I'm Not Judging, But... – Details, episodes & analysis

On our final episode of the season, before we take a break for the Easter school holidays, the girls dive into the messy reality of modern parenting. From shocking sideline sports rage at a kids’ football match to the surprising statistic that a quarter of children aren’t school-ready at age five, we unpack the pressure parents are under and how it can spill out in unexpected ways.

We explore the rise of “yes days” and ask how much control you would give up to let your kids make their own decisions, even if only for a day. All that, plus the girls discuss the tricky territory of children making bold choices, like piercings or tattoos, without parental approval. It’s an honest look at the push and pull of raising children.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

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On I'm Not Judging, But... the girls are back together again, virtually at least and on this week's show we tackle what would you do if your kid tried to exit the vehicle during a heated row? The discussion over a social media ban for U16s continues, plus the girls give their teenage selves some wise advice. Tune in every Thursday.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re back for Season 2!

On this week’s I’m Not Judging, But…, Briony, Charlie and Vix are excited to be back together recording a brand new series, even if they did see each other over the holidays. They catch up on Charlie’s New Year’s Eve birthday, Briony’s 90s rave NYE party complete with family members in retro shell suits and crimped hair, and Vix’s Mexican inspired celebrations.

In Overheard In The Playground, Vix shares a story that has sent her friend into a rage. The girls debate whether New Year’s resolutions are actually worth making, then put their heads together to offer unqualified advice in Between You & Me, where listeners share their parenting dilemmas and one pushes Briony over the edge.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this special bonus episode, Briony, Charlie and Vix sit down with menopause expert and Weight Watchers coach Lorraine Small for a frank, funny and fabulously useful chat about one of their favourite topics. Menopause… or more accurately, peri-menopause. Lorraine shares her own experiences and the work she does every day supporting women through this major hormonal shift, from building a solid support network to practical tools that actually help. From what to eat to how to move your body, Lorraine serves up her top tips for anyone just trying to get through it with a bit more energy, confidence and sanity intact.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s our final episode before Christmas and Briony, Charlie and Vix are leaning fully into the festive chaos. From who’s hosting who this year and whether they are all up for some Boxing Day karaoke, to your last-minute Christmas dilemmas and the age-old question of teacher gifts… they have opinions. We’re also unpacking whether they're a Type A or Type B mum at Christmas, and squeezing in a little sparkle after being FROW at Strictly last week. Festive plans, strong opinions and plenty of laughs. Consider this your unofficial warm-up to Christmas week.

Plus, if you want to see hilarious outtakes and more video clips from the pod then follow us on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube @imnotjudgingbutpod

Stay tuned for a special episode on the menopause over the festive period - due to drop Monday 29th December.

We'll be back with more episodes from Thursday 8th January. Listen out for some VERY special guests in 2026.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

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On this week’s episode of I’m Not Judging, But… Briony, Charlie and Vix are joined by Bake Off fan favourite Nelly Ghaffar. Originally from Slovakia, Nelly talks about the challenges of living in a country she wasn’t born in, raising boys and using cooking as a form of therapy with her two sons. For them, it’s a welcome distraction that helps open up conversations about their lives and what’s happening at school. She also shares her lovely Christmas traditions and offers advice to a listener who’s already regretting getting involved in Elf on the shelf.

Expect forty minutes of laughter as Nelly slips effortlessly into our millennial girl gang of chaos.

Nelly’s new book is out on 18 December 2025. And you can find more details about Nelly at nellyghaffar.com and @nellyghaffar.

And if you want to see hilarious outtakes and video clips from the pod follow us on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube @imnotjudgingbutpod

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

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This week on I’m Not Judging But, the girls sit down with Australian comedian and actress Felicity Ward.

She's the star of The Office (Australia), a Dancing with the Stars (Australia) finalist and all-round powerhouse performer.

Felicity brings her razor-sharp humour and total honesty as she dives into the messy, heart-melting highs and lows of parenting her six-year-old son, which she shares with her ex-husband.

She’s vulnerable, hilarious, and completely unfiltered. This episode is an absolute must.

If you want to see hilarious outtakes and more clips from the pod follow us on Instagram,TikTok and YouTube @imnotjudgingbutpod and give Felicity a follow @felicityward

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls are back together and in full chaotic joy. Charlie relives the night of her life after seeing the band Five, Vix proudly announces she’s nearly conquered her Christmas shopping, and Briony drops a big surprise of her own. In Overheard In The Playground they dive into how to keep the Christmas magic alive. In the news is a story that hits close to home as they talk about how many parents struggle to find the time—and the patience—to cook with their kids. And finally, the listeners’ problems roll in, leading to heartfelt moments where they almost all end up in tears. This is an episode you don't want to miss. 

 If you want to get hold of the cookbooks that Vix mentions in this episode then head here.. https://www.feedingbristol.org/resources_category/recipes

And if you want to see hilarious outtakes and more clips from the pod follow us on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube @imnotjudgingbutpod and give us a follow. 

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode of I'm Not Judging, But... CBeebies' longest standing presenter, the legend that is Andy Day joins Briony, Charlie and Vix. In this brilliantly honest and heart-warming chat Andy went deep. He opened up about giving a kidney to his brother, the way his wife has taught him to be patient - and how he still finds leaving the house with children one of the most stressful things to do in life. He also told us about his brand-new Christmas picture book for kids, which sounds every bit as joyful as you’d expect. We got into the wild world of children’s skincare trends (truly ridiculous!) and to top it all off, Andy answered voicenotes from kids — pure gold.

If you want to see hilarious outtakes and more clips from the pod follow us on Instagram,TikTok and YouTube @imnotjudgingbutpod and give Andy a follow @andyday81

His children's book, Dylan The Dino Boy Saves Christmas - is out now.

https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/471014/dylan-the-dino-boy-saves-christmas-by-day-andy/9780241772843

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Comedian Jess Fostekew joins Briony, Charlie and Vix to discuss the beautiful chaos of parenting, including the joy of finding mysterious sticky things in her handbag, being blamed for 'teaching' her son all the bad words and debating whether we should be allowed to take our kids out of school in term time - just for a week. I'm Not Juding, But...this episode is peak millennial parenting—messy, hilarious, and absolutely relatable.

Follow us @imnotjudgingbutpod and @jessicafostekew

Hurry and get tickets to Jess' new UK & Ireland tour, Iconic Breath which starts in 2026

https://www.plosive.co.uk/events/jessica-fostekew-iconic-breath-tour-2026

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.

This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.

I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.