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| 1127 - A Navy SEAL’s Simple Breathwork Tool to Beat Lust, Anxiety, and Reactivity | 22 Jun 2026 | 01:16:55 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Will Schneider and Jon Macaskill, co-hosts of Men Talking Mindfulness, to explore how mindfulness, meditation, and breathwork can help men navigate anxiety, stress, and the constant distractions of modern life. Drawing from their diverse backgrounds—Will as a meditation teacher and former actor, and Jon as a former Navy SEAL commander—they share their personal journeys into mindfulness and how these practices transformed their relationships, decision-making, and overall well-being. The conversation unpacks the differences between mindfulness, meditation, and breathwork, while offering practical tools for regulating the nervous system, reducing reactivity, and creating more space between stimulus and response. They also discuss the impact of technology on attention, the importance of intentional daily habits, and why consistency and community are essential for lasting change. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to slow down, reconnect with themselves, and cultivate greater awareness so they can live with more purpose, presence, and freedom. SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good JON AND WILL’S RESOURCES: Men Talking Mindfulness Website Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Men Talking Mindfulness 01:26 Will Schneider's journey from acting to teaching mindfulness 03:32 Jon Macaskill's path from Navy SEAL to mindfulness advocate 07:05 Why the pandemic amplified stress, isolation, and the need for mindfulness 10:05 Mindfulness in high-performance environments 13:54 Mindfulness, meditation, and breathwork: understanding the differences 18:31 How to know mindfulness is actually working 22:48 Why lasting change requires consistency, patience, and self-awareness 26:38 The role of accountability and community in personal growth 28:29 The power of creating space between stimulus and response 30:04 Practical habits for becoming more mindful every day 32:12 Technology, distraction, and reclaiming control of your attention 33:56 Understanding urges, desires, and unconscious behaviors 38:25 The science behind breathwork and nervous system regulation 44:22 Box breathing and the 4-7-8 breathing technique explained 45:05 Guided 4-7-8 breathing exercise 49:07 Real-life benefits of breathwork and emotional regulation 51:28 How breathwork can unlock deeper emotional awareness 53:23 Common meditation misconceptions and what meditation really is 55:26 Different meditation practices and finding the right approach 57:20 Why noticing and returning your attention is the heart of meditation | |||
| 1126 - The Truth About Nice Guys Nobody Wants To Admit | 15 Jun 2026 | 01:17:47 | |
In this episode, Sathiya welcomes back Connor Beaton, a trailblazer in the world of men’s work and personal development. Since his last appearance over two years ago, Connor has experienced profound life changes—from family milestones to personal loss and massive business growth. Their candid conversation explores the complex landscape of “mother wounds” and their impact on men’s emotional health, relationships, and sense of self. Together, Sathiya and Connor unpack the archetypes of mother wounds, discuss how modern culture shapes masculinity, and offer practical advice for personal healing, boundary-setting, and finding meaningful male community. Whether you’re curious about the challenges men face today, looking for actionable insights, or seeking inspiration to start your own healing journey, this episode delivers a deeply insightful and empowering discussion. SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good CONNOR’S RESOURCES: Check out the ManTalks Alliance
Timestamps: 00:00 Supporting a loved one through cancer 05:18 Discussing Mother Wounds and men's work 15:26 Talking about relationship standards 20:31 Discussing gender and safety dynamics 26:51 Understanding and Addressing Personal Anger 28:06 Understanding and Embracing Male Anger 37:33 Healing from mother wounds 44:14 Overcoming permission-seeking in relationships 49:22 Navigating life changes and growth 54:46 Therapy and biological influences 59:03 Therapy system failing to support men 01:04:46 Managing inner intensity as a man 01:08:22 Confronting and repairing personal issues 01:13:46 Importance of male communities 01:17:20 Staying connected with people | |||
| 1125 - He Tried Accountability, Counseling, and Prayer… But Still Relapsed | 08 Jun 2026 | 00:32:55 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Zach, a DeepClean graduate, to discuss his journey from a lifelong struggle with pornography to lasting recovery and deeper personal growth. Zach shares how accidental exposure in childhood led to years of secrecy, shame, and repeated relapses despite pursuing counseling, accountability, and 12-step recovery. He reflects on the difficult process of rebuilding trust in his marriage, confronting the fear of being fully known, and recognizing that true recovery involves transformation of the heart, not just behavior change. Together, they explore key shifts that accelerated Zach’s progress, including understanding the beliefs beneath addictive behaviors, addressing unmet emotional needs, and developing greater emotional awareness. The conversation highlights practical tools such as journaling, breathwork, and honest connection with God, as well as the role these practices have played in strengthening Zach’s relationships, faith, and confidence as he prepares to become a father. Zach also shares how learning to identify lies, embrace vulnerability, and take consistent action helped him achieve nearly 10 months of freedom and build a healthier, more intentional life.
SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good Timestamps 00:00 – Meet Zach: Marriage, fatherhood on the horizon, and his background 01:01 – Early exposure to pornography and the beginning of a 20-year struggle 03:04 – The podcast insight that changed everything: freedom and character formation 03:38 – Coming clean to his wife and the impact on their marriage 08:03 – Finding support through friends, church community, and accountability 08:38 – Exploring DeepClean and taking the next step 09:09 – Previous recovery attempts: therapy, 12-step groups, and phone restrictions 10:16 – Why willpower and understanding the “why” weren’t enough 11:23 – The belief shift that transformed his recovery journey 13:04 – How journaling uncovered hidden stress, anxiety, and overwhelm 13:38 – Using breathwork to regulate emotions and reconnect with himself 14:09 – Meeting emotional needs through connection with God 14:39 – Repenting of underlying beliefs, not just behaviors 16:17 – Integrating faith into breathwork and daily emotional health 18:31 – Replacing feelings of rejection with God’s truth and love 21:14 – Processing anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and fear of failure 22:49 – How intentionality transformed friendships and relationships 24:01 – Preparing for fatherhood while overcoming insecurity and fear 26:10 – Applying recovery skills after the program ended 27:13 – Learning emotional skills he never developed growing up 27:47 – Celebrating 10 months free from pornography 30:32 – Advice for men considering their next recovery step 31:39 – Why addiction recovery requires guidance, structure, and support | |||
| 1124 - The Neuroscience of Romans 12:2: How Your Brain Actually Changes | 01 Jun 2026 | 01:17:39 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with renowned neurosurgeon, author, and speaker Dr. Lee Warren to explore the intersection of neuroscience, faith, trauma, and transformation. Drawing from his experiences as a combat neurosurgeon during the Iraq War, surviving PTSD, and grieving the loss of his 19-year-old son, Mitch, Dr. Warren shares how those painful seasons led him to discover the powerful connection between intentional thinking, faith, and neuroplasticity. The conversation explores the difference between the mind and the brain, how thoughts shape the body and behavior, and why modern neuroscience increasingly supports biblical principles about renewing the mind. Sathiya and Dr. Warren also discuss addiction recovery, habit formation, resilience through suffering, the importance of community and brotherhood, and Dr. Warren’s concept of “self-brain surgery” — the process of intentionally rewiring the brain through thought patterns, faith, and action. Throughout the episode, they reflect on scriptures including Romans 12, Philippians 4, Romans 5, and Psalm 103, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace hope, pursue healing, and recognize their God-given capacity for growth and transformation through adversity.
SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good
LEE WARREN’S RESOURCES: Lee’s book: The Life-Changing Art of Self-Brain Surgery Lee’s website: https://wleewarrenmd.com/ Timestamps: 01:18 – Dr. Lee Warren shares his background as a combat neurosurgeon 02:09 – Serving in Iraq, PTSD, divorce, surviving war trauma, and loss of his son 04:11 – Wrestling with grief, faith, and questions about God 05:48 – The realities of performing brain surgery during war 07:57 – Feeling disconnected despite understanding the brain scientifically 08:59 – The humility required to confront personal struggles and trauma 11:42 – The MRI experiment that changed Dr. Warren’s understanding of the mind and brain 14:57 – Discovering “self-brain surgery” and the power of intentional thinking 17:49 – Neuroplasticity and how thoughts physically reshape the brain 20:14 – Why transformation creates genuine hope 21:37 – The origins of “self-brain surgery” 22:38 – Science and faith: conflict or connection? 25:46 – Gratitude, anxiety, and what neuroscience reveals about Philippians 4 29:39 – How suffering produces endurance, character, and hope 32:52 – Dr. Warren’s grandson overcoming dyslexia and building resilience 36:39 – Why suffering can become a pathway to growth 37:48 – Parenting, risk, and helping children build resilience 39:50 – Freedom from pornography and living with integrity 41:07 – What to do when you feel completely stuck 42:55 – The reticular activating system and how your brain filters reality 46:59 – Rewriting your internal story to create change 49:02 – Why seeking outside help is wisdom, not weakness 56:44 – Why suffering is the biggest challenge to faith for many people 57:58 – Circumstances versus emotional resilience 59:39 – Psalm 103 and God’s promises in suffering 01:00:49 – Healing, dis-ease, and renewing the mind 01:02:15 – Finding hope and resilience through God’s design 01:06:11 – How past suffering can prepare us for future challenges 01:07:26 – Community, brotherhood, and the neurological power of connection 01:10:22 – Quantum entanglement, relationships, and emotional influence 01:15:42 – Romans 8 and the importance of setting the mind on life and peace | |||
| 1123 - The Moment My Entire Life Collapsed… | 25 May 2026 | 01:10:32 | |
In today’s episode, Sathiya sits down with Stefanos Sifandos, a behavioral scientist and relationship expert known for his work in modern masculinity, emotional healing, and personal transformation. Drawing from decades of experience coaching Olympic athletes, CEOs, and individuals seeking deeper purpose and connection, Stefanos shares powerful insights on what it truly means to heal, grow, and live with authenticity in today’s world. Together, Sathiya and Stefanos explore the connection between trauma, addiction, self-worth, and identity, unpacking how unresolved pain can shape our relationships, habits, and sense of self. Stefanos opens up about his turbulent upbringing, the awakening that changed the course of his life, and the inner work that helped him move from chaos to clarity. They also discuss emotional resilience, vulnerability, conscious relationships, and the unique challenges men face in modern society. Whether you’re struggling internally despite outward success, navigating addiction or emotional pain, or simply searching for a more grounded path forward, this episode offers practical wisdom, meaningful perspective, and encouragement for anyone ready to step into a healthier and more empowered version of themselves.
SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good
STEFANOS’ RESOURCES: Find Stefanos in Instagram Subscribe to Stefanos’ YouTube Tune In and Turned On Book Timestamps: 01:30 Personal journey and childhood challenges 08:22 Realizing the need for change 11:37 Breakthrough moments in quitting porn 16:15 Healing through relational witnessing 24:44 Debating when to move house 31:01 Parenting through rupture and repair 34:14 Life changes after becoming a father 41:55 Stripping away material facades 45:48 Working with high-performing athletes 48:10 Tailoring approaches to individual needs 57:24 Embracing personal growth opportunities 59:44 Reflecting on personal connections 01:05:18 Taking the first step to self-improvement | |||
| 1122 - The Missing Piece In Most Recoveries | 22 May 2026 | 00:17:59 | |
In this special solo episode, Sathiya shares a major realization after years of helping men overcome pornography addiction: transformation is not primarily about gaining more knowledge, but about taking the right action in the right environment. Reflecting on his own recovery journey and the evolution of DeepClean, Sathiya explains why so many men remain stuck despite consuming endless content, courses, podcasts, and recovery tools. He introduces the concept of “proximity” — the power of being deeply connected to honest, growth-minded men and why true breakthrough often happens through meaningful relationships and in-person experiences rather than isolation or surface-level accountability. Throughout the episode, he explores the exhaustion of pretending, the importance of being fully known, and how the right environment can accelerate healing and personal growth. Sathiya also announces the very first annual DeepClean Retreat happening this fall in Dallas, Texas, designed to help men reconnect with God, themselves, and authentic brotherhood while creating lasting freedom and wholeness.
SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good
Timestamps: 00:39 Years of helping men quit pornography and studying what actually works 02:05 The difference between knowledge and effective action 02:57 Avoiding the “content trap” in recovery 03:47 Lessons learned from recent DeepClean live trainings 05:42 The power of proximity and being around the right people 06:22 Digital community vs. real-life connection 07:00 Why people are craving in-person experiences again 08:03 Reflecting on DeepClean’s growth and breakthrough moments 10:18 The discouragement of “doing the work” without results 10:32 The missing ingredient: deep brotherhood and honesty 11:18 The exhaustion of pretending and not being fully known 11:42 DeepClean’s shift from coaching to community-centered recovery 12:39 Announcement: the first annual DeepClean Retreat 13:42 How the right environment compresses years of struggle 15:05 Why listeners should consider attending | |||
| 1121 - Most Men Aren’t Lusting — They’re Escaping | 18 May 2026 | 00:58:41 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Mark Queppet, a pioneer in men’s recovery and personal transformation, for a powerful conversation about overcoming porn addiction and building a life of purpose. Mark shares how true recovery goes far beyond willpower, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, intentional routines, and creating a life you actually want to be present in. He unpacks practical frameworks for growth, the role of faith in transformation, and how understanding emotional triggers can lead to lasting change. Together, Sathiya and Mark explore masculinity, identity, and the importance of separating self-worth from external status. They also dive into the power of journaling, daily habits, and having a compelling vision for the future. With insights on community support and even the role of AI in self-coaching, this episode offers a well-rounded approach to personal growth and recovery. Ultimately, it’s a conversation that challenges listeners to lead with integrity, celebrate progress, and step fully into their purpose. SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good
MARK’S RESOURCES: Explore Mark’s work Timestamps: 01:00 Online discourse on faith and porn 06:17 Breaking away from faith 07:50 Returning to church experience 10:36 Translating faith to secular terms 15:28 Developing a personal growth system 19:29 Understanding emotional triggers for porn use 21:43 Daily habits and metascripting 24:40 The power of journaling in recovery 28:34 Separating self-worth from status 30:14 Discussing masculinity and ruggedness 34:51 Understanding frame dynamics in relationships 40:14 Importance of having a vision 43:30 Celebrating wins in recovery 52:18 AI for self-coaching: benefits and concerns 57:29 Importance of community support | |||
| 1120 - Why High-Performing Men Still Feel Like Frauds | 11 May 2026 | 01:06:56 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Brandon Clift to unpack a powerful conversation about authentic leadership, identity, and personal transformation. Brandon shares his insights on the tension between chasing external success and cultivating true inner wholeness, highlighting how many men get caught in the trap of performance and validation. With honest reflection, he explores the difference between the “glow and the show” and what it takes to move from striving for recognition to living with genuine purpose. He also dives into the shift from being the hero of your own story to becoming a guide who empowers others. Brandon shares how self-acceptance, community, and deeper self-awareness play a crucial role in this journey. Sathiya and Brandon emphasize the importance of aligning inner growth with outward leadership and stepping into a more meaningful, grounded version of success. Ultimately, this episode offers a compelling message that true leadership begins within and that lasting impact comes from living authentically and leading from a place of wholeness. SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good BRANDON'S RESOURCES: Explore Brandon’s website Timestamps: 02:11 Struggles Behind a Successful Image 09:53 Parenting fears and relationship insights 11:09 Reflecting on generational parenting changes 19:49 Pushing to master the Kovacs skill 24:33 Adidas founder's life-changing decision 29:08 Understanding personal purpose and influences 41:43 Unlocking Inner Peace Daily 47:28 Focusing on community building 49:25 Addressing loneliness through community 58:35 Facing personal challenges and fears 59:39 Personal transformation and heroic journey 01:05:39 Becoming a guiding beacon | |||
| 1119 - The Night He Got Caught Changed Everything | 04 May 2026 | 01:24:22 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Tim Ross to unpack a raw and deeply honest conversation about the hidden struggles many men face. Tim opens up about his personal journey through trauma, addiction, emotional battles, and the grip of pornography, shedding light on the tension between faith and private pain. With striking vulnerability, he shares how confession, therapy, and authentic relationships became key turning points in his healing process. Together, they challenge the idea of surface-level solutions and explore what it truly takes to experience lasting peace, freedom, and wholeness. Sathiya and Tim emphasize the importance of breaking isolation, embracing community, and pursuing genuine transformation. Ultimately, this episode offers a powerful reminder that no matter how hidden the struggle, freedom is possible through honesty, support, and intentional healing. SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good TIM'S RESOURCES: The Basement Podcast The Missing Peace by Tim Ross Purchase Link: Timestamps: 05:41 Being caught watching porn by mom 14:41 Feeling isolated and unable to share 19:18 Discussing authenticity and vulnerability 24:26 Therapy as ongoing self-care 26:37 Opening up to my mom 34:34 Feeling lonely at the top 52:21 Creating a safe therapy space 56:39 Understanding integration and recovery 01:03:48 Discussing trauma healing 01:08:33 Vision of Jesus during hardship 01:12:23 Struggling with unhealthy habits 01:21:51 Therapist's questions and biblical parallels | |||
| 1118 - I Hid This for 20 Years… Until It Almost Destroyed My Life | 27 Apr 2026 | 00:47:09 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Jim Shultz to unpack a powerful story of addiction, secrecy, and redemption. Jim shares his decades-long struggle with unresolved trauma that fueled it, and the breaking point when his hidden life was threatened with exposure through blackmail. With striking honesty, he reflects on the emotional and relational toll of his choices, especially within his marriage. He also explores how he began the difficult journey toward healing by embracing truth, accountability, and faith as foundations for lasting change. Jim shares how he rebuilt trust and learned to live with integrity. Sathiya and Jim highlight the importance of supportive community and the courage required to face one’s past without shame. Ultimately, the episode offers a hopeful message that no matter how deep the struggle, transformation is possible and that freedom begins with honesty and a willingness to pursue true healing. SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good Timestamps: 03:55 Early childhood struggles and abuse 07:40 Reflecting on personal growth journey 09:36 Coping with infidelity and trauma 14:37 Struggling with labels and shame 18:11 Hitting rock bottom and seeking help 21:11 Growing up with church influences 23:33 Working through emotional awareness 28:43 Overcoming betrayal with support 29:42 Finding support in community 35:21 Finding healing through faith and therapy 37:44 Addressing childhood traumas 42:20 Importance of community and vulnerability 43:09 Staying accountable in recovery | |||
| 1117 - Stop Skimming Scripture: The Shift That Changes Everything | 20 Apr 2026 | 01:02:15 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with theologian, podcaster, and educator James Spencer for a thoughtful and practical conversation about manhood, faith, and the modern challenges facing Christians. They explore the importance of biblical literacy, unpacking why so many men struggle to engage scripture and how different preaching styles like expository and topical teaching - shape spiritual growth. The conversation also examines the dynamics of online Christian content, highlighting the risks of fragmented understanding, viral controversies, and the powerful influence of algorithms on belief and behavior. Drawing from his background as a personal trainer, James shares simple, actionable insights for building consistent spiritual habits, while also emphasizing the importance of staying deeply connected to a local church community. As the discussion turns to the rise of AI, Sathiya and James tackle big questions about technology and faith, exploring how it can both support and hinder genuine creativity and discipleship when not approached with wisdom and discernment. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to deepen their engagement with scripture, cultivate intentional spiritual rhythms, and navigate both digital and real-world spaces with clarity, humility, and purpose.
SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good
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Timestamps: 00:00 Challenges in Expository Preaching Online 06:00 Edgy Online Content Trends 15:43 Discipleship Context in Church Growth 21:35 Exercise and Bible Study Parallel 27:20 Slow, Reflective Start to Day 28:51 Reflections on Scripture Study 36:28 Navigating AI in Faith Education 42:03 Faithful Tech Use and Purpose 45:54 Obedience and Individual Nuance 51:15 AI Insights vs. Hard Research 58:32 Things vs. Devices Philosophy | |||
| 1116 - The Truth About Women in the Bible That Most Men Never Question | 13 Apr 2026 | 00:56:34 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Preston Sprinkle to explore the complex intersections of faith, gender, and sexuality within today’s cultural landscape. They examine themes from Preston’s book From Genesis to Junia, particularly the role of women in church leadership and how historical Christian ethics inform modern perspectives. The conversation highlights Preston’s personal journey from a complementarian viewpoint to a more nuanced understanding of gender roles, as well as his thoughtful engagement with challenging biblical texts. They also discuss broader issues surrounding sexuality, dignity, and the importance of humility and compassion in theological dialogue. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to wrestle honestly with scripture, embrace personal growth, and pursue meaningful, grace-filled conversations within their communities.
SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good
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Timestamps: 00:00 Passion Rooted in Study 06:25 Bible Study: Humble Patience 08:14 Reconsidering Women's Authority in Scripture 12:41 Contextual Analysis of Disruptive Speech 14:30 Reframing Views on Women 20:02 Reevaluating One-Flesh Union Theology 23:06 Marriage, Theology, and Attraction 25:29 Understanding Same-Sex Attraction 31:20 Navigating Attraction and Desire 34:00 Understanding Lust and Insecurity 38:39 Church Conversations on Same-Sex Attraction 43:28 Relational Barriers in LGBT Ministry 46:11 Sex, Marriage, and Procreation 53:48 Transformation Requires Readiness and Cost 55:02 Theology in Raw Resources | |||
| 1115 - Why Disciplined Men Still Fall—and The Boundaries That Save Them | 06 Apr 2026 | 01:05:50 | |
In this episode, Sathiya sits down with pastor and author Jim Ramos to explore how setting intentional boundaries can strengthen and protect your marriage. Drawing from his book Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage, Jim shares practical insights on avoiding small compromises, living above reproach, and building trust through accountability and affirmation. He also emphasizes that boundaries aren’t about restriction, but about freedom - the kind that allows relationships to thrive without regret. With real-life examples and straightforward wisdom, this conversation equips men at any stage to pursue integrity, safeguard their relationships, and create a foundation for lasting, healthy love.
SATHIYA’S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good
JIM'S RESOURCES: Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage
Chapters: (01:45) Writing a faith-focused book (05:48) Explaining the concept of guardrails (12:55) Avoiding temptation at the game (16:33) Qualifications for spiritual leadership (21:11) The danger of small compromises (30:04) Discussing faith, tech, and boundaries (35:34) Practical everyday tips and examples (40:40) Prioritizing emotional connection in marriage (51:00) Giving thoughtful, performance-focused compliments (52:40) Standing firm in faith (01:00:44) The struggle of discipleship | |||
| 1114 - Scot Ste Marie: Why You’re So Stressed (And Don’t Even Know It) | 30 Mar 2026 | 01:02:16 | |
In this episode of the Man Within podcast, host Thea Sam and guest Scott St. Marie delve into the pervasive issue of stress, particularly among men. They explore the unique stressors men face today, the impact of the inner critic, and the importance of self-awareness. Scott shares practical strategies for managing stress, emphasizing the need for compassion and understanding in the journey of self-discovery. The conversation also touches on the significance of silence and retreats in fostering presence and mindfulness, ultimately guiding listeners towards a more balanced and fulfilling life.
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| 1113 - Why Trying Alone Is Actually the Problem | 27 Mar 2026 | 00:14:40 | |
In this episode, Sathiya explains why trying to quit porn alone isn’t just ineffective — it’s unbiblical and counterproductive. If effort alone worked, you’d already be free. He unpacks how isolation fuels secrecy, rumination, and internal pressure, making self-control harder rather than easier. Scripture consistently shows that transformation happens in community, not in solitude. True freedom requires structure, visibility, rhythm, and brotherhood. Community doesn’t replace discipline — it sustains growth long enough for real change to compound.
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| 1112 - Why Quitting Porn Gets Harder As You Get Older | 25 Mar 2026 | 00:11:44 | |
In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the complexities of quitting pornography, particularly as men age. He emphasizes that while the struggle may intensify over time due to deeper engrained habits and increased life stressors, it does not equate to hopelessness. Sathiya highlights the importance of understanding the underlying issues driving the addiction, the role of shame, and the necessity of community support. He offers practical tools for recovery, encouraging listeners to shift their perspective from willpower to regulation and connection with others.
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| 1111 - Shiraz Siddique: Men Aren’t Bad Communicators. They’ve Just Been Silenced. | 23 Mar 2026 | 01:04:54 | |
In this conversation, Shiraz Saddique and the host explore the complexities of communication from a male perspective. They challenge the narrative that men are poor communicators, emphasizing the importance of understanding intent and authenticity in communication. The discussion also delves into the impact of technology and AI on communication, the significance of touchpoints in relationships, and the need for men to define their masculinity in a changing cultural landscape. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the internal struggles men face in communication and the importance of overcoming passivity to foster effective interactions.
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| 1110 - The Moment You Actually Quit Porn (It’s Not When You Think) | 20 Mar 2026 | 00:15:28 | |
In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the often misunderstood journey of quitting pornography, emphasizing that true freedom is not a dramatic moment but a gradual process. He shares his personal experiences and insights on the importance of community, consistency, and self-regulation in achieving lasting change. Sathiya highlights that recovery is rarely climactic and that breakthroughs are often recognized only in hindsight. He encourages listeners to seek support and build connections to foster healing and growth.
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| 1109 - The Neuroscience of Quitting Porn (Without Biohacks or BS) | 18 Mar 2026 | 00:13:00 | |
In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the neuroscience behind pornography addiction and how the brain can be rewired. He emphasizes the importance of understanding both the brain and the nervous system in the recovery process. Sathiya provides practical steps for regulating the nervous system and rewiring the brain, highlighting that true change occurs during moments of distress and urges. He encourages listeners to take actionable steps towards recovery and offers resources for support.
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| 1108 - Murray & Ash Smith: "This Is Why You Feel Lonely (Even Around People)" | 16 Mar 2026 | 01:09:12 | |
In this episode of the Man Within podcast, Sathya engages with Murray and Ash Smith from Catch the Fire Toronto to explore the themes of community, connection, and the challenges of loneliness in today's society. They share their personal journeys, the importance of kindness and openness in building relationships, and the dynamics of fostering community in a large city. The conversation delves into the significance of vulnerability, the role of personal responsibility in creating community, and the unique challenges faced by different genders in forming connections. The episode emphasizes the need for healing and self-awareness as foundational elements for meaningful relationships.
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| 1107 - The Hidden Cost of “Just One More Time” | 13 Mar 2026 | 00:12:48 | |
In this episode, Sathiya unpacks the hidden cost behind the phrase “just one more time.” What feels like a small compromise quietly erodes momentum, self-trust, and integrity over time. He explains that the real damage isn’t the single act — it’s the repeated postponement that keeps men stuck, especially high-functioning men whose lives still “look fine” on the outside. Freedom doesn’t start with dramatic vows or rock bottom. It begins with a simple interruption — small, intentional actions that restore clarity and shift direction.
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| 1106 - Why Porn Is Harder to Quit for High-Performing Men | 11 Mar 2026 | 00:14:30 | |
In this episode, Sathiya Sam explores the unique challenges high-performing men face when trying to quit pornography. He discusses how high performance can mask underlying issues, the role of self-control, and how pornography serves as a coping mechanism. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, effective systems for recovery, and addressing childhood patterns to achieve lasting freedom from addiction.
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| 1105 - Dr Grant Mullen: Why You Can’t “Pray Away” Anxiety (And What Actually Works) | 09 Mar 2026 | 01:01:32 | |
In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Grant Mullen shares his journey from being an anesthetist to a physician specializing in mental health and spirituality. He discusses the importance of understanding the interplay between physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of mental health, particularly within the Christian community. Dr. Mullen emphasizes the significance of thought control, the role of emotional baggage, and the necessity of forgiveness and repentance in the healing process. He provides practical tools for individuals struggling with mental health issues, including the importance of daily quiet time with God and the power of prayer. The conversation highlights the need for compassion and understanding in addressing mental health challenges, as well as the transformative potential of faith in the healing journey.
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| 1104 - Why My First 10 Years of Trying to Quit Porn Failed | 06 Mar 2026 | 00:15:42 | |
In this episode, Sathiya Sam shares his personal journey of overcoming a decade-long struggle with pornography addiction. He reflects on the mistakes he made during his recovery, emphasizing the importance of understanding the root causes of addiction rather than merely focusing on sin. Sathiya discusses the limitations of willpower and accountability, the significance of emotional regulation, and the transformative power of brotherhood. He encourages listeners to ask the right questions to facilitate lasting change and highlights that clarity is essential for progress.
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| 1103 - Is Porn More Like Cocaine or Alcohol? The Neuroscience Explained | 04 Mar 2026 | 00:15:14 | |
In this episode, Sathiya unpacks whether porn addiction is more like cocaine or alcohol — and explains why the answer is actually both. Drawing from neuroscience and personal experience, he breaks down how pornography hijacks the brain through rapid dopamine spikes (like cocaine) while also becoming a predictable emotional coping tool (like alcohol). He explains why minimizing porn leads to ineffective recovery strategies and why willpower alone fails. Because porn trains both the brain’s reward system and emotional regulation system, recovery must intentionally retrain both. Sathiya closes with practical steps: interrupt dopamine loops by optimizing technology, identify what porn has been providing emotionally, and pursue freedom in community rather than isolation.
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| 1102 - Pr Steve Long: Why Leaders Fall (And How to Make Sure You Don’t) | 02 Mar 2026 | 01:14:36 | |
In this episode of the Man Within podcast, Sathya Sam engages with Steve Long, a seasoned leader in church ministry, to explore the intricacies of leadership. They discuss Steve's journey into leadership, the transformative experience of the Toronto Blessing Revival, and the importance of character and maturity in effective leadership. The conversation emphasizes the need for mentorship, the balance of opportunities for young leaders, and the values that define great leaders. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the significance of leadership, particularly focusing on the impact of home life on leadership effectiveness. They discuss the importance of integrity, accountability, and the challenges leaders face, including moral failures and the struggle with issues like pornography. The dialogue emphasizes the need for transparency and communication within leadership roles, as well as the cultural shifts affecting how leaders are perceived and held accountable. The speakers also highlight the ripple effects of personal integrity on families and communities, advocating for a supportive environment for leaders to grow and overcome their struggles.
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| 1101 - This Is The #1 Sign You Are Addicted To Porn | 27 Feb 2026 | 00:08:34 | |
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam delves into the complexities of porn addiction, challenging the common misconception that addiction is purely about pleasure. He emphasizes that the true nature of addiction lies in the conflict between desire and self-loathing, where individuals often crave something they simultaneously detest. Drawing on the research of Dr. Gary Wilson, Sathiya explains how early excitement from porn fades, leading to a reliance on it as a coping mechanism for stress and discomfort. This creates a cycle of shame and confusion, where the desire for porn persists despite a lack of enjoyment.
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| 1100 - Why Self-Control Is The New Status Symbol For Men | 25 Feb 2026 | 00:11:39 | |
In this episode of the Man Within podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the evolving perception of masculinity and status in contemporary culture. He argues that self-control has emerged as a new status symbol, contrasting sharply with the traditional notions of excess and indulgence. Sathiya emphasizes that while society has celebrated consumption and indulgence, true strength lies in the ability to exercise restraint. He draws on biblical references, particularly the life of King Solomon, to illustrate the pitfalls of excess and the importance of self-control in achieving emotional maturity and leadership.
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| 1099 - Jay Stringer: Porn Is Hijacked Desire (Here’s How to Reclaim It) | 23 Feb 2026 | 01:18:30 | |
In this conversation, Sathiya and Jay Stringer explore the concept of desire, challenging the common belief that it is a problem. They discuss how desire can be a source of healing, intimacy, and personal growth. Jay introduces his framework of five core desires—wholeness, personal growth, intimacy, pleasure, and meaning—and emphasizes the importance of navigating critical periods in life with intention and support from community and elders. The discussion highlights the diagnostic nature of desire and its role in revealing areas of personal development, ultimately advocating for a healthier relationship with desire as a means to flourish in life.
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| 1098 - Why So Many Worship Leaders (and Christian Men) Secretly Struggle With Sexual Sin | 20 Feb 2026 | 00:15:44 | |
Sexual sin among worship leaders and Christian men isn’t proof that faith doesn’t work — it’s proof that isolation does. In this episode, Sathiya Sam explains how pressure, access, and identity distortion create secrecy, even in devoted leaders. Drawing from personal experience, he shows why spiritual activity alone can’t heal unaddressed wounds and why honest brotherhood, rooted identity, and accountability are essential for lasting freedom.
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| 1097 - Halfway Holiness Won’t Survive 2026 | 18 Feb 2026 | 00:12:21 | |
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the urgent need for intentionality in pursuing holiness in a world increasingly filled with distractions and temptations. He emphasizes that drifting into a holy life is no longer an option, as modern life actively pulls individuals away from spiritual integrity. Sathiya argues that true holiness requires full surrender to God, intentional resistance against temptation, and a complete dependence on divine strength. He reflects on how previous generations had a cultural reinforcement of faith that is now lacking, making it essential for individuals today to take proactive steps towards holiness.
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| 1096 - Why Men Are Quietly Returning to Church | ft. Jordan Hardum | 16 Feb 2026 | 00:40:59 | |
In this conversation, the speakers discuss the evolving role of men in the church and society, highlighting a resurgence of male attendance in churches and the challenges they face. They explore the changing dynamics of masculinity, the importance of spiritual leadership in the home, and the need for men to connect meaningfully with each other. The discussion also touches on the significance of fatherhood, the impact of technology, and the future direction of men's ministry, emphasizing the importance of community and discipleship.
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| 1095 - FEBRUARY GIVEAWAY - BIG SURPRISE AT THE END | 13 Feb 2026 | 00:31:32 | |
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| 1094 - Porn and Intimacy: Why Valentine’s Day Triggers So Many Men | 11 Feb 2026 | 00:07:22 | |
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam delves into the complexities of Valentine's Day and its impact on men's emotional well-being. He argues that the holiday amplifies feelings of loneliness, insecurity, and disconnection, leading many men to turn to pornography as a coping mechanism. Sathiya explains that Valentine's Day serves as a magnifying glass for relational awareness, exposing what men desire but often lack in their lives. He emphasizes that porn is a temporary escape that ultimately leaves individuals feeling emptier, as it replaces genuine intimacy with a false sense of connection.
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| 1093 - Paul Hutchinson: "Hollywood Tried To Bury This Story" | 09 Feb 2026 | 00:54:44 | |
In this conversation, Paul Hutchinson, the executive producer of 'Sound of Freedom', shares insights into the making of the film, the challenges faced in bringing awareness to child trafficking, and the deep connections between pornography and trafficking. He discusses his personal journey, motivations for his work, and the importance of healing and integrity in combating these issues. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal transformation and the ripple effect of individual actions on society.
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| 1092 - 10 Lessons From 10 Years of Freedom | 06 Feb 2026 | 00:13:52 | |
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam reflects on his ten-year journey of freedom from pornography, sharing ten hard-earned lessons that he wishes he had understood sooner. He emphasizes that willpower is overrated and that true freedom is built before temptation arises. Sathiya discusses how pornography was merely a symptom of deeper issues, highlighting the importance of addressing root causes rather than just the behavior itself. He also stresses that spiritual disciplines alone are not sufficient for recovery; they must be complemented by practical systems and skills. Throughout the episode, he shares insights on the significance of community, accountability, and the need for a stable environment to foster long-term recovery.
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| 1091 - 10 Years Clean + 1 Million Downloads (Here's The Full Story) | 04 Feb 2026 | 00:19:18 | |
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, host Sathiya Sam reflects on his transformative journey from a decade-long struggle with pornography addiction to achieving over one million downloads of his podcast. He shares the pivotal moments that led to his recovery, emphasizing that it wasn't sheer willpower or discipline that made the difference, but rather a shift in mindset and the establishment of supportive systems. Sathiya recounts his early experiences with pornography, the challenges he faced during his university years, and the realization that he needed to change the systems in his life that perpetuated his addiction. He highlights the importance of community support and the role it played in his healing process, ultimately leading him to help others facing similar struggles.
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| 1090 - Veteran Explains: "PTSD Isn’t What You Think It Is" | Ft. Jeremy Stalnecker | 02 Feb 2026 | 00:59:44 | |
In this conversation, Jeremy Stalnecker discusses the impactful work of Mighty Oaks, a program dedicated to serving veterans and first responders. He shares insights into the challenges faced by these individuals, particularly regarding trauma and mental health. The program emphasizes the importance of faith, community, and personal testimonies in the healing process. Jeremy highlights the need for aftercare and ongoing support to ensure lasting change, as well as the significance of finding one's identity in Christ. The discussion underscores the transformative power of hope and healing through shared experiences and faith-based support.
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| 1089 - If It’s Easy, You Don’t Want It Enough | 01 Feb 2026 | 00:10:56 | |
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the challenges of maintaining motivation, especially as the initial enthusiasm of New Year's resolutions begins to fade. He introduces the concept of the 'February fizzle' and emphasizes the importance of understanding one's 'why' behind personal goals. Sathiya also provides strategies for sustaining motivation, including the need for community support and resilience in the face of challenges.
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| 1088 - Q&A: I've Been Watching AI Porn For Years, How Do I Quit For Good? | 30 Jan 2026 | 00:11:47 | |
In this episode, Sathiya addresses a listener's struggle with AI-generated pornography, exploring the underlying issues of desire, rejection, and the need for connection. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's desires, the pain-pleasure principle in overcoming addiction, and the necessity of community and professional help in the recovery process. Sathiya also warns about the dangers of AI pornography and encourages listeners to take drastic steps towards healing and recovery.
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| 1087 - The Silent Trap That Stops Men Right Before They Win | 28 Jan 2026 | 00:07:18 | |
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the silent trap that many men face when trying to quit pornography. He emphasizes the importance of identity in recovery, explaining how feelings of unworthiness can lead to self-sabotage. By understanding one's identity in Christ, individuals can overcome these feelings and achieve true freedom. Sathiya encourages listeners to rely on God for their recovery and to commit their works to Him for success.
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| 1086 - Jenna Riemersma: Why Jesus’ Approach to Sin Feels Backwards | 26 Jan 2026 | 01:01:24 | |
In this conversation, Sathiya and Jenna Riemersma explore the integration of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy with faith-based perspectives. Jenna discusses the concept of 'parts' within ourselves, the importance of compassion in healing, and how to approach our internal struggles with curiosity rather than control. They also delve into Jenna's new book, 'Move Toward', which provides practical tools for self-awareness and emotional healing.
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| 1085 - Stop Waiting for the Perfect Moment | 25 Jan 2026 | 00:09:26 | |
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the balance between waiting on God's timing and taking proactive action in life. He emphasizes the dangers of perfectionism leading to procrastination and encourages listeners to take imperfect action towards their goals. Using scripture and personal anecdotes, Sathiya provides insights on how to navigate the tension between patience and proactivity, ultimately guiding listeners towards personal growth and integrity. Know more about Sathiya's work:
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| 1084 - Should You Give Up Sex To Quit Porn? | 23 Jan 2026 | 00:09:16 | |
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the relationship between quitting pornography and sexual activity within marriage. He addresses common concerns about performance anxiety and the importance of intimacy in the healing process. Through personal anecdotes and insights from coaching experiences, Sathiya emphasizes that sexual connection can be beneficial during recovery, provided it is approached with honesty and openness. He also introduces techniques like Sensate Touch to help couples rebuild intimacy in a healthy way. Know more about Sathiya's work:
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| 1083 - How To Optimize Your Brain For Freedom From Pornography | 21 Jan 2026 | 00:10:28 | |
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the importance of optimizing the brain to achieve freedom from pornography addiction. He explains the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain, including desensitization, sensitization, hypofrontality, and reduced stress response. Sathiya emphasizes the power of neuroscience principles, such as the idea that neurons that fire together wire together, and provides practical strategies for breaking the cycle of addiction. He also highlights the significance of optimizing sleep to enhance brain health and decision-making capabilities. Know more about Sathiya's work:
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| 1082 - High Performance Expert: Every Man Hits This Crossroad Eventually | ft. Creighton Bertrand | 19 Jan 2026 | 01:03:41 | |
In this conversation, Creighton Bertrand shares his journey into manhood — navigating confusion, responsibility, faith, and identity in a culture that often leaves men without clear direction. We talk about why so many men feel stuck or lost, the cost of avoiding responsibility, and how true masculinity is formed through commitment, discipline, and purpose. This episode is a call for men to grow up, take ownership of their lives, and step fully into the kind of man they were created to be.
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| 1081 - If You've Slipped This Year Already, Listen To This | 16 Jan 2026 | 00:09:52 | |
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the journey of quitting pornography, emphasizing the importance of resilience and learning from setbacks. He shares a powerful story of a client who faced challenges but ultimately chose to leverage his experiences for growth. Sathiya encourages listeners to reflect on their choices after relapses, to invite God back into their lives, and to seek community support for lasting change. The episode serves as a motivational guide for those struggling with addiction, reminding them that they have the power to reclaim their freedom and integrity.
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| 1080 - The 4 Enemies You Must Conquer To Quit Porn For Good | 14 Jan 2026 | 00:10:47 | |
In this episode, Sathya discusses the four enemies that hinder individuals from quitting pornography: loneliness, pride (as an opposition from God), past experiences, and bad influences. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these enemies and introduces four corresponding weapons—authenticity, humility, flexibility, and choice—that can empower individuals to overcome these challenges and achieve freedom. Sathya also promotes his book, 'The Last Relapse,' as a comprehensive resource for recovery.
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| 1079 - Cody Jefferson: "I Was An Affirmation Addict, and This Consumed Me" | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:54:55 | |
In this conversation, Cody Jefferson shares his transformative journey from a life in ministry to a thriving career in the marketplace. He discusses the challenges of identity, performance, and personal trauma, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, accountability, and intentionality in leadership and relationships. Cody highlights the significance of coping mechanisms, the role of community, and the need for measurable goals in personal growth. His insights provide a roadmap for those navigating similar struggles, encouraging a deeper understanding of self and a commitment to purposeful living.
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| 1078 - Will You Be Clean In December? (Yes, If You Follow This) (Freedom Week, Pt 7) | 09 Jan 2026 | 00:11:49 | |
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya wraps up Freedom Week by encouraging listeners to reflect on their journey towards quitting pornography. He emphasizes the importance of setting clear goals for recovery, particularly focusing on the question of whether one will be clean by December. The episode outlines a 90-day freedom plan, highlighting the significance of community support and coaching in achieving lasting change. Sathiya shares insights from various success stories and offers practical steps for listeners to take as they embark on their recovery journey.
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