Explore every episode of the podcast Late To The Party - a podcast on Autism, AuDHD and Neurodivergence
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| Episode 67 - Kay Kerr: Writing, Memory, and our Urge to Belong | 05 Nov 2025 | 01:12:04 | |
On this episode of Late to the Party, I speak with acclaimed author Kay Kerr to explore the intricate connections between writing, memory, and identity. Kay shares her journey as an autistic writer, from her celebrated young adult novels Please Don’t Hug Me and Social Queue to her latest works, including Might Cry Later and contributions to Someone Like Me (for Australia, for International) We dive deep into topics like:
This conversation is a thoughtful look at neurodivergence, acceptance, and the ways we create meaning in our lives. Find Kay on Instagram and on her website. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. | |||
| Episode 66 – Designing Dignity, Part 2: Love, Loss, Laughter, and the Work That Heals | 09 Oct 2025 | 01:19:08 | |
In this follow-up conversation with Joanne Seymon, co-founder of Kaiko Fidgets, we go far beyond product design and neurodiversity. This episode dives deep into the human experience—touching on love, pain, parenting, grief, death, trauma, and the messy beauty of work that matters. Jo brings her signature warmth and wisdom as we explore what it means to hold space for others while navigating our own healing. From the raw edges of loss to the joy of shared laughter, this chat is a testament to resilience, connection, and the power of showing up—especially when it’s hard. Whether you're a parent, a practitioner, or simply someone trying to make sense of it all, this episode offers comfort, insight, and a few good chuckles along the way. Call to Action: Please consider helping me cover the significant costs making the podcast via Patreon. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. | |||
| Episode 57 - author Rini Puccetti's daily planner for neurodivergent individuals | 19 Dec 2024 | 01:23:15 | |
On this episode, Dan speaks with author and perfumer Rini Puccetti about her groundbreaking planner, designed to merge logical layout with emotional well-being. This planner is a game-changer for anyone seeking to bring clarity and balance into their daily routine.
Dan also welcomes a surprise guest you may know quite well. Guest Information:
Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. | |||
| Episode 56 - The Autistic and Neurodivergent brain on beliefs | 21 Nov 2024 | 00:53:49 | |
In this episode, we explore how our brains form and hold beliefs, even when they aren't factual. We discuss good vs. bad evidence, Autism and Identity Theory, and how personal experiences shape our beliefs. We also have fun with a fake product and read listener comments. | |||
| Episode 55 - Neurodivergent task management and organisation hacks | 28 Oct 2024 | 00:53:42 | |
Welcome to episode 55 of Late To The Party! On this episode we are exploring essential online tools and strategies to enhance executive functioning for neurodivergent individuals. From time management tips to organisational hacks, we’ll cover some practical online and app solutions to help you thrive. Plus, we’ll be sharing listener feedback and addressing another heartfelt apology from Bianca. Tune in for an insightful and supportive discussion! | |||
| Episode 54 - A BIG announcement OR Autistic people do not like change | 17 Oct 2024 | 00:56:15 | |
In this episode of “Late To The Party,” Bianca and Dan drop a bombshell with a shock announcement that you won’t want to miss! But that’s not all—we dive into a fascinating meme about mental health professionals that has been making the rounds over at Spectrumy, sparking some insightful and tense discussions. We also share an incredible piece of Listener Feedback explaining imposter syndrome that really hit home. Plus, our popular segment “Autistic Moments” features a hilarious and identifiable story from one of our listeners. Tune in for an episode packed with surprises, laughs, and shocks. This one is all about the big reveal, and trust us, it’s a game-changer! Check out memes author Dr Glenn Patrick Doyle here. | |||
| Episode 53 - Animal-Assisted Therapy with Maggie Broom | 04 Oct 2024 | 01:01:06 | |
Host Dan chats with Maggie Broom about the benefits of equine therapy. Maggie explains how working with horses can improve physical, mental, and emotional well-being. We talk about -:
Maggie's business Grey Horse Growth and Learning offers both personal development and therapy through the medium of horses. Clients can attend Equine Facilitated Learning sessions for personal growth and social skills development, or one hour sessions for counselling/psychotherapy. | |||
| Episode 52 - the relationship between Alexithymia and Autism | 10 Sep 2024 | 00:54:43 | |
Welcome to another episode of Late To The Party with your hosts, Bianca and Dan! 🎉 Today, we’re diving into a fascinating and important topic: the relationship between autism and alexithymia. Join us as we explore how these two conditions intersect, what it means for those who experience them, and the impact on emotional awareness and communication. We’ll be breaking down the science, sharing personal stories, and discussing strategies for better understanding and support. So, grab your headphones and get ready for an enlightening conversation. Let’s get this party started! | |||
| Episode 51 - Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria | 14 Aug 2024 | 01:11:03 | |
Welcome to today’s episode, where we delve into the often misunderstood world of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). This condition, closely associated with ADHD, manifests as an intense emotional response to perceived or actual rejection or criticism. | |||
| Episode 50 - Austism camp and celebrating our fiftieth episode | 22 Jul 2024 | 00:52:30 | |
In this milestone episode, hosts Bianca and Dan reflect on getting to our 50th episode relatively unscathed and with a troupe of Party Poopers joining the party (in their own time of course). Thanks to you all for your continuing support and encouragement. | |||
| Episode 49 - CEO of autism organisation Different Journeys Mel Spencer | 28 Jun 2024 | 01:01:36 | |
We are so happy to finally be speaking with Mel Spencer, the Chief Executive Officer of Different Journeys, is a fierce Autistic advocate. As a parent to three Autistic teenagers and an Autistic individual herself, she is committed to creating a more accommodating and accepting world for the Autism community. Mel co-founded Different Journeys to provide meaningful connections and empowerment opportunities for Autistic individuals and their families. | |||
| Episode 48 - Listener Questions from our Party Poopers | 03 Jun 2024 | 01:01:47 | |
Bianca and Dan have much to discuss on this episode, from sex mad SIMS, weird stalkers, upsetting Ben Lee and much more. But most importantly there has been a flurry of activity over on the private Facebook page with some fascinating insights and questions. | |||
| Episode 65 - Designing Dignity: How Kaiko Fidgets Is Changing the Game | 30 Aug 2025 | 01:03:20 | |
In this episode, we sit down with Joanne Seymon, co-founder of Kaiko Fidgets—a trailblazing Australian business born from lived experience and a deep understanding of neurodiversity. Joanne, an occupational therapist and mother to Kai, shares the inspiring journey of how a simple idea blossomed into a thriving enterprise that’s changing lives. From designing elegant sensory tools to empowering young neurodivergent individuals through meaningful employment, Kaiko Fidgets is more than a business—it’s a movement. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about creativity, compassion, and the power of purposeful design. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. | |||
| Episode 47 the queer and autistic experience with Koda - Part 2 | 07 May 2024 | 00:56:54 | |
We are so very proud to release part 2 with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. | |||
| Episode 46 - the queer and autistic experience with Koda - Part 1 | 19 Apr 2024 | 01:00:23 | |
We are so very proud to release part 1 of a 2 part episode with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. Here is what was covered during just this episode - | |||
| Episode 45 - The incredible value of Support Coordinators | 03 Apr 2024 | 01:11:07 | |
On this episode we welcome Jason Crabtree from Bubble Support, a disability services and support organisation. Disability support coordinators play a vital role in improving the lives of individuals with disabilities. They assess needs, develop personalized support plans, coordinate services, monitor progress, advocate for participants, and link them with community resources. Their dedication contributes significantly to the well-being of those they serve. | |||
| Episode 44 - Autistic self care post party | 14 Mar 2024 | 00:55:34 | |
So you had a big night and you have woken up exhausted. On this episode we explore the challenges of how to take care of yourself after a big night out. Attending big parties can be challenging for autistic individuals due to sensory overload and social demands. We offer some useful coping strategies that will help you deal with those next day blues. | |||
| Episode 43 - Autism and preparing for a party | 05 Mar 2024 | 00:59:32 | |
There is a reason we called the podcast Late To The Party. On this episode we explore the challenges of preparing yourself for an upcoming event. We provide some useful tips on how to get yourself ready for what can be an overwhelming experience. | |||
| Episode 42 - misconceptions about Autistic adults | 06 Feb 2024 | 00:52:40 | |
Welcome to episode 42 Party Poopers. Welcome to our podcast where we discuss the misconceptions surrounding autistic adults. Autism is a complex neurodevelopmental disorder that affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. Unfortunately, there are many myths and stereotypes surrounding autism that can lead to misunderstandings and discrimination. In this podcast, we will explore some of the most common misconceptions about autistic adults and provide accurate information to help dispel these myths. So, sit back, go for a jog, get medicated, whatever helps you chill, and join us as we explore the world of autism and debunk some of the most common myths. | |||
| Episode 41 - Do you think I am autistic? | 16 Jan 2024 | 01:02:55 | |
Welcome to season 3 of Late To The Party. What a year it was. Thank you to all our listeners for their ongoing support and a big thank you to all our Party Poopers on the private group for their continued contributions. Everyone is welcome to join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726 | |||
| Episode 40 - Our Christmas Autistic Family Spectacular | 24 Dec 2023 | 00:57:35 | |
Bianca and Dan proudly present their unforgettable Autistic Family Spectacular. How our dear listeners choose to interpret the word unforgettable is up to them. This is not our usual format and dare we hazard to say the professionalism this episode is as on-point as getting your husband to wrap the presents. | |||
| Episode 39 - autistic teenagers | 28 Nov 2023 | 00:42:37 | |
On this episode Bianca and Dan talk all things teenager. Specifically, how different is the teenage experience for autistic people. With depression, anxiety and eating disorders being so prevalent for autistic teens, it is not a stretch to say that this period of your life can be the pits. Bianca and Dan also talk to some actual teens and compare their experience to their own. We also get some insights from one of our own Party Poopers. | |||
| Episode 38 - holiday guide for autistic travellers | 27 Nov 2023 | 01:15:07 | |
Have you packed your toothbrush? Never fear, Bianca and Dan take you on a journey of discovery as they discuss what it is like being autistic and going on holiday. To help us we invited special attaché party pooper Sonja as she regales us with her recent holiday with an all-neurodivergent cast of characters, Bianca and Dan provide you with some excellent tips and tricks to ensure your holiday goes smoothly. | |||
| Episode 64 - Hyperfixations & Heartfelt Goodbyes | 18 Jul 2025 | 01:09:08 | |
Call to Action: Help support the podcast via Patreon. Dan sits down with his daughter Eloise for a wide-ranging, heartfelt, and occasionally chaotic conversation that spans pop culture, music, neurodivergence, and the state of the world. Dan calls Different Journeys CEO Mel Spencer with some really special news. Dan and Eloise take a deep dive into the social media phenomenon The Basement Yard, unpacking why it’s so addictive and what it says about humor. Dan even writes his own slam poetry! Eloise shares updates on her friend’s band — which Dan is recording — and we reflect on the joy of making original music, even when the band talks a lot between takes. Then we spiral into our shared hyper fixation: the TV show House. From Hugh Laurie’s brilliance to the show’s messy ethics, we explore why it still grips us years later. Dan opens up about his lifelong love of Brian Wilson, whose recent passing has left a deep mark. He shares a personal musical tribute piece at the end of the episode — a moment of reflection, gratitude, and musical reverence. We also get fired up about the complacency we see in today’s world. Where’s the rage? Where’s the accountability? We talk about the need for education, awareness, and action, especially around social justice and neurodivergence. And finally, we share some listener-submitted Autistic Moments — those beautifully honest, funny, and insightful snapshots of neurodivergent life that remind us why this podcast exists. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. | |||
| Episode 37 - Autism and coping with Christmas chaos | 20 Nov 2023 | 00:58:24 | |
Bianca and Dan talk about the upcoming holidays, what we enjoy and what we struggle with. Most importantly they provide some excellent coping strategies (well some are pretty weird) to help you get through the silly season. Dan also shares some of his favourite Christmas themed music. See below for the playlist. | |||
| Episode 36 - Autism and anxiety | 08 Nov 2023 | 01:06:06 | |
Bianca and Dan have been absent for a few weeks and Chartreuse has something to say about that. Which leads us to this episode's topic. Anxiety. On a previous episode the listeners got to experience Bianca going through a tough stretch with her anxiety, and while she soldiered on it was clear the wounds were still new. But with time and perspective (and perhaps a little medication) she is ready to discuss that experience with us. We also get to hear from some of the Party Poopers and how they cope when their anxiety gets a bit too much. | |||
| Episode 35 - Rini from Wilderness Labs | 04 Oct 2023 | 01:06:45 | |
This episode has a smell of success about it. There is an aroma of positivity and friendship in the air as we speak to perfumer Rini, a late diagnosed autistic who owns and runs Wilderness Labs, an award-winning business that sells botanical Solid Perfumes and Lotion Bars. Rini talks about her life and her late diagnosis with such clarity and positivity. There are so many facets to her journey that others will associate with and if you are anything like the hosts, you will be inspired to try making your own perfumes or at least smell the world with a different nose. | |||
| Episode 34 - Make Autism great again? | 19 Sep 2023 | 01:06:13 | |
On this episode we dispel the idea that we need to return to better days. For an autistic person this is not a sensible or likely solution. We read a brilliant article from Kristy Forbes and look at common issues that autistic people experience when trying to just get life done. | |||
| Episode 33 - Why you need an OT with Charlinda Parsons | 12 Sep 2023 | 01:09:51 | |
This episode we speak with Occupational Therapist Charlinda Parsons. For anyone late diagnosed autistic or ADHD this is an incredibly informative conversation that provides insight into why an adult needs an OT just as much as any other age. | |||
| Episode 32 - Autistic advocate Nicholas McMahill | 31 Aug 2023 | 01:18:13 | |
On this episode we get to speak to Nicholas McMahill. We have been following his journey on Facebook for a while now and have been so impressed by how much he has achieved in such a short time since being diagnosed Autistic. He is a Special Olympics athlete, a podcaster, YouTuber and is a strong neurodivergent advocate in his community. Dan and Nicholas have a great chat and lots of laughs. | |||
| Episode 31 - a psychologist's view on autism diagnosis - Laura Addabbo | 20 Aug 2023 | 01:17:03 | |
On this episode we discuss the merits of Dan's newly coloured beard against the legitimacy of Barbie with the help of the amazing Blindboy Podcast. Dan is given a new role at work which a lot of our Party Poopers will appreciate. Most importantly we get to speak to Dan (and Bianca's former) psychologist Laura Addabbo. For anyone about to go through the process of getting diagnosed be sure to check this one out. We get a fly on the wall experience of the process a psychologist goes through to determine whether you are Autistic or not, it really is an eye opener. | |||
| Episode 30 - Love on the Spectrum star Micheal Theo | 13 Aug 2023 | 01:01:52 | |
Thirty episodes, we are so proud of ourselves. And what an episode we have for you all. We speak to everyone's favourite actor and star of Love on the Spectrum, Micheal Theo. It was an absolute thrill for us, and we had such a fun conversation with him. This is not your boring typical interview. Michael gets to show his amazing acting chops and character voices with us as well as telling us all about what he has been up to. Michael shares some of his favourite tv shows and we get a exclusive glimpse of some rare items in his personal collection. We also start a new interview segment called 'Who Knows Michael Better' which was so much fun we will be using it again for other interviews. | |||
| Episode 29 - Autism and body dysmorphia | 25 Jul 2023 | 01:10:54 | |
This episode proves to be a difficult challenge for Dan as he opens up about his body dysmorphia. Dan, always the resilient chap, drops his guard and invites listeners to share his difficult journey from shame to revelation and hopefully acceptance. Please note this episode deals with eating disorders and may be triggering for some. | |||
| Episode 28 - Living with a neurotypical | 10 Jul 2023 | 01:00:42 | |
Bianca and Dan discuss the highs and lows of mixed relationships, those being neurodivergent and neurotypical. We look at the experience from both sides point of view and offer some practical advice on what you can do to maintain a happy healthy relationship. | |||
| Episode 63 - Understanding FASD: A Conversation with Christine Brooks | 02 Jun 2025 | 01:14:33 | |
🔔 Trigger Warning In this important episode, Dan sits down with Christine Brooks, Director at NOFASD Australia, to shed light on the often misunderstood and under-recognized condition of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD). Christine shares her insights into:
Call to Action: Help support the podcast via Patreon. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. | |||
| Episode 27 - Friends and Autism | 27 Jun 2023 | 01:09:39 | |
Dan realises he has an apology to make, which is excellent timing given this weeks topic is about friendships. Bianca and Dan delve into their past to try and make sense of friendships lost and maintained. This is without doubt the most Autistic episode that has been recorded. Friendships are hard! | |||
| Episode 26 - The Last Of Us - an Autistic obsession | 20 Jun 2023 | 00:59:35 | |
On this episode Biance and Dan talk games, particularly The Last Of Us, and Bianca offers up a classic 'have you noticed.' | |||
| Episode 25 - What changed after Autism diagnosis | 05 Jun 2023 | 01:10:34 | |
On this episode Bianca and Dan want to talk about what happens after the diagnosis (this includes self-diagnosis) in terms of how it changes you. Do you behave more Autistic? Are other people saying this? How has it changed you. | |||
| Episode 24 - Interview with an Autistic Psychologist | 29 May 2023 | 01:14:03 | |
In this episode we are excited to share with you an interview with Autistic and ADHD diagnosed Provisional Psychologist Lynette Dickenson. Here are some videos of Lynette doing guided yoga. | |||
| Episode 23 - Getting your ADHD diagnosis | 15 May 2023 | 00:57:47 | |
This episode Dan takes you through his journey to getting an ADHD diagnosis. | |||
| Episode 22 - Autism and anxiety | 03 May 2023 | 00:49:03 | |
There has been a longer gap between episodes than usual. And that has a lot to do with our subject this episode. Anxiety and Autism regularly share the same headspace and we discuss our own relationships with it. | |||
| Episode 21 - What is your face saying? Autism and masking. | 16 Apr 2023 | 01:12:23 | |
Bianca and Dan re-introduce themselves to our new listeners from all over the world. Dan manages to get a few logical fallacies through the wicket keeper. Bianca's Mum hates Dan's recent video posts. We talk about our Easter break and go more in depth about our masking. | |||
| Episode 20 - Easter mini episode. Games people play. | 12 Apr 2023 | 00:07:59 | |
Bianca and Dan are enjoying Easter holidays so please enjoy this mini episode. Bianca figures out Dans predilection for leading questions. They also discover some very strange games they played as kids and share tales of loneliness and imagination. They really should be called Bored games. | |||
| Episode 19 - Autism and comedy | 02 Apr 2023 | 00:59:47 | |
I installed an anti-virus on my computer. Now it has Autism. That's right, this episode is all about comedy. Bianca and Dan talk about the kind of humour they love and dispel the rumour that all Autistic people are humourless and do not get a joke. | |||
| Episode 18 - A powerful interview with an Autistic friend | 26 Mar 2023 | 01:23:44 | |
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| Episode 62 - Neurodivergent Threads: Weaving History, Communication & Growth | 30 Apr 2025 | 01:23:08 | |
Call to Action: Help support the podcast via Patreon. In this episode, I sit down with Lucy, a brilliant autistic young adult with a deep love of history, for a conversation that flows effortlessly—because when neurodivergent minds connect, there’s no shortage of things to talk about. We dive into storytelling and its impact on learning, how we perceive communication, and the power of diversifying your skills. Along the way, we explore evolution and the undeniable presence of autistic people throughout history. This episode is packed with thoughtful insights, personal perspectives, and plenty of moments that remind us why these conversations matter. Tune in and join the chat—you won’t want to miss it! Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. | |||
| Episode 17 - We didn't meme to hurt you | 18 Mar 2023 | 00:59:25 | |
This episode contains more than your daily prescription of memes. Dan considers releasing an album of segment music given he seems to be writing a new one each week. This time it is a segment called Social Stories. | |||
| Episode 16 - We totally tapped that | 05 Mar 2023 | 01:02:02 | |
It is Episode 16. Thank you so much for your continued support. This episode we talk about our likes and dislikes and look for commonalities. Dan is given some news about his vocal stylings and Bianca tells us more about her home life than we probably asked for. “I have a foreboding of an America in my children's or grandchildren's time -- when the United States is a service and information economy; when nearly all the manufacturing industries have slipped away to other countries; when awesome technological powers are in the hands of a very few, and no one representing the public interest can even grasp the issues; when the people have lost the ability to set their own agendas or knowledgeably question those in authority; when, clutching our crystals and nervously consulting our horoscopes, our critical faculties in decline, unable to distinguish between what feels good and what's true, we slide, almost without noticing, back into superstition and darkness... The dumbing down of American is most evident in the slow decay of substantive content in the enormously influential media, the 30 second sound bites (now down to 10 seconds or less), lowest common denominator programming, credulous presentations on pseudoscience and superstition, but especially a kind of celebration of ignorance” ― Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark | |||
| Episode 15 - Am I not Autistic enough | 25 Feb 2023 | 00:59:11 | |
Like many other late diagnosed adults, we have to put up with verbal (and nonverbal) accusations of not actually being autistic, and we are up to here with it. Bianca and Dan offer their experiences around why masking is often confused with faking by some people. If you are not sure how to respond to these claims this is the episode for you. | |||
| Episode 14 - It's all your fault | 14 Feb 2023 | 01:01:13 | |
There is a twist this episode that sends tremors through the podcave. Our segment Compiment From Dan is turned upside down. What will be the fallout. | |||