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Dating can feel confusing, frustrating… and honestly, exhausting.
So many people are trying to “get it right” - say the right thing, act the right way, or not mess it up.
But what if that’s the very thing keeping you stuck?
In this short solo episode, I’m sharing the #1 shift that changes everything when it comes to dating.
It has nothing to do with strategies, rules, or trying to be more confident.
It’s about feeling worthy of the partnership you seek.
We can talk about self-love all day long, but if you don’t feel worthy of being loved in the way you want to be, you’ll never find the love you’re looking for.
This episode is less about what to do and more about who you are when you’re doing it.
If dating has ever made you question yourself, shrink, or overanalyze every interaction…
67 | It’s Not Confidence You’re Missing, It’s Self-Trust - with Andrea Janssen
Season 5 · Episode 65
Friday, July 17, 2026 • Duration 01:12:31
We talk about confidence all the time.
On this podcast. In dating. Sex. Work. In life really.
It’s an important skill.
But… is it a skill? Is it innate? Can it be learned? And what is the root of real confidence?
And… what if confidence isn’t actually the thing you’re missing?
In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I sit down with Andrea Janssen - a self-trust guide & confidence coach, to unpack what’s really underneath self-doubt, overthinking, and that constant feeling of second-guessing yourself.
Because here’s the truth: so many people are just using confidence they've gained from experience to get by, instead of developing deep, long lasting, self-trust.
And most of us have been taught to look outside of ourselves for answers - instead of learning how to listen to what’s already happening inside our bodies.
In this episode, we get into:
• Why confidence is often just surface-level - and what actually creates real self-worth
• The difference between mindset and intuition (and why mindset alone can keep you stuck)
• How the inner critic is actually trying to protect you - and why fighting it doesn’t work
• What it means to be truly present in your body (especially in sex, intimacy, and relationships)
• Why overthinking disconnects you from your intuition - and what to do instead
66 | My Ex And I: Breaking Up Without Losing Each Other
Season 5 · Episode 66
Friday, July 3, 2026 • Duration 01:04:00
What happens when a relationship ends… but the connection doesn’t?
In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I sit down with my former partner Graham.
And we get into the real reason we broke up, why it didn’t work between us, and how we’ve transformed our relationship in the 8 months since it happened.
This break up shook my world. We had been quite serious about moving towards co-habitation, kids, marriage - the whole shebang...
And then within a week I was so grateful we ended things.
What happened next has shocked almost everyone in my life - even more than the breakup.
We stayed not only friends, but lovers as well. We chose to keep the other in our lives in the way that felt the most authentic for us.
We went through a conscious uncoupling process, and then rebuilt it into something that actually works for who we are now.
In this conversation, we talk about where we were, where we are now, and where we think we’re going.
We get into:
Why “ending” a relationship doesn’t have to mean losing the person
What it really takes to de-escalate without resentment or confusion
The emotional reality of going from “forever” to something undefined
Boundaries, communication, and what made this actually work
65 | Conscious Kink: Healing Through Power, Consent & Trust with Bear Phillips
Season 5 · Episode 65
Friday, June 12, 2026 • Duration 01:14:07
Kink. Power. Control.
Not exactly words most people associate with healing…
But what if they should?
In this episode, I sit down with Bear Phillips, and Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist, to explore the world of conscious kink. Power dynamics, real consent, Daddy energy, creating cultures of repair, and deeper levels of safety.
In this episode - we reframe intimacy in a way you may never have thought of before.
We get into:
Why so many people are disconnected from their bodies during sex
Why so many women have never truly felt safe with men
How patriarchy impacts men’s emotional and sexual expression
The difference between performing intimacy vs. actually feeling it
How power and consent - when done consciously - can become tools for healing
And the thing most relationships are missing: how to repair after rupture
And little-big Daddy Dynamics
Intimacy isn’t just about how you connect when things are good…
It’s about what happens after things break.
And most of us were never taught how to come back together.
This episode is an invitation to look at your relationships, your desires, and your body through a completely different lens.
64 | Why People Cheat - with Ashley Madison Executive Paul Keable
Season 5 · Episode 64
Friday, May 29, 2026 • Duration 01:04:13
Affairs. Infidelity. Desire.
Not exactly the conversations most people are having openly… but maybe we should be.
In this episode, I sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison — the world’s most well-known platform for people in committed relationships seeking discreet connections.
And before you jump to conclusions… this conversation might surprise you.
With over a decade at Ashley Madison, Paul has had a front-row seat to one of the largest real-world data sets on human desire, relationships, and unmet needs. What he shares challenges almost everything we think we know about cheating, monogamy, and why people look outside their relationships.
We talk about:
- Why people actually have affairs (hint: it’s not just about sex)
- The surprising truth about women, desire, and sexless relationships
- What men are really craving (and why it’s often misunderstood)
- The role of technology in modern intimacy and connection
- And the uncomfortable truth about the conversations most couples aren’t having
This isn’t about promoting or condemning infidelity.
It’s about understanding the deeper emotional and psychological drivers behind it — so you can create more honest, connected, and fulfilling relationships… on your own terms.
Because at the end of the day, the question isn’t whether people are cheating…
63 | Sexy After 50 with Dr. Julie Merriman
Season 5 · Episode 63
Friday, May 1, 2026 • Duration 01:00:50
What if your sex life didn’t decline with age… but actually got better?
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Julie Merriman - therapist, author, and host of Sexy After 50 - and we’re dismantling one of the biggest myths women have been sold: that desire fades, pleasure disappears, and your most alive, turned-on years are behind you.
Spoiler: they’re not.
With nearly 30 years of experience, Dr. Julie has helped countless women break free from the “virtuous trap” of self-sacrifice - the pattern of being everything for everyone else… while quietly disconnecting from their own bodies, pleasure, and desire.
This conversation is liberating.
We dive into:
Why so many women feel disconnected from their sexuality (especially in midlife)
The nervous system piece no one is talking about —-and why it changes everything
How burnout, stress, and “being the good one” kill desire
What actually brings your body back online
The role of novelty, communication, and play in long-term relationships
Why your sex life isn’t broken… it might just be bored
And how aging can become your most confident, embodied, pleasure-filled era yet
This isn’t about “fixing” yourself.
It’s about reclaiming the parts of you that were never meant to be shut down in the first place.
If you’ve ever felt numb, disconnected, or like there’s more available to you… this episode will meet you there - and show you what’s possible on the other side.
62 | AI Intimate Relationships: What’s Really Happening? - with Angela Ivy Leong
Season 5 · Episode 62
Friday, April 17, 2026 • Duration 01:08:32
What happens when AI stops being a tool and starts becoming something we connect with… intimately?
In this episode, I sit down with psychotherapist and researcher Angela Ivy Leong to explore the rapidly emerging world of AI companions - and what it means for intimacy, relationships, and the human experience.
Angela brings a deeply grounded and nuanced perspective, drawing from her work in psychotherapy, Tantra, and psychedelic-assisted therapy - as well as her research into human-AI relationships, including emotional attachment to AI companions.
In this conversation, we explore:
Why people are forming real emotional bonds with AI
What needs AI companions are fulfilling (and why that matters)
The psychological and relational implications of AI intimacy
Where AI might support human connection… and where it is currently trying to replace it
What this means for the future of dating, sex, and relationships
This is not a conversation about whether AI is “good” or “bad.”
It’s about understanding what’s happening - and what it reveals about the current state of human relating, what we consider to be consciousness, and our needs.
Listen in to expand your perspective on the current and future states of AI relationships, what to expect, and what to look out for…
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About our guest:
61 | Embodied Leadership: Live From Intuition, Values & Aliveness
Season 5 · Episode 61
Thursday, April 2, 2026 • Duration 56:35
What does it actually mean to be a leader?
Not in the traditional sense - not titles, status, or authority…
But in how you live, choose, and show up in your life.
In this episode, we explore the concept of embodied leadership - a way of leading that comes from your body, your intuition, and your deepest values.
Because the truth is:
You don’t need a position of power to be a leader.
You’re already leading - your life, your relationships, your energy, your direction.
The question is…
are you doing it consciously?
I’m joined by the founders of SoulQuest, a 14-day transformational leadership initiation set in the wild landscapes of South Africa - designed as a modern rite of passage.
Together, we explore:
What embodied leadership actually is (and why most people are disconnected from it)
How to reconnect to your intuition, values, and inner authority
The power of rites of passage and stepping into the unknown
How environment, challenge, and nature awaken deeper parts of who you are
The role of archetypes, energy, and life force in leadership
What it really takes to live in alignment and integrity
This conversation is about more than leadership. It’s about:
60 | Orgasmic Mastery: What To Do With Sexual Energy (Part 3/3)
Season 5 · Episode 60
Friday, March 20, 2026 • Duration 38:23
This is the final episode in the 3-part Orgasmic Mastery series - and this time we’re talking about the mastery itself.
Essentially: what do you do with sexual energy once you’ve learned how to build it up? What else is possible? Yes, we can experience exquisite pleasure, but we can also harness the energy for wellness, creation, and healing.
This episode is also essential for when you have SO much sexual energy, that you actually need to learn how to calm it down, move it around, and not have it distract you in moments where you actually can’t be swimming in turn on!
So: “What do I actually do with all of this energy?”
In this episode, we move beyond orgasm as a moment…
…and into orgasm as a life force.
You’ll learn how to work with your sexual energy as a tool for:
Healing your body and nervous system
Expanding your creativity and vitality
Deepening your spiritual connection
Manifesting what you truly desire
Drawing from Tantra, Taoism, somatics, and modern nervous system work, I’ll walk you through 5 powerful tools for orgasmic mastery, including:
How to store orgasmic energy instead of releasing it
How to circulate pleasure through your entire body
How to direct sexual energy for healing
How to work with the chakra system
And how to use sex magic to amplify your desires
59 | Orgasmic Expansion: Experience Full-Body Orgasms, Deeper Pleasure & Better Sex (Part 2 of 3)
Season 5 · Episode 59
Wednesday, February 25, 2026 • Duration 48:09
Welcome back to I’ll Have What She’s Having — and Part 2 of our 3-part orgasm series.
Part 1 was about reclaiming your orgasm… this episode is about expanding it.
This is where sex stops being something you do — and starts becoming a state you enter.
We’re diving into Orgasmic Expansion: how to move beyond goal-oriented sex, redefine what orgasm actually is, and unlock deeper, fuller, more powerful pleasure in your body.
If you can already orgasm but know there’s more available this episode will change how you experience sex forever.
In this episode we explore:
What orgasmic expansion actually is
Why most women have been taught a very limited definition of orgasm
How to experience full-body and multi-layered orgasms
Moving from performance-based sex to presence-based pleasure
How breath, sound, movement, and energy expand orgasm
The concept of orgasm as a shift in consciousness
Building a deeper relationship with your body and pleasure
Practices to expand sensation, trust, and sexual confidence
Why slowing down creates more powerful orgasms
How to explore your body as an “orgasmic landscape”
This episode is for you if:
You can orgasm… but know there’s more available
You want deeper, more powerful, or full-body orgasms
You feel ready to expand your pleasure and turn-on
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• How to stop performing, people-pleasing, and outsourcing your worth
• What “being honest with yourself” actually looks like in real life
This conversation goes way beyond the “top tips for confidence”.
Because, there are different types of confidence. And there are foundational pieces that we need before we can even start to develop confidence itself.
How do we learn how to trust ourselves in the moments that really matter, where there's no script, no certainty, and no one telling you what to do?
Whether it’s in the bedroom, in your relationships, or in the decisions you make every day…
This episode will shift the way you relate to yourself.
Meet Our Guest:
Andrea Janssen is a Self-Trust Guide who helps coaches and healers confidently facilitate their client sessions by overcoming self-doubt and trusting their intuition using an intuitive, body-based approach built on over 15 years of experience.
Bear (he/ him) is an Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist, supporting individuals, couples and thruples in expanding pleasure, exploring authentic relating, and deepening into intimacy. In his coaching with men, he works with questions of masculinity and how patriarchy impacts our ability to have meaningful and authentic relationships.
He has been involved in various forms of therapy and personal development for more than half his life, having recently completed the year-long *Compassionate Inquiry* Professional Training with Gabor Maté. His first book; Feminism Will Make a Man Out of You! Is due for release in 2027.
Paul Keable is the Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, where he’s spent over a decade shaping one of the most controversial - and revealing - platforms in modern dating. Based in Toronto, he brings a unique lens on human behavior, desire, and the evolving dynamics of relationships in the digital age.
Julie Merriman, Ph.D., LPC-S, CSC, is a counselor educator, podcaster, author, speaker, and clinician with close to 30 years of experience rescuing women from the "virtuous" trap of self-sacrifice. She doesn’t do fluff. She does survival.
She is the architect of Soul Joy™ and author of In Pursuit of Soul Joy and Are We Gonna Have Sex or What? Dr. Juls is the voice behind the Top 100 Motivational PodcastCompassion Fatigue Cure and the host of Sexy After 50. She uses polyvagal science, somatic wisdom, and chakra psychology to melt the nervous system "freeze" that kills desire and fuels burnout.
From her Texas ranch, Dr. Juls leads a movement of high-achieving women who are done being invisible. She bridges the gap between clinical neuroscience and raw human desire, proving that midlife isn't a decline, it's a hostile takeover of your own life.
Angela Ivy Leong is a sex and relationship therapist, researcher, psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, and TEDx speaker dedicated to healing intimacy and connection in the digital age.
As the founder of An Elegant Mind Counselling Clinic in Vancouver, she has spent over a decade helping individuals and couples thrive in their relationships.
She is the creator of The KISSS Method™ (Ketamine-Induced Self & Sexuality Synchronization), an integrative therapeutic framework that restores embodied self-awareness and deepens relational attunement.
In her widely discussed TEDx talk, “How AI Companions Are Destroying Human Intimacy”, she examines how digital relationships can erode our capacity for true emotional and physiological connection: https://youtu.be/XJAze_FppJ4?si=8rCe2jJIhq6hBajR
Leah is a community builder, empowerment coach and change instigator on a Quest to deepen connection within communities and empower people to create meaningful impact together.
Drawing from a rich background in event design, neurolinguistic programming, reiki, yoga, and embodiment practices, Leah curates experiences that foster creative expression, deep reflection, and genuine connection where impactful ideas can emerge and create a ripple of positive change in community.
A lifelong seeker, Leah’s journey has guided her through warrior retreats, vision quests, plant medicine ceremonies, and spiritual inquiry, shaping her devotion to practices that cultivate presence, resilience, and self-discovery. Her work invites others to live in alignment, lead with love, and become catalysts for the kind of change the world truly needs.
Mikhael Gerhard
Mikhael is a facilitator and strategist who designs transformative journeys and guides organisations and communities through immersive experiences that involve leadership, nature, and creativity. He focuses on cultivating regenerative leadership, unlocking innovation and reimagining strategy through co-creation and storytelling.
Mikhael’s work is rooted in two decades of experience in leading co- creation processes and applying them to the big challenges of our time, including climate change, biodiversity loss, and the disconnection of humans from natural intelligence. His deep commitment to spiritual practice enables him to hold space for individuals and groups to embark on profound inner and outer quests, structured through clear frameworks, yet alive with play, story, and nature’s wisdom.
