Explore every episode of the podcast Modern Anarchy
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| 191. Relationship Anarchy and The Romance Myth with Dean Spade | 25 Dec 2024 | 01:19:20 | |
On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and capitalist understandings of connection. Together we talk about building community outside of the nuclear model, choosing to be uncomfortable in order to live more, and feeling powerless to jealousy. If you are also interested in participating in the research on Relationship Anarchy and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/191-relationship-anarchy-and-the-romance-myth-with-dean-spade Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 | |||
| 190. Claiming Each Other Across the Divide with Lorie Solis | 18 Dec 2024 | 01:10:29 | |
On today’s episode, we have Lorie Solis (she/her) join us for a conversation about the revolutionary power of softening. Together we talk about healing intergenerational trauma, stepping into embodiment, and the transformation of belonging. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/190-claiming-each-other-across-the-divide-with-lorie-solis Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Lorie's Community: | |||
| 181. Relationship Anarchist: Monica Davis | 16 Oct 2024 | 01:36:37 | |
On today’s episode, we have Monica Davis (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research episode. Together we talk about the life goal of fluidity, the power of sexual liberation, and the process of compassionate deconstruction. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/181-relationship-anarchist-monica-davis Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Monica Davis: Monica goes by many labels: Scientist, Instructor, Mother, Partner, Daughter, Advocate, and Survivor. These are labels I choose because they are accessible to others. RA has allowed me to deconstruct the "normal" of these labels and communicate my definition and use in my lived reality. | |||
| 91. What Is The Most Pleasurable Sex You've Experienced? with Annie Philpott | 18 Jan 2023 | 00:59:13 | |
On today's episode, we have the founder of The Pleasure Project, Anne Philpott (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about the liberation of pleasure. Together we talk about the declaration on sexual pleasure, the seven pleasure principles, and changing the paradigm of sex education. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Anne's Community: Resources to Learn more Declaration on Sexual Pleasure 10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex Women who have fewer orgasms expect and desire less during sex with their partners | |||
| 90. How About Swinging? Pegging, Prostate Orgasms, and the Bisexual Man with Cooper Beckett | 11 Jan 2023 | 01:17:15 | |
On today's episode, we have sex educator and writer Cooper Beckett (he/him) join us for a conversation all about transformative sexual experiences. Together we talk about the spectrum of non-monogamy, sitting with the scary questions, and having the license to be ourselves. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Cooper's Community: Resources to Learn More: Open Relationships Are More Popular Than You Might Think | |||
| 89. Burning The Holy Mormon Underwear: Kink, Community, and the God Complex with Madazon | 04 Jan 2023 | 00:58:17 | |
On today's episode, performing artist and dominatrix Madazon (They/Them) joins us for a conversation about a different understanding of community. Together we talk about the fear of expansive love, being a sacred interrupter, and deconstructing the god complex. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Madazon's Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 88. The Revolution is Now: Are We Ready to Flip The Board of Capitalism? with Kori Doty | 21 Dec 2022 | 01:25:15 | |
On today's episode, Kori Doty (They/Them/Theirs) joins us for a conversation about how the system keeps us disconnected. Together we talk about having a full relationship with our body, time-traveler trouble, and noticing the costs of capitalism. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Kori's Community: Resources to Learn More: The Link Between Dopamine and ADHD These TikTok Creators Say They’re Still Being Suppressed for Posting Black Lives Matter Content TikTok Admits It Suppressed Videos by Disabled, Queer, and Fat Creators | |||
| 87. Stop Waiting for Others to Validate Your Shine: A New Paradigm of Healing and Spirituality with Eduardo Viezca | 14 Dec 2022 | 01:02:00 | |
On today's episode, love and relationship coach and psychotherapist, Eduardo Viezca (He/They/King) joins us for a conversation about a new paradigm of healing and spirituality. Together we talk about integrating the transpersonal within western modalities of therapy, following spiritual bread crumbs, and leaning into the beauty of our imperfection. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Eduardo's Community: Resources to Learn More: Understand Your Dreams by Using Jung's “Active Imagination” How the mixed-race mestizo myth warped science in Latin America The Wounded Healer as Cultural Archetype Jung and the Archetype of the Wounded Healer Eliminating Microaggressions: The Next Level of Inclusion | Tiffany Alvoid | TEDxOakland | |||
| 86. Am I Cutting Off My Identity By Only Having Sex with One Person? with Chris K | 07 Dec 2022 | 01:20:44 | |
On today's episode, Chris K (any pronouns) joins us for a vulnerable conversation about their journey into the liberation of polyamory and unfolding the matrix. Together we talk about the expansiveness of connection, the surrender and trust needed to find security in change, and how our identity shifts through relationships. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 85. Embracing Your Sluthood and Geeking Out About Relationship Anarchy with Brian Gibney | 30 Nov 2022 | 01:12:23 | |
On today's episode, we have surrogate partner and intimacy coach Brian Gibney (He\Him) join us for a conversation all about fully embracing your sluthood through relationship anarchy. Together we talk about reinventing yourself with radical vulnerability, waving your freak flag, and finding security in the gift that you are in your relationships. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Brian's Community: Resources to Learn More: Can You Be Asexual, but Also Enjoy Kink? Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Come as You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life | |||
| 84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade | 23 Nov 2022 | 01:18:34 | |
On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (He\Him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and capitalist understandings of connection. Together we talk about building community outside of the nuclear model, choosing to be uncomfortable in order to live more, and feeling powerless to jealousy. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Dean Spade's Community Resources to Learn More: Falling In Love Hits The Brain Like Cocaine Does The Brain Looks The Same When We're In Love Or High On Cocaine What is the Relationship Escalator? Loneliness at epidemic levels in America Angela Davis likens abolishing the prison system to end of slavery Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Between monogamy and polyamory Relationship anarchy could be about so much more than the freedom to fuck | |||
| 83. Everyone is Alone Together: Celibacy, People Pleasing, and Self-Love with Ally McDowell | 16 Nov 2022 | 01:10:56 | |
On today's episode, Ally McDowell (She\Her) opens up vulnerably about her mental health journey and reconnecting with her body. Together we talk about itching the wound in mental spirals, giving people the opportunity to love us, and the beauty of smoking a bowl and stretching it out. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Resources To Learn More: Cannabis for the Treatment of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: A Report of 3 Cases | |||
| 82. What Is Tantra? with Yoli Maya Yeh | 09 Nov 2022 | 01:09:31 | |
On today's episode, we have educator Yoli Maya Yeh (She\Her) join us for a discussion about the indigenous tradition and enlightenment practice of tantra. Together we talk about how the goddess became a tool of the patriarchy, the warped and reductionist notion of tantra under capitalism, and reaching every moment an orgasm. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Yoli's Community: | |||
| 180. Approaching Sex Deeply and Wholistically with Ellen Heed | 09 Oct 2024 | 01:06:17 | |
On today’s episode, we have sexological body worker Ellen Heed (she/her) join us for a conversation about the expansive mind body connection. Together we talk about the neuroplasticity of erotic pleasure, scar tissue remediation, and grounding in the presence of our breath. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/180-approaching-sex-deeply-and-wholistically-with-ellen-heed Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Ellen's Community: https://www.scartissueremediation.com/ | |||
| 81. Masturbation: It's Amazing and I Can't Tell Anyone About It with Jess DeVries | 02 Nov 2022 | 01:14:23 | |
Activation Warning: Spiritual Trauma On today's episode, Jess DeVries (She\Her) shares her powerful journey from shameful masturbation to relationship anarchy liberation and queering love. Together we talk about the ontological shift of leaving religion, the divine intervention of dating a kinky person, losing your virginity twice, and ABCD... Anal. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Jess's Community: Resources to Learn More: 'I Kissed Dating Goodbye' author: How and why I've rethought dating and purity culture Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion How Does Purity Culture Trauma Impact Sexuality? What It’s Like Being a Relationship Anarchist A Beginner's Guide To Relationship Anarchy: Examples & How To Practice | |||
| 80. Are You Carrying Trauma From a Past Life? with Cai Carvalhaes | 26 Oct 2022 | 00:59:53 | |
On today's episode, PhD candidate Cai Carvalhaes (She\Her) joins us for a conversation all about past life regression. Together we talk about awakening archetypes, fractals and the quantum dimension, and expanding beyond our minds. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: Researchers Create World's First Quantum Fractals The Collective Unconscious – What is It, and Why Should You Care? The Archetypes of the Anima and Animus Water Codes: The Science of Health, Consciousness, and Enlightenment Sean Carroll - What are Observers? Does Consciousness Influence Quantum Mechanics? | |||
| 79. Think BIG and Scare Yourself with Alycia Levels-Moore | 19 Oct 2022 | 00:57:32 | |
On today's episode, artist Alycia Levels-Moore (she\her) join us for a conversation all about calling out the seeds of greatness to becoming our highest self. Together we talk about the importance of having a supportive community, letting go of the victim mentality, and how things just show up when you set your intention. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Alycia's Community: Resources to Learn More: Understanding Boundaries: What Is Projective Identification? Letting Go of Victim Mentality to Heal The Power of Setting Intentions | |||
| 78. A Spiritual Direction Session: What is Spirituality? with Mandie McGlynn | 12 Oct 2022 | 01:21:51 | |
On today's episode, we have spiritual guide Mandie McGlynn (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about finding a safe space to explore what we believe spiritually. Together we talk about how we each have our own sense of what is sacred, the power of the narratives we tell ourselves, and healing from the wounds of spiritual abuse. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Mandie's Community: Resources to Learn More: Tarot therapy: Why some believe the cards can help mental health | |||
| 77. I was the Poster Child for Purity: Asexuality, Spiritual Abuse, and Racism with Trifecta | 05 Oct 2022 | 01:17:01 | |
On today's episode, artist and activist Trifecta (They\Them) joins us for a conversation all about their journey through spiritual abuse to embracing their blackness and asexual identity. Together we talk about why love is missing from Christianity, healing from unhealthy relationships, and fetishzing certain sins. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Trifecta's Community: Resources to Learn More: As a black person, I’m done helping white Christians feel better about race | |||
| 76. Polyamory Is an Equally Bad Decision: Kink, Intersecting Identities, and Power Dynamics with Tien | 28 Sep 2022 | 01:44:48 | |
On today's episode, Tien (They\Them) joins us for a conversation about the beautiful, gorgeous, and complicated ways our identities intersect. Together we talk about their history of 13 years within the kink community, when non-monogamy is not intuitive, and navigating Dom Sub power dynamics in non-monogamy. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Tien's Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 75. Erotic Creativity: Surrogate Partner Therapy, Slowing Down Sex, and Relationship Anarchy with Carlene Ostedgaard | 21 Sep 2022 | 01:08:08 | |
On today's episode, sex and intimacy coach Carlene Ostedgaard (She\Her) joins us for a conversation all about unlocking your erotic creativity. Together we talk about your birthright to sexual expression, going from zero to penetration, and rethinking intimacy in our relationships. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Carlene's Community: Resources to Learn More: What Is Sensate Focus and How Does It Work? 6 Ways Pets Can Improve Your Health The secret to mindful travel? A walk in the woods EcoSexuality: 7 Things You Need To Know About This Sexual Identity | |||
| 74. Sex Work Was The Beginning of My True Healing Journey with Cassie Porter | 14 Sep 2022 | 01:05:11 | |
On today's episode we have somatic sex educator and sexological body worker, Cassie Porter (She\Her), join us for a conversation about moving towards pleasure through sex work. Together we talk about destigmatizing sex work, exploring our kinks, and my fears of a monogamous sex life. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Cassie's Community: Resources to Learn More: What Is Somatic Sex Education? The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity | |||
| 73. The Feminist Sex Wars: Suzie Jones Who Takes a Sexy Selfie is a Slut with Emma Phillips | 07 Sep 2022 | 01:09:53 | |
On today's episode, we have researcher and professional photographer Emma Phillips (she\her) join us for a conversation all about the aesthetics of sexualization. Together we talk about middle class disgust, respectable femininity, and letting go of the male gaze. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Emma's Community: Resources to Learn More: Ariel Levy - Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture Cardi B Won't Let Kulture Hear 'WAP' How to talk to your kids about sex: An age-by-age guide You Don't Have to Freak Out if Your Toddler Masturbates Shadowbanning: Instagram’s Sexual Content Policy Endangers Sex Education | |||
| 72. Contradictions: Pansexuality, Intersecting Identities, and Shadow Sides with Evelyn Kim | 31 Aug 2022 | 00:55:30 | |
On today's episode, Evelyn Kim (she\her) joins us for a conversation about the journey to embracing her expansive queer identity and the intersection of her Korean-American Identity. Together we talk about the shadow side of the LGBTQIA+ and social justice movements, contradictions in cultural identities, and letting people have their own experience of us. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Evelyn's Community: Resources to Learn More: 5 common misconceptions about pansexuality | |||
| 179. Exploring Psychedelics and Intimacy with Jordan Dobrowski | 02 Oct 2024 | 01:12:04 | |
On today’s episode, we have therapist Jordan Dobrowski (she/they) join us for a conversation about the power of psychedelics to deep intimacy with others, with ourselves, and with our collective healing. Together we talk about letting go of the higher dose, the commune retirement plan, and the importance of integration. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/179-psychedelics-and-intimacy-with-jordan-dobrowski Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Jordan's Community: Website: https://willowandleafcounseling.com/ | |||
| 71. Community Building: Masking, Polysecure, and Boundaries as an Act of Love with Jesse Holzman | 24 Aug 2022 | 01:13:03 | |
On today's episode, we have PhD candidate in Sociology Jesse Holzman (they\them) join us for a conversation all about community building and accessibility. Together we talk about living with the lens of autism, being entitled to take up space, and the beautiful rabbit hole of questioning the status quo. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Jesse's Community: Resources to Learn More: A Brief History of Japanese Rope Bondage What to Know About Shibari, the Art of Japanese Rope Bondage Stimming: What It Is and Why People Do It Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy | |||
| 70. Understanding Sex Within Culture: Condoms, Circumcision, and Capitalistic Competition with Amber Mallery | 17 Aug 2022 | 01:07:29 | |
On today's episode, we have certified sex educator Amber Mallery (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about understanding sex within culture. Together we talk about the assumption that all people with penises are aggressive, navigating the use of de-gendered language, and what it means to be a woman. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Amber's Community: Resources to Learn More: How old do you have to be to buy condoms? Comprehensive Sex Education Reduces Teen Pregnancies The average number of sexual partners for men and women in the United States is 7.2 Inside Rwanda’s labia stretching ritual - Gukuna For Her Own Good: Two Centuries of the Experts Advice to Women Feminist Thought and Transcending the Gender Binary | |||
| 69. Guided Masturbation Meditation #2: Solo-Date Night | 10 Aug 2022 | 00:49:54 | |
On today's episode, Nicole leads us on a guided masturbation meditation for people with vulvas to slow down and connect with pleasure. Set aside some intentional time to dive into sensation and deepen your embodiment practice through this act of self-love and self-care! Let's dive in together.. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Explore More: Wearing Socks During Sex Makes You More Likely To Have A Satisfying Orgasm Philips Hue White and Color Ambiance Satisfyer Pro 2 Air-Pulse Clitoris Stimulator | |||
| 68. Independent Sexuality for Women: Relationship Therapy, Navigating Jealousy, and a Look Into the Life of Non-Monogamy with Arushi | 03 Aug 2022 | 00:56:14 | |
On today's episode, we have Arushi (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about navigating the patriarchal construction of monogamy to challenge the status quo. Together we talk about differing from your family value systems, the history of monogamy for women, and navigating non-monogamous relationships. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems: 5 Forces Impacting Our Lives Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage Are Women Neurologically Less Suited for Monogamy than Men? Human sexual desire: Is monogamy natural? Monogamous Marriage throughout History: A Female Perspective | |||
| 67. PORN, PORN, PORN: Masturbation, BDSM, and Safe Words with Alan Mckee | 27 Jul 2022 | 00:44:23 | |
On today's episode, we have researcher and professor Alan Mckee (He\Him) join us for a conversation all about the effects of pornography after 50 years of academic research! Together we talk about the contradictory data about pornography use, informed consent, and life-long sexual learning. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Alan's Community: What Do We Know About the Effects of Pornography After Fifty Years of Academic Research? Resources to Learn More: The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: An Introduction Positionality & Research: How our Identities Shape Inquiry Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape | |||
| 66. I'm a Bionic Bitch: Stepping Into Yourself, Finding Community, and Flow States with Dayna Troisi | 20 Jul 2022 | 00:45:10 | |
On today's episode, we have writer and editor Dayna Troisi (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about celebrating ourselves unapologetically. Together we talk about finding your rhythm with the universe, how the personal is universal, and the gift of community. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Dayna's Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment with Emilee Kerper | 13 Jul 2022 | 01:18:21 | |
On today's episode, we have artist and yogi Emilee Kerper (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about the beautiful complexity that is relationships. Together we talk about healing from attachment trauma through sex work, why we stay in toxic relationships, and the importance of learning to set boundaries. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Emilee's Community: Resources to Learn More: Learning to Lay Down Boundaries 5 Crucial Qualities to Seek in a Partner | |||
| 64. Uncensored Sex Education: Sex Positive Clubs, BDSM, and Fruit Fetish with Anarella Martinez-Madrid | 06 Jul 2022 | 00:57:14 | |
On today's episode, we have artist and founder of The Sex School, Anarella Martinez-Madrid (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about living in the future of liberated sexuality. Together we talk about the sex education you didn't receive in school, qualities to look for in play partners, and navigating open relationships. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Anarella's Community: Resources To Learn More: 7 ways you may be slut-shaming yourself (and why you need to stop) | |||
| 63. What Does It Mean to Be Authentic? Co-Regulating, Existentialism, and Compersion with Mei Zarnitsyna | 29 Jun 2022 | 00:53:37 | |
On today's episode, we have therapist Mei Zarnitsyna (she/her) join us for a conversation all about existential philosophy and finding authenticity. Together we talk about shifting between our rational mind and body wisdom, recognizing the scale of the universe, and the praxis of philosophy and psychology. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund Modern Anarchy Community: Mei's Links: Fundraiser: Free therapy for Ukrainian children and families Resources to Learn More: Jean-Paul Sartre and Existential Choice The Science of Analysis Paralysis Pavlov’s Classical Conditioning Body Wisdom as a Framework for Decision Making It Takes Two: The Role of Co-Regulation in Building Self-Regulation Skills What Do Mirror Neurons Really Do? What Is Compersion? The Polyamory Practice For Rethinking Jealousy | |||
| 62. Public Sex: Out of the Closets and Into the Streets with Gem Cut | 22 Jun 2022 | 01:16:13 | |
On today's episode, we have a conversation with smut writer and exhibitionist Gem Cut (they\them) all about the anarchy behind the queer deconstruction of eroticism and sexuality. Together we talk about reckoning with queer bodies, the personality type of an exhibitionist, and expanding our understanding of sex. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund Modern Anarchy Community: Gem's Community: Resources to Learn More: We Both Laughed In Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan | |||
| 178. Looking in the Mirror of Your Relationships with Dominatrix Eva Oh | 25 Sep 2024 | 01:16:30 | |
On today’s episode, we have dominatrix Eva Oh (she/they) join us for a conversation about the never-ending adventure that is connection. Together we talk about doming yourself, the shifting winds of your erotic desires, and learning to lay back and just feel pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Eva's Community: https://www.youwillpleaseme.com/ Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/youwillplease_me Insta: https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me Twitter: https://x.com/youwillpleaseme | |||
| 61. Wrestling with Questions Around Identity: Sexuality, Gender, and Careers with Betsey Zemke | 15 Jun 2022 | 01:00:38 | |
On today's episode, we have therapist Betsey Zemke (She\They) join us for a conversation about navigating the flux of change. Together we talk about trauma recovery with the pandemic, bird calling your community, and finding contentment within an abundance of choice. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 60. Exploring the Unconscious: Synchronicity, Dreams, and Psychedelic Psychotherapy with Manny Dominguez | 08 Jun 2022 | 01:07:37 | |
On today's episode, we have doctoral candidate and marriage & family therapist, Manny Dominguez (He\Him), who is studying drug assisted psychotherapy. Together we talk about spontaneous mystical experiences, our shadow selves, and learning to decode your personal symbolic language. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund Modern Anarchy Community: Manny's Community: Resources to Learn More: The Dark Night of the Soul (Losing Who We Thought We Were) What Are the Jungian Archetypes? Hippocampal Neurogenesis: Effects of Psychedelic Drugs This Is How Psychedelics Hack the Brain, According to Scientists | |||
| 59. The Intersection of Disability and Sexuality with Robin Wilson Beattie | 01 Jun 2022 | 01:00:29 | |
On today's episode, we have disability activist Robin Wilson Beattie (She\Her) join us for a conversation about navigating being a mom and becoming disabled. Together we talk about internet dating pioneers, wusbands, and defying no. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fundModern Anarchy Community: Robin's Community: Resources to Learn More: Bes - ancient Egyptian dwarf god Millions of disabled Americans could lose federal benefits if they get married | |||
| 58. I'm Definitely Gay: Unholy Sex, Disciplinary Action, and Painting the Mormon Church with Clark Hazel | 25 May 2022 | 01:25:01 | |
On today's episode, we are joined by the polyamorous and kinky non-binary/trans therapist Clark Hazel (They\Them), who shares their vulnerable story of resilience. Together we talk about never getting the lesbian sex talk, the paradoxical logic of the patriarchy, and processing through shame. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/) Modern Anarchy Community: Clark's Community: Resources to Learn More: Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion | |||
| 57. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Ebony Holloway | 18 May 2022 | 01:07:18 | |
On today's episode, we have Ebony Holloway (She\Her) join us for a raw and vulnerable conversation about healing and dealing. Together we talk about emotional integrity, internal vs external processing, and embracing growth even when it hurts. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/) Modern Anarchy Community: Ebony's Community: Resources to Learn More: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Does your body really replace itself every seven years? The Water in You: Water and the Human Body The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma Long Term Physical Health Consequences of Adverse Childhood Experiences | |||
| 56. Building a Relationship Contract: Queer Theory, Kinky Monogamy, and the Relationship Escalator with Tom Doctor | 11 May 2022 | 00:44:10 | |
On today's episode, we have sex and relationship therapist Tom Doctor (He\Them) join us for a conversation all about approaching our relationships with curiosity. Together we talk about the healing nature of community, questioning the "shoulds," and turning our relationship contracts into google docs. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/) Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: Introduction: Antinormativity’s Queer Conventions What is the Relationship Escalator? Timing Is Everything When It Comes To Marriage Counseling Why Every Couple Needs a Relationship Contract From housework to sex, here's how relationship contracts can help couples | |||
| 55. Tuning Into My Embodied Self: Demi-Sexuality, Polyamory, and Somatic Experiencing with Meggie Twible | 04 May 2022 | 01:41:38 | |
On today's episode, we are joined by somatic experiencing therapist, Meggie Twible (She\Her), for a conversation all about slowing down to land in the present. Together we talk about the language of sensation, orienting to pleasure, and working through our fears about polyamory. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/) Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: The bowel and beyond: the enteric nervous system in neurological disorders How to Use All 5 Senses to Beat Stress Mindful Eating: The Art of Presence While You Eat Confirmation Bias in 5 Minutes Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Introduction to Carl Jung - The Psyche, Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems: 5 Forces Impacting Our Lives | |||
| 54. Understanding Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Asexuality, Libido, and Abundant Love with Aubri Lancaster | 27 Apr 2022 | 01:01:56 | |
On today's episode, we have sex educator Aubri Lancaster (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about discovering her Asexual identity. Together we talk about the spectrum of attraction, polyamicable quadracules, and questioning the hierarchy of the nuclear family. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: Aubri's Community: Resources to Learn More: Testosterone Therapy Can Restore Women’s Libido—but Questions Remain Multigenerational Living Creates Warmth and Companionship What is the Relationship Escalator? Marriage, a History: HOW LOVE CONQUERED MARRIAGE Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life Living as a Sex-Favourable Asexual THE ACE AND ARO ADVOCACY PROJECT | |||
| 53. True Crime: Holding Onto What He Could Be vs. What He Was with Jamie Baier | 20 Apr 2022 | 01:16:23 | |
Activation Warning: Stalking, Self-Harm, and Domestic Violence On today's episode, Jamie Baier (She\Her) shares her story behind starting the podcast I Am Not Mentally Ill, But. Together we talk about being a bitch about our boundaries, the hindsight of 20/20, and remembering that we are always doing our best with the skills and resources we have at the time. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: Jamie's Community: Resources to Learn More: Supporting a Friend or Family Member with Mental Health Problems The Body Keeps the Score: Memory and the Evolving Psychobiology of Posttraumatic Stress How to support a friend or family member who’s struggling with their mental health How to Release ‘Emotional Baggage’ and the Tension That Goes with It | |||
| 52. Year One Reflection with Your Host | 13 Apr 2022 | 00:33:53 | |
On today's episode, we are celebrating the one year anniversary of the podcast with a special reflection episode! Settle in with Fat Cat and myself as we reflect on the last year of growth, embarrassment, and bravery. I cannot express enough of my deepest gratitude for each and everyone of you listeners. Sending so much love your way. Talk soon <3 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: | |||
| 177. Relationship Anarchist: Jase Brakoniecki | 18 Sep 2024 | 01:23:45 | |
On today’s episode, we have relationship anarchist Jase Brakoniecki (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview. Together we talk about moving beyond the one hug system, needing to find new pop artists, and the power of disruptive love. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/177-relationship-anarchist-jase-brakoniecki Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Jase's Community: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/braksbeats/ | |||
| 51. Being Transgender is My Super Power with Corey Rae | 06 Apr 2022 | 00:56:11 | |
On today's episode we have activist Corey Rae (She/Her) join us for a conversation about what she has done with the cards she has been dealt to change the lives of others. Together we talk about the oppression and marginalization of the transgender community, the importance of finding our truth and living it out loud, and waking up to our responsibility of advocating for a brighter future. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: Corey Rae's Community: Resources to Learn More: Gender Identity Disparities in Criminal Victimization 2021 is now the deadliest year on record for transgender people ‘Terrible Time For Trans Youth:’ New Survey Spotlights Suicide Attempts — And Hope Transgender Day of Remembrance Neil deGrasse Tyson Explains Why The Sky Is Blue | |||
| 50. I'm a Polyamorous Person in a Monogamous Relationship: Black Holes, Relationship Anarchy, and Queer Deconstruction with Aurora Higgs | 30 Mar 2022 | 01:20:43 | |
On today's episode, we have LGBTQIA+ activist, Aurora Higgs (she/they), join us! Together we talk about escaping the monogamous or polyamorous dichotomy, how men are also victims of the patriarchy, and the humanitarian implications of quantum mechanics. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Aurora's Community: Resources to Learn More: What is the Second Law of Thermodynamics? Astrophysicist Explains Gravity in 5 Levels of Difficulty | WIRED What Is Quantum Cognition, and How Is It Applied to Psychology? White holes: What we know about black holes' neglected twins Scientists Have Found A Way To Make Warp Drives A Reality | |||
| 49. The Creative Expression of Pornography with Lina Bembe | 23 Mar 2022 | 00:52:15 | |
On today's episode we have performer, model, and director Lina Bembe (She/Her) join us for a conversation about our responsibility as ethical consumers to listen to the voices of porn performers. Together we talk about performative sex, stigma around sex work, and the politics of sexuality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Lina's Community: Resources to Learn More: Ethical porn — does it exist and who makes it? Keeping Porn Stars Healthy: A Look Behind The Scenes Of America's X-Rated Industry 'Start low, and go slow': how to talk to your partner about sex Sexual Communication: The Bedrock to Make Your Bed Rock 'Such a Backwards Step': Instagram Is Now Censoring Sex Education Accounts A bill taking aim at online child pornography comes with dangerous tradeoffs | |||