Explore every episode of the podcast Listen to Myself
| Title | Pub. Date | Duration | |
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| how to stop feeling FOMO (fear of missing out) (🌴ep.43) | 05 Jun 2025 | 00:28:56 | |
✨ Watch the video version of this episode here :) ✨ Click here for My Patreon page ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! FOMO shows up in every aspects of life, from your relationships with others, careers, leisures (e.g. travel), trend etc., I used to feel FOMO all the time, now sometimes I still do, fearing what if I'm gonna miss you good things by not doing it, or what if I'm not going to meet any new guys or new friends by not joining this event and so on, you know haha but I gradually find a way to cope with this uncomfortable feeling, and I'm going to share with you my stories and experiences this this episode! Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how to stop overthinking and just be present (🌸ep.42) | 23 Apr 2025 | 00:35:01 | |
✨ Watch the video version of this episode here :) ✨ Click here for My Patreon page ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! This past month of job-hunting in Paris has made me realized again how bad my always-living-in-the-future can be. I just can't stop worrying about the future. "what if..." is a question I so often posed to myself, and honesty it drives me crazy. So in this episode, I try to dissect this problem and see what I can do with it! Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| admitting that "I may be wrong" (🍁ep.33) | 19 Oct 2024 | 00:27:44 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why I think the mindset/motto "I may be wrong" is very powerful. I also talk about why it's so challenging to admit we are wrong or to apologize to others. Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| the art of being multidimensional (🍁ep.32) | 11 Oct 2024 | 00:26:15 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I talk about the possibility of having multiple titles in life, about how I don't want to stick with only doing one thing and having one title in life as there're so many things out there that interest me! ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| what it really means to be your own boss (running a one-person business) (🍁ep.31) | 04 Oct 2024 | 00:36:31 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share my favorite parts of being my own boss, along with the challenges I’ve faced, and some surprising discoveries about the journey ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how to be ok with being single (in your late 20s) (🍁ep.30) | 28 Sep 2024 | 00:33:10 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you what you could do if you feel not ok or uncomfortable with being single. If you are anxious about being single, no matter in your early 20s, late 20s or even 30s, I genuinely hope this episode could offer some comfort and encouragement to you ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how to be less anxious in life (🍁ep.29) | 21 Sep 2024 | 00:23:47 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you my problems with anxiety and how I'm working toward letting go of control, becoming more comfortable with uncertainty, and lastly, leaving the room for miracle to happen ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| it's ok to slow down in life (🍁ep.28) | 14 Sep 2024 | 00:28:11 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why I think it's important to slow down, and what are some of the problems I encountered when living in a fast-paced life. Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| taking care of my mental health as a full-time content creator (🍁ep.27) | 06 Sep 2024 | 00:41:51 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you some of the mental challenges I encountered as a full-time content creator, hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| don't be afraid to reach out to people! (🍁ep.26) | 01 Sep 2024 | 00:13:01 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why I think you should just reach out to people you would like to reach out to, hope you will enjoy it✨ ***OMG, I just realized that I did sth wrong with the setting of the microphone, so the sound quality actually isn't that good with this episode! I'm so sorry for that :( oh no! | |||
| why you should try solo-traveling at least once in life! (🌴ep.25) | 14 Aug 2024 | 00:31:26 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with what solo-traveling has taught me, hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| dealing with regrets in life (🌴ep.24) | 08 Aug 2024 | 00:19:30 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with some of my regrets in life. I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| I'm BACK! jobs, travel, stress… and a little life crisis 😅 working holiday talk (🌸ep.41) | 09 Apr 2025 | 00:29:35 | |
✨ Watch the video version of this episode here :) ✨ Click here for My Patreon page ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! I'm finally back guyssss! After 3 months of break! So let's catch up a bit and let me share with you what I've been up these past 3 months! Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how to cope with downs in life part.2 - the Backward Law (🌴ep.23) | 01 Aug 2024 | 00:29:30 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you an interesting mindset called "The Backward Law," introduced by the philosopher Alan Watts - wanting positive experience is itself a negative experience; accepting negative experience is itself a positive experience. I find it a reeeally interesting but difficult to understand concept, I'll elaborate on it in this episode! I hope you will enjoy it✨ Reference: 2) How to Get What You Want By Letting Go [The Backwards Law] | |||
| the opportunity cost of your 20s (🌴ep.22) | 25 Jul 2024 | 00:35:11 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you my take on the opportunity costs of our 20s in various aspects of life; school, career, health, interpersonal relationships, money. I hope you will enjoy it✨ Inspired by Soju with Sarah & Chez Nous avec Océane Andréa | |||
| I’m slowly accepting who I am…and I’m thrilled about these changes! (🌴ep.21) | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:20:11 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you sth surprising that happened to me a few weeks ago and a very interesting concept (the self-awareness onion) I learned from a book that speaks so much to my heart!I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how to cope with downs in life part.1 - why I'm feeling down (🌴ep.20) | 24 Jun 2024 | 00:20:16 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why I'm feeling down lately and how I plan to cope with it ;) this is the first part of this two parts series - how to cope with downs in life, so please stay tuned for the second part in the upcoming weeks! I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| are you an extroverted introvert? (🌴ep.19) | 08 Jun 2024 | 00:25:47 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you about my confusion of whether I'm an extrovert or introvert... .... cuz I have characteristics from both side!!! Anyway ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ 📚Reference 10 Signs You’re an Extroverted Introvert What Is an Extroverted Introvert? If You Do These 10 Things, You Might be an Extroverted Introvert | |||
| how to achieve what you want in life (🌸ep.18) | 31 May 2024 | 00:21:43 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you some mindsets that I think are critical when it comes to achieving what you want in life ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| when influencers don’t feel authentic anymore: an influencer’s POV (🌸ep.17) | 25 May 2024 | 00:48:08 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you (as both a viewer & influencer myself) why I think many influencers nowadays don't feel authentic anymore, what are some of the causes of this situation, and lastly, what we could do about it ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| let's NOT rush through life! (🌸ep.16) | 17 May 2024 | 00:33:10 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why do people rush through life, what are some of the negative impacts by rushing through it and lastly, how can we stop rushing through life ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| 5 surprising things about being a YouTuber that I didn't know before becoming one (🌸ep.15) | 08 May 2024 | 00:27:15 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you some shocking things I didn't know before about being a YouTuber ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| traveling✈️hanging out with your parent(s) as an adult (🌸ep.14) | 02 May 2024 | 00:26:50 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you some feelings that I've never shared with anyone before, why I feel this way and lastly what I'm going to do about it :) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how does living abroad in my 20s changed me (⛷️ep.40) | 08 Jan 2025 | 00:30:13 | |
✨ Click here for My Patreon page ✨ Watch the video version of this episode here :) ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you how does living abroad in my 20s changed my perspectives, mindsets and attitude toward life. Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| what does it mean to get married with someone? (🌸ep.13) | 18 Apr 2024 | 00:35:47 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you what I think marriage is and also some reflections about whether I think marriage is going to be worth it! I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| I love consuming productivity content but…sth is seriously wrong (🌸ep.12) | 13 Apr 2024 | 00:25:28 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you what problems I ran into after consuming tons of productivity content... I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| why learning to say “No” is important (🌸ep.11) | 04 Apr 2024 | 00:29:05 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why it's so important to learn to say "No" in life. I talk about why it's so hard to say "No", why it's important and why saying "No" isn't a bad thing, and lastly how we can practice saying "No" more ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| feeling lost in life & uncertain about the future (🌸ep.10) | 27 Mar 2024 | 00:21:36 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why it's perfectly normal to feel lost in life and feel uncertain about the future, and what are some of the things you could try out doing when you feel lost in life ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| 1 funny, 1 scary & 1 horrible travel stories (🌸ep.9) | 20 Mar 2024 | 00:24:16 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you 3 of my interesting travel stories hehe;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| #POV is dating apps good or bad? (🌸ep.8) | 14 Mar 2024 | 00:27:43 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you my experiences with dating apps, what I think are the pros & cons and how I think it has affected the modern dating culture. I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| I'm not good at making friends (🌸ep.7) | 08 Mar 2024 | 00:29:17 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you the difficulties I experienced when it comes to navigating friendships. I hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| looking back, is university worth it? (☃️ep.6) | 28 Feb 2024 | 00:28:55 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you whether I think university is worth it. I'm gonna talk about things I'm glad that I did, but also some of my regrets. I hope you will enjoy it hehe✨ | |||
| listen to it before your first date! (☃️ep.5) | 23 Feb 2024 | 00:36:12 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you things (such as Red flags🚩) to look out for before, during & after your first date! I hope you will find it helpful hehe✨ | |||
| it's okay to NOT fit in! (☃️ep.4) | 15 Feb 2024 | 00:25:36 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with why it is okay to not fit in. This is sth that I really wish I knew when I was younger, cuz I wasted so much mental energy and time being unhappy and frustrated about it. So today, let me tell you why it's okay😊 I hope you will find it helpful hehe✨ | |||
| I set one new year’s resolution each year, and it works! (⛷️ep.39) | 24 Dec 2024 | 00:15:55 | |
✨ Click here for My Patreon page ✨ Watch the video version of this episode here :) ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you how I found a way that helped me achieved my New Year's Resolution each year ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how to stop being jealous of others success (☃️ep.3) | 07 Feb 2024 | 00:25:13 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with what to do step-by-step when you feel jealous of others success. How to deal with your feelings and emotions, and what to do in both short-term and long-term to eventually stop being jealous of others. I hope you will find it helpful✨ *I also recorded myself on camera for this episode, will soon upload it to YouTube, please stay tuned for that! | |||
| let's play 2 truths 1 lie! aka my self-introduction (☃️ep.2) | 21 Jan 2024 | 00:20:48 | |
| you can be proud of yourself (☃️ep.1) | 08 Jan 2024 | 00:20:18 | |
| hiiii welcome to my public diary | 03 Jan 2024 | 00:03:59 | |
Hi welcome to my Podcast “Listen to Myself”, I’m Pearly aka baobaopearly from YouTube. This podcast is going to be a public diary of mine, I will share with you my thoughts on various topics that interest me, about self-growth, about my worries & struggles in my 20s, about relationships, about career, about school, basically all the things that I had experienced or am experiencing in my 20s. | |||
| should we trust our gut feeling when making decisions in life? (⛷️ep.38) | 07 Dec 2024 | 00:35:35 | |
✨ Click here for My Patreon page ✨ Read Harvard Business Review article here ✨ Watch the video version of this episode here :) ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why I used to don't trust my own instinct, and why I decided to start trusting it and why I realized how important it is to learn to listen to our own gut feeling ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| just don’t be a people pleaser and see how life changes (🍁ep.37) | 25 Nov 2024 | 00:40:21 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you how I used to be a people pleaser, my turning point, how I stopped being a people pleaser and lastly how my life changes after stopped being a people pleaser ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| I suck at reading books now (🍁ep.36) | 16 Nov 2024 | 00:34:39 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why my ability to read books deteriorated and what are some of my solutions to address it ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how to be brave in life (🍁ep.35) | 09 Nov 2024 | 00:37:41 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you why being brave in life can be this difficult, how do I face my fears, and how do I still take on challenges despite feeling scared ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||
| how I went from super shy to confident (story time) (🍁ep.34) | 25 Oct 2024 | 00:32:24 | |
✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you how I used to be super shy as a kid, why I decided to overcome it, how I successfully overcome it and lastly, how I built up my confidence :) Hope you will enjoy it✨ | |||