Explore every episode of the podcast IVF Uncovered
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| EP 140: Doctors vs. Me: 9 Surprising IVF Showdowns! | 23 Oct 2024 | 00:40:12 | |
In this episode of IVF Uncovered, I share the differences between my views and those of many traditional doctors. Listen in as I give an in-depth explanation of these "9 surprising IVF showdowns." I also get into how chronic health issues, such as inflammation and mold toxicity, can impact IVF results and why a holistic and personalized approach might be more effective. Join me as we navigate this complex journey together and leave feeling empowered to make informed decisions for your fertility treatments.
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| EP 139: Silent Saboteurs: Mold Toxicity and Infertility Unveiled with Lauren Takata | 09 Oct 2024 | 00:48:54 | |
In this detailed discussion, Lauren Takata shares her journey from working as a functional medicine expert for fertility to specializing in mold toxicity training. The conversation delves into the symptoms of mold exposure, its impact on gut and neuro health, and the importance of testing for mold toxicity. Lauren recounts her personal experience with her children's severe symptoms, linked to mold exposure in their home, and the path to recovery through identifying and treating the underlying mold issues. The discussion also provides insights into different approaches to treatment, the relationship between environmental toxins and fertility, and the significance of optimizing diet and lifestyle for overall health. Learn how to identify potential mold exposure in your environments and seek appropriate testing and treatment to address health challenges that might be associated with mold toxicity.
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| EP130: Getting Pregnant Naturally After 40 with Lauren Hanna, Founder of Sacred Fertility Yoga | 13 Mar 2024 | 00:34:13 | |
Lauren Hanna, founder of Sacred Fertility Yoga, shares her personal journey of successfully getting pregnant naturally at the age of 45 after various fertility treatments. Listen in as she and host, Tasha Blasi, discuss the importance of balancing the mind and body, adopting a receptive approach, and practicing mind-body techniques to reduce stress. Lauren also shares a breathing practice to promote relaxation and discusses the essence of motherhood in relation to energy and lifestyle.
About Lauren Hanna Lauren Hanna is the Creator of Sacred Fertility Yoga, which is union of Lauren's academic, spiritual, and personal experiences. After a tumultuous fertility journey, Lauren got pregnant naturally with her daughter Jaya at age 45. A student of Yoga for over 30 years and a teacher for over 25 years, she also holds a master's degree in Clinical Social work and Post Graduate degree in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. She is a Certified Yoga Teacher, Prenatal Yoga Teacher, and Yoga Therapist. She is in the process of writing her book, Seven Steps to Sacred Fertility Yoga to be released in 2024. As well as a book on Fertility and Loss which is co-authored with Nancy Mae. Lauren's genius is helping women over 40 believe they can get and stay pregnant using the wisdom of Yoga.
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What You'll Learn
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| EP40: Fertility Diet Hits and Misses with (my husband) Brian Pannuzzo | 04 Nov 2020 | 00:45:01 | |
Most of us are fed ideas of what healthy and ideal lives look like from the diet, wellness and fitness industry. For women, this tends to mean we are in constant diet mode: losing 5 pounds for the vacation, a few pounds over here for the wedding, take some off over here after the holidays. Nutrition can get especially confusing when there are so many "miracle" diets and quick fixes preaching that they are the best for your health.
Brian Pannuzzo is a nutrition and health coach, and, well, my lovely husband and the father to our two (expensive) children. When he is not coaching his own clients, he helps my patients identify trends in their diet and nutrition that may be preventing them from getting pregnant and how to create building blocks for a healthier lifestyle.
On this episode of the FU Project, Brian and I talk about the importance of what you're putting into your body, how you're doing it, and tips and tricks for making a more nutritious lifestyle easier. Brian identifies the ideas that the wellness and fitness cultures feed us from day one and the dieting patterns it creates in our lives. Listen to find out how to reclaim your nutrition to better your fertility journey and life.
What You'll Learn
"We have seasons of our lives and our nutrition should match those seasons." - Brian Pannuzzo
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| EP39: Path to Parenthood with Melissa | 28 Oct 2020 | 00:14:04 | |
Meet Melissa…
The doctors couldn't tell Melissa exactly why she wasn't getting pregnant through IVF. Instead, they just gave her the (scary low) odds of her actually getting pregnant with her own legs and left the decision up to her. When I met her, Melissa was about to get an egg donor after two failed rounds of IVF. Listen to how we successfully prepared her for IVF and how her fertility journey allowed for her to gain a stronger, healthier mindset.
What You'll Learn
"I went from being not able to handle my best friend being pregnant to being totally fine with it. It is a total shift in how I see things and how I think about things now. "
Resources Mentioned
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| EP38: How to Co-Collaborate with Your Fertility Doctor | 21 Oct 2020 | 00:39:03 | |
The relationship you have with your fertility doctor is really important. But most of the time, these "relationships" tend to be one sided, where you are expected to just sit and wait for the doctor to do their magic or for science to be on your side. Now, say this with me: For a relationship to be productive, it can't be one sided.
When we think of doctors, we think of people whom we should just trust and expect to have the answers. Believing this prevents a lot of healthy dialogue from happening, especially when it comes to your fertility journey.
On this episode of The FU Project Podcast, I break down how you can create a balanced relationship with your fertility doctor by examining the current structure of doctor's offices, what to look for in your visit and how to be your own advocate. Tune in to learn how to reclaim your confidence in the doctor's office.
What You'll Learn
"I want you to protect your own investment into this business" - Tasha Blasi
Resources Mentioned
How to connect with Tasha
How to get involved If you would like more information about The FU Project and my mission to get you pregnant so much faster and smarter than I did, please check out my website.
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| EP37: Path to Parenthood with Hanna | 14 Oct 2020 | 00:15:24 | |
Meet Hanna…
Hanna was doing everything perfectly to get pregnant. Perfect diet and even quit her job to reduce the stress, but she still couldn't get pregnant. When we met, she'd had 4 miscarriages and was preparing for IVF. Listen to how we successfully prepared her for IVF, how "less was more" for her personal focus and intensity towards her fertility journey (because she allowed me to take off the pressure), and how she never even got to an embryo transfer before she got pregnant.
What You'll Learn
"Mindset and support were the two major things that I think impacted why I was able to get pregnant on my own..."
Hanna
Resources Mentioned
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| EP36: Path to Parenthood with Melanie | 30 Sep 2020 | 00:11:52 | |
Meet Melanie…
She already had a daughter from IVF previously, so why was she not able to get pregnant again? When I met her she had 3 failed transfers with genetically normal embryos and a very reluctant doctor who did not want to make any changes. It was with her last embryos that we were able to get the doctor to do things differently. She credits her fertility journey with making her a better mother and something that made her grow up a lot. Listen to how she found her confidence to stand up to her doctor who refused to make changes and what she wants to teach others in her situation.
What You'll Learn
"It made me patient, it made me a better mother and it helped me not take anything I have for granted…" - Melanie
Resources Mentioned
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| EP35: Path to Parenthood with Brittanya | 16 Sep 2020 | 00:15:48 | |
Meet Brittanya…
When I met her she was repeatedly told by her doctor that she had "bad eggs". In the first two egg retrievals with her doctor, she produced 2 Day 3 embryos and in the last egg retrieval, she didn't even get to fertilization of the one egg she had. Listen to this conversation about how she got over many medical issues getting in the way of her fertility treatments (and how that correlated to her fertility issues) and, when she was able to finally do another egg retrieval, how her egg count more than doubled after doing the work to clear space and create energy.
What You'll Learn
"It's been LIFE CHANGING! Having a much better sense of my intuition far exceeds the cost savings of insurance…" - Brittanya
Resources Mentioned
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| EP34: Don't Consider Egg Preservation Until You Know This | 26 Aug 2020 | 00:05:35 | |
Have you ever seen those pop-up shops around town offering egg preservation at ridiculously affordable prices? Fertility treatments can get expensive quickly. So I understand how saving a little money on part of the process can seem appealing. But, and this is a big but, you need to remember that this pop-up shop is going to have your eggs!
On this episode of The FU Project Podcast, Tasha breaks down why who is handling and housing your eggs matters, including how to evaluate whether or not a clinic is a good candidate for the task. Tune in to learn how to ask yourself the important questions about egg preservation and get one step closer to the ultimate goal - a baby. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote from the Episode "You don't actually want to freeze your eggs. You want to one day eventually make a baby. And those are two very different skill sets."
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| EP33: Evaluate a Clinic with These Questions | 19 Aug 2020 | 00:25:09 | |
Description: Your fertility journey can leave your head spinning, and between dealing with insurance and knowing what questions to ask your fertility clinic, ish gets real crazy, real quick. Navigating the process successfully requires perseverance, patience and being your own advocate.
On this episode of The FU Project Podcast, Tasha goes over "15 Questions You Must Ask Your Fertility Clinic", why you must be your own advocate on your fertility journey, and what types of answer you should be looking for from the people here to help you achieve your ultimate goal - growing your family. Tune in to gain the confidence you need to evaluate and select your fertility clinic. What You'll Learn:
Quote from Episode: "This is too expensive of a journey to get wrong." Resources Mentioned:
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| EP32: How 'Creating Space' Helps You Get Pregnant Faster | 15 Jul 2020 | 00:33:47 | |
Most of us have seen an episode of Hoarders, right? All that junk piled up, suffocating the space and the people inside it. Well, your body can get that way too. And when that happens, the clutter you've accumulated can seriously impair your chances of getting pregnant. On this episode of The FU Project, Tasha breaks down the keys to creating "space" in your body and your life, including how your body orders its priorities when under stress, being careful about the messages you send your brain for the sake of energy efficiency, staying active as a way to declutter and other vital tips as you navigate your fertility journey. Tune in to learn how to sweep away all the junk that's holding you back. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "This is a gift. Yes, I just said your fertility issues – your prolonged fertility journey - is a gift. Because if you know that there is an issue with how you have been doing things, if you are aware (awareness is key) of the physical or mental signs that something is off, you get a chance to change something that will improve the rest of your life." - Tasha Blasi Resources Mentioned:
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| EP31: How to Gain Extraordinary Courage for Your Fertility Journey | 08 Jul 2020 | 00:28:14 | |
Fertility issues come with a hurricane of emotions - most of them will not be positive. But coming through the process successfully requires strength, perspective and, most importantly, the wisdom to open up and be vulnerable. On this episode of the FU Project podcast, Tasha analyzes the shame and judgment we put on ourselves as we grapple with fertility issues, why vulnerability is the better part of courage, and the relationship between greatness and discomfort. Tune in to find your strength in the face of shame and uncertainty. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "Know for a fact that you're going to get hurt and judged and burned, and it's going to be worth it. It's going to be so worth it because you are in the arena to win and achieve. Instead of sitting back and watching everybody's life become extraordinary, you get the chance to have an extraordinary life." - Tasha Blasi Resources Mentioned:
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| EP129: How to Be a Bad Ass Boss of Your Life and Fertility Journey with Maja Miller – Part 2 of 2 | 07 Feb 2024 | 00:28:33 | |
Learning to trust your instincts and seek second opinions in your medical care is invaluable as a woman. In this episode, Tasha and Maja Miller continue their discussion and dive deep into what it means to be a badass boss of your life and your fertility. They share their experiences advocating for themselves and their children in the hospital and offer tools and lessons they've learned along the way. They also discuss the importance of taking care of oneself as a mother, making informed decisions when it comes to medical treatment, and the need to break the cycle of giving power away.
About Maja Miller
Maja is a Metabolic Health Coach, Clinical Functional Nutritionist, and owner of Maja Miller Wellness. She has worked with over 10, 000 women, 1, 500 of which have been within her online programs. Her signature program includes the Adrenal Detox, the Inside Out Protocol and Next Level. Learn more and schedule a call with Maja at majamiller.com
What You'll Learn
· Advocating for Yourself and Your Children · Tools and Lessons for Self-Advocacy · Breaking the Cycle of Giving Power Away · Importance of Informed Consent and Second Opinions · Taking Care of Mama is Taking Care of Baby · Challenging the Medical System
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| EP30: Succeeding at Secondary Fertility Issues | 01 Jul 2020 | 00:14:20 | |
There are a million issues you might encounter along your unique fertility journey. Unfortunately, this often means facing a huge obstacle without all the information you need - which is why the experiences of other women who have been where you are will be your best weapons. On this episode of The FU Project, Tasha goes through what you need to know if you are grappling with secondary fertility issues, including all the reasons secondary issues are worse than primary, how everything changes (inside and out) between your first and second times around, and why your babies really are going to be the perfect fit for your family, no matter what. Tune in for the wisdom you never knew you needed (but trust me - you do). What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "Whether you believe in God, the universe, angels, or even the child's choice of how and when he or she shows up, embrace that. Love that, be open to that. Understand that it's not up to you. This is somebody else's choice. And whatever happens, however he or she chooses to show up, who chooses to show up is going to be perfect. Absolutely perfect." - Tasha Blasi
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| EP29: Can Environmental Toxins REALLY Affect My Fertility with Ashleigh Frager | 17 Jun 2020 | 01:05:09 | |
So much of where our passion comes from has to do with where we've been. Once we experience the cure for our own issues, we often can't help but find a way to help others access it, too. Ashleigh Frager is a holistic wellness expert, homeopathic practitioner, and founder of clean-living brand Back to Basics. After experiencing critical health conditions caused by environmental toxin exposure, and through her own journey back to health, her perspective on how we approach wellness radically shifted. Ashleigh pursued a doctorate-level education in homeopathy, opened a thriving homeopathic practice, and developed an innovative and highly effective approach to address the root causes of her clients' symptoms and health conditions, which she uses to help clients overcome a wide range of conditions, including infertility. Through coaching and her work with Back to Basics, she aims to empower you with all of the tools she has acquired through client work and her own health journey. On this episode of the FU Project, Tasha and Ashleigh discuss creating an environment that allows your body to thrive in its own power, how food and product companies slip toxins under the radar, and how to navigate choosing healthier products and discerning tricky labels. Listen in for new, vital information on how to detoxify your life. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "I firmly believe that our bodies are highly intelligent systems, and we can never tweak them as perfectly as they can themselves. So I'm of the approach that we just give our bodies the best fighting chance that we can to be able to thrive, and part of that is creating an environment where we're not constantly taxing our systems, especially not with endocrine-disrupting chemicals." - Ashleigh Frager How to connect with Ashleigh
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| EP28: Is My Negative Past Affecting My Future Pregnancy with Sarah Nolan | 20 May 2020 | 00:50:40 | |
Most of us are so caught up in our own stress that we fail to remember how vitally important peace, stillness and clarity are to every aspect of our lives, inside and out. And if you're trying to conceive and raise healthy, happy babies, this is doubly true for you. Sarah Nolan is a full-time homeschool mom of two boys and an energetic management consultant to parents and business owners. Her journey started after suffering severe anxiety that negatively impacted her pregnancy and birth experience, and how she showed up as a mom afterward. After reaching rock bottom with anxiety and depression, she decided to reprogram her mind from the inside out, and experienced nearly instant changes in her thinking and behavior. Now she helps her clients remove the blocks that restrict their happiness, performance, and fulfillment. On this episode of The FU Project, Tasha and Sarah dive into the incredible transformations that come from doing the work to de-clutter ourselves, the realities of trauma in our lives and the lives of those around us, overcoming the harmful beliefs that distract us from our priorities, and how regaining leadership over our minds and bodies can lead to miracles, large and small - including successful, healthy pregnancy. Listen in for just the spark of hope your day needs. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "I view trauma as a wound. And you can't show up as yourself when you have that wound. So it causes all kinds of beliefs like I'm not worthy, I'm not good enough, I don't deserve it...People tend to get easily distracted from their biggest priorities so that they don't ever really get done the things that they want to get done in life." - Sarah Nolan How to connect with Sarah
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| EP27: Brilliant Life Balance During IVF and Beyond with Cherylanne Skolnicki | 06 May 2020 | 00:46:03 | |
High-achieving women - moms especially - are under a lot of pressure day-to-day. It seems like there's a million things to get done in the next 24 hours, so how on Earth are you supposed to make time for that thing you so badly want to find a space for? In fact, it all comes down to balance. Cherylanne Skolnicki is the founder and CEO of the Brilliant Balance Company, and she's on a mission to help all working moms feel like rock stars. From her early days at a Fortune 500 company to today as she leads a vibrant community of women, she's become a go-to expert and trusted advisor for ladies who want to get the most out of life. Cherylanne is also a sought-after speaker, host of the top-rated Brilliant Balance podcast, wife, and mom to 3. On this episode of the FU Project podcast, Tasha and Cherylanne break down the process by which Cherylanne helps women break out of a depleted state and into power, productivity and purpose, including putting foundational balanced practices in place, how the work promotes a healthy space for pregnancy, and the vital importance of clarity in pursuing what you want. Listen in for a spark of encouragement as you seek to create. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "And you learn you're not alone. I've seen this before. There's great power in that because now there's hope. And as soon as you put hope back into the picture, everything changes." - Cherylanne Skolnicki
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| EP26: How to Exercise During Fertility Treatments | 22 Apr 2020 | 00:17:03 | |
There is a mentality around exercise – and really health in general – that doing more means you're doing it right. However, as you progress on your fertility journey, that line of thinking starts to fall apart. All the grinding you're doing could be throwing you out of alignment and delaying the pregnancy that you're working so hard for. On this episode of the FU Project podcast, Tasha breaks down some of the common misconceptions around exercising for health, the different types of recovery that exist to uniquely suit you, and strategies for bringing yourself back into balance so that you can create. Listen in to get centered as only you can. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "When things reproduce, that means that there is an abundance. You cannot reproduce when there is scarcity of something." - Tasha Blasi
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| EP25: Pause Your Fertility Treatments When This Thing Happens with Tasha Blasi | 15 Apr 2020 | 00:33:46 | |
Do you know when to stop giving and start receiving? If you struggle with fertility, it can feel impossible to dig past the noise and stress you're experiencing and tune in with your mind and body to remove the clutter and replenish the good - but once you do, your path changes for the better. After having two babies of her own from 10 rounds of IVF, Tasha Blasi began to recognize the bad information being given to women going through fertility treatments, as well as the anxiety and doubt being experienced by those women. She founded the FU (Fertilitites Unite) Project to walk mothers-to-be through their own personal fertility journey and boasts a 99.5% success rate for those that work with her. On this episode of the FU Project podcast, Tasha dives deep into ways that your body is telling you to hit the brakes on your fertility treatment, exactly how and why you need to declutter, both mentally and energy-wise, and how to pay attention to important changes in yourself on your journey. What You'll Learn
Favorite Quote "In order for us to get the chance to grow and create, no matter what it is in our lives, you have to expect major fails so that we can learn and we can correct"
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| EP24: Fertility Public Policy in an Evolving World with Barbara Collura | 23 Oct 2019 | 01:01:06 | |
Barbara Collura is the president and CEO of Resolve: The National Infertility Association. Her work has played a vital role in changing and creating laws, policies, and wording around the fertility industry. Barbara is a nationally recognized expert on infertility and the journey to creating the family you've always wanted. She's worked with the World Health Organization (WHO) to develop infertility definitions and clinical guidelines as well as the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) on the clinical definition of infertility. She also served on the advisory council of the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development at the National Institute of Health (NIH), and she's a frequent speaker at medical conferences. Barbara shares her expertise on public policy issues that impact patient access and clinical care. She's passionate about her mission to give others the same support and resources that helped her in her own battle with infertility.
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| EP23: Ancient Healing Secrets for Modern Women with Herbalist Andrea Beaman | 16 Oct 2019 | 00:51:23 | |
Andrea Beaman is an internationally renowned holistic health coach, author, natural food chef, speaker, and herbalist. She's also my hero. Andrea was named one of the top 100 Most Influential Health and Fitness Experts, she's the recipient of the Natural Gourmet Institute Award for Excellence in Health-Supportive Education Andrea also received the Health Leadership Award from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. She's definitely someone you want cooking for you. Andrea teaches you how to harness your body's preventative and healing powers with nutritional practices that align with your environment and unique biochemistry. She teaches nutritional practices that are seasonal, local, and organic. Her approach is rooted in ancient healing principles that focus on the physical, emotional, and spiritual factors that contribute to good health.
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| EP22: Breaking Negative Narratives with Actress and Addiction Specialist, Rosa Blasi | 07 Aug 2019 | 00:47:06 | |
"Change what you can and accept what you can't." - Episode 22 (5:57 - 6:02) IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Are you held down by your feelings? Stressed and anxious day in and day out on your fertility journey? As it just so happens, my older sister can help. Rosa Blasi has premiered in over 300 episodes of television and film over a 25-year career in Hollywood. However, the beloved actress has more than just incredible acting talent and good looks going for her, with a Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology and a specialization in addiction recovery. Learning the proper skills to handle your default emotional responses will free you from years of a negative narrative! "It's important to remember that feelings are temporary and they are not facts." - Episode 22 (18:50 - 18:56) One of the foundational teachings of Buddhism states that the fastest way to suffering is an attachment to the outcome. How could you possibly detach from the outcome of your next round of IVF, you ask? The concept to accept what we can't control may feel impossible. The good news is there are so many factors you can control on your fertility journey - diet, exercise, sleep, and most importantly, your feelings! The four-step process to regain power over your emotional well-being.
Self-awareness doesn't blossom overnight! It takes practice to change your narrative into a positive one. You're going to fail at first. That's okay. Work through the four-step process and shed your default emotional responses and addictions to stress and anxiety. Remember to start small with what you can change. Then accept what you can't. Place the rest in the universe's hands as you sing out your intention. An answer will come soon enough. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP21: How to Master and Change Your Life with Audrey Hazekamp | 31 Jul 2019 | 01:05:17 | |
"Practice, practice, practice. It doesn't make perfect, but it does make mastery." - Episode 21 (1:01:10 - 1:01:15) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Do you want to unlock your full potential? Audrey Hazekamp is a master game-changer who can help you get rid of all the gunk in your way! As an Integrative Life Coach, Audrey provides a whole system approach based on intelligence and discovery. She has recently been described as a "stealth guided missile of love" who nurtures radical transformation that sustains real and practical change. If you want to not only survive but thrive, then look no further. Audrey believes you can step into a place of limitless wholeness as soon as today!
Are you willing to do whatever it takes to create an experience of wholeness for yourself? Take charge!
What would happen if you actually believed this as truth on your fertility journey? If the idea seems far fetched or scary, then start small. Pick just one of the five points above to work on this week for a sense of wholeness. Keep in mind that mastery results from consistent daily practice. The sooner you start the sooner you can find yourself, your confidence, and step fully into motherhood. Begin today. Come to the edge and take one small step forward. A life of fulfillment awaits. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP128: Minerals are Magical Mama Makers with Maja Miller - Part 1 of 2 | 24 Jan 2024 | 00:35:28 | |
In this episode of IVF Uncovered, I talk with guest Maja Miller about the wonderful world of minerals and their impact on health, particularly reproductive health and fertility. We dive into the crucial role minerals play as 'magic' building blocks in our bodies, affecting everything from metabolic processes to pregnancy and postpartum health. Maja highlights the importance of balanced minerals and outlines how she determines if her clients' minerals are out of balance through a medical history and various clinical labs. This is foundational stuff that so many of us are not aware of. You'll definitely want to tune in for this one!
About Maja Miller
Maja is a Metabolic Health Coach, Clinical Functional Nutritionist, and owner of Maja Miller Wellness. She has worked with over 10, 000 women, 1, 500 of which have been within her online programs. Her signature program includes the Adrenal Detox, the Inside Out Protocol and Next Level. Learn more and schedule a call with Maja at majamiller.com
What You'll Learn
· The importance of minerals for our body · The role of minerals in fertility, pregnancy and postpartum health · Balancing minerals for better health and wellness · Determining mineral imbalance
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| EP20: Elevating the Conversations Around What It Really Takes to Become Pregnant with "Pregnantish" Creator Andrea Syrtash | 24 Jul 2019 | 00:53:39 | |
"We always hear first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby carriage. That is not necessarily true anymore for millions of people. We're skipping steps." - Episode 20 (24:33 - 24:43) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. The ultrasound image on your friend's social media feed hits you like a sucker punch as you sink into the couch from another unsuccessful round of IUI. It's another "whoops I'm pregnant!" announcement, the third in the last five weeks (not that you're counting). Are you the only one physically struggling, financially hurting, emotionally worrying, and medically fighting to become a mother? No! You're not. Mainstream media has failed to raise public awareness on what it really takes to become pregnant. In fact, they have neglected to openly discuss fertility issues at all! Andrea Syrtash is on a mission to break that taboo. The Relationship Expert and Creator of "Pregnantish" has created the first media website for those navigating through fertility issues and treatments. You, along with every single, couple and LGBTQ, are invited to join in the conversation!
After the removal of a massive fibroid tumor in 2012, Andrea had no idea it would be almost a decade before she became a mother. It wasn't until 18 fertility treatments, 2 drop-out surrogates, and 1 volunteer surrogate (Andrea's cousin) later that her healthy baby girl, Arielle, arrived. During that time, Andrea was struggling to find any online publications beyond medical advice that offered personal support for those dealing with fertility issues. It was out of this frustration for well-balanced material that the concept of "Pregnantish" was born. Andrea wanted to read real stories from real people with real fertility issues. Now, you can! Here are some of the helpful topics Andrea has elevated into conversations. The Non-Linear Path of Fertility. The stories you read about celebrities who get pregnant after one round of IVF are what we call extremely lucky cases. Most women experience many twists and turn on their journey towards motherhood. Expect the unexpected. Some moments will be magical, others heartbreaking, but all eye-opening. Buckle up! Stay open to all the options available to you. New Perspectives. Fertility issues can define and punctuate your life. However, it is possible for you to resist being completely consumed and maintain your sanity. Ask yourself what is working well in the midst of this terrible situation? Try to take inventory of all the good in the midst of your pain. Andrea found the mantra, "I'm sad and I'll be okay," to be extremely helpful as she worked to find new perspectives in her own journey.
The Gift from All of This. We know it's hard to believe right now. But your perfect baby will come. When they do, you will never take for granted being a parent. That doesn't mean you're not allowed to pull your hair out and complain every now and then! It just means the significance of the gift of parenthood is cherished even more so because of your incredibly hard journey.
- Episode 20 (45:45 - 45:56) Life is not a straight line. Nor should you expect your fertility journey to be. There are so many small details and nuances that go into becoming pregnant. However, there is only one thing you should really know at this point. Do you want to be a mother? Then you will. Trust that everything else will fall into place. When you feel discouraged, uncertain, or confused connect with the community of others on "Pregnantish" for support. You don't have to quietly deal with all of this alone. We are all here for you. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP19: Easily Answering Impossible Questions with Intuitive Healer Isabelle Otero | 17 Jul 2019 | 01:09:37 | |
"Once you hand over control, it's a relief of pressure. You ultimately know that the universe, your angels, God has your back." - Episode 19 (48:31 - 48:45) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Are you doing everything right and questioning why you still can't get pregnant? Isabelle Otero may have your answer. Isabelle is the Founder of Crystaline Heart and is an Intuitive Healer who works to open channels of enlightenment. Through her own battle with debilitating anxiety, she has learned how to properly heal through the use of hypnosis, heavenly angels, meditation, and visualization. She believes that you can break free from whatever is holding you back from reaching motherhood by connecting with the psychic energies of this world!
Here are four spiritual techniques Isabelle highly recommends. Hypnosis. Before you shrink into a corner, we're not referring to carnival tricks that make you cluck like a chicken in a crowded room of spectators! Modern-day hypnosis is way less humiliating and far more helpful. It's a painless technique that enables you to tap directly into the subconscious mind. There, within the pool of early memories and experiences recorded from childbirth, the therapist moves through a set of skilled questions. The hope is for you to clear out decades of garbage. But willing active participation is key for successful and immediate results. Heavenly Angels. Believe it or not, the spiritual world is a powerful realm we all have access to anytime, anywhere. Angels are real messengers with the primary purpose to bring peace and help. All you have to do is ask! It doesn't matter your religion, ethnicity, or sexual identity. These ethereal beings are non-denominational and universal. Go ahead! We challenge you to reach out with both large and small requests from a successful round of IVF to being able to quickly find an available parking space. Just remember divine timing doesn't always align with yours. Stay patient. Meditation. The best way to hear the messages of the universe in regards to your impossible questions is by meditation. No, you don't have to sit perfectly still on a round cushion in double pigeon! You just need enough of a pause that will create space to connect and listen in. That could mean a bike ride or an hour of yoga! The more you continue to engage in your spiritual practice the more you build your intuitive muscle. However, keep in mind the nature of duality. An exploration into the spiritual is bound to reveal both light and dark forces. Visualization. The practice of visualization is an absolute must for mothers-to-be. It's a powerful tool for the manifestation of our true heart's desires. Begin to imagine or physically write out your unborn child's features and characteristics. Realize that their energy is already here. Don't be afraid to connect with them in the midst of their transformation to our earthly world. Your love is key to their arrival. The heart emits the highest frequency of energy like a lighthouse across the sea. Its beams of love will call your unborn child into this world.
There's just no denying it! Something greater, stronger, and entirely good is behind the scenes of your fertility journey working for the best possible outcome. The clock of divinity knows the right time for your pregnancy. Are you willing to place your trust in its hands? Surrender. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP18: Creating Lives and Laws with Chick Mission's Amanda Rice | 10 Jul 2019 | 00:44:28 | |
"This isn't about politics. This is about policies that will really help women and couples to build the families of their dreams." - Episode 18 (30:36 - 30:53) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Amanda Rice has caused some great commotion in the legislative branch of the U.S. Federal government. For good reason! Did you know that most healthcare insurance companies deny coverage for cancer patient's fertility preservation? This social advocate and three-time cancer survivor is on a mission (a Chick Mission to be precise) to reverse this! Through her nonprofit organization, Amanda advises, educates, and fundraises to overcome the many barriers young cancer patients face. There's plenty of work to be done, and you can help! "Between 95-97% of cancer patients diagnosed as young adults, survive. What does life look like after you have this battle, crush and beat cancer? What's next? Can they not have a biological family?" - Episode 18 (6:12 - 6:38)
There is a limited amount of information and resources available to young cancer patients who dream of motherhood. Let's create a conversation to get the facts straight!
Fertility Options. The ugly truth is a woman can become sterile after undergoing various drug therapies and cancer treatments. But there is hope! If you're really running out of time, you have the opportunity today to manipulate your cycle and freeze your eggs. Reach out to a fertility specialist or head to ASCO, the American Society of Clinical Oncology, to see what is recommended. Cancer Lingo. There are so many factors that could affect a young cancer patient's fertility. A specific diagnosis of the type and location of cancer, whether it is estrogen or progesterone related, etc. will lead to a recommended plan of attack. This could include medication, chemotherapy, or radiation far away or precisely to the reproductive organs. It's important to understand your specific case and risk profile before jumping in. Limited Healthcare Coverage. While Amanda was able to fund her own egg preservation without coverage, she knew others wouldn't be able to. It was out of this frustration that Chick Mission was hatched. Though the nonprofit is still fairly new, it has already funded 27 women in 4 different states and changed 6 state laws. The most recent win was the newly passed New York state budget. Thanks to Gov. Cuomo insurance companies are now mandated to cover cancer patients' fertility preservation. It's a huge step, and Amanda looks forward to expanding the same mission into Texas and California.
There are three ways you can get involved and aid Amanda's mission!
If you are a young adult currently diagnosed with cancer, and wondering what's next, then take heart. You have so many fertility options available to you! Use your voice to ask questions and advocate your needs. Whatever this journey brings, we'll face it together.
With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP17: How to Improve Your Fertility Experience with Mindset and Relationship Coach Kate Rouze | 26 Jun 2019 | 01:03:23 | |
"The most effective change requires doing things differently both on a mental and a physical level." (4:40-4:49) The IVF Uncovered Podcast Kate Rouze, our mindset and relationship coach for the FU Project Workshop, teaches women how to improve their mindsets and relationships during the crazy fertility process. This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. The key to changing your life is to realize that you can actually change and that there is a huge mind-body connection. This happens when you break the internal victim dialogue of "I am this, because this happened." Where are you on the Drama Triangle? The Drama Triangle: Victim, Villain, Hero You are in Drama Triangle anytime you criticize yourself or someone else, are stressed out, or have repeating emotions and thoughts. The Drama Triangle model, created by Stephen Karpman in the 1960s, represents three different roles you can play while in drama:
When filling one of these roles on the Drama Triangle, anyone you are interacting with will play one of the other two roles. Most of us are in some version of the Drama Triangle dance all day long, every day, with everybody. "Everything on the Drama Triangle is a flavor of victim. The antidote to victim is empowerment, which is saying, "I am creating my life.'" (EP 17 33:59-34:10) While you can't choose what someone else says or does, you can choose how it affects you. You can choose to be a victim or you can choose to grow and be stronger because of it. Relationships and the Fertility Journey The most frequent relationship question we get from women on the fertility journey is how to get more support from their partner. If you're asking this question, the answer is simple. If you want more of something, start by appreciating what you already have. It's when we start thinking we have a lack that relationships go downhill. "I receive exactly the amount of support that I am capable of receiving. So if I want more support, my job is not to go tell my partner what they're doing wrong. My job is to go inside and expand my own capacity to receive." (EP17 42:49-43:24) The fertility journey can bring tension and friction into our relationship with our partner. When this happens, awareness is the first step to change. Often the issue at hand isn't the REAL problem. When you give yourself the space to look at the underlying issue, you'll understand yourself and your partner in a new way. It's amazing to see how this intentionality can melt away those issues that have caused one million fights for partners over the years. The Most Important Skill for Women Struggling with Fertility The fertility journey brings up every edge in your psyche that you haven't been willing to address. The most important skill you can learn is to flow with and then let go of those emotions so that you're not carrying around stress, anger, bitterness, and resentment. This fertility stuff is intense. Women who choose to work through these issues have a strong chance of getting what they want because they've allowed themselves to receive the support they need. Give yourself the freedom to dig deep, adjust your mindset, and take one step closer to holding that precious baby in your arms.
Tasha
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| EP16: Top 11 Red Flags to Catch in Your Fertility Journey | 19 Jun 2019 | 00:40:51 | |
"You need to stop and fully serve, fully love, and fully energize yourself. Stop taking the blame and giving, giving, giving. Redirect and focus that energy back onto yourself." - Episode 16 (28:30 - 28:53) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Back before my two perfect children, I was so desperate to conceive that I disregarded many bright red flags flapping violently in my face. What was I thinking? What are you thinking? In hope of saving you some drama, I've listed the red flags that I consistently see women bypass in their fertility journey. They are the deal breakers often cleverly disguised as the best options for moving you forward, but could quite possibly be holding you back from motherhood.
Here are 11 red flags to be on the lookout for so you can maintain enough energy to safely reach your final destination.
"You have to love yourself fully before you should bring in another being, another relationship, into your life. Especially a child." - Episode 16 (26:48 - 27:02) You can't possibly make the journey into motherhood if you're completely sucked dry. You need a sufficient amount of emotional, physical, and financial energy. This week evaluate the areas of your life where you may be wasting your limited amount of resources. Look for any bright red flags flapping violently in your face and heed their warning. Remove any toxins such as discouraging support groups, unhelpful doctors, or negative thoughts. Overcome whatever is inhibiting you from fully loving yourself to move as swiftly as possible along your fertility journey towards motherhood. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP15: Who Does and Does Not Need a Fertility Coach? | 12 Jun 2019 | 00:32:27 | |
"If you are going to join a coach and their program with a very specific process that shows you how to get pregnant, then you really have to trust them." - Episode 15 (18:26 - 18:41) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Are you thinking about hiring a fertility coach? Well, brace yourself! What I'm about to say may come as a shock. Coaching isn't for everyone. The truth is you have a limited amount of precious resources including time, money, and energy. It is important to create protective boundaries and choose wisely in how you spend them. Evaluate your current situation to decide whether hiring and utilizing a fertility coach could be a time saver or a time waster on your journey to motherhood.
People today use coaches for many different reasons. The most common is to swiftly and efficiently fulfill an intended goal. In the case of all you Fertilitites, that goal is pregnancy! Here are three situations where I would suggest you immediately hire a fertility coach.
If any of the above isn't resonating with you then hiring a fertility coach would be a time waster and not a time saver. You must be able to fully trust, let go of your ideas on how your journey should look, and agree to follow a structured plan to successfully utilize a fertility coach. Are you willing to surrender? It's okay if you're not. But if you are, then you can begin to look for the right fertility coach. A good place to start would be asking for referrals. However, remember that even the most promising referrals don't always pan out. Don't give up! Continue to research your many options. Listen to your feelings when reading through a fertility coach's online content. Everything should vibe. Your intuition should be screaming, "Hell yes! I like this person!" But most importantly you should feel confident in your ability to trust them. "There are plenty of people out there that are able to help you. You just need to find somebody that you can trust." - Episode 15 (17:45 - 17:57) Are you still not clear on whether you need a fertility coach? Complete a quick list of pros and cons! As you read over it, take out any reasons that may hinder you from successfully getting pregnant. Then in your mind's eye fast forward a year from now to the worst case scenario. If you're sickened by the thought of still not being pregnant, then it's pretty clear you shouldn't invest in a fertility coach. But if the thought doesn't bother you, even when considering the worst, then I'd say go for it! Only you can weigh the cost and determine if a fertility coach would be worth your precious resources. Choose that which will save you time and not waste it to hold your baby as soon as possible!
Tasha
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| EP14: So You Might Need an Egg Donor Soon? | 05 Jun 2019 | 00:32:12 | |
"If you're willing to love your child unconditionally, then you are in a great space to accept the potential need for an egg donor one day." - Episode 14 (15:52 - 16:04) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. No woman wants to hear a doctor recommend she use another woman's eggs for pregnancy! It can feel defeating. However, the procedure is just one of the many opportunities available for you to have the family of your dreams! Open yourself to this as one possibility and change your mindset to determine whether you are ready to take the appropriate steps in choosing and using an egg donor.
Each and every child should be perceived as an energy that will someday transform into a physical body. Regardless of whether they are naturally conceived or not, their outward appearance, specific characteristics, and time of birth are beyond your control. Thankfully, you are able to control the amount of love you give whenever and however they do show up! You must be willing to love your child unconditionally in spite of this. Without a mindset of unconditional love, you will be unable to move forward as a successful parent, period! With this mindset, you can healthily continue your journey into motherhood and accept the possibility of using an egg donor. There are four steps you should take when choosing.
"I want you to remember you are a mom. You are going to be a mom." - Episode 14 (3:06 - 3:14) At the end of the day, what your doctor says is not always absolute. It's your call. If you do decide to use an egg donor, then be ready to share a magnificent story with your children of the search to grow a very special seed in Mommy's belly. Stress how thankful you are they chose to show up and sprout at the exact time and way that they did. Let them know your love is unconditional. Regardless of the option you choose, your perfect child will come at the perfect time. Have faith and get ready to love them as they manifest into their spectacular uniqueness. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP13: Do It or Skip It: Egg Preservation | 29 May 2019 | 00:14:07 | |
"You must pick the best lab before you ever consider Egg Preservation." - Episode 14 (4:17 - 4:27) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Recently, on two separate occasions, I was approached by a middle-aged woman asking whether it was a good idea for her to freeze their eggs. I wasn't surprised. The race to preserve unfertilized eggs is a growing trend amongst women protective over their shot at motherhood. However, there is much to consider before you invest thousands of dollars in Egg Preservation. Learn the facts to determine whether this is a good idea for you!
Understand the facts of Egg Preservation to assess whether it would be best for you to try or skip.
"One of the cons to egg preservation is you don't really get a look at your ability to make embryos. You just get a look at your ability to make eggs." - Episode 13 (12:56 - 13:15) Egg Preservation is a great option for just about every woman, even those with cancer. If you're about to undergo intensive treatment, then I'd highly suggest checking out the Chick Mission. They are a non-profit organization that helps cancer patients ensure their fertility future. Otherwise, I can't stress enough how important it is for you to have the right clinic for Egg Preservation. The only con is the procedure itself doesn't tell you more than your ability to produce eggs. Listen back to my last edition of "Do It or Skip It" on Episode 9 to review a list of options available. As long as you educate yourself on all your options, and understand all the facts, you have the power to choose the best path to motherhood. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP12: Designing Your Life with Janelle Lara | 22 May 2019 | 00:39:36 | |
"It's not black and white. It's not you can only have a baby through IVF or naturally. It's not that you work from home or become a stay at home mom...you can design whatever life you want, even if you've never heard of it before." - Episode 12 (2:36 - 2:51) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Imagine what it would feel like to spring out of bed in excitement for the day ahead. What would life look like? The exciting news is you actually have the power to manifest your dreams into reality! You are the architect, should you accept the amazing responsibility to design the blueprint of your life. If you don't believe me, just ask Janelle Lara, founder of the Part-Time CEO. Janelle is a full-time mom and part-time business strategist/coach who knows you can have it all. Her belief is that all women, new moms, soon-to-be moms, and YOU have the power to build a life in alignment with the heart's true desires. I know this is a bit different than our usual topic of discussion here on the FU Project! But it is crucial for every woman wherever they are at on their fertility journey to understand the power within their hands. A power that you can embrace as an architect who listens, surrenders, trusts, and stands firm as you design the life of your dreams. "When your options are limited, sometimes you end up creating something that is a lot more creative than you ever would've done before." - Episode 12 (10:55 - 11:03) Even if you haven't allowed yourself to dream beyond the comforts of your reality, let's wipe any mud off the windshield to see clearly ahead. Begin to draw the blueprint for the life of your dreams in four steps.
"The sooner that you can listen to the signs, surrender to them, and know that this is the down that will propel you up so you can see more clearly, the sooner you can reach the life of your dreams." - Episode 12 (37:07 - 37:24)
There is not one way and one way alone to conception. There is not one career choice best suited for a mother. You can pick and choose according to what's best for you and your family. The sky's the limit and the universe wants to help. So stay on the lookout for any clues along the way that will guide you in the right direction. When the path seems overwhelming, impossible, or outrageous, have faith. Especially when your gut says yes. Focus your eyes ahead and stay selective and protective of where you spend your limited time and energy. The more you open yourself to possibility the more conscious you become of what you can actually achieve. But don't take my word for it! It's time for you to take hold of your power. Become the architect of your life today and design the life of your dreams! With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP11: The Truth About Egg Quality with Chris Axelrad | 15 May 2019 | 00:52:59 | |
"If you want a baby, then let yourself want it. Want it with all your heart and be fearless about it. Desire moves us towards what we want." - Episode 11 (25:13-25:31) The IVF Uncovered Podcast Your body is always working for you. This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Often women who are trying to get pregnant feel shame about their body and believe that it's broken and working against them. In reality, your body is trying to do everything right. You just need to get out of the way and let it do what it was created to do. Chris Axelrad runs the Axelrad Clinics in Houston. He is an extremely talented acupuncturist and herbalist for those trying to conceive. He's written the book, Awakening the Seed, which is a compilation of the knowledge and wisdom he has acquired over the years from treating fertility issues, not just on a physical level, but on an emotional and spiritual level as well. In his work with thousands of women with fertility issues, Chris started looking for ways to simplify the process so that his clients could do the focus on the most important things that would lead to the most optimal egg quality in the shortest amount of time.
- EP11 (15:23-15:36)
Slowing down and calming down is far easier said than done. The fertility struggle triggers deep primal fears that you're going to die if you don't have a baby. After all, babies are how the human race survives. But, when you're constantly discharging energy with the high-intensity emotion that comes from this fear, the energy won't be able to go to the eggs. Finding meditations, like some that can be found in Chris' book, can help to calm your nervous system so it isn't discharging so much energy.
Love and the Fertility Journey Wanting a baby is a beautiful thing, because what one actually wants when they want a baby is to experience unconditional love. We remember the unconditional love from when we were babies and we want that again. You don't have to wait to have a child to experience unconditional love. You can start giving it to yourself now. Instead of saying, "When I have the baby, then …" say, "I love myself right now. I care for myself. I'm kind to myself. I'm merciful with myself. I forgive myself. I feel grateful that I'm here and there are no conditions on that. Even though I'm not pregnant yet, even though, even though, even though … I love myself just like I would love my baby." When your mind and heart are filled with unconditional love for you first, it has a positive effect on your eggs. The most powerful fertility "drug" is self-directed loving kindness which transforms your energy into something that is actually medicinal for your eggs. It's even more powerful than any drug, because your body's own innate native chemistry is the most powerful drug there is. There are things you can do to help speed up the fertility process, such as supplements, IVF, medications, and dietary and lifestyle changes. But if you only do this one thing - care deeply about yourself, nurture yourself, love yourself, and be kind to yourself - everything else will fall into place. One of the best things you can do on this journey, is to find someone to walk alongside you to offer support and guidance. In my work with women, I have grown even more confident in the knowledge that women can get pregnant more quickly, and have successful pregnancies more often when they are not trying to figure it all out alone.
You can find more of his resources on his website at AxelradClinic.com and in his book, Awakening the Seed by Chris Axelrad, available on Amazon.com. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP127: Path to Parenthood | 20 Dec 2023 | 00:19:42 | |
IVF is many things and can inspire a wide range of emotions, which for some women includes fear and uncertainty.
In this Path to Parenthood episode, I speak with one of my amazing fertility clients who shares her four-year-long fertility journey, including multiple IUIs, IVF transfers, and miscarriages.
Listen in as she talks about the importance of seeking help, overcoming fear, setting boundaries, and prioritizing mental health.
What You'll Learn
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| EP10: Overcome Fertility Envy | 08 May 2019 | 00:08:11 | |
"I promise you, you don't want anyone else's fertility journey." - Episode 10 (3:27 - 3:30) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Have you ever felt extremely jealous of another friend's fertility journey? You're not alone. Just about every one of my clients has too. In fact, the majority of my time is spent encouraging women to not focus on what they don't have and give thanks for what they do have. This is no easy feat. Life doesn't always seem so abundant especially if you're waiting on the edge of that pregnancy seat. Envy darkens attention and clouds honest discernment. The truth is, you are blessed. To overcome fertility envy, it is important to recognize and give thanks for the many gifts you currently have and will receive. You have a choice to remain miserable in your envy, or to be empowered with the joy found in gratitude.
- Episode 10 (2:37 - 2:39) Choose an attitude of gratitude. Life is filled with turbulence guaranteed to toss us around. It's just how it is. Persevere anyway and strive to keep your eyes open. If you're too focused on what other women have, then you'll lose sight and miss out on what you currently have. Here are three reasons to celebrate your fertility journey and not be green with envy.
I didn't think so.
As I proceeded through an ultimate low of 10 rounds of IVF, I reflected on these three reasons while I envisioned holding my baby in my arms. I never wanted to trade my fertility journey with anyone else. I never wanted to forfeit the gifts in my possession and the gifts in my future. You have gifts written with your name on them. Can you see them? Or is envy blocking you?
- Episode 10 (4:45 - 5:00) A snap of the fingers won't do the trick. If you've been in this green funk for a while, then you really need to sit down and begin decluttering your mind to open your eyes. Try the "Who Am I" exercise. Write down a list of 50 (yes 50!) gifts you're extremely proud of. They could include physical feats, past achievements or acts of service you provided that encouraged others. Eventually, you'll reach the aha! moment of "Oh my gosh, I'm really awesome! Who knew?" I knew! As do your loved ones and friends. Ask them to participate and write out their own list of 50 gifts they celebrate in and with you. Take these lists to bed with you and read them before you sleep. Allow your subconscious to repeat, "Yes, I'm awesome!" over and over again to encourage an optimistic attitude. Then just before you close your eyes and drift away, give thanks to the source of your many gifts and the gifts yet to come. Your guardian angels will continue to guide you forward through the highs and lows and lead you to exactly what you want and where you need to be. Don't make their job any harder by steaming green and pushing for someone else's path! Stay the course. Your perfect baby is down the way. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP9: Do It or Skip It: IUI, TTC Naturally, and Genetic Testing | 01 May 2019 | 00:22:20 | |
"There are so many variables that go into a fertility journey and into creating a direct path to parenthood." - Episode 9 (21:11 - 21:22) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. As infertility rates grow, women are provided false information and pushed towards the "one right way" to get pregnant. However, there are so many options available for you on your fertility journey! Learn the facts of three common but different methods for conception before bombarding yourself with appointments and exhausting your time and energy. In sifting through each of their pros and cons, you can begin to build the best path for you and your partner towards parenthood. "If there is a possibility for you to get pregnant another way and you have options, we're going to create a journey where those options are included within your timeline of when you want to get pregnant." - Episode 9 (9:43 - 9:56) I know you're anxious to get pregnant! But slow down and gather all the information before you jump right in.
Understand the facts to assess whether it would be best for you to try or skip IUI, TTC Naturally, or Genetic Testing. Intrauterine Insemination (IUI)
Trying to Conceive Naturally (TTC Naturally)
Genetic Testing
"The way to know if you should try to conceive naturally or move on to fertility treatments is to first have ALL of the information." - Episode 9 (11:03 - 11:15)
With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP8: The Worst Sex of My Life | 24 Apr 2019 | 00:08:41 | |
"Having sex to have a baby when you have fertility issues is the worst and least sexy sex there is." - Episode 8 (0:14 - 0:22) The IVF Uncovered Podcast Fertility issues can rob the pleasure and excitement of sex. This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. You can listen here. Those of us with fertility issues understand that babymaking turns sex into a whole new beast. I'm not talking about the playful, frisky under the sheets sex while Marvin Gaye whines "Let's Get It On!". I'm talking about the "Hey honey, hurry up I'm ovulating today!" sex with Hanson snapping MMMBop. Super romantic, right? No way! I would know. I've had a truly horrific "worst sex of my life" experience. Thankfully, I survived and am here to share my story with you. "We had to have sex in a cardboard box with his parents and sister in the next room making coffee." - Episode 8 (1:51 - 1:58) Back when I was still trying to naturally conceive, my husband and I rented a beach house with his family. The idea sounded pleasant enough. That is, until we pulled up to a cardboard-looking box of a house. Nevertheless, we piled in and situated ourselves in our respective rooms. Our room happened to be right next to the kitchen. You could imagine my excitement when I could hear the crispness of breakfast being made traveling through the thin walls on the morning of ovulation day. We had already been trying for nine months. That morning I told my husband it was now or never. Slowly we climbed onto the rickety bed as we started "getting ready" for our day. The springs screamed back and threatened to expose us with our every move. Perhaps the shower could help cover the noise? My husband disappeared into the bathroom and quickly returned. Regrettably, no luck. First strike. We rolled onto the floor. But the hardwood was, well, too hard. Second strike. Our last resort was to stand. There was only one little problem here. My husband is 6'6" and I'm 5'5". I would have to hold onto something to manage. As we shuffled our way to the bathroom sink, we were greeted by a blanket of hot steam from my husband's previously brilliant idea. I felt like I couldn't breathe. Enough was enough. This was taking far too long for anyone to casually "get ready." In fear of losing our chance, stifling my husband's performance and revealing my true feelings of this hellish situation, I called upon a shameful but necessary approach to getting the job done. I faked face. Now before you point the finger, know that I didn't fake the "big-o." I have way too much respect for myself! I didn't fake the big-o, but I faked my "enjoyment" of this hellish nightmare of an experience. My husband finished and surprise, we didn't get pregnant that month. I share this story with you because I really want to help bring some comfort in your own fertility issues and sexcapades in babymaking. Thankfully we discovered IVF soon after. While what I just shared would've been way more interesting and horrifyingly awkward as the story of my children's conception, I sort of like the truth better. Mommy and Daddy sat in two separate rooms of a lab while MMMBop played in the background. At least then I got pregnant! So it's sexy enough for me! With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP7: Getting Out of IVF Jail | 17 Apr 2019 | 00:25:53 | |
"IVF is not an imprisonment, but a choice we get to make to help our family dreams come true." - Episode 7 (2:36) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
This was the topic for my latest episode of the FU Project podcast. It's amazing how much IVF has in common with a prison sentence - at least on paper. The fact is, far too many women who are on a tough fertility journey think of their IVF treatments, and the lifestyle they require, as a stint behind bars. Before we go any further I want to let you know. It's not. Not even a little bit.
That jail cell is not your worst nightmare. It's what's going to make your dreams come true. Too often, I hear women talk about how they "have" to do IVF and all that accompanies the process. Good news! You don't have to do IVF. You get to do IVF. If you're feeling imprisoned, stop feeling sorry for yourself and be thankful these treatments exist, and that you can access them. There are plenty of women in the world who can't do so. Yes, IVF takes a lot of T.I.M.E. - that's Time, Investment, Mental Health, and Energy - but the benefit far outweighs the cost.
Nothing is keeping you in your jail cell. You don't have to get rid of the food, drinks, and activities you love for the length of your fertility journey. All you really need to do is rein it in a little for the few weeks leading up to an egg retrieval and the same before a transfer. That's it. Beyond that, it's all about targeted de-cluttering. If a habit isn't directly interfering with your efforts to get pregnant or your well-being, go for it. Live your life like a responsible adult, and indulge on special occasions. You can start with quick wins to make you feel like yourself - like a glass of wine or a cup of coffee - and then do the foundational mindset work to be a better problem-solver before baby arrives.
Anyone who hasn't done training aimed at mindset work or decluttering typically gets caught up on two different questions. Why did I allow that, when I know better, and why do things like this keep happening to me? The healthiest way of looking at your past starts with the understanding that there are no mistakes, unless you're stuck in those decisions and unable to move forward. Think of those "mistakes" as lessons instead. As with every education, there is a cost, but the higher the cost, the better the education. Everyone does the best they can with the education and consciousness they have at the time. You should never blame yourself for making a decision in the past based on what you knew then. You are in a new season of life, armed with new knowledge, to make new decisions. You're in control of your life as you go through IVF, and freeing yourself from the fertility fail cell is as simple as opening the door, and remembering that true freedom comes from seeing your past as a lesson. With thanks & love, Tasha
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| EP6: The Only Four Things Keeping You from Getting Pregnant | 10 Apr 2019 | 00:20:34 | |
"There is not one pillar more important than the others...they are all equally 25% to make it 100% possible for you to hold your baby so much sooner." -Episode 6 (19:38 - 20:04) The IVF Uncovered Podcast The four pillars of a successful pregnancy. Wherever you are in your fertility journey, do not lose hope. Successful conception is possible. My two children are living beautiful proof after many failed treatments and let downs. Most doctors and mothers-to-be tend to place all of their hope in the science of fertility and become frustrated when it lets them down time after time. The truth is, there are four potential factors that are inhibiting you from getting or staying pregnant: science, environment, mindset, and support. Each pillar holds equal weight and bringing them all into alignment, and tearing down any red flag that stands in the way, is the most effective way for you to get to that goal - finally holding that precious baby in your arms. "Doctors are human. They don't know everything and have been educated in different ways. It's not okay if you feel there is something else to be done and they're just saying, "Just try again."- Episode 6 (6:06 - 6:22) Science. There are so many variables that lie within this pillar. The doctor, embryologist, lab, and drug protocols all play a part in helping you get and stay pregnant. While undergoing IVF, and looking for red flags in this pillar, it is so important to assess the results of your second egg retrieval. For example, if you experience no success in your first egg retrieval procedure, then return for a second attempt where the results are worse than before, you are not to blame. In most cases, the second round should be better than the first. Three tries are too many even if the lab is the "best of the best." If this is the case for you it may be time to change clinics. Every medical facility has a set of rules and a standard protocol to follow. However, there is always a possibility that these promised and proven methods can be mishandled or flawed. When examining the factors that may be keeping you from getting or staying pregnant, it is important to consider whether or not your doctor and the lab live up to their reputation. To determine the effectiveness of your doctor, calculate the difference between how many eggs were retrieved versus how many were mature. To determine the effectiveness of the lab, calculate the difference between the mature eggs and the number of eggs that were fertilized. If either of these figures shows an alarming contrast, this is a blazing red flag. Another variable in the science pillar is the drug protocol implemented for the transfer. When nothing is sticking, and you're experiencing multiple miscarriages, consider your doctor's reaction. If they aren't making new recommendations, it's time to speak up! Be your own advocate and refuse to just "try again" if you feel there is something more or different to explore. Proper Environment. The second pillar to successful conception is a proper environment. Consider how you feel in the middle of your workday at three o'clock in the afternoon. Do you feel happy and energized to complete the rest of your tasks? Alternatively, do you feel tired and ready to take a nap? If you gravitate towards the latter, you may need to revise and transform your daily habits to create a more wholesome environment. Our environment is comprised of both emotional and physical wellbeing. When either of these is filled with clutter, our hormones can be dramatically affected. Symptoms of emotional clutter include detrimental bouts of anger, anxiety, stress, or feeling less than. Symptoms of physical clutter include lack of sleep, dips in energy, and irritable bowel movements. Inflammation and the inability to lose weight also indicate that something is getting in your way. Thankfully all of these are controllable factors. Even those with low egg reserve should take comfort in the fact that making small changes can make a difference. Forget the misconception that a woman needs three months to alter her results of egg retrieval. Start to take tangible steps now to declutter and ignite change. Mindset. Mindset is the most important and third pillar to successful conception. The advice to "just relax" is highly overrated. Plenty of crazy women get pregnant regularly! Your stress, anxiety, or career-focused mindset is not to blame for your inability to get pregnant. However, it is imperative to learn how to problem solve and deal with stress now before your baby arrives. If you think things feel crazy and out of control now, wait until you are holding that crying baby at 2 am. It would be best if you have a firm handle on yourself, emotions, and environment. Prioritize this pillar above all others. Gain control over the mindset to naturally balance hormones, reduce inflammation, and dictate your feelings.
To thwart chaos, reach out for clear direction. Do not, I repeat do not, type all of your questions and fears into Google. Online search results guarantee confusion by offering thousands of conflicting opinions. Instead, seek expert help who will identify the one aspect you need to focus on to move forward in your journey. There is no need to be overwhelmed by lists. Jump into a community of like-minded women who are not just complaining, but offering their successes and failures to provide insight and encouragement. A group element connection is proven to provide a biological advantage. Two like-minded particles combined will grow. Like dissolves like and develops into something more beautiful. Strive to surround yourself with amazing women who vibrate love, but stay cautious in reserving the necessary amount of energy for your journey. Examine where red flags are popping up in your infertility journey to tackle whatever is holding you back. You may not notice a difference overnight. However, stay persistent in harmonizing all four pillars to conceive and welcome your baby into the world successfully. Never give up.
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| EP5: Conception with IVF is Very Natural | 03 Apr 2019 | 00:20:17 | |
"All these procedures, drugs, doctor's appointments… we can always find things to be in love with about the IVF process and to be super thankful for." - Episode 5 (16:04) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
One of the major misconceptions - and frequent objections - hanging over women who conceive through IVF is the idea that it's "not natural." This is wrong, obviously, but many people who believe it simply don't know how natural IVF is. The best way to dispel the confusion is to hold it right up next to "natural" conception and note the similarities.
In fact, there often is a difference, but the difference is in the parents, which goes on to affect the children. Parents of IVF babies worked and sacrificed and persevered for their child. There's nothing mundane about these pregnancies, and so every baby born this way is treated like a miracle. Their lives are forever changed, and their parenting is affected in the most beautiful way.
"It is a miracle that any of us have been created normally. And I think it's really important for all of us going through fertility treatments." - Episode 5 (3:12) The final complaint in the argument that IVF is "unnatural" has to do with the drugs you're given during transfer if drugs are utilized. Natural transfers are frequently an option. Sure, you could definitely call those drugs an interference to the natural process of conceiving.
There will always be those people. The ones who don't fully understand the process, and think IVF is unnatural. When you run across them and they look unfavorably on your fertility situation, extend them compassion for doing the best they can with the knowledge they have. Above all, send love to your situation. You are not unnatural, and neither is your baby-to-be.
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| EP4: A Baby is Not Going to Make You Happy | 27 Mar 2019 | 00:14:21 | |
"Every journey that leads to the creation of something amazing is going to be tough and filled with many lessons.." IVF Uncovered
Your baby is not a magic cure for everything wrong in your life. If you're a mother-to-be on a long fertility journey, I want you to try an exercise. Describe yourself as a mother - or a mother of two, if you already have a little one. How do you act towards yourself, your children, and your partner? How would you describe your energy? What one word would you use to describe yourself? Look in a mirror and make the expression on your face that describes that word. Now compare the woman you are today to the woman you just described. How is she different? Do you look different, act differently, express your energy differently? If those two women are similar, it's possible that you are in a position where you could honestly say that you love your life and yourself as you are today. If they're very different, I have good news disguised as bad news. The arrival of your baby is not going to make you into the woman you imagined yourself to be. Your baby will not make you happy, nor will she fix your self-esteem or your relationships. In fact, the birth of your child will make whatever it is you're experiencing that you think will go away once you have a baby, much worse.
Before my children were born, when I thought of myself as a mother, I could not imagine that woman without a smile on my face. I would be happy, joyous, and beaming with love. I knew I'd be so proud and happy. Finally. There would be no anxiety and no stress. In reality, nothing was how imagined it. I certainly looked happy and confident to those around me, but that was because I didn't want to show any weakness. I was convinced that I could handle everything on my own. I'm here to tell you that the "guarded do-it-yourself" mentality is stupid, and it comes with costs. I had chronic stress that I didn't recognize until my fertility journey. The journey itself didn't give me anxiety, it just dramatically increased the already present anxiety to a tipping point. I had anxiety attacks for the first time during IVF. But I was okay with that because when baby arrived, I would be joyful and peaceful and perfectly happy. Right? Of course, when baby did arrive, I wasn't perfectly happy because I didn't have any systems in place for dealing with fears and problems. My anxiety multiplied. Constant worrying isn't good for you or anyone else. Put up safeguards to protect yourself. This is not a healthy way to live. But it is common. Women on fertility journeys typically think that pregnancy is an answer to their problems, when in fact it may be the issue. Although my work does help women get pregnant, the bigger result for my clients is cultivating total love and pride in self. We work on problem-solving so that these women have a system in place when their fears inevitably arrive. I help my future moms de-clutter all the unnecessary junk from their past and begin to love themselves. This transformation of self-love and worthiness is the most important part of my program, and it is so much easier to do before the baby arrives than after. Once baby gets here, if you don't have systems, your anxiety will only get worse. So, what do I mean by 'systems?' I help my clients create strategies for dealing with fears, anxieties, and self-esteem issues. Different situations require different tools, so I introduce clients to my ASS - Anti-Anxiety Self Soothers. My ASS is designed based on what's happening around you, and your response. It is not okay that you have anxiety about your fertility journey, and it is possible to hear about other people's babies and not feel bad about yourself. In fact, becoming aware that you don't have systems in place is the first step in the process.
Above all, recognize that you need a way to stand up to the stresses and fears that come with your fertility journey and follow these strategies to grow in love for yourself and your life as it is right now. Don't wait for baby to get here to address your fears and worries. Start working today to become a kickASS mother.
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| EP3: How to Answer Stupid Fertility Suggestions | 20 Mar 2019 | 00:21:58 | |
"Once you have clarity and guidance, all of the questions and comments are not as triggering." Episode 3 (11:37) The IVF Uncovered Podcast If you are undergoing fertility treatments, chances are you're going to be asked some rude, invasive, ignorant questions. The best way to handle it is to be prepared.
Everyone's an expert, particularly when they find out you're undergoing IVF treatments. A lot of women on their own fertility journey know what it's like to have a well-meaning but misguided individual ask, "Well, have you considered adoption or surrogacy?"
The best thing you can do for a mom-to-be on a tough fertility journey is shut up. Unless you have been through exactly what they're going through - not just IVF, not a failed transfer, but the exact same thing - do not offer advice unless explicitly asked for it. If you must say something, tell the mom-to-be how incredibly brave she is, what a hard journey she is on, and how lucky her future baby is to have a mom who loves and wants him/her so much. I guarantee, she knows all the alternatives. She has chosen IVF.
Now, if you are a woman on a fertility journey who is facing this question before you answer, there are two questions to consider.
First, why did the person ask you that? Ultimately, that person is doing the best they can with the knowledge and consciousness they are working with right then. It is not your job to educate them or elevate their consciousness. The best you can do is be compassionate. Know that they mean well and want to help, and give love to those intentions.
Second, why is the question of alternatives so triggering? Easy. It echoes the shame, self-doubt, and questions of worthiness that come with a difficult fertility journey. Even more than that, it reflects the lack of clarity you may already be experiencing. Clarity is a godsend when dealing with this issue. When you have clarity on your journey, it will boost your confidence and allow you to move forward without getting triggered as often.
- Episode 3 (15:00)
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| EP2: The One Thing I Dread Telling Clients (and no, it's not that I can't show you how to get pregnant) | 13 Mar 2019 | 00:18:50 | |
"I know that immediately, I might lose my client, but I must tell people when I feel that their resources are going to be wasted." Tasha Blasi (3:05) The IVF Uncovered Podcast
Loyalty is an excellent quality until it's not.
When women are on their fertility journey, the idea of changing doctors or clinics can be scary and uncomfortable.
I hate to hear clients say, "But I love my doctor!" It is my responsibility to research the doctor in question to be sure that they have the stats and the skill to get clients pregnant - and when they don't, that means a very difficult conversation is in order.
There are a lot of factors that go into which fertility clinic a mom-to-be chooses, not the least of which is emotional comfort, familiarity, and the hassles that could come with going elsewhere.
First, is there anything I myself can fix? This usually means protocols to recommend.
Second, is the client willing, emotionally and financially, to commit to 3 more egg retrievals at the clinic? In my view, each new clinic gets 2 rounds of IVF before judgment. However, if the results of the second round do not exceed those of the first, it's time to cut ties. If it hasn't happened at this point, it's not going to happen.
As my clients wrestle with these questions, they are given an exercise that lends a little clarity to the decision at hand. The point of this exercise is to get out of your own way where changing labs is concerned. Women and their partners can do this by recognizing what stands in the way of a successful round of IVF.
The other question at hand, for those who have already bought a bundle of retrievals and transfers is this, if you canceled right now, how much of your money would you get back? The typical answer is half. If you got half of your money back, look at it as an investment in the right choice of clinics for your fertility journey.
Finally, my clients must also consider the question of results. If you stay where you are now and get the same results, or worse, would you leave after the next time? If so, you need to be done at that clinic.
- Tasha Blasi (20:00)
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| EP1: IVF Facts vs. Myths | 05 Mar 2019 | 00:29:27 | |
"You are a mother. That is a choice you get to make, don't let anyone convince you otherwise, especially that a-hole living in your head." The IVF Uncovered Podcast
Motherhood is an identity, and you have the power to choose your identity.
In the babymaking journey, it's so common for women to get caught up in unrealistic expectations about the IVF process, or to fall prey to common myths. Let me tell you, I have heard it all. It can be easy to get discouraged when this process doesn't go as planned, and people are hitting you in the face with the BS they truly believe is fact. One of the best ways to combat this is to dispell the inaccuracies and be prepared with the truth.
"When doctors say it's a numbers game, it's extremely beneficial to the doctor who can't figure it out. It's nature and science. If anyone tells you it's a numbers game, that just means they don't know what the f*** they are doing and they're just going to keep guessing with your money, time, and embryos." - Tasha Blasi (9:12 - 10:15)
Let's take some time to talk through the most common myths that I have had the "pleasure" of hearing over the years:
Myth - IVF works the first or second time. Truth - I wish this was always the case. If you were like me, I knew that I was going to do IVF one time and have an abundance of viable embryos that I could pop in every time I wanted a kid, until my house was full. As you probably know, I had to complete ten rounds. Ten. There are so many different variables that come into play when trying to get or stay pregnant. While it may happen for you the first or second time, so often this is not the case.
Myth - All labs are created equal. Truth - We can be so quick to assume that a lab is a lab, and the lab techs are basically robots, but they aren't. There are so many variables in labs that can affect the viability of your embryo and the success of your pregnancy. Embryologists are humans. Fallible, finite humans. Saying that all embryologists are equal is like saying all doctors are equal. Also, it's important not to get sucked into the "fame" of certain clinics. There are clinics who have established a reputation, but have not stayed current with ever-advancing technology. They are no longer achieving the results, but they are still claiming their renown, and taking your money.
Myth - It's a numbers game. Truth - If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me about a doctor that told them to, "just keep trying," I could cover your next round of IVF. Of course, they tell you to just keep trying, you are paying them!
Myth - There's nothing you can do on your end to help an egg retrieval or transfer. Truth - When I ask women what their doctor has suggested they do to help with the retrieval process, 95% of them say, "nothing." Spoiler alert: There are so many factors, so. many. factors. that you can influence to increase your chances of getting and staying pregnant.
Myth - You need an egg donor. Truth - As mentioned before, there are so many variables that affect this process. Just because one doctor can't figure it out, doesn't mean that your own eggs aren't viable. I wish doctors would just be honest when they aren't successful, and refer. Doctors will keep working with you as long as you are paying. When you move on to donor eggs, they get to start over with a new revenue source. Your eggs might not be the problem.
Myth - My stress is keeping me from getting pregnant. Truth - Stress doesn't help us and it doesn't feel good, and we totally need to get rid of it. Yes, stress affects our mental and physical health. However, stress is not a major variable in the success or failure of IVF.
"Figure out how stress is showing up physically and emotionally. Not so much to help you get pregnant, but to help you get through this process, through this pregnancy, and especially through motherhood with your sanity intact." (18:26 - 18:56)
Myth - You should never do a fresh, day 3 transfer. Truth - Some women just can't get to day 5. If you have eliminated all other variables, and you are unable to get to day five, consider stopping at day 3.
Myth - There is no evidence that you need to check for different tests. Truth - Your first transfer is very much trial and error. There are so many variables that could be in play. However, after that first transfer, I recommend asking your doctor which tests they would recommend after a third failed attempt. Often, in the first few rounds, doctors are comfortable with the numbers game and will discourage additional tests without evidence to suggest their necessity. However, it can be so helpful to rule out as many variables as possible, as soon as possible. I would rather understand the risks and have every variable moved out of the way before moving forward with that extremely precious embryo.
"I want the doctors in the clinics to start treating those embryos as precious as they really are." - Tasha Blasi (24:21 - 24:44)
Myth - Maybe you weren't meant to be a mom. Truth - Don't let anyone, especially that a-hole in your head, convince you that you weren't meant to be a mother! Being a mom is an identity, and you get to choose that identity. I know what it feels like to have that aching desire deep in my heart and to just "know" that I was meant to be a mother.
You don't get to choose when you become a mom, but you do get to choose to keep moving forward, clearing every variable out of the way until that precious little one is nestled in your arms. Don't stop fighting, mama.
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| EP126: How to Stay Intimate with Your Partner (and Self) during Infertility with Courtney Boyer | 07 Dec 2023 | 00:42:39 | |
In this episode, I speak with Relationship and Sexuality Expert, Courtney Boyer. The conversation explores the challenges and misconceptions associated with maintaining physical intimacy and a healthy sexual relationship during the fertility treatment process. Courtney shares actionable insights and techniques for couples undergoing fertility treatments, such as the role one's perspective on their own body plays, the significance of setting personal boundaries, the importance of understanding the varying sexual needs of partners, and the idea of a 'pleasure practice'. The episode also gets into the differences in sexual desire between men and women, and some advice on how to manage body image during fertility treatments and beyond. It's good one!! And not just for people on their fertility journey.
What you will learn:
About Courtney Boyer: Courtney Boyer is a relationship and sexuality expert and author of Not Tonight, Honey: Why women actually don't want sex and what we can do about it. Courtney believes we can reclaim our power through our sexuality and she helps her clients to infuse passion and creativity into their lives by helping them uncover what's preventing them from connecting with their priorities and purpose.
Connect with Courtney:
Read Courtney's book "Not Tonight, Honey: Why women actually don't want sex and what we can do about it" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C2S6B66L?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_RRDQ5BP3CEW4V6H83GB4
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| Pilot: The FU Project with Tasha Blasi // Fertilitites Unite | 27 Feb 2019 | 00:05:23 | |
IVF Uncovered by Tasha Blasi
Welcome to the Fertilitites Unite Project (Also referred to as the FU Project. Yes, that was intentional). I'm Tasha Blasi, founder of the FU Project, mother of two very expensive children, and your fertility expert. I went through ten rounds of IVF, so that you'll never have to. Having children was one of the most challenging, and expensive, things I have ever done, but I believe my difficult path to parenthood was meant to help you. My goal is to help you do IVF easier, smarter, and cheaper than I did.
"What is a fertilitite?" you may ask. A fertilitite is a brave and empowered person going through fertility treatments that takes control of the journey by arming herself with knowledge and support.
I have spent years studying, teaching and doing an insane amount of research to discover the science and environmental factors behind a successful fertility journey, and I'm ready to share with you all that I have learned. Each week I will be unraveling your fertility mystery by sharing the best practices in my key pillars to a successful pregnancy - science, environment, mindset, and support. Fertility clinics are probably not telling you that these pillars are all equally important, and are all equally significant to a successful pregnancy. Using these pillars, and the knowledge I have gained, I will be sharing strategies that I have seen work for hundreds of women around the world who are now proud mothers of beautiful little humans. This process has worked for 100% of the women who have completed my program, and it can work for you.
If you are trying to conceive, are currently in the midst of IVF, or are feeling worn down and frustrated from an eternity of trying to get or stay pregnant, this podcast is for you. You are not alone on this journey. Join the community, join the movement, join the ranks of motherhood. Join the FU Project.
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| EP125: Mastering Me and Motherhood with Sarah Walton | 22 Nov 2023 | 00:53:21 | |
Listen to an inspiring conversation with Sarah Walton, an intuitive business coach and sales expert who has a knack for helping women juggle life during motherhood. In this episode, we delve into the concept of achieving an abundant mindset, balancing a successful career while nurturing a family, and learning how to heal our relationships with money. Sarah shares such practical insights and reflects on how she helped me start my journey as a fertility consultant. This one is a must-listen for anyone looking to combine personal goals and their fantastic family life!
What you will learn:
About Sarah Walton: Sarah Walton is an intuitive business coach and sales expert who teaches women how to love life during motherhood. She's been featured on The Today Show, speaks at women's conferences all over the world and has helped hundreds of women start and grow businesses they LOVE. Her specialty is making business fun as she helps women heal their relationship with money. She works with a handful of 1:1 clients every year, is known for her powerful expansion coaching programs, The Sales Mastermind, and The Abundance Academy.
Connect with Sarah: Website: https://sarahwalton.com/freedom/ Instagram: @thesarahwalton YouTube: @thesarahwalton LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahwalton/
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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| EP124: Path to Parenthood with Emily | 08 Nov 2023 | 00:30:44 | |
Meet Emily.
When I met her, she was burnt out, hopeless, exhausted, but not willing to give up. Does that sound familiar?
This is Emily's story of going through IVF and the choices that transformed her egg retrieval. Listen in as we discuss the challenges, setbacks, and the importance of being an active participant in your fertility journey.
This episode highlights the power of advocating for yourself and seeking out resources that empower you to take control of your own health and fertility. Enjoy!
What you will learn:
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ADD US ON: ► YouTube For more information, email us at support@tashablasi.com About the Host: Tasha Blasi is an IVF consultant and Founder of IVF Uncovered (formerly the FU Project). Using her background in the sciences, and personally going through ten rounds of IVF for her two children, she has created a life mission to help patients doing IVF know as much as their doctor so they can ask better questions and get better treatment...all while bringing an unfiltered, humorous tone to this often heartbreaking subject.
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