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Hey there, fabulous listeners! In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of queer icons and activists. Picture this: a dinner party where we get to invite all the influential figures who've made a significant impact on the queer community. Who would we choose? Tune in to find out!

We also discuss the exciting possibility of Perth becoming the host city for the Gay Games in 2030! 

In addition, Archie shares a personal announcement about his teaching career and the challenges he has faced.  We reflect on the pressures and changes in the education system and discusses the growing number of teachers leaving the profession due to burnout and lack of support. 

Don't forget to share your thoughts and let us know who you would invite to your ultimate queer dinner party. We love hearing from you! You can reach us on Instagram or email us at let'sbeperfectlyqueerpod@gmail.com.

And remember, we're taking a short break after this episode, but we'll be back with a brand-new season in mid to late January. We appreciate each and every one of you for being part of our podcast journey.

Enjoy the episode and have a safe and joyful festive season!




If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services:

Phone:

• Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14
• Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636
• Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008
• Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800
• RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24

Online:

• Head to health online chat  - headtohealth.gov.au
• RUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or connect@ruah.org.au 

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In this episode, we delve into our experiences at PrideFEST, a 10-day extravaganza of incredible events. We watched the Cricket Uni Pride round, got dressed up for the AGWA Pride Ball, attended the Pride opening at the Piazza, joined Perth Front Runners for a medal-worthy walk, met some of you at Fair Day, went to PICA After Dark and soaked in the vibrant atmosphere of the parade. This November has been a celebration of love, diversity, and the power of community.

Now, let's switch gears a bit. We have an exciting interview lined up with Antony, a participant in the groundbreaking LGBTQ+ reality dating show Boyscation Too. Anthony shares with us his experiences on the show, including the challenges and growth he experienced.

So, what are you waiting for? Tune in now to Let's Be Perfectly Queer and join us as we share our PrideFEST adventures and dive deep into the extraordinary world of Boyscation Too with Antony.





Topics Discussed:

- PrideFEST events in Perth, Western Australia
- Uni Pride round cricket match
- The AGWA Pride Ball at the Art Gallery of Western Australia
- Drag performances
- Pride opening at the Piazza
- Fair Day
- Pica After Dark
- Interview with Anthony from Boyscation Too
- Experiences on the reality show
- Importance of queer dating shows
- Personal growth and learning

Entities Mentioned:

- PrideFEST
- Pride WA
- Uni Pride
- AGWA Ball
- Art Gallery of Western Australia
- Le Gateaux Chocolat
- Cheeky Waffles
- Boyscation Too

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In this episode of "Let's Be Perfectly Queer," I am joined by special guest Frank New, a Queer, non-binary artist and fashion researcher based in New York. Frank, who holds a master's degree in costume studies from New York University, discusses the Queer story of Barbie, being on the second edition cover of "Queer Style" and also touched on the current PhD research they are conducting. 

We explore the history of Queer dolls, including Gay Bob and the accidental release of the "gay Ken" doll by Mattel in 1993. Frank delves into the relationship between Barbie and Queer designers, such as Bob Mackie, Billy Boy and Jeremy Scott, and the impact of Queer fashion on doll design. 

In addition to all the Queer doll history, Frank shares personal stories of their own journey. From childhood experiences of playing with dolls secretly to embracing their passion for fashion without conforming to gender expectations, Frank's story is empowering and inspiring.

And if you want to connect with Frank and learn more about their work, you can find them on Instagram @manyourstyle or visit their website frankienew.com.

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On this episode we delve into the subject of Transgender athletes in sport. 

We also share the story of Trudy, a Trans woman who has joined an LGBTQIA+ netball club where she finally feels comfortable. We follow her journey as her team encounters a situation where the opposing team breaks the rules and challenges Trudy's identity.

Through Trudy's experience, we highlight the importance of inclusivity in sports and encourage gender-diverse individuals to participate without fear or hesitation. The episode also addresses common misconceptions about transgender athletes.

We explore the impact and relevance of this issue in recent years, shedding light on the complexities of hormone therapy, different physical attributes, and the need for clear policies to ensure fair and inclusive competition. We also challenge the discriminatory arguments against trans athletes, emphasising the harm caused by exclusion and the benefits of fostering a supportive and diverse sporting community.

Below is a list of organisations that provide further information and support  information sourced from Health direct.
QLife — counselling and referral service for LGBTIQ+ individuals: call 1800 184 527 (3pm to midnight daily) or chat online.
Lifeline — support for anyone having a personal crisis: call 13 11 14, 24/7, text, or chat online.
Headspace — mental health space for ages 12-25 years.

Links we found extremely useful when researching for this topic:
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-06-16/transgender-inclusion-guidelines-for-australian-sport/102486230
https://www.sportaus.gov.au/integrity_in_sport/transgender_and_gender_diverse_people_in_sport
https://www.transhub.org.au/sport
https://equalityaustralia.org.au/no-case-for-blanket-ban-on-trans-athletes/
https://www.aclu.org/news/lgbtq-rights/four-myths-about-trans-athletes-debunked
https://www.transhub.org.au/hormones
https://fairplayforwomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-inclusion-in-sport-is-harming-women-and-girls-by-Fair-Play-For-Women-14-Jan-2024.pdf
https://www.swimmingworldmagazine.com/news/sex-matters-why-transgender-athletes-must-not-compete-against-biological-females/
https://www.outsports.com/2024/4/12/24091267/transgender-athletes-study-research-science-sports-governing-bodies/
https://www.americanprogress.org/article/fair-play/
https://classic.austlii.edu.au/au/journals/UNSWLawJlStuS/2022/17.html
https://www.npr.org/2023/04/09/1168858094/arguments-that-trans-athletes-have-an-unfair-advantage-lacks-evidence-to-support
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5357259/
(links to heaps of other articles)
https://journals.sagepub.com/d

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In this episode, we answer questions posed by users on Reddit and also our recent experience of adopting a new dog. We address the hate received by Kristen Bell for showing her pride on Instagram and the regressive comments that followed. We tackle the misconceptions surrounding the LGBTQ+ community and challenge the idea that being Queer goes against nature. 

We also explore the struggles of feeling "Queer enough" and how Queer spaces can bring a sense of belonging and acceptance. We even share our obsession with dinosaurs and the importance of celebrating events like Pride month. 

So, don't miss out on this jam-packed and perfectly queer episode. Tune in now and be part of the conversation. Share, like, and subscribe to Let's Be Perfectly Queer on your favorite podcast platform. Until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Topics discussed:

- Katie's battle with Covid

- Adopting a new dog

- Hate comments received by Kristen Bell

- Feeling "Queer enough" in a hetero relationship

- The importance of community and support

- Love for dinosaurs and planets

Entities mentioned:

- Kristen Bell

- Dorian Grey

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We have a very special guest joining me today, the incredibly talented comic creator all the way from Montevideo, Uruguay, Bijan Agha! 

Bijan kicks off the episode by introducing us to their captivating comic book, Kobra Olympus Time Wars. As we dive into the world of comics, we explore how they artfully combine literature and cinematic elements, giving us the perfect blend of reality and intimate details of a character's interior life.

Bijan shares their personal journey with comics, from their childhood experiences with golden and silver age editions to how Wonder Woman shaped their moral philosophy as a Queer artist. Did you know that the creator of Wonder Woman, Charles Moulton, was a psychiatrist and one of the inventors of the lie detector test? And get this, Moulton, his wife, and their girlfriend were in a polyamorous triad!

But it doesn't end there, my friends. Bijan takes us on a thrilling ride as we dive into the subversive world of comic book creation. They share their collaboration process with the talented artist swaptrap, found through the wonders of the internet. 

Throughout the episode, Bijan opens our eyes to the power of comics as a visual medium. They discuss the unique features like thought bubbles that give us invaluable insight into a character's thoughts. They also share their inspiration from comic creators like Harvey Picar and the impact of their Iranian and Danish background on their storytelling approach.

Don't wait, my fabulous friends. Grab your capes, put on your mask, and join us on this exhilarating journey through the world of Queer comic creation. The links and information about Bijan and their comics will be provided in the episode notes. And remember, supporting independent creators like Bijan is the future of comics, so keep an eye out for their Kickstarter campaign starting on June 1, 2024.

Topics Discussed:

1. Love for comics as a blend of literature and cinema.

2. Bijan's childhood experience with golden and silver age comics.

3. Influence of Wonder Woman and Charles Moulton.

4. Global collaboration in comic creation.

5. Collaboration with swaptrap and appreciation for classic comic art styles.

6. Visual storytelling and the importance of thought bubbles.

7. Moral questions raised in superhero stories.

8. Persian cultural influences in "Cobra Olympus Time."

9. Personal journey as a trans person and embracing what is given.

10. Excitement about reading "Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles."

11. Embracing uniqueness and overcoming bigotry.

12. Importance of self-publishing and collaboration.

13. Spinoff announcement and upcoming campaigns.

Patreon.com/JamsheedStudios

Issue 1 on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CHPNM9M1

Swaptrap https://www.instagram.com/swaptrap?igsh=MTZocGEybnIwN2hoZw==

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/jamsheedstudios/kobra-olympus-issue-2-robot-rumble

Entities Mentioned:

- Archie (host)

- Bijan (special guest, comic creator)

- Kobra Olympus Time (comic book)

- Wonder Woman (comic series)

- Charles Moulton (creator of Wonder Woman)

- Jack Kirby (comic artist)

- swaptrap (artist)

- IDW's Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (comic series)

- Bill Everett (comic artist)

- Jamsheed Studios (studio)

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In this episode of "Let's Be Perfectly Queer," we delve into the significance of International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, Intersexphobia, and Transphobia (IDAHOBIT). We'll explore its history and its profound connection to the LGBTQIA community, including why the May 17th date is so significant

Despite the strides we've made, discrimination and violence against our community persist. Instances of police violence, non-consensual medical procedures, and the  lack of LGBTQIA+ inclusion in government research highlight the ongoing challenges we face.

It's crucial for us to educate ourselves on diversity, discrimination, and the creation of safe spaces. There are actionable steps we can take to support our community, such as wearing pride pins, advocating for LGBTQIA+ inclusivity in our workplaces, and supporting queer artists and businesses.

Promoting awareness and inclusivity is essential in helping individuals struggling with their identity feel safe and accepted. Let's come together to celebrate IDAHOBIT, share our experiences, and contribute to the collective effort of building a world free from discrimination.

If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services:

Phone:

• Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14
• Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636
• Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008
• Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800
• RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24

Online:

• Head to health online chat  - headtohealth.gov.au
• RUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or connect@ruah.org.au 

 
 
Send us through your stories and experiences at letsbeperfectlyqueerpod@gmail.com

Links we found useful when researching for this episode:
https://www.outinperth.com/channel-7s-spotlight-set-to-run-story-on-detransitioning/

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Welcome to "Let's Be Perfectly Queer," a queer podcast that creates space to talk about all things queer. 

In this episode we delve into a range of topics in our signature candid style. We start by sharing our recent experiences and personal journeys with mental health and anxiety, emphasising the importance of breaking the stigma surrounding these issues. From there, we explore pressing issues affecting the LGBTQIA+ community, such as discrimination in the medical field and controversies surrounding transgender athletes.

We also touch upon significant developments, like the abolition of the Western Australian Gender Reassignment Board, which we see as a positive step towards greater recognition and acceptance of transgender individuals. And of course, we couldn't resist discussing Jojo Siwa's claim to have invented a new music genre called "gay pop." It's always fascinating to see how queer culture influences the mainstream.

Join us for an insightful and thought-provoking conversation that celebrates queerness in all its facets.

Topics discussed:

- Recent experiences at the local toy fair and the struggle with change

- Mental illness and seeking help for anxiety

- Discrimination faced by non-binary trainee doctors 

- Transgender athletes and the need for individual understanding 

- The Western Australian Gender Reassignment Board being abolished 

- Authenticity and risks associated with incorrect gender markers

- Jojo Siwa, gay pop, and the controversy surrounding her song "Karma"

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In this episode of "Let's Be Perfectly Queer," we are your hosts Archie and Katie  and we are diving into a wide range of topics within the Queer community in another Queer & A episode.

On this episode we discus the challenges of finding motivation and balance after taking a break. We also explore the world of dating apps like Hinge, sharing their own experiences and discussing the meanings behind terms like "Nepo" and "Rizz."

We also share our frustrations with the commercialisation of op shopping and the unfairness of resellers profiting off others' generosity.

Moving onto queer representation, the hosts recount their experience at a dog show and the sense of belonging they felt within the community. We even touch on the amusing topic of "dog dancing" or "dancing with dogs."

[16:28] We get into our actual episode topic with our first question that looks at the differences between bisexuality and pansexuality, emphasising the importance of understanding personal attractions without adhering to stereotypes.

Throughout the episode, we share personal stories, insights, and even some laughs.

So tune in to "Let's Be Perfectly Queer" for an engaging and enlightening conversation on all things Queer!



Send us through your questions, stories and experiences at letsbeperfectlyqueerpod@gmail.com





If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services:

Phone:

• Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14
• Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636
• Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008
• Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800
• RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24

Online:

• Head to health online chat  - headtohealth.gov.au
• RUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or connect@ruah.org.au 

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Show Summary:

Welcome to another episode of Let's Be Perfectly Queer! In this episode, Katie is joined by special guest Mo eAri Brown, a licensed marriage and family therapist and the love and connection expert at Hinge. Together, they explore the challenges and importance of authentic communication in the digital dating world, as well as the role of digital body language (DBL) in making connections online. Moe shares their insights and tips on deciphering and improving our own DBL to create better online experiences and to smoothly transition relationships from the virtual realm to real life. They emphasise the power of self-awareness, intention, and embracing vulnerability in building lasting connections. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that will empower you to approach dating with a positive mindset and authenticity.

Topics Discussed:

• Challenges of making connections in the online dating world
• Embracing vulnerability and overcoming cringe
• Shifting from survival mode to thriving mode
• The importance of love and connection in countering rejection and loneliness
• Understanding digital body language (DBL) cues and their interpretation
• Linking DBL to culture and queer-specific communication
• Deciphering your own DBL and intentionally sending out genuine energy
• Transferring online relationships to in-person connections
• Tips for dating and building meaningful relationships
• The significance of self-awareness in personal growth and relationships
• Embracing authenticity for a fulfilling life

Recommended Follow:

• Mo Ari Brown on TikTok and Instagram (@loveoutproud)

Join Katie and special guest Moe Ari Brown in this thought-provoking episode that will inspire you to embrace authenticity and improve your digital body language for more meaningful connections in all areas of your life. 

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