to deal with lies in a relationship Episode 1276: How to Deal With Lies in a Relationship by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach Melissa helps clients overcome relationship challenges and create deeply fulfilling lives and relationships. Her specialty is helping clients navigate the unique challenges of dating men who are in the process of divorce or dating men who have been previously married (with or without kids). She’s also a certified dating and relationship coach and specializes in working with women who are struggling to decide whether the relationship that they’re in is right for them, or who are engaged to a divorced dad and are struggling with the pressure of becoming an “instant stepmom.” The original post is located here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/dealing-with-lies/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shana Olmstead helps us find belonging when we feel disconnected Episode 1275: Finding Belonging by Shana Olmstead on Handling Feelings of Separation and Reconnecting Shana Olmstead's passion and life's work is connecting with people and helping them to believe the best about themselves. Her own process of spiritual awakening 15 years ago, and the personal transformation she has had since then has helped her to understand that her true calling in this lifetime is to help awaken the souls of others. She believes everyone is capable of transformation. The original post is located here: https://shanaolmstead.com/2020/03/02/finding-belonging/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alysha Jeney of Modern Love Counseling shares 5 different ways to express yourself if you're not feeling heard Episode 1274: Things to Try if You Don't Feel Heard: 5 Ways to Express Yourself Differently by Alysha Jeney Alysha Jeney is the founder of Modern Love Counseling. She is a MA, LMFT practicing in the Denver area. She focuses on offering counseling services for adult couples, individuals and business partners, and she also has advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), making her ideal clients people that are motivated to make changes in their lives and willing to take brave risks within themselves; ready to take ownership and push comfort zones.  The original post can be found here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/things-to-try-if-you-dont-feel-heard-5-ways-to-express-yourself-differently/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Greg Audino answers a listener's question about whether or not they owe their ex any explanations after breaking up Episode 1273: Q&A - Do I Owe My Ex Any Explanations After Breaking Up - Understanding Identity Changes After Breakups Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Joshua Becker of Becoming Minimalist shares 12 life skills he and his wife want for their children before they leave home Episode 1272: 12 Life Skills We Want For Our Children Before They Leave Home by Joshua Becker of Becoming Minimalist Joshua Becker and his family decided to live with fewer possessions after a conversation with his neighbor in 2008. As a result, they found a better way to live, centered on more important pursuits. Their story has been seen on the CBS Evening News, NPR, the Boston Globe, the Wall Street Journal and countless media interviews around the world. Their books have sold in the tens of thousands. BecomingMinimalist.com is about their journey towards a rational approach to minimalism. It is about the joys and the struggles. It is about the lessons they have learned. It has inspired millions around the world. It is written to inspire you to intentionally live with less, and find more life because of it. The original post is located here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/life-skills/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2207: Dr. Lisa Firestone explores the dual nature of love as both a feeling and an action, emphasizing that true love is demonstrated through behaviors such as expressing affection and care. By focusing on actionable ways to love, we can improve our relationships and become more loving individuals, moving beyond the fantasy of love to real intimacy and connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/making-love-last-by-learning-to-love-2/ Quotes to ponder: "Treating love as an 'entity' or 'idea' often leads to a fantasy of love." "Look at What You Do, Not What You Say." "Breaking your patterns of withholding is an immediate way to become a more loving individual." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Crystal Karges shares a message for mothers who are focused on raising healthy children Episode 1271: To the Mama Who Just Wants to Raise Healthy Kids by Crystal Karges on Finding The Joy In Nourishment Crystal Karges is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and mama of five specializing in intuitive eating for mothers and families. She's passionately committed to helping you and your children enjoy freedom with food as a family. She helps overwhelmed mamas ditch diet culture for good and heal their relationships with food and their bodies so they can confidently raise intuitive eaters and enjoy eating together as a family again. Because when mothers thrive, families flourish. The original post is located here: https://www.crystalkarges.com/blog/to-the-mama-who-just-wants-to-raise-healthy-kids  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Susan Chanderbhan of ChandPsych helps you understand the root of destructive family legacies and self-worth issues Episode 1270: Destructive Family Legacies: Understanding the Root of Self-Worth Issues by Dr. Susan Chanderbhan of ChandPsych Dr. Susan Chanderbhan is a psychologist in Laredo, Texas. She helps individuals and couples who are struggling in different areas of their lives gain the clarity they need to grow and change. Her practice is based largely around using cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which the National Mental Health Institute (NIMH) notes to be proven by research as effective treatment for a variety of mental health issues that individuals often face, like anxiety, stress, depression, PTSD, and trauma.  The original post is located here: https://www.chandpsych.com/blog/destructive-family-legacies-understanding-the-root-of-self-worth-issues/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices