Feeling like love is a mountain you can't climb? Your dating beliefs might be holding you back more than reality. Discover how four simple questions can transform your outlook and reignite your romantic journey, paving the way for the relationship you've been searching for.

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How do you build desire and make a man miss you? Create scarcity without playing games. In this week's podcast, we discuss (debate) the power of making a man miss you through the dating process. 

Originally aired: December 18th, 2022

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Originally Aired: July 16, 2023
When trying to find the right partner, it can be challenging to determine if someone is truly relationship material. However, three simple questions can provide valuable insights into a person's intentions, emotional availability, and compatibility. Forget about trying to read signs or bombarding them with countless inquiries. Instead, focus on open communication and asking the right questions to make an informed decision. Let's dive into the three subtle questions that can help you assess whether he's the one.

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Are men really from Mars and women from Venus? The research tells us a different story. In this special podcast, Adam and Gary discuss whether or not men and women date differently. 

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Is he telling you he's "not ready for a relationship" right now? There may be something deeper under the surface. Discover what it means when a man is telling you he's afraid of commitment. 

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So how do you know if a man is falling in love with you? Here's the real deal: it has very little to do with his words and much more about his behavior. In this week's episode, Dr. Lewandowski and Adam LoDolce reveal the true signs that a man is falling in love.

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Do you pull away when he leans in? Do you get anxious when you don't hear from him? In this episode, Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski discuss how attachment styles impact romantic relationships. Attachment theory is the foundation of relationship science, and it can have a major impact on how you give and receive love. 

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Does physical attraction really matter for long-term love? In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski and Adam LoDolce discuss the qualities that keep a couple together for a lifelong partnership.

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Have you ever felt that men were intimidated by your success? Is it that you're attracting the wrong men, or is it that ALL men have insecurities about dating a successful woman? In our first-ever podcast, we discuss the power of leaning into your feminine energy while still being proud of your success. 

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Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and improve their relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a new relationship, we’re here to help you dive deep into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else - backed by science, psychology, and personal experiences. Your hosts are Adam LoDolce, a professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship instructor at Love Strategies.

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Curious if he's really into you or just being friendly? Tune in to our latest podcast, "7 Secret Signs He's Extremely Attracted to You," where we uncover subtle yet telling behaviors that reveal his true feelings. Don’t miss these key insights to help you decode his silent signals and gain clarity in your dating life!

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Rerun: Today's podcast delves into the overlooked warning signs that could indicate potential problems in your romantic connections. From excessive compliments to controlling behavior and everything in between, we'll guide you through these potential pitfalls that many women tend to ignore.
But that's not all! We also introduce you to the intriguing concept of "beige flags," those quirky behaviors that may not be good or bad, but should give you pause and spark further investigation.
Don't let these dangerous red flags slip through the cracks and sabotage your happiness. It's time to shed light on these overlooked red flags and make informed choices for your heart's sake.

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Struggling with mixed signals and endless dates? Master the art of NEXTing. Learn how to end relationships with clarity and compassion with a specific break-up text that helps you end things with kindness and compassion. We give you the text and break down the theory behind it so that you’re ready to save time and move on swiftly to find your perfect match.

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Discover the hidden clues to his relationship intent. If you’re tired of the mixed messages and want to decode what he truly wants, our latest podcast reveals four key motivations behind his actions and helps you spot the genuine signs of relationship intent.

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Have you ever been in a deceptively " OK " relationship?

Today's podcast reveals a psychological principle that causes people to stay in mediocre relationships. We'll also provide five critical questions to detect relationship issues before they turn into heartbreak.

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Original podcast aired May 7th, 2023: In this podcast episode, hosts Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski explore the 7 biggest turnoffs for men. They address the problem that many women believe turnoffs have to do with physical attributes. The reality is that when a man is in the market for a serious relationship and looking for a high-value partner, turnoffs become emotional.

Through their personal experiences and expert insights, Adam and Gary explore the turnoffs that both men and women can relate to. They start with the idea of trying to control the uncontrollable and how it can be a major turnoff for men when women talk about the future or lean into their masculine side. They also touch on the idea of unearned affection and how it can be off-putting when a woman gives too much before a man has done anything to earn it.

Other turnoffs they discuss include a lack of interest, perceived promiscuity, the double O effect (obvious and ordinary), a negative attitude toward love, and being a doormat without clear boundaries. They also explore the idea of playing games in dating and how it can come off as immature rather than strategic.

Throughout the episode, Adam and Gary offer expert advice on how to avoid these turnoffs and cultivate healthy, thriving relationships. So, if you're curious about what makes men tick and how to create a lasting connection, this episode is a must-listen.

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Ready to captivate a man's attention without appearing too eager? Today's podcast reveals seven powerful strategies to command his interest.

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Are you drawn to powerful men? If so, it’s crucial to be aware of the four dangerous risks involved in pursuing such relationships.

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Should you use Artificial Intelligence to write your online dating profile or send texts to guys? Dr. Gary Lewandowski, our Chief Love Scientist, puts ChatGPT to the test in this fun one off episode.

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Tired of first date disasters? Discover the secrets to turning that initial encounter into a thrilling experience with our comprehensive guide to first date success. From pre-date preparation to post-date follow-up, learn 20 expert tips that will boost your confidence, spark genuine connection, and leave your date wanting more.

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In today's dating landscape, mastering the art of texting is essential. Like flirting, which we've covered in previous podcasts, "Love Texting" is a skill anyone can learn and perfect.

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When you're single, striking up conversations with people you find attractive can seem daunting. So, in today's podcast, Dr. Gary Lewandowski breaks down the The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence

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You’ve been dating for a few months, and everything is GREAT. The start was amazing, and things have only gotten better. You’ve had the Define The Relationship (DTR) talk and are officially exclusive. 

You’ve made it to exactly where you want to be.

But wait... Not so fast. Things have changed. The initial excitement has settled down.

He’s not as attentive as he used to be. He seems different...he’s pulling away.  Suddenly, there’s a lot to worry about.

Is this a real problem or just a typical cool down period?

Here are 3 Mistakes Women Make When Men Pull Away

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In this special solo podcast, Dr. Gary Lewandowski, explores the key qualities that make relationships strong and help you recognize if you've found the one. Whether you're in a relationship or looking for love, tune in for insights that could change your life.

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The path to acquiring dating skills can often be a slow and painful process filled with missteps, and lessons learned the hard way. But what if you could accelerate this process?

Here are 7 Psychological Skills Every Successful Dater Needs

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Not sure if he's right for you? In today's podcast, we provide a step-by-step system for harnessing your natural intuition and weeding out the wrong men so you can finally open your heart to the right guy.

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When capturing a man's attention, the usual compliments like "You're so handsome" or "You're funny" often fall flat.

They're overly familiar and can feel insincere because they could be said to just about anyone.

To truly stand out and make an impact, it's crucial to delve deeper. Here's a guide to giving compliments that not only catch his attention but also touch his heart.

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Society will tell you that men only want to date younger women.

But our experience, having coached over 44,000 women on how to find love , is that this is NOT true.

In fact, here are 10 reasons why men love older women.

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It's time to stop wasting time with the wrong men. Here's the three major signs you're wasting time, and the exact step by step strategy to avoid it moving forward.

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Consider the commonly held belief: "Dating success is all about being good-looking." At first glance, this seems straightforward, but the reality is far more nuanced. Let's unravel this statement by examining four key reasons why it's overly simplistic and often misleading.

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We hit 1 million downloads! To celebrate, we’re going to do something a little different and a lot more personal today.  

We recently held a private event where we hung out for several days with a group of clients. We held sessions, went to happy hour, had dinner together, and generally enjoyed learning and talking about love, dating, and relationships. 

When we hang out with clients and podcast fans, people ask us all kinds of fun questions. 

As a BONUS, to mark 1 million downloads, we will answer many of those questions here.  

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Dating after 50 can feel daunting, especially when society bombards us with messages that youth is the zenith of desirability.

But finding your forever man at this stage in life is not just a possibility; it's a journey that can be embarked upon with dignity, wisdom and a bit of strategic know-how.

Here are seven essential steps to navigate the dating world after 50 and find the love that you deserve.

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Have you ever dated a guy who slowly faded away but then reappeared looking for a second chance? If so, this week's podcast is for you.

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Why does dating feel so complicated? In today's podcast, we decode the modern dating scene to simplify it and help you attract the love you truly deserve.

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Are you navigating the single life, feeling increasingly frustrated and hopeless? You've tried everything, yet nothing seems to change your status. The sense of running out of options, fearing a future of eternal singleness, looms large. But what if the issues you believe are holding you back are actually leading you astray?

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He’s not giving you what you need in the relationship and it’s time for some “feedback”. Should you try and fix him or just it go?

In today’s podcast, we discuss the one thing you should NEVER do in a relationship.

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Awkward first date?

Did he say something off-putting?

Should you say “NEXT!”?

In today’s podcast, we discuss why you should give (the right) guys a second chance.

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Everyone has an ideal partner checklist that might include attributes like "6 foot, 6 figures, 6 pack abs." But is this setting you up for failure in relationships?

In today’s podcast, we discuss why there may be a striking contradiction between what you want and what you pursue.

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A peculiar trend has emerged in the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, leaving many to wonder, "What in the world are guys doing?" The scenario is all too familiar: you're texting a guy, the conversation is flirty, sparks are seemingly flying, and then suddenly, it all fizzles out to nothing. You might even suggest going out sometime; he agrees enthusiastically, and then... radio silence.

Here’s how to know if he likes you, or if he’s just breadcrumbing

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Endings are hard. The conclusion of a relationship, whether it fizzles out or comes to a sudden halt, brings a wave of emotions that can leave us feeling lost, lonely, and engulfed in pain. The ache of loss can feel unbearable, prompting a desperate search for a way to make it stop. Yet, the journey through heartache is not about clinging to familiar suggestions or remedies but embracing a new perspective that promises healing and growth.

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In this bonus podcast episode, Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary debate whether or not love should always be a sacrifice.

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Are you tired of falling into the same pattern of dating charismatic but toxic partners? The allure of a confident and charming individual can be hard to resist, but it often leads to a rollercoaster ride of power plays and blame games. So, why do some people seem more prone to attracting these time-bomb personalities? In this podcast, we'll delve into the reasons behind this pattern and provide a simple strategy to help you avoid this trap.

Originally aired: June 27th, 2023

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The heart is a powerful force, relentlessly pursuing what it desires, often without our conscious realization. This pursuit can lead us to engage in a deceptive practice called F.I.B.ing—Filling In Blanks.

In today’s podcast we discuss why he’s probably NOT as “perfect” as you think, and how to navigate the dating scene with clarity.

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The approach to finding love is nuanced, requiring a blend of self-awareness, patience, and strategic action. Today, we dive into the unconventional yet profoundly effective secrets to attracting love as a successful woman.

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Have you ever found yourself perpetually in relationships that feel "close, but not quite"?

Do you yearn for a meaningful connection yet struggle to make it past the initial stages of getting close to someone?

Perhaps you've been hurt before, and now, the walls you've built to protect yourself seem insurmountable. If these scenarios resonate with you, you may be experiencing avoidant attachment, a subtle yet powerful force that shapes how we interact in our romantic lives.

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 In this exclusive bonus episode available only to our valued subscribers, join Adam LoDolce and renowned psychologist Dr. Gary Lewandowski as they delve into a pivotal dating dilemma that countless women encounter. Through their insightful discussion, they unveil the common pitfalls in the dating landscape and offer empowering strategies to avoid them. Whether you're navigating the complexities of modern relationships or seeking to understand the dynamics of dating better, this episode is packed with invaluable advice and perspectives. Tune in to discover how to sidestep this widespread trap and transform your approach to dating!

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Having a wing woman can be an invaluable asset in the dynamic world of dating and social interactions. Here's how to be a fantastic wingwoman (share this with your fellow wingwomen!)

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The longing for a companion, a partner to share life's journey with, is a universal desire. The allure of romance and destiny can be captivating, consuming your every thought.

Yet, in this quest for love, do you find yourself going a bit overboard, perhaps scaring potential partners away?

Have your relationships started wonderfully, only to gradually lose their spark?

Are you often left wondering why men seem distant or emotionally unavailable?

If these questions resonate with you, anxious attachment may be playing a role in your romantic life.

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The root of most relationship problems can often be traced back to one key element: communication. Ironically, the very thing that may have led you into relationship troubles - poor communication - is also the same tool that can lead you out. Whether the communication issues stem from you or your partner, remember: you can't change them, but you can change how you communicate.

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When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we're seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of our league, aspiring for a partner akin to a celebrity or supermodel. But is dating out of our league a realistic goal?

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