Explore every episode of the podcast Late To The Party - a podcast on Autism, AuDHD and Neurodivergence
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| Episode 52 - the relationship between Alexithymia and Autism | 10 Sep 2024 | 00:54:43 | |
Welcome to another episode of Late To The Party with your hosts, Bianca and Dan! 🎉 Today, we’re diving into a fascinating and important topic: the relationship between autism and alexithymia. Join us as we explore how these two conditions intersect, what it means for those who experience them, and the impact on emotional awareness and communication. We’ll be breaking down the science, sharing personal stories, and discussing strategies for better understanding and support. So, grab your headphones and get ready for an enlightening conversation. Let’s get this party started! | |||
| Episode 51 - Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria | 14 Aug 2024 | 01:11:03 | |
Welcome to today’s episode, where we delve into the often misunderstood world of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). This condition, closely associated with ADHD, manifests as an intense emotional response to perceived or actual rejection or criticism. | |||
| Episode 42 - misconceptions about Autistic adults | 06 Feb 2024 | 00:52:40 | |
Welcome to episode 42 Party Poopers. Welcome to our podcast where we discuss the misconceptions surrounding autistic adults. Autism is a complex neurodevelopmental disorder that affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. Unfortunately, there are many myths and stereotypes surrounding autism that can lead to misunderstandings and discrimination. In this podcast, we will explore some of the most common misconceptions about autistic adults and provide accurate information to help dispel these myths. So, sit back, go for a jog, get medicated, whatever helps you chill, and join us as we explore the world of autism and debunk some of the most common myths. | |||
| Episode 41 - Do you think I am autistic? | 16 Jan 2024 | 01:02:55 | |
Welcome to season 3 of Late To The Party. What a year it was. Thank you to all our listeners for their ongoing support and a big thank you to all our Party Poopers on the private group for their continued contributions. Everyone is welcome to join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726 | |||
| Episode 40 - Our Christmas Autistic Family Spectacular | 24 Dec 2023 | 00:57:35 | |
Bianca and Dan proudly present their unforgettable Autistic Family Spectacular. How our dear listeners choose to interpret the word unforgettable is up to them. This is not our usual format and dare we hazard to say the professionalism this episode is as on-point as getting your husband to wrap the presents. | |||
| Episode 39 - autistic teenagers | 28 Nov 2023 | 00:42:37 | |
On this episode Bianca and Dan talk all things teenager. Specifically, how different is the teenage experience for autistic people. With depression, anxiety and eating disorders being so prevalent for autistic teens, it is not a stretch to say that this period of your life can be the pits. Bianca and Dan also talk to some actual teens and compare their experience to their own. We also get some insights from one of our own Party Poopers. | |||
| Episode 38 - holiday guide for autistic travellers | 27 Nov 2023 | 01:15:07 | |
Have you packed your toothbrush? Never fear, Bianca and Dan take you on a journey of discovery as they discuss what it is like being autistic and going on holiday. To help us we invited special attaché party pooper Sonja as she regales us with her recent holiday with an all-neurodivergent cast of characters, Bianca and Dan provide you with some excellent tips and tricks to ensure your holiday goes smoothly. | |||
| Episode 37 - Autism and coping with Christmas chaos | 20 Nov 2023 | 00:58:24 | |
Bianca and Dan talk about the upcoming holidays, what we enjoy and what we struggle with. Most importantly they provide some excellent coping strategies (well some are pretty weird) to help you get through the silly season. Dan also shares some of his favourite Christmas themed music. See below for the playlist. | |||
| Episode 36 - Autism and anxiety | 08 Nov 2023 | 01:06:06 | |
Bianca and Dan have been absent for a few weeks and Chartreuse has something to say about that. Which leads us to this episode's topic. Anxiety. On a previous episode the listeners got to experience Bianca going through a tough stretch with her anxiety, and while she soldiered on it was clear the wounds were still new. But with time and perspective (and perhaps a little medication) she is ready to discuss that experience with us. We also get to hear from some of the Party Poopers and how they cope when their anxiety gets a bit too much. | |||
| Episode 35 - Rini from Wilderness Labs | 04 Oct 2023 | 01:06:45 | |
This episode has a smell of success about it. There is an aroma of positivity and friendship in the air as we speak to perfumer Rini, a late diagnosed autistic who owns and runs Wilderness Labs, an award-winning business that sells botanical Solid Perfumes and Lotion Bars. Rini talks about her life and her late diagnosis with such clarity and positivity. There are so many facets to her journey that others will associate with and if you are anything like the hosts, you will be inspired to try making your own perfumes or at least smell the world with a different nose. | |||
| Episode 34 - Make Autism great again? | 19 Sep 2023 | 01:06:13 | |
On this episode we dispel the idea that we need to return to better days. For an autistic person this is not a sensible or likely solution. We read a brilliant article from Kristy Forbes and look at common issues that autistic people experience when trying to just get life done. | |||
| Episode 33 - Why you need an OT with Charlinda Parsons | 12 Sep 2023 | 01:09:51 | |
This episode we speak with Occupational Therapist Charlinda Parsons. For anyone late diagnosed autistic or ADHD this is an incredibly informative conversation that provides insight into why an adult needs an OT just as much as any other age. | |||
| Episode 50 - Austism camp and celebrating our fiftieth episode | 22 Jul 2024 | 00:52:30 | |
In this milestone episode, hosts Bianca and Dan reflect on getting to our 50th episode relatively unscathed and with a troupe of Party Poopers joining the party (in their own time of course). Thanks to you all for your continuing support and encouragement. | |||
| Episode 32 - Autistic advocate Nicholas McMahill | 31 Aug 2023 | 01:18:13 | |
On this episode we get to speak to Nicholas McMahill. We have been following his journey on Facebook for a while now and have been so impressed by how much he has achieved in such a short time since being diagnosed Autistic. He is a Special Olympics athlete, a podcaster, YouTuber and is a strong neurodivergent advocate in his community. Dan and Nicholas have a great chat and lots of laughs. | |||
| Episode 31 - a psychologist's view on autism diagnosis - Laura Addabbo | 20 Aug 2023 | 01:17:03 | |
On this episode we discuss the merits of Dan's newly coloured beard against the legitimacy of Barbie with the help of the amazing Blindboy Podcast. Dan is given a new role at work which a lot of our Party Poopers will appreciate. Most importantly we get to speak to Dan (and Bianca's former) psychologist Laura Addabbo. For anyone about to go through the process of getting diagnosed be sure to check this one out. We get a fly on the wall experience of the process a psychologist goes through to determine whether you are Autistic or not, it really is an eye opener. | |||
| Episode 30 - Love on the Spectrum star Micheal Theo | 13 Aug 2023 | 01:01:52 | |
Thirty episodes, we are so proud of ourselves. And what an episode we have for you all. We speak to everyone's favourite actor and star of Love on the Spectrum, Micheal Theo. It was an absolute thrill for us, and we had such a fun conversation with him. This is not your boring typical interview. Michael gets to show his amazing acting chops and character voices with us as well as telling us all about what he has been up to. Michael shares some of his favourite tv shows and we get a exclusive glimpse of some rare items in his personal collection. We also start a new interview segment called 'Who Knows Michael Better' which was so much fun we will be using it again for other interviews. | |||
| Episode 29 - Autism and body dysmorphia | 25 Jul 2023 | 01:10:54 | |
This episode proves to be a difficult challenge for Dan as he opens up about his body dysmorphia. Dan, always the resilient chap, drops his guard and invites listeners to share his difficult journey from shame to revelation and hopefully acceptance. Please note this episode deals with eating disorders and may be triggering for some. | |||
| Episode 28 - Living with a neurotypical | 10 Jul 2023 | 01:00:42 | |
Bianca and Dan discuss the highs and lows of mixed relationships, those being neurodivergent and neurotypical. We look at the experience from both sides point of view and offer some practical advice on what you can do to maintain a happy healthy relationship. | |||
| Episode 27 - Friends and Autism | 27 Jun 2023 | 01:09:38 | |
Dan realises he has an apology to make, which is excellent timing given this weeks topic is about friendships. Bianca and Dan delve into their past to try and make sense of friendships lost and maintained. This is without doubt the most Autistic episode that has been recorded. Friendships are hard! | |||
| Episode 26 - The Last Of Us - an Autistic obsession | 20 Jun 2023 | 00:59:35 | |
On this episode Biance and Dan talk games, particularly The Last Of Us, and Bianca offers up a classic 'have you noticed.' | |||
| Episode 25 - What changed after Autism diagnosis | 05 Jun 2023 | 01:10:34 | |
On this episode Bianca and Dan want to talk about what happens after the diagnosis (this includes self-diagnosis) in terms of how it changes you. Do you behave more Autistic? Are other people saying this? How has it changed you. | |||
| Episode 24 - Interview with an Autistic Psychologist | 29 May 2023 | 01:14:03 | |
In this episode we are excited to share with you an interview with Autistic and ADHD diagnosed Provisional Psychologist Lynette Dickenson. Here are some videos of Lynette doing guided yoga. | |||
| Episode 23 - Getting your ADHD diagnosis | 15 May 2023 | 00:57:47 | |
This episode Dan takes you through his journey to getting an ADHD diagnosis. | |||
| Episode 49 - CEO of autism organisation Different Journeys Mel Spencer | 28 Jun 2024 | 01:01:36 | |
We are so happy to finally be speaking with Mel Spencer, the Chief Executive Officer of Different Journeys, is a fierce Autistic advocate. As a parent to three Autistic teenagers and an Autistic individual herself, she is committed to creating a more accommodating and accepting world for the Autism community. Mel co-founded Different Journeys to provide meaningful connections and empowerment opportunities for Autistic individuals and their families. | |||
| Episode 22 - Autism and anxiety | 03 May 2023 | 00:49:03 | |
There has been a longer gap between episodes than usual. And that has a lot to do with our subject this episode. Anxiety and Autism regularly share the same headspace and we discuss our own relationships with it. | |||
| Episode 21 - What is your face saying? Autism and masking. | 16 Apr 2023 | 01:12:23 | |
Bianca and Dan re-introduce themselves to our new listeners from all over the world. Dan manages to get a few logical fallacies through the wicket keeper. Bianca's Mum hates Dan's recent video posts. We talk about our Easter break and go more in depth about our masking. | |||
| Episode 20 - Easter mini episode. Games people play. | 12 Apr 2023 | 00:07:59 | |
Bianca and Dan are enjoying Easter holidays so please enjoy this mini episode. Bianca figures out Dans predilection for leading questions. They also discover some very strange games they played as kids and share tales of loneliness and imagination. They really should be called Bored games. | |||
| Episode 19 - Autism and comedy | 02 Apr 2023 | 00:59:47 | |
I installed an anti-virus on my computer. Now it has Autism. That's right, this episode is all about comedy. Bianca and Dan talk about the kind of humour they love and dispel the rumour that all Autistic people are humourless and do not get a joke. | |||
| Episode 18 - A powerful interview with an Autistic friend | 26 Mar 2023 | 01:23:44 | |
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| Episode 17 - We didn't meme to hurt you | 18 Mar 2023 | 00:59:25 | |
This episode contains more than your daily prescription of memes. Dan considers releasing an album of segment music given he seems to be writing a new one each week. This time it is a segment called Social Stories. | |||
| Episode 16 - We totally tapped that | 05 Mar 2023 | 01:02:02 | |
It is Episode 16. Thank you so much for your continued support. This episode we talk about our likes and dislikes and look for commonalities. Dan is given some news about his vocal stylings and Bianca tells us more about her home life than we probably asked for. “I have a foreboding of an America in my children's or grandchildren's time -- when the United States is a service and information economy; when nearly all the manufacturing industries have slipped away to other countries; when awesome technological powers are in the hands of a very few, and no one representing the public interest can even grasp the issues; when the people have lost the ability to set their own agendas or knowledgeably question those in authority; when, clutching our crystals and nervously consulting our horoscopes, our critical faculties in decline, unable to distinguish between what feels good and what's true, we slide, almost without noticing, back into superstition and darkness... The dumbing down of American is most evident in the slow decay of substantive content in the enormously influential media, the 30 second sound bites (now down to 10 seconds or less), lowest common denominator programming, credulous presentations on pseudoscience and superstition, but especially a kind of celebration of ignorance” ― Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark | |||
| Episode 15 - Am I not Autistic enough | 25 Feb 2023 | 00:59:11 | |
Like many other late diagnosed adults, we have to put up with verbal (and nonverbal) accusations of not actually being autistic, and we are up to here with it. Bianca and Dan offer their experiences around why masking is often confused with faking by some people. If you are not sure how to respond to these claims this is the episode for you. | |||
| Episode 14 - It's all your fault | 14 Feb 2023 | 01:01:13 | |
There is a twist this episode that sends tremors through the podcave. Our segment Compiment From Dan is turned upside down. What will be the fallout. | |||
| Episode 13 - Pimms and Pee | 05 Feb 2023 | 00:47:54 | |
Welcome to the second season of the podcast. Thanks for all the lovely feedback. Don't forget to keep passing the word and if you could add a review in iTunes or wherever you get the podcast it actually makes a huge difference. | |||
| Episode 48 - Listener Questions from our Party Poopers | 03 Jun 2024 | 01:01:47 | |
Bianca and Dan have much to discuss on this episode, from sex mad SIMS, weird stalkers, upsetting Ben Lee and much more. But most importantly there has been a flurry of activity over on the private Facebook page with some fascinating insights and questions. | |||
| Episode 12 - Christmas is crackers | 22 Dec 2022 | 00:55:20 | |
On this the final episode of Season 1, Bianca and Dan take you on a yuletide journey back into Christmas past, present and future. They discuss how Christmas looks for an autistic family and provide some tips on how to traverse the big day with family and all the sensory overload that comes with it. See you in 2023! Our Christmas song - Late To The Party This Christmas I'm late to the party this Christmas I'm late to the party this Christmas So I'm late to the party this Christmas | |||
| Episode 11 - The Date. A special mini podcast | 20 Dec 2022 | 00:05:05 | |
This is a special extra mini episode leading up to our final episode. It is a short piece written by Dan and inspired by a great comment from party pooper Sonja on a recent dating disaster. We hope you enjoy. | |||
| Episode 10 - dating and Autism | 06 Dec 2022 | 01:08:54 | |
For this episode we take a look at dating from the perspective of an autistic person. Dan and Bianca speak to their significant others about what it was like to date undiagnosed autistic peeps. Listeners get to appreciate Bianca and Dans acting chops of full display and we learn about what goes on in the Olympics village. Listen to Paige Layle talk about her experiences with dating | |||
| Episode 9 - Reigniting our spark | 20 Nov 2022 | 00:54:44 | |
On this episode we go back to our roots with a classic tête-à-tête loosely based around well-known autistic people and those we think could be. We delve back to some old tv shows and movies, none of which seem to be shared by Bianca and Dan. We also prepare for a speech that we both will be making at a party and Dan really needs to provide context a lot more often. | |||
| Episode 8 - School Daze | 07 Nov 2022 | 01:00:02 | |
On this episode we discuss the trials and tribulations of school life and we know you will relate to some of these experiences. Dan also took the opportunity to speak to his daughter Eloise about an issue she was having at school. Biance gives a thumbs down to Dans Autistic Moment so he goes overboard with sound effects to compensate. If you have an interesting Autistic Moment to share via email or even recorded, please send it our way. | |||
| Episode 7 - Eating disorders with guest Jessica Horner | 01 Nov 2022 | 00:55:47 | |
This episode we speak to Jessica Horner about eating disorders and their prevalence within the autistic community. We recommend you read her highly praised article over at ABC Everyday. Jessica is a Regional Storyteller Scholarship recipient for the Australian Broadcasting Corporation (ABC) and is focusing her scholarship on the topic of how autistic adults go about daily life in Australia through writing, audio and photojournalism. She is also a freelance writer, photographer and visual artist with a small art business called Spoonfuls of Whimsy.
How to approach someone you’re concerned about It’s normal to feel scared, confused, frustrated or upset when someone you know is experiencing an eating disorder. But intervening early can have a stark difference on an eating disorder’s severity and duration. If you’re not sure where to start, download the Eating Disorder Alliance’s factsheet, Early Intervention for Eating Disorders: Conversation Starters. | |||
| Episode 6 - Positively Negative | 24 Oct 2022 | 00:57:38 | |
On this episode we discuss positivity and negativity within the context of autism. How we see ourselves, how others see us, how we view the world and what we can do to change the prevailing negative view of being autistic. | |||
| Episode 5 - Part 2. Sensory Issues | 17 Oct 2022 | 00:40:23 | |
This is part 2 of our special on sensory issues. We have our very first guest, Julie Baker who is the Director at Sensory Matters and Sensory Friendly Clothing. Julie is also an Occupational Therapist and brings a wealth of knowledge and insights to the podcast. Bianca and Dan also get to test out some of the products and once again Dan embarrasses himself, this time with an inappropriate description for his sensory issue. | |||
| Episode 4 - Part 1. Sensory Issues | 10 Oct 2022 | 00:51:40 | |
In part one of our special on sensory issues Bianca and Dan discuss their vast array of sensory quirks and we also get to hear from Bianca's two daughters. Dan reveals an incredibly embarrassing incident in the segment Autistic Moments. Then on the next episode we have part two in which we have our very first guest, Julie Baker of Sensory Matters and Sensory Friendly Clothing. | |||
| Episode 3 - Workplace Blues | 02 Oct 2022 | 01:00:38 | |
In this our third episode our well dressed selves discuss what life is like for autistics in the workplace and offer some ideas particular in the arena of interviews. Join Dan in his total confusion regarding how Bianca gets a workmates attention. We have two brand new segments this time - Autistic Moments and Father Dan's Affetuoso. We talk about not wanting to be touched post Covid and Dan is completely making up the stealing stuff. | |||
| Episode 47 the queer and autistic experience with Koda - Part 2 | 07 May 2024 | 00:56:54 | |
We are so very proud to release part 2 with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. | |||
| Episode 2 - Diagnosis Fallout | 24 Sep 2022 | 00:47:26 | |
So you got your diagnosis or you have finally self diagnosed, either way there are consequences both positive and otherwise. In this episode we talk about our experiences post diagnosis. Along the way we discuss whether you should openly acknowledge your autism during a job interview, who should try medication and offer some book recommendations... even ones we have never read. References | |||
| Episode 1 - Introductions | 13 Sep 2022 | 00:34:38 | |
In this our inaugural episode we introduce ourselves and tell a little of our story into how we became aware of our Autism. And never fear, the sound improves in subsequent episodes. While Dan has been formally diagnosed Bianca is self diagnosed. We also delve into our childhood experiences and how it feels to look back with new insights. And finally, should Dan dole out the cash for another smile from co-host Bianca. Late To The Party respectfully acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the lands we record on, the Wurundjeri Woi Wurrung and Bunurong Boon Wurrung peoples of the Eastern Kulin and pays respect to their Elders past, present and emerging. | |||
| Episode 46 - the queer and autistic experience with Koda - Part 1 | 19 Apr 2024 | 01:00:23 | |
We are so very proud to release part 1 of a 2 part episode with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. Here is what was covered during just this episode - | |||
| Episode 45 - The incredible value of Support Coordinators | 03 Apr 2024 | 01:11:07 | |
On this episode we welcome Jason Crabtree from Bubble Support, a disability services and support organisation. Disability support coordinators play a vital role in improving the lives of individuals with disabilities. They assess needs, develop personalized support plans, coordinate services, monitor progress, advocate for participants, and link them with community resources. Their dedication contributes significantly to the well-being of those they serve. | |||