You’ve likely heard the saying “two sides of a coin.“  Which is exactly what this week’s podcast episode is about.  I help people whose loved ones have left their faith.  My guest Sara Rands is an associate clinical mental health counselor who helps people who are leaving or have left their faith.  Two sides of a coin.

Join us as we talk about the similarity in feelings both parties can experience, and the solutions that help build compassion and understanding, and help salvage and strengthen relationships.  

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Trusting God comes easily to some, but not to me. I have had to work hard to trust God when life gets hard. This episode tells another story of hitting a wall, an emotional wall, because I just couldn't go on living in fear any longer.

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Take control of your emotions and understand what truly triggers you. Certain comments and people may set you off, but you can take charge. By uncovering the root causes of these triggers, you create space for personal healing and pave the way for constructive conversations with others. In this episode, Shiree shares a powerful process she has used for over 10 years to manage intense emotions and heal relationships.

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In this episode, I interview Janette VanLeer, a Christian Transformational Coach and energy practitioner who has personally experienced the pain of loved ones leaving their faith.

Janette opens up about her journey of healing generational patterns within her family, emphasizing how she had to first recognize and make changes in her own life before she could find peace with those around her. Through this process, she was able to preserve and strengthen her most cherished relationships.

Tune in to gain many golden nuggets of wisdom from her inspiring story.

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You want to have an open and healing conversation with someone, but you're unsure how it will go. In the first part of this three-part series, you'll learn techniques to release intense and painful emotions, creating the space needed to approach the conversation with clarity and calmness. These valuable methods can be applied to any relationship, promoting faster emotional healing and healthier interactions.

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Join me as my husband, Kim Best shares his remarkable journey from growing up in a non-religious home to discovering and cherishing God as a young adult.

In this compelling narrative, Kim discusses his conversion, the challenges he faced as a father to children who chose different paths, and the profound experience that ultimately led him to a place of unconditional love.

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On this episode I tell two difficult personal stories about how trusting God in times of crisis can change everything. Tune in to learn how you too can stay closer to God to feel peace through life's storms.

Bonuses! CLICK HERE for the link to the new Just Love Them private Facebook group, where you can share your story, ask questions, and get support from others!

Sneak peak into the next episode, featuring my husband, Kim Best!

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Sierra courageously recounts her touching journey of navigating the challenging decision to depart from the faith of her upbringing. In doing so, she offers invaluable insights on maintaining relationships, fostering love, and respecting others amidst the complexities of personal growth and belief.

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In this episode, I reveal the backstory behind the creation of this podcast. From my days as a wound care nurse specialist to my current role as a life coach and podcaster, it was a path I never planned. When God is in charge, life can be full of unexpected surprises! The Facebook group I mention on this episode ...is here! Join HERE.

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At just 18 years old, Addy Herman, a formidable Ninja Warrior athlete and the newly reigning 2024 ANW Women’s Champion, shares her profound insights on faith, emphasizing the pivotal role of God in her championship journey. Addy’s remarkable wisdom extends beyond her years as she advocates for loving others wherever they may be in life.

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Candice, a faith-based Life Coach shares how what she learned through her divorce later helped preserve her relationship with her children and expanded her capacity to love them and others around her exactly as they are right now.

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This episode highlights a discussion with health and wellness guru Laura Jacobs, whose extensive experience working with thousands of individuals has provided her with profound insights into understanding people on a deeper level and meeting each person exactly where they are. To connect with Shiree, visit shireebest.com

If you are interested in taking the StrengthsFinder's test, click here. This will allow you to purchase the test; or if you buy the book, "Strengthfinder 2.0" it comes with an access code for the test. There is also a free online test (click here) that is not as inclusive, but allows you to get your feet wet.

Other books mentioned were "The Color Code" and "The 5 Love Languages".

Becky opens up about her experience of surrendering control over her child's choices during the pandemic. She shares the valuable lessons she learned, how the process changed her, and how she honed her 'mom ninja skills' along the way.

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Becky's articles on Medium:

A piece I wrote about her daughter's suicidal ideation:HERE

Her walk with her son during his moment of suicidal ideation: HERE

A piece about how meditation helped her heal the grief she'd felt after suffering from severe postpartum depression: HERE A piece that unfolds her eldest's journey as a surfer, and the super-loyal way the Harry Potter characters showed up for him: HERE Becky is a longtime and dedicated meditator. Her meditation web app is www.lotimus.com. She describes the app as world-building-meets-meditation. It features thirteen different journey worlds you can access for deep ease of being AND deep activation of the imagination.

When MaryAnn's children chose to step away from the faith they were raised in, it left her heartbroken and grappling with her own beliefs. Yet, through a series of perfectly timed events and heartfelt conversations, she not only found solace in her faith but also deepened her connection with her children. As a result, their relationship has flourished, bringing them closer together.

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Validation is something we all need as humans. Join me for a look at what validation is and isn't, and how to improve and heal relationships using validation language.

To receive a PDF of validating language, go to shireebest.com, and fill out the contact form on the home page, using the word "conversations" in the subject line.

To book a one-on-one call with me, go to shireebest.com and click on "book an appointment" on the home page.

Chad Shober is not just a spiritual mentor, writer, and poet; his journey began with aspirations of becoming a pastor within the faith he was raised in. In this captivating episode, he delves into the unpredictable twists and turns that shaped his present identity. Through his story, he imparts invaluable wisdom, reminding us that each of us must embark on our unique journey to discover our true selves. To access Chad's special FREE meditation sessions:

Go to shireebest.com and fill out the contact form on the home page, putting the word "Meditation" in the subject line.

Chad's next meditation on April 15th, 2024 at 8 PM ET.

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In this follow-up episode, Melonie bravely opens up about her son's journey through addiction. With heartfelt honesty, she shares the struggles, inspired help, and the invaluable wisdom gained along the way.

In our previous episode, Melonie unveiled part 1 of her journey, exploring her family members faith crises during their church mission. Now, join us for a special 10-minute bonus episode as Melonie shares the scriptures that sustained her through the storm and why they hold such significance.

Join in as we delve into part 1 of Melonie's story, whose family faced an unexpected faith crises during her and her husband's mission for their church. Discover how they weathered the storm and emerged stronger than ever. Tune in to learn the invaluable lessons that brought them back together as a family.

Next week, part 2: Faith, Love and Drugs.

In this episode, I open up about the profound challenges and rewards of self-forgiveness. While forgiving others can be difficult, forgiving oneself often presents an even greater struggle.

I'll share my personal journey, navigating through guilt, shame, and regret, towards a place of self-compassion and healing. Alongside my own experiences, I'll introduce a powerful technique designed to help listeners embrace self-forgiveness in their own lives. Join me as we embark on this empowering journey towards self-forgiveness together.

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Emil Harker, a seasoned marriage and relationship counselor renowned for his expertise in conflict resolution, joins me to delve into the intricate realm of family dynamics. Our conversation focuses on the challenges arising when older children within a household opt not to adhere to their parents' religious beliefs, thereby impacting the overall cultural fabric of the family. Emil provides valuable insights on how to effectively navigate and address these challenges.

You can connect with Emil at Emilharker.com

Julie grew up in a strict religious home. After she was grown, her father, a staunch religious man, suddenly became an atheist, leaving her to wonder what was true and what wasn't. Tune in as she shares her journey to find her own truth, and what valuable lessons she learned in the process.

Julie is a coach, podcaster, and professional speaker. She is best known for her ability to help leaders saturate their culture with human connection. You can connect with her professionally at www.julieleespeaks.com, IG @julieleespeaks, Facebook.com/julieleespeaks .

On this episode I interview my youngest daughter, who candidly shares her growing up experience in our over-strict home, coming to a place where she made her own choices for good or for bad, and what we have both learned as we have grown up together. Tune in for an honest conversation about our evolving story. Who do you know that would benefit from this podcast? Send them the link today.

Do you have questions about what family relationships will be like in the eternities, and how the choices our loved ones make here will impact them there? Tune in for a doctrinal discussion on what we know, what we don't know, and what ancient and modern prophets have said about this subject. To access the "Just Love Them" Facebook group, click HERE.

The references from today's episode may be accessed through the Facebook group, under the "files" tab.

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In this episode, I delve into my personal journey, opening up about the struggles and pitfalls of a destructive game I unwittingly played for years—a game that led me nowhere positive, only leaving me burdened with guilt and shame. Tune in as I reflect on the insights that ultimately guided me out of that detrimental pattern.

Jane opens up about the challenges she faced when her husband and multiple children decided to leave their faith, while she chose to stay true to hers. She candidly discusses the hardships she encountered, the pivotal moment that marked a turning point, and the efforts she made to prevent the family from being divided. Jane also reflects on how she managed to maintain the strength of her marriage and nurture strong relationships with her children throughout this journey.

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This week's guest is Julie—a grief specialist, healing coach, and the author of "Miracles in the Darkness." Loss takes many forms. Julie shares her own personal story of loss and guides us through the process of coping with unexpected life changes. In this episode, she sheds light on the transformative journey of grieving the life you once envisioned, both for yourself and others. Don't miss this insightful conversation on resilience and the miracles that can emerge from even the darkest moments.

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Dive into the extraordinary life of Candice. As a mother of six, accomplished Physical Therapist, Wellness Coach, and thriving entrepreneur, Candice shares her raw and real journey. Join us as she shares navigating her obstacles, exploring the lessons learned from her missteps, and an inspiring revelation of how she's turned adversity into a powerhouse for helping others. To connect with Candice: www.candicenoss.com

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Powerful parenting course: https://candicenoss.com/candices-courses/parenting-class/ To apply to be on this podcast: Fill out the "contact" form at Shireebest.com

Explore Jeff's journey of non-belief and resistance against authority from the time he was young as he shares his compelling story. Discover the pivotal moments that not only softened his heart but also brought profound transformation, ultimately bringing him to where he stands today.

In this very first podcast episode I unfold the tale of raising my children within the framework of my religious upbringing, only to have 6 out of 7 follow a different path. Join me as I candidly share the hurdles, the emotional pain, and the evolution that brought me to a place of profound love.

Do you struggle emotionally with people you care about who have left their faith? This short trailer will detail what this brand new podcast is all about, and how it will help you.

A few weeks ago, I interviewed Camber Hess, a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, who shared her insights on maintaining a strong marriage during her husband's transition to the Catholic faith. In this episode, I speak with her husband, Isaac Hess, who offers his experience and valuable wisdom on navigating differences in a marriage—wisdom that can benefit any relationship. How to connect with Shiree:

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Ernie Harker, a father and former bishop of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, offers unique insights from his experience counseling youth and parents. He also shares his journey of maintaining a strong relationship with his child who left the faith, highlighting the lessons he learned along the way.

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Having a relationship with the Savior is paramount to allowing Him to carry your pain and sorrows. In this episode, Shiree describes how she developed a relationship with Christ, and how that ultimately led her to discover a way to utilize His atonement to help her give her burdens to Him. This episode includes the thing that made a difference for her the most in learning to love and accept her children's choices.

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Dr. Matt Draper is a gifted psychotherapist, a tenured professor at UVU, and a prolific author with over 30 works and papers to his name. He provides unique and valuable insights into the challenge of accepting and loving people who make different choices than we do. Dr. Draper explains the four dimensions of thought—ways of thinking that influence our behavior and relationships. By understanding these dimensions, we can improve our interactions with others, fostering empathy and connection. He uses personal examples from his own life to illustrate these concepts, offering practical guidance for navigating the complexities of human relationships with those we care about the most.

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In this week's episode, we wrap up our 3-part series on healing conversations. Discover a unique technique that delivers instant, profound results for you and your loved ones. Though different from the methods shared in parts one and two, this approach is equally powerful. Join me for this transformative conversation. Join the "Just Love Them" private Facebook group HERE.

Sign up for a free one-on-one mini session with me HERE.

Camber and her husband began their marriage sharing the same beliefs. However, as time passed, her husband’s beliefs evolved, leading him to join a different religion. Join me as Camber recounts her journey, sharing her emotions as she navigated this significant change, and how she ultimately found peace and love. Her story may offer insights that can help you in your own relationships.

(Part 2 , her husband's story, will take place in an upcoming episode.)

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I recently discovered new insights that have altered the way I pray. Join me as I share what I've learned about what to pray for, what not to pray for, and how to make prayer a more powerful part of your life. I'll also offer a simple formula to help you find the best answers to your prayers.

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Join me for a special conversation with "Talking Scripture" co-host Bryce Dunford as he shares what we can learn from the different approaches of ancient brothers Ammon and Aaron , and how it can help you today in your relationships.

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Author Becky Kemp knows the power of words—they changed her life. Join us as she shares her journey, revealing how words transformed her experience and how they can do the same for you, especially in challenging times.

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Healthy emotional distancing can help restore balance in an unhealthy relationship.

Join Shiree as she explains when, where, and how to use this approach, the benefits it brings, and personal stories of transformation from her own life.

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Accepting God's plan of agency can be incredibly difficult when a loved one's choices feel deeply wrong. Join us as Julie shares her journey of coping with her missionary-hearted daughter's decision to leave the faith after returning from her mission, and how she ultimately found peace and healing. Free gift! 3 Simple Ways to Get Answers From the Scriptures HERE. The Laws of Peace podcast HERE.

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In this episode, Shiree shares her recent discoveries about stillness—its meaning, how it shows up in life, and its ability to calm emotional turmoil. She shares her experiences on how practicing stillness can create a sense of peace and resilience during life's most challenging times.

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This episode features returning guest and relationship specialist Emil Harker. We dive deep into the challenges of living with loved ones who have different values and beliefs. Emil shares insight into setting healthy boundaries, fostering mutual respect, and maintaining meaningful connections within the same household. Whether you're navigating family dynamics, cohabiting with adult children, or managing shifting beliefs in family members, this conversation offers valuable guidance on how to create a harmonious home environment despite differences. Connect with Emil Harker at ⁠emilharker.com⁠ or through email at: emil@emilharker.com

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Can you love someone who makes different religious choices without agreeing with them? What's the line between love and support, and how do you navigate it? In this episode, we dive into these questions to help you understand and find a balanced approach.

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Life's toughest trials can feel overwhelming and heavy. In this episode, Shiree opens up about a difficult experience and reveals how gratitude helped lift her burdens. Tune in to learn a powerful gratitude technique that can transform how you feel in challenging circumstances.

You can connect with Shiree at ⁠shireebest.com⁠, at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com, and on the ⁠Just Love Them ⁠Facebook page.

Ann Washburn, a dynamic keynote speaker, mentor, and body language expert, joins us to discuss how we can often be our worst enemy, our biggest critic, and our judgiest judge. She sheds light on misunderstandings within our belief systems and how rethinking these perspectives can open the door to greater freedom and peace in our lives, both for ourselves, and for those we love. 3 FREE audiobook gifts from Ann for listening to this episode! ⁠HERE⁠ Access her Ted Talk ⁠HERE⁠ Ann's email is: ann@3keyelements.com

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Did you know that you have angels around you? Tune in to this episode to learn more about the promises you have been given, and hear experiences that may help you recognize moments when angelic help was with you, even if you didn’t realize it.

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This replay of my first episode with Emil Harker from March 2024 is one of my absolute favorites! Emil, a dynamic and high-energy relationship specialist, dives deep into the art of listening to understand. His insights reveal how this powerful yet often overlooked skill can transform the way we connect with loved ones, resolve conflicts, and build stronger, more meaningful relationships. Whether you’re looking to improve communication with a partner, family member, or friend, this episode is packed with practical advice and inspiration to make a real difference. Contact Emil at Emilharker.com Contact Shiree at Shireebest.com

In this brief replay from earlier this year, Melonie shares two profound answers from prayers and scriptures that transformed her perspective and brought her joy. During this special season, I hope her insights inspire you to find joy and rejoice as well.