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Ep.64: The Subtle Signs Your Baby’s Nervous System Is Finally Relaxing25 Mar 202600:09:08

How do you know if something is actually helping your baby…
or if they’ve just gone quiet?

In this episode of Mothering From Within, Kaili walks you through one of the most important (and often misunderstood) parts of baby development:

👉 the difference between a baby who is truly settled
and a baby who is simply quiet from overwhelm or exhaustion

Because those two things can look very similar on the outside…
but feel very different in your baby’s body.

Drawing from her work as a pediatric occupational therapist and craniosacral therapist, Kaili shares the subtle nervous system cues she looks for during sessions — the small shifts that tell her when a baby is beginning to feel safer and more comfortable in their body.

You’ll learn how to recognize signs like:

• hands softening instead of staying clenched
 • a relaxed jaw
 • slower, deeper breathing
 • more even, organized movement
 • feeding that feels less frantic
 • transitions (like diaper changes or bedtime) becoming just a little easier

She also explains the important difference between:

✨ True regulation (soft, flexible, available)
vs.
⚠️ Shutdown or collapse (heavy, still, disconnected)

This episode will help you:

• understand what “progress” actually looks like in your baby
 • feel more confident knowing when something is helping
 • start trusting your instincts as you read your baby’s cues

Kaili also shares a simple “3-point check” you can try tonight — looking at your baby’s hands, jaw, and breath — to begin noticing these changes in real time.

Because often, the biggest shifts don’t happen loudly.

They happen quietly…
 like a small exhale in your baby’s body.

💜

In This Episode

00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
01:09 Settled vs Quiet — Why It Matters
02:59 Reading Your Baby’s Nervous System
03:39 Quiet Doesn’t Always Mean Regulated
04:24 Signs Something Has “Landed”
05:35 Why Progress Often Looks Subtle
06:02 Calm vs Shutdown
06:32 Everyday Moments You’ll Start Noticing
07:00 Try This Simple Check Tonight
07:27 Reflection + Free Guide
08:06 Closing

Resources Mentioned

Free Calm Baby Blueprint Guide
A gentle, practical guide to help you start recognizing your baby’s body cues and understanding what they may be communicating.

💡 This episode is especially for you if:

• you’ve ever wondered “is this actually helping?”
 • your baby seems calm sometimes but still unsettled underneath
 • you want to understand your baby beyond just sleep or behavior

Disclaimer: This is general education, not medical advice; check with your own providers.

Ep.63: Slowing Down So Your Baby’s Nervous System Can Catch Up11 Mar 202600:12:11

Ep. 63 | Slowing Down So Your Baby’s Nervous System Can Catch Up

In this episode of Mothering From Within, Kaili reflects on something she’s still actively practicing in her hands-on work with babies: patience.

Our adult brains move quickly—we’re often thinking about the next step, the next task, or the next thing to try. But babies experience the world very differently. Their nervous systems process sensation, emotion, and movement much more slowly than ours.

When we move too quickly, babies often show us through cues like crying, arching, restlessness, or difficulty settling.

Drawing on insights from her osteopathy training and years of working with infants, Kaili explains why pausing, waiting, and staying present allows the baby’s body to respond in its own time. When given space, nervous systems soften naturally.

You’ll hear simple, everyday examples where slowing down can make a real difference, including:

• Picking your baby up
 • Diaper changes
 • Feeding pauses
 • Bedtime transitions

Kaili also shares a moment from a recent session that reminded her why patience matters so much in this work.

This episode invites parents to notice where rushing may be happening in daily routines—and how even a small pause can shift connection and regulation for both you and your baby.

If you’re feeling like everything needs to happen quickly with your baby, this episode is a gentle reminder that sometimes slowing down is the support.

💜

In This Episode

00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
01:15 Why Patience Matters in Baby Work
03:10 Why Babies Need More Time to Process
05:51 Everyday Moments Where Slowing Down Helps
08:25 A Session Moment That Changed Everything
09:25 A Reflection for Parents
10:36 Free Guide + Resources
11:09 Closing Thoughts

Resources Mentioned

Calm Baby Blueprint (Free Guide)
A gentle place to start noticing what your baby’s body may be communicating.

Mothering From Within (Book)
Kaili’s guide to helping parents reconnect with their instincts and understand their baby through a nervous-system lens.

Ep.62: Swaddling & Reflexes: Supportive Tool or Disruptive Habit?04 Mar 202600:17:49

In this episode of Mothering From Within, Kaili explores swaddling through the lens of primitive reflexes, nervous system development, and sensory processing.

She explains how swaddling can soften the Moro reflex during sleep, while also interacting with reflexes like palmar grasp and ATNR. Most importantly, she reminds parents that reflex integration happens during awake movement — through feeding, floor play, reaching, grasping, and varied positioning — not during sleep.

Kaili shares how swaddling can be regulating for some babies (providing deep pressure and body boundaries) while becoming restrictive for others as they mature. Resistance often signals readiness for change, not regression.

You’ll learn:
 • What swaddling does — and what it doesn’t do
 • Why movement variety during awake time matters most
 • How to recognize rolling readiness and transition cues
 • Practical reflection questions to guide your decisions

Swaddling does not cause retained reflexes, sensory processing differences, or developmental harm. Parenting is about responsive adaptation — not rigid rules.

🎧 Listen in for reassurance, clarity, and a grounded developmental perspective.

Learn more about the Holistic Baby Flow Method at www.kailiets.com/flow

Explore additional guidance in Kaili’s book Mothering From Within - www.kailiets.com/book.



Ep.61: The Moro & Fear Paralysis Reflexes: When the Nervous System Can’t Find Safety24 Feb 202600:23:01

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets dives into the essential role of the nervous system in early childhood development. Kaili explains the Moro and fear paralysis reflexes, which are foundational in shaping a child's response to stress and safety. She discusses how these reflexes can lead to behaviors like anxiety, meltdowns, and shutdowns when not fully integrated. Kaili also shares actionable strategies for parents to help their children feel safe and regulate their emotions through rhythmic movements and co-regulation. This episode is packed with valuable insights for parents seeking to understand and support their child’s emotional well-being. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of your child’s behaviors and learn how to create an environment that fosters security and growth.

00:00 Introduction

01:20 Understanding Retained Reflexes

04:36 The Fear Paralysis Reflex

08:29 The Moro Reflex

14:41 Integration and Healing

17:02 Real-Life Example and Encouragement

21:59 Conclusion and Resources


Learn more about the Holistic Baby Flow Method here.

Buy Kaili's book 'Mothering From Within' here.

Ep.60: Retained Reflexes in Toddlers & Older Kids18 Feb 202600:26:17

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets, dives into the crucial topic of primitive reflexes and their far-reaching effects on child development. Exploring how these early automatic movement patterns, when not fully integrated, can influence a child’s ability to move, feel, focus, and cope, Kaili provides insights backed by real scientific research. Learn about the interconnectedness of retained reflexes, sensory processing differences, and nervous system regulation. Kaili also discusses specific signs to watch for in toddlers and older children, and offers actionable strategies for supporting reflex integration and sensory processing. This episode is an essential listen for parents looking to understand their child’s behaviours and support their development more effectively.

00:00 Introduction

01:11 Understanding Primitive Reflexes

03:07 Impact of Retained Reflexes on Development

05:47 Signs of Retained Reflexes in Toddlers

09:18 Retained Reflexes in Older Children

11:02 Interconnection Between Reflexes and Sensory Processing

17:12 Supporting Reflex Integration and Sensory Processing

20:59 Real-Life Example and Conclusion

22:47 Final Thoughts and Resources


Listen to the FREE Rooted in Regulation Map webinar here.

Learn more about the Holistic Baby Flow Method here.

Buy Kaili's book 'Mothering From Within' here.

Ep.59: How Reflexes, Movement, and Regulation Work Together11 Feb 202600:18:03

In this episode of 'Mothering from Within,' host Kaili Ets dives into the intricate relationship between primitive reflexes, movement, and nervous system regulation in babies. Kaili explains how retained reflexes can affect your baby's sensory processing and overall comfort. She highlights the importance of natural movements, such as rocking and floor play, in helping babies integrate these reflexes for better regulation. The episode also touches on how bodywork can aid in this process by removing physical barriers. Kaili encourages parents to support their babies through gentle, intentional movements and provides insights into how to read and respond to their babies' needs. For those interested in a deeper dive, Kaili offers a free webinar and mentions her upcoming comprehensive program, the Holistic Baby Flow Method.

00:00 Introduction

01:11 Understanding Primitive Reflexes

02:16 The Connection Between Reflexes and Sensory Input

05:36 The Importance of Movement

10:51 Bodywork and Reflex Integration

13:32 Practical Tips for Supporting Your Baby

14:17 Invitation to Go Deeper

15:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

16:54 Conclusion


Download the FREE Mini Reflex Guide here

Learn more about the Holistic Baby Flow Method here.

Buy Kaili's book 'Mothering From Within' here.

Ep.58: What Are Primitive Reflexes — and Why Should Parents Care?04 Feb 202600:19:16

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets, dives into the fascinating world of primitive reflexes. She explains how these automatic movements, like the Moro and fear paralysis reflexes, play a critical role in your baby's development. Kaili discusses how these reflexes are your baby's first language and what it means when they don't integrate properly. She also offers insights into observing these reflexes in your baby and provides tips on how to support their nervous system for better feeding, sleep, and emotional regulation. Plus, don't miss out on Kaili's free reflex mini guide for more in-depth understanding.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:11 Understanding Primitive Reflexes

04:57 The Moro Reflex: Your Baby's Built-in Alarm System

07:33 The Fear Paralysis Reflex: The Freeze Response

09:33 Other Important Reflexes to Know

14:58 Observing and Supporting Your Baby's Reflexes at Home

16:34 Conclusion and Further Resources


Download the FREE Mini Reflex Guide here

Learn more about the Holistic Baby Flow Method here.

Buy Kaili's book 'Mothering From Within' here.

Ep.57: From Fussy to Flow: Slowing Down to Find Calm With Your Baby28 Jan 202600:17:03

Join baby bodyworker (and Holistic Baby Guru), Kaili Ets, in this episode of Mothering From Within as she explores the importance of nervous system safety and connection with your baby. Kaili emphasizes slowing down, being present, and creating space for both moms and babies to breathe and connect authentically. With real-life examples and actionable tips, discover how less can often be more in fostering your baby's development and your own well-being. Plus, learn about Kaili's Holistic Baby Flow Method for deeper insights into nurturing a calm and connected motherhood journey.

00:00 Welcome to Mothering From Within

01:12 The Overwhelmed Mama's Daily Routine

02:07 The Myth of Constant Entertainment

04:13 Creating a Nervous System Friendly Day

06:14 Embracing Quiet Moments

11:50 Real-Life Example: Sarah's Story

14:19 Practical Tips for Slowing Down

15:53 Conclusion and Next Steps


Be one of the first families to join The Holistic Baby Flow Method - https://www.kailiets/com/flow-waitlist

Grab Kaili's book, Mothering From Within - https://www.kailiets.com/book

Ep.56: Why Your Baby Isn’t “Behind” — They’re Just Becoming21 Jan 202600:12:26

In episode 56, Kaili Ets, a mom and baby bodyworker encourages parents to let go of developmental checklists and trust their baby's unique growth process. She discusses how each baby's nervous system develops at its own pace, the importance of connection over competition, and when it might be time to seek additional support. Join Kaili as she guides you through understanding and embracing your baby's natural developmental rhythms in 'Mothering From Within.'

00:00 Introduction to Baby's Development

00:28 Welcome to Mothering From Within

01:44 Understanding Your Baby's Unique Rhythm

04:39 When to Seek Extra Support

07:11 Trusting the Unseen Work

08:41 Observing and Trusting Your Baby

10:36 Holistic Baby Flow Method

11:10 Conclusion


Learn more about the Holistic Baby Flow Method - https://www.kailiets.com/flow

Grab Kaili's book "Mothering From Within" - https://www.kailiets.com/book



Ep.55: When the Crying Feels Endless - How to Survive the Hardest Days14 Jan 202600:14:46

In episode 56 of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets, a mom and pediatric occupational therapist, addresses the overwhelming challenges that come with caring for a high-needs baby. Kaili reassures listeners that feeling overwhelmed and needing a break doesn't make them bad mothers. She offers practical strategies for coping with endless crying and explains the biological responses that contribute to parental stress. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-care, reaching out for support, and understanding that both mothers and babies are learning and adjusting together. Kaili also introduces resources like the free Calm Baby Blueprint and her upcoming Holistic Baby Flow Method to help parents navigate these tough moments.

00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Duality of Motherhood

00:19 Welcome to Mothering From Within

01:28 Understanding Overwhelm and Crying

05:16 Practical Tips for Surviving the Crying

07:27 Exploring Physical Discomfort in Babies

09:01 The Importance of Support and Community

11:44 Holistic Baby Flow Method

12:26 Encouragement and Conclusion

13:44 Closing Remarks and Resources


Grab the FREE Calm Baby Blueprint here - https://freebie.kailiets.com/calm-baby

Join the waitlist for the Holistic Baby Flow Method here - https://www.kailiets.com/flow-waitlist

Ep.54: When Baby Hates Lying Flat: Why It Happens & How to Help31 Dec 202500:11:41

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets, a pediatric occupational therapist, delves into the reasons behind babies' physical reactions, such as crying or arching their backs when laid down. Kaili explains how these behaviours are forms of communication, often stemming from birth-related tensions and reflux issues. She provides practical tips for parents to help their babies feel more comfortable and introduces resources like the 'Calm Baby Blueprint' for further support. Tune in to learn how to interpret and respond to your baby's body cues, fostering a deeper connection and easing their discomfort.

00:00 Understanding Baby's Communication Through Crying

00:21 Introduction to the Podcast

01:41 Common Baby Discomforts and Their Causes

04:36 Reflux and Body Mechanics

07:43 Practical Tips for Easing Baby's Discomfort

10:01 Holistic Approaches and Final Thoughts

11:13 Conclusion and Call to Action


Grab the FREE Calm Baby Blueprint here - https://freebie.kailiets.com/calm-baby

Get on the wait list for The Holistic Baby Flow Method here - https://www.kailiets.com/flow-waitlist

Stay in touch on social media @TheHolisticBabyGuru

Ep.53: Why Your Baby’s Struggles Start Below the Surface24 Dec 202500:09:41

In this episode, Kaili introduces the 'Rooted in Regulation Map,' a heart-centered framework to help parents understand their baby's sleep, feeding, development, and moods. Kaili uses the analogy of a tree to explain how a baby’s visible behaviors (branches) are influenced by their internal states (roots and trunk). She dives into the importance of addressing your baby’s nervous system, alignment, and movement patterns to improve their overall well-being. Key points include the importance of safety and connection, body comfort, and establishing rhythms. Kaili emphasizes being present and calm as essential for fostering your baby’s regulation and offers gentle bodywork techniques as potential aids. This episode aims to build parental confidence and insight into nurturing their baby's holistic growth.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:11 Understanding Your Baby's Behavior

01:40 The Rooted in Regulation Map

04:24 The Importance of the Nervous System

05:51 Nurturing the Three Main Roots

07:44 Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts

08:33 Conclusion and Further Resources


Get on the waitlist - https://www.kailiets.com/flow

Grab a copy of Kaili's book - https://www.kailiets.com/book

Ep.52: The Gift of Ease: Why Bodywork Might Be Exactly What Your Baby (and You) Need17 Dec 202500:16:47

In this episode of Mothering From Within, host Kaili Ets, a mom of two and pediatric occupational therapist, infant craniosacral therapist, and soon-to-be-osteopath, discusses the importance of baby bodywork in relieving tension and promoting comfort. She explains how gentle therapies like craniosacral therapy and pediatric osteopathy can help babies release tension from birth-related stressors, leading to improved sleep, feeding, and overall well-being. Kaili also highlights the impact of the holidays on new moms and suggests bodywork as a thoughtful and practical gift. Tune in for insights on how bodywork supports your baby's nervous system and fosters a sense of safety and relaxation. Don't miss the free webinar on the Rooted in Regulation Map, the foundation for Kaili's upcoming Holistic Baby Flow Method program.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

00:17 Welcome and Disclaimer

01:38 Holiday Season Challenges

02:11 Understanding Baby Body Work

04:48 Birth Interventions and Baby Tension

08:26 Signs Your Baby Might Need Body Work

09:06 What a Body Work Session Looks Like

10:10 The Benefits of Body Work

13:14 Holiday Gift Idea: Body Work Session

14:10 Rooted in Regulation Map Webinar

15:01 Final Thoughts and Holiday Wishes


Register for the FREE Rooted in Regulation Webinar here - https://go.kailiets.com/rooted-regulation-webinar


Grab Kaili's book - Mothering From Within here - https://www.kailiets.com/book

Ep.51: Signs Your Baby Might Be in Sensory Overload10 Dec 202500:16:46

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets addresses the challenges of sensory overload in babies, especially during the busy holiday season. Kaili, a pediatric occupational therapist and holistic baby guide, explains the signs of sensory overload, such as irritability and difficulty settling, and provides practical tips for helping your baby find calm. She discusses the importance of understanding sensory thresholds, creating a calming environment, and using gentle methods to support your baby's nervous system. The episode also offers resources like a sensory processing checklist to further assist parents. Tune in to learn how to navigate the magic and chaos of the holidays while honoring your baby's unique sensory needs.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:34 Understanding Sensory Overload

06:34 Identifying Sensory Overload Signs

09:25 Practical Tips to Manage Sensory Overload

10:57 Supporting Your Baby's Sensory and Nervous System

13:53 Final Thoughts and Resources


Join the waitlist - https://www.kailiets.com/flow

Grab a copy of Kaili's book - https://www.kailiets.com/book

Ep.50: The Gas–Struggle–Fuss Cycle: When It’s Not Just Digestion04 Dec 202500:12:16

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' pediatric occupational therapist Kaili Ets explores the deeper causes behind common baby issues like gas and reflux. She explains how these symptoms are often rooted in tension and nervous system imbalances. Through insightful examples and holistic techniques, Kaili provides gentle, effective strategies to help your baby find comfort and balance. Learn about the importance of co-regulation, the role of the vagus nerve, and practical steps you can take at home to support your baby's digestive and emotional well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:11 Understanding Baby's Discomfort

02:43 The Role of Fascia and Vagus Nerve

04:04 Case Study: Baby Noah

05:25 Identifying Deeper Issues

06:46 Co-Regulation Techniques

07:45 Practical Tips for Soothing Your Baby

09:15 Final Thoughts and Resources

11:08 Conclusion and Further Support


Important Links:

Grab the freebies at https://www.kailiets.com/freebies

Get on the wait list for the Holistic Baby Flow Method at https://www.kailiets.com/flow-waitlist

Grab a copy of the Mothering From Within Book at https://www.kailiets.com/book


Ep.49: What’s ‘Normal’ Baby Development Anyway?26 Nov 202500:12:36

In this episode of Mothering From Within, host Kaili Ets, a pediatric occupational therapist, dives into the often stressful topic of baby milestones. Kaili explains that development isn't a race but a rhythm unique to each baby. She discusses how outdated milestone charts can create unnecessary anxiety and shares what truly matters in a baby's development: transitions, curiosity, and flow. Kaili offers practical insights on recognizing mini milestones and understanding the importance of primitive reflexes. Tune in to learn how to support your baby's natural development journey and gain reassurance that your baby's progress is right on track.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:11 Understanding Baby Milestones

02:34 The Reality of Modern Baby Development

04:42 Mini Milestones: The Hidden Progress

07:04 Typical Developmental Ranges

10:02 The Holistic Baby Flow Method

11:32 Conclusion and Further Resources


Grab the FREE Infant Development Guide here - https://freebie.kailiets.com/infant-development-op

Learn more about my book - Mothering From Within here - https://www.kailiets.com/book


Give me a follow on Insta @TheHolisticBabyGuru to stay in touch

Ep.48: Is This a Tongue Tie? What Parents Miss (Even After an Assessment)19 Nov 202500:10:57

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' Kaili Ets, pediatric occupational therapist and mom of two, discusses the commonly misunderstood topic of tongue ties in babies. Kaili shares her personal experiences, busts popular myths, and explains the importance of proper assessment and intervention. The episode also explores how tongue ties affect more than just feeding, impacting overall nervous system regulation and development. Learn how to trust your instincts and get the right support for your baby. Tune in, get curious, and empower yourself to navigate motherhood confidently.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:11 Understanding Tongue Ties

02:40 Common Myths About Tongue Ties

07:35 The Importance of Oral Function

08:31 Holistic Baby Flow Method

09:47 Conclusion and Next Steps


Grab the Mastering Oral Ties e-book and mini course here - https://courses.kailiets.com/tongue-tie-sp

Learn more about the Holistic Baby Flow Method here - https://www.kailiets.com/flow

Ep.47 | Trusting the Pause: Navigating Motherhood with Trust and Patience12 Nov 202500:16:29

In episode 47 of 'Mothering from Within', host Kaili Ets, a mom of two and pediatric occupational therapist, explores the importance of embracing the pause in motherhood. Kaili shares her personal journey of navigating grief, listening to her body, and understanding the wisdom in waiting. She introduces the concept of Human Design and emotional authority, emphasizing the need for mothers to trust their instincts and the natural rhythms of their babies. 

Kaili discusses the significance of allowing babies and toddlers to grow and develop at their own pace, and offers practical insights on sleep and development. This episode is a gentle reminder that pausing is not procrastination, but a crucial part of the journey towards clarity and alignment in motherhood. 

Join the waitlist for Kaili’s new program, The Holistic Baby Flow Method, designed to support your baby’s sleep, development, and regulation through compassionate, body-based wisdom.


00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:10 Navigating the In-Between Spaces of Motherhood

02:54 Understanding Human Design and Emotional Authority

04:50 Honoring the Pause in Motherhood

08:08 Practical Applications: Sleep and Development

10:36 Personal Reflections and New Beginnings

15:06 Conclusion and Invitation to the Holistic Baby Flow Method


Stay in Touch With Kaili

Ep.46 | The Myth of More: Why Too Many Baby Tips Keep You Stuck06 Nov 202500:11:27

The Myth of More: Finding Clarity in Motherhood

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets, a mom of two and pediatric occupational therapist, explores the concept of 'The Myth of More.' She discusses why constantly seeking new parenting tips and tricks may be exhausting and counterproductive. Instead, she advocates for a holistic approach to motherhood that focuses on calming the nervous system and tuning into both your and your baby's needs. Listen in to discover how less noise can lead to more clarity and connection in your parenting journey.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within
02:01 The Myth of More: Why More Tips Aren't the Answer
03:37 Understanding the Nervous System and Parenting
07:09 Real-Life Example: Emily's Journey
08:55 Introducing the Holistic Baby Flow Method
10:19 Conclusion and Next Steps


Stay in Touch With Kaili

Ep.45 | Simplifying Motherhood: One Holistic Path to Baby Sleep, Feeding & Regulation22 Oct 202501:57:30

What if everything you’ve been trying to figure out in motherhood—your baby’s sleep, their feeding struggles, their reflux, their fussiness—was actually all connected?

In this deeply personal episode, host Kaili Ets, pediatric OT and mama of two, shares why she’s merging all of her courses, workshops, and resources into one holistic path: The Holistic Baby Flow Method™.

From the burnout of “doing it all,” to the invisible load of motherhood, and the grief of losing her father earlier this year, Kaili reflects on what it really means to slow down, simplify, and support mothers and babies at the root—nervous system safety and connection.

This isn’t a tips-and-tricks episode. It’s a heartfelt reflection on the emotional and energetic transformation that happens when we stop treating everything in silos—and start creating systems that truly serve.

In this episode, Kaili shares:
✔ Why she’s letting go of multiple courses and offers
✔ The hidden cost of fragmentation (for mamas and babies)
✔ How her personal grief led to a professional rebirth
✔ Why nervous system safety is the common thread behind sleep, reflux, and regulation
✔ A sneak peek at the Holistic Baby Flow Method™ coming soon

Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome
01:00 – A heart-to-heart about slowing down
02:00 – The impact of grief & burnout
04:30 – Too many tabs open: why fragmentation isn’t helping
06:00 – The invisible load of motherhood
07:15 – Letting go of control & trusting your body
08:30 – Why everything is connected
09:00 – What families actually need
10:00 – Introducing the Holistic Baby Flow Method
11:00 – A collective invitation to simplify

🎁 Want to be the first to hear about the Baby Flow Method launch? Send a DM to @TheHolisticBabyGuru to be added to the waitlist!
 📘 Grab Kaili’s book Mothering From Within → [www.kailiets.com/book]
📱 Follow @theholisticbabyguru for more support

💜 If this episode resonates, share it with a friend and tag us on IG. Let’s build this gentler path together.

Ep.44: Fussy Baby, Burnt Out Mama? Understanding Nervous System Co-Regulation01 Oct 202500:09:19

If your baby is fussy, hard to settle, clingy, or always wants to be held…
 And you feel touched out, overstimulated, and just done by the end of the day…

This episode is for you. 💜

Join pediatric occupational therapist and holistic baby expert Kaili Ets for a powerful conversation about mother–baby nervous system co-regulation—what it means, how it works, and why it’s often the missing link when sleep, feeding, or fussiness feel out of control.

You’ll learn:

  • Why your baby feels your stress—even when you’re doing your best to hide it
  • What co-regulation really means (hint: it’s not just skin-to-skin or babywearing)
  • How a dysregulated caregiver affects baby’s nervous system development
  • Simple strategies to support your own nervous system (even in 30 seconds)
  • Why nervous system work isn’t about doing more—it’s about feeling safer together

This episode will help you feel seen, supported, and more empowered to meet your baby’s needs without sacrificing your own well-being.

🕒 Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome back to Mothering From Within
01:01 – Nervous system dysregulation in both moms & babies
03:17 – Why your baby mirrors your state (co-regulation 101)
06:10 – Regulation is felt, not forced
09:33 – How your own nervous system sets the tone for your baby
13:14 – Tips to support regulation in your daily rhythms
17:45 – Final thoughts & gentle encouragement

✨ Resources & Support:
📘 Grab Mothering From Within the book → https://www.kailiets.com/book
📍 Work with Kaili 1:1 or learn more about support → https://www.kailiets.com

💜 If this episode resonated, please subscribe, rate, and share with a fellow mama who needs this message.


 Tag @theholisticbabyguru and let’s keep this conversation going!

Ep.43: Tight, Fussy, and Hard to Settle? Signs Your Baby Might Be Holding Tension17 Sep 202500:09:50

Does your baby feel stiff in your arms?
 Arch their back when feeding or crying?
 Struggle to settle or relax—even when all their “needs” seem met?

You’re not imagining it—and it’s not just colic, gas, or a “hard baby.”

In this episode of Mothering From Within, pediatric OT Kaili Ets shares what it really means when a baby feels tight, fussy, or hard to settle—and how body tension in babies often goes unrecognized and misunderstood by both professionals and well-meaning family members.

You’ll learn:

  • What “holding tension” looks like in babies (subtle and obvious signs)
  • The connection between birth experiences, body patterns, and behavior
  • Why some babies arch, hate lying flat, or can’t fully relax—even when fed and loved
  • The emotional toll on moms when no one listens to their concerns
  • How to start supporting your baby’s body gently, without waiting for a diagnosis

This episode is your reminder that if your baby feels “off,” your instincts are likely right—and there is help available.

🕒 Episode Highlights:
00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
00:57 – You can feel when something’s off
03:41 – Why this episode matters: the missing conversation
06:30 – Signs your baby may be holding tension
09:27 – How birth, positioning, and compression affect baby’s body
12:10 – Colic, reflux, feeding issues—could tension be underneath it all?
14:45 – Why your baby’s discomfort isn’t “just a phase”
17:03 – The toll on moms when no one validates your concerns
19:56 – What to do next: looking deeper, trusting yourself, finding support


✨ Resources & Next Steps:
📘 Grab Kaili’s book: Mothering From Within → https://kailiets.com/book/
🎁 Download the Free Baby Body Tension Guide → https://freebie.kailiets.com/baby-tension
📍 Interested in local support or research participation? Learn more → https://kailiets.com/therapy/


💜 If this episode resonated, share it with another mama who needs it—and tag @theholisticbabyguru so Kaili can cheer you on.

Ep. 42: Torticollis & Flat Head Syndrome: What Every Parent Needs to Know06 Aug 202500:28:41

In this expert-packed episode of Mothering From Within, pediatric OT Kaili Ets is joined by Marisa Marino, a seasoned pediatric physical therapist who specializes in torticollis and plagiocephaly (flat head syndrome) in babies as well as pre/postnatal women's health.

Together, they break down:

  • What torticollis and plagiocephaly actually are (and what causes them)
  • The difference between a baby’s head turning preference and a true diagnosis
  • Simple positioning strategies to try at home
  • How to spot early signs before it becomes a bigger issue
  • When to seek professional support—and what therapy might look like

Whether you're noticing a flat spot on your baby’s head, struggling with tummy time, or hearing new words like “plagiocephaly” or “torticollis” from your provider—this conversation will help you feel more informed, empowered, and supported.

Episode Highlights:

00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:14 – Meet Marisa Marino, pediatric physical therapist
03:03 – What is torticollis? What is plagiocephaly?
04:50 – How head shape and positioning are connected
09:44 – Treatment strategies + tummy time tips
12:11 – What the research says & how to advocate for your baby
26:22 – Final reflections & where to find Marisa

Perfect for parents who are:
• Noticing their baby always turns their head one way
• Concerned about flat spots on their baby’s head
• Wondering if tummy time is enough
• Looking for holistic, gentle alternatives to “wait and see”

💜 Know a mama who needs this? Forward the episode or tag us on IG!
Follow Kaili → @theholisticbabyguru
Find Marisa → risamarino@gmail.com

Want to participate in my Torticollis research study?  Book your FREE session here

Ep.41: Understanding Torticollis in Babies – Causes, Red Flags & Holistic Treatment Options23 Jul 202500:21:57

In this episode of Mothering From Within, Kaili Ets—pediatric occupational therapist and holistic baby guru—dives deep into the often misunderstood condition of Torticollis in babies.

If your baby constantly turns their head to one side, struggles with tummy time or latching, hates one breast, or seems tight and fussy when lying flat—this episode is a must-listen.

You'll learn:

  • What torticollis actually is (spoiler: it's more than just a neck issue)
  • The connection between torticollis and tongue ties
  • Common causes, from in-utero positioning to birth interventions
  • Why your baby’s tension might be showing up as feeding, sleep, or motor issues
  • Why passive stretching alone often isn’t enough—and what you can do instead

Kaili also shares how craniosacral therapy, osteopathy, and whole-body approaches can gently support babies with head turning preference—without forcing movement or waiting it out.

If you’re local to Stoney Creek, Burlington, or Ancaster, she’s also inviting families to participate in her osteopathy thesis research project focused on gentle, effective support for babies with torticollis.

🕒 Episode Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:11 – Personal update + what inspired this episode
01:43 – What is torticollis? Signs & red flags
04:07 – Common causes of torticollis in babies
05:51 – Why torticollis is more than a neck issue
09:39 – Torticollis & tongue tie connection
15:06 – Why stretching alone isn’t always enough
18:52 – Join Kaili’s local research study (free treatment opportunity!)
19:54 – Final thoughts + how to support your baby holistically

✨ Resources Mentioned:
📘 Mothering From Within – Kaili’s book: A holistic guide to sleep, reflux, feeding, baby development & maternal well-being. Buy your copy here.
🎁 [Free Baby Body Tension Guide] – Learn how to identify subtle signs of body tension at home
📍 [Join Kaili’s Research Study] – For local families with babies experiencing torticollis or head turning preference

Ep.40: Is It Really Just Colic? When Crying Means Something.26 Jun 202500:14:01

In this episode, Kaili dives deep into the topic of “colic” and what it really means when your baby is crying inconsolably. She challenges the catchall label of colic, encouraging parents to trust their instincts and look beyond the surface for possible root causes.

Key Topics Covered:

[01:12]  What “colic” actually means and why it’s often just a label, not an explanation.

[03:10] The importance of trusting your parental intuition when something feels off with your baby.

[04:28] Common root causes of excessive crying in babies, including:

  • Nervous system sensitivity and sensory overload
  • Emotional processing from birth or in utero experiences
  • Digestive issues (food intolerances, gut health, reflux, etc.)
  • Body tension and compression from birth or positioning
  • Oral dysfunction and feeding challenges
  • Practical steps for parents:

[09:37]  What Parents Can Do

  • Trust your gut and observe patterns in your baby’s behaviour
  • Consider holistic support options like craniosacral therapy, osteopathy, or pediatric OT
  • Focus on co-regulation—your calm helps your baby’s calm
  • Seek support when needed; you don’t have to do it alone

Resources Mentioned:

Takeaway Message:
You know your baby best. Colic is not the end of the story—it’s a signal. With the right support and clarity, you and your baby can find your rhythm again. Trust yourself, trust your baby, and remember: you’re doing an incredible job.

Connect with Kaili:

  • Kaili's Website
  • Kaili's Instagram
  • Book a Right Fit Call with Kaili
  • For in-person support (Stony Creek/Hamilton area) or virtual resources - www.kailiets.com
  • Share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!
Ep.39: From NICU to Nurtured - One Mama’s Journey Through Prematurity, Healing & Hope with Gail Gabriel04 Jun 202500:41:15

In this heartfelt episode, Kaili sits down with Gail Gabriel, a fellow occupational therapist, NICU mama, and founder of The NICU Collective. Gail shares her raw and powerful journey from the unexpected early delivery of her son at 30 weeks to navigating the NICU, early intervention, and her own emotional healing.

Whether you’ve experienced a high-risk birth, a NICU stay, or just the intense uncertainty of new motherhood, this episode offers real talk, deep compassion, and hard-earned wisdom.

You’ll hear about:

  • What it's really like to bring home a premature baby
  • How to shift from fear to trust—even after trauma
  • The power of community and sharing your story
  • Mental health, NICU PTSD, and finding your way back to self
  • Why creating space for your healing matters as much as your baby’s development

Gail’s story will resonate deeply with any mama who’s ever felt out of control, isolated, or overwhelmed—and her insights will help you feel seen, supported, and not alone.

🕒 Timestamps
00:00 – Welcome & Kaili’s intro
03:18 – Meet Gail Gabriel: OT, mom, NICU warrior
06:46 – Gail’s birth & NICU story: a 30-week surprise
11:25 – Trauma, healing, and finding her footing again
17:52 – Mental health, fear, and building resilience
22:00 – Finding support when no one else gets it
26:49 – The NICU Collective: creating safe spaces for NICU families
30:25 – Why sharing your story matters
31:40 – Redefining self-care as a NICU mom
36:35 – Gail’s takeaway: the NICU journey shapes you
41:00 – Final reflections + where to find Gail

💜 Connect with Gail:
Instagram: @nicu_collective
Facebook: NICU Collective

📘 Grab Kaili’s Book: Mothering From Within – your compassionate, holistic guide to baby sleep, development, reflux, and more - https://www.kailiets.com/book

✨ Loved this episode?
 Subscribe, rate, and share it with a friend who needs this kind of soul-deep support. And tag us on IG @theholisticbabyguru and @nicu_collective—we love hearing your thoughts!

Ep.38: Should You Hire a Doula? How to Know If It’s Right for Your Family21 May 202500:40:26

Should You Hire a Doula? How to Know If It’s Right for Your Family.

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets sits down with Kristen Revere, the owner and founder of Gold Coast Doulas, to discuss the critical role doulas play in both birth and postpartum care. Kristen, an elite certified birth and postpartum doula, shares her journey from political fundraising to founding a successful doula agency in Grand Rapids, Michigan. The conversation touches on the various services doulas offer, including emotional support, breastfeeding assistance, and overnight care. Kaili and Kristen also highlight the often-overlooked importance of preparing for the postpartum period, offering valuable advice for new parents. Tune in to learn how doulas can provide essential support during the magical yet challenging first years of parenthood.

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

01:15 Meet Our Special Guest: Kristen Revere

02:23 Kristen's Journey to Becoming a Doula

05:05 The Role and Importance of Doulas

14:16 Personal Experiences with Doulas

16:17 Planned Medical Births and Doulas

20:18 Postpartum Support and Planning

22:51 Fertility Benefits and Postpartum Support

23:26 The Importance of Rest for New Mothers

24:51 Sharing Responsibilities and Overcoming Challenges

26:02 Role and Benefits of Postpartum Doulas

32:08 Hiring a Doula: What to Look For

34:04 Rapid Fire Questions and Personal Insights

36:57 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

37:44 Where to Learn More and Closing Remarks


To learn more about what Kristen offers:


Stay in Touch With Kaili

 📘 Want more holistic support? Grab Kaili’s book Mothering From Within 

💜 Subscribe + share with a mama who needs this insight.

 



Ep.37: Sleep by Design: Supporting Your Baby or Toddler’s Sleep Based on Human Design30 Apr 202500:14:23

In this episode of Mothering From Within, Kaili Ets—pediatric OT and holistic baby guru—dives into the fascinating world of Human Design and sleep.

If you've ever wondered why your baby doesn’t follow the "normal" sleep rules, or why bedtime feels harder than it “should,” this episode is for you. Sleep isn’t one-size-fits-all—and Human Design offers a compassionate, eye-opening way to understand your baby’s natural rhythms, rest needs, and sleep quirks.

You’ll learn how each Human Design energy type (Generator, Manifesting Generator, Projector, Manifestor, Reflector) influences sleep patterns and how to adjust your approach to better align with your child’s unique design. Kaili also explores how defined and undefined centers (like Root, G, and Throat) can impact your child’s ability to fall asleep, express sleep needs, and feel safe in their space.

💤 This isn’t sleep training. This is parenting in alignment with your child’s energetic blueprint.

✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why your baby or toddler may not respond to traditional sleep advice
  • How to use Human Design to support better sleep for your child
  • Practical sleep tips for each design type
  • Why screens, bedtime resistance, or sleep regressions might be linked to design
  • What else impacts sleep—like defined centers, environment, and sensory needs

🕒 Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Introduction to Mothering From Within
01:11 – Exploring Human Design and Sleep
03:15 – Understanding Sleep Needs by Human Design Type
04:42 – Generators & Manifesting Generators: Movement, rhythm & routine
07:30 – Projectors: Winding down and emotional processing
09:21 – Manifestors: Sleep resistance & autonomy
10:27 – Reflectors: Lunar cycles & sensitivity
11:49 – Beyond Energy Types: Root, G, and Throat centers
12:55 – Final encouragement for tuning into your baby’s design
13:21 – Wrap-up and free Human Design & Sleep Guide

👉  Download your FREE Human Design chart here.

🎁 Grab the free Human Design + Sleep Guide
📘 Want more holistic support? Grab Kaili’s book Mothering From Within 

💜 Subscribe + share with a mama who needs this insight.

Ep. 36: Why Your Baby Eats, Sleeps & Plays Differently—And What Human Design Can Reveal23 Apr 202500:48:51

🎙️ Episode 36: Why Your Baby Eats, Sleeps & Plays Differently—And What Human Design Can Reveal

In this illuminating episode of Mothering From Within, host Kaili Ets, pediatric occupational therapist and holistic baby guru, welcomes special guest Meg S. from Wholebeing OT—an occupational therapist and Human Design specialist—to explore a powerful new lens for parenting: Human Design.

Together, they dive deep into how Human Design can help you understand your baby’s unique rhythms, needs, and challenges—especially around sleep, feeding, emotions, and play. Meg shares practical, real-life examples and explains how even the smallest shifts in awareness can lead to big wins in connection, regulation, and flow at home.

Whether you're navigating toddler tantrums, picky eating, bedtime struggles, or just trying to trust your instincts more, this episode is full of aha moments and compassionate insight.

✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How Human Design can help you understand your child’s energy, needs & behavior
  • Sleep strategies based on your child’s design type
  • The 6 Human Design digestion types (and why your baby might eat “differently”)
  • How environment and sound influence your child’s play
  • The significance of open vs. defined centers—and how they relate to emotional regulation
  • Why Human Design is not a parenting “box,” but a tool for intuition & alignment

🕒 Episode Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:15 – Meet Meg: OT & Human Design Specialist
03:22 – Meg’s journey integrating Human Design with OT
07:31 – Why parents should start with understanding themselves
10:49 – Sleep & Human Design: Types, rhythms & routines
19:00 – Feeding based on design: Digestion types explained
25:34 – Ambience, sound & light: The sensory side of Human Design
29:08 – Environments & how they influence your child’s play
35:37 – Understanding defined vs. open centers in the chart
43:41 – Rapid-fire Q&A with Meg
45:59 – Final thoughts: Raising kids by their design

🎁 Want to learn your Human Design?
👉 Click here to grab your free chart

📋Want to go deeper? Grab the FREE Human Design 101 Cheat Sheet here.

📘 Want more support for your baby and on your mothering journey? Grab Kaili’s book Mothering From Within

🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with another mama who’s ready to parent with more ease and alignment.

Ep. 35 | The Human Design Basics Every Mama Needs to Know02 Apr 202500:13:48

Welcome to another episode of Mothering From Within with Kaili Ets—pediatric occupational therapist, holistic baby guru, and your go-to guide for intuitive parenting.

In this special episode, Kaili kicks off a brand-new mini-series on Human Design for parents. If you’ve ever wondered why one of your children needs constant motion to settle while another craves calm predictability, Human Design might just be the insight you've been missing.

You'll learn:
 💫 What Human Design actually is (and why it’s such a powerful parenting tool)
 💫 The basics of the five energy types: Manifestors, Generators, Manifesting Generators, Projectors, and Reflectors
 💫 How to better understand your baby’s behaviors, sensitivities, and sleep needs
 💫 Real-life ways to support your little one based on their unique design

Whether you're brand new to Human Design or just starting to explore it, this episode will help you feel more aligned, confident, and connected to your child.

Episode Highlights:
00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:11 – What is Human Design and how can it help you parent more intuitively?
02:31 – The foundations: How your baby's birth details create a unique design
05:08 – The 5 Energy Types explained (Manifestors, Generators, Manifesting Generators, Projectors, Reflectors)
09:13 – How to apply Human Design to daily parenting and sleep routines
10:28 – The big takeaway: There’s nothing wrong with your baby—or your parenting
12:47 – Where to go next and how to grab your free Human Design chart

🎁 Click here to grab your FREE Human Design Chart for you and your baby
📋Want to go deeper? Grab the FREE Human Design 101 Cheat Sheet here.

📘 Want more support for your baby and on your mothering journey? Grab Kaili’s book Mothering From Within
🎙️ Don’t miss next week’s episode featuring Human Design expert & OT Meg as we go deeper into parenting with design

Ep.34: Better Baby Sleep—No Sleep Training Required12 Mar 202500:17:30

Hey, mama! Struggling with baby sleep and wondering if there's a way to get longer stretches without sleep training? You’re not alone! In this episode of Mothering From Within, I’m breaking down baby sleep in a way that actually makes sense—no rigid rules, just real, practical strategies that work with your baby’s natural rhythms.

We’ll talk about:
 ✔️ The real reasons your baby might not be sleeping well (spoiler: it’s not just about bad habits!)
✔️ Simple tweaks to your baby's sleep space—like temperature, lighting, and sound—that make a huge difference
✔️ Why fresh air and movement during the day can lead to better sleep at night
✔️ How your own energy and emotions can impact your baby’s sleep (and what to do about it)
✔️ Creating a flexible routine that works for your family, without stress or pressure

If you're tired of hearing that the only way to get more sleep is through sleep training, this episode will give you the confidence and tools to follow your instincts and support your baby’s sleep in a way that feels good for both of you.

Want More Support? Let’s Work Together!

✨ Book a Right-Fit Call – Let’s chat and figure out the best sleep support for you!
✨ Grab the Sleep Make-Over Guide – My easy-to-follow guide to help your baby sleep better, without sleep training.
✨ Join the Mothering From Within Collective – Get ongoing support, expert guidance, and a community of like-minded mamas.


Episode Breakdown:

00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:17 – Let’s talk baby sleep—again!
01:51 – The truth about why babies wake up
05:29 – Setting up the perfect sleep space
08:56 – How to create a routine without pressure
11:45 – Why outdoor time is a game changer
13:51 – Your energy matters—here’s why
15:41 – Final thoughts & how I can support you


Listen in and let me know—what’s been your biggest baby sleep struggle? DM me on Instagram @TheHolisticBabyGuru and let’s chat! 💛

Ep.33: Baby Sleep Problems? Or Is It Something Else? The Hidden Causes Parents Miss05 Mar 202500:15:57

In this episode of Mothering From Within, host Kaili Ets, a mom and pediatric occupational therapist, dives into the complex world of baby sleep. Kaili addresses common sleep challenges and their root causes—such as reflux, feeding issues, body tension, cranial nerve compression, sensory processing, temperament, and developmental progressions. She offers holistic solutions and emphasizes the importance of understanding your baby's unique needs. Tune in for valuable insights on improving your baby's sleep without resorting to traditional sleep training methods.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:11 Understanding Baby Sleep

03:39 Common Sleep Disruptors

04:34 Addressing Feeding Issues

05:28 Body Tension and Cranial Nerve Compression

07:12 Sensory Processing and Temperament

09:04 Food Sensitivities and Nutrient Deficiencies

10:23 Developmental Progressions and Separation Anxiety

11:30 Teething, Illness, and Connection

12:55 Holistic Support and Professional Guidance

14:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


Stay in Touch With Kaili


Want to learn more about these red flags and root causes? Grab my 'What's Wrong With My Baby?' E-book here.


If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.


Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast.  There is a ton of amazing content coming your way, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.  Follow now.

 

Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Sleep Training Research: What Most Experts Won’t Tell You (w/ Macall Gordon)18 Feb 202500:22:43

In this episode of Mothering From Within, host Kaili Ets sits down with McCall Gordon, a researcher with a background in human biology and applied psychology, as well as a certified gentle sleep coach. Together, they uncover the surprising gaps in sleep training research and discuss how temperament plays a crucial role in baby sleep.

McCall challenges mainstream sleep training advice, explaining why popular methods—like Ferber—fail to account for more alert, sensitive, and intense babies. She also sheds light on why sleep research is often misleading, how it impacts parents, and why a one-size-fits-all approach to sleep isn’t the answer.

This conversation is essential listening for parents who have ever wondered:

  • Why doesn’t sleep training work for my baby?
  • What does the research actually say about baby sleep?
  • How can I trust my instincts and make informed choices?

Join Kaili and McCall as they debunk myths, expose flaws in common sleep advice, and empower parents to embrace responsive, instinctual caregiving.


00:03 – Meet McCall Gordon: Researcher & Gentle Sleep Coach
01:35 – The Challenges of Conducting Sleep Research
02:38 – Why Most Sleep Training Advice Fails to Consider Temperament
05:53 – The Impact of Misinformation on Parents
11:55 – How Temperament Shapes Sleep Patterns
16:16 – Why Many Sleep Training Methods Don’t Work
18:06 – Final Thoughts & Encouragement for Parents

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To learn more about the parenting programs & support that Macall's offers:

  

Stay in Touch With Kaili

  

If today's conversation sparked something inside you and you're eager to dive deeper, my book "Mothering From Within" is waiting to take you on that journey. Like a good friend, therapist, and mentor, this book offers guidance and support to help you navigate motherhood with intuition, grace, and yes, a bit of humor. It's full of evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate, attachment-focused information on developmental milestones, baby sleep, reflux, feeding, mama mental health, and so much more. To grab a copy just head over to Amazon, www.kailiets.com/book, or your favourite online bookstore.

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast.  There is a ton of amazing content coming your way, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.  Follow now.

Ep 31. The Truth About Sleep Training: History, Myths & A Holistic Approach11 Feb 202500:22:05

In this episode of Mothering From Within, host Kaili Ets takes you on a deep dive into the history of sleep training—from its origins in the late 19th century to today’s evolving perspectives. You’ll learn about different sleep training methods like cry-it-out, controlled crying, and more gentle alternatives, while also uncovering the surprising roots of these approaches.

Kaili challenges outdated sleep training philosophies—many of which were developed by white men with little to no hands-on caregiving experience—and sheds light on a growing movement that prioritizes responsive, attachment-focused, and developmentally appropriate sleep strategies.

If you’ve ever questioned mainstream sleep advice or felt torn about what’s “right” for your baby, this episode will help you trust your instincts, understand the holistic needs of both you and your little one, and make informed choices that truly align with your family’s values.

🔹 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The origins of sleep training & how it has evolved over time
  • Why some common sleep advice doesn’t consider a baby’s biological needs
  • The controversy around sleep research & sleep training methods
  • How responsive and holistic sleep approaches support both baby and parent

🎧 Tune in and empower yourself to make the best sleep decisions for your family!

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Introduction: Why we’re diving into sleep training history
00:35 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:44 – How sleep training became mainstream
05:22 – Modern shifts in sleep training perspectives
06:58 – The science, controversies, and gaps in sleep research
08:44 – Breaking down popular sleep training methods
15:15 – A holistic, responsive approach to baby sleep
18:56 – Final thoughts & encouragement
21:01 – Resources & next steps

💛 If this episode resonated with you, share it with another mama who needs to hear it!


Stay in Touch With Kaili


Are you struggling with your baby's sleep? Grab my free Sleepy Time Checklist, a carefully curated checklist to help you optimize your baby's sleep.  This is the checklist that I mentally go through with all my 1:1 clients when designing their customized sleep plans.


Grab a copy of my book "Mothering From Within". Like a good friend, therapist, and mentor, this book offers guidance and support to help you navigate motherhood with intuition, grace, and yes, a bit of humor. It's full of evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate, attachment-focused information on developmental milestones, baby sleep, reflux, feeding, mama mental health, and so much more.


Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast.  There is a ton of amazing content coming your way, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.  Follow now.

 

Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep 30. Getting Baby Sleep Back on Track After the Holidays (or Travel or Illness)04 Feb 202500:11:14

You may have noticed that this episode is arriving a little later than planned. I had originally intended for it to air at the beginning of January, but life had other plans. I took the past month to navigate my father’s illness and passing, stepping back to process, grieve, and be present with my family. While the holidays are now behind us, I know many of you are still working on getting your baby’s sleep back on track—whether after travel, illness, or routine disruptions. The good news? These tips are just as relevant now as they were in early January.

In this episode of 'Mothering from Within,' host Kaili Ets, a pediatric occupational therapist and mother of two, discusses how to re-establish your baby's sleep routine after the holiday season. Kaili shares practical, gentle tips such as re-establishing familiar routines, using natural light to reset circadian rhythm, creating a calming sleep environment, addressing sleep crutches with grace, managing overstimulation, and being patient with the transition. The episode emphasizes a holistic approach to baby sleep and encourages mothers to trust their instincts while making adjustments that feel right for both them and their baby.

00:00 Welcome to Mothering From Within

01:09 Holiday Sleep Disruptions

03:34 Re-establishing Baby's Routine

04:22 Using Circadian Rhythms

05:34 Creating a Calming Sleep Environment

06:27 Addressing Sleep Crutches

07:27 Managing Overstimulation

08:07 Personal Experience and Encouragement

08:52 Patience and Support

10:08 Conclusion and Next Steps


Stay in Touch With Kaili


Click here to check out my FREE Rest Easy Workshop! In this on-demand workshop, I’ll show you how to support your baby’s sleep without traditional sleep training while trusting your instincts and finding peace in those sleepless nights. 

If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast.  There is a ton of amazing content coming your way, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.  Follow now.

Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep.29: The Power of Mama Instincts - Wrapping Up 2024 and Why 2025 Is Your Year To Thrive31 Dec 202400:11:50

In the final episode of 2024, Kaili Ets, occupational therapist and holistic baby guru, encourages mothers to trust their instincts and offers actionable tips for navigating motherhood with confidence. Reflecting on highlights from the 'Mothering From Within' podcast since its launch, Kaili shares advice on tuning out overwhelming parenting noise, making gentle changes, and finding the right support. Listen in as she empowers mamas to trust themselves and embrace their unique parenting journey as they step into 2025.

00:00 Introduction 

01:25 Final Episode of 2024: Trusting Your Mama Instincts

01:56 Empowering Your Parenting Journey

04:55 Actionable Tips To Help You Trust Your Instincts

08:05 Reflecting on Podcast Highlights

09:36 Looking Ahead to 2025

10:13 Join the Mothering From Within Collective


Click here to grab your free hypnosis meditation to help you reconnect with that inner wisdom and trust yourself to navigate motherhood with ease.


If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Ep.28: Top 5 Reasons Your Baby Isn’t Sleeping Through the Night24 Dec 202400:11:02

In this episode of Mothering from Within, host Kaili Ets, a mom and pediatric occupational therapist, discusses five common reasons why babies struggle with sleep. She discusses underlying issues like reflux, body tension, sensory processing differences, overtiredness, and the reality of normal infant sleep patterns. Kaili emphasizes looking beyond traditional sleep training methods and understanding root causes to better support both baby and parent's rest.

00:00 Introduction

01:17 Why Your Baby Isn't Sleeping Through the Night

02:52 Top Reasons for Baby Sleep Struggles

04:08 Addressing Body Tension and Sensory Processing

06:20 Overtiredness vs. Undertiredness

07:39 Biologically Normal Infant Sleep

08:33 Summary and Workshop Invitation

09:42 Closing Thoughts and Community Invitation



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Register for the FREE Red Flags & Root Causes Workshop to gain valuable insights into identifying red flags in your baby's development, sleep, and daily functioning. This is ideal for parents who want to better understand their baby’s needs and address concerns proactively.  Click here to register today!


If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Ep.27 | The Nurture Revolution: How Early Parenting Shapes Your Baby's Brain with Dr. Greer Kirschenbaum10 Dec 202400:35:37

In this  episode of the Mothering From Within podcast, Kaili Ets sits down with Dr. Greer Kirshenbaum, a neuroscientist, doula, and author, to explore the profound impact of early nurturing practices on children's brain development and mental health. 

Dr. Greer shares her personal journey, from her own high-needs babyhood to becoming an expert in infant sleep and brain growth. Through their in-depth conversation, listeners will gain insights into the pivotal role of responsive parenting, understanding baby's brain development, and the transformative experience of parenthood. 

Tune in to discover practical tips on reducing stress for both babies and parents, and how to embrace the nurturing approach for a healthier, more resilient family.


00:00 Introduction to Dr. Greer Kirshenbaum

00:54 Dr. Greer's Early Life and Influences

03:51 The Science of Early Brain Development

06:41 Motherhood Journey and Personal Experiences

09:57 The Nurture Revolution: Mission and Insights

19:55 Practical Tips for Reducing Stress

24:32 Understanding Baby Sleep Through Neuroscience

31:53 Rapid Fire Questions and Conclusion


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Click here to grab a copy of Kaili's book, Mothering From Within, to help you reconnect with that inner wisdom and trust yourself to navigate motherhood with ease.

 

If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Ep. 26: Why Your Baby's Sleep Needs Connection, Not Sleep Training03 Dec 202400:13:20

In this episode, Kaili addresses the immense stress that sleep issues can bring to early parenthood. She empathizes with the struggles of trying various sleep methods without success and offers reassurance by introducing a holistic approach to baby sleep. This approach focuses on connection, responsiveness, and meeting both the baby's and the parent's needs, without relying on traditional sleep training methods. Kaili shares her personal journey with her son and emphasizes the importance of following your instincts and creating a safe, nurturing environment for your baby. She also debunks common myths about 'bad habits' like nursing to sleep, rocking, and bed sharing, and advocates for a developmental, responsive approach to parenting. Tune in for an insightful discussion on getting more rest while honouring your and your baby's natural needs.

00:00 Welcome to the Mothering From Within Podcast

01:22 Personal Sleep Journey with My Son

04:01 Understanding Holistic Sleep Support

07:17 Debunking Sleep Myths and Crutches

09:34 The Importance of Responsive Parenting

11:03 Final Thoughts and Resources


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Click here to grab your free hypnosis meditation to help you reconnect with that inner wisdom and trust yourself to navigate motherhood with ease.

If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

Grab a copy of the Mothering From Within book - https://www.kailiets.com/book

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Ep.25: Gentle Touch, Big Impact: Craniosacral Therapy Benefits for Babies and Mamas with Guest Meaghan Beames19 Nov 202400:26:44

In this special episode, host Kaili Ets revisits a deeply insightful conversation with her friend, colleague, and mentor, Meaghan Beames of My Baby CST. 

Together, they explore the gentle and transformative practice of craniosacral therapy, its origins, and its benefits for both babies and mothers. 

Meaghan shares her journey from being a registered massage therapist to a dedicated craniosacral therapist, and how her passion for helping babies and postpartum individuals has led her to open BEAM's CST training center. 

The episode dives into the physical and emotional impacts of craniosacral therapy, practical tips for mothers, and emphasizes the importance of seeking specialized practitioners for infants. This conversation sheds light on how early therapeutic intervention can greatly benefit overall health and well-being.

00:00 Introduction

00:12 Meet Meaghan Beames: Mentor and Infant Craniosacral Therapist

02:38 Understanding Craniosacral Therapy

04:44 Meaghan's Journey into Craniosacral Therapy

06:56 How Craniosacral Therapy Works

12:14 Common Issues Addressed by Craniosacral Therapy

16:00 Emotional Release and Craniosacral Therapy

20:17 Tips for Mamas and Final Thoughts

23:32 Where to Find Meaghan and Conclusion


To learn more about Meaghan and the support she provides to families and clinicians:



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If you think your baby might have some body tension, click here to grab my free Baby Body Bliss Guide to help your baby at home.

 

If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!


We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Ep. 24: Body Tension in Babies: A Hidden Cause of Feeding, Development, & Sleep Struggles05 Nov 202400:12:39

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within', host Kaili Ets uncovers the crucial topic of body tension in babies and its impact on their movement, sleep, and feeding. 

Learn what body tension is, how to identify it, and discover simple home strategies and professional interventions to help your baby thrive.

Tune in to understand how releasing body tension can support your baby's development and overall well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:09 Recap and Preview

01:48 Understanding Body Tension in Babies

03:33 Impact of Body Tension on Feeding

05:18 Body Tension and Developmental Milestones

06:20 Body Tension and Sleep

07:25 Identifying and Addressing Body Tension

08:21 Home Strategies for Releasing Body Tension

09:51 Professional Help for Body Tension

10:43 Conclusion and Resources


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Click her to grab my  free Baby Body Bliss Guide to assess your baby at home and get started with some tips on how to help release that tension.


If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

  

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep.23: Tongue-Ties & Torticollis with Occupational Therapist, Kelsey Baker22 Oct 202400:42:40

Join host Kaili Ets as she chats with Kelsey, an occupational therapist and founder of B.WellTOTs. Kelsey shares her inspiring journey from early intervention to specializing in pediatric feeding and tongue ties. Together, they discuss the holistic approach to pediatric care, the challenges of motherhood, and the nuances of oral dysfunctions, including tongue ties and torticollis. 

Learn about the interconnectedness of body alignment, feeding positions, and overall health. 

Discover the importance of comprehensive assessments, multidisciplinary teams, and the roles various therapists play in addressing children's developmental challenges. 

This episode is packed with insights and valuable tips for parents navigating similar obstacles, and it highlights the significance of understanding and addressing mouth breathing and oral motor issues in babies and toddlers.

00:00 Introduction & meet Kelsey from BeWellTOTs

01:48 Kelsey's Journey into Pediatric Occupational Therapy

05:06 The Importance of Tongue Ties

16:27 Signs and Symptoms of Oral Dysfunction

20:08 Correlation Between Tongue Tie and Torticollis

23:55 Addressing Parental Guilt

24:35 Mouth Breathing and Open Mouth Posture

25:39 The Importance of Nasal Breathing

30:45 Therapies and Treatments for Tongue Ties

38:01 Get To Know Kelsey even more

39:54 Final Thoughts and Takeaways


// About Kelsey

Kelsey, owner and founder of B.well tots, started the practice as a solo-provider in 2020. Kelsey's vision of her practice was to become the support she wished she'd had as a new parent, and has mostly succeeded in doing so. We help little ones breathe, move, feed, and thrive better every day. 

To learn more about the parenting programs & support that Kelsey offers


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If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!


We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep.22: How Tongue-Ties Impact Feeding, Development & Sleep08 Oct 202400:16:11

In this episode of the Mothering From Within podcast, host Kaili Ets, a pediatric occupational therapist, delves into understanding tongue ties, known as ankyloglossia, and their potential impact on breastfeeding, reflux, and overall baby development. Kaili emphasizes that a tongue tie release is not a quick fix, but part of addressing broader feeding and developmental challenges. Highlighting the importance of a holistic approach, the episode covers signs of tongue ties, such as feeding difficulties and sleep disruptions, and underscores the need for functional assessments and post-release care. Kaili provides listeners with a downloadable checklist to track symptoms and identifies the connection between tongue function and full-body health. This episode encourages mothers to adopt a comprehensive, instinct-trusting approach to parenting challenges.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:22 Understanding Tongue Ties

03:56 Signs and Symptoms of Tongue Ties

05:10 Tongue Ties and Reflux

08:04 Impact on Sleep and Development

09:55 Functional Assessment and Treatment

11:32 Post-Release Care and Expectations

13:56 Conclusion and Next Steps

 
Don’t forget to check out my free ‘Tongue-Tie Symptoms Checklist’ in the description below. It’s a helpful tool to understand the signs of how a tongue-tie may be impacting your baby ---> https://bit.ly/tongue-tie-symptoms

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If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep.21: Nervous System Regulation for Babies: Why It Matters and How to Help24 Sep 202400:26:33

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' Kaili Ets, a mom and pediatric occupational therapist, explores how understanding your baby's nervous system can help create a deeper sense of security and connection. She introduces the polyvagal theory, explaining the different states of the autonomic nervous system—green (safe and connected), red (fight or flight), and blue (shutdown). Kaili offers practical tips for helping your baby navigate these states, such as creating a predictable environment, supporting their vagal tone, and regulating your own nervous system. This episode is packed with valuable insights to help make the early years of motherhood more manageable and rewarding.


00:00 Introduction to Mothering from Within

01:41 Understanding Your Baby's Nervous System

03:03 The Polyvagal Theory Explained

05:13 Applying the Polyvagal Theory to Parenting

11:42 The Importance of Vagal Tone

21:56 Practical Tips for Supporting Your Baby

24:19 Conclusion and Support Resources


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If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.


Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep.20: Quick Tools Every Overwhelmed Mom Needs to Stay Calm and Balanced With Bethany Dejarnatt10 Sep 202400:30:02

In this episode, Kaili chats with Bethany, about tools to reduce and regulate the nervous system, especially for adults (that's you mamas!) experiencing sensory overwhelm.

They discuss practical methods like I AM statements, EFT tapping, and specific breathwork techniques to help mamas find calm and confidence amidst the chaos of early motherhood. This conversation is packed with actionable insights for moms looking to enhance their well-being and trust their instincts.

Bethany is a holistic Occupational Therapist passionate about sharing power tools with the world! Power tools include EFT Tapping, Breathwork, Positive Affirmation and somatic release tools. Learning these powerful nervous system supporters and how Bethany has combined them together as "Power Tools" to quickly jumpstart your nervous system into a state of ease, confidence and regulation. Helping overstimulated adults feel empowered through your senses with Sensory Empower.

Key Takeaways:

  • How sensory overload and nervous system dysregulation impact moms.
  • The power of I Am Statements in boosting confidence and reconnecting with your intuition.
  • How to use EFT Tapping to calm your body and mind in moments of stress.
  • Practical belly breathing techniques to reset your nervous system.
  • The importance of co-regulation between you and your baby.

Don't miss out, grab a cup of tea, and let's dive in together!


00:00 Introduction to Mothering from Within

01:11 Meet Our Guest Expert: Bethany

03:14 Understanding Nervous System Regulation

05:22 The Power of I Am Statements

12:01 Incorporating EFT Tapping

16:47 Breathwork Techniques for Moms

24:51 Rapid Fire Questions with Bethany

29:57 Conclusion


To learn more about the sensory supports that Bethany offers:

 

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Click here to grab your free hypnosis meditation to help you reconnect with that inner wisdom and trust yourself to navigate motherhood with ease.

  

If you are ready to take a courageous step towards doing motherhood your way, The Mothering From Within Collective is waiting with open arms to help you get curious about your parenting values, tune into your mama instincts, gain clarity about baby sleep, development, reflux and more, so that you can be the confident supermom you have always dreamed of!

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

Ep.19: Sleep Strategies For High Needs Kids with Macall Gordon (Part 2)03 Sep 202400:26:50

This episode (19) of 'Mothering From Within,' is part 2 of the interview with Macall Gordon, a seasoned expert with extensive research on temperament and sleep. 

Kaili and Macall discuss why high needs or intense children struggle with sleep and why "self-soothing" is not the goal for sleep. They emphasize that it's more about the child's unique system rather than a lack of skills. Macall introduces actionable sleep strategies, to help parents maintain consistency and manage bedtime routines effectively. 

The conversation also highlights the importance of understanding temperament traits and provides practical advice for parents feeling overwhelmed. Tune in for invaluable insights into making sleep a better experience for both parents and high needs children.

00:00 Introduction & Welcome

02:38 Diving into Sleep Strategies for High Needs Babies

06:31 Consistency and Patience in Sleep Training

10:03 The Importance of Predictability and Routine

12:34 Special Time and Filling the Attention Bucket

15:11 Adapting Bedtime Routines for Different Ages

17:49 McCall Gordon's New Book: Why Won't You Sleep?

25:48 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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If today's conversation sparked something inside you and you're eager to dive deeper, my book "Mothering From Within" is waiting to take you on that journey. Like a good friend, therapist, and mentor, this book offers guidance and support to help you navigate motherhood with intuition, grace, and yes, a bit of humor. It's full of evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate, attachment-focused information on developmental milestones, baby sleep, reflux, feeding, mama mental health, and so much more. To grab a copy just head over to Amazon, www.kailiets.com/book, or your favourite online bookstore.

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.



Ep.18: Understanding Your Child's Temperament and Sleep with Macall Gordon (Part 1)27 Aug 202400:27:49

In this episode of 'Mothering from Within,' host Kaili Ets chats with sleep expert and researcher Macall Gordon about how understanding your child's temperament can significantly impact their sleep patterns. 

Macall shares her journey into this field sparked by her own challenging experiences as a mother and then chats about the nuanced differences in a child's temperament, the impact these traits have on sleep, and why traditional sleep training methods may not work for all kids. 

Practical advice is given on recognizing signs of specific temperaments and understanding the importance of a consistent approach, while emphasizing the need for a deeper curiosity to identify underlying causes of sleep disturbances.

00:00 Understanding Your Child's Temperament

00:23 Introduction to the Podcast

01:30 Meet Our Expert: McCall Gordon

02:52 McCall's Journey into Temperament and Sleep

04:18 The Challenges of Parenting Spirited Children

06:43 The Impact of Temperament on Sleep

07:26 Strategies for Supporting Sleep

16:31 The Importance of Consistency and Realistic Expectations

18:44 Exploring Root Causes of Sleep Issues

23:22 Conclusion and Next Steps

23:56 Rapid Fire Questions with McCall Gordon

26:39 Where to Find More About McCall Gordon

27:26 Closing Remarks

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To learn more about the parenting programs & support that Macall's offers:

  

Stay in Touch With Kaili

  

If today's conversation sparked something inside you and you're eager to dive deeper, my book "Mothering From Within" is waiting to take you on that journey. Like a good friend, therapist, and mentor, this book offers guidance and support to help you navigate motherhood with intuition, grace, and yes, a bit of humor. It's full of evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate, attachment-focused information on developmental milestones, baby sleep, reflux, feeding, mama mental health, and so much more. To grab a copy just head over to Amazon, www.kailiets.com/book, or your favourite online bookstore.

 

We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast.  There is a ton of amazing content coming your way, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.  Follow now.

 

Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep.17: Understanding Your Baby's Unique Temperament20 Aug 202400:30:54

In this episode of the Mothering From Within podcast, Kaili chats about the different temperaments of babies. 

She explains the nine main personality traits that shape a child's temperament, their influence on daily functioning and sleep, and how understanding them can empower parents in nurturing their child. 

Kaili discusses the 4 'main categories' of these temperaments - easy-going, active, cautious, and highly sensitive, offering practical insights and tips on how to support each type. 

The episode emphasizes the importance of responsive parenting and creating environments tailored to each child's unique needs for their optimal growth and development.

00:00 Introduction to Baby Temperaments

01:29 Understanding Unique Baby Preferences

04:24 The Nine Personality Traits

11:12 Exploring Temperament Categories

13:21 Easy-Going and Active Babies

18:51 Cautious and Highly Sensitive Babies

23:23 Orchid and Dandelion Children

25:10 Parenting Strategies and Reframing

28:48 Conclusion and Resources


Stay in Touch With Kaili


If today's conversation sparked something inside you and you're eager to dive deeper, my book "Mothering From Within" is waiting to take you on that journey. Like a good friend, therapist, and mentor, this book offers guidance and support to help you navigate motherhood with intuition, grace, and yes, a bit of humor. It's full of evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate, attachment-focused information on developmental milestones, baby sleep, reflux, feeding, mama mental health, and so much more. To grab a copy just head over to Amazon, your online book store of choice, or www.kailiets.com/book.


Ever wished for a magic wand to help you understand what’s biologically normal for your baby? The Mothering From Within Collective is a 12-week 'live', high-touch coaching program designed to give you the tools, guidance, and support to understand your baby and yourself on a whole new level! Get curious about yourself and your parenting values, gain clarity around things like baby sleep, development, reflux, sensory processing, uncover an root causes to your baby's challenges, and more, so that you can step into your power do motherhood on your own terms - confidently and courageously — supported, seen, and held. 

https://courses.kailiets.com/mothering-collective

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We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast.  There is a ton of amazing content coming your way, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.  Follow now.

 

Video podcast is also available to watch over on Youtube.

Ep.16: Is Sensory Overwhelm Affecting Your Motherhood Experience? Guest: Tracy Becerra-Culqui13 Aug 202400:32:05

In this episode of 'Mothering from Within,' host Kaili Ets, a mom and pediatric occupational therapist, welcomes guest Tracy, an occupational therapist, professor, and mother. They discuss the importance of understanding sensory processing in both moms and babies, and how it impacts emotional well-being and parenting. 

Tracy shares insights on the polyvagal theory, the challenges of sensory overload, and practical strategies to reset and calm the nervous system. 

Together, they emphasize the value of self-care and its positive effect on parenting. Tune in to learn how to navigate motherhood with greater sensory awareness and resilience.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering from Within

01:12 Meet Our Guest: Tracy, Occupational Therapist

01:48 Tracy's Journey and Passion for Prevention

06:42 Understanding Sensory Overload in Motherhood

07:42 Exploring Polyvagal Theory

11:36 Sensory Processing and Its Impact on Mothers

18:07 Practical Tools for Sensory Regulation

24:07 Rapid Fire Questions with Tracy

29:04 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

31:00 Closing Remarks


Who is Tracy Becerra-Culqui?
As a mom to a rambunctious 6-year-old, Dr. Tracy Becerra-Culqui, occupational therapist, has had to implement sensory strategies and nervous system regulation practices to help settle her own nervous system. Dr. Tracy owns Mom Sensory Magic, is a professor at California State University, Dominguez Hills, specializes in Ayres Sensory Integration, Maternal and Child Health, and has published over 30 scientific articles. She shares how to understand your sensory reactions in motherhood, find what helps you relax or stay alert, and make your nervous system work for you.


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Ep.15: How to Recognize and Manage Your Baby's Sensory Preferences06 Aug 202400:18:48

In this episode of the 'Mothering From Within' podcast, host Kaili Ets, a pediatric occupational therapist and mom of two, discusses the concept of sensory thresholds and how those present in our babies, toddlers, and really every human. 

Building on last week's discussion of sensory processing and the eight senses, Kaili simplifies complex concepts to help parents recognize and address their children's sensory needs. 

From understanding sensory processing disorder to practical strategies for managing different sensory preferences, this episode offers compassionate insights and actionable tips for nurturing your baby's unique sensory world. 


00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:12 Understanding Sensory Thresholds

04:34 Sensory Processing Disorder Explained

09:26 Practical Strategies for Sensory Challenges

13:40 Calming Techniques and Tools

17:16 Final Thoughts and Support


If today's conversation sparked something inside you and you're eager to dive deeper, my book "Mothering From Within" is waiting to take you on that journey. Like a good friend, therapist, and mentor, this book offers guidance and support to help you navigate motherhood with intuition, grace, and yes, a bit of humor. It's full of evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate, attachment-focused information on developmental milestones, baby sleep, reflux, feeding, mama mental health, and so much more. To grab a copy just head over to www.kailiets.com/book, Amazon, or your favourite online bookstore.


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We want to hear from you! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @theholisticbabyguru. Every month I choose a lucky listener to win a signed copy of my book - Mothering From Within.

 

Please consider rating and reviewing my show!  This helps me support more people --- just like you --- move toward more confidence and courage to do motherhood so that you can watch the stress and overwhelm start to melt away. Be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode!

 

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