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| 62: Realistic Ways to Create a Magical Holiday Season for Your Family | 20 Oct 2026 | 00:48:11 | |
"It doesn't have to be perfect in order for it to be beautiful. It doesn't have to be perfect in order for it to be special. It doesn't have to be perfect in order for it to be memorable. It's not about everything being perfect. It's about everyone being together and making memories. Focus on being present, not perfect." - Stephanie Booe The holidays can bring on a whole new level of stress, making us feel inadequate if we don't have picture perfect table scapes or photo worthy trips to the pumpkin patch. If you're already starting to feel the pressure of the holiday season, then go ahead and hit play because this episode is going to be a breath of fresh air. As you listen, you'll be encouraged to step away from consumer culture and the pressure to overspend, overcommit, and oversaturate your holiday season with unnecessary "stuff." Instead, you'll be inspired to have slower and more intentional holidays with simple traditions that are geared towards bringing you together as a family. Running out of ideas or feeling like you have no idea where to start? No worries, mama. I have you covered. I have a full list of easy, yet effective ideas to help you intentionally pour into your family from October to December. Somewhere along the way, we all got so caught up in overcommitting and overspending during the holiday season. We don't want to get to January feeling like we just ran a full marathon, exhausted and wondering how much money we spent. Instead, I'm bringing a new perspective to the table and I'm challenging our perspective on what really matters during this time. If you've ever felt the unnecessary pressure to create the most magical holiday for your family or your kids, this conversation will help you to feel seen and heard, while guiding you into a new way of holiday living and helping you to maximize your joy this season. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: AD | Try Out Rowe Casa Organics and Use Code STEPHANIEBOOE20 at Checkout! Art Frame to Display Your Child's Artwork Stay Up to Date Through Stephanie's Blog Follow Stephanie on LTK for Comfy Mom Fits, Intentional Ideas, Homeschool Finds, and More! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Order a Copy of Stephanie's Children's Book "You Were Worth the Wait" HERE! | |||
| 61: Navigating the Holidays as a Christian Family | An Honest Conversation About Our Approach to Halloween and Christmas | 13 Oct 2026 | 00:37:35 | |
Navigating the holidays as a Christian family can be full of tension and sometimes we don't know what to do or how to handle it. If this resonates with you, then you're going to love this episode because we're talking about it ALL! I'm not here to tell you how to do it or act like we have it all figured out because we don't. Instead, I want you to consider this episode as a voice memo from your long distance best friend as we try to talk through the hard stuff and figure out how to move forward. You won't find any shame or guilt inducing conversation here, but rather you'll leave here feeling encouraged and seen in the struggle of how to figure out the holidays as a family. We're going to figure this out together so grab your pumpkin scone and a cup of coffee. Meet me on the couch because it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AD | Preserve your family's memories with Chatbooks, USE CODE: STEPHANIEBOOE Christ-centered Advent Block Set, find it here! Shepherd on the Search Kit, find it here! Christ-centered Holiday Resources, find them here! "An Honest Mom's Conversation About the Pressures of Christmas" - Messy Motherhood Podcast Episode Follow Stephanie on LTK: Comfy Clothes, Mom Finds, Homeschool Resources, and More! Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Podcast, Links, and More! Order Stephanie and Alex's Book: "You Were Worth the Wait" Follow Stephanie on Instagram! | |||
| 60: Surrendered Birth | A Conversation About Birth/Infertility Doulas, Birth Coaches, and Learning to Surrender Your Birth with Kayla Heeter | 06 Oct 2026 | 01:07:46 | |
In today's episode, I had the amazing privilege to talk with my friend- Kayla Heeter. Kayla Heeter is a birth doula and birth coach who is passionate about all things birth! The knowledge, wisdom, and encouragement that she shares in this episode is so good and if you are a fellow birth lover- this episode is for you! This episode kicks off by Kayla sharing how she became fascinated with birth and how she started her own business. We talk about the difference between a birth doula and birth coach, followed by what their roles look like before, during, and after a birth. We also touch on what it truly looks like to have a surrendered birth and how she guides her couples to release control so they can fully experience all God has to offer them in the birth of their baby. This part is going to blow your mind because it certainly did for me- we also talk about fertility doulas and their role for a couple who is struggling to conceive and going through treatments such as IUI or IVF. This episode was such a fun one to record and I KNOW you're going to love this! So grab your coffee and meet me on the couch, it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AD | Print Your Family Photos with Chatbooks! Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE Connect with Kayla via the Surrendered Birth Website Contact Kayla for More Information on Birth Doulas, Birth Coaching, and More! Listen to Birth Stories via the Surrendered Birth Podcast Follow Surrendered Birth on Instagram! Visit Stephanie Booe's Website- Blog, Podcast, and More! Follow Stephanie Booe on Instagram! Follow Stephanie Booe on LTK- Comfy Outfits, Homeschool, Lifestyle, and More! Order Stephanie Booe's Children's Book "You Were Worth the Wait." Use Code: MESSY Email Stephanie Booe: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 59: 5 Things I Struggle with as a Mom After Infertility | The Honest Truth About Motherhood After Infertility | 29 Sep 2026 | 00:47:57 | |
In today's episode, we are having a very real and relatable conversation about motherhood after infertility. One thing about infertility- it doesn't stop. It continues into your days of motherhood and it can be something we all still struggle with in one way or another. Another thing about infertility and motherhood after infertility is that it can be a lonely experience because it's one of those things that people don't really understand unless they've been through it themselves. That being said, I will not let you leave here feeling alone today! I'm sharing five big things that I struggle with as a mom after infertility and my goal with this episode is to help you feel seen and encouraged in your journey. As I share these things that I've struggled with, I also pair it with things that I've done (or am doing) to help me work through the struggle. You'll leave here feeling encouraged (because there's a lot of mom pep-talks happening too!) and seen no matter where you are in your journey! I'm excited to have you here and to continue breaking stigmas together. Grab your coffee or hot cocoa and meet me on the couch, it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Follow "The Warrior Shop" on Instagram! Read About Our Infertility Journey and Find More Resources on Stephanie's Blog! Follow Stephanie on Instagram for More Infertility and Motherhood Content! Follow Stephanie on LTK for Comfy Outfits, Home Favorites, and More! APPLY TO BE A GUEST ON MESSY MOTHERHOOD HERE! Email Stephanie: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 58: The Ultimate Disney Girls’ Trip Recap: Full of Magical Moments, Memories & Must-Know Tips | 22 Sep 2026 | 00:47:53 | |
Welcome back to the show and I'm so excited to share this week's episode with you! If you follow me on social media, you might remember that I recently got to go on a girl's trip with my mom and sister to Disney World! So today I'm spilling the tea on what we did and where we stayed along with a bunch of must-know tips for your next Disney Vacation. I know that planning a trip to Disney can be really overwhelming, so I want to make sure you leave here feeling a little more equipped to make the most out of your stay in the magic. Not only do I give you a full run down and itinerary of what we did, but I also give you a lot of helpful and honest tips along the way. You'll also leave here feeling encouraged to book that long overdue girl's trip no matter the destination! Thank you for being here today and I can't wait to chat with you so grab your drink of choice and meet me on the couch-- it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: AD | Create Your Arm Party Today! Order from Little Words Project and Use Code: LWPSUMMER15 IG REEL: Take a Tour of Coronado Springs IG REEL: Take a Tour of Saratoga Springs IG REEL: Disney Day, Disney Springs and Recycling the Magic IG REEL: GRWM for Mickey's Not So Scary Halloween Party SHOP MY NON-TOXIC SKINCARE HERE, USE CODE: STEPHANIEBOOE20 Need help planning your Disney Trip? I'd be honored to help you plan a magical trip for your family! Email me at: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com Visit "Recycling the Magic" in Florida: 16415 W Colonial Dr. Oakland, FL 34787 | |||
| 57: The Power of Healing | A Real and Honest Conversation About Chiropractic Care, Breast Cancer, and Pregnancy Loss with Dr. Kim Snider | 15 Sep 2026 | 02:00:27 | |
In today's episode, I had the incredible honor of inviting Dr. Kim Snider to come sit in my living room and share her story through chiropractic care, breast cancer, and pregnancy loss. In the beginning of this episode, we begin by learning from Dr. Kim's wisdom on all things chiropractic care. She's the founder of her own chiropractic practice and she walks us through the journey of what led her to be a chiropractor, benefits of being regularly adjusted, how a chiropractic adjustment can benefit everyone from newborn babies to an older generation, and how you can find a reliable chiropractor in your area. In the second half of the episode, Dr. Kim shares her personal journey through her breast cancer diagnosis followed by her pregnancy loss. She takes us step by step of what this journey looked like for her and how she found healing in every stage of her story. Her story is a powerful testimony of healing, starting with her work at the chiropractic clinic and into her own personal story. This episode is a full of golden nuggets that I know will resonate with all of us and encourage us in some area of our life. This is one of my favorite interviews I've done to date and I'm honored to be able to have Dr.Kim on the show today, I think you're going to love her just as much as I do. Now, grab your coffee and meet us on the couch because it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Learn More About Village Family Chiropractors Follow Village Family Chiropractors on Instagram! Follow Dr. Kim Snider on Instagram! Learn More About Zealcast Studios Podcasting Follow Zealcast Studios on Instagram! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 56: Welcome to Our Homeschool Era | Sharing Our Story of Why We Chose to Homeschool and What This Will Look Like Moving Forward | 08 Sep 2026 | 00:47:36 | |
As we step into a new school year and everyone is sharing all of the fun things that go along with school, I figured I'd share about what school looks like for us this year! In today's episode, I'm sharing our "why" behind our decision to homeschool our kids and what this looks like for us moving forward. In order to share this part of our journey, you also have to understand what got us to this decision in the first place. So, not only am I taking you along for the reason behind why we decided to homeschool, but I'm also taking you along the journey of my own career as a teacher and how that had a part in us making this decision. I share a lot of resources in this episode and you can find them below, too! I hope this episode blesses you in some way and I would be honored if you could leave a rating and review for the show or share it with a fellow mom friend who needs to hear it! Now, grab your coffee and meet me on the couch- it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: See Our Homeschool Room and Follow Our Journey HERE! Shop Our Homeschool Room HERE! Shop My Favorite Homeschool/Parenting Books HERE! Connect with Zealcast Studios for Your Next Podcast! Follow Zealcast Studios on Instagram! | |||
| 55: Little Words, Big Stories | Infertility, Motherhood, and Building a Business with Adriana Carrig (Founder of "The Little Words Project") | 01 Sep 2026 | 00:56:01 | |
Welcome back to Season 3 of Messy Motherhood and let's kick it off with an amazing episode! In today's episode, I got to chat with Adriana Carrig- founder and creator of "The Little Words Project." This brand is known all over the world and can be found in your local Target stores, in Disney Parks, and more! This company was created as a way to spread kindness and that's exactly what it's known for. Adriana takes us on her journey of building her business of "The Little Words Project," how she balances being a mom and business owner, her fertility journey, and so much more! We had a full on girl chat and it literally feels like we are all sitting together yapping about all of the things. You're going to leave this episode feeling encouraged in so many different areas of your life! We have a special discount code for you to get snag a bracelet of your own and the code expires at the end of September 2026 so use it while you can. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Connect with Zealcast Studios for Your Podcast! Follow Zealcast Studios on Instagram! Order Your Little Words Project Bracelet HERE! Use Code: LWPSUMMER15 (this code expires at the end of September 2026!) Follow Little Words Project on Instagram! Follow Adriana Carrig on Instagram! Connect with Stephanie Booe on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email at: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 54: You Asked, We Answered! | An Honest Marriage Q + A with Alex and Stephanie Booe | 30 Jun 2026 | 01:15:02 | |
For this episode, you asked and we answered! For a special finale episode to season two, I wanted to do a Q + A with my husband- Alex. So I asked my audience on social media what they thought about the idea and they answered with a resounding "YES!" So everyone submitted questions and this episode consists fully of the questions they asked and us answering them honestly, right off the cuff. In this episode we talk about how the transition from couple to parents, how to manage the "roommate" phase, marriage counseling, infertility, and so much more. This was a really fun episode to record and our goal with this episode is to make it feel like we are sitting together in the living room talking through all of the different things that come up with marriage. You'll leave this episode knowing that we are two goofy, imperfect people trying really hard to make marriage work. You'll also leave feeling encouraged and inspired in your own journey, ready to share this episode with your spouse! So grab your spouse, your favorite cup of coffee, and meet us on the couch because it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Resources, and More! Order Stephanie and Alex's Children's Book- "You Were Worth the Wait" Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Connect with Zealcast Studios to Create YOUR Podcast! | |||
| 53: What Infertility Really Looks Like | The Moments We Don't Talk About | 23 Jun 2026 | 00:40:38 | |
June is World Infertility Awareness Month and in honor of that, I wanted to bring a real and relatable conversation to the show where we could openly talk about all of the moments we don't normally talk about. Infertility is hard and it can often feel lonely and isolating. I know this because I've lived it and it's been some of the hardest moments of my entire life. When people think of infertility they probably think it's a devastating experience, but don't really or truly understand what it actually *looks* like. In today's episode, we're pulling back the curtain and talking about the moments you don't see. The crying in the bathroom, the praying during sex, the breakdown in the car on the way to a friend's baby shower - all of the moments where you feel utterly alone. I'm here to tell you today that you are not alone and you don't have to go through this alone. This episode is to help the infertile community to feel seen while helping the fertile community to better understand. If any of this is resonating with you already, then hit play because this episode is for you. I've got my coffee and I'm ready to welcome you when you're ready because it's time to get messy. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: AD| Try Rowe Casa Organics Products for the Whole Family, Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 Visit The Warrior Shop, A One-Stop Online Shop with Products for the Infertility Community Order a Copy of Our Children's Book, "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit Stephanie's Website- Infertility Blog Posts, Links, Resources, and More! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! | |||
| 52: 5 Easy Summer Encouragements for Moms | Permission to Have a Good Summer Without Doing it All | 16 Jun 2026 | 00:36:15 | |
I know there's a lot of pressure around summer right now and feeling like we have to show up and do it all in order to create magical memories for our kids. In this episode, we are debunking this myth and, instead, leaning into a slower summer with our kids. This whole episode sparked by the realization that every time I opened social media, I saw some sort of "summer theme" being pushed at me. Whether it was a "hot mom summer," " 90s mom summer," "butter mom summer," and so on. I've been thinking about this a lot and instead of finding a theme that resonates with what I want to do this summer, I decided to just have a "summer" summer with my kids. One where we release the pressure to show up and perform like a cruise director every minute of every day. Instead, I'm going to put my phone down, turn on the hose, open a popsicle, throw water balloons with my kids, and forget the rest. Let this episode be your permission slip to slow down this summer and really spend some intentional time with your kids doing simple things with big meaning like serving ice cream for breakfast on a random Tuesday or sitting in a field looking at stars one summer night. We talk about this all and more in this week's episode so grab your drink of choice and meet me on the couch, it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE AD | Print Your Family Photos with Chatbooks: Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE My Favorite Backyard Toys for Summer- Find them HERE! Summer Must Haves for Family Days at the Pool How to Create a Cozy Backyard for Summer My Favorite Non-Toxic Sunscreen Options My Favorite Swimsuits Right Now, Modest Yet Cute My Best Cozy Mom Outfits for Summer Visit Stephanie's Website- Blog, Quick Links, and More! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 51: The Unfiltered Parenting Conversation You NEED to Hear on Potty Training, Parenting, and More with Jamie Glowacki | 10 Jun 2026 | 01:42:19 | |
In today's episode, I got to sit down and have an extended conversation with Jamie Glowacki- the Mary Poppins of parenting and potty training! Go ahead and save this episode because you're going to want to come back to this again and again. Today we're talking about how social media impacts our parenting, potty training, parenting hot takes, and so much more. Before our conversation, I gathered a handful of questions from my community on Instagram and I brought them up in our conversation so Jamie could give us her perspective. Not only did she answer in the question in thorough detail, but she also gave us a bunch of examples and tools to help us to move forward confidently in our parenting. This is the parenting advice and encouragement every parent needs to hear. I've listened to this many times as it went through editing and every time I listen, I learn something new! I cannot say enough about this episode and I know you're going to love it so go listen and be sure to share it with your spouse and your mom friends! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE Get Jamie's Books on Potty Training and Parenting HERE! Learn More from Jamie through her Website HERE! "Meals Made Easy" by Jamie Glowacki, Find It HERE! Follow Jamie on Instagram HERE! | |||
| 50: 6 Things I Wish I Would've Known About a Failed Embryo Transfer Before Having One | 02 Jun 2026 | 00:43:55 | |
In February of this year, my husband and I experienced a failed embryo transfer and it was absolutely devastating. We didn't know what to do, what to grieve, or how to move forward with our protocol. Now that we are a few months out from this experience, I can confidently say that we've learned a lot, grieved a lot, cried a lot, and grown a lot. It's one of the hardest things we've ever been through and unfortunately, there aren't a lot of resources or support out there to help those who go through this which is a big reason why I wanted to bring this conversation to the podcast. In today's episode we're going to be talking about six things I wish we would've known before having a failed transfer in hopes to make others feel less alone. We'll also talk about how you can cope through this or support someone going through it. Grab some tissues and meet me on the couch- it's time to get messy. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE AD| Shop Rowe Casa Organics Products and Use Code STEPHANIEBOOE20 Visit The Warrior Shop: A One Stop Online Shop for the Motherhood and Infertility Communities Visit Stephanie's Blog for Posts on Parenting, Infertility, Travel, and More! Follow Stephanie on LTK for Mom Outfits, Travel, Toys, Lifestyle, and More! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! | |||
| 49: Disney World Recap | Best Tips, Favorite Moments & Honest Thoughts | 26 May 2026 | 01:04:14 | |
We just got back from a very magical trip in the happiest place on earth, that's right- Disney World! We had such an amazing time on this trip and I promised you that I would share all of the fun and exciting things from our trip so here you go! In today's episode, I give you a full breakdown of our weeklong itinerary along with a BUNCH of tips and tricks to help you really enjoy your future Disney trip with your family and little ones, too. This trip had a lot of really magical moments and a lot of real life, chaotic moments and I'm sharing all about that in today's podcast episode. When we got back from our trip, I took to Instagram and asked you what kinds of topics and questions you wanted me to cover in this episode and I absolutely make space for that in this episode as well. So whether you're planning a future trip to Disney, you're a Disney lover like us, or you're just curious about the ins and outs of our trip- this episode is for you! So grab your drink of choice and meet me on the couch, it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Find Our Favorite Roadtrip Essentials for Kids Here! Find the Best Disney Jammies (100% Cotton) for Kids Here! Here's the Stroller Organization We Use! Shop My Suitcase: Everything I Wore and Loved at Disney! Portable Tripod for Family Photos Made Easy! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 48: Living a Non-Toxic Lifestyle | My Journey Toward a Cleaner Home & Healthier Motherhood | 19 May 2026 | 00:47:38 | |
Welcome back to the Messy Motherhood Podcast! In today's episode we are talking about my journey to living a non-toxic lifestyle. This wasn't something that Alex and I did growing up and it wasn't something we really knew anything about until we were diagnosed with unexplained infertility in 2018. I take you through the journey of us living more intentionally and why this feels so important for us. This wasn't a one and done kind of deal that just happened over night and I wanted to walk you through what this looks like in a sustainable and affordable manner. We talk about it ALL! I even take you step by step through the non-toxic products I use head to toe and give you a list of my favorite non-toxic brands to help you get started. Grab your notebook, pour a fresh cup of coffee, and meet me on the couch because it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AD| Shop Rowe Casa Organics Products. Use code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 at checkout! EWG Website: Check the Rating of Your Products HERE! Grove Collaborative: Shop the Unplastic Shop! Earthley Wellness: Tinctures, Home Cleaning, and More! Visit Stephanie's Website: Links, Blog, Books, and More! Follow Stephanie on LTK for more Non-Toxic Finds! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 47: 5 Unspoken Rules of Our Disney Trip: Things We Do Every Time (That Most Families Skip) | 12 May 2026 | 00:31:31 | |
Since we are on vacation in Disney this week, I wanted to make sure we were also bringing a little bit of celebration to the podcast! Obviously, I will be doing a trip re-cap once we get back- so stay tuned!- but in the meantime, I wanted to share about five things we do on every Disney vacation we take. These are things you may expect to hear about or maybe you've never considered, either way these are the things we do to make sure that everyone is having a magical and fun week in the "happiest place on Earth." So whether you're planning a trip to Disney or just wanting to be part of the magic, this episode is for you and I've also shared a plethora of resources below! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Blog Post| A Week in Disney and Here's Everything We Did (2025) Disney Trip Tickets: How To and the Link to Order! Connect with Stephanie via Instagram! Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Books, and More! Shop Stephanie's LTK: Mom Outfits, Travel Ideas, Resources, and More! | |||
| 46: When Mother's Day Hurts | A Gentle Conversation About Infertility and the Yearn to Be a Mother | 05 May 2026 | 00:42:14 | |
Mother's Day is coming soon and as special as this holiday is, it also comes with a lot of emotions that can be so hard for so many people. For the sake of today's conversation, we focus mainly on the aspect of infertility and those who are struggling to conceive. For the infertility community, Mother's Day is a day that feels really unfair. You feel like your locked out of a club that everyone else is invited too and with the constant reminders all around you, it just feels like a giant punch to the gut. If any of this resonates with you, I want you to know that you're not alone and in this episode we're going to talk about it all. We're going to talk about what makes Mother's Day so hard, why so many people find it so triggering, how you can take care of yourself in this time, and how you can support a friend or family member who might be struggling this year. It's a very real and intentional conversation. It's not an easy thing to talk about, but it's one of those things that needs to be talked about so we're doing that here. Come hang out with me on the couch and let's dive in- it's time to get messy. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AD: Needed Supplements for Women's Health and Wellness. Use Code: BOOE20 Visit The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Order Stephanie's Children's Book, "You Were Worth the Wait." Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Books, and More! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Zealcast Studios Podcast Management- Find More Info Here! | |||
| 45: The Weight of Too Much: What a Toy Purge Taught Me About Motherhood | 28 Apr 2026 | 00:37:50 | |
Tell me if this sounds familiar: you're overwhelmed by the amount of toys that fill your home, cleaning up is more stress than it's worth, and no matter where you turn there's a constant mess of toys that always needs to be cleaned up. If this resonates with you, then today's episode is for you! A couple of weeks ago, this was my reality and it all came to a head. I called my husband and said, "I'm doing a toy purge!" so that's exactly what we did. We came together as a family and made this a collective experience with our kids and I share exactly how we went about this step by step in the episode. At the time of recording, we're about a week out from the toy purge and I have so many thoughts and realizations so I'm bringing this story to the podcast. If you're feeling overwhelmed with the amount of clutter and toys in your home or you're just wanting to adapt a new system with your kid's toys, this episode is for you! I'm inviting you into my personal mess and helping you navigate this very universal experience. Grab your coffee and meet me on the couch, it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AD | Thrive Market: Shop with this link and receive 30% off your order plus a free gift! Order a copy of our children's book: "You Were Worth the Wait." Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Books, and More! Follow Stephanie on LTK: Shop Clothing, Books, Toys, Motherhood Hacks, and More! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 44 : National Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW) | What Everyone Should Know About Infertility, IUIs, IVF, and How to Show Support | 21 Apr 2026 | 00:45:15 | |
National Infertility Awareness Week is from April 19th - April 25th and as a way to honor the infertility community, I really wanted to share an episode that helped people to understand more about infertility. In today's episode we are starting at square one and defining what exactly infertility is followed by the different types of infertility and the different treatments. We talk about the overall toll that infertility takes on a couple because it's A LOT. I do share a very brief overview of our personal journey, but if you'd like to hear more please visit the podcast archive. I end this episode by helping you to understand how you can best show up for those going through infertility because it's hard to know just what to do. This episode is dedicated to the entire infertility community and if you're struggling to conceive, I just want you to know that you are not alone. If you need to talk, I would be honored to be there for you- please send me a message. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Shop The Warrior Shop: A One Stop Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Community Order a Copy of Our Children's Book: "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Books, and More! Follow Stephanie on LTK: Shop Clothing, Books, Toys, Motherhood Hacks, and More! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 43: Our Trip to Washington, DC with Kids | The Beautiful Chaos of Family Travel | 14 Apr 2026 | 00:49:08 | |
A few weeks ago we got to spend the weekend in Washington, DC with my family and it was such a fun, yet chaotic little weekend so we're sharing the full story here on the podcast. In this episode you can expect to hear about: our itinerary for the weekend, real life family moments you don't see on social media (aka: what family travel actually looks like), tips for traveling to Washington, DC and so much more! So whether you're traveling there soon with your family and need some ideas on what to expect or maybe you just finally want to hear someone share a realistic perspective of a family trip, this episode is for you! Meet me on the couch, it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AD Chatbooks: Get your family memories off your phone and into your hands! Use code: STEPHANIEBOOE BLOG POST: Our Trip to Washington, DC | Here's Everything We Did and More! Shop My Suitcase to Washington, DC: Here's What I Wore Roadtrip Must Haves: How We Entertain Our Kids in the Car! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Learn More About Zealcast Studios Podcast Co. | |||
| 42: Mama, That's Not True | 5 Motherhood Myths We Believe Every Day | 07 Apr 2026 | 00:35:20 | |
Every day in motherhood we're tempted to believe a series of little lies and I call these "Motherhood Myths." They're little lies that seep into our brain and tempt us to think that we're really doing a terrible job in motherhood when, in reality, we're doing so much better than we think we are. Today, we're debunking all five of these motherhood myths and choosing to speak truth over our motherhood journey! The goal for today's episode is to help you feel encouraged in motherhood because I want you to know that you're a freaking rockstar and I see you doing all of those hard things day in and day out. You're doing a great job and I really want to take a second to help you to see that too. Consider this your loving kick in the pants to set you on the right path for the week - no matter where you are in motherhood. If this resonates with you, I would be honored if you would share the show with another mom friend and please leave a rating or review for the show! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Here's a list of my favorite parenting books! Follow Stephanie on LTK: Shop her style, fave books, and motherhood hacks! Visit Stephanie's Blog: Links, Blog Posts, and More! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 41: It's Not a Joke | The Harm Behind April Fool's Day Pregnancy Announcements | 31 Mar 2026 | 00:34:38 | |
I'm just going to say it: pregnancy announcements are not a joke and there are a million reasons why. In today's episode, we're unpacking the topic of using a fake pregnancy announcement as an April Fool's Day joke and how harmful that can be not only via social media, but also within your marriage or social group. I also take some time to empathize with the infertility community and brainstorm some ideas on how you can protect your heart on this day. I know that a lot of times this joke can be made out of a lack of understanding, so let's talk about it! Let's talk about all of the reasons why this joke really doesn't land the way people expect it to and why people could actually be really triggered by seeing this joke pop up on their social media feed or in real life. The tone for this episode is not to shame those who have done this, but more so to create a sense of empathy and understanding! I hope this episode blesses you and if you enjoy it, I encourage you to leave a rating and a review for the show or share it to your social media- thank you for being here! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE Try Rowe Casa Organics Products and Be Sure to Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 at checkout Order a Copy of Stephanie's Children's Book: "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Books, and More! Follow Stephanie on LTK: Shop her favorite clothing, books, toys, motherhood hacks, and more! Follow Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 40: Presence Over Presents | Reclaiming the Joy and Simplicity of Kids’ Birthday Parties | 24 Mar 2026 | 00:38:52 | |
I'm just going to say it- kid's birthday parties have gotten out of hand. Social media has completely corrupted our whole perspective on what a successful kid's birthday party should be and when we're constantly seeing these expensive, well executed birthday parties we start to feel less than if we aren't showing up in the same way. Today's podcast episode breaks this stigma and encourages us to reclaim the joy and simplicity of kid's birthday parties. I encourage you to think about some of the impactful things that you remember from your own childhood birthday parties while also helping you to feel the freedom to throw the party that feels best for you. Big, lavish parties can be so special- we all know this to be true; however, I want us to come back to a place where it's the "sometimes" thing and not the "always" thing. If you have a birthday coming up in your family, I encourage you to listen to this and I hope you leave this episode feeling a breath of fresh air as you step forward in your parenting journey. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Try AG1 Today and Receive a FREE Welcome Kit, Flavor Sampler Pack, and AG1 Vitamin D3 + K2. Our Favorite Birthday Books for Kids- Order Here! Blog Post: Our Favorite Birthday Books for Kids with Links and Reviews Hot Wheels Racetrack Cake: "How To" Video Here! Hot Wheel's Themed Birthday Must Haves- Order Here! Visit The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Books, and More! Email Stephanie at thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 39: A Christ-Centered Easter | 5 Simple Ways to Make the Season Meaningful for Your Family | 17 Mar 2026 | 00:24:34 | |
Easter is coming up in just a few short weeks so let's talk about it! There's a lot to be said or done when it comes to Easter and one thing we really value in our family is providing an intentional holiday for our kids. For Easter specifically, we really wanted to focus on how to keep Jesus at the center of everything we do. In a world that's telling you to buy more or just overload your kids with candy and a basket full of toys, I'm going to encourage you to find ways to be intentional. In today's episode, I'm giving you five easy and sustainable ways to provide a Christ-Centered Easter for your family. These ideas are super simple and I wanted to get them to you now so that you have plenty of time to think about it, plan it out, or share it with your spouse. If you like the ideas shared in today's episode, I'd be honored if you shared it with your friends or family! From my family to yours- we are wishing you a very happy Easter! Christ is Risen, indeed! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE Try AG1 today and Receive a Free Welcome Kit, Flavor Sampler Pack, and AG Vitamin D3+K2. Christ-Centered Easter Basket Ideas HERE Christ-Centered Easter Books HERE Visit The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Order a Copy of Stephanie's Children's Book: "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit Stephanie's Website: Blog, Links, Books, and More! Email Stephanie at thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 38: Our Journey to a Third Baby | Our Failed Embryo Transfer & How to Support Someone Through It | 10 Mar 2026 | 00:56:05 | |
This isn't the story I expected to be sharing, but this is the one we get to share. Many of you have followed our journey to a third baby through social media or through this podcast and now it's time to bring a close to this chapter of our story. Our beta day from our embryo transfer ended differently than we had hoped and when we got the call, we found out that our transfer had failed. In today's episode, I am sharing this story of grief while also sharing the bits of hope that I still feel are open to us. This episode is real, raw, and vulnerable as I openly share a breakdown of our beta day followed by a highlight of the weeks since we got the call. If you've experienced a failed embryo transfer, I hope this episode brings you a sense of comfort or support wherever you are in your journey. If you know someone who has gone through this, I hope you find tangible pieces of support that you can pass on to your loved ones. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being here and I hope this episode blesses you in some way. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Shop Rowe Casa Organics and Use Code STEPHANIEBOOE20 at Checkout! Visit The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Order a Copy of Stephanie's Children's Book, "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit Stephanie's Website- Blog, Links, Books, and More! Send Stephanie an Email at thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 37: Six Things I Wish I Knew About Infertility Before Being Diagnosed with It | 02 Mar 2026 | 00:46:45 | |
Don't you wish that you could go back and give yourself a heads up about a few things during a particular hard time in your life? My husband and I were diagnosed with unexplained infertility in 2018 and we've been through so much ever since the day we got our diagnosis. There are so many things that I wish I could go back and tell myself. Not that it would've made it any easier, but maybe it would've softened the blow? I'm honestly not sure, but I was recently thinking about this whole idea- if I could go back and tell myself a few things, what would I say? And that's what led to this episode on the podcast! I started making a list and let's just say, that list is rather long. I decided to cut it down to "Six Things I Wish I Knew About Infertility Before Being Diagnosed with It" sharing personal snippets from our story as we navigate this conversation. If you're a fellow infertility warrior, just know that I'm sending you a huge hug and stay tuned because I'll probably follow this up with another part- there's so much to talk about! In the meantime, hit play on this episode and just know that you are so loved and you're not alone. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Shop Non-Toxic Products with Rowe Casa Organics and Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 Shop The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Order a Copy of Stephanie's Children's Book "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit Stephanie's Website: Links, Blog, and More! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 36: Understanding IUI: What It Looks Like and How to Support Someone Going Through It | 25 Feb 2026 | 00:50:51 | |
Welcome back to another episode of Messy Motherhood! We've been digging into the IVF world a lot lately, but in this week's episode we're going to take a small pivot to help cater our care to the IUI community. My husband, Alex, and I went through five IUI procedures at the start of our journey and I remember feeling so utterly lost and alone. We didn't know anyone else who was navigating the murky waters of infertility and as our doctor talked about different options, we literally felt like she was speaking another language. If any of this resonates with you so far, then this episode is for you! Whether you're just now starting your journey with infertility or you know someone who is going through it, this episode is here to give you a full breakdown so you can better understand this aspect of the infertility world. I share our own personal experience followed by a bunch of tips and tricks to help you get through it and we end by talking about the best support for an IUI Warrior. Our experience with IUIs is a tender and challenging part of our journey. There are so many things I wish I would've known before stepping into this world and that's a big reason for today's episode. I hope this blesses you wherever you are in your journey and helps you to know that you're not alone! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Shop Needed and Use Code: BOOE20 at Checkout! Shop The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Order a Copy of Stephanie and Alex's Children's Book: "You Were Worth the Wait." Visit Stephanie's Website: Links, Blog, and More! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 35: Our Journey to a Third Baby | Embryo Transfer 102: The Transfer, The Waiting, and All the Tender Parts In Between | 10 Feb 2026 | 01:04:36 | |
"Infertility is a full time job. It's a full time job full of emotions, hopes, dreams, appointments, medications and more. You're learning how to navigate this while you're also living your life, working an actual full time job, and maintaining a social life." -Stephanie Booe Grab your notebook and come join us on the yellow submarine sofa as we guide you through Embryo Transfer 102. We're picking up from where we left off in Episode 33 so be sure to listen to that first if you haven't already. We left that ultrasound with a review of the process all the way up to the mid-cycle ultrasound and this episode continues on from that appointment. We talk you through the emotional, logistical, and mental aspect leading up to the embryo transfer day followed by the full story of our third embryo transfer and what that day looked like for us. We end the episode by touching on the brutal two week wait that comes after the embryo transfer and before signing off, we make sure to give you a bunch of tangible tools or tips to help you know how to support someone going through this. Our hope with this episode is to help other infertility warriors feel less alone while also helping others to better understand the process of an embryo transfer with IVF. That being said, consider this part journal entry and part informational packet. We wanted to share our own personal experience as we navigate our third embryo transfer, but we also really wanted to help you understand what these days really look like if this is something you're getting ready to step into. We hope this episode blesses you wherever you are in your journey and just know that we are cheering you on from afar. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Shop Needed and Use Code: BOOE20 at Checkout! Shop the Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Order a Copy of Stephanie and Alex's Children's Book: "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit Stephanie's Website: Links, Blog, and More! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 34: Making Meal Times Less Fuss and More Fun | 5 Easy and Sustainable Things You Can Do When Mealtimes Feel Hard | 04 Feb 2026 | 00:52:30 | |
Let's just cut to the chase, mealtimes are a bigger struggle in our adult life than we were expecting it to be- am I right? It's hard enough planning, buying, and preparing food for three meals a day every single week- but then you add on the struggle of having a picky eater or your kids denying the food once it's set on the table and it quickly becomes a seemingly impossible task. Friend, if this resonates with you, then consider this episode a flotation device being thrown your way to save you from the depths of the toddler mealtime tribulation. In today's episode, we're talking about five sustainable and easy things you can do to take your mealtimes from fuss to fun. I've been in the trenches of picky eating and I've dreaded a meal before it's even begun. I know how hard it is to want to have dinner as a family without screaming, walking away, or a monster truck rolling over your mashed potatoes. That being said, I'm sharing a bunch of our tried and true ways to enhance your family mealtime so that by the time you leave here, you have a few solid things you can start implementing today! Mealtimes are too special for us to be dreading them and I'm going to help you fall back in love with eating with your family. So hit play and let's untangle the mess of mealtimes! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE Shop Needed and Use Code BOOE20 at Checkout! Fun Food Ideas- Pinterest Board Lunch Baskets and Other Fun Food Tools "Hunt, Gather, Parent" and My Other Favorite Parenting Books Visit Stephanie's Website: Links, Blog, and More! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 33: Our Journey to a Third Baby | Embryo Transfer 101: Our Experience and Things We Wish We Would've Known | 27 Jan 2026 | 00:50:42 | |
"The hard part about IVF is that it's a lot of hurry up and wait. You rush through certain steps, but then you find yourself waiting again." -Stephanie Booe Grab your notebook and come join us on the yellow submarine sofa as we guide you through Embryo Transfer 1010, aka we're talking about what an embryo transfer looks like and how you can support a friend or family member going through this experience. Our hope with this episode is to help other infertility warriors feel less alone while also helping others to better understand the process of an embryo transfer with IVF. That being said, consider this episode part journal entry and part informational packet. We wanted to share our own personal experience as we navigate our third embryo transfer, but we also really wanted to help you understand and prep for the process if this is something you're getting ready to step into. We hope this episode bless you wherever you are in your journey and please stay tuned for a follow up episode, Embryo Transfer 102, where we cover the embryo transfer itself and the waiting period that follows. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE Shop Needed and Use Code: BOOE20 at Checkout! How I Store My IVF Meds- Reel via Instagram Shop The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Communities Visit Stephanie's Website: Links, Blog, and More! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 32: The Doula Difference with Haley Lawler | How Doulas Support Mothers and Why Your Birth Support Team Matters | 20 Jan 2026 | 01:17:06 | |
"You are an active participant in your birth, this is not just something that is happening to you. You have a voice and you have an opinion." -Haley Lawler In today's episode, we are welcoming our first guest of 2026 to Messy Motherhood! Everyone meet Haley Lawler, my sister in law and long time friend. She's a certified nurse, birth doula, postpartum doula, and lactation consultant. We are live on location for this episode and we're inviting you to come sit on Haley's living room sofa for a girl chat on all things pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. Haley walks us through the role of a doula starting out from your first appointment in pregnancy all the way to your final postpartum appointment. She helps us to better understand what birth and postpartum look like when you hire a doula and then gives solid pieces of advice on how to find a strong and supportive doula in your area. This conversation is pure gold and Haley drops golden nugget after golden nugget. Trust me- you're going to want to take notes for this one, so bring your journal and enjoy the show! HALEY'S RESOURCES FROM TODAY'S EPISODE: Visit Haley's Website- Behold Birth RVA (Inquire/Contact) Connect with Haley on Instagram! Evidence Based Birth- Evidence Based Information to Help Make Empowered Choices The Educated Birth- Childbirth Education and Teaching Tools OTHER LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Grab Your 2026 Home Planner HERE! Visit Stephanie's Website- Blog, LTK, and more Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Shop The Warrior Shop- Infertility and Motherhood Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 31: The Pause I Didn't Know I Needed | 10 Things I Learned from a Month Long Social Media Break | 13 Jan 2026 | 00:49:42 | |
Welcome to Season 2 of the Messy Motherhood Podcast! In today's episode, I'm inviting you to come back and join me on the yellow submarine sofa as we chat about the last month. When we ended Season 1 of the show, I said that you would be able to keep up with me via social media since I wasn't releasing weekly podcast episodes, but instead- I unexpectedly logged off social media for a FULL MONTH. It was such a bittersweet experience and now that I'm finished with this break, I have some serious thoughts and convictions about my personal relationship with social media and my smartphone in general. That being said, in today's episode, we're chatting about it all- what sparked this unexpected break from social media, what I've learned, and some boundaries I have in place moving forward. If you have ever wondered, thought, or been convicted about your relationship with social media or your smartphone, this episode is for you! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Shop Rowe Casa Organics, Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 30: Season One Wrapped | Favorite Moments, Hard Moments, Behind the Mic Moments, and Teasers for Season Two | 16 Dec 2025 | 00:38:37 | |
Welcome to the Season One Finale Episode for Messy Motherhood! Your host, Stephanie Booe, is taking a month long break from the podcasting space, but don't you worry- she's coming back with more fun and exciting content in January. Come join Stephanie on the yellow submarine sofa as she takes you on a walk down memory lane through the last six months of the Messy Motherhood Podcast. Stephanie invites you in for a fun and candid conversation as she shares a recap of season one by talking about a bunch of things she's learned as a podcaster while also sharing some behind the scenes stories from the show. Don't you worry, the fun doesn't stop here! Season Two is coming in January and Stephanie ends today's episode with a handful of teasers for what's to come in the new year. If you're feeling sad that the show is taking a pause, we invite you to binge the show or come hang out with Stephanie on Instagram! Feel free to scroll back through the Messy Motherhood Archive and listen to any of the episodes you haven't listened to yet. Make sure you follow the show so you get updates as soon as we kickoff in January! * SEASON TWO LAUNCH DAY: TUESDAY, JANUARY 13TH. * LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Shop Rowe Casa, Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 29: An Honest Mom's Christmas: Let's Talk About Santa, Boundaries with Family, Intentional Gift Giving, and Releasing the Pressure of the "Perfect Christmas." | 09 Dec 2025 | 00:41:09 | |
"It's Christmastime and my goal with today's episode is to have you leaving here feeling encouraged as we step into one of the busiest seasons of the year. I know that a lot of pressure can come with the Christmas season and my hope is that as you leave here today you feel less stressed and less pressure so you can sit back and enjoy all of the goodness that comes with Christmas." - Stephanie Booe Grab a fresh cup of hot chocolate and come join Stephanie on the yellow submarine sofa to have a candid conversation about Christmas. There can be so much pressure when it comes to this time of the year, but Stephanie really wants to help you manage your stress and expectations for the holidays so that you can have your best Christmas yet! In today's episode, Stephanie is covering all of the hot topics that comes with Christmas including: Santa Claus (real or pretend), setting boundaries with family, intentional gift giving, releasing the pressure of having a perfect Christmas, and more. I promise you're not going to want to enter the Christmas holiday without listening to this episode so put on your festive PJs and grab some fresh hot cocoa, it's time to get messy! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Shop Non-Toxic Products with Rowe Casa, Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 My Favorite Christmas Books for Kids Christmas Gift Guide for Husband Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 28: Our Smoky Mountain Christmas: A Tennessee Holiday Trip Recap | 02 Dec 2025 | 00:44:37 | |
"I'm dreaming of a Smoky Mountain Christmas!" - Dolly Parton Grab your holiday coffee and hop in the car to head to the mountains of Tennessee with the Booe family! In today's episode, Stephanie takes you along for the ride as she gives you a full recap from their trip. Whether it was spending the day at Dollywood to staying at an indoor water park resort, Stephanie is spilling the Tennessee tea! She also shares a bunch of tips or tricks for your next holiday roadtrip or vacation to Pigeon Forge, TN so be sure to have the notes section on your phone ready to go! You'll leave here today feeling like you just got to sit down with one of your besties and catch up over a cup of coffee. So no matter where you are today, go ahead and hit play because this is a fun and festive episode that you don't want to miss! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Shop Rowe Casa Organics and Use Code: STEPHANIEBOOE20 Holiday Roadtrip Activities and Must Haves Blog Post: Our Family Christmas Trip to Tennessee: Here's Everything We Did Visit Stephanie's Blog: Infertility and Motherhood Resources Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Email Stephanie: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 27: From Our Table to Yours: Swapping Thanksgiving Traditions, Memories & Lots of Gratitude | 25 Nov 2025 | 00:20:50 | |
Come join the whole Booe Crew on the yellow submarine sofa in this special Thanksgiving episode! Stephanie and Alex kick off the conversation as they share their favorite memories and traditions from their childhood followed by the ones they've created in the twelve years of being together. The conversation takes a fun turn as they invite Aspen and Graham into the studio so that everyone can take turns sharing what they are thankful for this year. It's a genuine, heart warming conversation about Thanksgivings of the past and present. It's the perfect festive listen for you to play as you drive to be with your friends or family for the holiday and you'll feel like you're sitting in the living room with the Booes, having a conversation over a slice of pie and cup of coffee. Wishing you a happy and peaceful Thanksgiving. May your family be blessed this holiday season! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Shop the Home Planner from Passionate Penny Pincher Blog Post: Practicing Gratitude with Your Kids Shop Cozy Sets for Thanksgiving Morning Visit Stephanie's Blog and Website! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Email Stephanie: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 26: Gratitude Over Guilt | Realistic Thanksgiving Reminders for Moms | 18 Nov 2025 | 00:23:31 | |
"I know you feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders right now and my hope with this episode is to just give you a little bit more relief as we step into this holiday season so you can know that you're not alone and you don't have to do it all." - Stephanie Booe Thanksgiving is a beautiful time of the year and it comes with a lot of gratitude, celebration, and joy. It can, however, also come with an equal helping of hardship, heaviness, and heartbreak. In today's episode, Stephanie tackles all of that and more as she walks you through how to have an intentional and slower paced holiday that leaves you feeling refreshed. She address a lot of the things that moms take on during the holidays including: hosting, juggling nap schedules, grocery shopping, figuring out the family plans, etc. and helps you to feel more confident as you enter the Thanksgiving week. Stephanie reminds us that this is such a special time and as much as we want to make it magical for our kids and special for everyone else, we also have to remember to take on a lighter load so that we are able to enjoy it too! So grab your pumpkin biscotti and a fresh cup of coffee. You're going to love this episode and leave here feeling encouraged to share it with all your mom friends! LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Grab your Home Planner by Passionate Penny Pincher HERE! Blog Post: Practicing Gratitude with Your Kids Shop Cozy Sets for Thanksgiving Morning: Shop Stephanie's LTK Visit Stephanie's Blog and Website! Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Email Stephanie: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 25: Rejoicing in the Waiting Room | Learning How to Celebrate Others in the Midst of Your Own Struggle | 11 Nov 2025 | 00:40:24 | |
"Sometimes it really does feel like every single person around you is getting pregnant and you're not and you're standing still wondering what you're doing wrong. Then you hear this common phrase, "there must be something in the water because everyone's getting pregnant" and you're asking if you can have some of that water because you feel like you're drinking from the wrong sink." -Stephanie Booe Learning how to celebrate others while you're in the midst of your own struggle is a painful process. Sometimes it really does feel like everyone around you is getting what you so desperately desire while you're left standing still and when that happens, it's hard to know what to do or how to move forward. If any of this resonates with you, then you're invited to come join Stephanie on the yellow submarine sofa to have a candid conversation about how to celebrate others while you're still in the thick of the struggle. Stephanie walks you through some of the painful, real life moments of her own journey where she had to do this and then gives you a simple six step guideline to help you navigate these murky and uncharted waters. No matter where you are in your journey, you'll leave this episode feeling like you have a breath of fresh air and a new hope for the future. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Order Your Home Planner from Passionate Penny Pincher Our Infertility Story: Messy Motherhood Podcast Episode Our Journey to a Third Baby: Messy Motherhood Podcast Episode "Why won't you heal me?" Short Clip from The Chosen (I mixed it up and said the wrong name in the episode, but the message is still the same) Visit The Warrior Shop: Online Shop for Infertility and Motherhood Visit Stephanie's Blog: Infertility and Motherhood Resources Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Email Stephanie: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 24: Our Journey to a Third Baby | An Honest Conversation on Fertility, Integrative Health, and IVF | 06 Nov 2025 | 00:42:41 | |
"I think that we were expectant that God was going to show up on this journey to baby number three in a way that we had never really experienced Him before and I will go ahead and tell you- that happened. God has shown up in ways that we've never experienced before, but it wasn't in the way we were hoping and it wasn't in the way we were expecting." - Stephanie Booe The journey to parenthood can be messy and as you know, Stephanie and Alex are no strangers to the struggles of conception. At the start of 2024, they started the journey to their third baby, but it was a different type of journey. One with more in-depth testing with the hope of having a better understanding of their diagnosis of unexplained infertility. In this episode, Stephanie takes you on the journey of searching for answers via a more natural approach including integrative and hormone health, seed cycling, extensive bloodwork, parasite cleanses, and more. She's spilling the tea on their journey to baby number three and all of the things she's done or learned along the way before ending the episode with their steps moving forward. There's a lot to unpack in this episode and there are definitely parts that will resonate with you- whether it be in your journey of faith, fertility, or journey to parenthood. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Order Your Home Planner from Passionate Penny Pincher Blog Post: "I Did a Hormone Cycle Mapping Test and Here's How it Went." Blog Post: "I Did a Hormone Cycle Mapping Test and Here's What I Found Out." Blog Post: "Let's Talk About Seed Cycling." Blog Post: "Let's Talk About Cycle Syncing." Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Email Stephanie: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 23: Faith in the Deep End with Kelly Thomas | The Testimony and Healing from a Non-Fatal Drowning | 28 Oct 2025 | 00:56:06 | |
Grab your coffee and a fresh box of tissues as you come join Stephanie on the yellow submarine sofa. In this episode, Stephanie invites her dear friend, Kelly, to share the testimony/story of her daughter's non-fatal drowning. The incident occurred while the family was attending a friend's baby shower in the summer of 2023 and in this episode, Kelly takes you through the events of what happened and how her family was able to grow and heal. The details of her story are shared with so much strength and vulnerability that you'll wish you were nearby to sit and give her a hug. She shares her testimony boldly, beautifully, and openly while also providing advice for parents. As the episode comes to a close, Stephanie and Kelly touch on resources and water safety tips. There won't be a dry eye in the house once this episode is over and it will leave you feeling like you've found a new friend in Kelly. You'll also leave here feeling refreshed in your faith and prepared to support your kiddos as they play around bodies of water. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Finding the Right Life Jacket for My Kid More Information About Infant Swimming Resource Email Kelly Thomas: sweetcarolinakmr@gmail.com Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Email Stephanie: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 22: Faith in the Waiting| How God Met Me in My Infertility | 21 Oct 2025 | 00:33:06 | |
"I’ve had people tell me they’re sorry when they hear that Alex and I struggled to conceive and my answer is and forever be— I’m not. I’m not sorry that this was our story because it brought us closer to God and that’s the ultimate prize, right? Did we struggle? Yes. Was it worth it? Absolutely. " - Stephanie Booe Grab your coffee and come join Stephanie on the yellow submarine sofa for a real and honest conversation about how her faith journey really took root in the beginning years of their struggle with infertility. She begins by sharing a brief history of her faith because it wasn't something that took root until much later in life. Her testimony really shines in the years where Stephanie and her husband, Alex, learned of their unexpected diagnosis of infertility. This testimony is one of hardship, trust, and true surrender. In this episode- Stephanie touches on how no season of waiting is wasted and how the hardest days of our lives can be redeemed for glory and good. You'll leave here feeling refreshed in your faith and encouraged in your own walk. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Visit Stephanie's Blog Archive to Read More About Their Journey Visit The Warrior Shop: A One Stop Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Community Purchase a Copy of Our Book, "You Were Worth the Wait" Connect with Stephanie on Instagram! Send Stephanie an Email: thisismessymotherhood@gmail.com | |||
| 21: "You Were Worth the Wait" | The Process of Writing and Publishing Our Children's Book | 14 Oct 2025 | 00:49:14 | |
"We really found that our why for this book was to provide a space for the infertility community on the shelf of a bookstore. We were in the thick of our infertility journey and I came to terms with the fact that I may never be a mom and that the book that I've just written is basically a letter to a child that I may never have." - Stephanie Booe In 2019, when Stephanie and Alex were in the thick of infertility, they wrote a children's book called "You Were Worth the Wait" and it's a book from the perspective of a parent in waiting. It's the story of their baby, for their baby, and is dedicated to all of the couples who know the various hardships of building a family. It's a tangible piece of hope for those in the waiting and a token of celebration for those holding their miracle babies in their arms. This book was published in 2020 and has sold thousands of copies. People have used their book in pregnancy announcements, baby announcements, family photos, and more. It's a beloved book by so many and is a bed time staple in households all across the world. As Stephanie has continued to share their journey and the story of their book through social media, one of the leading questions revolves around the process of writing and publishing their book. So, whether you've wondered about it for the creation process your own book or just out of genuine curiosity for how the process works- your long awaited questions are now answered. In today's episode, Stephanie shares snippets of their journey through infertility while also pulling back the curtain on the creation process of their book, "You Were Worth the Wait" from when it all started in 2019 to where it is today. Grab your coffee and some tissues and join Stephanie on the yellow submarine sofa for an honest conversation that will leave you feeling encouraged to chase your dreams! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Purchase a Copy of "You Were Worth the Wait" Visit The Warrior Shop: An Online Shop for the Infertility and Motherhood Community Visit Stephanie's Blog: An Archive of Stephanie's Writings on Infertility and Motherhood | |||
| 20: Realistic Ways to Create a Magical Holiday Season for Your Family | 07 Oct 2025 | 00:49:42 | |
"It doesn't have to be perfect in order for it to be beautiful. It doesn't have to be perfect in order for it to be special. It doesn't have to be perfect in order for it to be memorable. It's not about everything being perfect. It's about everyone being together and making memories. Focus on being present, not perfect." - Stephanie Booe The holidays can bring on a whole new level of stress, making us feel inadequate if we don't have picture perfect table scapes or photo worthy trips to the pumpkin patch. If you're already starting to feel the pressure of the holiday season, then go ahead and hit play because this episode is going to be a breath of fresh air. As you listen, you'll be encouraged to step away from consumer culture and the pressure to overspend, overcommit, and oversaturate your holiday season with unnecessary "stuff." Instead, you'll be inspired to have slower and more intentional holidays with simple traditions that are geared towards bringing you together as a family. Running out of ideas or feeling like you have no idea where to start? No worries, mama. Stephanie has you covered as she brings a full list of easy, yet effective ideas to help you intentionally pour into your family from October to December. Somewhere along the way, we all got so caught up in overcommitting and overspending during the holiday season. We don't want to get to January feeling like we just ran a full marathon, exhausted and wondering how much money we spent. Instead, Stephanie brings a new perspective to the table and challenges our perspective on what really matters during this time. If you've ever felt the unnecessary pressure to create the most magical holiday for your family or your kids, this conversation will help you to feel seen and heard, while guiding you into a new way of holiday living and helping you to maximize your joy this season. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Try Out Rowe Casa Organics and Use Code stephaniebooe20 at Checkout! Art Frame to Display Your Child's Artwork Stay Up to Date Through Stephanie's Blog | |||
| 19: Navigating The Holidays When You’re Struggling With Infertility | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:40:22 | |
“The holidays can feel so magical for some people, but when you’re walking through infertility, they can feel really heavy.” –Stephanie Booe The holiday season can be so joyful, but if you’re walking through infertility, it can also feel heavy, complicated, and triggering. Today you’re invited into an honest and encouraging conversation with Stephanie that helps you feel less alone in your journey while also giving you tangible tools to navigate those tough holiday moments. As you listen, you’ll hear a heartfelt look at what infertility can really feel like during the holidays: the grief of another Christmas without a baby, the sting of family questions, and the exhaustion of pretending you’re okay when you’re not. You’ll also learn practical ways to protect your heart, set boundaries, and respond with confidence when triggering conversations arise. Whether it’s choosing when to share your story, deciding how to answer the infamous “when are you going to have a baby?” question, or even giving yourself permission to say no to gatherings altogether, you’ll walk away with strategies that remind you that your mental and emotional health matters most. If you’ve ever found yourself dreading the holidays because of infertility, this conversation will help you feel seen, understood, and supported. And if you’re a friend or family member of someone who is struggling, this episode will give you insight into their world so you can show up with more compassion, understanding, and support. By the end, you’ll feel equipped to enter this season with gentleness toward yourself, confidence in your choices, validation that you are not walking this journey alone, and practical ways that you can still find joy in this season.
LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE: Listen to Episode 02: Stephanie and Alex's Infertility Journey Listen to Episode 08: Motherhood After Infertility Try Out Rowe Casa Organics & Use Code stephaniebooe20 at Checkout! | |||
| 18: The Messy But Magical Moments of Disney | Booe Family Disney Trip Recap | 25 Sep 2025 | 00:41:14 | |
Oh boy, Oh boy!! Come along as Stephanie recaps her magical experience of all the messy, magical moments of her family’s Disney trip, through the lens of motherhood. From surprise character meet-and-greets, to eating all the mickey waffles and churros, to leaving pixie dust surprises, you’ll get a front-row seat to the joy and the chaos. If you’ve been around for a while, you know that Stephanie always keeps it real. With all the positive and sugary sweet moments, you’ll also hear the meltdowns, the long lines, and the real life moments that remind you that no family vacation is perfect, but it will be perfect for your family. Through it all, you’ll see how God uses even the smallest moments to remind you that the messy parts matter too. So grab your favorite Mickey Mug, pour some hot coffee, and get help Stephanie avoid the Disney blues, as she recaps a magical week with her family in Walt Disney World. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE: Read the FULL itinerary with all the details of the Disney Trip Here! Try Out Rowe Casa Organics & Use Code stephaniebooe20 at Checkout! Everything Inside The Disney Welcome Basket Grab Stephanie’s Disney World Must Have Items! | |||
| 17: WE’RE GOING TO DISNEY | How We Prepped For Our Family Trip To Disney World | 16 Sep 2025 | 00:41:35 | |
Grab your Mickey ears & a Joffrey’s coffee because Stephanie is pulling back the curtain on all the prep that goes into getting her family ready for a week at Disney World! This trip is extra magical as they are also celebrating her mom’s 60th birthday while at the parks. From park reservations to packing strategies, Stephanie is sharing what’s on her mind as they head into this fun filled family adventure. But this episode isn’t just about logistical preparations. Stephanie will also be sharing how she is prepping everyone for their emotions as well. Between managing expectations and handling the inevitable frustrations or overstimulation, Stephanie encourages you that sometimes the core memories are made from unexpected moments. If you’re planning a Disney trip of your own, or if you just want to enjoy Disney vicariously through Stephanie, you’ll love this conversation. Get ready for practical tips, mom hacks, and ideas on how you can add to the magic of Disney! Grab your pen and paper and let’s get planning!
LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE: Try Out Rowe Casa Organics & Use Code stephaniebooe20 at Checkout! | |||
| 16: A Raw & Honest Conversation About Pregnancy After Infertility | Continued Healing, Navigating Fear, and Choosing Joy | 09 Sep 2025 | 00:37:38 | |
“I was just so focused on getting to the positive pregnancy test that I didn't think anything past that… and then you're so sideswiped as soon as you get this yes, and it's actually the scariest thing, and that is really really, really hard.” –Stephanie Booe Pregnancy is supposed to be a season of joy but for some women who have experienced infertility, pregnancy also comes with fear, anxiety, grief, and emotions that are hard to put into words unless you’ve walked the path yourself. In this raw and emotional conversation, Stephanie opens up about her own infertility journey along with her experience with pregnancy after infertility. From the pain of failed treatments to the overwhelming anxiety that followed her positive pregnancy tests, Stephanie shares the messy, complicated, and very real side of pregnancy after years of waiting. She talks candidly about how infertility doesn’t end once the baby arrives, how grief and joy often coexist in the same breath, and why it’s so important to find safe spaces and community along the way. If you’ve ever felt scared to celebrate your pregnancy, wrestled with lingering grief while holding your miracle baby, or wondered if you’re the only one who feels this way; you are not alone. This episode is a vulnerable reminder that healing is a lifelong journey, that your emotions are valid, and that you don’t have to walk through this season in silence. Grab your coffee and some tissues, and join Stephanie on the yellow submarine sofa for an honest conversation that will leave you encouraged, understood, and seen in the beautiful mess of motherhood.
LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE: The Warrior Shop: A Resource For the Infertility and Motherhood Community Try Out Rowe Casa Organics & Use Code stephaniebooe20 at Checkout! | |||
| 15: The 10 Phrases That Altered My Brain Chemistry As A Mom | 02 Sep 2025 | 00:35:06 | |
“I think our goal as parents is to always be striving for better connection, understanding, and communication with our kids.” –Stephanie Booe Take a seat on The Yellow Submarine Sofa and join Stephanie for an inspiring conversation about the parenting phrases she uses to communicate more effectively with her kids. Cozy up with a hot coffee and discover how small, intentional changes in the way you speak can create calmer, more joyful days for both you and your children. Stephanie shares real-life examples from her motherhood journey, showing how these positive parenting phrases help kids feel confident trying new things, navigate big emotions, and understand family boundaries. In this episode, she walks you through 10 practical parenting phrases that transform everyday routines, sibling relationships, tantrums, and even playground fears into moments of learning, understanding, connection, and growth. By the end of the episode, Stephanie encourages you to choose a phrase that resonates and try it in your own home this week. So, grab your pen, paper, and earbuds—this episode is packed with actionable parenting tips, motherhood advice, and communication strategies designed to help you create stronger bonds with your kids and make everyday parenting a little easier. LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE: Previous Podcast Episodes ↓ Setting Healthy Screen Time Boundaries for Kids Without Guilt Try Out Rowe Casa Organics & Use Code stephaniebooe20 at Checkout! | |||
| 14: A Heart-Centered Homeschool & Back-to-School Reset Every Mom Needs | 26 Aug 2025 | 00:53:03 | |
“We are going for healthy routines, not perfect ones, so don't focus so much on having everything be perfect and consistent every single day, all day, all throughout the week. Instead, let yourself do what you need to do if it's a hard day, it helps our kids to understand that we're working for consistency over perfection.” –Stephanie Booe The back-to-school season brings a mix of excitement and overwhelm to many. Whether you’re navigating homeschool for the first time or simply trying to reset family rhythms after summer, it’s easy to feel like you’re already behind before the school year begins. Join Stephanie as she shares real-life encouragement and faith-filled perspective to help you step into this season with confidence, flexibility, and grace. Through the lens of Stephanie’s personal experience, you’ll discover simple routines and intentional practices that can make a big difference. Like Sunday resets, planning playdate meal preps, creating morning rhythms that actually work, and setting healthy boundaries around sleep and screen time. You’ll also hear gentle reminders that back-to-school doesn’t have to mean rigid schedules or perfection—it’s about building connection with your kids, creating consistency, and finding what works best for your family. Whether you’re packing lunches, preparing homeschool lessons, or simply longing for a calmer rhythm at home, this episode will leave you feeling encouraged, supported, and ready to embrace the new school year with joy and grace for yourself and your whole family. Remember, your kids don’t want a perfect mom, they want a present mom. Grab your notepad (and a warm beverage!) and get ready for this encouraging episode with Stephanie! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE: Listen to The #1 Episode: Meal Prep &Playdate with Allie Bumgardner Grab the Meal Prep & Playdate Recipes! Listen to Setting Healthy Screen Time Boundaries for Kids Without Guilt Stephanie’s Homeschool Book Recommendations Check Out Stephanie’s Digital Resources Here! Try Out AO2 Clear & Use Code: StephanieBooe | |||
| 13: Reclaiming Date Nights After Kids | Tips, Intentional Planning, and THE ABC Date Night Inspiration | 19 Aug 2025 | 00:51:46 | |
“If you want to have fruitful and fulfilling date nights, you're going to have to shift your perspective on what date night looks like.” –Stephanie Booe Do you ever miss the days when date nights were spontaneous, simple, and stress-free? In the midst of motherhood, those carefree evenings can feel like a distant memory. Between bedtime battles, endless to-do lists, and the daily demands of parenting, keeping romance alive often feels like one more task on your plate. In this episode with Stephanie and Alex, you’ll discover that you’re not alone in this struggle and that it’s possible to bring fun, connection, and intentionality back to your relationship. You’ll hear how shifting just a few habits can help you reclaim date nights as sacred time for you and your partner. Instead of letting family logistics take over, you’ll learn how to set aside dedicated time for deeper connection, laughter, and growth. These small but powerful choices can help you nurture not just your role as parents, but your bond as a couple. Stephanie and Alex also share a playful strategy that they’ve loved over the last two and a half years – the ABC date night. Whether you’re planning something adventurous or enjoying a cozy night in, you’ll walk away with encouragement and inspiration to reimagine your own date nights. Because at the heart of it all, date nights aren’t about perfection—they’re about creating intentional moments of joy and love that remind you why you started this journey together. Grab your notepad and be ready to feel inspired to plan your next date night after this episode! LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE: Listen to The Weekly Meeting Episode Here! Stephanie’s Tried & True Home Planner Check Out The Virtual Version of The Home Planner Try Out AO2 Clear & Use Code: StephanieBooe | |||