Jimmy Basset (He/Him) joins the show to discuss his personal time as a bootblack and the Take a Stand Event.

Video version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/119898861

(00:00:00) Patreon Readouts

(00:05:22) Jimmy’s History with Bootblacking

(00:10:43) Our favorite bootblacking Scenes

(00:17:38) Types of leathers

(00:22:12) Tips for beginners

(00:29:22) What is take a stand?

Jimmy: https://linktr.ee/bluebeaglepup

https://bsky.app/profile/bluebeaglepup.bsky.social

Take a Stand: https://takeastandwebsite.wordpress.com/

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I am joined by friends and fellow members of the London leathermen to discuss our experiences with the club.

We candidly talk about the highs and lows of helping to run a club.

London leathermen’s website: londonleathermen.co.uk

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Deco V.

Visiblerestraint returns to talk about his experience running and attending private play parties

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Deco V.

Craig and David give advice on how to take your first steps into your local community

video copy available for patreons here:

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Deco V.

Content warning: discussion of needles, piercings and discussions that touch on fatalities and abuse.

We go into an element of edge play where Rugger joins us to talk about using body mods in play and power dynamics.

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Deco V.

Southernsuiter joins Craig to talk about his suit fetish.

southernsuiter can be found at:

https://doyouwearlowshoes.wixsite.com/southernsuitorssmut/

https://mastodon.social/@SouthernSuitor

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Deco V.

This episode, both Hairyhypnotist and visibleRestraint return, along with boy Status, to talk about long term conditioning with hypno. aka brainwashing

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Deco V.

Craig sits down and talks with Visiblerestraint about his experiences and philosophy around bondage.

Visiblerstraint can be found at: https://visiblerestraint.com/

Thanks to our Goodboy Patrons:

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Ergo

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paul f.

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Deco V.

Returning guest D4ddy T joins us to talk about his experiences being a mentor in the leather community.

Thanks to our Goodboy Patrons:

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Buster

Deco V.

Today Sorn aka OrcinNewyork Joins Craig to explain the joys and mechanics of Bullying play.

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Deco V.

Craig and David Discuss kinks and scene ideas related to the gym.

Forced workouts, naked workouts, muscle worship and locker room cruising.

Thanks to @musclebull@woof.group for providing the photo for this episode’s cover art.

For bonus content, support us at patreon.com/kinkyboyspod

(00:00:00) Kink in the Gym

(00:00:42) Intro

(00:01:20) Listener Mail

(00:04:14) Is the Gym Sexy?

(00:18:27) Muscle Worship

(00:30:51) Forced Workouts

(00:38:49) Practical dificulties

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Deco V.

As a seasonal gift to you all, we are unlocking a bonus episode for all our listeners. Hairy Hypnotist joins us again to talk about what it’s like to be […]

We answer some anonymous listener questions.

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Deco V.

This Patreon only episode has been unlocked by our sponsor LED queens. Thanks to our Goodboy patrons: James E. Absolution Jack Pup Nixie Gareth Ergo Juha N. jmw Luke S. […]

The blogpost that inspired this episode: https://switch.london/diary-of-a-chastity-dom-joining-teamlocked/

SwitchLDN, aka Sean, joins us today to talk about his time being locked whilst continuing to Dom others.

We cover his experiences being locked, why he chose to do this, and how he worked it into play with his subs.

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Returning guest Banjo joins us to discuss himbos.

Why they seem to be having a cultural moment, why someone would be into playing into the stereotype of the himbo, what can himbos tell us about society’s view of intelligence, and what examples we can see in popular culture

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Deco Verri

Pup Snap joins us to answer your questions about fetish photography and to talk about his process

Snap can be found at:

https://pupsnap.net/

https://twitter.com/PupSnapUK

https://www.instagram.com/pupsnapuk/

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This episode, Chris from the teabags and joystixxx podcast to talk to us about head shaving scenes and enforced hairstyles.

We talk the scene, the aftercare, and the idea of doing forms of play that lasts weeks.

Thanks to our good boy patrons:

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English leather Master joins us today to talk about how to integrate kink with the rest of your life in a healthy way.

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We talk water sports and everything piss-play.

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A quick note for our listeners

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This week we talk about red flags in potential subs. CW: we do discuss instances of abuse.

Chapters

00:00:00 – Patreon Readouts
00:01:12 – Intro
00:07:33 – Not letting the dom ‘leave character’ or act softer
00:17:25 – Not being able to articulate or understand limits
00:22:28 – Responsibility
00:24:10 – CW : Abuse
00:28:52 – Not asking for a Dom’s limits
00:32:29 – Believing their version of a kink is an objective standard, not a personal style
00:39:04 – Expecting Doms to be a ‘fix’ for their issues
00:51:39 – Closing Thoughts

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Patrick M

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Jack

Deco V

We are joined by Felinyx to discuss Cat play, gender and role reversal.

Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod

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The wonderful Banjo joins us today to talk through many topics, but first and foremost why he considers himself a Dog, not a Puppy. We also go over banjo’s more niche fetishes, talk about our pop culture sexual awakenings, and his experience being bisexual on the kink scene.

Special thanks to our good boy listeners:

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Bullpup

Buster

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This week Craig sits down with Ollie from fetishdaddy gear as we hear why and how he got into making fetish gear.

Artwork by Matt spike

You can find fetish daddys website at https://fetishdaddy.co.uk/

Bullpup

Buster

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Logan joins our host Craig to talk the listeners through the fetish of trampling. What it is and how to get into it safely. Logan also talks about setting up and running his own social network for fetishes, the MxM Network: https://mxmifc.com/

Thanks to our Patreon good boys:

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Si from the teabags and joystixxx podcast comes over to talk about a very big, and very personal topic for the both of us. We go through how being on the autistic spectrum intersects with our kink lives and fetishes. We give an explanation of what living with ASD can be like and do a dive into how it informs who we are as kinky people.

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Craig and Arhzur look at ways to ensure two parts of your life don’t clash, and what to do to keep yourself safe from employers finding out about your kinky life.

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With so many people putting on weight thanks to lockdown, we thought it’s best to talk about loving your body even if you’re not entirely happy with how it looks now.

Master David joins us to talk about the methods to help with positive self-image, the roots of disliking your body and our own personal histories with dealing with our own bodies and to answer listener questions.

With thanks to the winner of our fatboy summer contest, Targurs, for our album art photo.

content warning: uses of the F-slur and discussion of emotional distress.

A listener email leads us to talk at length about internalized shame about our kinks.The places shame can lead you and the catharsis of being openly yourself.

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Our second episode on our listener mail. We talk at length about if Findom is a form of sex-work and go off on a weird little tangent on bitcoin

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We received a lot of feedback about Buster’s Findom episode, so we have dedicated an episode (well, it ended up being 2 episodes long) to answer your questions and one or two criticisms.

warning, towards the end we get capital P political and talk about our own political positions.

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We revisit erotic hypnosis and talk with David, a professional Erotic hypnotist, to pick his brain on the subject.

David takes us through what hypnosis is, and the many ways you can safely use it.

We also talk about his own efforts to build a space for the online community of guys into the fetish.

You can join up to his site at hypnoguys.com

and find his personal profile here

Or email him at hairyhypnotist@gmail.com

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This episode Craig and Arzur talk about designing your own play-space.

What considerations you need to take into account, how to utilize space, some theme ideas how to pick equipment you will actually use and much more.

We would love to see your playspaces and all the fun things you’ve done with them. just use the hashtag #kbPlayspaces so we can see and retweet/repost all your wonderful designs

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Today we interview author David Ledain about his new book: Having Gay Sex: A Guide to Male Homosexual Sex.

David can be reached at: https://twitter.com/DavidLedain

The book can be found HERE

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DomtopLad explains his role as a bull Cucking other men.

David Takes us through the 101 of spanking. We cover whats sexy about spanking, what implements you can use, how to structure a scene, safety and aftercare for a bruised ass.

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Today we discuss the history between the Gay leather community and the police, and the changing societal context around fetishising police uniforms.

00:00 Intro
04:45 Nazi Uniforms
08:45 History between LGBT people and Police
12:30 Uniform Fetish
14:45 UK Vs US policing
19:08 Changing trends in leather
24:00 LGBT’s reclaiming iconography
30:15 Queering Cop iconography
35:30 Fetishising ANTIFA
41:20 Wrapup

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Adam returns with new guest Mndfcuk to talk about their experiences and knowledge of Hucows, people doing cow and Bull roleplay.

Video version can be found at: https://www.patreon.com/posts/106500804

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MARK G.

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Ergo

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Off

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paul f.

Patrick M

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Jack

Deco V.

This Episode we do a deep dive into knowing when to stop. We talk limits, consent considerations how to set healthy boundaries with other and within yourself. Most importantly how to recognize when things are getting a bit out of hand.
CW: this episode features a live humiliation and degradation scene between Buster and Touko which includes use of the hard F.
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Returning guest Buster is joined by Bootblack Touko to Discuss the ins and outs of what a Healthy Findom relationship can look like.We discuss:- What is a turn on about using money for domination and the psychology of money as a form of power.- The difference between a healthy findom relationship and taking advantage of people- How public shaming of subs with a Findom fetish makes things worse.- How to keep things interesting- The difference between a Findom and a twitter cashmaster- Red flags and safety concerns

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Tokou can be found at:

https://twitter.com/bootblacktouko

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Today we talk about musk! The wonderful world of scent play.

What is musk 0.43

The psychology of a scent fetish 3.15

The science of scent 4.42

Play suggestions 10.12

safety 15.28

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The backing music for this episode is:

Slinky by Ron Gelinas Chillout Lounge | https://soundcloud.com/atmospheric-music-portal
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This episode we talk about all the fun you can have in front of a webcam, all the shiny new internet enabled toys available and how to maintain Dom/sub dynamics over a distance.