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The headphone game, a little chit-chat, and then somehow complete chaos ensued. This one is short, sweet, and ended very differently than we expected.

Let’s just say… we literally could not continue. Enjoy 😂

Having your first baby is SO exciting… and also completely overwhelming. There are approximately one million things people tell you that you “need” before your baby arrives, but what do you actually need?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the first-time mom must-haves, from the things you’ll use constantly to the things you can totally skip. We’re talking newborn essentials, postpartum must-haves, feeding, diapers, sleep, and all the little things we wish someone had told us about before becoming moms.

If you’re pregnant with your first baby, building your registry, or just wondering what you actually need to survive those first few weeks—we’ve got you. 🤍

We’ve been friends for a LONG time, but our friendship hasn’t always looked the way it does now.

In this episode, we’re telling the full story of Becs & Mel — early years of friendship, drifting apart, reconnecting, and how our friendship became stronger than ever.

It’s a little nostalgic, a little messy, and very us. 🫶🏼

In this episode, we’re getting real about what marriage looks like—from how we met our husbands, to conflict and communication, the arguments that come with sharing a life, and those seasons when you start feeling more like roommates than a couple.

We’re sharing the marriage advice that’s actually helped us, what we’ve learned from our own mistakes, and how to bring the connection, fun, and friendship back when life starts getting in the way.

If you’re married, engaged, dating, or just curious about what happens after the “I do,” this one is for you. 💍🤍

You asked, so we’re diving into motherhood! From postpartum to mom guilt, balancing marriage, funny kid stories, and everything in between—we’re sharing the parts we love, the parts that have been hard, and the things we wish someone would’ve told us before becoming moms.

In this episode of Messy Minutes, we’re opening up about one of the most difficult experiences we’ve had as creators.

What started as a supportive follower slowly turned into a relationship filled with blurred boundaries, manipulation, and life threats. As things escalated, we made the difficult decision to step away—but it didn’t end there. The situation eventually involved another member of our community who was a minor, making it even more concerning.

We’re sharing what happened, how it affected us behind the scenes, what we learned about setting boundaries online, and why it’s so important to recognize when a parasocial relationship has become unhealthy.

Trigger warning: This episode discusses emotional manipulation and suicidal threats. Our goal isn’t to shame anyone, but to share our experience honestly and encourage healthier boundaries between creators and their communities.

We laughed so hard in this episode. From fun games to anonymous embarrassing stories (plus a couple of our own 👀), this episode is packed with hilarious moments and lots of bestie banter. Grab a snack and come hang out with us!

In this episode of Messy Minutes, Mel shares one of the hardest chapters of her life.

She opens up about being in an abusive relationship, discovering infidelity, and the emotional toll it took on her. We talk about the warning signs she ignored, what it was like to face the truth, how she healed, and the lessons she’s carried into healthier relationships.

If you’ve ever questioned your worth, ignored red flags, or wondered if things could get better after heartbreak, this conversation is for you. We hope Mel’s story reminds you that healing is possible, and that you deserve to be loved with kindness, respect, and honesty.

Content note: This episode discusses emotional abuse and infidelity, which may be difficult for some listeners.

Becs shares the deeply personal story of her relationship with her dad - from his time in prison, to years of estrangement, and the grief of losing him before they could fully reconcile. We also talk about forgiveness, healing, and finding peace without closure.

Today’s episode is all about birth. We share our labor and delivery stories, talk about C-sections, traumatic births, postpartum recovery, and the things no one really prepares you for. Plus, we test our knowledge with a game of “Labor or Lie?” and read some amazing birth stories from our listeners.

Come hang out with us while we share dating stories, play a few games, and have the kind of conversations that happen when two best friends forget they’re being recorded.

The last game we play, we tape a word to each other‘s forehead and ask questions to guess the mystery word. Play along with us and see if you can guess our word before we get it! Spoiler alert you probably will 😂 #0BrainCells

We asked. You delivered. In this episode, we read stories you guys sent in. These are some MESSY, piping hot tea and we’re already craving more!

Friendship can be one of the best parts of life… and some of the messiest.

In this episode, we’re talking about growing apart, feeling left out, friendship breakups, and what it actually means to be a good friend.

If you’ve ever questioned a friendship, this one’s for you 🤍

In this episode, we're diving into our love stories with our husbands (proof that we're not lesbian lovers).

Welcome to Messy Minutes! In our first episode, we're sharing who we are, how our friendship started, and the unexpected journey that took us from everyday moms to creating videos on TikTok. If you're new here, this is the perfect time to jump in.