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My Friend in HR

Njsane Courtney, MBA, SHRM-SCP, FCIPD

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Frequency: 1 episode/64d. Total Eps: 20

Welcome to the "My Friend In HR", the podcast where we make Human Resources accessible for everyone! Hosted by Njsane Courtney, a seasoned HR executive, this podcast is perfect for anyone who wants to learn more about workplace policies, practices, and culture.

But this podcast isn't just for HR professionals - it's for anyone who wants to improve their workplace experience and be a better employee. We'll feature interviews with HR leaders, managers, and even regular employees to give you a well-rounded perspective on the world of work.

In each episode, we'll dive into a different HR topic and break it down in a way that's easy to understand, with practical tips and advice that you can apply to your own work life. We'll cover everything from how to handle difficult conversations with your boss or co-workers, to navigating tricky HR policies like vacation time and sick leave.

So whether you're a seasoned HR pro or a newcomer to the field, or even if you're just curious about what HR is all about, join us as we learn and grow together. Let's be friends in HR!

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Presenting To The C-Suite With Clarity And Control

Season 2 · Episode 10

Monday, August 31, 2026 • Duration 31:57

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The fastest way to lose a C-suite room is to start like every other meeting. We are talking about executive presentations that land: the kind where you walk in with calm authority, get to the point, and make it easy for leaders to say yes, no, or “here’s what we need next” without wandering for an hour.

We share the mindset shift that changes everything: your presentation starts before slide one. Show up early, get the tech handled, and greet executives as they enter so you control the energy instead of reacting to it. Then we challenge a common slide deck habit that quietly kills attention, the agenda slide, and explain why it gives people permission to tune out and start doing time math.

From there, we lay out a practical structure built for busy leaders: fewer slides, a strong hook that leads with tangible business outcomes, a tension statement grounded in real data to create urgency, and a clear recommendation that explains why your path is the best option. You will also hear why charts, trend analysis, and projections belong in the appendix so you can answer questions without letting data hijack the decision.

If you want to build executive presence and “own the room” without sounding rehearsed or defensive, this framework will help. Subscribe for more, share this with someone who presents to senior leadership, and leave a review with the one slide deck habit you are ready to drop.

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Interview Edition: Hope Is Not a Strategy. with Qiara Suggs, Chief People Officer

Season 2 · Episode 9

Friday, May 8, 2026 • Duration 55:28

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If you've ever stayed somewhere too long because the title looked good on paper, this one's for you. Qiara Suggs got told no for a promotion she'd earned twice over — and turned that no into the executive seat she holds today. We pulled the curtain back on what it actually takes to drive your own career when nobody else is going to drive it for you.

About the Guest

Qiara Suggs is the Chief People Officer at TDECU, the largest credit union in Houston and one of the four largest in Texas, where she leads people strategy, corporate real estate, enterprise strategy, and enterprise project management. A fixture in the Houston HR community and a U of H alum, she's the kind of senior HR voice this show was built for.

What You'll Learn

Why hope is not a strategy — and the one question a mentor asked Qiara that flipped her entire career
How to tell when your job description is the floor — and when it's quietly becoming the ceiling
The difference between leaving for the right reason and leaving because you're hurt (and how to tell which one you're in)
Why every no is a yes somewhere else — but only if you stay in the driver's seat
What HR actually does behind the scenes — and why "HR is not your friend" is a worse take than the internet thinks
How to navigate being the only one in the room without letting it define your brand

Timestamps

00:00 — Cold open: why this conversation matters now

01:49 — Qiara's role at TDECU and the case for going "non-traditional"

04:01 — Mentors, and why your village beats your résumé

06:52 — The leader's job: betting on people who haven't yet bet on themselves

09:18 — "I won't do extra work for free" vs. showing your real ceiling 13:36 — Career growth isn't always vertical — and why that's the point

17:49 — Don't get stuck. Get in the driver's seat.

19:10 — The promotion that didn't happen — and what Njsane did next

24:13 — Every "no" is a "yes" somewhere else

Interview Edition: The War for Talent Is Over. Here's Who Won. ft. Jim Link, SHRM CHRO

Season 2 · Episode 8

Saturday, April 11, 2026 • Duration 50:19

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The talent market feels calmer on the surface, but the real shift is deeper: after the pandemic, people rewrote their relationship with work, and companies were forced to take human capital management seriously. I’m joined by Jim Link, Chief Human Resources Officer at SHRM, to talk about what actually happened to the so-called war for talent and why HR leaders suddenly became essential to keeping business moving when the world got unpredictable.

We dig into the practical side of modern HR strategy: why skills-based hiring beats relying on old job descriptions, how skill mapping strengthens internal mobility, and what “cultural clarity” looks like when budgets are tight but expectations are high. Jim also shares how he thinks about generative AI in HR, especially using AI for augmentation such as job description drafts, analytics support, and coaching prompts for difficult conversations, with a clear reminder to protect employee privacy by sanitizing what you share.

Then we get blunt about retention and succession planning. Waiting until a resignation to offer growth is a costly habit, and most leaders underestimate how far honest career conversations can go without spending a dollar. We also challenge the “spreadsheet theater” version of succession planning and talk about building real bench strength, being transparent about potential, and creating space for grace when high potentials stumble.

If you care about talent management, employee experience, and the future of work, this is the kind of conversation you can use immediately. Subscribe, share it with one colleague, and leave a review with the one leadership habit you think would fix retention fastest.

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Why Toxic Employees Keep Their Jobs

Season 2 · Episode 7

Monday, March 30, 2026 • Duration 23:49

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One person can hit every target and still poison the room and the worst part is that keeping them can look “logical” on a spreadsheet. We dig into the real reasons toxic employees stay employed, from the at-will employment myth to the HR documentation gap that turns obvious bad behavior into a legal gray area. If you have ever stared at a teammate like “Why is Dave still here?”, you are not alone and your manager is probably navigating risks you cannot see.

We walk through three invisible handcuffs that slow everything down: fear of wrongful termination claims, the subjectivity trap (toxic is not a policy violation), and the confidentiality iceberg that hides discipline and coaching from the rest of the team. Then we hit the high performer dilemma head-on. Great results do not cancel out harmful behavior, and tolerating a “rainmaker” can quietly train your culture to accept disrespect as the price of performance.

You will get tactical tools you can use immediately: a simple documentation rule (if you cannot observe it, measure it, or quote it, do not write it), a clear formula that makes behavior defensible (date and time, specific behavior, business impact, witnesses), and a word-for-word script for the hardest conversation in management. We also cover how employees can help without becoming the next problem and why protecting your own mental health and career trajectory matters if leadership will not act.

If you found this helpful, subscribe, share it with a manager or coworker, and leave a five-star rating and a comment so more people can find the show.

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Visit: MFIHR.com

Instagram: myfriendin_hr
LinkedIn: Njsane Courtney
Email: myfriendinhr@gmail.com

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Salary Negotiation Part 2: The Exact Words to Say (And When to Shut Up)

Season 2 · Episode 6

Monday, February 9, 2026 • Duration 18:01

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You interviewed 10 times. You've been waiting by your phone for days. Then the recruiter finally calls—you got the job! Your heart is racing, you're thrilled, and they're giving you the offer right now. What do you say? Do you accept on the spot? Do you negotiate? And if you do negotiate, what the hell are you supposed to actually SAY?

Haven't listened to Part 1 yet? Go back and start there first. We tackled the fear that holds most of us back when we think about negotiating our salary—and I showed you exactly why that fear is costing you money. We broke down what's really happening behind the scenes, what companies actually expect, and why you have way more power than you think.

In Part 2, we get tactical. I'm giving you the exact script, the specific FBI hostage negotiation techniques that work in salary talks, and the one skill most people completely blow: knowing when to shut up.

We walk through a real salary negotiation step-by-step—from the moment you get the offer to closing the deal. You'll learn calibrated questions that put the hiring manager in problem-solving mode, how to use strategic silence as your most powerful weapon, and why filling that awkward pause costs candidates thousands of dollars.

But here's what matters most: I'm giving you permission to advocate for yourself. Research shows that by not negotiating your starting salary, you sacrifice over $500,000 in lifetime earnings. Half a million dollars. Is five minutes of discomfort worth that to you?

We also cover what most negotiation advice misses—character and integrity. How to negotiate powerfully without burning bridges, when to hold firm on your number, and how to close with class no matter the outcome.

Your job is meant to support your life. Your life is not meant to support your job.

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Salary Negotiation Part 1: Why You're Afraid to Ask (And Why You Shouldn't Be)

Season 2 · Episode 5

Sunday, January 25, 2026 • Duration 18:18

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By not negotiating your starting salary, you could be walking away from over $500,000 in lifetime earnings. But 70% of professionals never even try—because they're terrified the offer will be pulled.

In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what REALLY happens behind the scenes when you negotiate. After 21 years in HR and nearly a decade as a recruiter, I've made over 1,000 job offers—and I've NEVER seen one pulled just because someone asked to negotiate.

In Part 1, you'll discover:

Why your fear of negotiating is completely unfounded (backed by real data)
The $12,000+ companies invest to find you—and why that gives you power
How to evaluate the FULL compensation package (not just salary)
What bonuses, benefits, commute costs, and vacation really mean for your bottom line
Why 85% of people who negotiate get results, but only 30% even try

This episode is for you if: You've ever accepted the first offer out of fear. You're underpaid and don't know how to ask for more. You're evaluating a job offer right now and feeling anxious about negotiating.

I'm Njsane Courtney, VP of HR at American Bureau of Shipping and creator of "My Friend in HR." I've spent two decades on both sides of the negotiation table, and I'm giving you the insider playbook companies don't want you to have.

Your job is meant to support your life. Your life isn't meant to support your job.

🎧 Listen to Part 2 for the exact words to say and when to shut up during negotiations.

📧 Questions? Email me at myfriendinhr@gmailcom

📱 Connect: @MyFriendinHR YouTube

@MyFriendIn_HR on Instagram & Twitter | Njsane Courtney on LinkedIn

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Underpaid & Micromanaged? 5 Steps to Change Your Career NOW (2026 Exit Plan)

Season 2 · Episode 4

Sunday, January 11, 2026 • Duration 19:47

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Are You Building an Exit Strategy or Just Surviving Until Friday?

If Monday mornings fill you with dread, your micromanager questions every move, and you KNOW you're underpaid by at least $20K but feel paralyzed to do anything about it—this episode is your intervention.

This isn't about setting fluffy 2025 goals. This is about building LEVERAGE.

In this no-BS episode, Jassani Courtney breaks down the exact 5-step blueprint to stop being overlooked and start commanding the respect (and compensation) you've earned. Whether you're planning your exit or fighting to transform your current role, you need OPTIONS—and options require strategy, not hope.

You'll discover:

Why your LinkedIn profile is keeping you invisible to recruiters (and the 60-second fix that changes everything)
The "Vampire Audit" that reclaims your time from energy-draining meetings and toxic coworkers
Word-for-word scripts to shut down your boss's last-minute demands without sounding difficult
The uncomfortable truth about how you're being judged in the first 7 seconds—and what to do about it
Why your home life is secretly sabotaging your career moves (and how to fix it this week)

Here's what most career advice gets wrong: They tell you to work harder, be more visible, or "lean in." But you're already exhausted. What you actually need is a system to build leverage while you're still employed—so you negotiate from power, not desperation.

This episode delivers the scripts, the tactics, and the Monday morning checklist that changes your trajectory immediately. No corporate fluff. No motivational platitudes. Just the strategic moves that create real options.

Your job is a contract, not a prison. But only if you do the work to create alternatives.

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Own Your Career Or Someone Else Will!

Season 2 · Episode 3

Monday, December 29, 2025 • Duration 21:18

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Careers don’t stall because you lack talent; they stall because you lack leverage. We zoom straight into the POWER framework—five pillars that turn you from a passenger into the driver of your own path. No fluff, no clichés, just the playbook: personal accountability, options through money, work your network, ever battle ready, and reputation as currency.

We start by dismantling the myth that managers are responsible for your growth. Ownership looks like asking precise feedback, chasing the ugly projects that matter, and building skills without waiting for approval.

From there, we get real about money as a career tool. A walkaway fund gives you breathing room to negotiate, leave toxic roles, and take strategic moves that compound into leadership scope. You don’t need a windfall—just a halt to lifestyle creep, small automatic transfers, and a clear target for six months of expenses.

Networking becomes simple when you treat it as generosity on a schedule: consistent check-ins, thoughtful comments, helpful intros, and showing up when it’s inconvenient. Then we shift to readiness. Quarterly resume refreshes, a clean LinkedIn headline that signals outcomes, and a grab-and-go portfolio keep you sharp when opportunities show up fast. Finally, we get honest about reputation. How you act when things go sideways, how you share credit, and how people feel after working with you determine who speaks your name in the rooms that matter.

By the end, you’ll choose one pillar to focus on for the next 30 days and leave with small, specific actions that build real momentum. If this hit home, share it with a friend who’s stuck, connect with me on LinkedIn at Jassani Courtney for deeper dives on each pillar, and hit subscribe for more straight talk that actually moves your career forward.

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Betrayed by Leadership: Why Trust Is the Real Workplace Currency (S2E2)

Season 2 · Episode 2

Monday, September 1, 2025 • Duration 22:01

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Trust isn’t just a buzzword—it’s the hidden currency driving every workplace. When it breaks, the fallout is bigger than missed deadlines or disengaged employees—it fractures culture.

In this episode of My Friend in HR, we rewind the clock to humanity’s earliest tribes and connect ancient leadership lessons to today’s boardrooms, Zoom calls, and corporate cultures. Drawing from Simon Sinek’s insights, Edelman’s Trust Barometer, Harvard Business Review research, and real stories of leaders and employees betrayed by broken promises, we unpack the human side of why trust is collapsing in the modern workplace—and how to rebuild it.

You’ll hear:

Why ancient tribes chose leaders based on trust, not strength—and what that means for today’s executives.
The silent betrayals that fracture workplace culture (missed recognition, layoffs handled poorly, and leaders who go quiet when employees need them most).
How layoffs send psychological shockwaves that destroy productivity and loyalty.
The science of trust and stress: why oxytocin builds collaboration and cortisol kills it.
Why perks and bonuses don’t inspire when they’re not matched with purpose.
What both leaders and employees must do to build a high-trust culture.

This is not another “10 leadership tips” conversation. This is a hard look at the broken social contract between employees and organizations, and how trust—not just money—decides whether your culture thrives or collapses.

👉 If you’re a leader, this will challenge how you think about psychological safety, employee loyalty, and the true cost of layoffs.
👉 If you’re an employee, this will give you language to articulate why culture feels “off” when trust is missing—and what role you play in fixing it.

Because when leaders stop protecting their people, perks stop feeling earned. And when employees stop showing up with reliability and honesty, teams collapse from within.

Season 2: Episode 1: Congrats on the Promotion… Now Don’t Screw It Up

Season 2 · Episode 1

Monday, July 14, 2025 • Duration 29:52

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SEASON 2 IS HERE: “You Got Promoted… Now What?”

Let’s get one thing straight: getting promoted is not the finish line—it’s the starting block. And this episode? It’s your leadership wake-up call.

After a few months of silence (life got busy, y’all—but I’ve been cookin’ behind the scenes), My Friend in HR is BACK for Season 2 and we’re coming in HOT with real talk for every new leader, reluctant manager, or “oh crap, now I’m in charge” moment.

In this firestarter of an episode, we’re digging into:
🔥 The messy reality of managing your old work besties
🔥 The politics no one warned you about in your new role
🔥 The culture shifts that’ll humble even the most confident leaders
🔥 And why your first 90 days could make—or break—your leadership brand

This isn’t just advice—it’s a survival strategy.
No fluff. No BS. Just the truth about what it really takes to thrive after the promotion.

Plus, I’m spilling the behind-the-scenes tea on where I’ve been, why HR on the Rocks is your new favorite YouTube series, and why this season of the pod is going to change how you lead—for real.

🎧 Press play, power up, and let’s get into it.
Because leadership isn’t for the faint of heart—and neither is this podcast.

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