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Surrogacy Is Emotional: A Therapist Explains How to Navigate It All
20 Aug 2025
00:35:40
Are you navigating the emotional rollercoaster of infertility or surrogacy—or supporting someone who is? This episode will make you feel seen.
Whitney is joined by fertility counselor and licensed clinical social worker Kelli Johnson, who has helped countless intended parents work through the mental and emotional load of building a family. They dive deep into the often unspoken truths about this journey—like how grief and hope can live side by side—and why acknowledging both is so important.
You’ll walk away with:
Insight into the emotional highs and lows of surrogacy
Tips for building stronger communication with your surrogate
The power of therapy and peer support through every stage
Whether you're early in the process or already matched, this conversation will leave you feeling more grounded, supported, and empowered to take the next step.
What’s it really like when your wife decides to become a surrogate? In this unique and candid episode, Whitney sits down with five husbands whose wives are not only surrogates but also team members at Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions. These dads and partners pull back the curtain to share what the surrogacy journey looks like from their point of view.
They talk about everything from their first reactions to the idea of surrogacy, how they came to understand and support the process, and the incredible moments of meeting intended parents and witnessing the births of babies their families helped bring into the world.
You’ll hear honest reflections on how surrogacy impacted their marriages, family life, and kids, along with their advice for other partners who might be unsure about saying “yes” to this journey. If you're a spouse, partner, or just curious about how surrogacy affects the whole family, this episode is full of insight, laughter, and powerful perspective.
Takeaways
-Surrogacy is a profound journey that impacts the entire family. -Initial reactions to the idea of surrogacy can vary widely among partners. -Understanding the surrogacy process is crucial for both the surrogate and her partner. -Meeting the intended parents can make the surrogacy journey feel real and meaningful. -Family dynamics play a significant role in the surrogacy experience. -The emotional journey of surrogacy is filled with highs and lows. -Delivery day is a pivotal moment that solidifies the purpose of surrogacy. -Support during the pregnancy is essential for the surrogate and her family. -Reflections on the journey highlight the lasting bonds formed between families. -Advice for potential surrogates and their partners emphasizes communication and education.
S3E22 Who?! Shared Pride: Ruth's Journey as an LGBTQ Egg Donor
11 Jun 2025
00:53:58
Summary
In this insightful episode, Whitney and Ruth take a deep dive into the world of egg donation. Ruth shares her motivations for becoming a donor, the vital support she received from her family and medical professionals, and the emotions surrounding her contribution to family building—particularly within the LGBTQ community. She walks through the matching process, the considerations between known and unidentified donations, and what it was like to experience the egg retrieval procedure and recovery firsthand. The discussion also covers common misconceptions about egg donation, the importance of open conversations about DNA and family, and the power of community support. Ruth’s story is a powerful reflection on generosity, advocacy, and the deep connections that can form through the gift of egg donation.
Takeaways
-Ruth's journey to becoming an egg donor was influenced by her family's positive discussions about donation. -Support from her partner was crucial during the egg donation process. -Ruth felt a strong connection to the same-sex couple she donated to, enhancing her experience. -The decision to be an unidentified donor was based on her belief that family is who you make it. -Ruth experienced physical discomfort during the medication process but leaned on friends for support. -The emotional aspect of receiving a thank you note from the intended parents was significant for Ruth. -Ruth's experience with anesthesia during retrieval was both humorous and surreal. -Ruth's excitement on the day of retrieval was akin to Christmas morning. -The overall experience of egg donation was rewarding and fulfilling for Ruth. -Ruth describes the emotional support she receives from her wife during recovery. -Understanding the science behind egg retrieval and its implications. -The importance of following medical advice post-procedure for a smooth recovery. -Celebrating the success of having healthy embryos from the retrieval process. -The misconceptions surrounding egg donation and embryo creation. -Navigating difficult conversations about DNA and family dynamics. -The significance of community support in the egg donation journey. -Ruth's advice to future donors to lean on their resources and connections. -The meaningful contribution of egg donation to families, especially in the LGBTQ community.
S3 E21 Who?! Parenthood with Pride: An LGBTQ+ Family's Path
04 Jun 2025
01:11:07
Summary
This episode is full of heart, laughter, and the kind of love that reminds you why family-building matters so much, especially during Pride Month.
Whitney sits down with Zach and Scott Sutton, two joyful, thoughtful dads who share their journey to parenthood through egg donation and surrogacy. From choosing between an unidentified or known egg donor, to navigating delivery day with their surrogate, Zach and Scott walk us through each step with honesty, humor, and so much intention.
But this conversation goes beyond the logistics. It’s about why they made the choices they did, how they’re committed to honoring and celebrating their daughter’s story, and the importance of visibility and openness around donor conception, especially as an LGBTQ+ family.
Their journey is a beautiful example of growing a family with purpose, love, and deep mutual respect. Whether you're in the middle of your own path to parenthood or just love a good story, this episode will leave you feeling uplifted, inspired, and proud.
Takeaways - Zach always wanted a big family and felt destined to have children. - The financial realities of family building can be daunting but manageable. - Choosing an egg donor involves emotional and practical considerations. - Building a family is a partnership that requires open communication. - The journey of parenthood can be filled with excitement and fear. - It's important to break the stigma around donor conception for children. - Finding the right donor can feel overwhelming but rewarding. - Relationships with donors and surrogates can evolve positively over time. - Creating a supportive community is essential. - Letting go of control can lead to a more peaceful journey. - Communication with the support team helps alleviate anxiety. - Family acceptance can be a complex journey. - They emphasize the importance of chosen family in the LGBTQ community. - The journey of parenthood has strengthened their relationship. It's important to celebrate your family and identity.
S3E20 Who?! Overcoming Challenges & Embracing Joy: Brandi's Surrogacy Story
28 May 2025
01:00:46
Summary
In this episode, Whitney is joined by Brandi Pearce, a mom of three whose path to parenthood through surrogacy is nothing short of inspiring. Battling Crohn’s disease made pregnancy too risky, but that never deterred Brandi from her dreams of becoming a mother. She turned to surrogacy not once, but three times to create her beautiful family. Two of those journeys were independent, and her final journey was with Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, where she experienced the ease and support of having a full team walk alongside her.
We talk about the differences between each journey, what she learned along the way, and how having the right support can make all the difference. Brandi also shares the special way she prepared her son for baby brother, by writing a children’s book that explains their beautiful family journey in a way that’s simple, sweet, and filled with love.
Whether you're considering surrogacy, in the middle of the process, or supporting someone who is, Brandi’s story is a reminder of the many ways families are built and the beauty that can unfold when you lean into the process with openness and heart.
Takeaways
-Brandi faced significant health challenges that impacted her ability to carry children. -Surrogacy was chosen as a viable option for family building. -The legal complexities of surrogacy vary by state and can be daunting. -Emotional support is crucial during the surrogacy process. -Brandi's journey involved multiple surrogates and unique challenges each time. -The transition to agency support alleviated some of the stress of the process. -Building relationships with surrogates is essential for a positive experience. - Brandi's experiences highlight the importance of communication in surrogacy. -Postpartum feelings can affect surrogate mothers as well as biological mothers. -Surrogacy is a deeply personal journey that varies for each family. -Communication is key in surrogacy relationships. -Every surrogacy journey is unique and cannot be generalized. -Hidden illnesses like Crohn's disease can complicate family planning. -Documenting the surrogacy journey can help children understand their family dynamics. -Celebrating diverse family structures is essential for acceptance. -Transitioning to new family dynamics requires careful planning and support. -Simplifying conversations about surrogacy for children can ease their understanding. -Parents should not fear discussing surrogacy with their kids. -Embracing the unknown can lead to a more enjoyable surrogacy experience. -Finding joy in simple moments can strengthen family bonds.
S3 E19 Who?! Supporting the Supporters: Mental Health in Surrogacy and Fertility Care
21 May 2025
00:50:27
Get ready for a beautiful and insightful conversation with Dr. Alison Wilson, a licensed psychologist and expert in fertility counseling. As a respected voice in the field and a dedicated advocate for mental health in reproductive journeys, Alison shares her wisdom on the emotional complexities of surrogacy and egg donation covering everything from grief and trust to communication and mental health check-ins. In this episode, Alison and Whitney dive into the “why” behind becoming a surrogate or egg donor, the emotional highs and lows that often come with the journey, and the power of feeling seen and supported. Alison also shares how she’s now leading support groups for gestational carriers at Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, creating safe, empowering spaces for surrogates to connect and thrive. Whether you're a surrogate, an intended parent, or someone supporting others through this process, this episode is packed with warmth, practical insight, and encouragement for the road ahead. Takeaways
Mental and Emotional Health Matter: Mental health check-ins and emotional preparation are essential throughout the journey. Awareness of mental health in fertility clinics is evolving, and acknowledging grief, especially for intended parents, is an important part of the process.
Understanding Motivations: Understanding your motivation for becoming a surrogate is key to a successful journey
Take Time for Grief: Taking time to grieve the loss of traditional family-building methods, lays the foundation for a healthy, supported experience.
Power of Support Groups: Support groups offer surrogates a safe space to connect, share experiences, and feel understood. Hearing from others, having strong facilitators, and ending on a positive note all contribute to a supportive environment.
Connection Builds Resilience: Surrogates often bring positivity but also face unique emotional challenges. Connection with others going through similar journeys can be incredibly validating and empowering.
Communication and Trust Are Key: Open, honest communication builds trust between intended parents and surrogates. Managing expectations and trusting the process help everyone navigate the ups and downs with empathy and understanding.
Surrogacy Is a Beautiful Journey: Despite its complexities, surrogacy can be a deeply meaningful and beautiful experience when approached with care, connection, and emotional support.
S3E18 Who?! From Heartbreak to Baby Hawk: Ashley's Journey through Infertility & Surrogacy
14 May 2025
01:10:08
Summary
In this heartfelt episode, Ashley Harris takes us on her deeply personal journey through infertility, adoption, and surrogacy. Starting with her childhood dreams of adopting, Ashley shares how the years brought both unexpected joys and painful struggles. After multiple failed IUIs and IVF cycles, compounded by the emotional toll of miscarriages, Ashley and her husband decided to explore surrogacy. This life-changing decision led to the birth of their son, Hawk. Through the ups and downs, Ashley reveals the crucial role of community support, the intertwining of grief and gratitude, and how her faith evolved as she faced and overcame these challenges.
Takeaways
-Ashley and her husband faced infertility after years of trying to conceive. -The decision to pursue surrogacy came after multiple failed IVF attempts. -Ashley emphasizes the importance of community and support during infertility. -The emotional toll of miscarriages and chemical pregnancies was significant. -Faith played a crucial role in Ashley's journey, evolving through trials. -The relationship with their surrogate, Christine, was built on trust and gratitude. -The birth of their son, Hawk, was a culmination of years of struggle and hope. -Ashley continues to grieve the losses they experienced along the way. -Celebrating motherhood comes with acknowledging the hardships faced.
S3 E17 Who?! Endometriosis, Egg Donation, and the Road to Motherhood
07 May 2025
00:56:09
Summary: Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of miscarriage and fertility loss, which may be difficult for some listeners.
In this episode, I sit down with Brittany to talk about her emotional and incredibly meaningful journey to motherhood through egg donation and IVF. Brittany shares openly about her diagnosis of endometriosis, her experience with a successful embryo transfer that brought her her daughter, and a later transfer that ended in miscarriage, along with the many ups and downs that were a part of her journey.
She reflects on the support system that carried her through, the joy and gratitude she felt during pregnancy after so much waiting, and the continued hope she holds as she considers growing her family again.
Brittany’s story is tender, courageous, and full of perspective. It’s a reminder that even in the hardest seasons, love, support, and hope can carry us forward.
Takeaways: - Endometriosis diagnosis revealed severe complications affecting fertility. - IVF was pursued after unsuccessful attempts to conceive naturally. - Emotional challenges were significant throughout the fertility process. - Finding the right egg donor involved careful consideration and support. - Connection with the baby grew stronger during pregnancy despite initial fears. - Miscarriage brought unexpected emotional challenges and reflection. - The couple decided to take a break after experiencing loss. - They are open to exploring adoption or fostering as alternatives. - Support from friends and family was crucial during the journey
S3E16 Who?! The Unexpected Bond Between an Egg Donor and Intended Parent
30 Apr 2025
00:50:42
Summary
In this heartfelt episode, Whitney sits down with Amy and Rachel to discuss the deeply personal and evolving nature of their egg donation journey. Rachel, originally expecting her role as a donor to be unidentified, shares how her connection with Amy developed into a lasting and meaningful relationship. Amy reflects on what it meant to find not just a donor, but a person who would forever be connected to her family. The conversation explores the emotions, challenges, and joys of third-party reproduction, emphasizing the importance of open communication, trust, and the unexpected beauty of their shared experiences. Rachel and Amy’s story is a powerful testament to the many ways families can be built—not just through biology, but through love, respect, and human connection.
Takeaways
-The journey of egg donation is deeply emotional and relational. -Open communication between donors and intended parents is crucial. -Gratitude plays a significant role in the donor-recipient relationship. -The process of building a family through donation can be complex yet rewarding. -Understanding the creation story is important for children born through donation. -The bond formed between donors and intended parents can be profound. -Personal connections can alleviate anxiety during the donation process. -The experience of egg donation can lead to lifelong relationships. -Navigating the unknown aspects of donation requires openness and trust. -Celebrating the gift of life is central to the donor experience. -Rachel's initial expectation was for an unidentified donation. -The relationship between donor and intended parents can evolve significantly. -Open communication enhances the emotional fulfillment of all parties involved. -Amy expresses gratitude for Rachel's role in her family's journey. -Children can simplify complex topics like family building. -The bond between donor and intended parents can feel like an extended family. -Sharing updates and experiences strengthens the connection. -Both women found joy in their shared experiences of motherhood. -Openness and respect are crucial in donor-parent relationships. -The journey of egg donation is not just a transaction but a meaningful connection.
S3 NIAW E5 Who?! From Personal Journey to Public Mission: Zach French's Fight for Surrogacy Awareness
25 Apr 2025
00:56:58
Summary
Whitney welcomes Zach French for an enlightening discussion on infertility awareness, surrogacy advocacy, and the power of community support. Zach shares his personal journey that led him to champion ethical surrogacy and establish a nonprofit dedicated to supporting intended parents. The conversation covers financial challenges, the need for transparency in grants, and the importance of shifting the narrative surrounding surrogacy through education and storytelling. Zach also introduces future goals for his foundation, including a digital companion for intended parents. The episode concludes with empowering advice for families to celebrate every milestone in their surrogacy journey.
Takeaways
- National Infertility Awareness Week is crucial for - Surrogacy is often misunderstood and stigmatized. - The foundation aims to provide grants for surrogacy costs. - Community support is vital for fundraising efforts. - Financial considerations are complex in surrogacy journeys. - Education is key to reducing overwhelm in potential parents. - The foundation seeks to change the narrative around surrogacy. - Surrogacy should be viewed as a valid family-building option. - Seeds Ethics is crucial for ethical surrogacy practices. - Celebrating surrogacy journeys helps normalize the experience. - Intended parents can pay it forward by sharing their stories. - Building a comprehensive resource for intended parents is essential. - The Surrogacy Foundation aims to increase access to surrogacy. - Financial education is vital for navigating surrogacy costs. - Community support can relieve feelings of loneliness in infertility.
S3 NIAW E4 Who?! From Isolation to Impact: Infertility Awareness with Scott and Erin
24 Apr 2025
00:33:54
Summary
In this conversation, Whitney speaks with Scott and Erin about their journey to parenthood through egg donation and their ongoing advocacy for infertility awareness. They discuss the isolation many experience during infertility, the importance of sharing personal stories, and the need for better healthcare coverage and support systems. The conversation highlights the role of advocacy in creating change, both at a personal and legislative level, and emphasizes the importance of community support and awareness initiatives like National Infertility Awareness Week.
Takeaways
- Infertility is a common issue that affects many people. - Sharing personal stories can help normalize the conversation around infertility. - Advocacy can take many forms, from personal conversations to legislative efforts. - Healthcare coverage for infertility is often lacking and needs improvement. - Employers should recognize the importance of supporting employees through family planning. - National Infertility Awareness Week helps create a sense of community. - Connecting with medical providers can facilitate support for those struggling with infertility. - Advocacy can empower others to share their experiences and seek help. - It's important to educate employers about the impact of infertility on their workforce. - Every small action in advocacy can contribute to larger changes.
S3 NIAW E3 Who?! From Misconceptions to Empowerment with Dr. Dara Havemann
23 Apr 2025
00:30:59
Summary
In this conversation, Whitney and Dr. Dara Havemann delve into the complex world of infertility. They address common misconceptions and explore the deep emotional impacts that infertility can have on individuals and families. Dr. Havemann emphasizes the importance of open communication, both among those experiencing infertility and within their support networks. She also discusses the various avenues available for family building—such as egg donation and surrogacy—and offers practical advice on navigating these paths. Highlighted during National Infertility Awareness Week, this episode provides listeners with a compassionate, informed perspective on overcoming infertility challenges and finding hope on the journey to building a family.
Takeaways
-Infertility affects 1 in 6 people today. -Many believe they haven't tried long enough before seeking help. -Stress is often blamed for infertility, but it's not the sole factor. -Communication is crucial in surrogacy and egg donation. -Infertility is becoming a more common topic of discussion. -Support from friends and family can vary greatly in need. -Exploring third-party reproduction can be a valid path to parenthood. -Egg donation does not deplete a woman's fertility. -National Infertility Awareness Week aims to shed light on these issues.
S3 E30 Who?! From OB-GYN to Intended Parent: Dr. Audrey Puentes on Surrogacy and Support
06 Aug 2025
01:22:33
In today’s episode, Whitney is joined by Dr. Audrey Puentes, a board-certified OB-GYN and intended parent who brings a rare and valuable perspective to the surrogacy conversation. As someone who has supported patients through pregnancy and delivery, and also walked the surrogacy journey herself, Audrey understands both sides in a way that few can.
This episode is packed with helpful, practical information specifically for intended parents. We will cover everything from prenatal testing and key pregnancy milestones to the transition from fertility clinic to OB care, how to navigate appointments with your surrogate, and what to expect on delivery day. Audrey also walks us through topics like C-sections, skin-to-skin, discharge planning, and postpartum expectations for surrogates.
Whether you're just starting the process or preparing for the birth of your baby, this conversation offers clear guidance, real-world insight, and reassurance from someone who truly gets it, both professionally and personally.
Takeaways
- Surrogacy can be a daunting process for intended parents. - Medical professionals also experience emotional challenges during surrogacy. - Choosing the right OB-GYN is crucial for a supportive experience. - Intended parents should communicate openly with their surrogate and medical team. - Understanding the timeline of appointments can alleviate anxiety. - Routine screenings are essential for monitoring pregnancy health. - Genetic testing provides valuable information about the fetus. - Intended parents should feel empowered to ask questions during appointments. - The transition from fertility clinic to OB care can feel overwhelming. - Intended parents can choose appointments to attend based on their significance. - Induction may be planned for convenience, especially for out-of-state parents - The hospital setup and who can be present during delivery should be discussed beforehand. - Every pregnancy and delivery experience is unique, requiring tailored communication. - Discharge for surrogates can vary, but a 24-hour stay is ideal. - Milk supply may take time to establish. - It's important to prepare for the unique aspects of C-section deliveries. - Every family's journey is unique, and there is no wrong way to build a family.
S3 NIAW E2 Who?! Kiely Shimabukuro - Building Community Through Surrogacy
22 Apr 2025
00:50:35
Summary
In this episode, Kiely Shimabukuro takes us through her incredible journey as a four-time gestational carrier, sharing the experiences that have shaped her dedication to the surrogacy community. She talks about the importance of validation and connection, the challenges faced by surrogates, and how her passion for advocacy led her to create a safe space for sharing experiences and seeking advice. From blogging about her journey to writing books and launching a support group with Resolve, Kiely emphasizes the power of community and education. She also highlights the emotional support she received from her husband and the critical role of resources and a supportive agency in ensuring a positive surrogacy experience. This episode is a testament to the beauty of connection and the value of finding the right support in the world of surrogacy.
Takeaways
-Blogging was a way for Kiely to share her experiences and connect with others. -Social media platforms like TikTok have allowed Kiely to reach a wider audience. -The support group for surrogates is the first of its kind, focusing on their unique needs. -Kiely emphasizes the importance of community and validation for surrogates. -The 'Send a Friend' program aims to connect surrogates in need with experienced peers. -Kiely believes that every surrogate's journey is unique and deserves to be heard. -Kiely hopes to empower surrogates through shared experiences and support. -Asking questions is crucial in understanding the surrogacy process. -Navigating skepticism about surrogacy requires confidence in one's motivations. -Choosing a reputable agency can significantly impact the surrogacy experience. -Surrogacy can be a fulfilling experience despite societal perceptions. -It's important for surrogates to advocate for themselves and their needs. -Having a supportive partner is vital for a successful surrogacy journey. -Resources like books and support groups can help surrogates feel more prepared. -The landscape of surrogacy is evolving with more resources available now than in the past. -Building a community can help surrogates navigate their journeys more effectively.
S3 NIAW E1 Who?! Breaking the Silence: Kicking Off National Infertility Awareness Week
21 Apr 2025
00:04:06
Summary:
In this special episode, Whitney launches a series of conversations for National Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW), focusing on the power of storytelling, advocacy, and support. Whitney shares the history and mission behind Resolve: The National Infertility Association and explains why raising awareness is critical to breaking the stigma surrounding infertility. She emphasizes that infertility impacts individuals and couples from all walks of life and encourages listeners to engage in the conversation—whether through sharing their story, supporting a loved one, or simply listening with compassion. This episode sets the tone for a week dedicated to visibility, understanding, and hope for those navigating the infertility journey.
Takeaways:
-National Infertility Awareness Week aims to empower individuals. -Resolve was founded to provide support for infertility. -Infertility affects one in six people. -Every infertility journey is unique but united by love. -NIAW raises awareness and fosters change in policies. -Community events help connect those affected by infertility. -The theme 'all infertility' highlights inclusivity. -Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions provides hope and solutions. -Sharing stories is vital for breaking the silence. -Support and advocacy are crucial for those facing infertility.
In this heartfelt episode, Alyssa shares her emotional journey as an egg donor, giving us an inside look at the challenges and triumphs she encountered along the way. Alyssa candidly discusses her motivations for donating eggs, the steps involved in the matching process, and the strong bond she developed with her intended parents. She also reflects on the ups and downs of the medical procedures, particularly the emotional rollercoaster of the egg retrieval process. Throughout the conversation, Alyssa emphasizes the importance of support from her family, friends, and medical team, and highlights the joy she feels in helping to create life. Her story offers valuable insights for anyone considering egg donation and underscores the profound impact this experience had on her life and those around her.
Takeaways
-The application process for egg donation is lengthy and detailed. -Alyssa felt a strong sense of purpose in helping others through egg donation. -She chose Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions for their supportive environment. -The matching process can lead to identified cycles, which are becoming more common. -Alyssa experienced a magical connection with the intended parents. -The medical screening process was thorough but comfortable for Alyssa. -Communication with intended parents developed positively over time. -Alyssa documented her journey, including the medication process. -The emotional moments leading up to retrieval were significant for Alyssa. The emotional journey of egg retrieval can be intense. -Building relationships with medical staff is crucial. -Hope and resilience are key during the egg donation process. -The outcome of one embryo can be a significant success. -Community support plays a vital role in the journey. -Transparency with family about the process is important. -Being an egg donor can change your perspective on life. -Every appointment and call is worth the commitment. -Cherished moments with intended parents create lasting bonds. -Finding joy in everyday moments is essential.
S3E14 Who?! Building Hope: Megan's Surrogacy Story
09 Apr 2025
00:37:10
Summary
In this engaging conversation, Megan takes us through her surrogacy journey with remarkable candor. She discusses the emotional drivers that led her to become a surrogate and the vital support she received from her family throughout the process. Megan details the nuances of matching with intended parents, the stress of transfer day, and the rollercoaster of waiting for pregnancy confirmation. Along the way, she reflects on the challenges and the profound impact her experience has had on both herself and the family she helped build. Ultimately, her story is a celebration of the small, everyday moments that fill her cup with joy and a testament to the power of connection and support in creating families.
Takeaways
-Megan's journey into surrogacy began with a personal connection to infertility. -Family support played a crucial role in her decision to become a surrogate. -Researching surrogacy agencies was an important step in her journey. -Personal experiences from others helped guide her decision-making. -Megan felt a strong connection to the couple she chose to help. -Transfer day was filled with both excitement and nervousness for everyone involved and the waiting period after transfer was emotionally challenging for Megan.The moment of discovering she was pregnant was filled with relief and joy. -Building a relationship with intended parents was crucial for Megan. -Surrogacy brought a sense of completion to the intended parents' family. -The bond formed with the intended parents was special and meaningful. -Megan encourages others to consider surrogacy if they feel called to it.
S3E13 Who?! Hope and Heart: Allison's Journey to Parenthood
02 Apr 2025
01:12:39
Summary
In this episode, Allison shares her emotional journey of becoming a parent through surrogacy, offering insights into the highs and lows of the process. She discusses the challenges of IVF and the joy of finding a surrogate, Kellie, who felt like the perfect match. Allison reflects on the excitement and anticipation of transfer day, the support from family and friends, and the strength she found through each milestone. As her relationship with Kellie deepened, Allison experienced the profound beauty of celebrating each step together, including the unforgettable moment of delivery day. With invaluable advice for intended parents and surrogates, Allison’s story is one of resilience, trust, and the powerful impact of a strong support system in creating a family. Takeaways
-Surrogacy is often not the first choice for family building. -IVF can be an emotional rollercoaster with many ups and downs. -Having a supportive partner is crucial during the journey. -Building relationships with surrogates can enhance the experience. -Hope plays a vital role in navigating challenges. -Finding the right match can happen quickly and unexpectedly. -Trusting your instincts is important in the surrogacy process. -Support systems can help alleviate the emotional burden. -It's essential to communicate openly with your partner. -The journey to parenthood can be filled with both challenges and joy. -Support from family was overwhelming and uplifting. -Bonding over the surrogacy process was a unique experience. -Dealing with disappointment is part of the journey. -Delivery day is a surreal experience that changes everything in an instant. -The support from medical staff and the community is crucial in the surrogacy process. -It's important to let go of sadness and disappointment to embrace the joy of parenthood. -Surrogacy is a selfless act that significantly impacts the lives of intended parents. -The emotional journey of surrogacy can be filled with peace and joy despite challenges. -Building a family through surrogacy is a beautiful process that deserves recognition. -Every moment of the journey, from appointments to delivery, is filled with significance. -The relationship between surrogates and intended parents can be nurturing and supportive
S3E12 Who?! Growing Up with Surrogacy: Kids Share Their Stories
26 Mar 2025
00:19:20
Summary
In this engaging episode, children whose mom has been a surrogate for two different families open up about their personal experiences and evolving understanding of surrogacy. Interviewed by peers whose moms were also surrogates, the discussion dives into how they explain the concept of surrogacy to their friends and the excitement they feel about being part of such unique family dynamics. The conversation highlights the importance of clear communication, empathy, and the supportive relationships formed between the children and the families they help. Through their candid and insightful reflections, these young voices demonstrate that, despite any complexities, surrogacy is a journey filled with connection, joy, and mutual understanding.
Takeaways
-Maggie's perspective on her mom's surrogacy has evolved positively. -The children feel happy to be part of the surrogate family's story. -Surrogacy is seen as a fun and exciting experience by the children. -They find it easy to explain their mom's role to peers. -Most peers view surrogacy as a cool concept rather than something weird. -Curiosity about surrogacy is common among their friends. -The children appreciate the relationships formed with the families. -They encourage other kids to embrace the experience of having a surrogate parent. -Asking questions about surrogacy is important for understanding. -The children feel their family circle has expanded positively.
S3E11 Who?! SEEDS - Ethical Leaders in Family Building
19 Mar 2025
01:12:42
In this episode of Me, You, & Who?!, Executive Director Katy Encalade takes us inside the 2024 SEEDS Conference—a gathering dedicated to setting ethical standards in egg donation and surrogacy. Katy sits down with industry leaders, including Adam Winder of SeedTrust, Dr. Joao De Pinho of Reproductive Centers of America, Lisa Chiya, President and Founder of Genesis Group, as well as the Co-Founder and Managing Partner of Modern Parent Mentor and Surrogacy Mentor, Lisa Stark Hughes, President and CEO of Gestational Surrogate Moms and Sarah Paige COO of ART Risk Financial & Insurance Solutions.
Together, they discuss the evolving landscape of third-party reproduction, the ethical considerations shaping the industry, and the innovations driving the future of family building. Tune in for an insightful conversation with the experts at the forefront of surrogacy and egg donation.
In this insightful episode, Whitney talks with Marla Neufeld, an ART attorney and former intended parent, about the complex world of Assisted Reproductive Technology law. Focusing on surrogacy in Florida, they discuss common misconceptions, the emotional and financial challenges intended parents face, and the crucial role of clear communication and strong legal support throughout the process. Marla’s personal experience as an intended parent adds a unique layer to the conversation, highlighting the importance of empathy and understanding in her legal practice. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the legal side of building families through surrogacy.
Takeaways
-Marla is an ART attorney and former intended parent. -Personal experiences in infertility shape legal practices. -Communication is key in the surrogacy process. -Florida has unique surrogacy laws requiring medical need. -Surrogacy is not the same as adoption in legal terms. -Financial transparency is crucial for intended parents. -Emotional support is vital for all parties involved. -Legal agreements should be handled by experienced attorneys. -Intended parents should be open-minded about options. -Estate planning is important for intended parents.
S3E9 Who?! From Heartbreak to Hope: Michela's Surrogacy Journey
05 Mar 2025
01:16:59
Summary In this episode, Michela shares her powerful story of navigating infertility, endometriosis and autoimmune challenges, as well as multiple miscarriages, ultimately leading her to pursue surrogacy. From her search for the right surrogacy agency to the emotional highs and lows of the journey, Michela describes the strength she drew from her faith, her family, and her surrogate. The conversation sheds light on the profound impact of a life-limiting diagnosis during a surrogate pregnancy, and how Michela balanced grief with gratitude as she continued on the path to parenthood with another surrogacy journey and then awaiting the arrival of her son, Noah. Highlighting the importance of prayer, trust, and the unique connection between surrogates and intended parents, Michela’s story is one of resilience, hope, and the joy found amidst the challenges of surrogacy.
Takeaways -Michela's journey to surrogacy began after years of infertility struggles facing multiple miscarriages and IVF challenges before considering surrogacy. -Faith played a crucial role in her ability to cope with the emotional toll of infertility. -Finding a surrogacy agency that aligned with her values was essential for Michela. -She experienced a significant emotional burden during her journey, often feeling isolated. -Michela's story highlights the importance of support systems during infertility. -The decision to pursue surrogacy was driven by her medical challenges and desire for a family. -She emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding from friends and family during difficult times. It's a journey that takes time and patience. -The joy of pregnancy can be overshadowed by unexpected challenges. -Finding peace amidst grief is possible with the right support. -The importance of open communication with all parties involved. -Celebrating small moments of joy can help during difficult times. -Taking time to heal is essential before moving forward. -Building a strong connection with the surrogate is essential. -Cautious optimism is a common feeling during the pregnancy journey. -Surrogacy is a beautiful gift for both surrogates and intended parents. -Sharing the journey with family and friends enhances the experience. -The bond formed during surrogacy lasts a lifetime.
S3E8 Who?! From Research to Reality: Kolleen's Surrogacy Journey
26 Feb 2025
00:54:29
Summary
In this episode of Me, You, & Who?!, Kolleen shares her inspiring story of becoming a surrogate, offering insights into her motivations, the importance of trust with intended parents, and the emotional journey from transfer day to delivery. She reflects on her family’s supportive role, the emotional highs and lows of pregnancy, and the challenges of navigating postpartum recovery. Kolleen also highlights the significance of a strong support network, including her intended parents and doula, and shares valuable advice for both prospective surrogates and intended parents. Her journey has even led to a career change inspired by her surrogacy experience, adding yet another layer to her incredible story.
Takeaways
-Kolleen felt called to surrogacy since high school. -Researching agencies was crucial to finding a legitimate option. -Building a connection with intended parents is essential. -Medical screenings help establish trust and safety. -The matching process can be unpredictable but rewarding. -Transfer day is a significant milestone in the journey. -Family support plays a vital role in the surrogacy experience. -Communication with intended parents fosters a strong bond. -Pregnancy brings both excitement and challenges. -Surrogacy can change perspectives on family and parenthood. -Delivery day was surreal and emotional for everyone involved. -Having a doula provided essential support during labor. -Bonding with intended parents was a significant part of the journey. -Post-delivery emotions felt like holding a best friend's baby. -Navigating hormonal changes after delivery can be challenging. -Maintaining relationships with intended parents is important post-delivery. -Trusting your gut is crucial when matching with intended parents. -Doulas can provide non-judgmental support and education. -Kolleen's experience inspired her to become a doula and support others.
S3E29 Who?! More Than a Match: Surrogacy, Connection, & Community
30 Jul 2025
01:20:31
Summary
In this heartfelt episode, Whitney and Alyx dive into the emotional, practical, and life-changing aspects of surrogacy. Alyx shares what inspired her to become a surrogate, the importance of researching and finding the right match, and the legal and medical preparations that go into the journey. She also reflects on the powerful relationships built with her intended parents, the support she received from her family, and the emotional highs and lows leading up to delivery. With an emphasis on communication, community involvement, and trust, this conversation highlights the joy of creating families and the lasting impact surrogates have on the lives of those they help.
Takeaways
-Alyx's journey into surrogacy began after having her first daughter. -Community support is crucial in the surrogacy process. -Matching with intended parents should feel right, not rushed. -Alyx's husband was initially surprised but ultimately supportive. -Researching surrogacy led Alyx to connect with experienced surrogates. -The matching process can be stressful but rewarding. -It's important to listen to your gut when choosing intended parents. -Alyx's first meeting with her intended parents was filled with excitement. -Legal and medical steps are essential in the surrogacy journey. -Alyx received a care package from her intended mom, showcasing their support. -Alyx documented her surrogacy journey beautifully. -Explaining surrogacy to children can be simple and sweet. -The support from family and friends is crucial during surrogacy. -Transfer Day was filled with anticipation and nerves. -Positive pregnancy tests brought excitement and anxiety. -Community involvement made the journey more special. -The heartbeat confirmation was a significant milestone. -The joy of seeing intended parents with their baby is fulfilling. -Surrogacy can change lives in profound ways. -Open communication is crucial for a successful surrogacy experience. -Surrogates should follow their hearts and listen to their bodies. -The relationship between surrogates and intended parents can become like family. -Postpartum care and support are important for surrogates. -Celebrating milestones with intended parents enhances the experience. -Surrogacy is a journey filled with joy and fulfillment. -The experience of surrogacy can inspire future journeys.
S3E7 Who?! Navigating Fertility Challenges with Dr. Jerald Goldstein
19 Feb 2025
00:37:48
Summary
In this insightful episode, Dr. Jerald Goldstein discusses his path to becoming a reproductive endocrinologist and the emotional and scientific aspects of fertility treatments. He shares his perspectives on the evolving landscape of reproductive technology, the vital role of egg donation and surrogacy in family building, and addresses common misconceptions about the process. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Goldstein emphasizes the importance of patient education, support, and resilience in facing fertility challenges. He offers practical advice for intended parents and donors, stressing the value of trusted guidance and the strength to persevere. The episode concludes with heartwarming reflections on the joy of witnessing successful pregnancies and the deep fulfillment of helping families come to life.
Takeaways
-Dr. Goldstein's journey into medicine was driven by a fascination with pregnancy. -Reproductive endocrinology combines various aspects of medicine, including surgery and psychology. -The emotional landscape of fertility treatments is complex and requires sensitivity. -Providing information helps alleviate anxiety for patients facing infertility. -The evolution of reproductive technology has significantly improved success rates. -Surrogacy and egg donation have become more mainstream and accessible. -Common misconceptions about third-party reproduction often stem from societal stigma. -Intended parents should seek multiple opinions and find a supportive clinic. -The joy of hearing a baby's heartbeat during the first OB scan is unparalleled. -Fertility Specialists of Texas prioritizes patient care and has a strong support team.
In this episode, I sit down with Jaleen and Shevaun to talk about their incredible journeys as egg donors. We dive into how they first discovered egg donation, what motivated them to give this amazing gift, and the emotional and physical aspects of being a donor. Throughout our chat, we highlight the crucial role of support—whether from family, friends, or agencies—as well as clear up some of the common misconceptions around egg donation. Plus, they offer insightful advice for anyone considering becoming a donor and discuss the lasting impact of their contributions. Jaleen and Shevaun also share the immense fulfillment they’ve found in helping families grow and reflect on the joy that comes from being part of such an important process.
Takeaways
Egg donation is a deeply rewarding experience. Support from family and friends is crucial during the process. Misconceptions about egg donation often stem from a lack of understanding. The emotional impact of helping families is profound. It's important to do thorough research before becoming a donor. Communication with coordinators can ease anxiety about the process. Hydration and self-care are essential during the donation process. Each donor's journey is unique and should be respected. The process can be straightforward with the right support. Connecting with other donors can provide valuable insights.
S3E5 Who?! Meg, Sr. Surrogacy Education & Matching Coordinator
05 Feb 2025
00:48:37
Summary
In this enlightening conversation, Whitney and Meg explore the intricate world of surrogacy through the lens of someone who has both experienced it firsthand and now works to guide others on their own paths. Meg reveals her personal journey, underscoring the emotional, logistical, and often misunderstood aspects of surrogacy. Together, they discuss why advocacy is so vital, how surrogacy has evolved over the years, and the importance of reputable agencies that prioritize transparent communication and surrogate well-being. Listeners will come away with a deeper appreciation for the trust, education, and support required to make these family-building journeys successful—while also getting to know one of the EDSS team members who may just be walking beside them every step of the way.
Takeaways
-Meg's journey into surrogacy began after her own experience with infertility. -The emotional journey of surrogacy involves understanding the pain of intended parents. -Memorable moments in surrogacy include heartbeat confirmations and delivery days. -Education is crucial for surrogates to understand the process and their role. -Surrogates should be sensitive to the emotions of intended parents. -Transparency in the surrogacy process helps manage expectations. -First-time surrogates need to feel trust in their agency and coordinators. -Having an advocate is essential for navigating the surrogacy process. -Surrogacy is a journey that requires preparation for both best and worst-case scenarios. -Meg emphasizes the importance of comprehensive education for surrogates. --Your attorney should advocate for you, not the agency. -Surrogates must have a voice in their journey. -Not all surrogacy agencies are reputable; research is key. -Public awareness of surrogacy has increased over time. -Surrogates are often well-educated about the process now. -Misconceptions about surrogacy often stem from media portrayals. -Surrogates are financially stable individuals, not desperate for money. -Surrogacy is not baby selling; it's a legal and ethical process. -The joy of baby day is unparalleled in surrogacy. -Finding the right agency is crucial for a positive experience.
In this powerful episode, Erin shares her personal story of resilience as she navigated leukemia and its impact on her fertility. She candidly discusses the challenges she faced during her cancer treatment, the emotional complexities of egg donation, and the critical role of advocacy in oncology. Erin emphasizes the importance of preventative care and highlights valuable resources available to women facing similar health journeys. Her story is a beacon of hope and a call to action for women to prioritize their health and explore their options, even in the face of adversity.
Takeaways
-Erin had leukemia at a young age, impacting her fertility options. -The technology for egg freezing has significantly improved over the years. -Ongoing conversations about fertility are crucial for young adults with cancer. -Understanding the financial and logistical aspects of egg donation is essential. -Advocacy for fertility preservation is important in oncology care. -Preventative care, including regular GYN visits, is vital for women's health. -The HPV vaccine is a significant advancement in preventing cervical cancer. -Patients should feel empowered to ask questions during medical appointments. -Building a supportive healthcare team is crucial for navigating fertility issues. -Keeping an open mind during the egg donation process can lead to better outcomes.
In this episode, I have the pleasure of chatting with Courtney and Kacey, who share their wonderful surrogacy journey. We dive into the emotional highs and lows they face, from the challenges of infertility to the deep, personal connections they make along the way. They talk about how essential trust and open communication are in finding the right surrogate match and how that relationship evolves throughout the process. Delivery day brings overwhelming joy and fulfillment, and they reflect on how the experience bonded them with each other in ways they never expected. Courtney and Kacey also offer heartfelt advice for anyone considering surrogacy, highlighting both the emotional and practical sides of the journey. Their story is a powerful reminder of the strength it takes to build a family and the incredible support system that forms along the way.
Takeaways
-Surrogacy can be a beautiful path to family building. -Trust and communication are essential in the Intended Parent-Surrogate relationship. -Infertility can lead to unexpected and fulfilling journeys. -The matching process is crucial for a successful surrogacy experience. -Delivery day is a moment of joy and fulfillment for all involved. -Building a relationship with the surrogate is important for emotional support. -Surrogacy can be a way to help others while fulfilling one's purpose. -It's important to be open to the unexpected in family planning. -The emotional journey of surrogacy includes both joy and grief. -Celebrating the miracle of life is at the heart of surrogacy.
S3E2 Who?! Securing the Journey: Adam Winder on Transparent Escrow for Surrogacy & Egg Donation
15 Jan 2025
00:41:07
Summary
In this insightful episode, Adam Winder discusses how SeedTrust provides specialized escrow services designed to support surrogacy and egg donation journeys. Adam explains the importance of trust, transparency, and meticulous oversight in managing sensitive financial transactions. He highlights the founding principles behind SeedTrust, detailing the internal controls, audits, and security measures in place to safeguard clients’ funds. The conversation emphasizes the emotional nature of building families through surrogacy and egg donation and how a neutral, reliable escrow partner enables intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors move forward confidently. With a passionate commitment to innovation, accountability, and collaboration, Adam and his team at SeedTrust help ensure that the financial side of family-building remains secure, clear, and stress-free.
Takeaways
-SeedTrust is a tech-enabled escrow provider focused on surrogacy and egg donation. -Trust is a critical factor in third-party journeys like surrogacy and egg donation. -Escrow services must be independent to avoid conflicts of interest. -Checks and balances are essential to prevent fraud in escrow management. -SeedTrust has a $50 million bond for client protection. -Specialization in escrow services is crucial due to the complexity of transactions. -Audits provide transparency and accountability in financial management. -The leadership team at SeedTrust has extensive financial and legal expertise. -Client protection is paramount in the escrow industry. -SeedTrust aims to set a standard for security in escrow services. -Trust and transparency are essential in surrogacy and egg donation. -Escrow serves as a critical utility in the surrogacy and egg donation process. -SeedTrust aims to create secure solutions for clients. -The emotional aspect of egg donation and surrogacy requires a neutral party. -Innovations in escrow services enhance security and efficiency. -The role of attorneys is crucial in drafting contracts. -Managing payments through escrow reduces stress for all parties. -SeedTrust is committed to raising industry standards. -Collaboration with agencies is vital for successful egg donation and surrogacy journeys.
S3E1 Who?! Wellness Redefined: Nutrition, Fitness, & Grace in Motherhood
08 Jan 2025
00:57:13
Summary
In this empowering episode, we connect with Jenn and Ash from Jenn and Ash Wellness to discuss the foundations of wellness for women during pregnancy and postpartum. Together, they explore the concept of whole health, the importance of understanding macronutrients, and practical tips for self-care and stress management. Jenn and Ash highlight the significance of community support, coaching, and establishing healthy habits, while also addressing common misconceptions about health during pregnancy. They encourage women to prioritize their well-being, seek help when needed, and give themselves grace as they navigate the challenges of motherhood. We hope you find this episode inspirational and practical in helping you find your personal path to wellness.
Takeaways
-Wellness is a continuous journey, not just a New Year's resolution. -Understanding macros helps in fueling the body effectively. -Whole health encompasses fuel, movement, sleep, stress, and environment. -Pregnant women can often continue their pre-pregnancy fitness routines. -Hydration is crucial for overall health and wellness. -Movement positively impacts mental health, especially during pregnancy. -It's important to listen to your body and adjust activities accordingly. -Postpartum recovery requires grace and prioritizing healing. -Mindset plays a significant role in achieving wellness goals. -Food should be viewed as fuel, not as a source of guilt. -Giving yourself grace is essential during postpartum. -Asking for help is crucial but can often difficult. -Hydration plays a key role in recovery and health. -Balancing blood sugar is vital for overall well-being. -Stress management techniques can significantly improve mental health. -Self-care is not selfish; it is necessary for health. -Community support can enhance the postpartum experience. -Nutrition should be tailored to individual needs and goals. -Movement encourages healthier eating habits. -Finding personal wellness strategies is empowering.
Join us for a very special episode of *Me, You, and Who?!* as we celebrate the incredible journey of 2024. This year has been truly unforgettable, filled with meaningful conversations, heartfelt stories, and the joy of helping to educate, support, and create happy families.
We’re revisiting some of our favorite moments from the past year, showcasing the inspiring guests, powerful insights, and impactful discussions that have made this season so special.
Whether you’re a hopeful parent, a surrogate, an egg donor, or simply curious about this extraordinary process, this episode is for you. And as we wrap up an amazing year, we’re already looking ahead to 2025 with even more exciting guests and conversations on the horizon.
Thank you for being part of our community and for making 2024 such a remarkable season. Now, sit back, relax, and enjoy the best moments of *Me, You, and Who?!*
S2E27 Who?! #REPOST from The Surrogacy Space Podcast
04 Dec 2024
00:23:57
In this episode of The Surrogacy Space, hosted by Marla Neufeld, Executive Director, Katy Encalade, shares the inspiring mission behind Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions. Katy discusses how we help create happy families through our comprehensive egg donation and surrogacy programs, while providing meaningful support to intended parents, donors, and surrogates alike. Tune in to learn more about who we are, what we do, and the incredible impact of our work in family-building. A special thank you to Marla for having Katy as a guest and for her commitment to exploring important conversations in the surrogacy community.
S2E26 - Who?! A Momma via Egg Donation & Her Daughter
20 Nov 2024
00:23:02
Summary In this heartfelt episode of the Me, You, & Who podcast, we sit down to explore the complex experiences of donor-conceived individuals. Together, we delve into the emotional and psychological impact of growing up in a donor-conceived family, shining a light on the importance of identity and connection. We share personal stories about navigating sibling relationships, meeting the donor, and the evolving understanding of our origins. This candid conversation underscores the significance of transparency and early discussions within donor-conceived families, offering insight and advice for those on similar journeys. Whether you're a parent, a donor-conceived individual, or simply curious, this episode offers a compassionate look at the challenges and joys of understanding family and identity.
Takeaways
-Donor conception is a unique journey that shapes identity.
-Open communication about donor conception is crucial from an early age.
-Meeting the donor can be a significant and emotional experience.
-Sibling relationships can form in unexpected ways through donor conception.
-It's important to provide children with resources and books about their origins.
-Parents should be prepared for ongoing questions about donor conception.
-Every family has its own unique story regarding donor conception.
-Emotional support is vital for donor-conceived individuals and their families.
-Creating a sense of family with donor siblings can be magical.
S3E28 Who?! Two Journeys, One Purpose: Abby and Kara on the Power of Surrogacy
23 Jul 2025
00:54:29
Summary: In this heartfelt episode, Whitney Hall sits down with Abby and Kara to explore their emotional journeys through surrogacy. They reflect on the challenges they’ve faced, the deep and unexpected connections formed, and the transformative nature of the experience. With honesty and warmth, they share how trust, community support, and shared vulnerability shaped their paths and helped them grow. This episode is a celebration of the powerful bonds built through surrogacy and a reminder of the magic that unfolds when people come together with love and purpose.
Takeaways: - Surrogacy can be a miraculous experience. - Building trust is essential in surrogacy. - Community support plays a vital role. - It's important to have open communication. - Memorable moments can arise unexpectedly. - Finding joy in the chaos is crucial. - Prayer and community can provide strength.
S2E25 Who?! Faith, Family, and Egg Donation: A Journey to Parenthood
06 Nov 2024
00:48:37
In this episode, Ebony and Donald Carter take us on their remarkable journey of growing their family through egg donation. Initially, Ebony believed her family was complete after a tubal ligation following her second child. However, after meeting Donald and deciding to expand their family together, they found themselves facing the challenge of infertility. They candidly share the emotional rollercoaster of selecting an egg donor, the support they received from loved ones, and the unwavering faith that guided them through the process. Their story culminates in the heartwarming arrival of their son, Graham. Tune in to hear their powerful narrative of love, resilience, and the belief that even the most challenging dreams can come true.
Takeaways
-Egg donation can be a viable option for couples struggling with infertility
-Having a strong support system can help navigate the emotional challenges of the process
-The process of selecting an egg donor can be exciting and empowering
-Open and honest communication with family and friends about the decision to use egg donation is important
-Having a supportive team is crucial during the egg donation process
-Keeping the end goal in mind and trusting the process can help navigate the emotional challenges
-Finding stress relief and being transparent with each other is important for intended parents
S2E24 - Who?! The Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions Egg Donor Coordination Team
16 Oct 2024
00:28:08
On today's episode, we get to hear from the incredible members of the Egg Donor Coordinators from Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions! In this episode you will hear from these dedicated women about what led them to their roles and learn about the invaluable support they provide to both intended parents and egg donors.
So much is required to navigate this complex process, and these coordinators share how they offer essential guidance every step of the way. For egg donors, this episode reveals the commitment and patience needed, and the profound impact they have on the lives of future parents.
Filled with insights and inspiration, this episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the world of egg donation. Tune in and be inspired by the incredible stories and expertise of this amazing team!
Takeaways
- Egg donor coordinators play a crucial role in providing support and guidance to intended parents and egg donors throughout the fertility process.
- Clear communication and finding a mutual agreement are essential in addressing legal considerations and the dynamics of known and unidentified donors.
- Egg donor coordinators aim to ensure that everyone involved feels supported and heard.
- Egg donor coordinators can provide resources and support for those interested in exploring the donor sibling registry
- Support and understanding are crucial for intended parents and egg donors.
- The time commitment and flexibility required should not be underestimated.
- Each journey is unique, and you should not compare experiences.
- Having support at home is important for both egg donors and intended parents.
- The agency and team members play a crucial role in providing support and guidance throughout the process.
- Helping families build their families is fulfilling and rewarding.
S2E23 - Who? Kristin McQuaid, Founder of "London is the Reason"
02 Oct 2024
01:34:04
On today's episode, we have the incredible Kristin McQuaid sharing her profound journey through infertility, surrogacy, loss and the inspiring way she turned the most heartbreaking moment of her life in to something amazing beautifully and good. Kristin opens up about the devastating loss of her daughter, London, and the beautiful ways London’s life has left a lasting impact.
In this conversation, Kristin takes us through the creation of her unique nonprofit, 'London is the Reason,' which supports parents and surrogates navigating the loss of a child. She discusses the emotional journey of coping with loss, grief, and finding a path to healing after the unimaginable.
We'll delve into the complexities of moving forward after loss, the readiness to grow a family again, and the unique challenges faced by intended parents and surrogates. Kristin’s story doesn't end in sadness—she shares the joy and love that came with the births of her children, Bexley and Ford.
This episode is a testament to Kristin's resilience, hope, and the unwavering power of love. Tune in to hear her inspiring story and discover how Kristin's journey can offer solace and strength to anyone facing similar challenges. I know this episode will tug at your heartstrings and inspire you to find hope in the face of adversity.
Takeaways
-Kristin's journey through infertility led her to explore surrogacy as a way to start a family.
-The loss of her daughter, London, inspired Kristin to create the nonprofit 'London is the Reason' to support others facing similar challenges.
-Celebrating the lives of lost children and finding purpose in their memory is a powerful way to navigate grief and honor their impact.
-The readiness to grow a family after loss is a personal and complex decision, especially for intended parents and surrogates.
-The unique challenges faced by intended parents and surrogates in the context of loss and family growth require specialized support and understanding.
S2E22 - Who? 10 Years of Friendship: Kendall and Katy's Surrogacy Journey
25 Sep 2024
01:21:31
Summary
On today’s episode, we get to hear from Katy, our Executive Director at Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, and her intended mom, Kendall, as they reflect on their incredible surrogacy journey. Almost ten years ago, they met for the first time, beginning a path that would not only bring baby Pace into the world but also forge a lifelong friendship.
Katy and Kendall take us through every part of their experience, from the excitement of their match meeting to the challenges they faced during the embryo transfer. They share the joy, laughter, and even moments of uncertainty that defined their journey, while highlighting the importance of communication, trust, and focusing on their shared goal.
As they look back on the birth of baby Pace, they offer heartfelt advice for anyone considering surrogacy. Kendall encourages intended parents to trust their emotions, while Katy reminds us that every surrogacy story is different, and it's important to stay focused on the ultimate goal.
This episode is filled with heart and wisdom, whether you’re considering surrogacy yourself or simply love a great story. I can’t wait for you to listen in and be inspired by Katy and Kendall’s incredible bond and shared experience!
Takeaways
-Surrogacy can be a long and emotional journey, but it can also lead to incredible connections and relationships.
-The match meeting between intended parents and a gestational carrier is an important step in the surrogacy process.
-Trust and communication are key in the surrogacy relationship.
-Complications and fears can arise, but having a shared goal helps navigate through them
-Maintaining a positive and supportive relationship between the surrogate and intended parents is key The support of family and loved ones is crucial during the surrogacy journey.
-The emotional experience of the birth and the unique bond between the intended parents and the surrogate can be profound.
-It's important for intended parents to trust their emotions and not worry about feeling the 'right' way.
-Each surrogacy journey is unique, and it's important to focus on the end goal and recognize that everyone's experience is different.
On today's episode, I get to sit down with Jenn DiMillo, a remarkable three-time gestational carrier who began her surrogacy journey at the age of 40. Jenn opens up about her life-changing decision in 2015 and how her first match with intended parents sparked a deep desire to bring joy to more families.
Jenn's story is one of beauty, love, and perseverance. While she faced challenges along the way, the overwhelming support and profound joy she experienced shine through in each of her three incredible journeys. Tune in to hear Jenn's heartfelt story filled with love and pure happiness.
Takeaways
- Surrogacy is a deeply personal and rewarding experience that allows individuals to help others create a family.
- The matching process between surrogates and intended parents is crucial for building a strong relationship and ensuring a positive journey. Surrogacy involves physical and emotional challenges, but the support of loved ones and open communication with intended parents can make the experience fulfilling.
- Each surrogacy journey is unique, and surrogates have the opportunity to form lasting connections with intended parents. Becoming a gestational carrier can be a rewarding experience for women who have had positive pregnancies and enjoy being pregnant.
- Having a strong relationship with the intended parents is crucial for a successful surrogacy journey.
- Mental and physical preparedness are important factors to consider before becoming a gestational carrier.
- A supportive agency can provide guidance and support throughout the surrogacy process.
- Surrogacy can have a positive impact on everyone involved, including the gestational carrier, intended parents, and the children.
On today's episode, we dive into the world of egg donation with the extraordinary Egg Donor Matching Team from Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions! These remarkable women share their personal journeys and the passion that drives their work in this life-changing field.
You'll hear firsthand how the team provides unwavering support and guidance throughout the process, taking a unique and personalized approach to each match. We delve into the emotional aspects of egg donation, the importance of choosing the right donor, and address common misconceptions. Plus, we highlight the critical role of education, proper guidance, and trust in making this journey a successful one.
Join us for an episode filled with joy, care, and invaluable insights from this amazing team. You won’t want to miss it! Enjoy!
Takeaways
- Building trust and establishing a good relationship with intended parents is crucial in the egg donation and surrogacy process.
- The matching team provides support and guidance to intended parents, addressing their fears and concerns.
- Choosing the right donor can be a challenging decision, but personal connections and intuition play a significant role.
- Intended parents may have concerns about loving a child who is not genetically connected, but the journey and bond can be just as strong.
- Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions takes a unique and personal approach to the egg donation and surrogacy process. Choosing the right donor is a crucial aspect of the egg donation process, and it often involves an emotional connection.
- Having a support system in place and considering one's current life circumstances are important factors to consider before becoming an egg donor.
- There are common misconceptions about the impact of egg donation on future fertility, but it is important to educate oneself and seek guidance.
- The egg donation process requires a time commitment, and there may be waiting periods between different stages.
- Egg donation is a way to make a difference and create a family, and the connections formed through the process can be fulfilling and meaningful.
- Trust in the matching team and the process is essential for both intended parents and egg donors.
- The decision to become an egg donor or pursue egg donation is just the beginning of the journey to parenthood, and it is important to embrace the process and the possibilities it offers.
S2E19: Who? The Founding Director of The Center for Family Building
28 Aug 2024
00:43:01
On today's episode we sit down with Lisa Schuman, a licensed clinical social worker specializing in fertility and the founding director of The Center for Family Building. Lisa, co-author of *Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception*, shares her personal journey with infertility and how it led her to dedicate her career to this field.
Our conversation covers the evolution of reproductive technology and the essential role psychological support plays throughout the process. Lisa offers a deep dive into the therapist's role in surrogacy and egg donation, and also provides valuable advice on discussing donor conception with children and family members, along with resources for ongoing support.
Tune in for an enlightening discussion packed with practical advice that will resonate with those that are on a journey or have a loved one that is growing there family in this way.
Takeaways
- Reproductive technology has evolved significantly, offering more options and higher success rates.
- Psychological support is crucial throughout the reproductive journey for all parties involved.
- It is recommended that Intended parents establish a strong relationship with their surrogate or egg donor, including regular communication and shared experiences.
- Finding a qualified therapist who is not affiliated with the agency is important for unbiased support.
- Open and honest communication is crucial in the family building process, and should be established from the beginning.
- It is important to consider the long-term implications of decisions made in the family building process, such as the impact on relationships and the child's understanding of their origins.
- Building a supportive community of individuals going through similar experiences can provide valuable support and resources.
- Having conversations about donor conception with children and family members should start early and be ongoing, tailored to the child's personality and needs.
S2E18: Who? The Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions Surrogate Coordination Team
25 Aug 2024
00:31:11
On today's episode, we get to hear from the incredible members of the Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions Surrogate Coordination Team! In this episode our team of experienced surrogates share their personal stories and valuable insights from their experiences, that led them to the world of surrogacy.
We learn from coordinators about their pivotal roles in supporting both intended parents and surrogates throughout the journey, and discuss unforeseen challenges that can emerge and the benefits of having Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions in your corner to help navigate and overcome those possible challenges. The team also addresses the common myths and misunderstandings about surrogacy and stressing the vital role of communication and collaboration throughout the process.
This team is with you every step of the way throughout a surrogacy journey and you can feel the love and support that they can't wait to show you!
Takeaways
- Coordinators play a vital role in supporting intended parents and surrogates.
- Surrogacy journeys are filled with memorable moments and unexpected challenges.
- Communication and teamwork are crucial in the surrogacy process.
- Surrogacy is not about money, but about helping others achieve their dream of having a family.
- Surrogacy journeys are a rewarding experience for both surrogates and intended parents and is a transformative experience that brings joy and fulfillment to both surrogates and intended parents.
- Building strong relationships and expanding one's support network is an important part of the surrogacy journey.
- Challenges and emotional moments can occur, but the support and care provided by the team help navigate these difficult times.
- Effective communication and tailoring the surrogacy experience to each individual's needs are crucial for a successful journey.
- Surrogacy is a rewarding and life-changing experience that allows individuals to help others achieve their dream of starting a family.
S2E18: Who? The Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions Surrogate Coordination Team
21 Aug 2024
00:31:11
On today's episode, we get to hear from the incredible members of the Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions Surrogate Coordination Team! In this episode our team of experienced surrogates share their personal stories and valuable insights from their experiences, that led them to the world of surrogacy.
We learn from coordinators about their pivotal roles in supporting both intended parents and surrogates throughout the journey, and discuss unforeseen challenges that can emerge and the benefits of having Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions in your corner to help navigate and overcome those possible challenges. The team also addresses the common myths and misunderstandings about surrogacy and stressing the vital role of communication and collaboration throughout the process.
This team is with you every step of the way throughout a surrogacy journey and you can feel the love and support that they can't wait to show you!
Takeaways
- Coordinators play a vital role in supporting intended parents and surrogates.
- Surrogacy journeys are filled with memorable moments and unexpected challenges.
- Communication and teamwork are crucial in the surrogacy process.
- Surrogacy is not about money, but about helping others achieve their dream of having a family.
- Surrogacy journeys are a rewarding experience for both surrogates and intended parents and is a transformative experience that brings joy and fulfillment to both surrogates and intended parents.
- Building strong relationships and expanding one's support network is an important part of the surrogacy journey.
- Challenges and emotional moments can occur, but the support and care provided by the team help navigate these difficult times.
- Effective communication and tailoring the surrogacy experience to each individual's needs are crucial for a successful journey.
- Surrogacy is a rewarding and life-changing experience that allows individuals to help others achieve their dream of starting a family.
S2E17 - Who? An Estate Attorney Specializing in ART Law
14 Aug 2024
00:34:29
On today's episode, we delve into the often-overlooked but critical topic of estate planning with Casey O'Connell, an attorney at Klein Fertility Law. Casey highlights the essential role of estate planning in assisted reproductive technology (ART), explaining what it involves, why it's vital—especially for decisions about genetic material—and the best times to start (hint: sooner rather than later!). Whether you're at the beginning of your journey, in the midst of it, or beyond, this episode is packed with invaluable insights that ensure your family's future is secure. Don't miss out on this informative discussion!
Takeaways
-Estate planning is crucial in the context of assisted reproductive technology and art law especially when considering what to do with genetic material, in the event of your death or incapacity
-Setting forth your wishes in writing can help avoid disputes and ensure that your family is taken care of
-Acting sooner rather than later and updating your estate plan as needed is recommended
S3 E27 Who?! East Meets West: Holistic Fertility Support with Nicole Lange
16 Jul 2025
01:03:05
Summary: What does it look like to care for your whole self during the fertility journey—not just your body, but your heart and mind too?
In this episode, Whitney sits down with Nicole Lange, a licensed acupuncturist and holistic fertility educator, to explore how slowing down, tuning in, and embracing both Eastern and Western wisdom can make a powerful impact. Nicole shares her personal path to acupuncture, the connection between stress and fertility, and simple, supportive practices you can start using today.
Whether you're an intended parent, egg donor, surrogate, or supporting someone you love, this conversation is full of encouragement, insight, and grounded guidance to help you feel more connected to your body and your journey.
Takeaways: - Acupuncture is evidence-based and can support fertility treatments. - Nicole Lange's journey to acupuncture was influenced by personal trauma and a desire for holistic care. - Depth over volume in patient care emphasizes quality interactions with patients. - Acupuncture can help regulate immune function and improve blood flow to the uterus. - Integrating acupuncture with Western medicine can enhance fertility treatments but only if you feel comfortable. - Mental health is crucial in the fertility journey and should be prioritized. - DIY practices like acupressure can support fertility at home. - True holistic care considers the whole person, not just their reproductive system.
S2E16 - Who? An Intended Mother via Surrogacy & Baby Clara
07 Aug 2024
00:40:03
Meet Julie, mom to three beautiful children, as she shares her inspiring journey of expanding her family through surrogacy after carrying her two oldest children and facing significant fertility challenges as well as other health issues.
Julie’s story is one of trust and resilience, as she leaned on the expertise of medical professionals, trusted the process when working with her agency, and ended up matching with an easygoing surrogate who communicated effortlessly. A self-proclaimed "control freak," Julie reflects on the calmness and trust she felt throughout the journey and the overwhelming joy of finally holding her baby girl. She shares invaluable insights, including the surprise at her own relaxation and the immense love and gratitude she has for her surrogate.
Tune in to hear Julie's reflections and perspective as an intended parent who has carried her own children before, her advice for others considering surrogacy, and the profound appreciation she feels for the incredible gift given to her family. You also get to meet a surprise guest, baby Clara! This episode is a testament to the power of trust, community, and the remarkable journey of surrogacy.
Takeaways
-Choosing the right agency is crucial for a successful surrogacy journey, with clear communication and support being key factors.
-Building a strong relationship with the surrogate through open and honest communication is important.
-Surrogacy can be a calm and positive experience for intended parents.
-Building a supportive community and seeking advice from others who have gone through the same journey can alleviate fears and uncertainties.
-Trusting the process and the chosen surrogate is essential for a successful surrogacy journey.
-The joy and gratitude of finally holding the baby make all the challenges and struggles worthwhile.
-The bond between intended parents and their surrogate can be lifelong and filled with love and appreciation.
S2E15: Who? The Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions Surrogate Education and Matching Team
24 Jul 2024
00:35:44
On today's episode, we get to hear from the incredible members of the Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions Surrogate Education and Matching Team!
In this heartwarming and insightful conversation, we dive deep into the experiences and pivotal roles of these dedicated team members. Discover the core values that drive the mission of Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, including transparency, personal connections, and a deep understanding of the unique needs and preferences of both intended parents and surrogates.
Learn about the meticulous process of matching intended parents and surrogates, the importance of thorough research and education, and the patience required to create the perfect match. The team shares their unwavering commitment to providing unparalleled support and guidance throughout the surrogacy journey, emphasizing open communication, trust, and shared values.
What sets this exceptional agency apart is their dedication to building strong, meaningful relationships and ensuring a harmonious and fulfilling journey for everyone involved. Join us as we explore how Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions is dedicated to creating happy families and cherishing the joy of turning dreams into reality.
Takeaways
- The team at Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions is committed to providing support and guidance throughout the surrogacy journey.
- Transparency and open communication are crucial in the surrogacy process.
- Understanding the needs and preferences of intended parents and surrogates is essential for a successful match.
- An agency allows surrogates and intended parents to choose each other, offering a more personalized experience.
- Building strong relationships and finding the right match is crucial in surrogacy.
- Open communication, trust, and shared values are essential for a successful journey.
- Thorough research and education are important for both intended parents and surrogates.
- Patience is key, and rushing the process can lead to problems.
- The team at Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions are supportive and available throughout the surrogacy journey and are dedicated to creating happy families.
On today's episode, we get to hear the journeys of Liz and Brian, as well as of Brandon and Jake, as each couple navigated the path of egg donation to grow their families. They open up about their decision to pursue egg donation, sharing the emotional highs and lows they faced along the way. They each reflect on some of those pivotal moments, like the support they received throughout the process from their fertility clinic, from Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, and from their friends and family, as well as the process of choosing their perfect egg donor. Their stories are ones of resilience, love, and celebrating each success along the way.
Takeaways
-The decision to pursue egg donation can be a complex and emotional journey, requiring a blend of emotions and pragmatism. -Choosing an agency and an egg donor involves personal preferences and a sense of connection. -Having a supportive network, including the agency and other professionals, can provide guidance and advocacy throughout the process. -Clear communication and a supportive coordinator can help navigate setbacks and delays. -Investing in high-quality resources can greatly enhance the journey. -The egg donation process can bring couples closer and strengthen their relationship. -Connecting with a community of others going through similar experiences can provide valuable support. -Embracing different paths to parenthood and taking one step at a time can alleviate concerns and uncertainties.
Who? Two Amazing Dads via Egg Donation & Surrogacy
26 Jun 2024
01:09:42
Join us in today's heartwarming episode as we sit down with dads Mike and Harold, who share their incredible journey of growing their family through surrogacy and egg donation. As a same-sex couple, they open up about the complexities they navigated, from medical challenges to the emotional and practical considerations they faced along the way.
Mike and Harold highlight the invaluable support from Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, whose guidance was crucial throughout their journey. Despite numerous obstacles, their unwavering determination to become parents shines through. They talk about the importance of open communication, a strong support system, and carefully considering the long-term implications of their decisions regarding genetic material.
Reflecting on their decade-long journey, Mike and Harold provide a wealth of insights for anyone embarking on a similar path. This episode is filled with resilience, humor, and above all, love. Don't miss this touching conversation with two incredible individuals who navigated the surrogacy process with grace and joy.
Takeaways
Having a supportive agency can provide guidance and help navigate the complexities of the process.
The journey to parenthood may involve challenges and setbacks, but determination and support can keep you going.
Humorous and heartwarming moments make the journey worthwhile. Open and honest communication is crucial throughout the surrogacy journey.
Having a strong support system can help navigate the challenges and emotional rollercoaster of surrogacy.
Decisions regarding genetic material should be carefully considered and discussed between intended parents.