In the summer of 2001, twelve-year-old Michal Belzberg was weeks away from the bat mitzvah party she'd been dreaming of her whole life. Then the Sbarro pizzeria bombing in downtown Jerusalem killed fifteen people, including children, and her father told her: I don't think it's the right time to celebrate.
That decision became One Family Fund β an organization that has since supported tens of thousands of Israeli terror victims and their families, from the height of the Second Intifada through October 7th and beyond.
In this episode, Michal talks about growing up inside the Intifada, the necklace she brought to an eight-year-old bombing survivor as a twelve-year-old herself, and the decades of relationships β weddings, births, birthdays remembered β that grew out of that first visit. She's candid about the emotional toll of a life built around other people's trauma, how becoming a mother of her own son (after years surrounded by mothers who'd lost sons) reshaped her relationship to the work, and why she believes hesed has to start with being connected to yourself, not by erasing yourself.
This is a conversation about grief, resilience, and what one twelve-year-old's decision can grow into over twenty-five years β proof of the episode's core idea: you don't need a plan, you just need one hesed to start.
Credits
Video Shooting & Editing: Sasha Gorev
Video Editing: Ari Schlacht https://explainablemedia.com
Producer: Gilad Brounstein | ThePodwaves.com
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