Explore every episode of the podcast Let's Parent on Purpose: Christian Marriage, Parenting, and Discipleship
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| Ep. 411: Raising Spiritually Strong Kids with Dr. Charles Fay | 12 Oct 2026 | 00:44:20 | |
In this episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose, Jay sits down with Dr. Charles Fay, president of the Love and Logic Institute, to explore how Christian parents can raise spiritually strong kids through intentional discipleship, biblical principles, and practical parenting strategies. Dr. Fay explains how the Love and Logic® approach combines love with healthy boundaries, appropriate choices, accountability, and opportunities for children to experience the consequences of their decisions. Rather than rescuing children from every struggle or controlling them through fear and threats, parents can help their children develop wisdom, responsibility, self control, and the ability to make good decisions from the inside out. Most importantly, Dr. Fay emphasizes that effective parenting techniques are not a substitute for the gospel. Christian parents are called to model authentic faith, point their children toward Jesus, and depend on the Holy Spirit as they seek to disciple their children. Jay and Dr. Fay get especially practical, discussing chores, allowance, serving others, freedom, failure, sports, and the pressures of competitive and travel sports. They explore how everyday responsibilities can teach children to serve, how limited resources can help them learn wise financial decisions, and how gradually increasing freedom prepares them for adulthood. Dr. Fay also challenges parents to evaluate whether activities and commitments are helping their family glorify God or becoming idols that compete for their time, attention, and affection. Throughout the conversation, parents are encouraged to focus on what they can control: their own faithfulness, their example, their conversations about Jesus, and their willingness to turn back to God when they fail. This episode offers Christian moms and dads practical encouragement for raising spiritually strong children who develop authentic faith, character, responsibility, and a heart for serving others. Takeaways • Lead with love, empathy, boundaries, and accountability rather than fear or control. • Give children age appropriate choices and gradually increase their freedom as they demonstrate responsibility. • Allow children to experience manageable failures while they are still at home and under your guidance. • Use everyday chores as opportunities to teach children the joy and responsibility of serving others. • Use allowance as practice for learning how to earn, save, spend, and manage money wisely. • Evaluate sports and extracurricular activities by asking whether they are helping your family glorify God or becoming an idol. • Model authentic faith by admitting when you fail, asking for forgiveness, and turning back to Jesus. • Focus on what you can control rather than attempting to control your child’s spiritual decisions. • Remember that parenting strategies are tools, while Jesus and the work of the Holy Spirit remain at the center of Christian parenting. About Seth Troutt Charles Fay, PhD, is an internationally recognized author, consultant, and public speaker and serves as president of the Love and Logic Institute. He has spent decades helping parents, educators, and mental health professionals address challenging behaviors in children and teens through practical, research based solutions shaped by his clinical experience. Introduced to Love and Logic from childhood through the work of his father, Jim Fay, Charles went on to earn his PhD with highest honors from the University of South Carolina and became a leading voice in parenting and child development. He is the author of Raising Spiritually Strong Kids, where he combines biblical principles with the Love and Logic approach to help parents raise children who develop authentic faith, wisdom, responsibility, and strong character. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 410: Authentic Masculinity with Seth Troutt | 14 Sep 2026 | 00:50:45 | |
In this episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose, Jay sits down with Seth Troutt to explore a biblical vision of authentic masculinity and what it means for parents who want to intentionally disciple their children. Drawing from his book Authentic Masculinity: Leaving Behind the Counterfeits for God’s Design, Seth explains why Christian masculinity must begin with humility rather than comparison with women or attempts to prove strength. His masculinity pyramid identifies four core virtues: humility, discipline, responsibility, and chivalry. Seth explains how these qualities flow from a proper understanding of who we are before God and how they shape the way men live as sons, brothers, makers, husbands, and fathers. The conversation also addresses one of the most important challenges facing Christian families today: the difference between abusing power and abdicating responsibility. Seth explains how biblical masculinity calls men to use their strength to serve, protect, intercede, and take responsibility rather than dominate or withdraw. For parents, he offers practical insight into discipling children through affection, blessing, and correction, emphasizing that children often absorb what they see more than what they are told. Seth shares how he uses warmth, play, stories, spiritual disciplines, and everyday conversations to cultivate faith and character in his young children. The episode also explores the complementary nature of biblical masculinity and femininity, including Seth’s framework of nurturing for women, giving Christian parents a thoughtful foundation for teaching their children a biblical vision of manhood and womanhood. Key Takeaways • Biblical masculinity begins with humility and recognizing that man is not God. • Authentic masculinity is marked by humility, discipline, responsibility, and chivalry. • Discipline should flow from rightly ordered desires and a desire to become more like Christ. • Responsibility means not only owning what is ours, but also being willing to help address problems that are within our sphere of influence. • Chivalry means using strength to honor, serve, protect, and intercede rather than abuse power. • Male abdication, or the failure to use God given strength and responsibility, can be deeply damaging to families. • Fathers influence the spiritual temperature of their homes and should pursue warm, engaged, joyful leadership. • Effective discipleship begins with affection, followed by blessing and appropriate correction. • Children often learn biblical character through what they observe in their parents, not simply through formal teaching. • Parents can use stories, play, everyday conversations, spiritual disciplines, and intentional moments to disciple their children. About Seth Troutt Seth Troutt is the Teaching Pastor at Ironwood Church in the Phoenix metro area and has been pastoring full time since 2011. He holds a doctorate focused on digital technology, Generation Z, and gender identity and writes about the intersections of theology, technology, and culture. His ministry seeks to equip Christians with biblical wisdom, courage, and faithfulness for navigating the challenges of contemporary life. Seth is the author of Authentic Masculinity: Leaving Behind the Counterfeits for God’s Design, a book that presents a clear biblical vision of manhood for men who want to reject cultural counterfeits and embrace God’s design. His website also offers resources for men and fathers, including the Seven Day Sloth Killer and the 40 Day No More Deadbeat Dad Challenge. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources & Links: Grab a copy of Authentic Masculinity: Leaving Behind the Counterfeits for God’s Design on Amazon.
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| Ep. 409: The Special Needs Parent with Dr. Joe and Cindi Ferrini | 10 Aug 2026 | 00:45:28 | |
Parenting a child with special needs is a journey that few families expect, yet many Christian parents walk every day. In this encouraging conversation, Jay sits down with Dr. Joe and Cindi Ferrini to discuss their book, The Special Needs Parent: A Guide to the Life You Never Expected. Drawing from more than four decades of caring for their son Joey, who lives with cerebral palsy, epilepsy, and developmental disabilities, they share practical wisdom, biblical encouragement, and honest insight into the realities of raising a child with lifelong special needs. Together they explore the challenges of isolation, stress, advocating for your child, building a strong support team, and trusting God's faithfulness through every season of parenting. Whether your family is navigating autism, physical disabilities, chronic illness, developmental delays, or another special needs diagnosis, this episode offers hope rooted in Christ. Dr. Joe and Cindi also challenge churches to become places of genuine welcome and inclusion for families affected by disability while offering practical ways friends and church members can provide meaningful support. This conversation reminds Christian moms and dads that God supplies grace for each day and that faithful parenting is about glorifying Him, even through the unexpected journey. Key Takeaways • Build a trusted team of doctors, therapists, family members, and friends who can support your family. • Isolation and stress are common experiences for special needs parents, but you were never meant to carry the journey alone. • Instead of saying "Let me know if you need anything," offer specific ways you can help. • Churches can make a lasting difference by intentionally welcoming and supporting families with disabilities. • Parents are their child's greatest advocate while remaining teachable and partnering with educators, therapists, and ministry leaders. • God's grace is given one day at a time, providing strength for today's challenges rather than tomorrow's worries. • Every family has a unique journey, but every journey can be lived for the glory of God. About Dr. Joe and Cindi Ferrini Dr. Joe and Cindi Ferrini are Christian speakers, authors, and marriage and family advocates who have spent decades encouraging couples and parents through biblical teaching and practical wisdom. Their personal experience raising their adult son Joey, who has lifelong special needs, inspired them to write The Special Needs Parent: A Guide to the Life You Never Expected. Through their writing and speaking ministry, they encourage families to find hope in Christ, strengthen their marriages, and faithfully navigate life's unexpected challenges while bringing glory to God. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources & Links: Grab a copy of The Special Needs Parent: A Guide to the Life You Never Expected on Amazon. For more info, visit their website: cindiferrini.com More Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 408: Transitioning from Parenting to Consulting Your Adult Children with Dr. Kathy Koch | 06 Jul 2026 | 00:47:26 | |
How do Christian parents navigate the challenging transition from raising children to building healthy relationships with adult sons and daughters? In this insightful conversation, Jay sits down with Dr. Kathy Koch to discuss one of the most important shifts in biblical parenting: moving from being a parent who directs and instructs to becoming a trusted consultant who advises and encourages. Drawing from her book Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children, Dr. Kathy shares practical wisdom for maintaining strong family relationships, avoiding common parenting pitfalls, and fostering mutual respect as children enter adulthood. Christian moms and dads will be encouraged to release control, trust God with their adult children, and pursue relationships marked by grace, understanding, and hope. This episode explores topics such as helicopter parenting, family estrangement, communication with adult children, marriage and in-law relationships, prodigal children, and the importance of healthy boundaries. Dr. Kathy reminds parents that discipleship does not end when children leave home, but it does change. Rather than offering constant correction or unsolicited advice, parents can build long term trust by listening well, praying faithfully, respecting their adult children's independence, and remaining available when wisdom is requested. Whether you are preparing to launch a teenager into adulthood or navigating a difficult season with an adult child, this conversation offers biblical encouragement and practical tools for strengthening multi generational family relationships. Key Takeaways
Dr. Kathy Koch is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids, Inc., a child development specialist, and a sought after speaker dedicated to helping parents, educators, and churches inspire children to develop biblical character and strong faith. She is the bestselling author of numerous books, including Parent Differently, Resilient Kids, Raising Gender Confident Kids, and her latest book, Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children. For more information, visit celebratekids.com. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources & Links: Purchase Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children by Dr. Kathy Koch on Amazon or through the Celebrate Kids online store. More Resources & Links: Get Jay's new devotional, Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal Use it solo, with your small group, or as a family for daily Scripture-based prompts to foster gratitude and closeness to Christ. Text "THINGS" to 66866 for free high-quality resources from Jay, including fun family conversations, a 52-week Scripture memory system, dating questions for kids, marriage tools, and more.
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| Ep. 407: What Every Parent Must Know about Kids and Technology with Chris McKenna | 08 Jun 2026 | 00:51:53 | |
In this powerful episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose, host Jay Holland sits down with Chris McKenna, founder of Protect Young Eyes and author of The Five Habits of a Tech-Ready Family, for an honest and hope-filled conversation about parenting kids in the digital age. Chris shares how smartphones, social media, pornography exposure, gaming, and AI have created an “experiment” that today’s parents never signed up for. Together, Jay and Chris unpack the emotional and spiritual challenges Christian families face as children navigate addictive technology, online temptation, and constant digital influence. This episode offers biblical wisdom, practical parenting strategies, and encouragement for moms and dads who want to raise disciples of Jesus in a screen-saturated world without leading from fear or shame. Throughout the conversation, Chris explains why Christian parents must move from panic to intentionality by building trust, pursuing authentic connection, and responding with grace first when children fail online. He introduces the five habits of a tech-ready family, including modeling healthy technology use, delaying addictive apps and social media, encouraging real-world play and responsibility, and creating layers of digital protection in the home. Parents will be challenged to think differently about smartphones, social media algorithms, and the emotional realities their children face every day. If you are looking for practical Christian parenting advice on technology, digital safety, online purity, discipleship, and protecting your children’s hearts in the age of AI and social media, this episode is an essential listen. Key Takeaways
Bio: Chris McKenna is the Founder of Protect Young Eyes and President of The Better Tech Project. leading voice on digital safety, he testified before the U.S. Senate in 2019, sparking more than 20 hearings on online child protection. Under his leadership, Protect Young Eyes earned the Dignity Defense Award and the Phase Alliance Child Safety Award. He co-authored the Child Device Protection Bill, now law in Utah and Alabama, requiring devices to activate content filters for minors. Chris serves as a technical advisor and represents the Human Change Movement, speaking globally—including at the World Economic Forum—while collaborating with advocates, tech leaders, and legislators. Featured in the film Childhood 2.0, Protect Young Eyes equips families with practical safety tools. His debut book, Five Habits of the Tech-Ready Family, releases on June 16, and according to Publishers’ Weekly, it is “comprehensive,” “illuminating,” and “an informative resource for parents eager to establish digital safety nets for their children.” His greatest treasures remain family life, road trips, running, and adventures with his wife, Andrea, four children, and two dogs. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources & Links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/protectyoungeyes/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-mckenna-75962211/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/protectyoungeyes Website: https://protectyoungeyes.com/ Visit Christian Parenting’s Moms, Dads, and Grads Gift Guide: https://www.christianparenting.org/gifts/ | |||
| Ep. 406: What Makes Faith Stick? 5 Keys to Raising Lifelong Followers of Jesus | 11 May 2026 | 00:30:36 | |
This episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose explores a crucial question for Christian parents: what makes faith stick in the lives of our children? Drawing from over 25 years of youth ministry experience, Jay shares five key elements consistently present in students whose faith endures into adulthood. While acknowledging the mystery of God’s work, he emphasizes that intentional discipleship at home plays a primary role. Parents are encouraged not to outsource spiritual formation to the church, but to become the leading spiritual influence in their child’s life. The first two elements—truth kids understand and relationships they trust—highlight the importance of clearly communicating biblical truth in age-appropriate ways and surrounding children with trusted, godly influences who reinforce faith beyond the home. The episode continues with three additional pillars of “sticky faith”: habits they own, purpose they live, and transforming moments they remember. Jay explains that lasting faith develops when children move from passive participation to personally owning spiritual disciplines like prayer, Scripture reading, and service. He also stresses the importance of helping kids see their faith as a mission, not just a belief system, by living on purpose and engaging in God’s work daily. Finally, both joyful and difficult life experiences can become defining spiritual moments when processed through a biblical lens. This episode equips Christian moms and dads with practical ways to evaluate their home environment, initiate meaningful faith conversations, and intentionally disciple their children for lifelong faith in Jesus. Key Takeaways for Parents:
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| Ep. 405: Procrastination Proof Your Life with Jon Acuff | 13 Apr 2026 | 00:47:58 | |
This episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose features a powerful and practical conversation with author Jon Acuff about overcoming procrastination and building a more intentional, purpose-driven life. Drawing from his new book Procrastination Proof, Acuff reframes procrastination not as laziness, but as a mismatch between our intentions and actions, often driven by fear, overwhelm, or misplaced priorities. He introduces a simple but transformative framework—Dream, Plan, Do, Review—that helps parents and leaders move from good intentions to consistent follow-through. For Christian moms and dads seeking to disciple their children well, this episode emphasizes that growth starts with modeling: aligning your own habits, stewarding your time wisely, and making decisions today that serve your future self and family. The conversation also dives into practical strategies for busy families, including how to “make tomorrow easy today,” prioritize what matters most, and avoid the trap of trying to do everything at once. Acuff’s insights are especially helpful for parents navigating full schedules, offering realistic tools like starting with just 15 minutes a day and focusing on three to five key priorities. The episode closes with a meaningful challenge for Christian parents: to intentionally shape not only their habits but also their children’s mindset about success, time, and stewardship. By addressing concepts like the “acceptable success line,” parents can disciple their kids to pursue God-honoring excellence without guilt, fear, or comparison, equipping them to live faithfully and fruitfully. Resources Mentioned: Purchase Procrastination Proof: Never Get Stuck Again by Jon Acuff on Amazon https://amzn.to/4dPSlRF Visit Jon Acuff’s website at jonacuff.com and follow his podcast: All It Takes Is A Goal Get Jay's new devotional, Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal https://amzn.to/3MLWavl Use it solo, with your small group, or as a family for daily Scripture-based prompts to foster gratitude and closeness to Christ. Text "THINGS" to 66866 for free high-quality resources from Jay, including fun family conversations, a 52-week Scripture memory system, dating questions for kids, marriage tools, and more. Guest Bio: Jon Acuff Jon Acuff is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and leadership expert known for his practical and engaging approach to personal growth and productivity. He has written multiple books, including Procrastination Proof, helping people overcome overthinking, take action, and live with greater purpose. Jon works with individuals, teams, and organizations to build habits that lead to lasting success, all while blending humor, honesty, and real-life application. He lives in Tennessee with his family and is passionate about helping others reach their full, God-given potential. Key Takeaways from the Episode
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org More Resources & Links: Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal by Jay Holland https://amzn.to/3MLWavl Check out www.youthministry.coach Daily Devotional Podcast Guided by Faith: www.guidedbyfaith.net Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! https://tinyurl.com/292kv68y Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 404: Raising Gender Confident Kids with Dr. Kathy Koch | 09 Mar 2026 | 00:54:28 | |
In this powerful episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose, Jay welcomes back Dr. Kathy Koch to discuss how Christian parents can raise gender-confident kids in today’s confusing cultural climate. Drawing from her book Raising Gender-Confident Kids, co-authored with Dr. Jeff Myers, Dr. Kathy unpacks the biblical framework behind the “Five to Thrive”—security, identity, belonging, purpose, and competence—and explains how unmet core needs often fuel gender confusion. With compassion and clarity, she equips parents to move from fear to faith, offering practical tools for affirming their child’s God-given design while maintaining strong, loving relationships. This episode explores how stereotypes distort masculinity and femininity, why social contagion and mental health struggles play a significant role in teen gender confusion, and how parents can proactively build confidence in their children from a young age. Dr. Kathy shares wisdom on affirming a child’s unique strengths through the “Eight Great Smarts,” guarding kids from harmful cultural influences, and responding wisely if a child questions their gender identity. If you’re a Christian parent seeking biblical guidance, practical strategies, and hope in navigating conversations about gender identity, this episode will strengthen your resolve and remind you that God’s design is both intentional and good. Resources Mentioned: Purchase Raising Gender-Confident Kids by Dr. Jeff Myers and Dr. Kathy Koch on Amazon or through the Celebrate Kids online store. Grab a copy of Five to Thrive by Dr. Kathy Koch on Amazon or through the Celebrate Kids online store. Get Jay's new devotional, Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal. Use it solo, with your small group, or as a family for daily Scripture-based prompts to foster gratitude and closeness to Christ. Text "THINGS" to 66866 for free high-quality resources from Jay, including fun family conversations, a 52-week Scripture memory system, dating questions for kids, marriage tools, and more. Guest Bio: Dr. Kathy Koch Dr. Kathy Koch is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids, Inc., and a child development specialist. She is also the author of nine bestselling parent-child enrichment books including her latest book, Parent Differently: Raise Kids with Biblical Character that Changes Culture.For more, visit celebratekids.com. Key Takeaways from the Episode Drawing from Lightbulb Moments in Marriage, Dr. Eggerichs and Jay explore transformative "aha" insights for successful and satisfied Christian couples. Here are the highlights:
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org More Resources & Links: Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal by Jay Holland Check out www.youthministry.coach Daily Devotional Podcast Guided by Faith: www.guidedbyfaith.net Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 403: Lightbulb Moments in Marriage with Dr. Emerson Eggerichs | 08 Feb 2026 | 00:45:40 | |
In this inspiring conversation, Jay sits down with Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, renowned author of the bestseller Love & Respect and his latest release, Lightbulb Moments in Marriage. Released in early 2026, the book explores 12 "aha" biblical perspectives to transform marriages from frustration to fulfillment. Dr. Eggerichs shares profound insights drawn from over three decades of counseling, scientific research, and Scripture, focusing on how lightbulb moments can break the "Crazy Cycle" of unmet needs in marriage. Whether you're a busy parent juggling kids and chaos or seeking deeper intimacy in your Christian marriage, this episode offers practical marriage advice to help you move forward without hitting the eject button. Topics include love and respect principles, communication breakthroughs, and eternal perspectives on relationships. Listen as Jay and Dr. Eggerichs discuss five to six key lightbulb moments that could revolutionize your marriage. Perfect for couples looking for Christian marriage counseling tips, biblical marriage guidance, or ways to strengthen family bonds. Resources Mentioned: Purchase Lightbulb Moments in Marriage by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs on Amazon or visit loveandrespect.com for more marriage resources, conferences, and tools. Get Jay's new devotional, Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal Use it solo, with your small group, or as a family for daily Scripture-based prompts to foster gratitude and closeness to Christ. Text "THINGS" to 66866 for free high-quality resources from Jay, including fun family conversations, a 52-week Scripture memory system, dating questions for kids, marriage tools, and more. Guest Bio: Dr. Emerson Eggerichs Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topics of marriage, parenting, communication, and male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, developed the Love and Respect Marriage Conference, which they present to live audiences across the country. He is the founder and president of Love and Respect Ministries, with Sarah serving as vice president. A former senior pastor of East Lansing Trinity Church from 1980 to 1999, Dr. Eggerichs holds a PhD and has authored numerous books, including the New York Times bestseller Love & Respect, a Platinum and Book of the Year award winner that has sold over 2.3 million copies. His work emphasizes Ephesians 5:33, highlighting how wives need love and husbands need respect to thrive. Emerson and Sarah reside in Grand Rapids, Michigan, and have three grown children. For more, visit loveandrespect.com. Key Takeaways from the Episode Drawing from Lightbulb Moments in Marriage, Dr. Eggerichs and Jay explore transformative "aha" insights for successful and satisfied Christian couples. Here are the highlights: God-Given Value, Not Spouse-Driven: Your worth is rooted in Christ, not your spouse's approval. This frees couples from emotional rollercoasters, especially under parenting stress. Shift your identity to Jesus for lasting peace in marriage. Seeing Jesus Beyond Your Spouse: Treat your spouse as unto Christ to energize love and respect. Visualizing Jesus "beyond the shoulder" of your partner fosters forgiveness and intimacy, even in resentment-filled seasons. Clarity in Communication: True understanding beats just talking more. Break the Crazy Cycle by decoding "pink" (love-focused) and "blue" (respect-focused) languages. Use tools like word pictures to turn conflicts into connections, ideal for parents arguing over discipline or roles. Don't Let 20% Define the 80%: Focus on the 80% goodwill in your marriage rather than the 20% frustrations. Pray to magnify strengths and extend grace, helping busy families offset weaknesses like differing parenting styles. My Response Is My Responsibility: Embrace personal accountability for freedom and strength in Christ. Overcome fears like rejection to model resilience for your kids, transforming victim mentalities into victorious marriages. Eternal Perspective: View marriage through God's lens for motivation. Live for His "Well done!" knowing every act of faithfulness has eternal significance, preparing your children for healthy relationships. These biblical marriage tips can wake up stuck relationships and provide the tools needed for forward momentum in Christian parenting and marriage. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org More Resources & Links: Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal by Jay Holland Check out www.youthministry.coach Daily Devotional Podcast Guided by Faith: www.guidedbyfaith.net Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 402: Antifragile Faith with Virgil Tanner | 05 Jan 2026 | 00:53:17 | |
***Pick up a copy of Jay’s new Journal: Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal How do we raise kids—and grow as parents—who don’t crumble under pressure but become stronger through hardship? In Episode 402 of Let’s Parent on Purpose, Jay Holland is joined once again by author, missionary, and leadership coach Virgil Tanner for a deep, practical conversation on antifragile faith—the kind of faith Jesus describes as a house built on the rock. Together, Jay and Virgil explore why anxiety and fragility have become normalized in modern culture, how Christian discipleship often unintentionally reinforces weakness, and what it looks like to intentionally form resilient, grounded followers of Jesus. Drawing from Scripture, neuroscience, leadership formation, and lived experience—from COVID lockdowns to pediatric cancer hospital rooms—this episode offers parents a hopeful and actionable framework for nurturing spiritual, emotional, physical, cognitive, and relational health. This conversation will challenge how you think about discipleship, parenting, and what it truly means to love God with all of who you are. What You’ll Learn in This Episode
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Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org About Virgil Tanner Virgil Tanner is a leadership coach, author, and missionary who has spent years equipping leaders and families to cultivate resilient, Christ-centered lives in high-pressure environments around the world. His work focuses on integrated human flourishing and forming leaders who can endure—and thrive—through adversity. Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 401: The Case for Christmas with Lee Strobel | 07 Dec 2025 | 00:42:00 | |
***Pick up a copy of Jay’s new Journal: Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal https://amzn.to/3MLWavl In this episode of Let’s Parent On Purpose, Jay Holland sits down with award-winning journalist and bestselling author Lee Strobel to explore the historical, theological, and personal significance of the Christmas story. Together they unpack the evidence for the birth of Jesus, the reliability of the Gospel accounts, misconceptions about the Nativity, and why the Incarnation still changes lives today. Whether you're a long-time believer, a seeker exploring Christianity, or a parent looking to equip your teens with confidence in their faith, this conversation offers clear, compelling reasons to trust the Christmas story as true history—not just a seasonal tradition. Key Topics Covered • The Investigative Journalist Who Tried to Disprove Christianity Lee shares how his journey from atheism to faith began as an attempt to rescue his wife from what he believed was a “cult.” His two-year investigation into the evidence for Jesus’ resurrection led him to the unexpected conclusion that Christianity is true. Why the Nativity Story Is Historically Reliable Lee walks through:
What “No Room in the Inn” Actually Means Lee reveals:
Why the Virgin Birth Matters theologically Lee explains why the virgin birth is essential for:
Pagan Myth Claims Debunked Lee dismantles the popular internet claim that Christianity “borrowed” the virgin birth or resurrection from pagan myths such as Mithras, Dionysus, or Zoroaster. Each is exposed as historically inaccurate or chronologically impossible. How Investigating Christmas Strengthens Worship Lee shares how studying the incarnation moved him deeply, reminding him that Christianity is not a legend—it's a true story about God entering our world to save us. God Is Moving Today Lee and Jay reflect on the remarkable openness to the gospel they’re seeing nationwide—from churches to college campuses to everyday encounters. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org About Lee Strobel Lee Strobel is a former award-winning legal editor for the Chicago Tribune and a New York Times bestselling author of more than forty books, including The Case for Christ, The Case for Faith, The Case for a Creator, The Case for Miracles, and his newest seasonal release, The Case for Christmas. Originally an atheist, Lee spent two years investigating the evidence for Christianity as a journalist. His search led him to faith in Christ and ultimately into ministry, where he continues to write, speak, teach apologetics, and help people explore the evidence for God. Lee currently serves as founding director of the Lee Strobel Center for Evangelism and Applied Apologetics at Colorado Christian University. His books have sold millions of copies and inspired films, documentaries, and student editions that help the next generation explore faith with confidence. Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 400: The Power of a Multigenerational Meal with Jeremy Pryor | 23 Nov 2025 | 00:50:36 | |
In this episode, Jay sits down with Jeremy Pryor to explore what it looks like to build a thriving multi-generational Christian family in a culture that often prioritizes independence over connection. Jeremy shares the story behind his family’s four-generation household, the biblical foundations for treating family as a “multi-generational team,” and how countercultural habits—like a weekly multi-generational meal—can deepen identity, strengthen relationships, and create long-term family discipleship. Together, they unpack the dangers of hyper-individualism, the impact of technology on kids, and the surprising joy found in reclaiming ancient rhythms such as Sabbath-style meals. Jeremy also offers practical steps for parents who want to introduce meaningful, sustainable traditions that anchor their children in faith, family identity, and gospel-centered community. Jeremy Pryor is a family identity expert and author of the book “Family Revision”. His passion is helping families discover and live out their multigenerational mission to further the Kingdom of God. Key Takeaways
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| Ep. 399: The Body Teaches the Soul with Justin Whitmel Early | 09 Nov 2025 | 00:57:17 | |
In this conversation, attorney and author Justin Whitmel Earley unpacks how embodied habits shape our spiritual life—what he calls habits as liturgies. Drawing on neuroscience and Scripture (Genesis 2:7; Romans 5; Ephesians 2; Psalm 23), Justin explains why the body often leads the heart, how practices like box breathing + breath prayers, sleep and Sabbath, and fasting and feasting can realign our loves, and how parents can build grace-based rhythms that form their homes. Jay shares his own story of grief and healing to show how God uses humble, repeated practices—friendship, worship, exercise, daily prayer—to restore joy. If you’ve wrestled with anxiety, distraction, or unhealthy relationships with food/tech, this episode gives practical, theologically grounded steps to start small and stay faithful. Justin Whitmel Earley is a writer, speaker, and lawyer. He is the author of The Common Rule, Habits of the Household, and Made for People, though he spends most days running his business law practice. Through his writing and speaking, Justin empowers God’s people to thrive through life-giving habits that form them in the love of God and neighbor. He continually explores both how physical habits are more spiritual than we think and how spiritual habits are more physical than we think. He lives with his wife and four boys in Richmond, Virginia, spends a lot of time around fires and porches with friends, and is a part-owner of a local gym. You can follow him online at justinwhitmelearley.com. Key Takeaways
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Reflection / Small-Group Questions 1. Where do your current habits reveal what you actually love? 2. Which embodied practice (breath prayer, sleep/Sabbath, fasting/feasting, exercise) do you sense God inviting you to try first? Why? 3. How could you redesign one household moment (bedtime, mealtime, screens, discipline) to make it a mini-liturgy? 4. In a season of anxiety or grief, which small, repeatable habit most reliably pulls you back to God? Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 398: Ages and Stages with Rita Diapoules | 26 Oct 2025 | 00:46:13 | |
In this conversation, Jay Holland and Rita Diapoules discuss the framework of children's ministry, focusing on the 'Ages and Stages' concept that helps parents understand how to guide their children spiritually as they grow. They emphasize the importance of habit stacking in daily routines to reinforce biblical truths, the significance of teaching biblical concepts appropriate to each age group, and the necessity of creating high-value touch points for families. Rita shares practical tips for parents to integrate spiritual discussions into their daily lives and the importance of partnering with the church for the spiritual growth of children. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 397: Beyond Evolution with Sy Garte | 06 Oct 2025 | 00:56:54 | |
In this conversation, Dr. Sy Garte shares his remarkable journey from atheism to Christianity, exploring the intersection of faith and science. He discusses his personal experiences, the complexities of evolution, and the importance of understanding inheritance in biological processes. Dr. Garte emphasizes that science and faith are not mutually exclusive, advocating for a perspective that sees scientific discovery as a way to appreciate God's creation. He also provides insights for parents on how to discuss science with their children in a way that celebrates discovery while affirming their faith. Takeaways
Sy Garte, PhD in biochemistry, is the author of Beyond Evolution: How New Discoveries in the Science of Life Point to God (Tyndale, August 2025) as well as the award-winning book The Works of His Hands: A Scientist’s Journey from Atheism to Faith (Kregel, 2019); and Science and Faith in Harmony: Contemplations on a Distilled Doxology (Kregel, 2024); and He has been a professor at New York University, the University of Pittsburgh and is currently Visiting Professor at Rutgers University. He has held leadership positions at the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and the Uniformed Services University. Sy has published over two hundred peer-reviewed scientific papers and five books, as well as articles on science and faith. He serves as the Editor-in-Chief of the American Scientific Affiliation’s (ASA) quarterly magazine God and Nature. He is a fellow of the ASA, and Vice President of the Washington DC Metro chapter. He served as lay leader at his United Methodist Church. Sy was raised in an atheist, Marxist family, and was baptized 13 years ago. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 396: Helping Your Children Process the Assassination of Charlie Kirk | 18 Sep 2025 | 00:31:35 | |
In recent days, our children have experienced another horrific act of evil with the assassination of Charlie Kirk. There are some ways in which Charlie’s murder was unique - his explicit Christian faith, the motives behind the murder, and its brutal public nature caught on video for the world (and our children) to see. In other ways, this is just one more horrible act of traumatic violence that our children are exposed to. In this episode, Jay shares four helpful guidelines for moms and dads to help their children process this (and other) wickedness. He then shares his recent episode of Guided by Faith, where he directly addresses young people to help them process the murder. Listen as Jay shares the following wisdom for moms and dads: Be compassionate
Be curious
Be cautious
Be courageous
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources and links mentioned:
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| Bonus Episode: A Great Cloud of Witnesses | 08 Sep 2025 | 00:13:36 | |
Hey friends, today we’ve got something special for you: a bonus episode straight from the Pardon the Mess podcast! Every Monday, host Courtney DeFeo shares a short prayer to help you lift up your kids. This year’s series follows Christian Parenting’s brand new prayer journal, A Great Cloud of Witnesses. Each week highlights a biblical hero of the faith, paired with Scripture-based prayers for your kids. Here is a sneak peek into week one: This first week is all about Noah—a man of incredible faith and obedience. While the world around him turned away from God, Noah walked in righteousness. Building the ark probably looked foolish to everyone else, but Noah trusted God’s word even when it didn’t make sense. That’s the kind of faith we want for our kids: to listen to God’s voice over any others and walk confidently with Him even when it means standing apart. If you love this episode and don’t have your copy of A Great Cloud of Witnesses yet, it’s not too late to get yours! Go ChristianParenting.org to get your copy and follow along. And don’t forget to tune in to Pardon the Mess every Monday for more prayer episodes. Order A Great Cloud of Witnesses today Follow Pardon the Mess on Apple or Spotify | |||
| Ep. 395: Fake Versions of Jesus with Shane Pruitt | 07 Sep 2025 | 00:46:37 | |
What if the “Jesus” you’ve been following isn’t the Jesus of the Bible? In this episode of Let’s Parent on Purpose, Jay Holland talks with Shane Pruitt—National Next Gen Director for the North American Mission Board and author of the brand-new Bible study Not My Jesus: Reclaiming the Truth, Rejecting the Idols—about how cultural counterfeits of Jesus can creep into our homes, churches, and parenting. Shane shares powerful insights from decades in student ministry and parenting six children (four through adoption), along with stories of walking through profound joy and deep grief. Together, Jay and Shane explore:
Shane and Jay also talk about practical ways to stay anchored in Scripture, model genuine faith for your kids, and resist the cultural pull to create a Jesus in our own image. Shane serves as the National Next Gen Director for the North American Mission Board, leading ministry to students and young adults across more than 50,000 churches. He’s a sought-after conference speaker, podcast host, and the author of 9 Common Lies Christians Believe and Calling Out the Called. His latest Bible study, Not My Jesus, is available in both student and adult editions and helps believers spot cultural distortions of Christ and embrace the true Savior found in the Gospels. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned: Resources & Links:
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| Ep. 394: Tame Your Thoughts with Max Lucado | 17 Aug 2025 | 00:35:30 | |
In this powerful and uplifting conversation, Jay Holland sits down with beloved pastor and best-selling author Max Lucado to explore the themes of his newest book, Tame Your Thoughts. With decades of pastoral experience and 40+ books to his name, Max shares deep biblical wisdom and practical tools to help both adults and children manage their thought lives through faith and truth. Together, Jay and Max discuss:
This episode is packed with insight, encouragement, and tools to help you and your family live freer, more Christ-centered lives.
Scripture Highlighted in This Episode:
Max’s 3-Step Toolkit for Mental Health:
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio Max Lucado is a pastor, speaker, and best-selling author of more than 40 books for adults and children. Known for his warmth, biblical insight, and storytelling, Max’s work has encouraged millions to embrace the grace of God. He serves as Teaching Pastor at Oak Hills Church in San Antonio, Texas, and continues to write, speak, and share God’s love globally. Resources mentioned: Tame Your Thoughts by Max Lucado – Available wherever books are sold MaxLucado.com – Devotions, YouTube channel Fresh Hope, and more Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 393: Parenting Tune-up: Navigating the Seasons of Parenthood | 03 Aug 2025 | 00:33:53 | |
Join host Jay Holland as he introduces a new parenting tune-up resource designed to help parents evaluate and adjust their parenting strategies. This episode dives into the complexities of parenting across different life stages and offers biblical encouragement and practical questions to guide parents in nurturing their children. Key Points:
Upcoming: Look forward to an interview with Pastor Max Lucado in mid-August. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned: Access the Parenting Tuneup tool by texting "THINGS" to 66866. Check out the "Guided by Faith" podcast for daily devotionals. Join my Things for Thursday Email List to get a copy of the Parenting Tune-Up tool! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 392: Reviving Your Marriage: The Tune-Up Tool | 20 Jul 2025 | 00:34:12 | |
In this episode, Jay discusses the importance of maintaining a healthy marriage through a structured tool he developed called the 'Marriage Tune-Up.' He outlines different levels of marriage, from crisis to flourishing, and emphasizes the need for regular maintenance and intentionality in relationships. The conversation highlights biblical principles and practical steps couples can take to improve their marriages and become a blessing to others.
Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned: Join my Things for Thursday Email List to get a copy of the Marriage Tune-Up tool! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 391: Living as Light in the Youth Sports Industrial Complex with Brian Smith and Ed Uszynski | 06 Jul 2025 | 00:48:15 | |
In this conversation, Jay Holland, Ed Uszynski, and Brian Smith discuss the complexities of youth sports culture, emphasizing the need for a shift in perspective among parents and coaches. They explore the concept of the 'youth sports industrial complex,' the impact of parental influence, and the importance of character development in sports. The discussion highlights the detrimental effects of snowplow parenting and the need for intentional discipleship opportunities within the youth sports experience. In this conversation, the speakers discuss the importance of instilling gratitude and character in youth sports, contrasting the focus on competition and statistics with the value of personal growth and relationships. They emphasize the need for parents to support their children in a balanced way, encouraging them to appreciate the joy of sports while also recognizing the pressures of year-round competition and early specialization. The discussion culminates in a vision for families to engage in sports as a means of discipleship and community building. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio About Brian Smith Brian Smith is the author of several books including his latest Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth Sports and The Christian Athlete: Glorifying God in Sports. He has been on staff with Athletes in Action since 2008. A graduate of Wake Forest University, Brian has a master’s degree in Theology and Sports Studies through Baylor University. He lives in Lowell, Michigan, with his wife and three kids. Social Media: Website: www.thechristianathlete.com Twitter: @BrianSmithAIA Instagram: @brianlinsey About Ed Uszynski Ed Uszynski is an author, speaker, and sports minister with over three decades’ experience discipling college and professional athletes. His latest book is Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth Sports. He’s written articles, essays, and training manuals at the intersection of faith and sport and is the lead strategist for Content Mercenaries. He has two theological degrees from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and a PhD in American Culture Studies from Bowling Green State University. He and his wife Amy have four children and live in Xenia, Ohio. Social Media: Website: www.untanglingcrt.com Twitter: @uszynski32 Facebook: @ed.uszynski.3 Resources mentioned: Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth Sports: https://amzn.to/43QFoQI Athletes in Action: https://athletesinaction.org/ Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 390: Living the Mission at Home: Practical Ways to Make Disciples as a Family | 15 Jun 2025 | 00:26:31 | |
This episode serves as a parental companion to Jay’s Guided By Faith Daily Devotional Podcast series on Living the Mission. In this episode, Jay discusses the importance of living a mission-driven life within the context of family and community. He emphasizes that the Great Commission is not just for missionaries abroad but applies to everyday life. Jay provides practical tips for parents to instill a mission mindset in their families, encouraging them to engage with their neighborhoods, practice hospitality, and serve others. He highlights the long-term impact of these actions and invites listeners to join his series on living the mission. Takeaways
Listen to the episode and let it inspire you to see your summer with fresh eyes—ready to live on mission as a family! Resources mentioned: Guided by Faith: www.guidedbyfaith.net Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4cLI2d7 Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/4cOVBbK YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GuidedbyFaithPodcast Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 389: Why are More Young Women Leaving the Faith with Cicely Corry | 01 Jun 2025 | 00:49:37 | |
For the first time in the history of the Barna Research, more young women are leaving the faith than young men. Jay Holland and Cicely Corry discuss the work of Barna, focusing on the intersection of church and culture. They explore the methodologies used in their research, the importance of data for parents and leaders, and the concerning trend of young women disengaging from faith. Cicely shares insights into the reasons behind this trend, including social dynamics and perceptions of safety within church communities. The discussion emphasizes the need for churches to create welcoming environments for young women and the role of community in fostering faith. This conversation explores the dynamics of friendships between genders, the importance of intentionality in building relationships, and the empowerment of young women in leadership roles. It discusses the challenges faced by Gen Z in navigating faith and spirituality, emphasizing the need for mentorship and community support. The dialogue highlights the role of parents in fostering curiosity and community among their children to help them thrive in their faith journey. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio Cicely Corry is Editorial Director at Barna Group, where she leads online content strategy to help Christian leaders understand key trends affecting the Church. Previously, she managed social media strategy and content for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association and wrote for the Christian Broadcasting Network. Cicely has served in student ministry for over 10 years, and founded Three Minute Study, an online Bible study community helping others understand, enjoy and apply God’s word She holds a M.A. in journalism from Regent University and a B.A. in print journalism and marketing from Hampton University. Cicely is an Atlanta native now living in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her husband and two sons. Resources mentioned: Barna site: https://www.barna.com/ Gen Z Vol. 3 Study: https://www.barna.com/gen-z-volume-3/ Barna’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/barnagroup/?hl=en Barna Access Plus: https://www.barna.com/access/ Cicely Corry's Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/cicelycorry/ Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 388: Habits to Create a Missional Household with Virgil Tanner | 18 May 2025 | 00:36:34 | |
In this conversation, Jay and Virgil explore the concept of missional households, emphasizing the importance of experiential learning, community, and intentional practices in family life. They discuss how to create a nurturing environment for spiritual growth, the significance of regular rhythms in the household, and adapting to life changes while maintaining a missional mindset. Through personal stories and practical advice, they highlight the transformative power of faith in everyday life. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio As the Senior Director of OneTree, Virgil is responsible for leading the team to help mission, marketplace, and ministry leaders thrive holistically, do beautifully integrated work, and become everything God dreamed them to be, believing this to be a primary means for stewarding the reviving life of God through His people into the world. Virgil holds a B.S. in Biology, an M.A. in Religion and Cross Cultural Studies, and an MEd. in Curriculum and Instruction. He is presently working on an EdD in Christian Leadership. Resources mentioned: https://www.onetreeministries.org/ Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 387: Experiential Learning to Develop True Faith with Virgil Tanner | 04 May 2025 | 00:46:28 | |
In this conversation, Jay and Virgil explore the importance of character development over mere skills in leadership and parenting. They discuss the need for experiential learning in faith and the role of community in nurturing youth. The conversation emphasizes that discipleship should primarily occur in the home, supported by a network of relationships that foster growth and understanding. They also discuss the importance of building significant relationships, particularly in the context of youth ministry. They explore the influence of social media on young people's lives, emphasizing the need for adults to step in and provide positive guidance. The discussion highlights the role of desire in shaping behavior and the necessity of intentional connections in youth ministry. They also address the importance of encouraging risk-taking and resilience in young people, advocating for experiential learning over theoretical knowledge. The conversation concludes with practical advice for parents on how to engage in transformative conversations with their children. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio As the Senior Director of OneTree, Virgil is responsible for leading the team to help mission, marketplace, and ministry leaders thrive holistically, do beautifully integrated work, and become everything God dreamed them to be, believing this to be a primary means for stewarding the reviving life of God through His people into the world. Virgil holds a B.S. in Biology, an M.A. in Religion and Cross Cultural Studies, and an MEd. in Curriculum and Instruction. He is presently working on an EdD in Christian Leadership. Resources mentioned: https://www.onetreeministries.org/ Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 386: Building Resiliency in our Children with David Thomas | 21 Apr 2025 | 00:37:05 | |
In this conversation, Jay and David discuss the evolving challenges faced by children and adolescents in today's world, particularly in the context of counseling. They explore the importance of emotional regulation, the balance between naming feelings and navigating them, and the need for parents to find a healthy middle ground in their approach to parenting. The discussion also highlights the significance of building resilience in children through healthy risks and practical strategies, such as the 'exposures and ladders' approach to overcoming anxiety. Additionally, they introduce the Daystar Dog Series, which aims to teach resilience through stories featuring therapy dogs. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio David Thomas, LMSW, is co-executive director of Daystar Counseling in Nashville, Tennessee, and the author of 10 books including his most recent book, Raising Emotionally Strong Boys (Bethany, June 2022). A frequent media guest and speaker, David has spoken to hundreds of thousands in person and millions via his Top 10 kids & family podcast, Raising Boys and Girls, now with more than 10 million downloads since its launch in 2018. Learn more at RaisingBoysAndGirls.com. Resources mentioned: Raising Boys and Girls website Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel | |||
| Ep. 385: Have You Considered Fasting? | 07 Apr 2025 | 00:22:44 | |
In this episode, Jay Holland discusses the often-overlooked practice of fasting within the Christian faith. He shares personal reflections on his struggles with fasting, its biblical foundations, and the spiritual benefits it can bring to one's life, marriage, and parenting. Jay emphasizes the importance of humility and submission to God through fasting, encouraging listeners to consider making it a regular part of their spiritual journey. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned: Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 384: The 31 Day Marriage Prayer Challenge with Aaron Smith | 16 Mar 2025 | 00:43:24 | |
Jay Holland and Aaron Smith explore the transformative power of the gospel and prayer in relationships, particularly in marriage. They discuss the importance of recognizing one's identity in Christ, the challenges of receiving correction, and the significance of prayer as a means to align hearts with God's will. The discussion also highlights the 31-Day Marriage Prayer Challenge, designed to encourage couples to pray for each other and deepen their spiritual connection. Through personal anecdotes and biblical insights, they emphasize that prayer not only changes circumstances but also transforms individuals, fostering a deeper understanding of love and grace in relationships. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio Aaron Smith is a Christian author, speaker, and co-founder of Marriage After God, a ministry dedicated to helping couples center their marriages on Christ. Alongside his wife, Jennifer, Aaron has written several books, including Marriage After God and 31 Prayers for My Spouse, equipping husbands and wives with biblical wisdom for a thriving, God-honoring relationship. Through blogging, social media, and the Marriage After God Podcast, Aaron encourages men to embrace their role as spiritual leaders in their homes. He is passionate about discipleship, marriage, and helping couples grow in faith together. Resources mentioned: The Marriage After God Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mag-marriage-advice-relationship-encouragement-we-discuss/id1349500084 Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 383: How to Lighten the Baggage Our Children Carry with Chris Sasser | 02 Mar 2025 | 00:36:51 | |
Jay Holland and Chris Sasser explore the concept of emotional baggage that children carry into adulthood, particularly focusing on the pressures of performance, the importance of healthy relationships, and the role of parental influence. Chris shares insights from his book 'Bags', discussing common emotional burdens children face and practical ways parents can help lighten their load. The discussion emphasizes the significance of understanding one's identity in Christ and fostering connections over mere content delivery in parenting. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio Chris Sasser (a.k.a.“Sass”) is the Pastor of Family Ministries at Port City Community Church in Wilmington, NC. He has served in full-time ministry since 1993, working with children’s, middle school, high school, college, and parent ministries. He has a passion for equipping and encouraging parents and leaders to help the next generation walk with God. Chris shares thoughts and ideas at www.equipandencourage.com and loves to share with students, leaders, and parents. Chris is married to Karin, and they have two young adult children, CJ and Kylie. Resources mentioned: Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the | |||
| Ep. 382: (Part 2) How to Walk with Loved Ones Through Trauma with Eliza Huie | 16 Feb 2025 | 00:41:09 | |
In this conversation, Jay Holland and Eliza Huey continue to explore the complexities of trauma, its effects on individuals, and the importance of support systems. They discuss the evolution of understanding trauma, the role of God in times of suffering, and how Scripture can provide comfort. The conversation also delves into the concept of post-traumatic growth, emphasizing that trauma can lead to spiritual resilience and deeper faith. They highlight the need for proper trauma care, which includes establishing safety, processing experiences, and integrating them into one's life. Additionally, they address the challenges of information overload in today's world and how it can exacerbate feelings of trauma. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio Eliza Huie is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) trained in trauma care. She serves as a seminary instructor, facilitating certificate-level training in biblical counseling, and has authored several books, including her latest, Trauma Aware: A Christian’s Guide to Providing Help and Care. Eliza co-hosts Counsel for Life, a podcast about mental health and the Christian life. Resources mentioned: Trauma Aware: A Christian’s Guide to Providing Help and Care Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the | |||
| Ep. 381: (Part) 1 How to Walk with Loved Ones Through Trauma with Eliza Huie | 03 Feb 2025 | 00:49:50 | |
In this conversation, Jay Holland and Eliza Huey delve into the complexities of trauma, its definitions, and the importance of understanding its impact on individuals and relationships. They discuss the physiological responses to trauma, the significance of being present for those who have experienced trauma, and how caregivers can provide support. Eliza emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding in navigating trauma, highlighting the role of community and interpersonal relationships in the healing process. Jay and Eliza also discussed the importance of presence in healing, the role of the nervous system in trauma, and practical techniques for awareness and regulation. They emphasize the significance of being with someone in their pain without trying to fix them, the necessity of understanding bodily responses to trauma, and the power of breathing techniques to help regulate emotions. The discussion also touches on the integration of body, mind, and spirit in the healing process, highlighting the need for a holistic approach to trauma care. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio Eliza Huie is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) trained in trauma care. She serves as a seminary instructor, facilitating certificate-level training in biblical counseling, and has authored several books, including her latest, Trauma Aware: A Christian’s Guide to Providing Help and Care. Eliza co-hosts Counsel for Life, a podcast about mental health and the Christian life. Resources mentioned: Trauma Aware: A Christian’s Guide to Providing Help and Care Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 380: Changing the Story of Your Generations with John Donges | 19 Jan 2025 | 00:49:21 | |
In this conversation, John Donges shares his journey from a challenging childhood marked by family dysfunction and abuse to finding faith and hope through a local church. He reflects on the impact of his upbringing in West Virginia, the struggles with his stepfather's abuse, and the transformative experience of discovering a relationship with God. John's story highlights the importance of community, resilience, and the ongoing challenges he faced even after embracing faith. In this conversation, Jay Holland and John Donges explore the profound themes of discipleship, the cost of following Jesus, and the transformative power of faith. They discuss the challenges faced by new believers, the importance of intentional parenting, and the impact of role models in shaping one's spiritual journey. The dialogue emphasizes the hope that comes from choosing to follow Christ and the potential for generational change through faith and commitment. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org Bio John Donges is the husband of Jaclyn and father of three children. He is the CEO of Strategic Marketer and a member of Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church Resources mentioned: Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 379: Remedies for an Anxious Generation | 05 Jan 2025 | 00:29:02 | |
In this episode, Jay Holland reflects on the challenges of parenting in the digital age, particularly focusing on the alarming rise in mental health issues among children and teenagers. He discusses insights from Jonathan Haidt's book, 'The Anxious Generation,' which explores the impact of technology and social media on childhood development. Holland emphasizes the need for unstructured play and offers practical solutions for parents to mitigate the negative effects of digital exposure on their children. Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned: The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 378: Finding Meaning When Life is a Vapor | 15 Dec 2024 | 00:29:24 | |
In this episode, Jay reflects on the past year, discussing the impact of the 127 Project and the importance of gratitude. He explores how to measure a good year and life, drawing insights from Ecclesiastes about the meaning of life and the concept of everything being a vapor. The conversation emphasizes the significance of relationships, faith, and making intentional decisions to create a fulfilling life.
Takeaways
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Resources mentioned: Episode 366 Grieving and Healing Through Intense Personal Loss with Eliza Huie Episode 374 The Royal In You: Imagining The New Heavens And Earth With Jordan Raynor Episode 375 Andrew Peterson on Parenthood, Creating, and Cultivating Faith in Our Children Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 377: Redemptive Parenting with Kristen Hatton | 08 Dec 2024 | 00:38:59 | |
Kristen Hatton discusses the concept of redemptive parenting, emphasizing the importance of confession, grace, and humility in raising children. She shares insights from her book 'Parenting Ahead' and offers practical advice for parents of young children and teenagers. The discussion highlights the significance of establishing healthy habits, navigating consequences, and the ongoing need for repentance in family dynamics. Kristen encourages parents to model vulnerability and grace, fostering a safe environment for their children to grow and learn. Takeaways
Bio Kristen Hatton, MA, LPC-Associate, is a professional counselor and author passionate about helping families. Her books include Parenting Ahead, Get Your Story Straight, Face Time, and The Gospel-Centered Life in Exodus for Students. She lives with her pastor-husband, Pete, in Dallas, Texas, and together they have three young adult children and a son-in-law. For more of Kristen’s work, visit her website www.kristenhatton.com and the @Redemptiveparenting Instagram account. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Resources mentioned: Parenting Ahead: Preparing Now for the Teen Years: https://amzn.to/4fneOTR Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 376: Little Habits Big Faith with Christie Thomas | 24 Nov 2024 | 00:43:01 | |
In this conversation Christie Thomas shares insights from her book, 'Little Habits, Big Faith,' emphasizing the importance of small, intentional habits in nurturing faith within families. Jay and Christie explore how these small changes can lead to significant transformations over time, supported by real-life examples. The discussion highlights the critical role of family warmth and love in preserving faith across generations, encouraging parents to embrace simple practices that foster spiritual growth in their children. They discuss the importance of expressing love regularly, the concept of Keystone Habits, and practical ways to implement faith practices in daily life, such as the Blessing Habit. The conversation emphasizes that even small, consistent actions can lead to significant spiritual growth in children.
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Bio Christie Thomas was a Children’s Ministries Director for over a decade and is now a family discipleship coach to parents who need equipping, support, and encouragement. Her books for kids and parents help families cultivate faith-filled moments. She lives with her husband and three boys in Canada. Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned: https://littleshootsdeeproots.com/ Little Habits, Big Faith: https://amzn.to/4hwR6WV Tiny Habits: https://amzn.to/4fDCEuo The Power of Habit: https://amzn.to/4eiZyGf Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/
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| Ep. 375: Andrew Peterson on Parenthood, Creating, and Cultivating Faith in our Children | 10 Nov 2024 | 00:42:56 | |
In this conversation, Andrew Peterson shares his journey from being a pastor's kid to a successful songwriter and author. He discusses the importance of faith, creativity, and the influence of family and friends in shaping his life and work. Peterson reflects on the challenges of parenting, the creative process of writing for children, and the significance of community in his life. He also shares insights into his upcoming projects and the balance between career and spiritual life. Listen as Andrew and Jay discuss:
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| Ep. 374: The Royal in You: Imagining the New Heavens and Earth with Jordan Raynor | 20 Oct 2024 | 00:35:51 | |
In this conversation, Jay Holland and Jordan Raynor discuss the themes of heaven, purpose, and stewardship as presented in Raynor's book, 'The Royal in You.' They explore the misconceptions surrounding heaven, emphasizing a biblical perspective that highlights the new earth and the role of work as worship. The discussion also touches on how understanding these concepts can inspire greater hope, motivation to share faith, and a purposeful life in the present. Resources mentioned:
Get Your Identity Simplified Digital Resource at cpgive.org Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook!
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| Ep. 373: Guided by Faith: Through the Lens of the Gospel | 06 Oct 2024 | 00:28:19 | |
Jay shares a sneak peak of upcoming episodes of his new podcast Guided By Faith: Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young Adults. He also shares with his listeners an exciting opportunity to help spread solid Biblical Teaching throughout the nation of India. On this week’s episode, you’ll hear three short devotionals from the Guided by Faith Podcast.
Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Resources mentioned: Get Your Identity Simplified Digital Resource at cpgive.org Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support | |||
| Ep. 372: A Journey of Faith and Family with Matt Gille | 22 Sep 2024 | 00:37:36 | |
In this conversation, Jay Holland and Matthew Gille discuss Matthew's unique journey to becoming a missionary, the challenges he faced with his family, particularly with his daughter who has special needs, and how God has provided for them throughout their journey. They explore themes of faith, identity, and community, emphasizing the importance of trusting God in difficult circumstances and recognizing the blessings that come from challenges. Keywords: missionary, faith, family, special needs, church, community, identity, God's provision, China, parenting Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned:
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| Ep. 371: Introducing Guided By Faith: Devotions and Advice for Teens and Young Adults | 31 Aug 2024 | 00:23:33 | |
Show Notes: Take a sneak peek into Jay’s new daily devotional podcast designed to encourage teens and young adults. Don’t worry, mom and dad can listen too! Listen to Jay’s heart behind launching Guided by Faith, then enjoy three short episodes to get a flavor for the podcast. If you think it’s valuable, please subscribe, listen, review, and share Guided by Faith with your children, pastors, and friends! Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org Resources mentioned: Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 370: Communication, Expectations, and Ownership the Chick-Fil-A Way with Jody Kidd | 10 Aug 2024 | 00:45:12 | |
Chick-Fil-A is known for the highest level of excellence in customer service and food quality. The vast majority of their workforce are teenagers and young adults. How does Chick-Fil-A elicit such superior work from young people? This week Jody Kidd joins Let’s Parent on Purpose to share the principles he uses for communication, accountability, and ownership as he trains hundreds of young people each year. Jody and Jay discuss how these principles can also apply in our households to raise the level of satisfaction for each member of the family. **Download this Episode’s Discussion Guide https://bit.ly/3W2PnQm Powered by Christian Parenting Bio: Jody Kidd is the husband of Christa, one of the Children’s Directors at Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church. He is the father of four kids aged 12 to 18. He’s currently the COO for two Chick-fil-A’s in our area, with one being the top drive-thru in the entire chain. Before coming to Chick-fil-A, he was in the ministry for many years as a youth pastor and children’s pastor. Resources mentioned: Carry Water, Chop Wood: How to Fall in Love with the Process of Being Great - https://amzn.to/3KONYXc Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win - https:// amzn.to/4cykNDH The Dichotomy of Leadership: Balancing the Challenges of Extreme Ownership to Lead and Win - https://amzn.to/4exLfPj Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 369: Modeling a Calm Resilience in a Hostile Culture with Ken Castor | 13 Jul 2024 | 00:47:02 | |
How can we hope to have children who are steady, kind, and resilient in an increasingly hostile culture? It starts with what mom and dad model at home. On this episode Jay is joined by Pastor Ken Castor for a discussion on modeling healthy identity, communication, and kindness in our homes to prepare our children for the challenges of a word that wants to label Christian morality as hate. As you listen you’ll be encouraged to notice the way you handle feedback and criticism in your home. You’ll learn the importance of missionary loving your neighbors, especially if you disagree with them. Finally you’ll be reminded to keep your hope rooted in Christ rather than giving in to the anger, angst, and volatility of our society in this upcoming election season. In each of these circumstances, Ken brings us back to scripture as our foundation and guidebook. Powered by Christian Parenting Bio: Dr. Ken Castor is the Next-Gen Pastor of Wooddale Church (Eden Prairie MN) and author of Grow Down: How to Build a Jesus-Centered Faith and the editor of the Make a Difference Youth Bible (NLT). You can interact with him at www.kencastor.com Resources mentioned: https://makeadifferencebible.com/ Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 368: Inspiring Awe and Wonder of the Creator this Summer with Rita Diapoules | 08 Jun 2024 | 00:36:44 | |
Summer break is a great time to catch our breath and decompress. If we are intentional, the break is also an amazing opportunity to inspire our children with awe and wonder at their Creator God. Jay is joined this episode by Rita Diapoules, the director of Children’s Ministry at Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church. Rita helps walk us though little intentional activities we can do throughout the summer to deepen our children’s appreciation for their Creator. In this episode Jay and Rita talk about intentional use of the mornings, reading and devotion times, and using a simple prayer calendar to guide children in noticing different aspects of creation and their Creator. They also talk about using vacations and service times to grow together as a family in the Lord. **Be sure to check out the prayer calendar and activities guide created by Rita that accompanies this podcast. Powered by Christian Parenting Bio Rita Diapoules is the wife of Mark and mother of two young children. After spending fifteen years as a public school teacher (and Palm City Elementary Teacher of the Year) Rita now co-leads the children’s ministry at Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church while raising and teaching her daughters. Resources mentioned: Download the Summer Prayer Calendar here: https://bit.ly/45bIaAh Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 367: The Story You Choose | 11 May 2024 | 00:27:00 | |
**Be sure to check out our new discussion guide to help you make the most out of this episode. [Go to Discussion Guide] What do you think about when you think about God? Is He distant, uncaring, weak or unjust? Or is He good, near, powerful, just, and loving? Every person has a story they tell themselves about God, and we continually feed this story. Today Jay shares how we have a choice in what we choose to feed in our story about God. He then shares how those choices tend to have control over us in ways that we don’t expect. The story you tell yourself about God will affect how you handle temptation, trials, and tragedies. Will sin become a coping mechanism or an evil to avoid? It all depends on the story you are feeding yourself about God. This principle also holds true in the story we tell ourselves about other people. You can make or break relationships based on the internal story you create and then seek to prove through your interactions. If you are stuck in a bad story, listen and hear how Jay shares two powerful antidotes that can change your story. Powered by Christian Parenting Resources mentioned: Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 366: Grieving and Healing Through Intense Personal Loss with Eliza Huie | 09 Apr 2024 | 00:58:59 | |
What do you do when you and your children experience intense personal loss, like the unexpected death of a loved one? Eliza Huie helps us walk through a series of questions that parents wrestle with as they try to process shock and grief while also helping their children deal with tragedy. Listen as Eliza answers the following questions from Jay:
In crisis we have (psychological needs):
What does a person in crisis need? (relational needs):
A plan for what’s ahead (situational needs):
Powered by Christian Parenting About Eliza Huie Eliza Huie is the director of counseling at McLean Bible Church located invthe Washington D.C. metro area. She is the Dean of Biblical Counseling for Metro Baltimore Seminary in Maryland. She and her husband Ken have been married for almost 30 years and they have 3 grown children and a lovely daughter-in-law. Resources mentioned: Biblical Virtual Counseling Resource: Anchored Hope Counseling – https://anchoredhope.co Fieldstone Counseling – https://fieldstonecounseling.org Christian Trauma Counseling – https://christiantraumacounseling.com Breath as Prayer by Jennifer Tucker Tips for Survivors of a Disaster or Other Traumatic Event: https://store.samhsa.gov/sites/default/files/sma13-4776.pdf Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 365: The Power of Pre-Deciding | 23 Mar 2024 | 00:32:41 | |
**Be sure to check out our new discussion guide to help you make the most out of this episode. Download it here. Research shows that the average adult makes over 35,000 decisions every day! We make a lot of choices, and many of our choices have a compounding effect as we repeat them day after day. Other choices are not as important but drain our energy. This week Jay shares insights on the power of pre-deciding in seven areas of your life that will have tremendous compound interest. Listen as Jay explains why you should: 1. Pre-decide when you are going to have your time with God each day. 2. Pre-decide when you are going to bed and when you are going to wake up as a normal habit. 3. Pre-Decide your default meals for breakfast and lunch. 4. Pre-decide your days and time to be a part of the church 5. Pre-decide your date nights 6. Pre-decide family dinner nights 7. Pre-decide to be proportionally generous Powered by Christian Parenting Resources mentioned: The Greatest Choices of Strategic Leaders: https://go.roberts.edu/leadingedge/the-great-choices-of-strategic-leaders Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive though the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/ | |||
| Ep. 364: The Fruit of the Spirit with Dr. Don Love | 11 Feb 2024 | 00:53:44 | |
**Be sure to check out our new discussion guide to help you make the most out of this episode. Download it here.
What does it mean to walk in the Spirit and live in the Spirit? This week I am joined by Dr. Don Love for a walk through Galatians 5 and a discussion of the Fruit of the Spirit in the life of a believer. We talk about how to discern the will of God in your life, ways that the Lord might be speaking to you, and the importance of the statement “God’s will is found in God’s Word.” You will learn the difference between the gifts of the Spirit and the Fruit of the Spirit and how this understanding can be transformational in your marriage and parenting. Finally, Don leads us in a time of prayer to seek the Lord’s guidance on each aspect of the Fruit of the Spirit in our own lives.
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Bio Dr. Don Love is the director of Pray Through It and the host of the weekly podcast Unquenchable: Biblical Theology, Listening Prayer, and Christian Living. You can find out more and interact with Dr. Love at www.praythroughit.com
Resources mentioned:
Episode 341: Inner Healing Through Prayer with Dr. Don Love
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| Ep. 363: Parent Differently with Dr. Kathy Koch | 14 Jan 2024 | 00:41:56 | |
**Be sure to check out our new discussion guide to help you make the most out of this episode. >> https://bit.ly/3Hilh2R Character changes destiny, and character changes culture. Dr. Kathy Koch helps define the core character qualities we want to instill in our children to help them honor Christ, even when no one is looking. As we learn to parent for character instead of outward obedience, we begin to raise children who will change their culture. Listen today as Jay and Dr. Kathy discuss: • The definition of character, and the vital importance of training for gratitude, joy, and self-efficacy. • How to cast vision in your children to be culture changers instead of just rule followers. • The definition of joy and the dangers of comparison and unrealistic expectations. • The way technology teaches us to live entitled and the wisdom of limiting choices. • Why “choice” is one of the most powerful words a parent can use. Powered by Christian Parenting
Bio Dr. Kathy Koch is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids, Inc., and a child development specialist. She is also the author of seven bestselling parent-child enrichment books including her latest book, Parent Differently: Raise Kids with Biblical Character that Changes Culture.
Resources mentioned: Parent Differently: Raise Kids with Biblical Character that Changes Culture
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