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Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert

Lola Jean & Stephen Penta

Health & Fitness

Society & Culture

Frequency: 1 episode/9d. Total Eps: 64

In the age of porn on our phones and vibrators around our necks, is the future of love doomed? Sex Educator & Olympian Squirter Lola Jean and Reluctant Sexpert Stephen Penta (former producer of Guys We F**ked Podcast) tow both sides of the line. They are the vigilante sex educators no one asked for, creating the next gen Kama Sutra you deserve.

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🇬🇧 Great Britain - sexuality
05/01/2025
#97
🇬🇧 Great Britain - sexuality
04/01/2025
#59
🇨🇦 Canada - sexuality
20/11/2024
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Is Our Love The Objectification of Black Men with King Noire

Season 1 · Episode 64

Wednesday, October 7, 2020 • Duration 01:07:57

Black men in particular are one of the most objectified groups in porn. Black men are a porn genre, which begs the question of why race is a genre….BBC is more than just a porn SEO tag, it is a colloquialism, signaling on dating apps and even a proclaimed sexual lifestyle. Though we may think we are idolizing the black male body, where does this notion come from, how is it perpetuated and how do those on the receiving end experience it? King Noir is no stranger to speaking out politically and sexually. Experiencing this objectification first hand in both the music industry and the sex industry, King has navigated these mirroring communities for decades. King helps us decode how the industry dehumanizes porn performers and the ripple effect to marginalized folx outside of the industry.

Find all of King's content on kingnoire.com

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The end of episode song this week is King Noire "Hu$tle Matrimony"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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Is Our Love Sex Education? (with Cameron Glover)

Season 1 · Episode 63

Wednesday, September 30, 2020 • Duration 01:07:45

An Educator for Sex Educators? A more and more common question these days as more sexuality professionals emerge is: “How can I do that too?” The road to becoming a sexuality professional is murky. Even murkier is how to make that career or side-hustle a viable one. Enter Cameron Glover, whose goal is to make your sex ed business as successful as it can be with the Sex Ed Business Academy. Certifications, training programs, mentorship...there isn’t one go-to path for all individuals. What makes a Sex Educator good at their job? What makes them “official” and who are we waiting for to grant us those titles? Cameron has us question who content is made for and why so many people have imposter syndrome. Whether you’re interested in the sex-ed field or not, Cameron lays down some business advice that’s applicable for everyone.

For more of Cameron's work & info on the Sex Ed Business Academy: cameronglover.com

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The end of episode song this week is Fuck Buttons, "Red Wing"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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Is Our Love Patient? (with Mistress Eva Oh)

Season 1 · Episode 54

Wednesday, July 29, 2020 • Duration 01:15:45

Is Our Love Particular? Does our love even know what it wants? Whether you’re ideal pairing is in pay-for-play, a long term partner, or your career we could all take a few notes from Mistress Eva Oh (@youwillplease_me) in patience and consistency. Enter this week’s episode bursting with logic. Mistress Eva Oh has a particular list of her small life's pleasures and knows exactly how to go about getting them... or punish shortcomings. We could all learn a thing or two from Eva Oh when it comes to being patient and getting satisfaction.

You can find Eva Oh and all her work on eva-oh.com

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Tiny Deaths "If I'm Dreaming"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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Is Our Love A Male Dom? (with Master Peter)

Season 1 · Episode 53

Wednesday, July 22, 2020 • Duration 01:23:13

Why are femme Dominatrizes more prevalent and heralded than masc Doms? Is there a stigma against masc Doms, particularly cis-male Doms? We discuss why that is and what you can do about it on our latest episode with Master Peter. From swing dancing to switch hitting, Master Peter got into the business sideways and now he is firing from all cylinders. From his time as dungeon monitor, personal relationships, and his clients both couples and singles alike, you’re going to want to learn what puts Master Peter as the creme de la creme and why he is so often sought out in the London scene. Speaking of scenes, Master Peter’s signature teaching tool is gentle dominance. Learn how partnered dance and partnered play have more in common thank you’d think and how YOU can be a better dominant and a better partner.

You can find Master Peter at: masterpeter.co.uk

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Miss Kittin "Life Is My Teacher"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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Is Our Love A Dungeon? (with Mistress Adreena)

Season 1 · Episode 52

Wednesday, July 15, 2020 • Duration 01:30:49

What is a dungeon and are they all created similarly? We speak with all around sex worker Adreena Angela on how she doesn’t follow all the rules from curating her studio space, how she interacts with clients, and the controversial stance on if Dommes take their tits out. Dungeons and sex work isn’t as scary as you would think and Adreena pulls back the veil to let you know some of the best -- and worst messages and experiences she has in her decorated career. PLUS Adreena, Lola and Stephen answer a listener q from a couple interested in approaching a sex worker for a session. Find out all the etiquette and ways to go about making your fantasies a reality, yes….even in Florida.

You can find more about Mistress Adreena and Inanna Studio at mistressadreena.co.uk

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice :
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Moses Sumney "Cut Me"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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Is Our Love The Fetishization of Latinx Womxn? (with Rebecca Carvalho)

Season 1 · Episode 51

Thursday, May 28, 2020 • Duration 01:23:27

Have you ever had a stereotype projected onto you? Have you ever felt guilty about embodying or identifying with a stereotype of your ethnicity or otherwise? These conversations may not be easy but they’re absolutely necessary. This week we welcome Rebecca Carvalho to discuss her relationship with her ethnicity as it relates to her sexuality and how this comes into play throughout her dating life and interaction with porn. Latinx people covers a WIDE range of persons. Rebecca uses her personal journey as well as learning about her roots and past, including reconciling with a shame of embodying some of the common stereotypes. PLUS Stephen and Lola answer an advice question about squirting that isn’t really about squirting at all!

Follow Rebecca on Insta @rebeccaecarvalho
or find her at rebeccaecarvalho.com

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice :
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Ricky Martin, "Shake Your Bon-Bon" because holy shit that really happened once upon a time.

Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Is Our Love the New 'Talk'? (with Jet Setting Jasmine)

Season 1 · Episode 50

Wednesday, May 20, 2020 • Duration 01:24:41

Do you remember getting the talk? Who gave it to you? How would you give “the talk?” Easier said than done. This week’s guest Jet Setting Jasmine is not only walking the walk but talking THE 'talk'. Jasmine is a mother of three and can add therapist, pornographer and domme to her extensive resume. Jasmine schools us on the sex positive parenting playbook that doesn’t exist, answering questions like: When do you start introducing topics of sex to your children and how you go about doing it? Do you have to be comfortable with your own sexuality to be able to provide them with a quality ‘talk?’ Does it have to be awkward? Above all, how do we keep our children safe while enabling them to explore sexuality in a healthy manner? PLUS we talk to Jasmine about how to educate your kids on looooove.

Find everything Jet Setting Jasmine on: jsjlinks.com (or, like she says, just google her)

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice :
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Madison McFerrin "TRY"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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Is Our Love Non Monogamous? (w Ruby Rare)

Season 1 · Episode 49

Wednesday, May 13, 2020 • Duration 01:21:29

Does it seem like everyone is talking about open relationships and polyamory lately? Is non-monogamy actually better? Who is it for? Does non-monogamy mean you have more sex? And why does it have so many syllables? Ruby Rare joins us this week to spell out the shades of non-monogamy from A-Z. Whether you’re already considering non-monogamy or you want some applicable learnings for your future relationships, this episode has relatable bits of wisdom for everyone - monogamous or not. PLUS, Stephen, Lola and Ruby give some advice to a pleasure seeking individual struggling to achieve orgasm with a partner.

Follow Ruby on Instagram: @rubyrare

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice :
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is a throwback: The Rapture "Open Up Your Heart"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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Is Our Love A Pelvic Floor (w/ Dr. Rachel Gelman)

Season 1 · Episode 48

Wednesday, May 6, 2020 • Duration 01:28:33

Did you know you have a pelvic floor? Yes, all of you. Do you know what is does? Spoiler Alert: EVERYTHING. Rachel Gelman a San Francisco based Pelvic Floor Therapist joins us this week to tell us everything from the 411 on kegals to why a good bowel movement can make your week.

Whether you had no idea that the hammock in your pelvis was responsible for your orgasms AND your urination or you’ve been trying to kegel your way to the heavy weights - there’s always something new to learn. Trust us: you’re going to want to get a notebook for this ep. PLUS Stephen, Lola, and Rachel give some advice to a vortex of vaginal odor & erectile difficulty shame.

You can find the extensive list of resources Rachel mentioned here:
www.painperceptionproject.com/patients
& you can find Rachel's practice on instagram: @pelvichealthsf

As always, if you're finding yourself in need sex, love or relationship advice :
Email us at isourlovepod@gmail.com ... if we can't help we'll be happy to search for a trained professional.

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is the Soulwax remix of Hot Chip's "Ready For The Floor"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Is Our Love A Coming of Age (with Liv Revamped)

Season 1 · Episode 47

Wednesday, April 29, 2020 • Duration 01:23:25

Rebelling against your Pagan family by joining a church... this isn’t your average darling come porn performer coming of age tale. From the industry trying to pigeon hole a multi-racial gal as “latina,” to diversifying her porn profile Liv Revamped drops some wisdom for any aspiring porn performers about how she’s stayed fresh with over a decade of performing sex on camera. We learn pros vs. cons, working indie vs. contract, and discuss porns' rampant streaming evolution PLUS Stephen, Lola and Liv give virginal advice for first time sex!

Follow Liv at livrevamped.com and @bish.izbak on Instagram

------~ Follow us on social media ~-------
The show: @isourlove_____
Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom
Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com
Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

End of Episode music feature this week is Blossom Dearie "Between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea"
Our official theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

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