A total power exchange with his wife, partner-focused pleasure, and exploring piss play—Steve shares how his 20-year vanilla relationship transitioned into a consciously designed, mutually nurturing connection.

00:00 Scalding hot baths, outdoorsy adventures, and grounding in himself

06:16 A magnetic spiritual connection with his partner and how they balance their disparate relationship needs

12:17 How a 24/7 dynamic with contracts and monthly meetings helped him connect more fully with his partner

19:59 Protecting mental well-being + preparing safety measures following sub drop and top drop

24:56 CUM PLAY!!!

26:59 Growing up feeling like an outsider with Protestant, Catholic, and Jewish influences

32:43 Condom lessons from his classmate’s nurse mom, detailed anatomical drawings, and watching a graphic sex ed video with his family

37:38 How a book from his grandfather led to his first masturbation session

42:57 Why pleasing his partner is always his focus

44:16 Early masturbation exploration, bedsheet burns and baby powder on private parts

47:49 AOL phone sex adventures with “hot babes” to practice flirting

54:43 Rediscovering his innate confidence through Dominance and plans for writing smut

58:01 Early softcore and R-rated film influences on his sexuality

1:02:53 Making classic movie moves on a first date and his first sexually exciting touch

1:08:33 His first time fingering and revisiting sexy shared memories during sex

1:11:41 An absolute love of blowjobs and navigating his “unreasonable” shameless desire with partners

1:16:41 How a mismatch of communication and sexual needs led to consciously designing a D/s dynamic

1:23:32 Breaking out of the relationship rut of a rare sexual “rewards” system to embrace explorations like watersports and cum play

1:29:19 Daddy Dom bedtime rituals and his ongoing Domination development

1:34:46 Piss play and watching his partner pee

1:38:14 How a college class helped him talk openly about sex and why he thinks everyone is sexy

1:42:52 Looking forward to progressing as a Dominant, building community, and working through mutual jealousy to ultimately add more play partners

1:48:15 Shared desire for accessible sex ed + teaching that it’s okay to explore and break out of expected “norms”

📈 STATS | 40 heteroflexible Dominant white dude, he/him pronouns, monogamous, 24/7 power dynamic, married with kids, works in education, US east coast, into: spanking, cum play, watersports, and his submissive

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Mermaid roleplay, creating sexy safe spaces, and de-stigmatizing sex work—Kaylani shares how working at a legal brothel has led her down a path of self-discovery, independence, and deeper human connection.

00:00 Why sex work is “intimacy therapy”

03:20 Community, conquering shame, and feeling empowered as a legal courtesan

09:15 Creating safe judgement-free sexy spaces that allows lovers to express their vulnerability

12:51 Mermaid role play and fulfilling partners’ fantasies

17:19 Client success stories and the magic of changing mindsets

19:21 Why do people go to the legal brothel?

23:45 Noticing relationship patterns and what she’s learned from toxic partnerships

27:26 Growing up boy crazy with mixed sex ed messaging

30:13 A long-time lesbian porn fantasy come true

33:28 All-girl orgy configurations

34:43 How she goes deep with clients

36:47 Virgin parties, foreplay tips, and teaching partners how to make her cum

39:05 Why she likes to connect with words before connecting physically

42:51 Feeling supported by her partners and debunking the “transactional” nature of sex work

45:38 Consistent self-care routines and staying curious

48:45 A future of intimacy coaching and helping women leverage sexual energy into financial freedom

51:44 How she’s spreading happiness, acceptance, and compassion

📈STATS | 32 heteroflexible multicultural female, she/her pronouns, single, elite companion, Las Vegas-based legal courtesan, into: meeting new people, deep conversations, spending time with partners, initiating the inexperienced, playing with lady friends, role play, and creating safe spaces for partners

🔗 KAYLANI LINKS | @xoxokaylani

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Nude car shows, sex toys, and swinging—BJ returns to share his recent explorations and his discovery of a new kink.

00:00 The importance of always having a towel at a nudist car show

05:37 Heightened sensuality in nudity and the different types of nudism

12:19 Expanding his sexual tool shed with FirmTech’s data-collecting TechRing and Performance Ring

17:44 Reclaiming his sexuality post-injury through prostate play and his new favorite cock ring

23:53 Reflections on perfectionism and pursuing excellent ongoing connections

28:45 Exploring a clothing compersion kink and appreciating mutual nurturance

34:01 Post-divorce swinging experiences and getting back into the swinger lifestyle

38:27 Cultivating open-mindedness to live a better, happier life

41:58 Excited for meditative knitting and serving the kink community through leather work

BJ’s episode from October 2024 | Sexagenarian Sexologist

📈 STATS | 60s non-monogamous cis male divorcé, retired protestant pastor, American Midwest, into: nudism, new sex toys, swinging lifestyle

🔗 BJ LINKS | vvrc / sexuality resources

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30s heterosexual white female, she/her pronouns, monogamous, divorcée, founder and CEO of Afterglow, ethical porn and guided masturbations.

Topics mentioned:

Accounting background, adult film production, aftercare, Afterglow, average penis size, avoiding complacency, awkward sex talk, bisexual curiosity, body movement, boyfriend of 15 years, boy crazy, boundaries in sex work, butt stuff, casual sex, clitoral stimulation, communication, conservative upbringing, cunnilingus, dating apps, deepthroating, divorce, douchebag porn, ethical porn, experimenting with toys, exploration, face fucking debate, female pleasure, first orgasm at 24, friends with benefits, guided masturbation, guided sex audio, health and safety conversations, high school sweetheart, Jewish summer camp, kink openness, kissing, lassoing creative chaos, Lelo vibrator, libido changes, Liberator sex couch, lingerie, lube use, making porn for women, male performance pressure, masturbation, mental health vs sexual health, monogamy, morning sex, natural food startup, non-clinical definition of sex, not orgasming, one partner for 15 years, oral sex, orgasm discovery, partners' reactions to porn, pillow talk, porn consumption, porn creation, porn for women, Pornhub, production logistics, professional sex performers, reading erotic romance, romance novels, same vibrator for years, sensual dance, sex and cannabis overlap, sex as acceptance, sex couch configurations, sex education gaps, sex industry boundaries, sex-positive conversations, shame and vulnerability, startup mindset, STD testing, stress and libido, toy integration, use more lube, vanilla sex, vibrator shopping anxiety, vulnerability, website and tech management, women-focused porn company.

🔗 LILLY LINKS | xoafterglow.com / @xoaftergloww / x / linkedin / facebook

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34 queer pansexual cis woman, she/her pronouns, polyamorous, co-producer of Failed Films Fest, Los Angeles-based.

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Alicia Silverstone fantasy, art films, artful porn, artist residency, ass in the air, BDSM, blood play, blowjob, bratting, butthole, camming, collage art, coming out, communal living, consensual kink, consensual ravishment, cunt worship, daisy chain, daddy kink, desert motorcycle dildo, double penetration, dom/sub dynamics, eating pussy, emotional connection, erotic art, erotic dreams, erotic film, erotic fantasy, erotic house party, exhibitionism, failed films, female orgasm, fingering, flogger, gangbang fantasy, glass butt plug, glory hole, good girl programming, group masturbation, group sex, hairy bodies, health and safety, Hitachi, HSV1, HSV2, impact play, kink discovery, kink.com, kinky collaging, lesbian crush, masturbation routine, masturbation with Hitachi, motorcycle dildo, mutual masturbation, naked beach whipping, nipple clamps, non-monogamy, oral sex, orgasm denial, outdoor sex, pansexuality, pegging, play party, play space etiquette, pleasuring women, poetry events, polyamory, porn festivals, power bottom, pussy, queer sex, ravishment fantasy, rope play, rough sex, safe sex conversations, San Francisco queer scene, sex club, sex education gaps, sex positive community, sex worker art, shame smashing, shared fantasies, shower masturbation, sleepover fantasies, spanking, spitting, strap-on sex, submissive identity, taboo fantasy, tarot-inspired sex art, threesomes, throat herpes, toy sharing, trauma-informed kink, UTI from toys, voyeurism, watching partners masturbate, wax play, whipped on the beach, witchy porn, women-led porn, writing sex scenes.

🔗 LAUREN LINKS | Failed Films / @failedfilmsfest / x

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A compilation episode!

Topics mentioned:

Acrylic chair, adult theater, anal sex, asses, BDSM, bisexual cum factory, blowjob, brainwashing, brunch play party, chastity, chest writing, cisgender, collie sub, community kink, consensual nonmonogamy, crossdressing, cum eating, daddy dom, daytime play party, dildo, dominant top, domme advice, electric stimulation, erotic photography, experienced players, femme domme, fetish for vacuum cleaners, fisting, flogging, full-time sex work, gender affirmation, gentleman dom, giggling sadist, hand expression, hood play, hypnosis fetish, impact play, indoctrination, introvert kinkster, lactation kink, latex fetish, leather ass, long-term power exchange, makeout, marking up, masked play, mind fuck, mommy kink, muse pedestalization, mutual obsession, nipple feeding, nonbinary dom, objectification, OnlyFans, pansexual, parenting and sex work, partial breath play, pee play, pheromones, play party, podcast guest, polyamory, positive kink stories, professional bully, psychological domination, punching kink, puppy play, queer sex, Razor Cake magazine, responsive desire, rope bondage, sadism, safety and negotiation, scatological themes, scent fetish, sex stories, sex toys, sex work, sexual self-discovery, shared fetishes, spanking, spanking skirt, submission, submissive husband, switch dynamics, synched vacuuming fantasy, tits, top and bottom dynamics, transmasc identity, trans women, vacuum blowjob, vacuum boob play, vacuum fetish, voyeurism, wet brush spanking, wristband signals, writing on body.

🔗 LORDE DESTROYER LINKS | @lordedestroyer / linktr.ee/lordedestroyer

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A board certified pediatrician with extensive training in Women’s Health, Maternal-Fetal Medicine and Newborn Intensive Care who in 2022 founded Artemis Luxury Wellness to facilitate discussion and exploration of human sexuality through a feminine lens.

Topics mentioned:

Abstinence culture, adolescent patients, adult toy stores, AIDS, anal play, anatomy, artists in residence, Artemis Luxury Wellness, BDSM, bisexuality, boudoir photography, breathwork, chastity, childbirth, Cirque performers, clitoral stimulation, clitoris-vaginal distance, clinical sexology, condoms on bananas, concierge pediatrics, consent education, continuing medical education, cultural norms, deep throating, desert retreat center, direct primary care, doctors and sexuality, ethical non-monogamy, event planning, fire play, food and sexuality, gender identity, genital anatomy, group sex, gynecological care, healing through pleasure, herpes, high-risk pregnancy, holistic wellness, HPV vaccine, HSV-1, HSV-2, immunocompromised concerns, in vitro fertilization, infant care, kink community, lingerie fashion show, luxury experiences, masturbation, medical training, meditation, mindfulness, monogamy, motherhood and sexuality, newborn care, obstetrics, orgasm, orgy play, ouchie boundaries, outercourse, over-the-top events, pap smears, parents and sex ed, pediatrician sex educator, pelvic floor dysfunction, perineum exams, personal boundaries, playfulness, porn, porn literacy, postpartum recovery, postpartum sex, pregnancy hormones, professional boundaries, public shame, recovery and sexuality, rectal swabs, relationship dynamics, resident artist housing, retreat center design, safer sex practices, same-sex education, scolding monogamous culture, sensory play, sexually transmitted infections, shame and culture, shawls of shame, single motherhood, sleep deprivation, slow sex, solo polyamory, spanking, sparkle, spiritual sex, STI testing, swinger culture, talking to teenagers, temperature play, threesomes, toy play, trauma and healing, trust building, vaginal dryness, vaginal orgasm myths, Vegas retreats, vulnerable conversation, wellness events, women’s pleasure, and youth sex education.

Dr Amber’s update from August 2024 | Under the White Coat

🔗 DR AMBER LINKS | artemisluxurywellness.com / @ArtemisLuxuryWellnessLV

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42 Black straight cis male, married, Colorado-based creator

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Anal play, ass worship, athletic partners, baby care scheduling, bareback sex, BBQ bull, bisexual curiosity, black community and sex, body confidence, body image, cock comparison, cock play, cock sucking, communication in threesomes, condom use, consent education, cuckold feelings, deep connection, doggy style, dominant energy, ethical non-monogamy, fantasies, fuck licking, gangbangs, group sex, handoffs, hot wife, hotel meetups, intimacy, interracial dynamics, kink exploration, kinky redhead, lifestyle parties, male bisexuality, male submission, marital communication, masturbation, military marriage, mutual pleasure, nipple play, OnlyFans, open relationships, pansexual moments, peer pressure, play party vetting, porn preferences, postpartum sex life, privacy, reclaiming, redheads, relationship honesty, roleplay, same-room sex, secret sex life, sex education, sex shame, sexual awakening, sexual confidence, sexual trauma, shared partners, size comparison, soft dominance, stag, swinger websites, threesomes, trust building, video production, voyeurism, watching wife, weekly testing, young sexual experiences.

🔗 JAY LINKS | OF / @hotwifesheila

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Topics mentioned:

Adventure, Airbnb, artisan floggers, ass cheeks, ass cutout, attraction, BDSM, blowjobs, bucket list, camgirl, camming, cock worship, communication, companions, consensual porn, content creation, cuck fantasy, degradation kink, ethical porn, fantasy roleplay, feet, female pleasure, flogging, floggers, Florentine flogging, foot fetish, fuck sandwich, fucking machine, goddess worship, group sex, hot tub, independent sex work, kink, Layla, masturbation, masturbation vacation, masturbation reset, Masan Clothes, masturbation techniques, mutual desire, non-monogamy, OnlyFans, orgasm, o-shot, oxytocin dump, panty selling, pegging, play parties, porn, porn recommendations, Pornhub, producer brain, pussy worship, reclaiming, relationships, roleplay, safe container, Sex Panther, sex stories in the park, Shakespeare and sex, shared fantasies, Simian, spanking, spanking skirt, spit play, stage and cock queen dynamics, stags and cuckolds, submission, submissive dynamics, swinger dynamics, trampolining fantasy, trust, voice memos, wetness, worship, writing porn fantasies.

🔗 KATHY LINKS | strictlyanonymouspodcast.com / @strictanonymous / x

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40s bisexual female, she/her pronouns, erotic romance author, host of the erotica fiction and sexuality podcast: Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, a voiceover artist, audiobook narrator, and blogger, into: power play, exhibitionism, and outdoor play.

Topics mentioned:

Audiobook narration, author identity, bad sex education, being judged for kinks, bespoke erotica, blowjob scene research, body pleasure education, clit mapping, clit sucker, clit junkie, communication about sex, consent education, content creation, cunt vs pussy, dirty talk, editing audio, educational erotica, erotic fiction, erotic romance, erotic writing process, erotica podcast, exhibitionism, fantasy exploration, foreplay as daily care, food play, fucking, giantess fetish, gratification, grinding, hot audio stories, human dildo, kink judgment, kink shame, kink variety, Licking Sip Coffee Shop, Linktree, masturbation, master/slave kink, microphilia, morning writing, naughty narration, non-linear storytelling, NSFW podcast, orgasm, outdoor sex, penis owner identity, personal fantasies, pillow humping, pleasure discovery, power play, pussy saddle, reading erotic fiction, reframing romance, restraint play, romance vs erotica, Ruby Glow, Ruby Blush, rules of romance novels, same-sex giantess sex, sex acts and identity, sex audio content, sex blogging, sex furniture, sex norms, sex outside, sex shame, sex toys, sexy audiobook acting, sexy writing, shame-free living, size fetish, smut, social media sexiness, spanking bench, spicy romance, squirting, taboo fantasies, Twitter polls, vagina terminology, voiceover artist, voyeurism, writer identity, writing inspiration, Zoomio.

🔗 RUAN LINKS | linktr.ee/ruanwillow

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30s queer cis female, actor, writer, comedian, sensual artist, a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch.

Topics mentioned:

Anal, anal fisting, anal injury, anal loosening, anal sex, anxiety, ass play, ass touching, assault recovery, attraction, barf emoji, BDSM, birth control, blowjob, body worship, bratty, brothel, butthole safety, calling dirty names, comedy drama, confidence, conscious fantasy, contracts, conversation skills, courtesan, creative play, cum, customer experience, degradation, desert magic, divorced people parties, dominant, double Scorpio, education, erotic bucket list, erotic fiction, erotic imagination, erotic rituals, erotic short stories, escort, fantasy realization, female orgasm, financial domination, fissure, foot worship, friends with benefits, generosity, glass toy, goddess kink, good ass goddess, group sex, healing, high-end sex work, hiring process, horny, identity evolution, imagination, initiation, OnlyFans, intimacy, introversion, joy of giving, kink, kink-friendly partner, legal courtesan, legal sex work, luxury experiences, masturbation, medical kink, money kink, Moulin Rouge, mutual satisfaction, name change, nervous clients, non-monogamy, nudity, orgasm, orgasmic writing, out-of-pocket clients, pegging, penis anatomy, personal evolution, porn, porn directing, power dynamics, praise kink, private jet, prostitution, pussy worship, reclaiming, rejection, roleplay, romantic fantasies, safe sex, sapiosexuality, scar tissue, seduction, sex magic, sex party, sex toys, sex work, sexual trauma, sexual healing, sexual satisfaction, sexual self-care, shadow work, sheri’s ranch, shower ritual, sibling trauma, solo pleasure, spanking, special soap, submissive men, sugar baby, threesomes, tickling, transparency, trauma-informed sex, truth telling, unicorn, vaginal wetness, value exchange, virgin clients, wife for a week, worship, writing erotica.

GG's episode from September 2021 | Hyper-Catholic to Sugar Babe

🔗 GG LINKS |  linktr.ee/ggsauvage

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Mala Marquez is a professional MILF and forever hot girl who is based in the Bay Area and works as an independent Mommy Domme, phone sex operator and sensual movement dance teacher.

Topics mentioned:
3D embodiment, affirming language, aging and sexuality, amorphous desire, anthroposophy of sex, anxiety, aphrodite, asking for what you want, astrology, attachment, badass armor, Bay Area, BDSM, beauty rituals, being a mom, boundaries, chain-smoking role play, chaos magic, childhood trauma, client relationships, clothing fetishes, coaching, co-creation, comfort, community building, consent, content creation, cuckolding, cultural norms, dance, desire, dissociation, domme work, dressing up, edge play, elders and sex, emotional regulation, erotic hypnosis, erotic research, ethical sex work, femme power, feminine gaze, financial domination, financial safety, foot worship, fuckable energy, gender roles, glory hole, hairiness, healing touch, humiliation play, independent domming, inner child, intimacy, Jessica Rabbit, kink conversations, lap dances, leg and foot worship, liminal space, limpias, luxury masturbation, magic, male gaze, masturbation, matriarchs, MILF, mommy dom, monogamy, multi-orgasmic, mutual pleasure, napping, nervous dicks, Night Flirt, non-linear sex, objectification, orgasm pressure, pegging, phone sex, play as sex, pole dancing, power dynamics, pressure to perform, prioritizing pleasure, private Instagram, protection servitors, public persona, queer sex, reclaiming sexiness, request and receive, ritual, role play, sadism, salsa dancing, satisfaction, satin and silk, school sex ed, secrecy, self-attunement, self-worth, sensuality, sex as service, sex worker boundaries, sex work safety, shame, single parenting, Siren Sciences, slow sex, soft domme, solo quickies, spanking, speech rituals, spiritual kink, squirting, strippers, strip club culture, submission, taboo, taking time, teaching consent, texture and sensation, the underbelly of masculinity, trauma healing, unspoken desires, verbal scripts, vulnerability, wardrobe fantasy, work/life boundary, worship, writing spells.

🔗 MALA LINKS | The Siren Sciences Patreon / @mala_y_milagrosa

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30 bisexual white cis female, 3 months into a monogamous relationship with a dude; she is a cozy type of sexy, loves spit, choking and butt stuff and is exploring ladies and play parties. A manager of a teeny shop from Alberta, Canada.

Topics mentioned:

Abortion, Alberta, amateur porn, anal play, anal sex, asking practice, ass play, ass worship, assertiveness, ass-to-mouth, birth control, bisexual, blowjob anxiety, blowjobs, body confidence, body image, bondage, boob holding, boob play, boobs, boyfriend, butt plug, butt stuff, Canada, Cheerios, choking, clit stimulation, communication, condoms, consensual non-consent, consent, content creation, copper IUD, cum in butt, degradation kink, dirty talk, doggystyle, drone porn, drive-in sex fantasy, dry humping, ethical porn, face slapping, female masturbation, feminism, fingering, filming sex, food play, foreskin, fuck buddy, fuck yeses, fucking in cars, fucking outside, gay sex, giggle fits, group sex, hair pulling, handjobs, healing through sex, hetero sex, high libido, hot tub masturbation, humiliation kink, intimate communication, kink, kinky exploration, lesbian sex, libido, lingerie, lube, masturbation, masturbation videos, minivan sex, mirror play, monogamous relationship, multiple orgasms, naked beach sex, nipple play, nude photos, oral sex, orgasm, orgasm denial, outdoor sex, oversharing, pegging interest, penis worship, period fears, play parties, pleasure mapping, porn, porn filming, porn preferences, primal play, public play, public sex, pussy pump, pussy worship, queer identity, rape fantasy, rough sex, safety talks, same-sex exploration, self-love, sex ed, sex education, sex fantasies, sex shame, sex toy play, sexual communication, sexual desire, sexual healing, sexual identity, sexual shame, sexy hands, slut rampage, slutty years, small boobs, spanking, spit, spitting, strap-on sex, taboo desires, talking dirty, teen sex, threesomes, vibrator, voyeurism, wet dreams, woman-on-woman sex, writing fantasies.

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Easily adaptable, a passion for travel, and the realities of working in adult PR in an increasingly censored society—Brian shares good vibes and loves of work and play.

00:00 How staying active and going with the flow fuels his happy workaholism

04:40 Romanticizing his work + the pros and cons of easily accessible porn

10:40 The joys of dry humping and being grateful for discovering masturbation “late”

14:20 Offending people in the name of supporting his clients and de-stigmatizing sex

17:16 Daily censorship battles and the power of Big Tech

21:55 Why he always has his next vacation planned and enjoying every little win

24:32 PR work origin story and constantly testing his (really good) people skills

28:27 Reflections on generational communication styles when it comes to dating apps, texting and phone calls

33:29 Surprise joys of solo travel

36:19 Finding the balance of giving and receiving in relationships + the sexiness of the unknown

43:17 Sex ed moments burned into his memory and the two movies that taught him about sex

46:58 Early days of not understanding homosexuality as a straight choir boy

51:38 Acrobatic sex, a Narcos-style party, and Playboy Mansion experiences

56:34 The best New Year’s of his life and a long distance office surprise

1:00:26 AVN Expo experiences and enjoying the unknown

1:04:43 Where he finds clarity and the grounding necessity of hugs

📈 STATS | 49 straight dude, president of BSG PR, into: work, music, travel

🔗 BRIAN LINKS | @bsgpr / X

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Sensual ProDomme and Dakini (a Tantric priestess and practitioner) and multi-modality healing artist with an emphasis in sacred embodiment, tantric activation, sensation play, impact, bondage, hypnotic vocalization and psychological play.

Topics mentioned:

Alchemy, all genders, altar, archetypes, BDSM, bicoastal, bisexuality, body alchemy, body-based healing, bondage, breathwork, butt plug training, cabaret collective, catharsis, central kink, chakra system, cheese and fruit, chief of staff, conscious kink, conscious sexuality retreat, containment, creative direction, crying, degradation kink, disembodiment, dominance, dominatrix, double-ended flogger, dynamic power play, energetic charge, energetic container, erotic energy, eroticism, eye contact, fantasy playroom, flogging, gay curiosity, grief, group sex spaces, healing modalities, heart-centered, humiliation, impact play, incantation, intimacy work, kink curiosity, latex, leadership energy, lifestyle Domme, masculine energy, massage, mood boards, mother archetype, multimodality, mutual exploration, neck massager, non-mainstream desires, nudity, objectification, orgasmic bliss, pain and pleasure, panel speaking, past versions of self, penetrative energy, polarity, psychological play, queer identity, queer-curious, Reiki, ritual, rope bondage, sacred embodiment, sadism, scene creation, self-pleasure, sensation play, sensual dominance, sensual Dom, sensuality, sex educator, sex shame, sex work, sex worker, sexy hobby, shadow work, shame smashing, shibari, Shiva and Shakti, single tail, somatic experience, spanking, spiritual kink, submissive energy, taboo exploration, tantric activation, tantric Domme, tantric massage, teaching lovers, tears, trauma release, unbound ritual, voice hypnosis, vulnerability, widower intimacy, woo woo, workshop facilitation.

🔗 MADELINE LINKS | madelinepryor.com

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Adult sex education, amateur porn, anal play, art camp, ass slapping, assless skirt, autistic, BDSM, blowjob on camera, body consciousness, bucket list, casual dating, chocolate syrup, cis men excluded, clothed female naked male (CFNM), content creation, custom content, dirty talk, dominant, double-handed flogging, erotic artist, erotic photographer, erotic Polaroids, exhibitionist, explicit communication, eye needle play, female-led threesome, fetish exploration, fetish list, fisting, flogging, Florentine flogging, foot fetish, footsie, gangbang avoidance, good girl, group sex party, high-end sex spaces, kink education, kinky weekend, latex, learning kink, masturbation, masturbation vacation, mission 69, naked pool party, non-monogamy, OnlyFans, orgasm count, pegging, phone sex, photography fantasy, play partner, porn performer, Power exchange, pussy pump, pussy slapping, queer community, queer kink space, roleplay, rope bondage, safe sex practices, same-room voyeurism, sassy submissive, schedule accountability, Sex Panther, sex-positive spaces, sex stories podcast, sex toy shopping, sexual health graduate program, sharing fantasies, spanking, spanking skirt, submissive, switch, titty slapping, toe sucking, top training, trans inclusive, vanilla bucket list, voyeur, voyeuristic arousal, wiggle movie, work kink, workshop learning.

🔗 KATHY LINKS | strictlyanonymouspodcast.com / @strictanonymous / x

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Filmmaker and the director of CrashPadSeries.com, a queer porn series set in a secret apartment in San Francisco, celebrating her 10th year in the adult industry!

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80/20 rule, adult film, adult industry, anal, artists, Bay Area, BDSM, Berlin, bisexual, but stuff, camera nerd, Catholic upbringing, cinematography, climax, Crash Pad Series, creative porn, crew communication, director, editing, empathy, erotic art, estrogen, exhibitionism, explicit communication, Folsom, Folsom back alley, fuck, gangbangs, gay pride, gender identity, gogo dancing, growing up trans, hot sex stories, imagination, kink, Latina dom, lesbian porn, lighting setup, lingerie, magic wands, male to female transition, masturbation, modesty, model coordination, name changes, naming conventions, NDAs, nonbinary, OnlyFans, orgasm, original porn, partner filming, pink castle dungeon, pinklabel.tv, porn film fests, porn performer, power exchange, production week, professional porn, queer porn, queer representation, rope suspension, San Francisco, scheduling talent, secret agent, sex as superpower, sex education, sex industry, sex parties, sex toys, sexy data, sexy lighting, shame, spanking, strap-on, studio porn, testosterone, tolerance, trans artist, trans lesbians, trans porn, trans representation, transgender women, tripod porn, trust, unsexy tasks, voyeuristic filming, witch threesome, working with spouse.

🔗 AVA LINKS | pinklabel.tv / crashpadseries.com / @AvaLaPrima

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Professional BDSM consultant and queer lifestyle Dominatrix, dungeon owner in Los Angeles.

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Air sign, anal play, Apple store dungeon, ass play, authority, bdsm classes, bdsm consultant, bdsm play party, bdsm workshop, beautiful dungeon, book club, butt stuff, cane fetish, cannabis journey work, cis and trans women, clean dungeons, client boundaries, clip sites, clothing swap, co-topping, community building, consulting sessions, corporal punishment, couple consulting, custom videos, demystifying kink, dungeon design, Dungeon East, Dungeon West, electro play, erotic art, erotic video, unexpected poop, fantasy fulfillment, fetish exploration, flogging, foot fetish, friend boundaries, gender nonconforming clients, hypnotherapy, identity exploration, intimidating dommes, kink shame, kinky events, kinky threesomes, latex Barbie, lesbian book club, lifestyle dominatrix, Louboutins, mean lady domme, memoir writing, mental health referrals, nail fetish, Night Flirt, nonbinary clients, online domination, online sex work, pandemic burnout, pee play, play party hosting, porn feature, post-pandemic connection, private session work, professional boundaries, professional domme, queer clients, queer community, queer parties, rental dungeons, retreat planning, roleplay scenes, running events, safe spaces, secret keeper, secret kinks, self-care, self-discovery, sex education, sex shame, sex work pride, shame culture, social norms, solo sessions, spanking, speaking engagements, speakeasy dungeon, submissive training, switching off work mode, teaching bdsm, text sessions, therapy referrals, tickle fetish, top identity, toy recommendations, truffle chips, unexpected poop, virtual domination, website consulting, weekly newsletter, women clients, workshop co-teaching, writing goals.

🔗 MISTRESS JUSTINE LINKS | losangelesdominatrix.com / @thejustinecross / @justineplays

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Previously the owner of a BDSM toy store, a fetish model, professional Dominatix and pole dancer, and founder of Pineapple Support: a non-profit organization providing mental health and emotional support to adult industry professionals across the globe.

Topics mentioned:

501(c)(3), admin challenges, adult industry, aftercare, anxiety, art gallery dungeon, BDSM, BDSM parties, behind the scenes, being yourself, boundaries, burnout, chain play, clitoris, cold metal, communication, community support, content creators, corporate transition, costume play, creative spaces, depression, desire exploration, digital therapy, dominatrix work, donations, drop-in groups, emotional support, erotic performance, event coordination, fetish model, fetish parties, fundraising, GayVN Awards, gender diversity, giving back, group therapy, harm reduction, healing shame, hot room, ID verification, industry stigma, kink-aware therapy, kinky people, leather furniture, mental health care, mental load, mental resilience, metal chains, Miami events, mindfulness, model support, money barriers, nonprofit leadership, online sex work, outreach events, overwork, partners of sex workers, pineapple safe word, Pineapple Support, play parties, pole dancing, professional boundaries, professional dominatrix, psych stigma, psychological safety, red carpet events, resources for sex workers, safe word humor, safer sex, self-knowledge, sex education, sex industry, sex positive, sex work, sexual boundaries, sexual communication, sexual health, sexual pleasure, shame recovery, society norms, sponsorships, stigma-free therapy, stripper competitions, stripping, support groups, therapeutic techniques, therapy access, therapy funding, therapy matching, therapist interviews, trauma support, trust building, unshameful conversation, vacationless work, virtual sessions, volunteer champions, waitlists, webinars, work-life balance, work travel.

🔗 LEYA LINKS | @leyatanit / @pineappleYSW / PineappleSupport.org

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Host of the Strictly Anonymous confessions podcast.

Topics mentioned:

Addiction to guests, advice show, anonymous podcasting, aries sun, artistic nudes, audience boundaries, bisexual men, boundaries with fans, casual encounters, cheating stories, cock queen, communication styles, content censorship, Craigslist guests, creative sexual expression, cultural stigma, cut queen, daddy issues, dry humping, editing control, emotional boundaries, erotic podcasting, Facebook privacy, fan obsession, fetish friday, foot pic requests, gender stigma, guilt vs shame, half way in game, healing through stories, heteroflexible men, high sex drive, honesty in sex, horny podcaster, host anonymity, kink acceptance, labels and identity, Libra rising, lifestyle documentary, listening curiosity, male bisexuality, male-male action, media censorship, medical interests, mom podcaster, monogamy vs non-monogamy, moral judgment, motherhood and sex work, OnlyFans content, open relationships, orgasm denial, pantyhose fetish, parasocial dynamics, Patreon growth, personal boundaries, podcast origin story, podcast professionalism, podcast sex appeal, pussy-centered curiosity, queer sex, realism in storytelling, rejection stories, safe storytelling, same-sex stigma, secret lives, sex and astrology, sex education, sex industry censorship, sex industry stigma, sex positivity, sex trends, sex work definition, sexual boundaries, sexual evolution, sexual fantasy, sexual openness, sexual repression, shame reactions, single motherhood, soaking, social acceptance, social media criticism, spectrum of sexuality, strictly anonymous podcast, swinger dreams, tease and denial, transgression, Twitter limits, unintentional anonymity, unprofessional advice, user-generated content, Virgo moon, voyeurism, women and sex, women liking sex, women podcasters, YouTube comments, YouTube trolls.

🔗 KATHY LINKS | strictlyanonymouspodcast.com / @strictanonymous / x

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A ProDomme who uses BDSM as her medium and your suffering as her canvas, she facilitates connection and devotion through delicious, delicious torture.

Topics mentioned:

Art of teasing, assignment-based submission, auditory sensitivity, authentic expression, Bdsm, Bdsm education, Bdsm play parties, body language communication, bondage, breath coaching, CFNM, chakras, chastity, cock and ball torture, consent, consensual degradation, consensual humiliation, creative dominance, denial, discipline, domme training, dominance, dominant energy, emotional processing, energy vampires, erotic art, erotic experiences, erotic intimacy, ethical kink, experience-based learning, fantasy homework, female dominance, feminization, flogging, fluid gender expression, gendered language, golden showers, guided suffering, impact play, kink communication, kink shame, lifestyle Dommes, light sensitivity, locktober, masochism, Mistress Luna experience, naked male, negotiated scenes, NSFW emails, online dominatrix academy, orgasm sensitivity, pain processing, pegging trends, personal rituals, play furniture, power exchange, pro dom, psychological domination, public kink play, pussy show requests, queer kink expression, ritual, safe words, safe sane consensual, sensory experiences, sex work, sex work stigma, shame transformation, submissive psychology, submissive training, taboo fantasies, taser play, temple sessions, toy tools, trauma-informed kink, verbal degradation, vulnerability, weird fetish requests, women in dominance, written fantasy assignments.

🔗 MISTRESS LUNA LINKS | mistresslunaexperience.com

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Host of the Slutrepreneur Podcast.

Topics mentioned:

Anal exploration, anal sex, anonymous partner, Amazon affiliate, assistant, belching fetish, bikini wax, Black Eyed Peas, blades for babes, blowup chairs, body autonomy, branding, Britney Spears, burp content, burping fetish, business burnout, cam shows, censorship, Christina Aguilera, client communication, co-working dungeon, community building, content creation, custom content, customer service, Depop, digital storefronts, dildo sales, dirty socks, DIY marketing, e-commerce, edible sex, education-forward space, emotional resilience, entrepreneurship, Etsy, fetish requests, financial freedom, foot fetish, freaky content, friend circle, girl-on-girl content, gorilla sex video, hand tattoos, healing through sex work, humiliation kink, hybrid business, inside of butthole, internet trolls, joy (jerk off instructions), kink content, lollipops in trash, masturbation, masturbation coaching, menu of services, mentoring sex workers, misogyny online, mutual aid, niche content, nonbinary fans, nudity, OnlyFans, orgasm discovery, out-of-body orgasm, panty sales, pansexuality, passive income, pegging gear, performer boundaries, personalized videos, pet rescue, physical autonomy, podcast hosting, political advocacy, pop stars, post-orgasm aftercare, pretty feet, professional goddess, projection online, purple bucket performances, queer community, Reddit advertising, rebranding, Rebecca Blue, rescue dogs, revenge porn, safe workspace, sales strategy, self-celebration, self-worth, sensory deprivation, sex ed museum, sex worker activism, sex work character, sex work shame, sex worker assistant, sexual liberation, sexuality exploration, shipping weird items, Shopify stores, sluthood pride, social media burnout, sober lifestyle, solo content, spiritual experience, spread eagle videos, square businesses, stripping, submissive vs dominant roles, taboo kinks, targeted harassment, team dynamics, Tila Tequila, TikTok bans, TikTok censorship, TikTok takedowns, toenails, top 5% OnlyFans, toy play, trauma healing, tribute culture, Twitter news, used panties, viral hashtags, web camming, weird item sales, wellness journey, women in business, working from home, Y2K fantasy room, YouTube monetization.

🔗 ANA DEE LINKS |  professionalgoddess.com / tiktok / instagram / x / OF

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Host of the Manwhore podcast.

Topics mentioned:

Ass licking, ass play, body acceptance, body image, blowjob, board games, butt stuff, champagne room, comedy, consent education, cunnilingus, custom videos, dirty haikus, Discord community, disordered eating, DM sexting, domme dynamics, eating pussy, erotic photography, fantasy fulfillment, female pleasure, fingering, gang bangs, gender norms, glory hole, group sex, Hacienda, handjobs, heteroflexibility, kink, kinky community, LGBTQ+, licking, Man Whore Con, Man Whore Podcast, masturbation, Mashable articles, naked stand-up, nakedness, non-monogamy, OnlyFans, oral auditions, orgies, partnered content, pegging, penis insecurity, play parties, porn, pussy eating, queer spaces, rimjobs, rules of engagement, safe sex, sex ed, sex party etiquette, sex podcasting, sex positivity, sex work, sexting, shame reduction, slutty career, soft dicks, spectrum kink, squirting, stand-up comedy, straight men in queer spaces, strangers sex, trans porn stars, voyeurism, watching sex acts.

Billy's episode from May 2019 | Naked Comedy

Billy’s update from May 2024 | Squirting MILF Era

🔗 BILLY LINKS | manwhorepod.com / @thebillyprocida / @billyisprocida / OF

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26 white queer female, she/they pronouns, editor of this podcast.

🔗 KIMBERLY LINKS | @kimberloft

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Next-level self-love, playful acts of service, and a praise kink—Olivia shares how her everyday practice of giving and receiving has led to a wonderful life, her favorite types of dirty talk, the connections that make touch tantalizing, how she discovered her desires, and the ways she wants to give and receive

00:00 Seizing every opportunity to treat herself

03:51 Generosity of adults in her early life and her own receiving superpowers

08:05 Healthy romanticizing and an expanded understanding of self-love

11:38 The difference between romantic, platonic and self love

13:38 A love of linguistic specificity and astrological geek-outs

16:46 Communicating clearly as a Black woman and being born into a state of receiving

21:43 Allowing others to nurture and how it differs from self-care

26:45 Desiring romance that begins with connected conversation and exploring partners’ passions

30:13 How Olivia’s love languages stem from what she wanted more of growing up

33:07 Cultivating fulfilling relationships of mutual care

36:26 A baseline of taking care of herself in order to be of service to others

41:11 The everyday pleasures of walking her dog, experiencing the arts, and breathing fresh air

44:33 Opportunistic friend sex and wanting to be enthusiastically desired

51:19 The hotness of emotional intelligence and genuine kindness plus meeting people where they’re at

55:18 Needing mental, emotional, and physical stimulation for the energetic exchange of sex

1:00:46 Practicing dirty talk, loving praise while riding, and being turned on by doing a good job

1:05:39 Fueling partnered pleasure via real-time feedback

1:12:33 A love of sucking dick and doggy style

1:15:34 Open to receiving oral and anal in a safe, enthusiastic connection

1:18:53 Redirecting partners from cunnilingus and advice for fingering

1:24:47 Safety tips for impact play and intuiting types of touch needed

1:29:03 When she likes playing rough, hair pulling, and a hand on her neck

1:31:19 Very sensitive nipples and wanting to savor sex

1:33:57 Erogenous zones all over and a surprisingly sweet act of intimacy

1:38:12 Learning about sex from talking with women rather than getting a formal education

1:42:03 Unlearning what porn taught her and navigating unhelpful educational tools

1:46:19 Confidence and explicit direction about how to be touched

1:47:45 How her brother’s friends helped her be open with herself and others about sex

1:53:08 The sexual blueprint of what she wants to pursue in connections and knowing what she doesn’t want

1:56:34 Desire for playful sex that allows for the full emotional experience (including giggling while cumming)

2:03:06 Building trust, needing mental stimulation and a gradual pace when it comes to sex and relationships

2:09:10 Enforcing boundaries and why WE LOVE CONDOMS!!!

2:15:28 Looking forward to a partner who is as passionate about her as she is about herself

2:20:43 Wanting a long-term, ravishing connection with exciting experiments and open communication

2:23:41 Thoughts on sex with other women, FFM, FMF, MFM, and MMF threesomes, and double penetration

2:30:12 Approaching sex as an act of service from a selfless place

2:36:03 Spreading love by being kind and receiving people as they are in any given moment

2:38:42 Reconnecting to her artistry, sharing her natural gifts by educating others, and reflecting the kindness she’s received out into the world

📈 STATS | 28 straight (so far) sapiosexual demisexual Black/African American cis woman, she/her pronouns, single, celibate, thinking about dating, monogamous, threesome-curious bad bitch good girl with a praise kink into: compliments, intimate sex, foreplay, dirty talk

🔗 OLIVIA LINKS | @livvcarter / @livvonfilm / @notoliviabenson

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27 bisexual homo-romantic Cuban-American cis female.

Topics mentioned:

Anal exploration, anal play, amateur porn, ass play, auditory stimulation, bisexual, black tight tops, BlackBerry, breath play, broken objects, Catholic upbringing, choking, choir sex, clit play, cock sucking, communication, community exploration, condom use, confidence, cum on face, cum on tits, cunnilingus, double-ended dildo, double penetration fantasy, dominance, dominatrix training, dress-up, early sexual experiences, elementary school exploration, exhibitionism, explicit consent, eye contact, face slapping, facefucking, female masturbation, female submission, fisting, Florida, fluid bonding, foursomes, friends with benefits, grinding, group sex, hair pulling, handheld porn filming, homemade porn, homo romantic, hot tub sex, housemate sharing, infatuation, internalized homophobia, IUD, kink, kinky house, kinky self-discovery, late-night porn, lesbian sex, lingerie, loud sex, masturbation, masturbation in mirror, masturbation with choking, mirror sex, missionary sex, moaning, monogamy, naked sleepovers, nipple piercing, non-monogamy, object insertion, Omegle, online dating, oral sex, orgasm control, orgasm denial, orgy desires, outdoor sex, partners with Doms, pegging desire, penetration, period sex, plan B, porn education, porn mirror play, porn watching during sex, pregnancy prevention, protection negotiation, public sex, pussy licking, queer exploration, rimming, rough play, same-sex experiences, self-filming, semen swallowing, sensual dominance, sex clubs, sex education, sex parties, sex talk with parents, sexual shame, shared sex partners, shower masturbation, shower sex, sidekick, singing, spanking, spitting, spontaneous hookups, strap-on play, submissive dynamics, switch dynamics, tallies on back, tattoo display, teenage exhibitionism, threesomes, tit play, underage porn viewing, vanilla world, vibrator use, visual arousal, wetness, wrestling porn.

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Hosts of Front Porch Swingers, a podcast that started as a blog and has evolved into a hub for conversations around ethical non-monogamy and details of their own hot sex stories.

Topics mentioned:

Adult entertainment, anxiety, arousal, attraction, authenticity, Bdsm, bisexual men, bisexual women, blog, boundaries, censorship, Chief Operating Officer, communication, community building, confidence, consent culture, content creation, corporate burnout, Craigslist hookup, creative expression, creative freedom, demisexual, digital intimacy, Dom/sub dynamics, emotional vulnerability, ENM Summit, erotic storytelling, event curation, exhibitionism, exploration, fantasy brainstorm, fire pit sex, First Amendment attorney, friends-to-lovers, front porch sex, gender expression, Golden Knights game, heteronormativity, hotwife events, hotel takeovers, identity evolution, inclusivity, kink community, lifestyle events, lifestyle podcast, lifestyle space, LGBTQ+, LLCs, long-term play partners, love, masculine identity, men’s bisexuality, microdosing vulnerability, morality clause, munches, naked confidence, non-disclosure agreements, non-monogamy, nostalgia, NSFW podcasting, OnlyFans, open relationships, pansexuality, party planning, play parties, pleasure, polyamory, primary partner, professional dom, public sex laws, reclaiming slut, Reddit DMs, relationship dynamics, rural swingers, safe spaces, same-room sex, scheduling play, secrecy vs pride, self-advocacy, self-discovery, self-pleasure, seminar hosting, sensory sex, service marks, sex educators, sex industry, sex podcasting, sex positivity, sex worker pride, sexy branding, shame deconstruction, single men in lifestyle, slut celebration, social norms, solo play, speakeasy fantasy, sponsors, storytelling, submission, swingers, swingers judgment, taboo, talking dirty, TikTok bans, toxic monogamy, trademarks, transparency, trust, vetting process, voyeurism, weekly podcasting, word vomit intimacy, working with lawyers.

🔗 BRENNA & BRIAN LINKS | frontporchswingers.com / instagram / twitter

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White female, submissive, exhibitionist, switch, comedian.

Topics mentioned:

Affection, androgyny, apps, attraction to genderqueer people, bisexuality, body awareness, boundaries, Bud Light twins commercial, casual sex, cishet norms, communication styles, couple privilege, couples therapy, creative touch, dating apps, deep connection, desire denial, discipline, domme demo, emotional bonding, emotional evolution, emotional habits, erotic exploration, euphoric bisexuality, event disappointment, exhibitionism, expectations around penis owners, female pleasure, Field app, fingering, foreplay, G-spot stimulation, gender expression, genderqueer attraction, group sex, hand stuff, hierarchy in polyamory, hetero-flexibility, hookup culture, identity development, jealousy, kink events, kinky play, lady doms, learning from mistakes, long-term relationship, male gaze, male-male-female threesome, masturbation, monogamy, mutual pleasure, new relationship energy, non-binary partners, non-hierarchical polyamory, non-monogamy, open marriage, orgasm anxiety, orgasms, pansexuality, pegging dynamics, penis insecurity, performance pressure, pleasure focus, polyamory, praise kink, promiscuity, queer desire, rejection, romantic connection, same-gender experiences, same-sex dating, sapphic desire, satisfaction, sensation preferences, service switching, shame in submission, sexual agency, sexual autonomy, sexual discovery, sexual insecurity, sexual shame, slow sex, spanking, squirting, sub dynamics, switching, talking about sex, threesomes, TikTok, trust building, vaginal pleasure, vibrator mentality, vulnerability, woman-on-woman sex.

Leah's episode from April 2019 | The Woman Who Asks You Out

Leah’s update from June 2024 | Navigating Jealousy & Noticing Needs

🔗 LEAH LINKS | @newtononmonogamy

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4’11” female switch pornstar and legal courtesan.

Topics mentioned:

18-year-old dancer, aggressive porn, anal play, art of porn, arts and crafts, ass play, ass worship, atheist clowns, Ava Sinclaire, Bible porn, bisexual curiosity, blowjob, brothel, camming, clown fetish, clown porn, consensual degradation, courtesan, creepy sex fantasies, creative porn, deepthroat, directing porn, dirty talk, DIY porn, domination, domme switch, drinking pee, edge play, exhibitionism, face slapping, fantasy gangbangs, feet, femdom, fisting attempts, Florida sex parties, gangbang fantasies, girl next door roles, group sex, hardcore porn, horror porn, humiliation kink, insertion fantasies, kink interviews, kinky clown motel, kinky content, latex allergy, lesbian gangbangs, Linktree, love of porn, masturbation repression, missionary position, morning sex parties, mutual consent, Nevada brothel, OnlyFans, online courtesan, pegging, pee in butt, pegging, personal boundaries, play parties, porn art, porn community, porn direction, porn dreams, Pornhub, porn inspirations, porn origin story, princess fetish, producing porn, professional submissive, pussy stretching, religious porn, rough sex, safe sex work, sandwich song, schedule control, sensitive clit, sex art, sex as healing, sex crime repression theory, sex dungeon, sex museum, sex worker co-working, sex worker fantasy, sexual boundaries, sexual freedom, sexual self-expression, shooting locations, shooting softcore, Sheri's Ranch, shy porn star, SFW/NSFW boundary, slutty co-working, social media porn stars, softcore porn, solo creation, spitting, squirting, step-sibling porn, submission, taboo desires, team skeet, tight pussy, TikTok, tithing critique, Twitter, vanilla content, victim play, voyeurism, wardrobe creativity, working at a brothel, working with friends.

🔗 AVA LINKS | instagram / twitter / allmylinks

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Host of The Curious Girl Diaries podcast.

Topics mentioned:

Abstinence, anonymity, audio erotica, BDSM, begging, bisexuality, blowjob, business mindset, censorship, clitoral anatomy, cock cage, collaborative bucket list, communication in relationships, community building, consent, content creation, couple dynamics, creative sexuality, Curious Girl Diaries, desire, dominant, double penetration, energy exchange, ethical non-monogamy, fantasy room, female pleasure, fluids, gangbang, group sex, guided sex bucket list, horny, hot sex, intimacy, kink, kinky audio, kink play, latex sheets, lesbian observation, lifestyle change, libido mismatch, listener transformation, masturbation denial, milking table, missionary conversion, mistress, nakedness, non-monogamy, open relationships, orgasm, orgasm denial, partners, pegging, pegging fantasy, pegging play, penis worship, personal growth, pleasure, podcasting, polyamory, private podcast, prostate play, public identity, pussy, safe spaces, same-frequency sex, secrecy, self-discovery, sex bucket list, sex coaching, sex education, sex goals, sex podcast, sex-positive community, sex stories, sex toys, sexual adventure, sexual boundaries, sexual communication, sexual confidence, sexual healing, sexual identity, sexual liberation, sexual power exchange, sexual repression, sexual satisfaction, sexual self-expression, sexual storytelling, sexual surrender, sexual vulnerability, shame, sharing fantasies, spanking, submissive, submissive partner, taboo topics, threesome, titillation, toy play, trust, voyeurism, waxing poetic, wetness, woo-woo energy, worthiness of pleasure.

Layla’s episode from July 2022 | The Curious Girl Diaries

🔗 LAYLA LINKS | the curious girl diaries / @the_curiousgirldiaries

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44 white trans woman, in a relationship of 15-years that is monogamous, with some kinky hall passes.

Topics mentioned:

Anal beads, anal play, anal sex, art class, bad dragon, bdsm clubs, beekeeping, being pegged, being spit roasted, blowjobs, board games, body image, boots, braided hair, breast forms, burlesque, caning, catholic guilt, chest plate, cleaning in a maid outfit, clove-infused lube, community band, confidence, consent, conservative upbringing, corsets, costuming, cotton thongs, creative self-expression, deepthroat, delivery driver, dressing up, drag shows, face app, face sitting, fantasy play, fire cupping, fireplay, fingernails on cock, French horn, French maid fantasy, gender fluid, gender identity, gencon, ginger figging, graphic designer, hair pulling, hall passes, handmade lingerie, heels, hot wax, Indiana, Instagram attention, intimacy, kink curiosity, lace panties, latex, learning to sew, long hair, lingerie, married sex, medieval reenactment, monogamy with exceptions, naked cooking, nipple play, nudist lifestyle, online fetishization, oral sex, pegging fantasy, playing dress up, playing with wax, polyamorous partner, ponytail pulling, prostate play, public sex, queer identity, reenactment groups, remote-controlled butt plug, rimjob, roleplaying games, romantic connection, Roman Catholicism, satin thongs, seasonal cosplay, self-pleasure, sensation play, sewing bras, sexual shame, shibari, shoe paddle, shoes, silicone toys, size progression, solo anal play, spanking, spit roast fantasy, strap-on oral, strip clubs, subspace, submissive identity, synthetic breasts, tight clothing, toy collection, trans community, trans visibility, trans woman, Victoria’s Secret thongs, visual pleasure, warm lube, wax dripping, wedding dress dreams, winter fashion.

🔗 LILITH LINKS | @lilithmkieffer

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27 straight white cis male, who is has been both monogamous and polyamorous with his partner of five years.

Topics mentioned:

Anal sex, asexual partner, bisexual fantasies, blowjob, bra fitting, carpenter, Catholic sex education, cheeky cut panties, chlamydia, clear communication, cross-dressing, cuckquean fantasy, dildo, doggy style, face licking, fingering, foreplay, freckles, Freckled Redheads subreddit, group sex, handjob, kink exploration, lingerie shopping, long-distance voyeurism, masturbation, meet cute, monogamy, molecule meetings, naked cuddling, new relationship energy, non-monogamy, oral sex, outdoor sex, pegging, photography, pillow humping, pink panties, playboy magazine, polyamory, prostate stimulation, public sex, redheads, relationship communication, roleplay, safe sex, sex club curiosity, sex on grass, sex on mattress, sex toys, sexual awakening, sexual exploration, sexual fantasy, shame meter, skirt play, strap-on, tantric handjob, threesome, vibrator, voyeur, wig shopping, women's underwear.

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41 queer poly cis femme legal courtesan.

Topics mentioned:

Addiction recovery, age play, anal sex, asexual mother, BDSM, bisexuality, body confidence, bondage, brothel, Catholic schoolboy roleplay, chosen family, Christian mysticism, closet goth, clown porn, consent culture, courtesan, cults, cunnilingus, daddy dom, deity work, dominance and submission, double penetration, drug addiction, electrical tape outfit, erotic massage, exhibitionism, eye contact, fantasy archetypes, feet in mouth, fisting, foot fetish, foot worship, forbidden desires, fucking machine, gangbang, gender expression, girl-on-girl, goth culture, group sex, guilt, handjobs, heel worship, hot tubs, incest play, inner divine masculine, intimacy coach, kink, kitten play, lap dances, latex, leather, legal sex work, lingerie, loss of virginity, lust, masturbation, mental health, meth, missionary exit interview, Mormon shame, My Little Pony, mutual care, naked dancing, nipple play, non-monogamy, nudity, OnlyFans, orgasm, orgies, paddling, pansexuality, pegging, performance sex, personal growth, pet play, polyamory, pony play, predatory shame, professional dominatrix, public sex, puppy play, queerness, restraint, roleplay, sacred sexuality, same-bed threesomes, schoolgirl fetish, self-bondage, self-love, sex education, sex magic, sexual abuse culture, sexual confidence, sexual debut, sexual healing, sexual shame, sexual spirituality, sexwork safety, shaving fetish, Sheri’s Ranch, spanking, spiritual sex, star fucking, stripping, switch dynamics, taboo play, Tantra, threesomes, toe sucking, trauma healing, trust, vibrator use, virginity loss, voyeurism, water play, witchcraft, Wisconsin, worship.

🔗 NATASHA LINKS | linktr.ee/natasharosetemple

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23 American pansexual cis male, married with some poly mixed in.

Topics mentioned:

Anal orgasm, anal play, anniversary, anxiety, attention whore, BDSM test, biting, blowjob, blood play, bondage, buttplugs, caregiving, cartoons, choking, cisgender male, cock worship, college girlfriend, coming out, communication, consent, cuckquean, DDLG, deepthroat, dildos, discipline, exhibitionism, exploration, fantasies, feminine tops, fisting curiosity, Florida, friendship, group sex, handjobs, healthcare, hotwife fantasies, IT job, kink discovery, kink education, kitchen table poly, late bloomer, lingerie, listening, male-on-male oral, masturbation, mutual masturbation, night vision porn, non-monogamy, oral sex, pansexual, pegging, penis worship, porn exposure, power exchange, prostate toys, public sex, queerness, razors, receptive desire, roleplay, same-sex encounters, scratching, self-exploration, sex addiction, sex education, sex parties, sex toys, shame, shared masturbation, shared orgasms, spanking, strap-on play, submissive, swinging, talking dirty, tea and consent, threesomes, thigh highs, under-bed restraints, vulnerability, waxing and waning libido.

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Hands-free orgasms, pine-needle sex, and choir room hookups—Mercedes shares how she's finding power, pleasure, and play through queer community, public fun, and creative consent.

📈 STATS | 18 bisexual white cis femme, kinky, queer, drag king.
 

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Meet Mercedes: bisexual, kinky, masochist-sadist switch, drag king, and public play enthusiast
05:06 Negotiating her first scene as a submissive with cords, drawing, and wax
10:10 Defining sex, shame, and the realities of early sex ed and period-shaming
14:41 Formative trauma, shutting down desire, and rediscovering sexuality through therapy and queer friends
22:14 Drawing her own porn, masturbation inspiration, and being caught by her dad
24:09 Braces stuck together mid-kiss, secret kink with an older trans masc partner, and public play out of necessity
28:40 Log sex, pine needles, and being fucked in the forest
30:11 A dreamy 6’4” femme top, getting small, and discovering her submissive side
33:15 Hot threesomes, switchy group dynamics, and one partner who wouldn’t put down the controller
34:51 Poly pleasures and heartbreak: when boundaries around protection are broken
37:05 How music, dancing, and creative connection build trust and turn her on
38:57 Navigating kink curiosity with a vanilla partner, and why she won't be anyone’s experiment
40:08 Favorite rope tricks, using belts for control, and a surprise boob grab escape
41:35 Loving vanilla sex too: lap sitting, full-body pressure, and hickey preferences
43:04 From wax to bite marks to bruises: what her masochist side loves
47:00 Pussy pleasure maps, nipple sensitivity, and a vibrator that hits both spots
48:38 Wanting to train under a dominatrix and explore more rope and professional play

🤩 TOPICS | Abortion talk, actor kink dynamics, adventurous partners, aftercare needs, anal curiosity, anxiety around sex talks, ass grabbing, assigned female at birth, bisexual identity, biting during sex, blood play adjacent, body art kink, body sensation preferences, bratty submission, bruising kink, butch attraction, casual hookups, chest sensitivity, childhood sex ed gaps, childhood sexual shame, clitoral stimulation, college dating life, communication kinks, confident dom attraction, consent negotiation, control play, creative threesome dynamics, daddy issues, dating older people, degradation curiosity, direct STI conversations, dominant partner criteria, drawn porn, dry humping orgasm, emotional safety, erotic biting, erotic drawing, erotic storytelling, experimental queerness, femme tops, feminist porn, fingering in group sex, first girlfriend, fluid power exchange, forest sex, full-body pressure kink, glue stick tampon joke, group makeouts, hair pulling, hands-on sex ed, hickeys as kink, high school sex stories, historical fiction erotica, hookup logistics, improvisational sex, initiation shame, kink discovery journey, kinky queer sex, lap sex, laptop cable bondage, learning through erotic books, lesbian therapist, lingerie shopping, loud orgasms, making out in public, masochist tendencies, masturbation with fantasy, medically accurate sex ed, mixed orientation threesomes, multiple orgasms, mutual masturbation, neck kissing, nerdy doms, nipple play, nonbinary attraction, oral fixation, orgasm from thigh stimulation, outgrowing purity culture, painful first experiences, partner-switch dynamics, period shame, physical sex definitions, platonic cuddling, polyamory boundaries, power imbalance awareness, private part marking, queer community healing, queer high school sex, queer kink visibility, relationship trust repair, rough sex preferences, sadist tendencies, school bathroom makeouts, secret hookups, self-discovery through therapy, self-pleasure routines, sex after trauma, sex ed by books, sexual healing, sexual initiation stories, sexual trauma survival, shaving mishaps, sharing STI results, shower masturbation, shy doms, side-of-neck marks, situational submission, skin sensitivity, soft doms, solo vibrator play, sore muscles from sex, strap-on curiosity, submissive vulnerability, switch identity, teaching doms, teenage kink exploration, thigh grabbing, touching waist kink, trauma-informed play, trust after betrayal, unplanned kink negotiation, vanilla sex appreciation, vibrator with clit arm, visible bruises, wax play, weighted pressure kink, witchy sex therapist, writing erotic stories.
 

Mercedes’ update from January 2024 | Masochistic Soft Dom

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The fun of telling your top NO, sexual fluidity, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited.

00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship

06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness

13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving

15:42 The magic of instant chemistry and self awareness of her relational needs

23:31 Expectationless expectations, partnership evolutions, and staying open to exploration

26:00 How having a bi partner helped her discover more about her own sexuality

28:00 Swinger parents influence on judgement-free love and open relationships

36:02 Learning how to process and communicate big emotions with a partner

38:10 Navigating social expectations around jealousy, internalized assumptions, and different communication styles

43:09 Knowing herself and noticing the patterns she received from trauma

44:59 A new era of non-monogamy and the roller coaster of dating on apps

50:10 A barroom quickie, a ghost, and setting goals for first dates

56:13 Best friend sexsplorations and learning different sides of herself come out with different partners

1:00:42 Needing an emotional connection for sex and the bests and worsts of online dating

1:04:17 Playful power dynamics and wanting partners to take control

1:09:36 Embracing and understanding her brattiness

1:17:20 Smutty book surprises and understanding compulsive heterosexuality

1:21:01 Learning about sex from insightful, playful podcasts

1:24:44 A desire for beautiful, sensual porn

1:28:33 Exploring her queerness and relationship through nude self portraiture

1:32:14 Understanding non-monogamous sexual attraction and navigating societal expectations of envy

1:36:31 Threesomes with her husband and best friend and the joy of being the center of attention

1:41:48 Reflecting on internal jealousy and creating the right circumstances for physical intimacy

1:46:44 What she finds hot in fiction vs turn-ons in real life

1:49:15 Favorite positions and how she hits on her partner

1:55:51 Embracing overstimulation and the magic of air sucker clit stimulators

1:59:20 Exploring restraints and where she likes being bitten

2:06:50 Playful brattiness and subverting gender roles in the bedroom

2:09:39 Favorite adult toys, a love of edging, and pillow humping preferences

2:13:49 Reverse harem and overstimulation dreams

2:16:30 Open to more: sex parties, hot accents, and dating women

2:20:19 Spreading love via clear expectations, RPGs with friends, and thoughtfully connecting with every person she meets

📈 STATS | 32 bisexual white Latina cis woman, she/her pronouns, in an 8 year relationship (married for 2) and actively dating, polyamorous, brat, into: talking about relationships, power dynamics, fluid sexuality, sensory stimulation, long-term connections, and never-ending evolution

🔗 AVALON LINKS | @bellanaris.art

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40s mostly heterosexual white male, based on the east coast.

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Aluminum shovel, anal play, ankle zaps, BDSM class, BDSM demo, being fisted, bendy double-ended dildo, big dildo, body zapping, bungee jumping, cabinets full of toys, cold impact tools, communication in kink, conductor electricity play, consent, countryside upbringing, DIY BDSM, double penetration, electric current play, electric fence, electric finger touch, electricity play, endurance, erotic performance, feathers, female dom, fieldo, fingering, fisting, floggers, fur-lined tools, group zap, impact implements, impact play, kink exploration, latex gloves, leather vampire gloves, life-changing experience, male dom, meat claws, meat mallets, mindfulness during sex, mutual fucking, naked at home, new sexual experiences, non-verbal check-ins, orgasm from fisting, partner trust, play ship, pleasure and pain, porn comparisons, power dynamics, public kink demo, RV sex, safe words, sandcastle shovel, sensation play, sex after kids, sex in RV, sexual communication, sexual experimentation, sexual inspiration, sexual mindfulness, Spanx harness, spanking, subspace, switch dynamics, toys from Michaels, travel sex, trysexual identity, vaginal fisting, van de Graaff electricity play, watching public scenes, whips, wooden rods, yoga headspace during sex.

Jon's episode from June 2020 | True Trysexual

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Auto-fellatio, chastity cages, lactation play, and collaborative kink—Alec shares beautifully detailed stories from his decades-long monogamous partnership full of creativity, curiosity, and kinky exploration.
 

📈 STATS | 37 pansexual heteromantic white cis male, in a monogamous relationship with his partner of 17 years.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Shame levels, shiniest secrets, and the difference between privacy and shame
04:46 The secret sex life of parents with young kids
06:00 Collaborative desire: anticipation, denial, and creative pleasure strategizing
09:03 What feels sexy: objectification, pole dancing, and feeling wanted
13:03 Consent immersion and lackluster Florida sex ed
15:33 Yeses that lead to sexy surprises and a PowerPoint proposal for chastity
18:39 Monogamy, kinky safety talks, and a not-sex impact play friendship
20:35 Queering perceptions at work with an ambiguously gendered partner
21:30 Gendered childhood memories and early erections
24:42 Internet erotica, porn titl3z, and sex ed through bulletin boards
27:00 Jackoff isn’t an insult—and how reading led to masturbatory discovery
30:09 Anxiety, fear of rejection, and an awkward first kiss
33:07 Punk band pussy-licking legend and high school confidence hacks
36:40 Meeting his wife in French class, going on their first real date
40:49 The kiss rule, exes calling, and a very honest foundation
43:00 Nerd knowledge + dick drive = early oral sex confidence
45:17 Mishearing “ooh” and “no”—why audio matters for BDSM communication
46:10 From sexy Playboy shoots to rope to fetish porn conventions
49:40 How a content career launched a thousand kinks
52:25 Auto-fellatio, sucking his own dick, and filming it with his wife
55:10 Teaching pole dancing, heels classes, and performing in burlesque shows
59:35 Long-term compatibility through open curiosity
1:00:44 Foot worship: texture, desire, and playful degradation
1:03:30 Birthday pie footplay and clothed female/nude male dynamics
1:05:06 Chastity cages, cock rings, and cock bondage as focus tools
1:10:55 Wearing it on a cruise, and experimenting with coming while locked
1:12:50 Pregnancy, body worship, and the erotic beauty of maternal care
1:17:18 Shower lactation, taste and texture, and sexy video ideas
1:19:25 “Never have I ever…” anal during pregnancy
1:20:56 The joy of long-term desire: fucking machines and rooftop sex
1:22:15 A talking dildo with a French accent and post-kids insertion aversions
1:23:33 His switch spectrum: from deep dom to service sub to leather boot conditioning
1:26:45 Chastity as a mood signal, and wanting to stay on the path they’re on
1:28:20 Owning desire earlier, and the beauty of creative sex over time
1:29:02 Mr. Potato Head genitals and a magical what-if sex question for Luna

🤩 TOPICS | Adult content creator couple, alt-text erotica, anxiety around rejection, AOL chats, barefoot face worship, BDSM experimentation, blindfolded public sex, blowjob tutorials, body image through pregnancy, bondage photo shoots, breast milk handjobs, childhood masturbation discoveries, childhood shame around sex, clothed male nudity kink, college sexploration, couple kink negotiation, cunnilingus rumors, diaper changes and desire, DIY sex toy testing, early internet porn, erotic massage rituals, erotic roleplay with spouses, feet on face, feet-only masturbation, female-led foot worship, feminist pregnancy kink, first girlfriend kiss anxiety, foot fetish pie feeding, forced denial, French class flirtation, group porn reading, homemade porn, hot stone sex massage, impact play safety, kink and lactation, kink while parenting, lactation scenes, large dildo insertions, leather boot care kink, lingerie reluctance, long-distance chatting and flirting, looped shame thoughts, male masturbation in childhood, male oral fixation, metal cock cage, middle school sex insults, milk squirting fetish, missionary position improvisation, mutual masturbation memories, natural breast photoshoots, nerdy seduction tactics, nipple teasing with milk, oral sex pressure, parenting and kink balance, pegging and prostate play, penis in pie kink, personal porn archives, photo shoots with strangers, pole dancing in drag heels, porn from IRC and BBS, pregnancy anal sex, pre-orgasmic masturbation, public sex on campus, punk band sex songs, rope suspension kink, school bus first kiss, security blind spot sex, sexting on ICQ, shared vibrator use, shower sex during pregnancy, side-of-bed footjobs, spanking with friends, strap-on topping, submissive pie play, toe-sucking in porn, vibrator torture, voyeurism during shoots, waxing and worship, wearing slut heels, whipped cream rejection kink, wife objectification, writing kink proposals.

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40 queer cis male, hedonist, switch.

Topics mentioned:

ADHD, Austin, BDSM, Star Trek, aftercare, age play, anal, anal play, art, big cock, bisexual, bondage, butt plugs, choking, church conversion fantasy, cis male, cleanliness kink, cock and ball torture, collars, coming out, consent, conversion, crossplay, cuck, cum eating, dirty talk, discord, dom drop, dominance, double penetration, edge play, edging, emotional connection, erotic performance, ethical non-monogamy, feminine doms, fetish, fingering, first time sex, flogging, foot worship, gay sex, group sex, handjobs, hedonism, impact play, introversion, kink education, kinky parties, leather work, lesbian porn, masturbation, mental connection, mobile dungeons, musician, mutual masturbation, naked in public, nude photos, open relationships, orgasm control, orgies, outdoor sex, pegging, penis sensitivity, play parties, polyamory, pool sex, porn, power exchange, preacher’s kid, public play, queer, queer orgies, reclaiming desire, religious shame, roleplay, sadism, same-sex crush, scalp massage, self-exploration, self-love, semen, sensation play, service dom, service kink, sex before marriage, sex education, sex parties, sex toys, shame, shower sex, skin worship, slut, small town, solo polyamory, spanking, spitting, strap-ons, subspace, switch, taboo, threesomes, toys, trauma healing, vanilla sex, virginity, voyeurism, water kink, water sports, worship, younger sexual exploration.

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24 pansexual white cis male, switch.

Topics mentioned:

Accidental blood play, accidental fecal play, accessible bathroom sex, anal exploration, anal hook, anal pressure, bathroom quickie, being squirted on, bisexual attraction, blowjob, blood on bathtub, car sex, communication in polyamory, condom use, cunnilingus, darkroom jerk off, dynamic polycule, emotional alignment, experimental kink, explicit sex talk, female-bodied partners, futon sex, gender dysphoria, gender exploration, Grindr hookup, group masturbation, group sex, horny roommates, kinky partner, kink exploration, LGBTQ relationships, living in car, male-bodied partners, masturbation, messy sex, mutual orgasm, non-monogamy, open relationships, oral sex, orgasm together, partner constellation, pee play, pegging, pillow talk, polyamorous dynamics, polycule constellation, poop on balls, public sex, queer sex, relationship communication, roommates hooking up, safe sex, same-bed sleeping, Scarborough sex story, sex in mall bathroom, sex in unusual places, sexual confidence, sexual fluidity, sexual hope, sexual identity, sexual safety, sharing a partner, shy mutual attraction, squirting, submissive identity, threesome, trans partner, transgender attraction, vaginal stimulation, voice-to-text sexting, water sports, waterproof sheets, wet partner, wild sex stories.

Caleb's episode from September 2022 | Camping & Car Play

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30s bisexual Latin male, married to a partner of 5 years, works in the tech sector, from NYC, into: crossdressing, pantyhose, playing with toys, camming, and bondage.

Topics mentioned:

Anal, ass, barefoot, bbc, bbq, bisexual, blowjob, body hair, body stockings, bondage, cam, camming, cartoon, cock, cock slut, condom, consent, costume, cross-dresser, cross-dressing, cum, cum facial, dildo, dominant, dress up, edging, exhibitionism, facial, fantasy, fetish, foreplay, gagging, gangbang, heels, hosiery, jazz, kink, lingerie, lipstick, makeup, masturbation, matte, milf, monogamy, nyc, oral, pantyhose, pegging, perfume, poppers, porn, privacy, red lipstick, roleplay, rubbing, self-filming, sex club, sex shop, shame, shaving, sissy, sissy training, skirt, slutty, sploshing, spreader, stockings, submission, submissive, switch, tech job, toys, transformation, verbal play, voyeurism, walk of shame, wank, wigs.

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Praise kink, deep penetration, and Daddy energy—Neptune shares how he healed early shame through group sex, dungeons, and delicious submissive exploration.

📈STATS | 22 pansexual transmasc Latino, he/they pronouns, polyamorous, single-ish, into: praise, exhibitionism, group sex, and Daddies.

⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Details on praise, exhibitionism, and Daddy dynamics
03:05 Defining sex as connection, including clothed grinding and kissing
06:13 Early kink scenes, light spanking, and saying “please” for more
09:23 Childhood assault, confusion, and early curiosity about sex
12:00 Rocky Horror awakening, rewinding sex scenes, and exploring desire
14:44 Discovering masturbation and early exploration of sensitive areas
17:00 Sexting, Tumblr smut, and being taught how to suck cock
21:00 Submissive preferences, praise kink, sensitivity on T, and wetness
24:36 Deep penetration, anal, and loving the warmth of cum
27:20 Spanking with wrapping paper, biting, and Daddy energy play
30:43 First Daddy experience: museum date, anal beads, and oral instruction
33:40 Dreaming of a sensory-activated daddycock, tie-dye toys, and pegging
36:00 Fantasies of tying up partners and making them come repeatedly
38:30 Consent as hot dirty talk, energetic attunement, and sex ed gaps
41:00 First fully consensual partner, marking mishaps, and porn as icebreaker
44:00 Polyamory discovery, sex with couples, and love of threesomes
47:00 Favorite group sex positions, fantasy of three cocks and all holes filled
50:30 Exhibitionist energy, queer makeout party, and dungeon compliments
53:20 Boundaries, touchiness, and finding Daddy-led consent sexy
55:00 Nonconsensual anal attempt, navigating trauma, and therapy recovery
57:30 Tickling and blood turn-offs, needle curiosity, and dysphoria-related limits
59:40 Public sex fantasies, bus play party dreams, and voyeur-friendly spaces
1:02:00 Toys: shock wand, strap-ons, desire for mutual sensation during pegging
1:04:30 Tattoos as sensory exploration and erotic self-awareness
1:07:15 Vasectomy = cumplay joy, post-cum glow, and warm interior feelings
1:08:50 Sex bucket list goals: group play, exhibitionism, tying, and exploration
1:09:40 Advice to younger self: it’s okay to be excited about sex—keep exploring
 

🤩 TOPICS | Anal beads, anal curiosity, ass grabbing, ass play, ass slapping, attentive lovers, ball play, bathroom hookups, biting marks, blowjob technique, blood boundaries, bondage fantasies, cum inside, cum fetish, cum-focused oral, dirty name calling, DIY toy shopping, dominant partner training, double penetration fantasy, dungeon play, electrostimulation, erotic humiliation limits, face fucking goals, fingering feedback, fluid sensitivity, flogging tools, foot teasing, gender euphoria, group kissing, hair pulling, handjobs, harness fit issues, hickeys on purpose, hotel sex, kink negotiation, kissing consent, light choking, lube choices, masturbation discovery, microtears, monster dildo brands, mutual touch, name-based praise, needle curiosity, nonconsensual experiences, oral learning, orgasm control, pegging prep, pegging straps, penis curiosity, physical feedback, porn literacy, post-cum glow, public arousal, queer party makeouts, queer play spaces, receiving oral, rope interest, rough play, safe word use, same-room play, scene negotiation, self-lubrication, sensation layering, service topping, sexting nostalgia, shared toys, showering after sex, size mismatches, spanking implements, strapless strap-ons, submissive dirty talk, switch dynamics, tattoo vibration, tentacle toys, threeway configurations, touch sensitivity, trauma recovery, trust-building, underwear embarrassment, vasectomy sex, verbal feedback, vibrator play, voyeur-safe spaces, wetness increase.
 

Neptune’s update from December 2023 | A New Daddy
 

🔗 NEPTUNE LINKS | @cm.codex

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47 heteroflexible cis femme, she/her pronouns, exploring: squirting, sensual sex, primal sex, and sexual relaxation.

Topics mentioned:

Anal, anal stimulation, animalistic sex, art resort, best friend support, big round bed, blowjob, bookshop sex fantasy, butt squeeze, clitoral masturbation, coffee shop sex fantasy, connection, creativity resort, deep throat, deep throating, dildo, double penetration, edging, emotional connection, espresso after sex, fantasy exploration, foursome, group sex, handcuffs, hot chairs, inner fights, intense orgasms, kink, kinky room design, lesbian fantasy, libido changes, long-distance relationship, love, masturbation, mutual masturbation, naked lap sitting, orgasm, orgasm frequency, orgasm variation, partner trust, pegging, penis touching, period masturbation changes, platform bed, primal sex, relationship growth, rich silk linens, roleplay, romantic sex, same-sex fantasy, sensuality, sex club, sex creativity resort, sex talk with friends, sexual discovery, sexual experimentation, sexual fantasy, sexual healing, sexual insecurity, sexual satisfaction, sexual self-care, shared fantasies, squirting, stage sex performance, strap-on, threesomes, trust building, vibrator, watching others have sex, weekend masturbation, women who love sex.

Susanne’s episode from August 2022 | Chase My Pleasure

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38 straight white cis femme, single, open to monogamy, engineering technician, from Southern California.

Topics mentioned:

18th birthday sex, adolescent crushes, ass smacking, backseat blowjobs, battery-powered vibrators, best friend’s bed sex, bisexual curiosity, blanket sex, body exploration, body hair preferences, blowjob at work, bra touching, casual sex, clit rubbing, clitoral orgasms, coming from kissing, coming from sensual touch, communication with partners, consensual hair pulling, consent conversations, dating apps, dirty talk, divorced lover reunion, doggy style, double stimulation, emotional vulnerability, engineering technician, erotic wrestling, exhibitionism, explicit consent, female ejaculation, first dildo, forbidden relationships, foreplay details, fuck buddies, G-spot, good girl praise, group sex fantasies, hair pulling, herpes disclosure, hookup culture, horny coworkers, intimacy after breakup, kinky desires, kissing, lake sex, late-night TV sex scenes, lingerie selfies, long-distance teasing, love of dominance, masturbation avoidance, messy orgasms, mirror sex fantasies, monogamy with openness, multiple orgasms, mutual masturbation videos, naked mom, nipple play, non-monogamy conversations, nude selfies, open relationships, orgasm from voice, orgasm triggers, outdoor sex, oversharing at work, park sex, pegging curiosity, penis-in-vagina sex, pillow humping, pink heart vibrator, playground flirting, porn curiosity, post-breakup sexual awakening, public sex, reclaiming pleasure, relationship transitions, riding dick, roleplay fantasies, romantic loss of virginity, rubbing against furniture, safe sex talks, same-room voyeurism, school sex ed, secret teen romance, sensual touch, sex after kids, sex with married couples, sexy showering, sexting at work, shared blankets, shame meter, single mom sex life, spanking, speed dial lovers, squirting, talking dirty, teenage dry humping, threesomes with consent, toy experimentation, trust and boundaries, vibrator disappointment, voyeurism, watching herself come, workplace sexual storytelling, wrestling arousal.

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43 heterosexual Irish-American cis male, polyamorous, married with four kids.

Topics mentioned:

ADHD, Basic Instinct, Postpartum sex, Whitney Houston, ass play, asshole, autistic daughter, biceps flexing, bisexual, blowjob, bondage, breathy voices, cheerleading, children and consent, cocaine use, cock sensitivity, communication skills, consent talk, cucumber condom demo, cum control, dad cheating, dominance, double standard, emotional healing, enthusiastic yes, exploration, family life and sex, fuckboy phase, giving oral, group sex, healing through sex, kink curiosity, learning about pleasure, leather couch sex, long-distance relationship, male nudity tips, marriage, massive attack, masturbation with pillow, mechanical sex, monogamy, mother sex talk, music and sex, new dad sex life, nudes, oral sex, paramedic schedule, penetration guilt, performance sex, pleasure receiving, polyamory, porn preferences, pussy eating, queer daughter, reclaiming pleasure, relationship recalibration, rope class, sacred body consent, scrambled porn, sex education, sex party curiosity, sex talk with kids, sexting, sexual butler, sexual healing, sexual repression, sexual shame, shame-free living, sharing nudes, social stigma, spontaneity, submissiveness, teen parenting, trip hop, twins, visual arousal, voyeurism, wife with others.

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24 pansexual female, married, switch.

Topics mentioned:

Anal beads, anal sex, anxiety during sex, acts of service, baby and sex life, bar hopping, BDSM exploration, body confidence, breastfeeding, communication, confidence building, couples sex club, downtown Halloween party, dominant partner, emotional support, exploring dominance, foursome, friendship boundaries, group sex, hands-on stimulation, kinky photography, lesbian experiences, libido changes, lights-on sex, love language shifts, married sex life, masturbation anxiety, mirror sex, mirror on ceiling, motherhood, natural lighting, nature photography, non-shaved vulva, open communication, overthinking during sex, physical support, physical touch, photo challenges, polyamory exploration, postpartum sex, pregnancy and libido, private outdoor photography, public sex concerns, relationship exploration, same-sex experiences, scheduled sex, self-exploration, sex after childbirth, sex in front of mirrors, sex photography, sexy videos, sexual stimulation, sleepovers with friends, swinger apps, threesomes, touching legs, watching husband with others.

Steph’s episode from July 2020 | Fiancée Switch Bliss

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BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike shares how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more.

00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community

02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn

05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners

07:51 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play

11:37 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase full of safety

15:23 Discovering sex, reclaiming their body, and post cum clarity

19:56 Survival sex work, living in a cage, and unlocking sexual freedom

26:06 Dominance, secrecy, and tips for topping

31:08 Turned on by dancing for money and attention

34:30 What Spike loves about carnal and casual intimacy

36:36 Highly sensitive nipples and tender sensuality

41:01 Spit, self-flagellation, and casting spells

44:01 Solo toy explorations, strokers, and masturbation climaxes

46:56 Personal and pro partnered play

52:36 Foot play, power dynamics, and leather

58:15 Drag shows, male attention, and trying new things

1:00:52 Loving community, communication, and consent

📈 STATS | 37 queer polyamorous gender nonconforming latinx human, they/them/he pronouns, married to partner of 13 years, artist, producer, entertainer, performer, gogo dancer, onlyfans creator, Southern California, into: feet, spit, cages, BDSM, Dominance, submission, drag

🔗 SPIKE LINKS | @spikeprinceofcats / @spikesauce7 / OF

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46 bisexual white female, mom of three, has *no* relationship status, braving the dating world, Midwest-based.

Topics mentioned:

Anal sex, anxiety around STIs, bisexual discovery, blowjob enthusiasm, body confidence, butt play curiosity, casual dating, childhood trauma, cleanliness preferences, communication in sex, consent conversations, couple dynamics, cunnilingus preferences, dirty talk, divorced sex life, dominance and submission, emotional safety, female pleasure, femme attraction, fishnet lingerie, handjobs, herpes disclosure, high sex drive, honesty in relationships, kissing, lingerie appreciation, lingerie under clothes, male vulnerability, masturbation, messy sex, midwestern upbringing, MILF fantasies, nipple orgasms, non-monogamy, open conversations with kids, oral sex on women, outdoor sex, parenting and sex ed, pegging, penis size preferences, personal growth, pussy licking, quickies, relationship desires, rest stop sex, risky sex locations, same-sex experiences, sensuality, sexual communication, sexual curiosity, sexual healing, sexual shame, sexual spontaneity, sexually adventurous, showered partners, size insecurity, slow build-up, small stature, spitting discomfort, squirting, strap-on sex, threesomes, trust issues, vaginal pleasure, vulnerability during sex, wanting sex daily, watching at sex parties.

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33 straight Asian American dude, Daddy Dom, in a relationship of 3 years, advisor for the Department of defense, from the U.S. South, into: caretaking, exhibitionism, threesomes, and he has a strong oral fixation that goes both directions.

Topics mentioned:

Aftercare, anal play, Asian-American identity, bachelorette party, BDSM, blowjob techniques, blowjobs, body worship, caregiving kink, Catholic upbringing, chest play, childhood sexual discovery, clit suction toys, communication, consent, cultural repression, daddy dom, demisexuality, dry humping, emotional connection, exhibitionism, Facebook fetish group, fantasy fulfillment, female pleasure, finger play, fisting, foot massages, group sex, handjobs, hiking sex, high school hookups, intimacy, kink education, kink parties, kinky dynamics, latex fetishes, lingerie, masturbation, masochism, medical play, mutual masturbation, natural caregiver, nipple play, nudity, oral fixation, oral sex, outdoor sex, pacifiers, pain play, pegging jokes, personality attraction, pet names, photography, physical sensitivity, pillow forts, polycurious, porn preferences, praise kink, primal play, private Snapchat, public sex, pussy worship, relationship communication, restraint play, reverse cowgirl, role play, romantic sex, same-sex oral, scrambler porn, self-love, sensory play, sex education, sex in nature, sex parties, sex toys, sexual confidence, sexual discovery, sexual shame, shower sex, side dick sensitivity, sleeping handjobs, spanking, stage sex, submissive dynamics, teasing, threesomes, toy play, trust building, under-table play, vanilla sex, voyeurism.

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36 androsexual white cis female, submissive.

Topics mentioned:

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Hathor’s episode from January 2022 | Unrequited Kinkiness & Photo Play

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