Are you hoping to transform your more traditional or egalitarian partnership into a female-led relationship?  MS. V. talks about the two most common roadblocks along the way and ways for women to find their power and for men to let go of their egos.

Sign up to get an e-mail when Ms. V.'s new couple workshop is about to launch:

https://obedient.love/flr4couples

Media, Education, and Community for a Women-led World:

https://gynachy.io

Ms. V's FREE 3 day FLR course for men:

https://obedient.love

Ms. V's unique mind control and hypnosis program for submissive men:

https://succubustech.app

Ms. V. does not like to date in the ordinary sense.  Instead, she likes to test-drive men.  

https://gynarchy.io

https://violavoltairine.com

A little change of pace from my usual philosophical and instruction podcasts to explain an exciting new project.

https://www.gynarchy.io

In this first in a series of discussions of psychological edgeplay, Ms. V talks about erotic hypnosis, tulpamancy and an army of Bambis and bimbos.  She offers a brief intro to succubus tech.

Cathexis House 24/7 D/s household:  http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. V.'s book 150 Years of Gynarchy:  http://150yearsofgynarchy.com

Free 3-day FLR class:  http://obedient.love

Ms. Viola talks about the benefits of semen retention, orgasm denial, and chastity for 30 days or more.  Happy Locktober!

Follow Ms. V's various projects at: http://violavoltairine.com

Ms. Viola asks women about their reaction to submissive men and dispels some misconceptions about FemDom for women who are new to (or put off by) Dominating men.  Women's feedback is welcome!

Lil Simz, Woman:  https://youtu.be/zHGf6tmnLYE

Kasia Urbaniak:  https://www.youtube.com/c/KasiaUrbaniakYT

Cathexis House - Ms. V's 24/7 D/s household + lessons in FLR for men: http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. V's movie based on the book by Renee Lane: http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm

Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gyanrchy: http://150yearsofgynarchy.com

Ms. V. delves into the dangerous territory of the patriarchy vs. the divine feminine, witchcraft as liberation, and the Living Goddess tradition.

Caliban and the Witch: https://g.co/kgs/7Y6r3d

Can a woman be a Goddess? https://youtu.be/UOhZtpp5L9M

Cathexis House, journals and lessons from Ms. V's  24/7 D/s household:  http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy: https://g.co/kgs/Pf8PmY

Ms. V's upcoming movie, based on the book by Renee Lane:  http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm

Free 3-day video course on Female Led Relationships: http://obedient.love

As Pride month comes to a close, Ms. V. encourages you to follow the example of history and feel bold and proud in being who you are.

Submissive Attraction Flag 

Submissive Attraction (Alternative flag by me)

Submissive attraction is a form of attraction in which one feels the  desire to be taken care and protected of by a certain person(usually a dominant or someone that feels dominant attraction). This may include a strong desire to feel needed by the person as well, and may also include a desire to please the person emotionally. (May also include a desire to be the submissive/not be dominant in the relationship if one is formed)

Can be accompanied with any orientation such as bi-, poly-, pan-, omni-, hetero-, etc…  While not inherently sexual/romantic/sensual/etc, the person experiencing sumbissive attraction MAY or may not desire any form of relationship(romantic/sexual/QP/etc) with the other person(usually dominant)

While this isn’t specified to the kink community and isn’t inherently tied in with it, Kink members of course can be LGBTQ+ or be any identity within the MOGAI+ or whatever community, as being in the kink community doesn’t exclude you from this. So, if you’re a submissive person and you feel this form of attraction as well, awesome!

Color meanings:

Dark red/whatever color that is: Grey-submissive/demi-submissive, asubmissivespec

Red: regular intensity submissive attraction

Bright red: intense submissive attraction

reddish/brown?: Mix of brown and red, showing unity between submissive and dominant.

The brown colors represent the opposite dominant attraction and how they are in a sense dependent on each-other

FREE 3-DAY FLR CLASS at http://obedient.love

Take Ms. V.'s FLR course and follow her 24/7 D/s household at http://cathexishouse.com

By Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy at http://www.smantics.com/VVoltairine/BookInfo.html

Check out the movie Ms. V is working on at http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm

Just the beginnings of some of Ms. V's rambling musings on how we might unthink hierarchy and focus on the nature of generative power.  This one is a bit less practical and more about changing our modes of thinking to facilitate new modes of of structuring consensual power relationships.

FOR MORE:

Follow Ms. Viola's full-time D/s household and take take lessons on how to find and maintain a FLR at http://cathexhishouse.com

Read Ms. Viola's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy at: http://www.smantics.com/VVoltairine/BookInfo.html

Sign up for Ms. Viola's FREE 3-day FLR class at: http://obedient.love

Find out about Ms. V's upcoming movie based on the book Finding Love Through Female Domination, by Renee Lane.  Screenplay by Guinevere Turner:  http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm

Ms. Viola rants a bit about what is and is not real domestic service, and and tells you how to take your service to new levels, beyond being simply a good considerate partner.  

Mentioned 

Marie Kondo:  https://shop.konmari.com/products/the-life-changing-magic-of-tidying-up-1

Do Easy: https://youtu.be/-pjQ0FNzkLQ

150 Years of Gynarchy, by Viola Voltairine:

http://150yearsofgynarchy.com

Follow the day-to-day life at Ms. Viola's 27/7 D/s household Cathexis House, and take lessons on being the best submissive you can be:

http://cathexishouse.com

Learn about the movie Ms. Viola is Producing and Directing, based on the true story Finding Love Through Female Domination by Renee Lane:

http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm

Ms. V goes over the ins and outs of anal play and pegging for men and their partners.

This is a segment taken from Obedient Love FLR classes, found at

http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. Viola discusses the hidden dynamics of attention and energy as they relate to Dominance and submission.  

Learn more:

http://cathexishouse.com

Buy Ms. Viola's new book, 150 Years of Gynarchy:

http://150YearsofGynarchy.com

Consensual Non-Consent is a complicated topic; Ms. V. tells her story and invites you to consider the implications for trauma survivors and how to use it as a tool. 

https://gynarchy.io

https://violavoltairine.com

Ms. Viola talks about how long distance FLRs can be intensely intimate.

http://cathexishouse.com

At the intersection of Female Led Society and Feminism, Natalia Stroika shares her essay My Life in a Female Supremacy where she envisions a world where women rule.  Afterward, she talks a little bit more about the role of imagination and what she might change if she rewrote this today.

Ms. V. mentions the film No Men Beyond This Point:  https://youtu.be/cH2LvXVx7uI

For daily journals about living in a 24/7 D/s household, and lessons in FLR:

http://cathexishouse.com

To see clips from Ms. Viola new film based on Renee Lane's Finding Love Through Female Domination:

http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm

A continuation of our story of slaveC38 as the Doctor preps his body for the initiation ritual.

Transcripts, journals and lessons in FLR at http://cathexishouse.com

We follow slave38 through his initiation into the world of the Company.  And finally, it's Her!

For journals, text, and early uploads: http://cathexishouse.com

Special thanks to Ms. Viola's Trainees and Devotees:

Brett

Phoenix

Wingnut

Jeffbezos

Felix

Hurtle

Soyokaze

rotwang1971

Bruce

Jack

Jason

Justin

Christopher

Nvrmore

and all of the Voyeurs of Cathexis House!

Symbiosis - Ms. Viola discusses what types are there and how that relates relate to D/s and FemDom in particular, and the evolution of the human race in general.

Learn more at http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. Viola talks about the many aspects of long term chastity.

Custom devices:

https://www.maturemetal.com/

https://www.evotionwearables.com/

Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika:

https://www.lulu.com/en/us/shop/msrika-/uniquely-us/ebook/product-1v96ge7v.html

Part two of the story of The Company.  An application to sign your soul away... and a key...

http://cathexishouse.com

Learn how to find and attract Dominant Women by taking the free 3-day video course: http://obedient.love

The Company, Part 1: The story of a man draw into something that he may live to regret...

http://cathexishouse.com

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A quick first in what will likely become a series on Reality vs. Fantasy in a female led D/s lifestyle. Ms. V.  transgresses the taboo topic of raising a child in a real FemDom household, and the unrealistic fantasies about a gynarchic world.  Let's begin living the fantasy, and fantasizing about the world we want to live in.

Follow the daily life Ms. Viola's full-time D/s household at http://cathexishouse.com

Learn how to find and attract Dominant Women by taking the free 3-day video course: http://obedient.love

Ms. Viola reads a passage from Finding Love Through Female Domination, Chapter 6, Humiliation.  In it we get an idea of how Renee thinks and how devoted she has become to the life project of bringing Butler into a state of total surrender.  In her writing we get a sense of her persnality, and also how her lover Heather comes into play.

To learn more about the book and the upcoming movie:  http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm/

To contribute to the making of the first scene:  https://gogetfunding.com/finding-love/

To learn more about full time D/s household, Cathexis House, or to become a student:  https://www.patreon.com/cathexishouse

How do I reconcile the dichotomy within me, between wanting an ethical world and enjoying the perverse play of power and degradation?  

http://gynarchy.io

This one is an experiment. Will you allow Ms. Viola to manipulate your unconscious mind? Do you give your consent?

http://cathexishouse.com

FOR MORE:

http://www.kruufm.com/node/6863/Listen+Live.m3u

https://www.google.com/books/edition/Dhalgren/o-5cAgAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&printsec=frontcover

https://vnsmatrix.net/projects/the-cyberfeminist-manifesto-for-the-21st-century

https://www.utne.com/economy/artificial-scarcity-zm0z15uzsau?fbclid=IwAR1pJ6pE1X3H83QuIdBvkMKZs9zM4eGrLKQQnkuUs0j-6uIr2kCwJSM8vRw

This podcast is for couples already in a D/s relationship or for those who want to better understand how to navigate one once they are in it.  Ms. Viola talks about the framework of long term full-time D/s, and the communications styles and techniques that make them work! 

Books mentioned:

Uniquely Rika and Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika

https://www.lulu.com/en/us/shop/msrika-/uniquely-rika/ebook/product-18nnnpwz.html

https://www.lulu.com/en/us/shop/msrika/uniquely-us/ebook/product-23271408.html

Surrender, Submit, Serve Her by Key Barrett

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/33792794-surrender-submit-serve-her

and 

Owning and Training a Male Slave by Ingrid Bellemare

https://www.pdfdrive.com/owning-and-training-a-male-slave-ingrid-bellemare-e27457283.html

More about Ms. Viola's Cathexis House: cathexishouse.com

A midnight full moon special... Ms. Viola muses on Bewitchment and reads an excerpt from Apocalyptic Witchcraft.  Surrender at the altar of the dark goddess...

Part 2 of Ms. Viola's talk on service.  How can a submissive man serve outside of the home, both in his everyday interactions and within the systems of power surrounding us?

And if you want to follow Ms. Viola's day to day journals about her Female Led Household, go to: http://cathexishouse.com

Mentioned: 

https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/609114/the-seven-necessary-sins-for-women-and-girls-by-mona-eltahawy/

https://www.versobooks.com/books/2924-feminism-for-the-99

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2018/jun/22/the-age-of-patriarchy-how-an-unfashionable-idea-became-a-rallying-cry-for-feminism-today

Service:  Ms. Viola talks about the philosophy of service and the three realms of service, and then discusses service in the home.  She also shares a new poem!

Get early access to podcasts at cathexishouse.com

Ms. Viola discusses consent, why we do what we do, Bob Flanagan the Supermasochist, trauma and the meaning of agency... 

http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. Viola's final public hypnopost.  How deep do you want to go?  How do you release the final blocks in the way of your surrender? 

Back to the regular content next time...

http://cathexishouse.com

Hypnopost #1... priming the mind...  

Ms. Viola has something to get off her chest.  She vents about entitled dicks and talks about catnip.  What's the take home lesson here? And what is coming next time? http://lovethroughfemaledomination.com

Who are you?  Are you the perfect slave?  And what's it like at Cathexis House? http://violavoltairine.com

http://www.cathexishouse.com

http://obedient.love

You can feel it, can't you?  The result of a long history of struggle and progress leading to the inevitable end to male dominance.  How did we get here, and where are we going?  And why is this an exciting time for submissive men and Dominant Women?

https://pillarsofgynarchy.com

https://gynarchy.io

https://gynarchyshops.com

Ms. Viola talks about the progress of her vision, as well as setting expectations for slaves and about real sacrifice and surrender.

Watch the Noami McDougall Jones's docu-series where she interview Ms. Viola at Cathexis House: https://youtu.be/_QoO8sIY46o

In this episode Ms. Viola talks about taking on the role of protector for subs (even at the peril of receiving a number of angry threats), and reads from a book called Finding Love Through Female Domination.  http://obedient.love

Ms. Viola talks about a world where female pleasure is centered, tells you a little fantasy of hers, and interviews two submissive men about serving the needs and desires of dominant women. http://obedient.love

Talk of sex toys, sex ed and another erotic story!

http://obedient.love

http://violavoltairine.com

Ms. Viola Voltairine talks about the perception of Dominant Women, and then reads one of her erotic stories!  Enjoy!  

A few of the men in my community made one of my big wishes for this summer come true. As promised, that means I'm bringing back the Obedient Love podcast! Welcome to Obedient Love 37, where I tell you about a place where women are safe and pampered, and men can serve them 24/7. Manifest our collective dream! Join me!

https://thepillarsofgynarchy.com

https://gynarchy.io

https://gynarchyshops.com

Ms. V. discusses the definition of power and how it plays out in different ways in relationships and in our everyday lives.

gynarchy.io

FREE FLR LESSONS: obedient.love

Ever wondered if the Company was real.  It is.  And here's your limited opportunity to serve us.

gynarchy.io

Ms. V's methods of erotic hypnosis and mind control for psychological edge play.

gynarchy.io

Ms. V asks: What if you are a submissive in a vanilla marriage?  What are your options? What are some roadmaps to make it work?

gynarchy.io

Ms. V. explains her overall vision and all that she is working toward to create an alternative to the patriarchy.  An introduction to the Devi Dasa Sacred Gynarchy, and he new church. https://devidasa.org

https://gynarchy.io

Ms. V. introduces her dasa, Max, who has had placed his sexuality under her control for six months.  He talks about the intense journey of edging and cultivating erotic energy.  This is a firsthand account of long-term semen retention, surrendering control fully to a Goddess.  

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Train with Ms. V. at https://obedient.love/

If you are not a simp, you are a chimp or a pimp.  What kind of male are you?  Ms. V. talks about why she loves simps.

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Ms. V. discusses the book The Gate to Women's Country by Sherri S. Tepper, published in 1988.  Tepper solves the "man problem" in imagining matriarchy.

Sponsored by https://goodboygogo.com

Ms. V reads the code of conduct expected from those who live as her personal servants, a.k.a, dasas. Included in her new book The Dasa's Guide to Sacred Gynarchy: How to Serve a Living Goddess. https://devidasa.org

https://gynarchy.io