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Cultivating resilience in leadership.

10 Essentials of a Family Cultivator

ASSESSING YOUR LEADERSHIP CAPACITY

• 2 Corinthians 13:5 "Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves.

• Haggai 1:5-7 consider your ways

• Proverbs 14:15 The inexperienced one believesanything, but the sensible one watches his steps.

• Lamentation 3:40 Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return tothe LORD.

20 Things that Leaders Do to Curate Conscious Followership

Learning to discern the nature of dreams, and why we have them.

The new thing requires the new thought.

Marriage conference

Joshua 1:6

Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their ancestors to give them.

Proverbs 21:5: “The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.

· God will bless your plans – but you must have some

 Ecclesiastes 3:1: “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.

· What is it “time” for in your life?

Ecclesiastes 11:6 Sow your seed in the morning, and do not rest your hands in the evening, for you do not know which will succeed, whether this or that, or if both will equally prosper.

· Work job in day, work your way out at night

Emotional regulation refers to the ability to manage and modulate one's emotional responses to various situations, stimuli, or experiences. It involves being aware of and understanding one's emotions, as well as having strategies to influence and control emotional reactions. Effective emotional regulation enables individuals to: - Recognize and acknowledge emotions - Assess the intensity and impact of emotions - Choose appropriate emotional responses - Calm or soothe themselves when upset - Enhance or maintain positive emotional states Emotional regulation is crucial for: - Mental health and well-being - Relationships and social interactions - Decision-making and problem-solving - Coping with stress and adversity - Overall quality of life Developing healthy emotional regulation skills can be achieved through practices like mindfulness, self-reflection, and seeking support from others.

John 5:19

Then answered Jesus and said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, The Son can do nothing of himself, but what he seeth the Father do: for what things soever he doeth, these also doeth the Son likewise.

Why do people battle against who they should cooperate with:

1. Coveting the influence of another

2. Transposition of family dysfunction

3. Failure to see the big picture.

4. Individualism vs Oneness

Ephesians 5:25-29

Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy.

Phil 4

6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Chapter titles

1.    Getting to the Root

2.    Intercession Over Instigation

3.    Modeling Change

4.    Enduring the Contradictions

5.    Adaptation

6.    Maintaining Right Perspective

7.    Shake Off Weariness

8.    Avoid Blame & Accusation

9.    Avoid Selfishness

10. Oneness Over Rightness

1 Corinthians 15:10

"But by the grace of God, I am what I am, and His grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it was not I but the grace of God that is with me"

Rom 12:21 do not be overcome with evil, but overcome evil with good.

James 1:4 But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.

James 1:5

If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.

re·sil·ience

1. the capacity to withstand or to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness.

1 Corinthians 9:27

But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway. 27 But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.

Principles that help to ensure that your effectiveness and longevity in leadership.

John 14:16 And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever;

7 Characteristics that People Have a Hard Time Following

Prov 18:24 a friend must…..

Col 3:19 husbands must not…..

Eph 5:22 wives must….

THE MUST IS UPON ME TO RELATE BETTER

Acts 15:1-7

Ecclesiastes 3:1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.

23 expecations of leaders for our 23rd year of ministry.

Interview Part 2

Interview on relationships

Phil 4:8

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

Psalms 139:14 14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

Con·ver·gence

Harmonizing, the process or state of converging.

Ecclesiastes 11:2 “Divide your portion to seven, or even to eight, for you do not know what misfortune may occur on the earth.”

1 Cor 13:13

Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.

Proverbs, chapter 23:7

"As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he".

Temperament refers to personality traits that determine how someone reacts to the world.

Philippians 4:11-13

11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be CONTENT whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

• def: a state of happiness and satisfaction