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113. Falling For Your Friends09 Sep 202400:47:35

In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend—or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations.


Family Meeting:

  1. "My girlfriend and I were dating for a year . She recently found out that when we took a break I cheated on her with my baby’s father..."

  2. "Can we talk about how racism doesn't only apply to white people but also other races? " 

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112. Understanding PDA & LGBTQ+ Challenges26 Aug 202400:46:44

In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time.


Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ+ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face discrimination and violence, which can make them hesitant to express their love openly. We share stories of real-life attacks on LGBTQ+ couples, including incidents in London, Germany, and the US.



THAILAND LINK: https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-jojo-torres-jul-2025 

LONDON LESBIAN COUPLE: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=2310191419297713&set=a.1441238012859729&type=3&ref=embed_post 

FAMILY MEETING

  1. “I have slept with a few of my friends and I am still friends with them, when should I tell this to the girl I dated?”

  2. “My friend jokes around about being poly, do you think she’s hinting towards actually wanting to be poly w/ us?”

103. Coming Out With PRIDE03 Jun 202400:57:14

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!!


Family meeting:

1. “Did you guys hear about the 16yr old high schooler that was not allowed into prom because she was wearing a suite and not a dress? ”

2. "I’ve seen a lot of women call themselves lesbians even though they date trans men. I don’t understand? I know labels are just something society created but if they are claiming that label themselves, then wouldn’t they be pansexual? Bisexual?"


Parties in NYC!

  • JUNE 22ND: https://lasreinas.ticketleap.com/pridenochelatina/details
  • JUNE 29TH: https://www.preciosanight.com/
  • JUNE 30TH: https://reunitedpride2024.ticketleap.com/t/leschatreunited2024/


PRIDE CALENDAR: https://www.gaypridecalendar.com/


Small Businesses Shoutout



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7. Meeting Your Partners Family/Friends28 Feb 202200:28:19
When should your partner meet your friends? Do you introduce all your relationships to your family and friends? Do you get invited to go on your partners “girls” trip or “boys trip” If so, do you go? Does your family have a preference on who you marry? These are all the questions we discuss in this episode! We talk about old relationships and how we navigated it.
6. Love Languages & Astrology: Part 2 from Happy Wife, Happy Life!23 Feb 202200:38:10

In this episode we talk about Love Languages which comes from author Dr. Gary Chapman. We discuss our own love languages and how you can understand your partners love language.

We also discuss Astrology! Lina goes over the “big three” which are your Sun, Moon and Rising as well as what phone apps she uses to learn more about ourselves as well as our loved ones. We discuss the cliche and stereotypes that come with zodiac signs.

5. Happy Wife, Happy Life!21 Feb 202200:33:10

They say "happy wife equals happy life" so lets talk about SAME SEX MARRIAGE! Yes we said it. We invite Lina and Flor to the Les Chat Podcast! They’ve been married for over 2 years and have been together for 5 years. We talk about being married in the military, the u-haul experience, family reactions and advice for newly married couples! 

4. Red Flags/Toxic Traits14 Feb 202200:39:34

The dating world for lgbtq+ relationships is very similar to heterosexual couples. In this episode we brought on our friend Jasmine. Together we all discuss toxic traits and red flags. The red flags you ignore in the beginning eventually are the reason why some relationships end or turn toxic. Jasmine shares her thoughts and experiences in this topic. You’ll feel like you’re having a girls night, talking to friends and sippin your wine 🍷

3. Preferences & Stereotypes07 Feb 202200:34:06

From the outside looking in, the LGBTQ+ community is full of stereotypes!! However, what stereotypes are true and which ones are false?! In this episode we cover a few stereotypes people tend to associate with lesbians. Prior to jumping right into the true or false of those stereotypes we discuss how we present ourselves to others. For example, "stud/femme/stem" as well as what our dating preferences are when it comes to how others present themselves to us.

2. Two Moms Are Better Than One31 Jan 202200:35:21
Join us while we welcome our two good friends Joyce and Oceanna to the Les Chat podcast. Oceanna shares her story of not only coming out to her family after meeting her girlfriend Joyce, but also introducting the idea of two moms to her son. Joyce expresses how although she didn't necessarily plan to date someone with a child she couldn't be more grateful to be apart of Oceanna and her son's life. They explain in detail of how being a parent can be quite the hardship in a relationship but with a little adjustment and priorizing it can be done. 
Les Chat Introduction Trailer25 Jan 202200:00:39

Listen if you want to know what to expected from this new up and coming LGBTQ+ podcast!!

1. The Coming Out Process25 Jan 202200:31:12

Join us in our very first podcast episode of Les Chat where we focus on LGBTQ+ content! In this episode, host Jojo and co-host Dayra give a brief introduction as well as what pushed us to start this podcast. We dive into the details of our coming out story and how our Latinx family responded. 


Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ 

102. Coming Out At Work 20 May 202400:44:36

In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs.

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Family Meeting

1. "I was dating this girl, I ended up finding out she was the girlfriend (now ex) to Salice Rose, ( a popular influencer)".

2. "My friends girl came up to me saying she found me very attractive and would try to make a move on me.."


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101. Unraveling Jealousy 06 May 202401:07:38

EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ+ dynamics.

Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, past traumas, or attachment styles. We emphasize the importance of healthy communication and setting boundaries to address underlying insecurities.


TROVA TRIP LINK: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec

Family Meeting Questions:

1. What do you guys feel about one another going to a strip club?!

2. Communicating with a female has been the hardest for me because is this normal?

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100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups 22 Apr 202401:11:17

In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking.

We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself.

LES CHAT QUEER TRIP: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec (takes about 2 mins)

LES CHAT MEET UP: FRIDAY NIGHT, APRIL 26TH @ PORTA'S

Family Meeting Questions:

1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore".

2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK"


Podcast Description:

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99. Six Different Types of Attraction15 Apr 202400:35:55

Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships.

Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance.

Sources:

https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction

WHAT KIND OF ATTRACTION AM I FEELING?


1. "I’m in a situation where I have a long term gf but my best friend recently confessed to me that she is platonically in love with me”.



“I noticed how pretty this girl from the gym is is and now i want to make a move but not sure if she likes girls. What should I do?  How should i talk to her?"


cheated on me with a GUY co-worker less than a month into her new role."

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98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures 08 Apr 202400:56:43

Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice!

As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questions that would be perfect for first dates. Some of them were…

  • Would you rather spend a day with your younger self or older self? 

  • What advice would you impart to your 10-year-old self if given the chance? 

  • And in the event of memory loss, what would be the first thing you'd say to help regain memories?

Colombia Tattoo Artist: https://www.instagram.com/gustavoposadat2/?igsh=MmQ3d3JpamNpcjZ6 

Colombia Dentist: https://www.instagram.com/odontologia.sarah/?igsh=NzF6enM4YjNsZWZk 

Card Games on TikTok: Flamingo.Cards

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97. Confessions01 Apr 202400:55:29

EP 97: We dive into random questions, confessions, and family meeting topics sent anonymously via Instagram and NGL! Join us as we explore unspoken thoughts and feelings, offering candid insights and humor. From taboo confessions to lesbian drama, we tackle it all, creating a safe space for raw and unfiltered discussions.

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96. Facing Rejection25 Mar 202401:16:43

Rejection has always been the hardest pill for us all to swallow. It bears such a negative weight when we feel as though someone you show such interest in just doesn’t share that same interest in return. We then find ourselves questioning what it is about us that could be wrong. But nothing is wrong with you!! Once we accept the fact that we aren’t for everyone just like everyone isn’t for us.. rejection becomes a lot less personal. 


FAMILY MEETING:

"Google Voicemail: I started dating a girl who talks bad about her friends.."

"I took the initiative to inseminate (without telling my partner) - how does this make it any different from getting pregnant by a man in the situation that both of y’all are a couple?"


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95. Questioning My Sexuality11 Mar 202401:06:20

Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching for our identities as we continue to grow.

- Is sexuality a spectrum?

- Do you have to limit yourself to a label?

- Is it because of growing up in a heteronormative society?


Family meeting:

1. " I was with a guy/married for 10 years, came out as gay a year ago & left him. Since being out of that relationship, I have realized that he is a huge narcissist and emotionally abused me. He used to say I had saggy boobs to the point I had a breast reduction, big thighs, big arms, etc."


2. "I feel like I am being tested in my life/career. I just graduated with my masters degree & started a new job but I have never felt so lost and alone than I do right now."



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94. Queer Baiting04 Mar 202401:09:23

What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc)  as well as the history on queer baiting in the 1940’s-1960’s with the “Lavender Scare”.

LOVE CRAVE VIBRATOR NECKLACE LINK 

Family Meeting: 

  • “My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me because she believes she is poly.”

  • “There’s one girl in particular I’ve been hanging out with and have had sex a few times . She said she’s a lesbian when we first met and said she doesn’t sleep with men, and then told me a few days ago she occasionally does sleep with men. Sleeping with men opens up the doors for more STI’s. What should I do?”

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111. Single Vs. Relationship You12 Aug 202400:55:30

It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone?

THAILAND TRIP DETAILS: LINK

Family Meeting:

1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were long distance... She left her ipad home one day, found sexual deleted messages w/ a guy…a guy she was hanging with when we were long distance. "

2. "As a newly gay woman, how do you date women?"


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93. Chosen Family19 Feb 202400:53:23

Society has put a lot of pressure on the importance of family. Having loving parents, sharing happy memories with your siblings, feeling safe and protected by the ones you share blood with.. However, that isn’t the version of "family" that everyone gets to experience.

  • What is a chosen family?
  • Why is it important to the community?
  • What to look for when choosing a family?
  • Where to find people to be a part of my chosen family?

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Family meeting:

1. "I am an 18 year old female and am struggling to be around my family. I'm half Black and half Latino, not to be stereotypical BUT when things happen in the family, we don’t talk about it! We “pray” and “move on ''. Very often they will bring up the topic of LGBTQ and say hateful things to intentionally hurt me(they are all very Christian). "

2. "Do you have lesbian friends that don’t want kids? As a childfree lesbian I feel bombarded by breeders, even in the LGBTQ community."


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92. Major Life Changes12 Feb 202400:54:28

We're back! From what seems to be a long overdue break from the podcast. We talk about how the impact of big life changes in a relationship can be for the best or worse. SORRY FOR THE STATIC SOUND YA'LL :(

Unpacking the U-HAUL:

  • What our thoughts were prior to moving.
  • What challenges/stressors we faced in the process.
  • What helped us adapt to the new environment.

Highland Park therapy article gives 

6  ways to navigate your relationship and big life changes

1. Open communication

2. Prioritize self care 

3. Lean on your support system

4. Interstate adaptability 

5. Prioritize quality time 

6. Work with a therapist 

https://www.highlandparktherapy.com/blog/2023/5/19/how-to-deal-with-big-life-changes-and-your-relationship 


Family Meeting

  1. “My wife’s gaming addiction ruined it for me. We got divorced but recently got remarried. I love her and I don’t want to hurt her but I’m hoping my feelings change so I don’t feel trapped in my choice to make things work between us.”

  1. “We have not had sex in months now even at our new place. I’m concerned that there’s a disconnection sexually. We have been together for 9 years so maybe time has a lot to do with that? Any advice on what I can do or how I can bring up the conversation to her?”

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91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later18 Dec 202301:07:17

As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode.

EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self improvement for the new year.

Stay tuned Les Chat FAM! We will return shortly. Join our Patreon to stay connected - PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  

Florida News: https://www.instagram.com/p/C06zgEoujKp/  

& Florida Video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C04QVC-s8Vz/ 

Family Meeting Questions

  1. My wife & I have been together for 4 years. Over the years, I realized I initiated everything: kisses, dates & sex. In the past 6 months, she has gained 40lbs & refuses to exercise with me or by herself. Between her lack of effort to initiate & her recent weight gain, I’m not as physically or emotionally attracted to her. 

  2. My girl told me that she slept in the same bed with her best friend naked because she was hot, this is someone she had se* with, in the past..

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90. Queer Dating Icks FT Brennah 11 Dec 202301:14:23

In this week's episode we welcome our friend Brennah back to Les Chat to deep dive into the tragedies of lesbian dating. Brennah shares some details about how her dating journey has been going and we run through a list of dating icks. The best advice Brennah wanted to leave with us is that letting go of expectations could make dating less tragic. You don't need to find you person right away. Have fun and get to know yourself in the process. Family Meeting: 1. Can y'all talk about WHY we have this weird dating trend where people talk for 3/4 months and then never speak again?

2. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months already. I just found out that she has still kept contact with her past fling.

Brennah IG: https://instagram.com/brennahlambert_?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==

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89. Coming Out To Your Child FT Jynette04 Dec 202300:57:54

Coming out to your kids as “LGBTQ+” can be a hard conversation. In today’s episode we invite our dearest friend/momma to talk about her experience!

We dive into

  • Can you date someone who’s in the closet?
  • How to prepare yourself to come out to your kids.Advice for parents who want to come out to their kids but don’t know how.
  • Do parents need to come out?

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now but I met a girl who’s a coworker and I think I have fallen for this girl.”

2. “I just found out my fiance, who I have been with for 5 years, has been cheating on me for the last 2 months with my step brother.”

Jynette's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fromconcept2closing/

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88. From Girlfriend To Wife20 Nov 202300:55:50

Marriage! A popular topic we love to talk about. Same sex marriage became legal in 2015, only 8 years ago. In this episode we dive into our idea of marriage growing up and our point of view on marriage now. We dive into

  • "What are the main reasons for same sex couples divorcing"?
  • "Why do you think marriage is so “valued” by society?"


Lastly, we dive into questions to ask before getting married!


Family Meeting Questions

  1. What does it mean, if now your ex wife turns around and gets married when you just divorce not even a year ago?
  2. How can I effectively identify potential lesbian partners and improve my flirting skills at 29?

DIVORCE RATES: ⁠https://www.rgfamilylaw.com/blog/2022/june/statistics-on-same-sex-marriages-divorce/⁠


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87. Queer Holiday Survival Guide13 Nov 202301:09:12

The holidays can be a little intimidating, especially for queer people who may or may NOT feel safe in places or with people (family) they are going to visit. We’re gonna chat about how you can make the most out of this holiday season to keep your sanity!

1. "Lesbian relationships and being friends with an ex. I feel this is more common among lesbian relationships and it’s not really talked about."

2.  "I’ve been together with my girlfriend for 4/5 months, she’s met my family and friends, has been over to my home etc but I haven’t met any of her family yet nor friends. Seems like she’s waiting for the “right time”, I’m starting to feel like I’m being kept a secret for some strange reason."


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Thanksgiving/ Holiday Game Ideas:

1. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmHJncIjbm-/?igshid=ZDhmZGIxNmQ%3D&epik=dj0yJnU9dWktVFdsdDU0MHNHdFlEa2NKZy1SbURLNkxpNjVLanMmcD0wJm49c0l6ZkxXdzRCQmtRY3hKTlI2MFE5ZyZ0PUFBQUFBR1ZRN01F

2. https://www.tiktok.com/@iamjaritza/video/6900182129725000966?lang=en

3. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/798333471454643864/

4. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cjb0pZtgJt7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY%3D&epik=dj0yJnU9akhkem9IZEJNNWFHOGRYQk95NWlFY056cXlEX1JYU20mcD0wJm49bVNiTVpsOHNvbzZNMnFoVFk5TUhuZyZ0PUFBQUFBR1ZRN0tN



86. Being An Ally 06 Nov 202301:05:59

The coming out process isn’t always a positive experience for a lot of LGBTQ+ people. Not only do they struggle with the process of figuring themselves out but they also bear the weight of all the negativity they may face when sharing their truth with family and friends. So as an ally, how do you provide a safe space for those to disclose to you their sexuality/ gender identity without fear of judgment. 


Family Meeting Questions

1. “I caught my having sex with her coworker (a man) and he claimed he's her boyfriend”

2. "My wife and I had been married for two years but recently I found out she cheated on me a few months before we moved to another state".

PATREON: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod⁠ 

The Night Orlando Pulse Nightclub Became A Warzone Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/74wSQ2yJVLpWOhVXczBVfr?si=ce771ad066cd4ee4

Sources

  • Do's & Dont's LINK
  • Being An Ally LINK
  • Ways To Be An Ally LINK



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84. Should We Take A Break?23 Oct 202301:04:50

Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because their purpose is never used in a positive way. In this episode we give reasons to why relationship breaks do not work, we share our personal experiences with breaks, and 5 rules to a healthy relationship break.


Family Meeting:

1. "How can I get past putting other people's sexual pleasure before my own? I just want someone who wants to please me as much as I want to please them."

2. "I'm in a relationship with an amazing man. However, I'm confused and struggling with my sexuality."


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83. Six Relationship Check-In Questions To Ask Your Partner09 Oct 202300:55:34

We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction.

Questions to ask your partner:

  1. What is something I have done this month that made you feel loved and cared for?

  2. Do you feel there’s anything we need to improve in our relationship?

  3. Is there anything you need that I haven't been giving you?

  4. When was the last time I hurt your feelings and you decided not to speak about it?

  5. Do you feel like you still have enough time for your friends and interests?

  6. What’s one thing you’d want to change/try out for the next month?


Family Meeting Questions:

1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?"

2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?"


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110. Long vs. Short Term Relationships29 Jul 202400:45:43
Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. • Follow @https://www.instagram.com/p/C20DZv6upQy/?igsh=YnZxMThkdTMwdGxz&img_index=2 on Instagram. Family Meeting • "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day" • " Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m very in love with her and we’re inseparable and I feel like we’re flirting and our friends are also saying that.. I used to think that she's straight, but now i’m very confused" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  • IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   • TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  • YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  • Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  • Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ GO OUT & VOTE • Am I registered? https://voter.svrs.nj.gov/registration-check • Make sure you are active & not inactive • Register to vote link: https://vote.gov/ 
82. Emotional Safety02 Oct 202300:47:32
What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment. Read Article for more on emotional safety: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-do-you-create-emotional-safety-in-your-relationships    Family Meeting Questions “I had been dating this girl for about 2 years, but I started liking her friend…” “My girlfriend does not feel emotionally safe with me” “My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost two years, we go months without any sort of physical intimacy, including hugs and kisses” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 
81. TV Lesbianships25 Sep 202300:54:38

We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and let’s get naked from the “open up”.

Card game link: https://theopenup.com/  

List of WLW Tv shows: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/hottest-lesbianships-of-all-time-on-tv-plus-where-to-watch-them

Family Meeting Questions

  1. “I caught my wife emotionally cheating on me with her new friend”

  2. “My girlfriend is still married to her ex. She told me she’d get divorced as soon as possible in the beginning of our relationship but it’s been 5 years now.”

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80. Lesbian Couples Therapy18 Sep 202300:52:02

In this episode we go over The Top Mistakes Most Couples Make⁠ according to a lesbian relationship expert, Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz. We go over the following..

  • “What are some of the most common mistakes you see lesbian couples making? Both at the start of a relationship or in a more established one?”
  • "Do you think all couples would benefit from couples counseling/therapy or ONLY those with relationship struggles/issues?"
  • "Is the U-Haul joke/rumor true and what do you advise couples who move quickly in a relationship do? Should they follow their hearts or put the brakes on things?"


Family Meeting Questions

  1. "My gf tells me her baby father is disrespectful to her and I’ve seen it as well, I gave her my opinion on child support & because of my opinion she says that she can no longer trust me and that I don’t understand her logic."

  2. "I’m currently married to a man, we’ve been together for 14 years & have 2 beautiful toddlers. I recently discovered that I am a lesbian."

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79. Relationship Non-negotiables11 Sep 202301:16:17

Having non-negotiables allows you to set boundaries for people to respect the things that you value most in life. It’s like a promise you make to yourself to not let anyone bend the rules or change your mind on what you want most. You hold yourself and them accountable when it comes to those boundaries by sticking to your word. So let us share our personal non-negotiables that we set for dating/relationships as well as 10 general examples for all couples.

Family meeting:

1. How do i get my virgo girlfriend back?

2. I saw my girlfriends DM's with a guy she went on a date with but she doesn't know that I know. How do I bring it up to her?


Read more about non-negotiables:

https://hellorelish.com/articles/relationship-non-negotiables.html

https://goodthingsaregonnacome.com/why-are-non-negotiables-important-and-how-to-create-them/#:~:text=By%20setting%20non%2Dnegotiables%20and,live%20a%20more%20fulfilling%20life.&text=Non%2Dnegotiables%20are%20personal%20vows,what's%20important%20in%20your%20life.


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78. Hypothetically Speaking28 Aug 202301:02:53

There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact. 

In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”.


Family Meeting Questions 

  1. “I identify as a lesbian, I used to be so passionate about my identity and would always talk/think about it, now, I feel like I could care less. I have less desire to partake in discourse or consume queer media. Even when pride came around this year I just didn't get all that excited about it. Is it wrong to feel this way? 

  2. “My partner and I have a very flexible and *healthy* relationship, but sometimes I feel like I haven't enjoyed my young adult life being single, and that's making me nervous…”

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77. Lesbian Slang21 Aug 202300:45:50

Has someone ever asked you if you listened to “girl in red”? If so, they basically asked you if you’re gay. Everyday we’re coming up with new lesbian terminology! In this episode we go over some of the popular terms and what they mean. We also go over what it means to be "sapphic" and what is the difference between being a lesbian and being sapphic? 


Read more about Lesbian Slang: https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide (https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide)


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Beducated AI Chatbot:  https://beducated.com/ai (https://beducated.com/ai)


Family Meeting Questions:


💖 “Is it strange that my current girlfriend is currently living with a friend that she has previously dated?”


❤️ “14 years together, married 3 years. My wife left in Feb, she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me.“


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76. Flirting Styles14 Aug 202300:59:12

We’re often asked to give tips on how to flirt whether you’re out in public or on social media. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It’s not meant to be hard or done with the intention of finding the love of your life. So we share 5 types of flirting styles we learned to help you find your groove. You can stick to the style you’re most confident with or learn a new one to master!

Flirting Styles: http://news.ku.edu/2013/09/11/new-book-outlines-five-types-flirting-styles

Family Meeting

1.  "I've been dating a woman for a month and a half. From the first moment we exchanged messages in an app, I felt a connection. When should the title of girlfriend be used?"

2.  "I’m 23 years old and still live with my strict sister and her family. I don’t want to lose the girl I’m talking to but my sister also never tries to understand my point of view when I talk about how I shouldn’t have to be asking her for permission to go out" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/


75. Before I Came Out07 Aug 202300:55:20

What was life like before coming out for us? Since Dayra came out later in life she had a lot to say about this, comparing gay dating vs straight dating, how we dressed compared to now, and even finding ourselves in welcoming spaces with people who make us feel comfortable to be ourselves.


FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I came out when I was 18 and have only had one brief relationship and an series of hookups and situationships with women. I’m sick and TIRED of dating apps and want to meet someone organically but don’t know how?!"

2. "My straight best friend for 3 years is giving gay vibes, I don't see her as more than a friend but I still feel kinda awkward around her. Do you think it's just girls being girls or something else?"


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74. Does My Girlfriend Hate Me?!31 Jul 202300:59:12

“Does my partner hate me?” Has this thought ever crossed your mind? why does everything you say upset your partner? This could be because your partner is stuck in negative sentiment override. In this episode we dive into feeling disconnected with your partner emotionally and tips/questions on how to reconnect with your partner. We also talk about our experience and recent discussions when feeling disconnected. Links: https://celebrateagain.org/feeling-disconnected-from-your-partner/ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/how-to-recognize-emotional-disconnect-in-your-relationship-and-what-to-do-to-reconnect/ Questions to ask your partner to reconnect 1. Is there anything I used to do that you loved that I don’t do anymore? 2. What’s the number one cause of tension or disconnection in our relationship right now? 3. How can I be a better partner? 4. What dream of yours could I support you with, and what would that support look like? 5. What kind of date night activities could we plan to experience more joy in our relationship?

Family Meeting Questions

💖 “Met my wife on tiktok. Everything moved fast and we got married in less than a year, but things have quickly changed”


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73. The Best Of Breakups17 Jul 202301:04:12

In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..."

3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..."

Sources:

  • https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202203/breakup-doesn-t-have-leave-you-broken

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109. Would You Stay With Me??22 Jul 202400:42:11

Les Chat family is going to BALI!!!! This week's episode we started of with shout outs to those that book their spot for our group 2025 Bali trip! Then we jump into to some hypothetical couple questions from Therapyjeff's IG page.


Would you stay with me if:

1. I changed my political affiliation to the other side?

2. I wanted to be physically intimate with you 50% less often? How about 75% less often?

3. I had to move somewhere 3000 miles away for a year, which meant we’d be in a long-distance relationship?

4. I changed my mind about having kids with you, wanting the opposite of what we originally planned.

5. I told you that I cheated on you once at the start of the relationship but never did it again because I felt horrible.

6. I either became devoutly religious or devoutly atheist.

7. I decided to stop using social media and get rid of my smartphone. In fact, I’m only going to use a dumb phone, and I need you to do the same, or I won’t stay with you.

8. I decided to quit my job, take out a huge loan, go back to school, and pursue a PhD that would take five years to complete.

9. I wanted to become a social media influencer and podcaster, sharing personal stories that often come from our relationship and time together.

10. I became really good friends with someone you hated. Like your arch nemesis or something.

Family Meeting:

  1. I'm in a relationship with a bi woman from Peru who has come out to her friends, colleagues and a small part of her family (siblings, cousins). Her parents, however, are very catholic and not supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. They think we are only friends. I'm okay with my gf not coming out to them, but since she has a close relationship with her parents, I don't know if our relationship should be a secret in the long-term. On the other hand, I'm afraid that revealing our relationship will bring hardships to her and destroy her relationship with her parents. Do you have any advice or experience with this?

  2. So I’ve been dating this girl for almost 2 years. Everything has been great except one little thing, sometimes girls grab her butt and she doesn't say anything because she said she’s not the type of girl to talk back. Girls flirt with her & grab her collar shirt and she doesn't tell them anything because she doesn’t want to be mean. I’m a baby gay and she’s been out since she was 14 and currently she’s 25 and I’m 22. She keeps mentioning marriage but I don’t know what to do or how to feel because of those situations. I’ve tried talking to her but she just doesn’t listen and ends up getting angry and shuts me down, I'm just scared to get hurt again I don’t know what to do anymore…

GO OUT & VOTE

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72. Lesbian Dating & Relationships 10 Jul 202300:46:13

In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners..

1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit.

2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you.

3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to.
4. Why do partners feel the need to overspend on you fresh out the gate?


Family meeting:

1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?"

2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?"


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71. Sibling Relationships03 Jul 202301:00:21

As adults we get busy with life and we tend to grow apart from those we love. If you’re a loyal listener you know we focus on lgbtq+ topics, however, in this episode we talk a little bit about family. We dive into the following…

  • Describing our relationship with our siblings

  • How we came out to our siblings and how that relationship was like after coming out

  • Sibling drama/fighting for our parents attention/favoritism, etc!

We also dive into why siblings grow apart over time.

Family Meeting Questions

  1. “I was talking to a married lesbian for 2 months and her wife found out”

  2. “My girlfriend has an ex who has a son and my gf is very attached to him, not sure what to do”.

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70. Is It Cheating? Queer Women Edition 26 Jun 202300:45:18
Les Chat about cheating again! There are no “universal rules” around cheating, what is cheating and what is not cheating is up to you and your partner. In this episode we go over this TikTok video where she goes over “cheating” scenarios (video link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy.ca/video/7239822376970587398 - for queer couples) and we go over it in this episode.  If you would like to listen to our last cheating episode (The Cheater & The Cheated) tune into episode 8. Below are some questions we go over.. IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner still listens to a playlist that their ex made them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner STILL hangs out with an ex that still has feelings for them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner uses a strap that used to belong to them and their ex Family Meeting Story “My gf cheated on me emotionally..” “I cheated on my BF and I am GAY AF." PRECIOSA NIGHT TICKETS: https://www.preciosanight.com/tix Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com
69. The Ultimatum: Queer Love 19 Jun 202301:14:44

We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event!


Link to NYC Pride Party: CLICK HERE


Family meeting:

1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate".

2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out".


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68. What's happening during PRIDE MONTH?!05 Jun 202300:38:23

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well!

Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA! 


6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_ 

6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative

6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast"

6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects

6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun 

6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride

6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair

6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj

6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela

6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership

6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride

6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer

6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc

6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride

6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride

6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc

6/24/23 - Pride 5K 

6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl

6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal 

6/23/23 - NYC Pride 

NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment

Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge



Family Meeting Questions

  1. “I’ve fallen for a straight girl!”

  2. "What would you choose? you find a girl you have an out of this world emotional connection, but zero physical attraction OR you have another girl that connects with you on every sexual level, but you can't show your true self outside the bedroom.”

  3. “I’m 21 and I’m dating a 26 year old, but I wasn’t being honest with myself”

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67. Dating Within Your Friend Group29 May 202300:50:26

It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons..

For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group. 

We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you.


Family Meeting Q&A:

1. "Can you be friends with an EX?"

2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"."

3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust."


66. 7 First Date Conversation Starters & Date Ideas 15 May 202300:44:14

Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them.

Family Meeting Story

- "She has slept with over 100 people". IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/


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