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We are closing out the season with a deep and powerful conversation. Attorney Demetria Graves sits down with author, speaker, and Reinvention Strategist Myesha Chaney for an honest discussion about faith, marriage, identity, divorce, and the courage it takes to choose yourself.

Known publicly as a former pastor’s wife and featured on Preachers of LA, Myesha opens up about the silent weight of performing strength while privately struggling, navigating public judgment after divorce, redefining faith outside of titles, and rebuilding life on her own terms.

Together, they unpack emotional safety in marriage, faith versus community pressure, the reality behind “stay and pray” culture, losing yourself in relationships, rebuilding after divorce and public transition, and what freedom and healing can truly look like.

This episode is for anyone questioning, rebuilding, healing, or learning how to trust themselves again.

Streaming tomorrow YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify.

Learn more about Myesha and preorder her upcoming book Honest here: Myesha Chaney Official Website

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Whether you’re divorced, healing from heartbreak, getting back outside after years off the market, or simply trying to understand why love feels different now, you deserve a magnetic kind of love.

On this episode of Legally Uncensored, Attorney Demetria Graves, CFLS, sits down with relationship expert, matchmaker, and The Spicy Life creator Spicy Mari for an unfiltered conversation about dating after divorce, heartbreak, emotional burnout, and the patterns people keep repeating in love.

From trauma bonding and “dating your ex in a different body” to ego, social media expectations, soft-life culture, and the realities of dating in 2026, this episode gets REAL about why so many people struggle to attract healthy love the second time around.

Spicy Mari also breaks down her signature S.P.I.C.Y. framework and shares how self-awareness, vulnerability, confidence, and intentional dating can completely shift the way people approach relationships post-divorce.

✨ This episode explores:
• Repeating toxic dating patterns
• Standards vs. ego in modern dating
• Apps, attraction & emotional availability
• Hard truths for both men and women
• How to genuinely attract the right partner

Because at Legally Uncensored, we talk about love, law, and the messy middle in between.

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Marriage may start with love—but it operates as a financial partnership. And when that partnership shifts, understanding the money behind it can change everything.

In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we sit down with divorce financial experts Josephti Cruz and Kathryn Holland of Cover Your Assets—a platform dedicated to helping individuals navigate the real financial complexities of divorce with clarity and confidence.

This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into the business of marriage—what you need to know before things go wrong, how to protect yourself if they do, and how to strategically rebuild after.

We break down:

– How to protect your assets before divorce is even a thought

– What financial decisions matter most during the process

– The tax implications that can quietly cost you long-term

– Why “50/50” isn’t always equal when it comes to asset division

– How to think about divorce as a financial transition—not just an emotional one

At its core, this episode is about prevention, preparation, and power. Because the truth is—most people don’t realize what they don’t know until it’s too late.

Whether you’re married, considering divorce, or rebuilding after one, this is your 101 on understanding the financial side of relationships so you can move with intention and protect your future.

Tap in, take notes, and get informed.

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What happens after the breakup… when the relationship ends, but the responsibility doesn’t?

In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we’re unpacking the reality of co-parenting after a high-conflict divorce — where emotions are still raw, communication feels impossible, and the past keeps showing up in the present.

Host Demetria Graves, Esq. is joined by psychiatrist and family wellness expert Dr. Sherri Simpson Broadwater (Dr. Sherri Psych) to explore how parents can move from chaos to clarity — without losing themselves in the process.

This conversation goes beyond custody agreements and courtrooms. It’s about emotional healing, accountability, and learning how to show up for your children without staying stuck in conflict.

Whether you’re navigating co-parenting, considering separation, or healing from a difficult relationship, this episode is a reminder: peace is possible — but it requires intention, honesty, and hard conversations.

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Welcome back! This episode of Legally Uncensored flips the script as (host) Demetria Graves , Esq. takes center stage—breaking down the legal realities behind some of today’s most talked-about celebrity divorces.

Led by special guest and the Producer of this very show, C. DeVone, the conversation dives into the questions everyone is thinking but not always asking. From Cardi B & Offset to Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt, we unpack the headlines and connect them to real-life situations.

Because whether it’s millions on the line or everyday decisions, the themes stay the same—money, custody, assets, and emotions. This episode delivers real tools, real perspective, and the legal clarity behind the drama.

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Does God hate divorce?

What happens when the faith that once held your marriage together begins to feel like the very thing keeping you stuck?

On this deeply layered episode of Legally Uncensored, Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with Lyvonne Briggs, MDiv, ThM — Emmy Award-winning producer, Afro-Caribbean spiritualist, and author of Sensual Faith: The Art of Coming Home to Your Body — for a transformative conversation at the intersection of spirituality, marriage, sexuality, and self-liberation.

Known for her work featured on TEDx and in ESSENCE, Cosmopolitan, Rolling Stone, and The Washington Post, Lyvonne brings her signature blend of theological depth, cultural insight, and embodied healing to unpack the sacred myths many of us inherit about commitment, endurance, and desire.

Together, Demetria and Lyvonne explore:

Marriage: Sacred Covenant or Beautiful Illusion?
When “God said stay” becomes guilt instead of guidance. How spiritual language can mask emotional harm — and the difference between obedience and imprisonment.

Sex After Divorce
Rediscovering desire through a lens of both faith and freedom.

Generational Healing
Unlearning sacrifice as virtue. Reclaiming embodiment as spiritual practice. 

With Demetria’s legal lens and Lyvonne’s theological insight, this episode offers clarity for anyone wrestling with the tension between spiritual belief and lived experience.

Because sometimes healing isn’t about holding on — it’s about coming home to yourself.

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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Stay or Go Coach and Podcast Host Britta Jo continues her discussion with family law attorney Demetria Graves, Esq., shifting from awareness to action.

If Part 1 was the wake-up call, Part 2 is the roadmap.

Together, Britta and Demetria move beyond the risks of indecision and into what preparation, clarity, and empowered decision-making actually look like. They unpack how women can protect themselves — emotionally and financially — even before making a final decision about their marriage.

In this episode, they explore:

How to begin preparing legally and financially without escalating conflict
The importance of confidential consultations and understanding your rights early
How to quietly gather documentation and protect assets
What strategic preparation really means — and what it doesn’t
How clarity reduces fear and increases leverage
The power of timing when making major legal decisions

Demetria shares practical insight into how informed preparation changes outcomes — in negotiations, custody discussions, and financial settlements. She explains why knowledge is not a declaration of divorce — it’s protection.

Britta reinforces the emotional side of the journey, discussing how fear, guilt, and uncertainty often delay action — and how support systems like coaching and therapy create steadiness during life’s most pivotal transitions.

This episode is about reclaiming agency.

Because preparation is not betrayal.
It’s wisdom.

If you’re navigating uncertainty and wondering what your next move should be, this conversation will give you clarity, courage, and practical next steps.

Listen. Learn. And share this with someone who needs it.

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We briefly filed for divorce from our audio… but reconciled. (Sorry!!)

We’re back with a special bonus episode to open Season 7 of Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq.*

In this powerful two-part series, Host Demetria Graves, Esq. (family law attorney and founder of The Graves Firm) sits down with Britta Jo (Stay or Go Coach and Podcast Host) to explore the often-overlooked legal and financial consequences of staying in an uncertain marriage.

Many women believe that “waiting it out” is the safer choice — but what if indecision is actually putting you at greater risk? Demetria offers a clear-eyed legal reality check on how staying in limbo can quietly erode your financial security, limit your legal options, and create outcomes that could have been avoided with earlier awareness.

Together, Britta and Demetria unpack:

* How indecision can create real legal and financial consequences
* Who is most at risk when they delay difficult decisions
* Common missed opportunities — like gathering financial information or protecting assets
* How waiting can impact legal timelines, custody, and settlements
* The hidden financial fallout of emotional hesitation
* Why financial empowerment is a form of self-protection — not conflict

Demetria also pulls back the curtain on what attorneys see behind the scenes, including:

* Common myths that keep women stuck
* The difference between emotional readiness and legal readiness
* What it actually looks like to reach the “sweet spot” where both align

This conversation also highlights the importance of building the right support team. Demetria explains why having emotional support — through coaching or therapy — can make the legal process smoother, clearer, and more empowering, and why being emotionally resourced is critical when navigating high-stakes legal decisions.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between staying and leaving, this episode is for you.

Listen. Learn. And share this with someone who needs it.

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Divorce isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of your next evolution. In this powerful and soul-nourishing episode of *Legally Uncensored*, host **Demetria Graves** welcomes actress, author, and creative force **Valeka Jessica**, who shares her inspiring journey of transformation after a decade-long marriage.

Affectionately known as “V,” Valeka opens up about how the breakdown of her marriage became a breakthrough into her higher self. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and wisdom drawn from her *guided journal*, she reveals **11 essential tips** to help women reclaim their power, redefine their purpose, and blossom spiritually, emotionally, and financially after divorce.

This episode dives into:

* How to *rename* yourself and reimagine your identity
* Releasing the past by getting rid of “his things”
* Reconnecting with your purpose and finding joy again
* The role of therapy, tribe, and spirituality in healing
* Financial lessons and building independence
* Using mindfulness, manifestation, and daily rituals to stay grounded
* The importance of setting boundaries and celebrating small wins

Whether you’re navigating divorce now or rebuilding after, this conversation is a heart-forward roadmap to reclaiming your life and honoring your next chapter.

📘 Grab Valeka’s journal and start your journey: *Blossoming After Divorce*
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Can you fix your marriage without setting foot in a counselor’s office? In this transformative episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with retired marriage and family counselor Ziba Graham Jr. to explore just that.

With decades of experience in helping couples and an innovative approach that moves away from traditional therapy models, Ziba introduces practical, future-focused strategies that have saved relationships—without laying blame or reliving past hurts. In fact, his approach was so effective, couples often "fired" him after just a few sessions.

Together, they unpack:

• Why men often resist traditional counseling—and what to do about it
• The key stages of a relationship and how to navigate them
• What makes a healthy relationship thrive over time
• Three things you can do right now to shift your marriage dynamic
• The "miracle question" and other tools to reset connection and trust

Whether you’re trying to reconnect, avoid divorce, or simply strengthen your marriage, this episode delivers insightful, no-nonsense solutions that men (and their partners) will actually appreciate.

 Learn more about Ziba's method in his book: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling fixyourmarriagebook.com Available on Amazon: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling

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When a marriage ends, one of the most complex and emotionally charged assets to deal with is the family home. In this episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves is joined by veteran Los Angeles-based real estate professional Phyllis Harb to unpack everything you need to know about real estate and divorce.

From deciding who stays or sells, to navigating buyouts, tax implications, and the emotional weight of leaving a shared home—this conversation dives deep into the legal, financial, and personal decisions that surround real estate during and after divorce.

Whether you're in the middle of a separation or just planning ahead, this episode offers practical advice, real-life stories, and tips for making informed, fair, and future-focused choices about one of your biggest assets.

Tune in to learn:

* What happens to the house in different divorce scenarios
* How to handle buyouts and avoid costly mistakes
* Tips for selling or buying post-divorce
* Emotional strategies for letting go and starting fresh
* Why working with a real estate pro who understands divorce makes all the difference

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In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we’re talking about the “P” word—Prenups. Host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with powerhouse attorney Rachel King, Esq. to break the stigma around prenuptial agreements and explain why they’re not just for the rich or famous.

From shifting societal roles to real stats on why Millennials and Gen Z are leading the prenup conversation, this candid episode dives into:

• What a prenup really is (and isn’t)
• Common myths and cultural misconceptions
• How prenups can protect both partners—not just assets, but expectations

Whether you're engaged, married, or simply curious, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating love with clarity and confidence.

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In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with NYC-based hospitality professional and former model Yoki Brown to explore love, divorce, and dating from a man’s perspective.

Yoki opens up about marrying young, the evolution of his relationship, and how he and his ex-wife remain close friends to this day. Now in his 40s and single/dating, he reflects on how his past shaped his current views on love, commitment, and what it means to build stronger foundations later in life.

Together, they unpack what it’s like to date in a big city, navigate personal growth after divorce, and redefine what a modern relationship can look like—especially when friendship with an ex is part of the equation. From hard truths to unexpected lessons, this episode offers real talk on relationships, resilience, and starting over with clarity and confidence.

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Is divorce... contagious? In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply honest episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with writer, creative, and single mom Amber Dorsey to explore the ripple effects of divorce within friendships and communities.

From side-eyeing your relationship after a friend’s breakup to the quiet comparisons we don’t talk about, Amber brings humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom to the mic. They unpack how one couple calling it quits can trigger deep reflection in others—and how comedy, cannabis, and community can be powerful tools in healing and moving forward.

You’ll hear about:

• Divorce ripple effects in social circles and great friends
• Navigating awkward friendships post-split
• The power of humor in healing
• Amber’s “divorce glow-up” and lessons as a single mom

If you’ve ever felt alone in your relationship doubts or are rediscovering yourself after a split, this one’s for you.

🎧 Tune in and join the conversation—because love, loss, and laughter are all part of the journey.

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In light of the recent **verdict in the Diddy case**, this episode of *Legally Uncensored* takes on even greater urgency.

Host **Demetria L. Graves, Esq.** returns with licensed therapist **LeAnn Lazar** to continue the vital conversation on **domestic violence and its legal and emotional impact**—especially during divorce. Part 2 goes deeper into the lived realities behind the headlines, exploring how abuse complicates custody battles, support agreements, and the legal protections survivors need to move forward.

Together, Demetria and LeAnn unpack the intersection of **trauma, legal strategy, and survival planning**, offering support and actionable guidance for those experiencing abuse or trying to heal from it.

This episode is not just about law—it’s about **liberation, safety, and reclaiming power**. If you or someone you know is navigating a relationship affected by domestic violence, this episode is essential listening.

Special Guest: LeAnn Lazar, Licensed Therapist - Specializing in Life Transformation

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We are back with a new season and kicking off with a powerful discussion of "Why They Stay: The Legal and Emotional Toll of Leaving Power & Abuse." Why do survivors of abuse stay—especially when their abuser is powerful, wealthy, and adored by the public?

In this gripping episode, Demetria Graves, Esq. examines the high-profile case of Sean “Diddy” Combs and Cassie Ventura, unraveling the emotional, psychological, and legal complexities behind why leaving abuse isn’t always simple—or safe. From allegations of sex trafficking and emotional manipulation to civil lawsuits and industry silence, we explore the deeper forces at play.

Joining Demetria is certified life and relationship coach LeAnn Lazar, who shares insight on trauma bonding, control, and the process of reclaiming personal power after abuse.

If you’ve ever asked, “Why didn’t they just leave?”—this episode is for you.

**TRIGGER WARNING:** This episode contains discussions of abuse, sexual violence, and trauma

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Welcome to a brand new season of Legally Uncensored with your host, Demetria Graves, Esq.—family law attorney, strategist, and truth-teller. This season, we’re taking a bold and empowering look at love, law, and everything in between.

Whether you're getting married, navigating rocky waters, or healing after a breakup, this show is your go-to guide for clarity and confidence. With real stories, legal insights, and expert guests, we’re helping you prepare, protect, and power through your relationship journey.

Season Theme: Untangling Hearts and Unveiling Truths: Uncensored Conversations on Relationships, Divorce, Family Law, and Beyond.

Because it’s not just about what happens in court—it’s about what happens in life.

💬 This season, we’ll cover:

* Pre-marital planning and protecting your assets
* How to navigate conflict and avoid legal landmines
* Divorce recovery and rebuilding with resilience
* Co-parenting and real-world family dynamics
* Personal stories from those who’ve been through it and came out stronger


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Meet the powerhouse team behind The Graves Firm! Hosted by Demetria L. Graves, Legally Uncensored offers an insider's view into the world of family law. Demetria is not only a compassionate divorce attorney but also leads a dedicated team of paralegals, legal assistants, and fellow lawyers.

Tune in for an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at family law in California. From divorce and child custody to paternity, child support, visitation rights, and more—discover the complexities of these legal issues and how they impact families.

Take notes on:

- Navigating the intake process

- Understanding the importance of timelines

- How to effectively communicate with your attorneys

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In this powerful episode of Legally Uncensored, we dive into the emotional complexities of divorce, especially when narcissism is involved, with our special guest Marcus Weaver, aka Weav Told Me. As a certified relationship coach, Weav shares his expertise on narcissism, healing from broken trust, and recognizing when it’s time to let go of toxic relationships.

Weav breaks down the challenges of divorcing a narcissist, explaining how to identify narcissistic behaviors and distinguish between healthy attachment and unhealthy obsession. We discuss the signs to look out for early in relationships to prevent heartache, and address the widespread misconception that only men can be narcissists.

We also explore the difficult decision of when to leave a harmful relationship. Weav shares practical advice for those trapped in the cycle of emotional abuse, ghosting, and gaslighting, offering guidance on how to navigate the especially challenging process of divorcing a narcissist.

Most importantly, we focus on healing. Weav provides invaluable tips for moving forward and rebuilding your life after divorce or a broken relationship.

Join us as we uncover the tools you need to heal and move on, even after the most challenging relationships. Tune in, follow us on social media, and visit www.legallyuncensored.com for more resources on navigating divorce and beyond.

Be sure to check out Weav's YouTube channel, *Weav Told Me*, for more relationship advice and personal growth tips.

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When financial struggles meet marital breakdowns, the consequences can be complex and far-reaching. Tune in for another insightful episode of "Legally Uncensored," with host Demetria Graves. She is joined by Eliza Ghanooni, a certified Bankruptcy Law specialist, to explore the intersection of divorce and bankruptcy.

Eliza brings her extensive experience in bankruptcy law to the table, offering a deep dive into the basics of bankruptcy, including the different types, the filing process, and the implications when one spouse decides to file during a divorce. They discuss the impact of bankruptcy on property division, asset distribution, child support, and spousal support, providing listeners with crucial information to navigate these challenging situations.

Tune in as Demetria and Eliza unravel the complexities of managing both divorce and bankruptcy simultaneously, sharing practical advice and uncovering common misconceptions. Whether you're currently facing these issues or want to be prepared for potential challenges, this episode is packed with essential insights to help you understand your options and protect your interests.

Key Topics Discussed:
- The basics of bankruptcy and its purpose
- The impact of bankruptcy on divorce proceedings
- How bankruptcy affects property division, child support, and spousal support
- Practical advice for navigating both divorce and bankruptcy

Don't miss this episode of "Legally Uncensored," where untangling hearts and unveiling truths is our mission.

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Let's navigate the divorce gap! In this episode of "Legally Uncensored" with Demetria Graves, Esq., we’re thrilled to welcome Padideh Jafari, a renowned family law and divorce attorney with over two decades of experience in Los Angeles and Orange County. Padideh will expertly guide us through the essential steps for a smooth divorce process, highlighting common challenges and unexpected surprises along the way.

We’ll explore the journey of separation from start to finish—covering the pre-divorce phase, the complexities in the middle, and the final steps. This episode delves into the critical topic of legal rights and responsibilities during separation, addressing both practical and legal considerations. We'll tackle pressing questions such as, "What happens when I want my spouse to leave our home?" and "Can I remove my spouse from health insurance during open enrollment?"

Tune in for an insightful discussion that will arm you with the knowledge to navigate the complexities of separation with confidence.

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Family law is already complex, but what happens when death occurs during a divorce, separation, or when one party becomes incapacitated? These situations, though uncomfortable to discuss, are more common than we realize and crucial to address.

In a recent case, actress Shannen Doherty passed away after a long battle with cancer. Just one day before her death, Doherty was in the process of finalizing her divorce from ex-husband Kurt Iswarienko, which was uniquely finalized posthumously by a judge.

Join host Demetria Graves, Esq., for a new episode of "Legally Uncensored" as we delve into this intricate topic. Our special guest, Tatianna Metters from the Law Offices of Tatianna Y. Metters, will help us navigate the complexities of probate matters. This episode can get quite detailed, so we encourage you to take notes and send us any questions you might have. You won't want to miss this enlightening discussion!

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In this episode of "Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves Esq.," we are joined by Lisa Brateman, LCSW, a distinguished psychotherapist, relationship specialist, speaker, and media commentator based in Manhattan, NY. Lisa's profound insights have been featured on major platforms including CBS, NBC, The New York Times, and The Washington Post, where she unravels the complexities of relationships and healing.

 Lisa is the acclaimed author of "The Courage to Walk Away: Identifying Toxic Relationships," a compelling guide to understanding and healing from infidelity and heartbreak. She is also set to release a groundbreaking new book in September 2024, titled "What Are We Really Fighting About? How to Transform Conflicts into Conversations"

Prepare for an eye-opening discussion as we delve into the intricacies of infidelity, courage and fear within marriage and divorce.

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Welcome back to Season 5 of Legally Uncensored with your host, Demetria Graves, Esq. In this episode, we tackle a critical issue: safeguarding the well-being of young children during divorce. Joining us is Dr. Karen Molano, a trailblazing psychologist and the visionary founder of LumiTot, an innovative wellness organization dedicated to early childhood development and family dynamics.

With over two decades of expertise in infant, family, and early childhood development, Dr. Karen Molano integrates neuroscience-based parenting strategies with functional medicine through LumiTot. Her approach empowers parents as 'Multidimensional Parents,' fostering the optimal growth and development of children.

Together with Demetria, they delve into practical strategies and essential insights to navigate the complexities of divorce while prioritizing children's emotional and psychological health. This episode promises to provide invaluable tools for listeners, offering guidance on building healthier futures and nurturing resilient family relationships.

Don't miss this enlightening conversation on Legally Uncensored with Dr. Karen Molano. Learn more about our show at www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com.

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Divorce can be tough! Join host Demetria Graves and special guest, family law attorney Leena Hingnikar, as they break down the fundamentals of family law and the importance of choosing the right attorney. They offer practical tips on preparing for consultations, setting realistic expectations, and ensuring open and honest communication.

In this episode, Demetria and Leena discuss critical topics like managing finances, custody arrangements, and navigating the divorce process. Leena highlights the benefits of mediation for amicable couples, the importance of legal advice in complex cases, and addresses common concerns such as spousal support and property division. She also shares valuable advice on seeking emotional support and securing funds at the start of the divorce journey.

Tune in for expert insights and practical advice to help you through the divorce process.

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In this episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves welcomes LaQuita Fergerson, also known as Coach Q Simone, an inspirational life and divorce recovery expert, public speaker, and advocate for holistic wellness and healthy relationships. LaQuita, the owner of On Q Coaching & Consulting LLC, is a Trauma & Divorce Recovery Coach dedicated to personal development, healing, and opportunity.

LaQuita shares her journey chronicled in her blog "Bitter to Better," detailing her healing process from divorce while managing Multiple Sclerosis. She discusses the power of creativity, soul work, and her unique 3-brain approach to recovery. LaQuita provides practical advice for listeners navigating the difficult terrain of divorce, emphasizing the importance of emotional expression, self-care, and resilience. Tune in for an empowering conversation filled with insights and strategies to help you thrive after life-changing events.

LaQuita Fergerson, On Q Coaching & Consulting LLC
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LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/coachqsimone/

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Welcome back! After a hiatus, we're ecstatic to launch Season 5 of the Legally Uncensored Podcast. Get ready to sharpen your pencils because this season is all about taking notes!

But hold onto your seats because we've got some thrilling updates – we're branching out to YouTube and have just unveiled our brand-new website!

In Season 5, we're getting back to the essentials. From deciphering paperwork to navigating legal complexities, we're leaving out the jargon and offering practical advice from emotional, financial, and even spiritual perspectives.

Expect raw, unfiltered discussions that delve into the heart of your journey toward a brighter chapter in life.

Legally Uncensored Podcast - Your compass to a fresh start and a brighter future!

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Welcome back to the season finale of "Legally Uncensored" with licensed attorney Demetria Graves, Esq. We're thrilled to continue the conversation with the hilarious and insightful Michael Prince, known for gracing the stages of BET's Comicview and touring with HBO's Def Comedy Jam.

If you caught part one, you won't want to miss out on part two! Join us for another captivating and entertaining discussion covering a range of topics, including dating someone with a disability, the benefits of taking a year-long break before dating, and exploring how men navigate the grieving process during a divorce.

Tune in for an engaging episode filled with laughter and valuable insights.

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Closing out the season with a bang! Join us for a hilarious and insightful recap of Legally Uncensored with licensed attorney Demetria Graves, Esq. Today, we are navigating life's tricky situations with a touch of humor, and we're thrilled to have the incredible Michael Prince, Standup Comedian, Celebrity Chef, and PitMaster, as our special guest. Having remarried and triumphed over his own healing journey post-divorce, Michael's wisdom adds a unique flavor to our season finale.

A seasoned performer, Michael Prince has graced the stages of BET's Comicview and toured with HBO's Def Comedy Jam. In this episode, we delve into our favorite moments and archives, discussing a variety of topics including education, the intricacies of divorce, the art of starting over, and the impact of holidays on custody battles. The episode is so good; that we are breaking this into a two-part series! Join us for a captivating and entertaining discussion as we bid farewell to this season of Legally Uncensored. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a memorable sign-off of the season. And come back next week for part two!

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Navigating the holiday season can be tricky, especially if you find yourself in the single lane, on the divorce highway, or stuck in a complicated relationship status. While it's a time of joy and festivity, it's crucial to acknowledge the emotional challenges that may accompany it. To shed light on these issues, we've invited the incredible Dr. Sunshine, a licensed psychologist, to join us once again. In this episode, we'll delve into the complexities of dealing with depression, navigating the aftermath of divorce, and managing family dynamics during this festive season.

Join us as we tackle topics such as gifts, handling tricky family questions, setting boundaries, and dealing with negative interactions. Tune in to gain insights, learn valuable tips, and feel free to share this episode with a friend who might find it helpful. Let's navigate the holiday maze together! Sent from my iPhone

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In this episode of Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq., we explore various aspects of support during and after the divorce process and the importance of managing your emotions. From therapy and legal assistance to coaching, there are valuable resources available to help you navigate the often unspoken challenges that come with divorce. Our special guest, Tamar Gottlieb, a seasoned professional counselor specializing in guiding individuals through their divorce journey, will share her insights on parenting during and after divorce, the influence of power dynamics, and the critical need for establishing a trustworthy support network.

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On todays episode of Legally Uncensored with Dementia Graves, Esq. we are navigating post-divorce dating with none other than a matchmaking powerhouse Tennisha Wood (Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and Podcaster), she is the brains behind The Broom List, the first and only matchmaking firm dedicated to pairing educated, successful, marriage-minded Black singles. Tennesha Wood shares the matching making process, how to get back into the faring game and how important it is to heal before dating. 

In today's episode of "Legally Uncensored with Dementia Graves, Esq.," we dive into the world of post-divorce dating with a special guest, Tennisha Wood, a renowned Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and Podcaster. Tennisha Wood, the mastermind behind The Broom List, the premier matchmaking firm exclusively dedicated to connecting educated, successful, marriage-minded Black singles, shares valuable insights into the matchmaking process. Join us as we explore how to re-enter the dating scene and emphasize the significance of personal healing before pursuing new relationships. Tune in for an enlightening conversation on love, life, and legal insights.

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Welcome to The Legally Uncensored Podcast hosted by Demetria Graves, Esq. Today, we're delving deep into the topic of "Blooming After Divorce," and we promise you, it's not your typical conversation about gardening.

Our special guest today is Colah B Tawkin, a remarkable individual who wears many hats. She's a mother, a passionate gardener, and the founder, host, and head creative of the acclaimed podcast and media platform, "Black in the Garden." This groundbreaking show beautifully resides at the intersection of Black Culture and Horticulture.

Join us on this captivating journey of self-discovery, resilience, and growth, and discover the power of plants and community in the face of life's challenges. You won't want to miss this inspiring and transformative episode.

So, tune in and join us as we explore how to sow, grow and bloom after divorce right here on "Legally Uncensored."

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Welcome back to another POV episode of the "Legally Uncensored Podcast" with your host, Demetria Graces. Today, we have a truly exceptional guest, Chad Brown with an impressive 23-year career as a Fire Captain in LACoFD and experience through life.

In this episode, we explore Chad's profound journey as a single father, forged through the trials and tribulations of a challenging divorce. Join us as we explore his deeply personal insights and gain a fresh perspective on the intricate legal aspects and challenges.

Throughout our conversation, you'll gain a deeper understanding of both the emotional and legal complexities faced by single fathers. This thought-provoking and informative dialogue transcends the confines of traditional legal boundaries, making it an absolute must-listen for anyone in search of valuable insights and a fresh perspective on these crucial topics. Don't miss out!

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Welcome to another episode of Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq. Today, we have a compelling discussion as we delve into the profound impact of divorce on children's educational journeys. We'll also be exploring effective strategies that both teachers and parents can employ to support young learners.

Our distinguished guest for today's episode is Loribeth Mau, a passionate and dedicated educator from the Los Angeles Unified School District. Loribeth brings to the table a wealth of experience and invaluable insights into how practical tips can make a significant difference in the lives of countless students who find themselves navigating the challenges of divorce or custody battles.

So, whether you're a teacher, a parent, or simply someone interested in the well-being of children during tumultuous times, you won't want to miss this episode. Tune in, listen, learn, and engage with us as we shed light on this crucial topic. Let's get started!

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Today, on “Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq.,” we’re delving deep into the world of relationships and influences. We often hear about the external and internal factors that lead to the dissolution of marriages, but have you ever considered the role your upbringing and parental figures played in shaping your approach to relationships? We’re here to explore the intriguing concept of DWI - Divorcing under the Influence.

Joining us today is a remarkable guest, Jamilah Barnes. She’s a producer, entrepreneur, speaker, and author known for her insightful perspective on entrepreneurship, business management, book publishing, and relationships. Jamilah is the author of the captivating book “Raised by the Mistress.”

So, if you’re curious about the intricate connections between family upbringing and relationship dynamics, or if you’re eager to hear more about Jamilah’s journey and her upcoming podcast, you’re in for a treat. Stay tuned for an enlightening conversation on DWI - Divorcing under the Influence, right here on “Legally Uncensored.”

You can connect with @legallyuncensored and  @jamilahbarnes on Instagram.  

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Welcome back to a brand new season of "Legally Uncensored" with your host, Demetria Graves, Esq. In this season, we're delving deep into the uncharted territories of divorce, narcissism, and celebrating the triumphs of the underdog.

For our first episode, we've brought in some heavy-hitters to shed light on these challenging subjects. Joining us today are Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, the dynamic founders of "Been There Got Out." Their organization offers hope, guidance, and a supportive community to individuals who are grappling with toxic relationships, providing the strength needed to reclaim their sanity.

In this compelling episode, Lisa and Chris candidly share their own personal journeys through divorce, offering invaluable insights into how they not only survived but thrived. They have become beacons of hope for those facing similar challenges.

Together, we explore topics such as navigating through domestic violence, enduring high-conflict relationships, surviving divorce, battling for custody, and co-parenting in the midst of chaos. Their recently released book, "Been There Got Out: Toxic Relationships, High-Conflict Divorce, and How to Stay Sane Under Insane Circumstances," is a must-read for anyone seeking guidance in these turbulent waters.

To learn more about Lisa and Chris's incredible work and their organization, visit their website at https://beentheregotout.com/. So, sit back, relax, and join us as we embark on this enlightening journey through the complexities of life's legal and personal challenges on "Legally Uncensored."

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Welcome back to an all-new season of Legally Uncensored, hosted by the dedicated attorney and highly respected Certified Family Law Specialist in California, Demetria Graves Esq. And guess what? We are returning with something truly monumental!

In this exciting season, we're prepared to guide you through the intricate landscapes of divorce, the convoluted world of dating, and the often unspoken shadows cast by toxic relationships, including the harrowing realm of narcissism. (Take a moment to reflect on this.) Let's face it, divorce can resemble a battlefield, particularly when it spirals into a high-conflict situation.

Following an appearance on "Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramini," sparked a fire in us, and clearly within many of YOU as well! Through this journey, we've come to realize that the depths of divorce, dating, and toxic relationships are fathomless. There's always more to uncover, discover, and understand.

That's why we're taking the plunge once more, delving deeper than ever before, and embracing authenticity, candor, and yes, uncensored truths. Throughout this season, we'll be engaging in conversations with therapists, divorce coaches, and individuals with untold stories that need to be heard.

Don't miss out on another enlightening season of Legally Uncensored. Tune in, because the journey starts now!

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What about the kids?! Divorce not only has an impact on the couple but a major impact on children. We took a deep dive into the use of Child Protective Services as a tool during a toxic divorce. In an earlier episode, Our Children Our Watching, we discussed divorce from a children’s voice, and children really hate to be in the middle of conflict, and sometimes parents need to be aware of the ramifications of using CPS improperly.

Our guest today is Lakesiha Adeniyi-Dorsey. Lakeshia is the Principal Attorney at K. Adeniyi Law, APC. She is seeking justice on behalf of families by representing parents in CPS investigations and in Juvenile /Children's Court. She is also an organizer at BMM - The Black Mothers March on the White House is a coalition of black-led organizations that have been involved in the struggle to rescue our children from the custody of the State. Tune in and let's educate ourselves and learn what can be done to protect our children.

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Welcome to Legally Uncensored, with your host Demetria Grave, Esq. We have officially opened the "Ask Demetria!" hotline. Grab your favorite beverage or favorite snack and kick back, we are checking in with the Legally Uncensored community. 

Before divorce comes marriage, before marriage, there is likely a relationship that can be salvaged or avoided! With so much going on in the news, we wanted to take a moment and tap into hot topics, celebrity mess, and your listener questions. 

Whether you are divorced, in the midst of a divorce, single, married or a serial dater, we are here to help! Have a question? Leave us a voicemail at the "Ask Demetria" hotline at (626) 460-0927 or leave us a message on all legal platforms @legallyuncensored‬. 

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We are back with Legally Uncensored, hosted by Demetra Graves, Esq. Demetria continues to break down the hard topics surrounding divorce and family. Every divorce has a story and journey, so we thought we share perspectives of those who have been through a divorce in a series called "My POV - Divorce Chronicles." In this series, men and women will share "their side of the story" through the challenges, struggles, and lessons of divorce.

It is time to kick off to the men! Our guest today is a Georgia-based sales specialist and former athlete with a story. Rob Conley started his career playing basketball overseas and in the NBA to successful sales professional in Georgia. Rob shares his story of communication, long distance, and being a present father. Tune in.

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Legally Uncensored, hosted by Demetra Graves, Esq. is a podcast that continues to break down the hard topics surrounding divorce and family. Every divorce has a story and journey, so we thought we share perspectives of those who have been through a divorce in a series called "My POV - Divorce Chronicles." In this series, men and women will share "their side of the story" through the challenges, struggles, and lessons of divorce.

As the majority of divorces are filed by women, we thought we kick off this two-part series with a woman's point of view. Our guest today is a successful and fearless entrepreneur with a story! Mica Callaway is an author, broker, and owner of Relatable Realty & Co in the state of Georgia. She is a certified Home Selling Advisor, Certified Home Buying Advisor, and Real Estate Expert Advisor with the National Association of Expert Advisors.

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There is light at the end of the tunnel! We know there are legal and financial ramifications when dealing with divorce and breakups, but what about the mental aftermath and anguish?

Our special guest is Dr. Shalonda Crawford aka Dr. Sunshine who is a licensed psychologist, personality and radio host! Dr. Sunshine will brighten your day with her therapeutic demeanor, tactics, and optimism while approaching heavy topics of therapy individually, during a marriage, and after a divorce! Woo, you do not want to miss this episode! Tune in.

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Social media has been buzzing with the divorce of Drew Sidora and Ralph Pittman Divorce from RHOA (Real Housewives of Atlanta). As divorce can be costly, we thought it was time to protect your Ass (cough) sets! Today, we are talking about finances and covering the bases. Studies show many couples spend more time planning the actual wedding and overlook the financial future of the relationship, marriage and divorce. Our special guest is Eszylfie Taylor, a standout financial advisor and author. Mr. Taylor is president and founder of Taylor Insurance and Financial Services and creator of the "Mind Body Money "app. So let's get uncensored and have the dollars make sense and cents!

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https://www.mindbodymoney.com/

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We are kicking off this season of Legally Uncensored, diving head first into the Business of Relationships. No one really wants to think about their relationships as a business blueprint but as a divorce lawyer, who deals with dividing assets and custody court, Demetria Graves Esq. couldn't help but look a little deeper into this topic. On this episode we deal with the hard truths you need to ask before and after the relationship including, how are finances handled, what is our plan for the future and how do we clearly define our goals.

Our very special guest is the talented and funny Alechia Reese (@alechiareese). Alechia is an author ,Transformation Coach, International Speaker and co-host of the podcast Trigged AF @triggeredafpc who has a story to tell, transform and put your next or best relationship on the right track.

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Demetria Graves is back with Season 3 of Legally Uncensored!! This season is will be exciting, informative and GOOD! Listen to learn more. 

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