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Listen to my words

Ashlea Hoess

Society & Culture

Education

Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 9

“Listen to my words” is a podcast about self-worth, relationships, and becoming the version of yourself that no longer settles.

Through real conversations, personal experiences, and honest reflections, I break down the patterns we fall into in dating—and how they’re often rooted in how we see ourselves. This is a space for growth, clarity, and learning how to choose yourself in a way that changes everything.

Because the way you’re loved will always reflect the way you love yourself.

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Listen to my words: Episode 5: Anxious Attachment

Season 1 · Episode 5

Monday, May 4, 2026 • Duration 41:52

This episode dives into the emotional intensity of anxious attachment—what it feels like, where it comes from, and how it shows up in your relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” constantly overthinking texts, or needing reassurance just to feel okay, this is for you.

We break down how anxious attachment isn’t a flaw—it’s a pattern rooted in fear of abandonment and inconsistent love. But when left unchecked, it can lead you to chase people who trigger your anxiety instead of choosing people who create safety.

The second half of the episode shifts into a powerful truth: just because you feel strongly about someone doesn’t mean they’re right for you.

You’ll learn how to recognize when someone is not meant for you, including:

You feel more anxious than secure
You’re constantly questioning where you stand
Their effort is inconsistent or conditional
You’re over-explaining your needs just to be understood
You feel like you’re “waiting” for them to choose you

This episode challenges the idea that love should feel like emotional chaos. Instead, it reframes love as something steady, safe, and mutual.

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Episode 4: Avoidant Attachment – Why They Pull Away & How It Affects Love

Season 1 · Episode 4

Monday, April 27, 2026 • Duration 42:10

In this episode, we’re diving into avoidant attachment — one of the most confusing relationship dynamics in modern dating. Why do some people come on strong, then suddenly distance themselves? Why do they struggle with emotional closeness, shut down during conflict, or seem interested one minute and detached the next?

We’ll unpack how avoidant attachment is often rooted in past wounds, emotional conditioning, and fear of vulnerability — not always a lack of feelings. You’ll learn the signs of an avoidant partner, how this dynamic impacts anxious partners, and the cycle that keeps both people stuck.

We’ll also talk about how to protect your peace, communicate effectively, and stop chasing unavailable love.

If you’ve ever felt confused by mixed signals, hot-and-cold behavior, or someone who can’t seem to let you in, this episode is for you.

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Listen to my words: Episode 3: The games people play

Season 1 · Episode 3

Monday, April 20, 2026 • Duration 27:42

Listen to My Words is a raw and insightful podcast that breaks down the games men and women often play in modern dating and relationships—especially when someone wants the benefits of connection without the responsibility of commitment. From mixed signals, breadcrumbing, future faking, love bombing, emotional unavailability, keeping options open, and disappearing acts, this podcast uncovers the behaviors people use when they’re interested in attention more than something real.

Hosted by Ashlea Hoess, each episode helps listeners decode confusing dynamics, recognize red flags, protect their self-worth, and navigate dating with more confidence and clarity. Learn how to stop investing in people who only want convenience, identify genuine intention, and understand the psychology behind attraction, avoidance, and power plays.

If you’ve ever asked yourself “Why do they act interested but never commit?” or “How do I stop repeating these patterns?”—this is where honesty meets strategy.

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Listen to my words Episode 2: Moving relationships along quickly

Season 1 · Episode 2

Monday, April 13, 2026 • Duration 35:10

Why does something that feels like intense love in the beginning sometimes turn into pressure, confusion, or heartbreak? In this episode of Listen to My Words, Ashlea Hoess explores the reality behind love bombing—when affection, attention, and fast emotional escalation create the illusion of deep connection before true trust is built. We’ll unpack why some people rush relationships forward, how to recognize the difference between genuine interest and manipulation, and the red flags to watch for when a connection is moving too fast. If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s real love or just the rush of being chosen, this conversation will help you slow down, protect your heart, and date with clarity.

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How I became HER: My Story, My Standards, My Self-Worth

Season 1 · Episode 1

Tuesday, April 7, 2026 • Duration 36:37

This episode is a raw and honest look into my life—where I’ve been, what I’ve been through, and how those experiences shaped the woman I am today.

For a long time, I found myself stuck in patterns that left me questioning my worth, especially in relationships. I gave too much, accepted too little, and didn’t fully understand the role I was playing in my own story.

Everything began to change when I turned inward.

In this episode, I share the struggles, the wake-up moments, and the growth that led me to rebuild my self-worth and completely shift how I show up in dating. Because the truth is, the way you navigate relationships is a direct reflection of how you see yourself.

This isn’t just my story—it’s a reflection for anyone who’s ever felt confused, overlooked, or stuck in cycles they can’t seem to break.

If you’re ready to understand yourself on a deeper level, raise your standards, and start choosing yourself in a way that changes everything—this episode is for you.

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