This week on LIB we are exploring the world of BDSM Dungeons, talking about what they are, what to expect from them, and how ABDL folks can go and enjoy some dungeony fun (and even organize your own ABDL events there)!

Join @TeddyBearWithMe (FL/IG) and I and our guests @Sincerely_Ripley (FL/IG) and LoveSlave (@denversanctuary - FL) as we talk about the fun and kinky frivolity of the Dungeon scene. Can't wait for your thoughts and experiences with YOUR local dungeons as well!

This is one we have wanted to do ever since CAPCon this year... a deeper dive into PET PLAY & ABDL!

@LolaAndThenSome (FL) has been really excited to journey into Pet Play territory, and she suggested we invite @pupscoutpony (FL) and @mschievousmouse (FL) on as they were amazing at CAP. And of course, they were amazing here as well!

Here are some of the products they mention in the podcast

• mr-s-leather.com
• wruffstuff.com
• etsy.com
• amazon.com (look for halloween costumes!)

It's just a week away from CAPCon 2024, and we wanted to give you a preview on what's going down this year! Joining RY for this bonus episode are CAPCon Founding Director Ellexy and Communications Director Incognito for a preview of this year's festivities, important tricks for preparation, and tricks for making the most of your CAPCon time.

On this bonus short, we talk with IdiotWind and TownesVanPantz about what are excited for for CAPCON 2019, coming up in just two days!

Navigating love can be tricky, navigating love with an ABDL kink even more so... so what is it like when disability is part of the equation? We're back after a brief hiatus (yeah, we heard it too), and tackling this super important question along with our friends Valentalae and Changelinx, who are in a mixed-abilities relationship that includes both physical and mental disabilities. So, whether you are a PWD, love a PWD, or are just interested in understanding more about navigating kink with different abilities, we hope you dig in for this one, and we hope it is one of many discussions like it. Note: Terminology in the world of disabilities is tricky, and everybody has different preferences. We tried to use terminology that our guests prefer, but it may not match your preferred terminology. We apologize in advance if we did not use terminology you prefer!

We are going to be at CAPCON 2019, and we are recording a LIVE Love In Brief starring YOU! Listen for details on the when and where, and we'll see you at CAP!

A great deal of focus in ABDL content and events is on the AB side... but what about the DLs that make up approx 40% of the ABDL world? In this episode our resident AB (roadnottaken) interviews our resident DL (RY) and a panel of three brilliant DLs to put some much-needed focus on the DL-only side of the equation. Featuring UltraPampers (FL), MagnoliaStorm (Tumblr/Insta) and IdiotWind (FL/Instagram).

We have received some amazingly generous offers from our listeners to sponsor and support the podcast, and we wanted to address why we haven't taken you up on it so far. So, here it is! <3

Are you in a two-horse town living with a level-ten ABDL kink? Well, you're not the only one! On this episode of LIB we talk small-town life with two small-townies who found each other, and may have some advice for you. Featuring our special guests @sunnywittledayss (Insta) and @dearestdoll (Insta).

Being a relationship with an ABDL kink is complex enough, so what happens when your partner wants to add other people into your relationship? This week's advice focuses on polyamory, with our special guests @_fuzzy_dunlop_ (FL), @coffeemom (FL) and @dabsandips (Insta), a poly family with an ABDL orientation.

Lots of ABDLs have fantasies and fetishes about living the 24/7 life, and some choose to do so. But what is it like to live with medical incontinence, and how do you learn to love yourself and your kink when you didn't choose diapers but they chose you? We tackle this with three ABDL kinksters who live with varying degrees of medical incontinence: rnt, Stoneylittlefox, and InconDL.

In this episode, RY is joined by two avowed introverts and socialphobes, his lovely wife @roadnottaken (FL) and super-bud @TownesVanPantz (FL) to tackle a listener question about how to tackle that ABDL life when you're super-introverted.

Hello friends, and HAPPY NEW YEAR! As you may know, we have been collecting audio from you all year and today we get to celebrate our kink together by answering the question "What Do You Love About Being an ABDL?" We are so excited to get to hear your voice, and to share your story. Fancy NYE dips on, let's party!

Sharing your ABDL kink with a 'nilla partner can be scary, and getting involved in the ABDL community can be an intimidating prospect to boot...but sometimes getting involved in the community can be exactly what you and your 'nilla partner need to grow closer together! On this episode we talk to @rachandtucks (FL) about how their relationship started, how their early days of navigating kink started out with some real roller coaster events, and how getting engaged with the ABDL community helped bring them closer together. I am joined by this episode's co-host, my partner @lolaandthensome (FL), and together with Rach and Tucks we also talk about tips and tricks for events and community participation!

After a whirlwind season of work and travel, we're finally back! This week on LIB we have an interview with Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb, a psychological therapist and sexologist who specializes in helping ABDL folks reconcile themselves and their sexuality. Check out her thesis at understandinginfantilism.org and her book, No More Hiding, available on Amazon!

Like so many other kinksters on Tumblr, we were surprised and super-bummed to hear that Tumblr would be deleting all sexual content by Dec 17. Here's the good news: we have seen this before, and it's all going to turn out fine. This episode is a quick word from RY on what's next and how to find us after the Tumblr apocalypse.

In this episode of LIB we stop at not just one, not just two, but three listener-submitted questions, all while fulfilling at least one Tumblr user's fantasy of hearing us eat nachos! (OK, they wanted breakfast, but this is how artists push boundaries, people!) Join RY and rnt on this jumbo-sized edition of LIB to tackle questions about introducing partners to ABDL, encouraging partners to try new diaper-y things, and how to find someone whose interests extend beyond the kink. Crunch crunch crunch!

Have you ever wondered how all that love that spills out of a big event gets facilitated? Fresh off of TeddyCon 2018, we field a question about how big events get organized and executed with TC organizers @LittlePhilly (FL) and @MommyKuri (FL).

On this episode of LIB we tackle one of the most vulnerable issues that kinksters face: that of religious faith and spirituality. Join our friend JimMLoverboy (FL) as we talk through how he reconciled his faith with his kink.

Have you ever wanted to dip your toes (hehe) in a larger-scale ABDL event? Our guest Zorro is here to help give you the 101 on what events are like and how you might think about getting involved!

rnt and RY are fresh off of an incredible weekend at Dipchella, a 3-day ABDL party in the Rockies, and are excited to share a few things we have learned from incredible events like this one!

This week we tackle one of the most-asked questions we get: how to be a parent when you are a person/couple with an ABDL kink. Our special guests (and fellow parents) Mutineer and ConsecratedBelle join us for this important and super fun discussion.

Too much of a good thing is rarely a good thing, especially when it comes to healthy relationships... so how to enjoy an ABDL/CGL dynamic without having it overtake your relationship? We tackle this question on this episode of LIB with our friends and special guests LondonTom and MyLittleLust. Tune in for talk of icing, bourbon, kink and more tempting rich stuff that gets gross when you overdo it!

Sure, you may be too young to know who Stephen Stills is (unless you're RY's age), but he posed a timeless challenge: that if you can't be with the one you're love, you should love the one you're with. On this episode of Love In Brief, we tackle that challenge with an anonymous question about what to do when it seems like your dream partner is always just out of reach. Join us and our special guest Mako (of Big Little Podcast and Patreon authorship fame) to get downright philosophical!

Are you knot entertained??? On this episode TeddyBear and I welcome RopesbyPanda and his rope (and life) partner Bunny to talk about the joy of ropes & bondage, how to get started with rope and tying/rigging, some common terminology, and safety in rope play. And of course, where rope play and ABDL can overlap and play together!

Panda was also kind enough to share some resources with us, you can get those at transcripts.loveinbrief.com in the Resources folder. Check them out, it's well worth it!

A couple of years ago, ResonantYes wrote a song about how he found his way out of shame and into a reconciled kink. He wants to share this song with you, and it's in this podcast. Direct song link: https://soundcloud.com/resonantyes/radiant-a-word-for-the-kinky

On this episode of Love In Brief, we answer a question from @smithyabdl on how to help their partner find confidence as a kinkster after previous unaccepting partners. No special guests on this one, just us, a squeaky chair, and a damned good question! :)

Stroke! Stroke! Stroke! On this week's Love in Brief, we are answering a question about how to get over the "drop" after orgasm, and do away with that pesky post-autoerotic melancholy. Featuring our friends Fundamental (Fundamental on Fetlife) and Amy (MostMagicalGirl on Fetlife). Also, you can see Amy's tee shirts at https://www.etsy.com/shop/DinosaurClothingCo

We have all gotten stuck in the cycle... dig into your kink, feel guilty, throw away your stuff. On this episode of Love In Brief we will talk with StoneyLittleFox (@stoneylittlefox on Tumblr) and her partner Hedonistic Determinst (@hedonistic-determinist on Tumblr) to find out how they got out of the binge and purge cycle and learned to accept their kink.

Oh the horror! Your parents found your stash! Don't worry, you are neither the first nor the last. On this week's episode of Love In Brief, we talk to two long-time friends who each have their own "parents found out" story, and some practical advice on how to respond. Featuring Recklessmind (Recklessmind on Fetlife, @we-all-have-naughty-secrets on Tumblr) and LittleFeetz (CrinklesaurusRex on Fetlife, @smallfrydeepfry on Tumblr). REMINDER: This show (including this episode) is for adults over the age of 18, and all of our guests, hosts and question-askers are over 18. Thanks!

On this episode of Love In Brief, we address a question posed to us by Tumblr's @bbabybbear (bbabybbear.tumblr.com) about how to maintain your privacy while still engaging with the ABDL community. Our friend Bowski (TownesVanPantz on Fetlife) shares his expertise!

On this week's episode of Love in Brief, we talk to friends and fellow Tumblr bloggers @werenotadulting about what it's like to try to maintain your kink dynamic while living together full-time.

On this episode of Love In Brief we tackle an anonymous question about whether to stay with a vanilla partner or whether to look for an ABDL partner. Featuring Gavo of Fetlife fame!

On this particularly brief episode of Love In Brief, we talk with our friends Sir & Babysquish (https://sir-and-babysquish.tumblr.com/) about strategies to manage moments of difficult communication.

This episode of Love In Brief tackles the user-submitted question "How do you keep things fresh and avoid falling into routine?" Featuring special guests BarbiedollXO and Batman (https://barbiesdollxo.tumblr.com/)

(UPDATED with two new audio testimonials)

It’s that time of year again! We asked YOU to help us celebrate the New Year by telling us what about your kink you are PROUD OF this year, and you came back with some fabulous stories, and even an amazing poem!

There is also a SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT from rnt in this episode, and a tribute to our friend Diapered Kent. You don’t want to miss this one!

On this episode of Love in Brief, we tackle an often-asked question: how do you balance your life and your kinks? With special guests couple PickYourKnows (daddydoc.tumblr.com) & LittleMissKicks!

This episode of Love In Brief features Miss Panda Pants (misspandapants.tumblr.com) & Dr. Drea talking with us about how to make trustworthy friends in the ABDL world.

In this Very Special Airport Episode of Love in Brief we address how not to be creepy when meeting someone, with special guest (and universally uncreepy person) Idiot_Wind.

In this bonus episode of LIB, we share the experiment a year ago to see what recording a podcast could be like. It's... it's not... it's not good. ;)

On this episode of LIB we rejoin our friend Penguin (penguin417dl.tumblr.com) to talk about small ways to feel little out and about in the world.

In this episode we join our friend Mako (thebiglittlepodcast.com) to talk about how to enjoy your dynamic when you find you can't be together. Enjoy!

On this episode of Love In Brief we join Sir & Babysquish (sir-and-babysquish.tumblr.com) to tackle the question of how your CG/L dynamic can carry outside of diaper play!

This LIB episode featuring Penguin (penguin417dl.tumblr.com) addresses questions around how to approach others you have seen online.

Welcome to Love In Brief! In this first episode, RY and rnt interview each other to introduce the concept of LIB and our motivations for making it.

Are you waiting for someone to read you the perfect bedtime story before you go to sleep to wait for Santa? I'm here for you... I recorded this just for you... little or Big, I want you to be ready to close your eyes and enjoy drifting off to sleep as you await that Christmas joy. Here's a little bedtime story for just you...

It's that time of year, when we show our friends and partners we love them by showering them in absorbent undergarments and brightly-colored onesies and the like. Or, we just show ourselves how much we love US by buying ourselves some amazing little gear or special diapers! Either way, it's time to talk shopping.

On this episode of Love in Brief, RY talks with Fuzzy and Saray from ABDLr in Denver, the world's largest ABDL store, about what to get excited about this holiday season. And you'll want to listen soon, as some of the events and products are happening soon, or one of a kind!

Also, tune in for the end for RY's annual New Year's Eve ask of YOU to come join us on a special New Year's episode of LIB. Please contribute, we want to hear your voice and your hear your love come to life on the show!

We spend a lot of time and focus on LIB on supporting and encouraging those with an ABDL kink, but not nearly enough time on the *partners* of those with an ABDL kink!

On this episode my intrepid co-host @teddybear_withme (IG) and I spend some time with @ABDealing (IG) and their partner @Switchydips (IG) talking about how and why they started a Discord support group just for partners of ABDL folk (or "plus ones" as ABDealing calls them), and how you or your partner can join their support world.

This is a can't-miss episode for anyone with a non-ABDL partner, or anyone who aspires to have their ABDL side with a partner who may not have an ABDL kink!

BTW: ABDealing wanted me to let you know that the Golden Babies group is open to people of any age; they have attendees in their 20's! So don't let that stop you from checking it out. ;)

Also, a huge thanks to @teddybear_withme for producing this ep and finding our amazing guests, to @Dadbod (IG) for pulling the edit together, and to our amazing Scribies in our LIB Transcription group for making it more accessible via our transcripts.loveinbrief.com website. It really does take a village to support all of us in this community, and this episode is a great example!

LIB is back with an episode about how ABDL interacts with our stress from our work and our lives. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it causes more stress, sometimes BOTH! Join @beachbaby1 and imagine_all_the_people87 (IG) as we talk about their very stressful jobs, their ABDL lives from both a Dom and Little perspective, and how ABDL can be a stress reliever *and* a stress-causer with regards to work. **Note - This episode includes frank discussions on mental health and intense stress. If you or someone you love is in a mental health crisis, please see this list of international suicide and crisis hotlines hotlines to find your best resource.

Hi, we missed you! It has been a busy summer, but we are so pleased to be able to bring you this episode, where RY and rnt team up again to tackle four big questions from YOU, our listeners! We love you, and we love the questions you send, so please keep them coming. :)