After coaching over 44,000 women, I’ve noticed a few surprising patterns that guarantee you’ll stay single—no matter how much you want love. In this video, I reveal seven subtle habits that sabotage even the smartest, most successful women… and what to do instead.

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Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest podcast to discover the secrets to finding lasting love.

Originally Aired: Oct 12, 2024

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You think men are drawn to looks, charm, or the perfect body, but what actually captivates them runs much deeper. In this video, I reveal what men find truly beautiful in a woman (and how to tap into it effortlessly).

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Remember when dating was an exciting adventure?

You met new people, tried new things, and felt a spark of excitement with every potential match. But somewhere along the way, dating can lose its luster and become a frustrating, even disheartening experience.

Don't worry, it's not just you. Many people find themselves feeling overwhelmed, disappointed, or confused by the modern dating landscape. But the good news is, dating can be fun again!

Here are five easy ways to inject some joy and excitement back into your dating life.

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Have you ever found yourself perpetually in relationships that feel "close, but not quite"?

Do you yearn for a meaningful connection yet struggle to make it past the initial stages of getting close to someone?

Perhaps you've been hurt before, and now, the walls you've built to protect yourself seem insurmountable. If these scenarios resonate with you, you may be experiencing avoidant attachment, a subtle yet powerful force that shapes how we interact in our romantic lives.
Originally Aired: February 10th, 2024

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"Guys only care about looks." This common misconception couldn't be further from the truth.

While physical attraction plays a role, it's far from the only factor that draws men in.

To truly captivate a man, you need to ignite an emotional connection.

Here are 4 easy ways to make him emotionally captivated by you.

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So how do you know if a man is falling in love with you? Here's the real deal: it has very little to do with his words and much more about his behavior. In this week's episode, Dr. Lewandowski and Adam LoDolce reveal the true signs that a man is falling in love.

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Are you finding it difficult to maintain romantic connections? You might be unknowingly sabotaging your relationships. While you may be trying your best to impress and attract men, certain behaviors can inadvertently push them away.

Here are seven common mistakes women make that can drive men away

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Have you ever wondered how to know if a guy is falling in love with you?

The biggest sign is if he tells you he loves you, but what if he's holding out on those three words as I did?

I waited five months before I first said "I love you" to Jessica. It wasn't because I didn't love her sooner; I said it too fast in my previous relationship, only to break up with that woman a week later (sorry!). So, I wanted to wait and make sure my feelings were real this time.

The moral of my story?

He might love you but hasn't told you yet. So, here are four signs that he is falling hard.

Originally Aired: December 11th, 2022

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Is the dating pool in your 40s feeling more like a murky pond than a sparkling lake? You're not alone. Many successful women find themselves navigating a new landscape of love and relationships as they enter this phase of life. But fear not, there are strategies to help you find lasting connection and fulfillment.

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In the quest for love, we often have a mental checklist of qualities we desire in a partner. However, could it be that these very qualities are hindering our chances of finding true and lasting love? Let's delve into the three secret qualities many women seek in a partner that might sabotage their love lives – and discover how to break free from these patterns.
Originally Aired: September 23, 2023

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First dates can be nerve-wracking, but they don't have to be. In this podcast, we'll share practical tips for having engaging conversations and making a lasting impression. Learn how to avoid awkward silences, ask the right questions, and connect with your date on a deeper level.

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In a digital age dominated by screens, genuine eye contact has become a rarity. But did you know that it is key to enhancing memory, emotional closeness, and immediate attraction? Dr. Lewandowski and I explore the science behind eye contact and offer practical insights to help you master this timeless art.

Discover the 50/70 Rule that perfects eye contact balance and empowers you to engage meaningfully. Learn how to cultivate "soft eyes" to convey curiosity and warmth, making your interactions unforgettable. Break free from distractions that hinder genuine connections and set the stage for deeper, more impactful conversations.

Originally Aired: August 24, 2023

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In this episode, Dr. Gary debunks the modern myth that independence is the ultimate goal. You’re absolutely right to believe in yourself—but wrong to think you can thrive completely alone. Discover the surprising science behind why connection is the foundation of real happiness, health, and fulfillment.

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Are you sick of the same old dating advice? Our latest podcast shares 10 harsh truths about dating that you wish you knew sooner. Stop wasting time and start making real progress in your love life by learning these essential insights.A little tough love goes a long way.

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One of the most common challenges clients often face is finding "good" men. However, the real question isn't necessarily "Where are they?" but "How do we identify the ‘right' guy?" In today’s podcast, we'll help you recognize the qualities that make a man worthy of your time and affection.

Originally Aired: December 28, 2023

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“I’m too old for love.” <-- False.

In today’s podcast, we explore the concept of Age-Defying Dating and reveal the secrets to attracting love later in life. Discover how to shift your mindset, embrace your unique qualities, and radiate confidence to find a fulfilling relationship.

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Have you ever wondered why some relationships seem like a match made in heaven while others crash and burn?

In our newest podcast episode, we're exploring "The Attraction Myth That's Ruining Your Relationships."

Join us as we debunk the age-old belief that opposites attract and uncover the real truth behind what makes a connection sizzle or fizzle

Originally Aired: October 19th, 2023

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Are you tired of falling for the wrong guys? Learn how to break free from the cycle of unhealthy relationships and find a partner who truly values you. In this podcast, we'll explore the reasons why you might be attracted to the wrong people and provide practical tips to help you become a better picker.

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This podcast isn't just another "what's wrong with them" rant. Instead, we offer a fresh perspective that encourages personal growth and proactive strategies for fostering lasting relationships.

Get ready to discover:

• Why the dating phase is crucial for long-term happiness.
• The power of pacing—why rushing can ruin potential.
• Strategies for building a resilient connection that endures the ups and downs.

So, before you blame fate or your last date, take a moment to listen to today's podcast. It might be the breakthrough you need to navigate the dating world with renewed confidence and strategic savvy.

Originally Aired: November 19th, 2023

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Tired of dating guys who aren't emotionally stable? Learn how to spot the signs of a securely attached man.

In this podcast, we'll explore 10 key indicators that can help you identify a partner who is emotionally mature, trustworthy, and ready for a healthy relationship.

Don't settle for less - find the love you deserve.

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Love is a beautiful and powerful emotion that can sometimes cloud our judgment. We've all been there, holding onto hope that a struggling relationship will miraculously improve. But what if we told you there are two key relationship lessons that can help you determine if it's time to move on? In this podcast, we're discussing how to know when the relationship is over.

Originally Aired: July 30th, 2023

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Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the ever-changing landscape of modern dating? It's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of apps, algorithms, and endless options. But before you throw in the towel, let's debunk some common misconceptions about dating in the digital age.

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Relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, with ups and downs that can leave us uncertain and anxious. One common concern that arises is when your partner starts to pull away. In this podcast, we'll explore the various reasons why this might happen and discuss strategies to navigate this challenging situation.

Originally Aired: June 18th, 2023

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Are you tired of attracting the wrong kind of love? This week, discover if your past wounds are unknowingly picking your partners and learn to identify the five key emotional injuries that might be sabotaging your relationships. Tune in to start attracting the healthy, fulfilling love you truly deserve.

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Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest podcast to discover the secrets to finding lasting love.

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Are you curious to discover the hidden desires of affluent men? Today's podcast unveils the 7 things affluent men deeply desire in a woman.
It's not just about the basics – these affluent men have unique preferences beyond the ordinary.
Get ready to explore what sets them apart in dating and relationships.
Originally Aired: October 24, 2023

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Ready to rewrite your love story after divorce? Our latest podcast episode reveals 5 essential secrets for mastering the modern dating landscape. From navigating online platforms to rediscovering your flirting skills, we'll equip you with the tools you need to confidently embrace this exciting new chapter in your life.

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Have you ever wondered why that seemingly perfect date ended with radio silence?

You're not alone.

So, in today's podcast, we're diving deep into three reasons men ghost.

Remember, knowledge is power. Equip yourself with the insights you need to navigate the dating maze with confidence.

Originally Aired: November 5th, 2023

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Have you ever found yourself drawn to a man who seemed like a fixer-upper?

Someone with potential, but a few rough edges that you thought you could smooth out?

It's a common scenario, and it's often driven by a desire to help and a belief that you can make a difference. But is it really the best path for you and your relationship?

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Diving back into the dating pool after divorce?

Before you take the plunge, tune in to our latest podcast episode where we reveal 5 common post-divorce dating mistakes you'll want to avoid. Whether you're feeling hesitant or overly eager, this episode offers invaluable insights to help you navigate the complex world of romance after a major life transition.

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In the complex world of dating and relationships, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lost. That's why we've compiled a list of 13 dating rules that can simplify your love life and help you navigate the often confusing waters of dating and relationships. Whether you're new to dating or a seasoned pro, these rules offer valuable insights and strategies to improve your dating experience.

In our latest podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I reveal the 13 most effective strategic/mindset dating rules all in one place. Yes, this is a big one. Tune in to benefit from the most impactful approaches to the most common challenges that decades of coaching and scientific research have found.

Don't let the complexities hold you back any longer. Use these guidelines to empower yourself to find the right lifelong partner while enjoying the journey to get there.

Originally Aired: September 10th, 2023

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Feeling stuck in a "meh" relationship? You're not alone. In today’s episode, we dive into the rarely discussed world of "tenaciously mediocre" relationships and offer practical strategies to help you decide whether to stay, leave, or work on improving your partnership.

Discover how to gain clarity, set meaningful benchmarks, and ultimately make the best decision for your future happiness.

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Are you tired of those awkward first-date silences? We've got the ultimate trick that promises to make any conversation sizzle. Uncover the simple yet powerful art of mirroring in today’s brand-new podcast.

Originally aired: September 30th, 2023

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Are you feeling apprehensive about diving into the world of online dating later in life?

You're not alone.

The dating landscape has changed dramatically in recent years, and online dating can seem particularly daunting if you haven't been in the game for a while. But don't worry - with the right approach, you can navigate this new terrain successfully.

Here are seven simple tips to help you make the most of online dating in your 50s and beyond.

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Are you spending all your energy perfecting your look for a date, only to have the spark fizzle? The truth is, men don’t fall for appearances… they fall for how you make them feel. This week, discover five magnetic phrases that instantly spark chemistry and connection — and learn how the right words can draw him in effortlessly. Start creating dates that feel exciting, authentic, and unforgettable.

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Feeling like love is a mountain you can't climb? Your dating beliefs might be holding you back more than reality. Discover how four simple questions can transform your outlook and reignite your romantic journey, paving the way for the relationship you've been searching for.

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How do you build desire and make a man miss you? Create scarcity without playing games. In this week's podcast, we discuss (debate) the power of making a man miss you through the dating process. 

Originally aired: December 18th, 2022

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Tired of first date disasters? Discover the secrets to turning that initial encounter into a thrilling experience with our comprehensive guide to first date success. From pre-date preparation to post-date follow-up, learn 20 expert tips that will boost your confidence, spark genuine connection, and leave your date wanting more.

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We hit 1 million downloads! To celebrate, we’re going to do something a little different and a lot more personal today.  

We recently held a private event where we hung out for several days with a group of clients. We held sessions, went to happy hour, had dinner together, and generally enjoyed learning and talking about love, dating, and relationships. 

When we hang out with clients and podcast fans, people ask us all kinds of fun questions. 

As a BONUS, to mark 1 million downloads, we will answer many of those questions here.  

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Are you tired of falling into the same pattern of dating charismatic but toxic partners? The allure of a confident and charming individual can be hard to resist, but it often leads to a rollercoaster ride of power plays and blame games. So, why do some people seem more prone to attracting these time-bomb personalities? In this podcast, we'll delve into the reasons behind this pattern and provide a simple strategy to help you avoid this trap.

Originally aired: June 27th, 2023

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Discover 11 game-changing strategies to date with confidence in our latest podcast, "Ditching the Doormat."

Learn how to set boundaries, embrace your worth, and find genuine connections without compromising your true self. Say goodbye to dating pitfalls and hello to empowered love.

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Originally aired: April 9th, 2023
Thanks to the internet, long-distance relationships (LDRs) have become a popular phenomenon. From spousal separations to meeting someone special online, LDRs are now more common than ever before. But how do you make it work?

In this podcast, we share personal experiences and expert advice on navigating the challenges of long-distance love. We ask the most important question: Will it work? We discuss the risks involved in investing in a long-distance relationship and the role that distance plays in creating desire.

Join us as we explore different scenarios where we might recommend pursuing an LDR, and discuss strategies for making it work. We'll cover topics like quality time versus constant quantity, having a plan to live near each other within a year, and spending more than just a weekend together.

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Wondering why he hasn’t said “I love you” yet? In our latest podcast, we dive into the timing and significance of those three little words, exploring when it’s too soon, too late, and just right. Discover the truth behind the words and the actions that matter most in your relationship!

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Feeling overwhelmed by the demands of family, career, and self-care? Discover why prioritizing your relationship is the ultimate life hack. Tune in to learn how a strong partnership can boost your happiness, health, and success in every aspect of life.

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Curious about what makes someone wife-material? Tune into our latest podcast episode where we, two married guys, break down the top six qualities that made us realize we had found our lifelong partners. Trust us, this is a very personal and enlightening conversation you won't want to miss!

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Do you secretly love rules, even if you pretend you don't? This episode reveals how a few simple dating "rules" can put your love life on autopilot, making it effortless and fun. Stop the guesswork and learn the easy guidelines that will help you find the right person by being the right person.

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Originally Aired: July 16, 2023
When trying to find the right partner, it can be challenging to determine if someone is truly relationship material. However, three simple questions can provide valuable insights into a person's intentions, emotional availability, and compatibility. Forget about trying to read signs or bombarding them with countless inquiries. Instead, focus on open communication and asking the right questions to make an informed decision. Let's dive into the three subtle questions that can help you assess whether he's the one.

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Curious if he's really into you or just being friendly? Tune in to our latest podcast, "7 Secret Signs He's Extremely Attracted to You," where we uncover subtle yet telling behaviors that reveal his true feelings. Don’t miss these key insights to help you decode his silent signals and gain clarity in your dating life!

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Rerun: Today's podcast delves into the overlooked warning signs that could indicate potential problems in your romantic connections. From excessive compliments to controlling behavior and everything in between, we'll guide you through these potential pitfalls that many women tend to ignore.
But that's not all! We also introduce you to the intriguing concept of "beige flags," those quirky behaviors that may not be good or bad, but should give you pause and spark further investigation.
Don't let these dangerous red flags slip through the cracks and sabotage your happiness. It's time to shed light on these overlooked red flags and make informed choices for your heart's sake.

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