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Love Science Today

Kenny

Society & Culture

Frequency: 1 episode/5d. Total Eps: 34

Love Science Today is a modern relationships podcast that blends psychology, sociology, philosophy, biology, attachment theory and family studies into real conversations that matter. Each episode explores the deeper forces behind attraction, heartbreak, emotional safety, healthy boundaries, conflict and intimacy in the digital age. We look at why people fall for who they fall for, how social media shapes dating behaviour, why situationships feel comfortable but empty, and what healthy love actually requires in a world full of options and emotional confusion. Guided by research, cultural obser

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🇬🇧 Great Britain - Relationships
13/04/2026
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Emotional Unavailability: Why You Keep Attracting It, And How to Stop

Season 2 · Episode 15

Friday, April 10, 2026 • Duration 08:35

They say they like you, but they keep their distance. Theyshow up, but never fully. They connect, but never commit.

So you start asking yourself: "Why do I keepattracting emotionally unavailable people?"

In this episode of Love Science Today, we go deeper thansurface-level dating advice and uncover the real reasons behind thisfrustrating pattern.

You will learn:

What emotional unavailability actually looks like in real life.
Why it feels so attractive, especially in the early stages of dating.
The hidden link between your attachment style and the people you pursue.
How past experiences and unconscious beliefs shape your dating patterns.
The critical difference between "they are not ready" and "they are not available for you."
Practical steps to break the cycle and start attracting emotionally present partners.

If you are tired of almost-relationships, mixed signals, andinvesting in people who cannot meet you, this episode will help you shift fromchasing connection to choosing it wisely.

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The Myth of the Perfect Partner: Are Unrealistic Standards Keeping You Single?

Season 2 · Episode 14

Friday, April 3, 2026 • Duration 13:37

The Myth of the Perfect Partner: Are Unrealistic Standards Keeping You Single?

You say you have standards.
But what if your standards are quietly sabotaging your love life?

In this episode of Love Science Today, we challenge one of the most socially accepted ideas in modern dating: the pursuit of the “perfect partner.”

Are you protecting your peace… or avoiding real connection?

We explore:

The psychology behind perfectionism in relationships
How social media and dating apps distort expectations
The difference between standards and fantasies
Why “having options” can reduce satisfaction and commitment
The paradox of choice and how it keeps people stuck
How to identify non-negotiables vs. ego-driven preferences
What real compatibility actually looks like in long-term love

If you’ve ever said, “I just haven’t found the right one yet,” this episode might reveal whether you’re searching for alignment… or perfection.

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Hyper-Independence: When Self-Reliance Blocks Connection

Season 2 · Episode 13

Friday, March 27, 2026 • Duration 10:12

Hyper-Independence: When Self-Reliance Blocks Connection

We celebrate strength. We applaud independence. But when does self-sufficiency stop being a virtue and start becoming a barrier to love?

In this powerful episode of Love Science Today, we explore the phenomenon of hyper-independence — a trauma-rooted coping mechanism where individuals avoid emotional reliance on others, even in their closest relationships.

Host Kehinde Ojo takes you on a journey through:

The psychological and biological roots of hyper-independence
Why childhood neglect, betrayal, or abandonment may have trained you to ‘handle it all alone’
How hyper-independence sabotages intimacy, connection, and mutual care
Real-life case studies and research-backed reflections
Practical tools to help you identify, challenge, and heal from the urge to over-function or isolate in love

Whether you’ve been told you’re “too guarded,” or you’re loving someone who never lets you in — this episode will equip you with insights, compassion, and strategies to soften the walls without losing your strength.

🎧 Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, YouTube, and Amazon Music.
📚 Inspired by the book series Love Science Today and Data Science of Dating by Kehinde Ojo.

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Nice Guy Syndrome: When ‘Being Good’ Isn’t So Good

Season 2 · Episode 12

Friday, March 20, 2026 • Duration 09:56

“Nice Guy Syndrome: When ‘Being Good’ Isn’t So Good”

He brings flowers. He opens doors. He texts back. He tells you he’s “not like the others.”

But when you’re not interested? He turns cold. Resentful. Sometimes even cruel.

This episode breaks down the psychology of the Nice Guy Syndrome — not to shame men who are kind, but to explore how performative niceness can hide entitlement, emotional suppression, and unmet needs.

You’ll learn:

The difference between being kind and being a Nice Guy™
How early social conditioning teaches some men to suppress real emotion in favour of approval-seeking
Why women often feel emotionally suffocated, manipulated, or on-edge with men who seem “too nice”
The hidden rage beneath the surface when “niceness” doesn’t lead to sex, love, or validation
How the Nice Guy archetype is actually rooted in anxiety, shame, and unmet relational needs
How to heal from it — whether you’re the one living it or dating it

This is not about blaming men. It’s about freeing everyone from outdated scripts that make love feel like a transaction.

🎧 Tune in on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, YouTube, and more.
🎙️ Hosted by Kehinde Ojo, author of Data Science of Dating and Love Science Today.

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The Slow Fade: When Love Disappears Without a Goodbye

Season 2 · Episode 11

Friday, March 13, 2026 • Duration 11:19

It didn’t end. It just… disappeared.

In this episode of Love Science Today, we dissect the heartbreaking pattern known as the slow fade — where connection drains away drop by drop, without a clear goodbye.

Unlike ghosting, the slow fade leaves you in emotional purgatory. One day they’re texting. The next, they’re cold, vague, or simply... missing. You're left second-guessing, self-blaming, and unsure whether to fight harder or finally let go.

Join Kehinde Ojo as we explore:

What the slow fade actually is and why people do it
The psychology of emotional avoidance and guilt-based withdrawal
Early red flags that signal someone is fading on you
Why the slow fade often hurts more than being ghosted
Case studies and insights from real relationship scenarios
How to regain your clarity, confidence, and closure — with or without a conversation

If you’ve ever felt like you were quietly phased out of someone’s life, this episode gives you the words, the wisdom, and the tools to stop chasing ambiguity and start choosing peace.

🎧 Now streaming on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon Music, and more.

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The Fawn Response: Why Some People Over-Love to Stay Safe

Season 2 · Episode 10

Friday, March 6, 2026 • Duration 10:39

Have you ever said “yes” when you meant “no”?
Stayed silent to keep the peace?
Felt like you had to earn love by being good, easy, or selfless?

You might be experiencing the fawn response — a lesser-known trauma pattern where people over-accommodate to feel safe in relationships.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

What the fawn response is (and how it differs from fight, flight, and freeze)
Why some people become emotional chameleons in love
The link between childhood emotional neglect and people-pleasing in adulthood
How fawning affects attraction, boundaries, and even self-worth
Steps to break free: from self-awareness to self-protection
How to build a relationship where you don’t have to perform to be loved

If you’ve ever lost yourself trying to keep someone — this episode is your mirror, your map, and your permission slip to reclaim your voice.

🎧 Now streaming on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, YouTube and everywhere else you get your dose of relationship clarity.

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Love Bombing vs. Real Love: How to Spot the Difference Before It's Too Late

Season 2 · Episode 9

Friday, February 27, 2026 • Duration 11:46

They’re intense. Attentive. Obsessed with you from Day 1.
It feels amazing — until it doesn’t.

In this episode, we unpack Love Bombing: a manipulation tactic disguised as affection. We’ll explore how it differs from genuine emotional investment and why some people fall for it again and again.

You’ll learn:

What love bombing looks and feels like
The psychology behind why people love bomb
The 5 key differences between love bombing and healthy love
Real-life red flags: too much too soon, promises without process, and urgency that skips intimacy
What to do when someone is overwhelming you with attention — and how to respond without drama
How to know if you’re unconsciously love bombing others

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating fast-paced romances, recovering from narcissistic abuse, or trying to build love that lasts.

🎧 Now playing on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon Music, and more.

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Emotional Availability: What It Is, Why It’s Rare, and How to Recognise It

Season 2 · Episode 8

Friday, February 20, 2026 • Duration 11:22

They’re fun, flirty, even affectionate — but when it comes to depth, they disappear.

Why is emotional availability so rare, and how do we tell the difference between someone who’s simply reserved... and someone who’s emotionally closed?

In this Episode, we take a psychological deep dive into the anatomy of emotional availability — from its early developmental roots to its role in adult relationships.

You’ll learn:

The behavioural signs of an emotionally available partner
Why some people are emotionally detached (and how it shows)
The role of trauma, upbringing, and culture in shaping availability
How to avoid wasting time in one-sided emotional investments
What to do if you struggle to connect or open up
How to build emotionally safe relationships — starting with yourself

This episode is a powerful guide for anyone tired of shallow dating, confusing signals, or partners who “just aren’t ready.”

🎧 Streaming now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, YouTube, and everywhere else.

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Unspoken Rules of Modern Dating: What No One Tells You, But Everyone Expects

Season 2 · Episode 7

Friday, February 13, 2026 • Duration 10:04

Ghosting. Soft-launching. “Talking stages.”
Modern dating is full of unwritten rules — and if you don’t know them, you’re playing blindfolded.

In this Episode , we unpack the invisible etiquette that governs the first few weeks of romantic connection. These aren’t formal rules — they’re social scripts shaped by culture, psychology, and algorithm-driven dating.

In this episode, you'll learn:

The top 7 unspoken expectations in early dating
Why no one wants to be “too keen” — but also hates mixed signals
How silence, response time, and emoji use shape perception
The paradox of wanting openness in a world addicted to detachment
What the “48-hour no text” rule actually signals — and when to break it
How to set boundaries in a culture that avoids clear definitions

This episode will make you rethink how you show up in early connection — and whether the game is worth playing at all.

🎧 Now available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon Music and everywhere else you listen.

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When They Say ‘I'm Not Ready for a Relationship’: What They Really Mean

Season 2 · Episode 6

Friday, February 6, 2026 • Duration 10:04

They say they’re “not ready.”
But they keep calling, texting, cuddling… even sleeping with you.
So what do they really mean?

In this episode, we decode one of the most confusing phrases in modern dating:
👉🏽 “I’m not ready for a relationship.”

You’ll learn:

The psychology behind avoidance and emotional unavailability
Why some people want intimacy but fear commitment
The difference between honest self-awareness vs. breadcrumbing
How to stop getting stuck in “almost-relationships”
Scripts for responding without begging or overreacting
How to stop arguing with someone’s clarity

If you've ever stayed hoping they'd change their mind — this episode is your wake-up call wrapped in kindness and science.

🎧 Now streaming on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, YouTube, and more.

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