Welcome back to Club Sapphire! In this sizzling second part of our Flirting 101 series, it’s Bianca’s turn to take the lead—and this time, she’s showing Matt how to flirt with women in the lifestyle. 💃💋If approaching other women has ever felt intimidating or awkward, Bianca’s got you covered. She walks Matt through the fine art of flirting with confidence, warmth, and just the right amount of sass. From reading the room to delivering compliments that actually land, she shares her go-to strategies for making meaningful—and flirty—connections with women at swinger events.Expect plenty of laughs (and a little blushing) as Bianca flips the script on Matt, putting him in the hot seat and guiding him through real-life scenarios. Let’s just say… things may get a little spicy. 🌶️💡 Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or just want to sharpen your social game, this episode is packed with flirty tips, empowering advice, and yes, more awkward (but hilarious) moments from our own adventures.🎥 Haven’t seen Part One yet? Go watch Matt’s turn as the flirt coach—it’s a must-see!💬 Join the Conversation:Ladies, what’s your favorite way to flirt with other women? Guys, what do you notice most when women flirt with each other? Drop your thoughts, tips, and cheeky stories in the comments below!👉 Support the Channel:Love what we’re doing? Tap like, hit subscribe, and ring that bell so you never miss an episode. Your support keeps the flirty fun going!🍍🍍🍍Club Sapphire: https://clubsapphire.com🍍Join Matt & Bianca on a swinger vacation: https://spicyvacations.com🍍Take a pole class with Bianca: https://biancaboom.com🍍Bianca's OF and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsbiancaboom🍍For Collaborations/Media Inquiries: matt@spicyvacations.com🍍🍍🍍

Welcome back to Club Sapphire! In this exciting first part of our two-part Flirting 101 series, Matt steps up to teach Bianca the art of flirting with male swingers. If you’ve ever found yourself a little tongue-tied or unsure how to break the ice at lifestyle events, this episode is packed with tips and tricks to help you feel confident and connected.Matt walks Bianca through the essentials—how to spot the right moment, read body language, and strike up engaging conversations that leave a lasting impression. From playful banter to knowing when to take things to the next level, this episode is your guide to mastering the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) cues that make flirting fun and effortless.We also share some hilarious real-life stories from our adventures at lifestyle clubs and swinger events—because let’s be honest, sometimes things don’t go exactly as planned! But that’s half the fun, right? 😂🔥 Coming Soon: Part Two! Bianca will take the reins and show Matt how to flirt with women in the lifestyle. You won’t want to miss it!💬 Join the Conversation:What’s your secret to successful flirting? Do you lean more towards cheeky humor, flirty eye contact, or playful teasing? Share your tips and stories in the comments—we’d love to hear from you!👉 Support the Channel:If you love our content, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode.🍍🍍🍍Club Sapphire: https://clubsapphire.com🍍Join Matt & Bianca on a swinger vacation: https://spicyvacations.com🍍Take a pole class with Bianca: https://biancaboom.com🍍Bianca's OF and Instagram:   / itsbiancaboom  🍍For Collaborations/Media Inquiries: matt@spicyvacations.com🍍🍍🍍#Flirting101 #SwingerTips #ClubSapphire #MattAndBianca #LifestyleCouple #Swingers #OpenRelationships #FlirtingWithConfidence #LifestyleAdvice #SwingerCommunity #ClubLife

In this episode, we chat with Eric and Tatiania, two ambassadors for the couples cruise. We discuss the important questions, like whose job it is to clean up random condoms in the playroom. (Kasidie: funwithtne)

In this episode, we talk about putting stuff up vaginas. Also, what to do when it's play time and your Aunt Flo comes to town.

In this episode, we talk about Bianca's search and subsequent success in finding a boyfriend.

In this episode, we talk about our recent trip to a Fantasy Coop mansion party in the Anaheim Hills of California.

In this episode, we talk about the Ins and Outs of hosting an orgy. How to create a guest list, how to setup the playroom and much more. If you'd prefer to watch the video version, check out our YouTube channel.

In this episode, we discuss Bianca's entrance into the world of dating by herself. Yes guys, she's looking for a man. Please don't send her pics of your junk, that never works.

In this episode, we continue discussing Matt's new girlfriend, her staying over and meeting our kids. Juicy stuff.

The episode you've all been waiting for...or at least if you listened to Episode 13: The Next Step and wondered whatever happened with Matt dating separately. This is where thing start to get interesting.

In this podcast, we interview Lisa and Scott. Lisa is a paraplegic and has a fascinating story to tell. We also talk about detoxing from swinging and the attack of the terrible kissers.

In this episode, we interview The Sapphic Swingers, a lesbian couple in the lifestyle. Also, check out their podcast at http://sapphicswingers.blogspot.com/

What Is Compersion? Jealousy, Love Languages & Relationship Growth | Swinging Lifestyle Education🎤 Hosted by Matt & Bianca | Club SapphireAre you new to the swinging lifestyle and wondering how couples manage feelings like jealousy? Or maybe you're a seasoned swinger looking to deepen your connection with your partner? In this educational and deeply personal video, Matt and Bianca from Club Sapphire take you on an honest exploration of compersion—the beautiful concept of feeling joy for your partner’s pleasure.In the swinging and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) world, compersion is often described as the opposite of jealousy. But it’s more than just a buzzword—it's a mindset shift that can transform your relationship and elevate your lifestyle journey. Matt and Bianca share their personal stories, growth moments, and real talk about the challenges and breakthroughs that come with exploring non-monogamy as a committed couple.Whether you're navigating soft swap vs full swap, discovering your love languages, or figuring out your comfort zone in the club or on a swinger cruise, this video delivers valuable insight into the emotional side of the lifestyle.💡 In this episode, you’ll learn:What is compersion, and how does it apply to swinging couples?The difference between jealousy and envy in open relationshipsHow love languages affect your play preferences and emotional needsWhy clear communication is crucial in ethical non-monogamyReal examples of working through insecurity, mismatched desires, and emotional triggersHow couples grow stronger through shared experiences—even if they’re not shared in the same wayMatt and Bianca, well-known lifestyle educators and hosts of the Club Sapphire community, bring years of relationship experience, honest storytelling, and thoughtful reflection. Their guidance is especially helpful for couples over 40 who are entering or growing within the swinging world.📚 This is a must-watch for anyone interested in:Swinging education for beginnersNavigating feelings in the lifestyleDeveloping emotional intelligence in non-monogamyCreating healthy boundaries with play partnersBuilding trust and intimacy through lifestyle exploration🗨️ Have you experienced compersion in your own journey? What helped you get there? Drop your thoughts in the comments and join the conversation.💬 Subscribe for more real talk about the lifestyle from Matt and Bianca at Club Sapphire—your go-to source for swinger education, relationship insights, and authentic advice on ethical non-monogamy.🍍🍍🍍Club Sapphire: https://clubsapphire.com🍍Join Matt & Bianca on a swinger vacation: https://spicyvacations.com🍍Take a pole class with Bianca: https://biancaboom.com🍍Bianca's OF and Instagram:   / itsbiancaboom  🍍For Collaborations/Media Inquiries: matt@spicyvacations.com🍍🍍🍍#SwingingLifestyle #SwingerEducation #ClubSapphire #MattAndBianca #OpenRelationships #NonMonogamy #Compersion #JealousyInSwinging #LifestyleCouples #EthicalNonMonogamy #SwingersOver40 #SwingingForBeginners #LoveLanguages #ENMEducation #SwingerAdvice #RelationshipGrowth #RealTalkSwinging #CouplesWhoSwing

In this episode, we discuss our upcoming swinger cruise, how to find a unicorn for a threesome, and Bianca comes out of the closet to her eyelash lady.

In this episode, we talk about pubic hair: waxing and shaving. We also answer a listener question about bi-sexual men in the Lifestyle.

In this episode, we talk about our first weekend apart since we've been in the Lifestyle (Matt at home and Bianca in Vegas) and what happens when the spouse is away...

In this episode we talk about our recent attempt converting a Neopolitan friend into a unicorn.

In this episode we talk about how we just handled our teenager asking about our "extracurricular" activities...

In this episode we talk about the couple we couldn't hook up with, getting cock blocked and beaver dammed, why afternoon sex is awesome, and we answer some listener mail.

In this episode (which we recorded on the swinger cruise), we interview Tom and Jacque, a single man and a single women who met while in The Lifestyle, fell in love and now play as a couple.

In this episode, we get ready for the upcoming swinger cruise. This is the perfect podcast to listen to if you're going on this trip or thinking about one in the future.

Yes, that title was meant to be a pun. In this episode, we talk about finally getting a FFM threesome. Matt is happy.

In this episode, we interview a couple that we got to play with for an entire weekend. This was our first separate room experience for any extended time. We'll let you know how it went...

In this episode, since Bianca is taking some time off, we figured it was the best time to introduce Bethanie, Matt's girlfriend. You can also watch the video on our YouTube channel.

In this episode we talk about our sexy house guests, the proper types of oil to rub on Bianca and The Case of The Disappearing Condom.

In this episode, we interview Jason & Jess, a lifestyle couple who met in the military. We also talk about an amazing website perfect for newbies to bring up the idea of swinging to their significant other.

In this episode, we talk about the types of people who swing and the types of people who don't. We announce the opening of cherrywear.com and discuss our awesome listeners sending us stuff.

In this episode, we talk about sensitivity levels during sex. How some people prefer soft and sensual sex while others want to get banged so hard they walk bow-legged for a week.

In this episode we talk about Vanilla Hunting, how we've done it, how not to do it, why not to do it. You know what? Just don't do it. (Special Note: We know this episode title is terrible but it was either that or The Vanilla Hunt for Red October.

In this episode we talk about swinging and orgies on New Year's Eve, facial hair on men and an update on Matt's toe-dipping into single dating.

In this episode, out of nowhere Bianca mentions that she wants Matt to have a girlfriend. So they decide the rules of their new POLY relationship while recording. There is a reason this is a long podcast. If you listen to just one episode, listen to this one.

In this episode, we talk about sexting others. Also, playing on Thanksgiving, girls fingering each other in a vanilla club and we review the show "Swing Town".

In this episode, we talk about the many different types of balls, making appointments for sex and the sexy wiggle-hug woman. Guest hosts: Jamie and Teresa.

In this episode, (which we recorded on the swinger cruise), we talk sexual compatibility, the dangers of having sex on a balcony and why women should only speak in French during sex. Special Guest Host: Cousette from www.Cousette.me

In this episode, Matt & Bianca talk to Tom and Bunny, General Managers of Freedom Acres in Southern California. Filmed at Hedonism in Jamaica, they talk about their amazing club, running into your family, schoolmates and priests at a swingers club, and how to act around a celebrity when you meet one in this situation.

In this episode we talk about progression of swinging, how to go from soft swap all the way to an orgy in the dark. Also, having too much alcohol and who to invite to your next orgy.

In this episode we talk about having a connection with someone you're about to have sex with. Also hall passes, threesomes and Bianca's pole dancing.

In this episode, we talk about our failed sexy Halloween costumes, stealing someone's wallet during an orgy and the recreational aspect of swinging.

In this episode, we talk about Halloween costumes, Neopolitan couples (not in the Lifestyle but open to...things), Narwhals (Single men). We also discuss how bi-curious women can take that first step.

In this episode, we talk about bl*wjobs, swallowing and cumming etiquette for men. Also, do you have to like the person you're spouse is about to have sex with?

In this episode, we talk about men having performance anxiety and the little blue pill. We discuss grooming, exercise and getting back into the dating scene. Oh, and Matt breaks a chair.

In this episode we talk about Lifestyle Cruising. Which ones we've been on and which ones are coming up. What to pack for the theme nights. Where to stay the night before. The playrooms, the nudity, there's just so much to talk about...

In this episode, we talk about parties and orgies. How to host one. Who to invite. What to do. How to transition from chatting to sex. We also give you a tour of our new personal playroom.

In this episode we talk about first times. How we got into swinging. Our very first experience with another couple. We talk about getting naked and having sex on camera. And a bit about jealousy.

In this episode, Matt and Bianca interview Doug and Ruby, the owners of Club Sapphire in Seattle. They talk about double standards for swingers, the differences between single men and single women and how they should act in lifestyle situations. Also, a lot of great information on their club and the swinging scene in the Pacific Northwest.

In this episode recorded at Hedonism II, we interview Dave and Gina. We talk about enjoying different sexual things from different people. Also, swinging and cheating, how to properly pull hair and having a gaping hole in your urethra.

In this podcast, we review our recent trip to Hedo 2 in Jamaica. We talk about the resort, the food, the sex and the people. If you are going there or thinking about it, you definitely should listen. Please share this podcast with others that might be interested in learning about the resort. Our YouTube video of this podcast has footage from the resort as well.

In this episode, Matt and Bianca talk about the pros and cons of Same Room Play compared to Separate Room Play. Also, how to help keep your husband hard while he's with another girl, sneaky guys and condoms, how to be successful at a swinger club.

In this episode, we interview Shawn and Becky. Becky was the winner of this year's Ms. No Swimsuit Contest, sponsored by Tom's Trips.

Matt and Bianca have taken their open relationship to a whole new level—they’ve entered into a *quad*! In this video, they share what it’s really like dating another couple, how the connection formed, and what they’ve learned about communication, boundaries, and keeping things fun (and spicy).

Join them as they laugh through the awkward moments, talk about navigating jealousy, and explain the difference between swinging, polyamory, and a true quad relationship. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or deep into ethical non-monogamy, this is a must-watch for anyone who’s ever wondered how four people can make love and logistics work.

💬 Topics covered:

• What is a quad relationship?
• How it differs from swinging or polyamory
• Building trust and connection between four partners
• Managing emotions and boundaries
• Tips for open and honest communication

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