In our first episode we wanted to tell April's story from her less than ideal upbringing, her rebellious early twenties, a tumultous marriage, the subsequent finding of religion and working for the church, her affair and how finally, in her mid-forties she is finding herself and her true calling through fitness and consensual non-monogamy. 

Listen in as April interviews Scott to really dig deep into his journey from ultra conservative small town Alabama, having a daughter at 17, loving then leaving religion, and now proudly out as a bisexual man in an open relationship while still living in that same small town... and everyone there knows all about him.

Scott discusses his previous 3 failed marriages, having an affair that cost him everything but gained him the world, losing his extended family over his lifestyle choices, rejoicing that his immediate family still loves and supports him, his decade long internal battle leaving religion, and how through the chaos of his public adultery and being outed as a swinger, he's finally found purpose and fulfillment while living life with the woman of his dreams.

April and Scott interview Roderick Stevens about his upcoming documentary, "Open, A Journey Through Love." We talk about why Roderick is the right filmaker for the job, how this look into consensual non-monogamy will tell the story the way it needs to be told, and the process required to get it produced released to the public!

In the first half of the episode we give an overview of a what a typical day at Hedonism II Resort is like. We break down the general daily itinerary, how groups impact the dynamic on the resort, available activities, theme nights, pool parties, etc. 

The last half of the episode is spent talking about our full takeover of the resort in January of 2024 and how we think this is the perfect experience for someone just dipping their toes into the waters of consensual non-monogamy. 

Mentioned in this episode: 
Swing Nation

Average Swingers 

In the first half of this episode, April interviews Scott about his bisexuality and the double standard we sometimes see in the world of Consensual Non-Monogamy toward bisexual men. They further discuss some struggles Scott has faced in coming out in the South and how at 51 years old he’s beginning to embrace his sexuality with pride and intellectual aggression.

In the second half they talk about their first foray in the the world of gay circuit parties, what happened with Scott at the party and how April kissed a gay man that thought she was trans. Then they describe exactly what happened at the end of the circuit party as Scott took someone back the hotel while April and 2 friends lay in the bed next to them and watched the night unfold. 

In this episode we discuss the difficulties of making connections with other couples, how to handle imbalances in yours or the other couple's flirt game, and how, most importantly, not to lose to a piece of meat. 

We've invited our friends and fitness trainers Cara and Matt on the show to discuss how these things can sometimes go wrong, why it isn't always easy and how to deal with your emotions when you're feeling triggered. 

If you are newer to consensual non-monogamy you'll likely find a lot of takeaways in this episode!

In this 1st of a 2 part series, we recap the big picture overview of our inaugural new event, Be Better At Being Bad, a complete takeover of the Hedonsim II Resort. 

This episode focuses on each days events and what we found most interesting throughout the week. 

In the next episode we will discuss the week's events through a more personal lense.  

We continue our discussion about our takeover week at Hedonism, Be Better At Being Bad Week. 

This episode we talk exclusively about the most personal and impactful stuff that happened to us while we were there. 

In the previous episode we spent the whole time discussing the big overview of everything that happened from a top down viewpoint of BBBB. This time we talk from the heart about the things that hit us the hardest. 

It's the time of year where we start to see those New Year's resolutions failing. This episode is our 5 best tips to try and keep those resolutions on track and keep you marching toward those goals for 2024! 

We talk fitness, nutrition, sleep, and lifestyle changes. 

There's something in this episode for everyone!

Nutrition Scientist (and philosopher according to April), Martin MacDonald, joins the Naughty Gym Show to discuss the intersection of nutrition, fitness, sex, and the occassional foray into religion. 

Scott and Martin low key form a bromance and April gets mad when Martin comes to Scott's defense about Diet Dr. Pepper. 

This was such a fun episode and it lasts about 90 minutes. But we talked for 2 hours and had to edit some great stuff out. Enjoy! 

If you are sex positive and need help with your fitness or nutrition, visit our website and consider joining our growing community at: https://www.naughtygym.com

Find our guest Martin MacDonald here: 

https://www.martin-macdonald.com/

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We sit down with Casual Swingers Podcast creators, Mickey and Mallory, while we are together in Nashville, to discuss our ideal play partners. Each of us answers a series of questions, very candidly, about what characteristics our perfect play partner would have. 

We tackle age, weight, height, hair, grooming, occupation, religious and political leanings, play styles, play scenarios, relationship status, and sexuality. Mix these insightful and raw answers with a lot of laughter and a few surprises and it makes for a great conversation between friends. 

As a bonus at the end, we all reveal 1 unfulfilled fantasy that we each have. In some cases this comes as a surprise to our partners! 

We interview Victoria and her husband Ryan about their new venture, Birds Of A Feather Matchmaking. This is the industries 1st matchmaking service (as far as we know) for people in various forms of open relationships. 

Is this for you?

Do you need help making connections? Are you too busy to scroll through dating apps and want to outsource this part of your love life? Or how about some coaching on how to setup your profile? Or how about having a date with someone who evaluates your interpersonal skills? Birds of a Feather solves these problems for you. 

It is incredibly interesting learning about the incredible amount of detailed work that goes into this process. And if you have the cash, this may be just the thing you've been looking for. April and I both think this service will be incredibly beneficial for many people. 

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Listen in as April and Scott discuss their long-awaited, first separate dates. It took almost 4 months to get dates setup. How did it go? Did either of us get hurt, or jealous, or... were they great?

We dig into the details of what went well and what might could have been better. We talk in great depth about the people we chose to have these dates with and how we feel about them now that the dates are over.

At the very end we talk about the one thing that Scott did while on his date that really bothered April. Did Scott break a rule? Or was this something April never anticipated but within the boundaries they each agreed to?

Here all about how April got butterflies for the first time in consensual non-monogamous journey and how Scott got him and his date kicked out of a restaurant bathroom by security.

And finally, will we be separate dating again, with who, and under what circumstances?

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We talk with Coach Cara about the ins and outs of the illusive unicorn. When a couple decides to open up their relationship one of the most common initial fantasies is to bring in a 3rd female... often called a unicorn. In this podcast, three experienced consensual non-monogamists discuss the realities and difficulties of making this happen and how to handle it if it does. 

Here's the questions we tackle... 

What is a unicorn?

How hard is it to find a unicorn?

How do you attract a unicorn?

How should men treat a unicorn?

How should women treat a unicorn?

How should a unicorn respond to couples?

How to take care of a unicorn after play. 

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We interview journalist, sex coach, and CrossFit coach, Gabrielle Kassel. She has written extensively for major publications about sex, fitness, and the intersection of the two.

We cover topics like her career, whether she's faced backlash for her personal life, non-monogamy, trans athletes, and more.

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This episode was going to be April flying solo but she quickly calls Scott in when the wheels fall off. We discuss a few things that have been swirling around in that beautiful brain of hers. Everything from starting a non-monogamous commune to getting led to Jesus on the pickleball courts.

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ED Meds & STI Testing

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In episode 24 we try to break down the issue of expectations in consensual non-monogamy.

It is all too common for one partner to have different (or no) expectations about events or non-monogamous life in general. These differences can too often be the source of bumps along the journey into more sexually open relationships.

We attempt to define expectations, explain why the are usually not a benefit, how they can derail happiness at events, and how to reimagine how you think and mentally prepare for events in the lifestyle.

And finally we offer our advice and how we think you can decrease your chances at leaving an event disappointed by learning shift your focus away from sex and more toward developing connections.

Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025

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El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12

https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Boys Next Door Menswear (Atlanta)

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Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN

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ED Meds & STI Testing

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In this episode we tackle the difficult topic of saying "No" when someone propositions you with play when you aren't interested.

It is always tough to hurt someone's feelings but it is unavoidable in consensual non-monogamy. Learning to be direct while simultaneously being polite is difficult but doable.

In this episode we discuss when to say "no," how to say "no," and how to receive a "no." Most importantly we give you advice on how to craft a single response you can automatically use in any situation to say "no" while minimizing the chances of hurting feelings.

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El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmy

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Famed UK clinical nutrition scientist, philosopher, and April's apparent new boyfriend, Martin MacDonald is back on the show. This time we are going into detail about his evidence based Aggressive Diet Program to talk about how he is using science to prove you can lose a LOT of fat in a relatively short period of time.

In the process of nerding out about nutrition we get sidetracked several times by descriptions of our private WhatsApp conversations with Martin and his girlfriend Alex and some of their hilarious stories about his jealousy kink.

If you have an upcoming Lifestyle event and need to lean out in the safest, fastest way possible, your going to love this episode. It's long but absolutely worth it.

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Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Mixology, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5

Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmy

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After exploring the possibility of separate dating for about a year, one of us finally gets to do it. April went on her date and we recap it live on the podcast only 10 hours after the date was over. Somehow we managed not to discuss it until we turned on the mics and started talking the next morning. You'll get to hear us process the whole thing in real time.

Additionally we made separate small audio clips each day over the last week leading up to the date. Neither of us knew what the other was saying or how we were feeling. And ultimately, we get into an argument.

Listen in as we explain the process, the argument, and recap all the dirty details of an incredibly interesting first foray into the world of separate dating!

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El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

MIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5

Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmy

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In this episode we interview 4 of the most important members of Hedonism II Resort's management team to get the inside scoop and ask questions about the day to day logistics of running the world's most iconic adult playground.

We interview:

Diane Lange, Executive Director

Winston Barkley, Entertainment Director

Tatiana Answer, Director of Sales and Marketing

Diana Field, Groups Manager

If you are considering a trip to Hedo but have never been, this is an opportunity to hear directly from the people who make this place so special. If you've been to Hedo many times before hopefully you'll really enjoy hearing from management when they are "off the clock."

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Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

MIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5

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In Episode 27 we reviewed April's first separate date with a man who wants to be her submissive. The first date was dinner and drinks mostly for April to learn more about his submissive kink and what he hopes to get out of their relationship. In this episode, Luna Matatas, femdom extraordinaire, gives April an on-air lesson in how to prepare for her upcoming 1st big femdom session with her new boy toy.

If you know April at all it may come as no surprise that she seems to be taking to this potential role with enthusiasm and throughout this episode sounds like she's going to be a natural. Listen in as Luna gives advice that is likely educational for anyone curious about the kink of power exchange.

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MIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5

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In Episode 30 we talk with Ashley Manta about how we can know whether or not we are good in bed. We all (well, mostly guys) think we are good in bed. But how do you really know? Can we be living under the illusion that we are good when in reality we ain't that great? Are there signs we can look for? Are women often faking it? Are guys typically over confident? Is it a turn off when guys brag about there supposed oral skills... or any of their skills? Is it all about physical skills or is there more important things we should be focused on? How do we get better?

We answer all of these questions on this episode with Ashley Manta, the Cannasexual!

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El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

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We interview Ashley Manta, aka. the "Cannasexual", recognized expert on the intersection of cannabis and sex. We discuss all things cannabis-related along with brief discussions about other prevalent psychedelics sometimes seen at events and parties.

Ashley gives us tips on how to avoid common mistakes when using cannabis along with the best ways to ensure it is a benefit to your sex life. She also answers some pretty dumb questions from Scott. 

Ashley will be speakng at our Hedonism II Resort takeover, January 6-13th, 2024 in Negril, Jamaica.

We interview CrossFit Kate Gordon and her new fiancee, Greg. They are the hosts of the Gone Rogue Podcast. Kate is a highly respected CrossFit Coach and a member of the CrossFit seminar staff responsible for trainer others to become CrossFit coaches. She owns an online fitness programming business and a nutrition coaching company. She has competed at the CrossFit Games twice and is an incredible athlete.

Her and Greg are in a publicly open relationship and will be attending our event, Be Better At Being Bad, at Hedonism II Resort, January 6-13th. Kate will be one of the keynote speakers.

Throughout this episode we discuss the difficulties Kate has faced trying to integrate discussions of sex onto her social media platforms. We also dive deep into all of our ongoing triumphs and struggles with consensual non-monogamy, separate dating, and body image issues.

Kate's Links:

1. Website: https://www.cfkate.com/
2. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cfkate/
3. Twitter: https://twitter.com/cfkate1
4. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cfkate1
5. Gone Rogue Podcast (on Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/2kDG1q0OZRDtyJILvlR9em
6. Kate's stadium shattering lift at the Torian Pro Semifinal https://open.spotify.com/show/2kDG1q0OZRDtyJILvlR9em

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This is the 1st episode in a 10 part series "So You Want To Be A Swinger?"

This series is designed for anyone curious about opening their relationship and exploring some form of consensual or ethical non-monogamy. We interview experts from around the world to gather all the information we think you will need and/or find helpful when considering venturing into this changing landscape of sexuality.

In this episode we interview Mickey and Mallory, creators of the successful podcast "Casual Swinger." We discuss the "Lifestyle" (the preferred modern day term for swinging), what it means, how it has changed, and where it it heading.

Here's the other episodes in this 10 part series:

Episode 2: https://youtu.be/fu0uyT89G_E

Episode 3a: https://youtu.be/WD3sjuO9pz0

Episode 3b: https://youtu.be/X3GpT_VTba4

MORE INFO ABOUT NAUGHTY GYM...

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Our upcoming resort takeover at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica:

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MORE INFO ABOUT CASUAL SWINGERS...

Website:

https://casualswinger.com/

Or listen to their podcast, Casual Swingers, here:

https://casualswinger.com/podcast/

Or visit their online adult toy store here:

https://www.casualtoys.com/

Coach April interviews Cara, a fitness professional and specialist on pelvic floor health and specifically how it can affect your sex life. They discuss important topics like incontinence, efficiency of orgasms, men's and women's different pelvic problems, ways to correct these issues and, for some reason, butt slut stuff. 😄

Most people don't know that these frequent pelvic floor issues can often be minimized or even completely corrected. This is an extremely informative episode that could help a lot of people. 

[There is some mild audio distortion throughout the episode but it is barely noticeable and doesn't affect the discussion at all.]

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https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad

In episode 8 we interview one of the top sex educators in the country, Luna Matatas. Luna takes a playful approach to sex, kink, bdsm, and life. And as you'll hear in this show, when she talks it is hard not to smile.

Listen as we discuss how BDSM works in a relationship, why body positivity is so important and how to cultivate more of it, and some of the incredible things she has planned as a keynote speaker at our event, Be Better At Being Bad Week, at Hedonism Resort in January, 2024.

Luna's Links:

1. Website: https://lunamatatas.com/
2. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lunamatatas
3. Twitter: https://twitter.com/lunamatatas
4. YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/lunamatatas
5. Buy Her Merchandise: https://lunamatatas.com/en-us/collections/all

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In this episode April and Scott discuss what qualifies as flirting, their evolving boundaries, and the research on improving your flirt game.

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1. Website: https://www.naughtygym.com/
2. 2. Be Better At Being Bad, takeover of Hedonism Resort: https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad
3. 3. Twitter: https://twitter.com/NaughtyGym
4. 4. Instagram: https://instagram.com/naughty_gym?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
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Our 10th podcast episode is the 2nd in a 10 part series "So You Want To Be A Swinger?"

This series is designed for anyone curious about opening their relationship and exploring some form of consensual or ethical non-monogamy. We interview experts from around the world to gather all the information we think you will need and/or find helpful when considering venturing into this changing landscape of sexuality.

In this episode we interview Kate and Liam, creators of The Monogamish Marriage blog and podcast. We discuss how to initiate a discussion with your partner about opening your relationship, how to set boundaries you both are comfortable with, and reimagining those boundaries as you evolve as a couple.

So You Want To Be A Swinger Series...

Part 1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-naughty-gym-show/id1701360007?i=1000627592601

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https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad

MORE INFO ABOUT THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE...

Listen to their podcast here:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-monogamish-marriage/id1586549659

Or find out more about their Sapio Tours here:

https://sapiotours.com/

Do you experience religious shame or guilt because you choose to live a consensually non-monogamous lifestyle? Are you trying to find a way to reconcile these 2 different aspects of your personhood?

In this episode we talk with Mitch & Cyndee, experts on the reconciliation of religion and non-monogamy. They give some phenomenal advice on carving a path forward that allows you to live this beautiful non-monogamous lifestyle while still being true to your religious faith.

They also refer us to some great books that can help you navigate this issue:

1. Sex, God, and the Conservative Church, by Tina Shermer Sellers
2. Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex), by Nadia Bolz-Weber
3. The Wisdom of Your Body: Finding Healing, Wholeness, & Connection through Embodied Living, by Hillary L. McBride

They further recommended an online course called "The Bible and Swinging" written specifically to address this issue.

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In this episode we talk with OUT Foundation Vice President Paul Raker about their mission in the LGBTQ+ community and their partnership with Naughty Gym to create a fundraising effort called PrideFlex.

We discuss a range of fitness issues within the LGBTQ+ community, the shared struggles with non-monogamy, and how PrideFlex can help.

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Are feelings something you should avoid at all costs when swinging?

Are we all just a bunch of cyborgs having fun with our emotions turned off?

What happens if your partner says they are developing feelings for someone?

Even worse, what if they fall in love? How bad can it be?

How do we handle it if it happens?

We discuss all of these topics in this episode of The Naughty Gym Show.

Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!

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In this episode we bring in special guests, The Flirty Swingers, to discuss the idea of equality in non-monogamous relationships.

We tackle questions like...

1. Is equality a reasonable goal in non-monogamy?
2. Should each partner be willing to work toward accepting and bringing to fruition the desires and fantasies of their partner?
3. Is it okay to dig in your heels and tell your partner "no" to certain scenarios?
4. If you are allowed to do a thing, is it only fair that you allow your partner to do that same thing?
5. Are certain imbalances inherent in all relationships?
6. How to safely work on these imbalances?
7. Is it ever wise to be unwilling to work toward gifting your partner their unfulfilled fantasies?

We tackle these questions, hopefully present good advice, and have a lot of laughs in the process.

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theflirtyswingers/
• YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theflirtyswingers-jl4qw?si=-5bMptMZpFI2kXVj
• Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7wC8YETbcsyxp7bg5B0B5n

Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!

Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

We talk about all things Orgies with Dan & Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast. We work through the pros and cons, mindset approaches, how to avoid potential issues. The 4 of us live very close to each other but don’t get to visit very often so we take full advantage of the opportunity to have a fun conversation. 

Listen in as we discuss serious topics like how women can best use their voice when considering an orgy. Then laugh as Scott says he needs a reason to have sex with someone while Dan explains he needs a reason not to. 

Find out everything you want to know about SWING NATION…

https://theswingnation.info

Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025- https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

This episode covers everything you've ever wanted to know about Naughty Gym, including...

• How Naughty Gym started
• Why we started it
• Why we don't post butthole pics :)
• The 3 primary parts of Naughty Gym, fitness membership, events, and the podcast, and why we created each.
• The future of Naughty Gym and mine and April's passion projects
• The big tease of upcoming new Lifestyle resorts in America that will raise the bar on stateside resorts.

USA Today article about Naughty Gym: https://tinyurl.com/58v7r2nt

Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [2 rooms left] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

In this episode Scott surprises April with a gift he's been emotionally working towards for months and months. It's his theory, called Wild Love Theory, and he's implementing it with April despite his fears and insecurities and her hesitancy in actually using the gift.

Wild Love Theory is Scott's keynote address at 2025's Be Better At Being Bad event at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. The theory states that "Maximal relational happiness requires maximal relational freedom."

Scott discusses the basics of the new theory without going too deep into the details (which will be released in full on January 10th). But the resulting summary is this... April no longer has any imposed relationship boundaries from Scott. She can flirt, connect, message, date, play, or love whomever she chooses, whenever she chooses, and to whatever degree of frequency she desires.

Listen in on this discussion and let us know what you think!

Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [2 rooms left] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

In our last episode of the year we cover our favorite personal, professional, and relational moments of 2024. Then we go in depth about our goals (April hates the word resolution) for 2025. It is a great way to end the old year and look forward to the new.

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Upcoming Events:

Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

Did you miss BBBB week at Hedonism II? Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered! In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re bringing you the full recording of April’s keynote speech, Unmask Your Inner Badass: Crushing Imposter Syndrome, Owning Your Goals & Being Unapologetically You.

This speech was recorded live inside the famous Piano Bar!

April’s dives into breaking free from self-doubt, owning your unique power, and embracing the confident, unstoppable version of yourself. Whether you were in the audience or couldn’t make it this year, now’s your chance to experience the energy, inspiration, and insights from this unforgettable event.

If you'd like to schedule a free 15 min consult Zoom with us to discuss our 1 on 1 coaching program, click the following link...

https://calendly.com/naughtygym/free-1-on-1-coaching-consult?month=2025-01

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Upcoming Events:

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

This episode is our full recap of Be Better At Being Bad, our full resort takeover of Hedonism II Resort, in Negril Jamaica. It took place Jan 4-11th, 2025. We cover some of things that really stood out to us, the progress we've continued to make in our lifestyle journey and the ways we both pushed past some of our comfort zones.

This event takes nearly a year of planning, a BBBB team of 30 volunteers and speakers, and the help of the entire staff of Hedonism Resort.

If you'd like to schedule a free 15 min consult Zoom with us to discuss our 1 on 1 coaching program, click the following link...

https://calendly.com/naughtygym/free-1-on-1-coaching-consult?month=2025-01

👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com to join our community! 👈🏼

Upcoming Events:

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

This episode is a video of Coach Scott's LIVE Keynote address, including the Q&A session, at BBBB 2025 at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica. The keynote is followed up with April and Scott discussing more details of Wild Love Theory, it's implications, and the difficulties of implementation. 

Wild Love Theory can work with monogamous as well as non-monogamous relationships, hierarchical or non-hierarchical.

👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com to join our community! 👈🏼

If you'd like to schedule a free 15 min consult Zoom with us to discuss our 1 on 1 coaching program, click the following link...

https://calendly.com/naughtygym/free-1-on-1-coaching-consult?month=2025-01

Upcoming Events:

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

We interview the creators of the Hacking Love podcast, Anna & Aiden. They have a tremendous podcast focused on deepening commitment through open relationships. Anna is also an expert coach in sexual and hormonal health and can be reached for coaching services at annaaiden@gmx.com.

In this episode we discuss all the various ways our lifestyle choices, nutrition, and hormone imbalances can negatively impact our consensual non-monogamy journey and why it is so important to recognize how bad most primary care doctors are at handling these issues.

Through this episode you will undoubtedly come away with some nuggets of wisdom that will help make you healthier, look better in a swimsuit, and be better in bed! If you are struggling to get your hormones balanced and are concerned that your doctor isn't answering all your questions or providing you the service you need, Anna's health coaching services could be your answer. Reach out to her at annaaiden@gmx.com

👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com to join our community! 👈🏼

If you'd like to schedule a free 15 min consult Zoom with us to discuss our 1 on 1 coaching program, click the following: link...https://calendly.com/naughtygym/free-1-on-1-coaching-consult?month=2025-01

Upcoming Events:

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

Watch for more information coming soon about our Men's & Women's retreats!

DTF, otherwise know as "Down To F^@%," is an acronym that some use disparagingly and others wear as a badge of honor. But what does it mean to be DTF? And why do people label others as DTF much more often than anyone adopts it for themselves?

Do we all define DTF the same? Or differently? Listen in on this episode as we try to get some clarity on what it means to be DTF.

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If you'd like to schedule a free 15 min consult Zoom with us to discuss our 1 on 1 coaching program, click the following: link...https://calendly.com/naughtygym/free-1-on-1-coaching-consult?month=2025-01

Upcoming Events:

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

Wild & Wise Women's Retreat- Nov 13-16th, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/Wild-Wise

Mancation Mountain Men's Retreat- Nov 13-16th, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/mancation-mountain

This episode is unlike any we’ve ever recorded.

For the first time, April opens up about some of the deepest wounds from her past—stories she’s rarely shared in public. Like so many women, she endured sexual abuse as a young girl, a trauma that shaped her journey but never defined her. Through years of personal work, she’s fought to reclaim her power, her body, and her voice—emerging as the strong, fearless woman she is today.

But healing is a process, not a destination.

For the past 10 years, we’ve navigated non-monogamy together, dismantling the belief systems we inherited and embracing the expansive, limitless potential of love. We’ve taken our time, been intentional, and built something beautiful.

And yet—April recently discovered an entirely new level of healing through Wild Love Theory.

In this episode, she shares how embracing Wild Love Theory has allowed her to shed some of the final remnants of the pain that trauma left behind. It’s a raw, emotional, and deeply personal conversation about breaking free, finding strength, and learning to love without fear.

This wasn’t an easy episode to record. Vulnerability is scary. But April holds nothing back, offering her story to anyone who has ever struggled with past wounds, control, or fear in their relationships.

If you’ve ever felt trapped by the past, if you’ve ever questioned the limits imposed on love, or if you simply want to hear a story of true resilience and transformation, this episode is for you.

💜 Listen now. This one will stay with you. 💜

We spent 30 days at Hedonism Resort coaching fitness classes and playing host for close to 2000 people over that period. This episode is an overview of the whole month, what we learned about ourselves, and some tips we picked up that may help you better enjoy a vacation at this iconic adult playground.

Upcoming Events:

El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

Wild & Wise Women's Retreat- Nov 13-16th, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/Wild-Wise

Mancation Mountain Men's Retreat- Nov 13-16th, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/mancation-mountain

Be Better At Being Bad III - Jan 3-10th, 2025 https://hedonism.com/bbbb

In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re giving you the full, unfiltered recap of our unforgettable retreat in El Salvador! 🌋🌴

From volcano hikes and hidden waterfalls to epic parties and intimate connection circles, this retreat had it all—including a surprise plot twist: a stomach bug that made its way through most of the group. 😅

But even that couldn’t kill the vibe.

We’re sharing:

 • What made this event one of our most powerful yet

 • How the community came together in the face of discomfort

 • Why deep connection was the true focus of the retreat 💞

 • And of course, the legendary Naughty Gym moments you’ve come to expect 🍸🔥

This one had it all—adventure, laughter, vulnerability, and a whole lot of love.

If you missed it, get the inside scoop. If you were there, come relive the magic (and the madness) with us.

👉 Subscribe, leave a review, and tag us if you’re listening!

Upcoming Events:

Smoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [2 spots remaining] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

Wild & Wise Women's Retreat- Nov 13-16th, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/Wild-Wise

Mancation Mountain Men's Retreat- Nov 13-16th, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/mancation-mountain

Be Better At Being Bad III - Jan 3-10th, 2025: https://hedonism.com/bbbb

#NaughtyGym #LifestyleRetreat #ElSalvador #ConnectionFirst #SwingerPodcast #FitnessAndFreedom #VolcanoVibes #TummyTroubleAndTanlines

In this powerful and deeply honest episode, we sit down with sex educator, writer, and CannaSexual® Ashley Manta for a raw conversation about body image, weight stigma, and what it really means to be seen.

Ashley opens up about her personal journey with GLP-1 medication, navigating public perception, and the grief that comes with being treated better only when you're smaller. We also explore how body autonomy, desire, and visibility intersect—and what happens when the world treats your worth like it’s conditional.

We also talk:

• The emotional whiplash of weight-based validation
• Why “being healthier” isn’t always the full story
• Toxic masculinity, sexual empowerment, and reclaiming space
• How to make peace with your body in a world that profits off your shame

If you’ve ever felt unseen, dismissed, or punished for existing in your body—this episode is for you.

📲 Follow Ashley Manta

Website: ashleymanta.com

Instagram: @cannasexual

Online Courses: https://www.elevatedintimacy.com/

Blog: ashleymanta.substack.com

💬 Want to keep the convo going?

Join our members-only discussion in The After Chat inside our Naughty Gym Lounge at www.naughtygym.com to share your thoughts, ask questions, or suggest future topics.

If you have topics you would like to hear us talk about or someone you would like us to interview, shoot us a message at naughtygymonline@gmail.com.

And remember, to Never Stop Playing!

In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to be openly bisexual in swinger and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) spaces, and why it’s time to break the stigma, especially around male bisexuality. 

As a bisexual married couple, we’re often assumed to be straight. But bisexuality doesn’t disappear just because you’re in a “hetero-presenting” relationship. We’re sharing our personal experiences, the double standards we’ve faced, and how we’ve learned to show up more unapologetically in the lifestyle. 

We’ll also explore: 

• Why male bisexuality is still taboo in many swinger spaces 

• How female bisexuality often gets fetishized instead of validated 

• How to start exploring your own bisexuality, whether you’re male, female, partnered, or solo 

• What real allyship looks like in non-monogamous communities 

Whether you’re bi, questioning, or just want to be a better ally, this episode is for you. 🏳️‍🌈 

You deserve to be seen. Your identity is valid. And there’s space for you here. 

If you want to continue the conversation with us, join in the NG Lounge for the “Off The Record” chat in the our Naughty Gym community at www.naughtygym.com 

If you have topics you would like to hear us talk about or someone you would like us to interview, shoot us a message at naughtygymonline@gmail.com. 

And remember, to Never Stop Playing!

In this powerful Pride Month episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we sit down with advocate and fitness coach Cara Turnquist to tackle one of the fitness industry’s lingering blind spots: true inclusivity for LGBTQ+ individuals.

👉 Why do so many gyms remain unwelcoming—even if they don’t explicitly exclude?

👉 What are the invisible barriers LGBTQ+ folks face just walking into a fitness space?

👉 And why do those of us with privilege have a moral responsibility to fight for change?

Cara shares the origin of her groundbreaking Lift Up program (a safe, empowering gym experience for LGBTQ+ members), personal stories of navigating fatphobia and exclusion, and why representation, small language shifts, and fearless advocacy matter more than ever.

We also unpack:

✅ How gym owners & fitness professionals can make spaces truly inclusive

✅ Why locker rooms and bathrooms are still battlegrounds

✅ How allies can stop sitting quietly on the sidelines

✅ The myth of “neutrality” in today’s climate

✅ Actionable steps for building community and saving lives through fitness

This isn’t just about rainbows on the wall. It’s about creating spaces where everyone feels safe, seen, and free to take up space.

If you’re a gym owner, a coach, a fitness lover—or simply someone who gives a damn about making the world better—this episode is a must-listen. 🎧

What happens when a beloved teacher and drag performer in Alabama becomes the target of a national smear campaign? In this powerful Pride Month episode, we sit down with Majesty Divine—former middle school math teacher turned drag icon—to hear the raw, unfiltered truth behind the viral headlines, hateful threats, FBI involvement, and the beauty and heartbreak of staying visible in the South.

This isn’t just a story about drag. It’s a story about freedom, resilience, grief, and the sacred act of refusing to disappear. From a small-town drag bingo to national news, from protestors to parades—this is the real story they didn’t want you to hear.

💥 Trigger warning: mentions of threats, slurs, and religious extremism.

Miss Majesty Divine Info:

• Drag Queen Mafia, Facebook
• Unveiling Majesty Documentary

Find out more about Naughty Gym memberships or events here: www.NaughtyGym.com

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If you have topics you would like to hear us talk about or someone you would like us to interview, shoot us a message at naughtygymonline@gmail.com.

And remember, to Never Stop Playing!