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Are you brand-new to magic and worried you're making mistakes? This episode is for you! You will learn why common "TikTok magic" practices can easily backfire. Rather than getting caught up in constant manifesting, discover why resting your energy is critical for safe witchcraft. This episode covers the major pitfalls of modern magic, explains how casting too many spells at once dilutes your power, and highlights the supreme importance of proper spell timing using your inner moon alignment.

• Why should you stop practicing magic every single day?

  Real magic requires substantial energetic output and draws from frequencies beyond your own. Attempting to constantly manifest, enchant everything around you, or cast spells without downtime will lead to severe energetic burnout and leave you vulnerable to parasitic energies. Magic needs a system of rest to remain effective.

• Can you perform more than one spell at a time?

  No, it is highly discouraged for beginners. Magic naturally channels toward the path of least resistance. When you split your focus across multiple intentions simultaneously, your energy becomes diluted, causing some spells to fail or pull necessary power away from your everyday life.

• How does spell timing affect your results?

  Proper timing relies on your inner moon matching the outer moon phases, alongside the corresponding day of the week for your intention. Major astrological cycles, like the New Moon, offer an optimal window for your intentions, typically providing a surge of supportive energy spanning three days before and after the event.

When recovering from highly draining spellwork, focus your practice on restoration rather than asking the universe for new outcomes:

• The Protection Vibe: A relaxing salt bath to tap into the protective and cleansing properties of salt.

• Nature Connection: Dedicated grounding exercises to pull calm, steady energy from the power of nature.

• Sacrificial Focus: Intentionally turning down your "burners" (giving up low-priority projects) to conserve power for what truly matters.

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Welcome to another essential episode of the How to Become a Witch Podcast. In this special interview, we sit down with holistic health counselor, hypnotherapist, and sound healer Jed Shlackman. If you have been looking for ways to properly align your inner world without getting swept up in overly commercialized trends, this conversation is precisely what you need.

We address a major dilemma facing the modern spiritual community: the trap of "24/7 magical micromanagement." Jed shares his grounded, psychological approach to witches spirituality, explaining why obsessive manifestation routines can block true spiritual progress. From the mechanics of audio technology and Hemi-Sync to using the deep, sonic vibrations of gongs and singing bowls, you’ll learn how sound healing acts as a powerful corrective layer for a practicing witch. Whether you are building a foundation in traditional witchcraft or charting your own course in non-religious witchcraft, this episode provides the practical guardrails necessary for sustainable self-work and authentic transformation.

Sound healing serves as a practical, chemical-free tool for clearing stagnant energy and shifting brainwave states. For a modern witch, incorporating instruments like gongs or singing bowls into a routine provides an auditory queue that stabilizes the mind, helping practitioners move away from stressful overthinking and enter a deeply grounded state of alignment.

A successful path in personal witchcraft requires maintaining a firm connection with mundane life. When practitioners prioritize ritual work over basic daily responsibilities (like chores, relationships, or work), it creates a dangerous imbalance. True alignment means treating regular, everyday functionality as an extension of your spiritual well-being.

Shadow work is the meditative and introspective process of exploring the hidden, repressed aspects of the subconscious mind, including childhood traumas. Rather than focusing solely on external results, a practicing witch uses shadow work to resolve internal blocks, ensuring that their magical intentions are driven by self-awareness rather than an unhealed ego.

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Jed's Links

You can find and connect with holistic health counselor, hypnotherapist, and sound healer Jed Shlackman through his official practice website, professional scheduling services, and primary social media platforms:

• Main Website: Check out his primary hub for holistic guidance, sound healing resources, and reading materials at PsychoEnergetic Healing & Insights.

• Grow Therapy Profile: If you are looking to book a holistic mental health counseling or telehealth therapy session in Florida, you can view his direct schedule and insurance details via Jed Shlackman's Grow Therapy Page.

• Instagram: Follow his daily insights and community updates @jedshlackman.

• Facebook: Connect with his practice page at Jedi Holistic Healing.

• X (formerly Twitter): Stay up to date with his thoughts and event announcements @jedishaman.

Are you looking for beginner-friendly witch practices to align your energy this summer? In this guide, we dive into why July is the ultimate month for mid-year reflection, refreshing your personal boundaries, and utilizing powerful seasonal correspondences to manifest balance.

July serves as a natural period of evaluation and reflection in the witch’s calendar. If we view the Summer Solstice as the "Full Moon" phase of the year, then July represents the beginning of the Waning phase. This makes it the perfect energetic window to review what is working, what isn't, and where you need to firmly re-establish your personal boundaries.

To amplify your magical practices this month, incorporate these highly vibrant, sun-soaked seasonal ingredients into your daily rituals:

• Flower: Sunflowers or Black-Eyed Susans (perfect for honoring masculine solar energy and brightening your sacred space).

• Crystal: Sunstone (enhances personal power, combats people-pleasing tendencies, and grants you permission to be fabulous).

• Herb: Fresh Mint or Spearmint (used for mental clarity of vision, abundance, and opening portals of insight).

• Fruit: Watermelon (a sweet offering for fertility and beauty magic, traditionally associated with ocean orishas like Yemayá).

• Color: Gold (brings forth prosperity and self-confidence).

How do I use mint in my witchcraft practice?

Mint is incredibly versatile for beginner witches because it can be seamlessly woven into everyday kitchen witchcraft. You can add fresh mint to your lemonade or water to boost your clarity of vision, or dry it near your stove or pool area to invite an abundance of positive energy into your home.

What crystal should I use to help me set boundaries?

Sunstone is the ideal crystal for building confidence and enforcing strong boundaries. Whenever you need to speak your truth or say "no" to protect your peace, hold a piece of sunstone to tap into its empowering, solar energy.

Why is watermelon used in summer rituals?

Watermelon is highly regarded in summer magic for its associations with fertility, refreshment, and beauty. For those working with sea-related spirits or the orisha Yemayá, leaving a sliced or whole watermelon near the seashore is a traditional offering of gratitude and respect.

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How can beginner witches celebrate the Summer Solstice and Litha with simple rituals, visibility magic, and practical spiritual growth? In this episode of How to Become a Witch, I explore the deeper meaning of the Summer Solstice, also known as Litha, and share beginner-friendly ways to work with solar energy, shadow work, glamour magic, and intention setting during this powerful seasonal shift.

Learn how to celebrate Litha as a modern witch through crystal charging, elemental rituals, divination, and visibility magic designed to help you step into your power without burning yourself out. I discuss the balance between light and dark energies, why shadow work is often misunderstood, and how practical systems and planning can strengthen your spellwork and manifestation results.

Whether you are a beginner witch, practicing witch, or spiritually curious listener, this episode offers grounded guidance for navigating the liminal space of the Summer Solstice with clarity, confidence, and joy.

In this episode:

• Summer Solstice and Litha meanings

• Visibility magic for confidence and growth

• Shadow work and emotional healing

• Charging crystals with solar energy

• Beginner witch rituals

• Glamour magic and self-expression

• Divination during seasonal transitions

• Energy work and intention setting

• Spiritual self-care and burnout prevention

• Practical witchcraft for modern witches

Ingredients and Tools Mentioned:

• Crystals for charging in sunlight

• Candles

• Herbs and flowers

• Bowls representing the four elements

• Tarot or oracle cards

• Journals for intention setting

• Sun symbols and seasonal decorations

• Cleansing tools for doorways and windows

FAQs:

1. What is Litha in witchcraft?
   Litha is the pagan celebration of the Summer Solstice, honoring the longest day of the year, solar energy, abundance, visibility, and personal growth.

2. How do beginner witches celebrate the Summer Solstice?
   Beginner witches often celebrate with candle rituals, crystal charging, intention setting, divination, herbal magic, and connecting with nature.

3. What is visibility magic?
   Visibility magic focuses on helping you be seen, recognized, and confident in your personal, spiritual, or professional life while aligning with your authentic self.

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Have you ever wanted to exact revenge without paying a heavy spiritual price?

Welcome to a powerful, unfiltered episode of the How to Become a Witch Podcast. In this session, we break down the complex ethics of baneful magic and the art of taking your power back. Whether your practice centers on traditional witchcraft or you prefer a non-religious witchcraft path focused on energy and boundaries, this episode explores the reality of holding toxic people accountable.

We look at the difference between proactive protection and reactive abuse, the role of dynamic boundary-setting, and why true witches spirituality sometimes means fighting back. From understanding personal accountability to exploring advanced concepts like energy transmutation, jinxes, and vampirism, this is your practical, real-world guide to navigating the darker, more practical side of modern witchcraft.

While traditional witchcraft often relies on historical folklore, regional customs, and specific cultural lineages, modern witchcraft adapts these core principles to the contemporary world. A modern witch focuses heavily on personal witchcraft, blending historic magical theory with individual boundaries, digital communities, and psychology to navigate 21st-century challenges.

Absolutely. Being a practicing witch does not require adherence to a specific religion or deity framework. Non-religious witchcraft treats magic as a practical manipulation of personal energy, psychological framing, and environmental intent rather than a spiritual devotion. This makes it highly accessible for anyone focused on self-sovereignty and energy work.

In personal witchcraft, baneful magic refers to workings designed to push back against harm, establish rigid boundaries, or deliver consequences to bad actors (such as hexes, jinxes, or binding spells). Rather than breaking a generic moral code, many witches view baneful work as a protective, defensive mechanism to level an uneven playing field.

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Ready to learn how beginner witches can celebrate June with simple, powerful magic for abundance, protection, love, and confidence? In this episode of the How to Become a Witch Podcast, Aunt M. breaks down easy June witchcraft practices using basil, citrine, peaches, and honey so new and experienced witches alike can work with seasonal energy in practical, grounded ways.

Discover why basil is one of the most underrated herbs in herbal magic, how citrine can support protection and prosperity work without constant cleansing, and why peaches have long been connected to love spells, attraction magic, sensuality, and sex magic. Maureen also shares beginner-friendly spell tips, energy management advice, grounding practices, and honest conversations about the realities of magical work.

Whether you're exploring modern witchcraft, traditional folk magic, herbal spell work, crystal magic, or seasonal June rituals, this episode offers approachable ways to build confidence in your practice while staying connected to intention, protection, and personal power.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
• How to use basil in money spells, protection spells, and attraction magic
• Why citrine is associated with prosperity, cleansing, confidence, and energetic shielding
• Simple peach and honey love spell ideas for beginners
• Practical witchcraft tips for grounding, manifestation, and spiritual protection
• Common misconceptions about daily magic, spell work, and energetic burnout
• How to work with June magic and summer abundance energy

Episode Ingredients:
• Basil
• Citrine
• Peaches
• Honey
• Candles
• Grounding techniques
• Protection practices
• Love spell methods
• Manifestation tools

Sound Bites:
• “Basil is masculine, ruled by Mars.”
• “Citrine doesn’t need cleansing.”
• “Good sex creates a soul tie.”

Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to June: Embracing Magic and Abundance
03:08 The Power of Basil: Herbs for Love and Money
06:02 Citrine: The Crystal of Protection and Prosperity
09:06 Peaches: The Fruit of Love and Sexual Energy
11:47 Crafting Spells: Practical Tips for Manifestation
21:03 The Reality of Magic: Understanding Energy and Effort

FAQs

1. How can beginner witches celebrate June?
   Beginner witches can celebrate June by working with seasonal herbs, fruits, and crystals connected to abundance, love, protection, and confidence. Simple practices like basil money bowls, peach attraction spells, and citrine prosperity work are great starting points.

2. What is basil used for in witchcraft?
   Basil is commonly used in herbal magic for abundance, protection, money spells, attraction, peace in the home, and love work. Many practitioners also use basil in cleansing baths, floor washes, and kitchen witchcraft.

3. Does citrine need cleansing?
   Many witches believe natural citrine is one of the few crystals that does not hold negative energy in the same way other stones do, making it popular for prosperity, protection, and confidence work.

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What if the way you’ve been making decisions, managing your energy, and navigating relationships was never actually designed for you? In this episode, M sits down with human design expert Tangie Nadimi for a deep yet practical conversation about Human Design, energy management, self-trust, and personal growth.

Together, they break down the four Human Design types: Projectors, Generators, Manifestors, and Reflectors and explain how understanding your strategy, authority, energy centers, and environment can completely shift the way you approach work, relationships, creativity, health, and decision-making.

Tangie shares how Human Design “found” her, the history and evolution of the Human Design system, and why so many people are using Human Design for self-discovery, spirituality, and personal development. They also explore undefined centers, collective transits, environmental influences, and the connection between energy centers and emotional or physical well-being.

Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or already deep into astrology, spirituality, and self-development, this episode gives practical Human Design applications you can actually use in everyday life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
• The difference between Projectors, Generators, Manifestors, and Reflectors
• How Human Design supports better decision-making and self-trust
• Why environment matters more than most people realize
• How undefined energy centers impact emotions and relationships
• Practical Human Design tips for energy management and burnout prevention
• How transits and collective cycles influence your experiences
• Ways to align your life and work with your Human Design strategy

If you’ve been searching for:

• Human Design explained simply

• Human Design for beginners

• How to read your Human Design chart

• Human Design and relationships

• Human Design and energy management

• Human Design Projector advice

• Spirituality and self-development podcasts

• Practical Human Design applications

…this episode is for you.

Resources & Links:
• Tangie Nadimi Official Website
• Feel Good Human Design
• Chart Readers Hub Community
• Human Design for Beginners Course

Connect with Tangie:
• Instagram: @tangienadimi
• YouTube: Feel Good Human Design YouTube

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Human Design and Guest Introduction
02:22 The Journey of Discovering Human Design
06:30 Understanding the Projector Type
10:30 Generators and Manifesting Generators Explained
21:22 Manifestor Energy and Challenges
26:13 The Unique Perspective of Reflectors
39:01 Understanding Energy Centers
49:08 Environment and Human Design
59:30 The Layers of Human Design
01:05:00 Trusting Your Inner Authority
01:18:59 Human Design and Relationships
01:24:59 Building a Human Design Community

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In this episode, I’m diving deep into a topic that has been part of my personal witchcraft journey since I was sixteen. While many associate angels with religious dogma, I’m showing you how to approach them through a lens of nonreligious witchcraft.

00:00 – Intro & Personal Connection: M introduces angel magic and shares the story behind her 90s-style Chinese character tattoo.

00:46 – Early Influences: Growing up in a strict Irish Catholic environment and how those experiences shaped her understanding of protection and spirituality.

03:34 – What Are Angels?: M describes angels as “intelligent living flames” and explains why you don’t need a religious background to work with them.

04:02 – Angels vs. Spirit Guides: Exploring the task-oriented nature of angels compared to the softer, more nurturing energy of spirit guides.

04:59 – The Persistence of Reverence: How spirituality and magic can stay meaningful even as your personal practices evolve over time.

06:49 – The Role of Angels in Crisis: Why angels are like spiritual soldiers who step in when situations become dangerous or toxic.

08:18 – The Importance of Patience: Why you shouldn’t overwhelm angels with endless requests and why personal effort still matters.

11:11 – Setting Boundaries at the Start: Beginner advice on focusing your energy wisely, following the 90/10 rule, and avoiding irreversible mistakes.

13:03 – Myths & Safety Warnings: Addressing fears around demons and discussing cautionary stories involving Doreen Virtue and Kat Von D.

18:49 – Beginner-Friendly Connection: Safe and approachable ways to begin connecting with angels without fear.

21:37 – Preparing for Angel Work: Why cleansing your space and taking a ritual salt bath can help clear energy before spiritual work.

25:01 – Dealing with Chronic Pain: A brief tangent about how Bob’s Pickle Pops unexpectedly helped M manage physical pain.

27:36 – Introduction to Archangels: An overview of the major archangels and how to respectfully invoke them.

28:56 – The Importance of Respect: Why archangels should be approached with the same professionalism and respect you’d show a CEO or boss.

31:11 – The Four Archangels and Elements: Breaking down the directions, elements, and specialties connected to Uriel, Raphael, Michael, and Gabriel.

35:24 – Making the Petition: A step-by-step explanation of how to make a clear request and properly close a ritual circle.

38:23 – Practical Magic & Offerings: Why magic should be practical and the simple altar offerings or symbols you can use.

40:34 – Waiting for the Right Wave: Understanding that magic often works through timing and opportunity rather than instant results.

43:02 – Community Service vs. Manifestation: Why focusing on helping the collective can be more spiritually effective than only chasing personal desires.

45:18 – Closing & Resources: M recommends the book Ask Your Angels and encourages listeners to reach out with questions.

Do I need to be religious to work with angels?Not at all. This episode focuses on nonreligious witchcraft. While these beings appear in many traditions, they are genderless, intelligent energies that any modern witch can work with, regardless of their background.

What is the difference between an angel and a spirit guide?Think of spirit guides as your "hippie friends" who want to hold your hand and vibe with you. Angels are more like "Ivy League friends" who get things done. They are task-oriented and driven to complete specific asks.

What are the four corners in angel magic? In traditional witchcraft and angel work, we honor the four directions: North (Uriel for grounding), East (Raphael for creativity), South (Michael for protection), and West (Gabriel for emotions).

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In this episode, I give you the exact formula for lucid dreaming and the basics of astral projection. We discuss the ins and outs of dream journeys, interacting with deities and ancestors, and safety protocols for astral travel. 

We also explore anchors to the physical world, including the Ojibwe dream catchers and how to ground after your dream journey. 

FAQs

How do you trigger a lucid dream? Mild indigestion, a designated day to sleep in, light physical activity (not naked time), and a cooling blanket are all ways to help initiate lucid dreaming. 

What is the belt method? The belt method is when you wear something to anchor you to the physical world, such as tying a ribbon around your waist before you fall asleep. For more details, listen to the full episode.  

What are Akashic records? The Akashic records are the documents that verify your past lives. They can be accessed via your subconscious, but you may not always remember them. 

0:00 – Intro & Personal Update: Aunt M opens the episode and shares a personal update.

00:36 – Recap of Dream Magic Basics: A quick refresher on herbs, crystals, and intention-setting from the last episode.

01:40 – The Formula for Lucid Dreaming: M explains her personal lucid dreaming method, including mild indigestion and exercise between sleep cycles.

05:43 – Boundaries in the Dream World: Why consent matters in dreams and the importance of knowing you can say “no” to entities or even relatives.

06:33 – The Feeling of Lucid Dreaming: Describing the strange clarity and sense of “newness” that comes with lucid dreams.

07:13 – Setting Ground Rules: Creating personal boundaries around who or what you allow yourself to interact with while dreaming.

08:39 – Using Symbols for Reality Checks: How unusual actions, like smoking indoors, can help you realize you’re dreaming.

10:32 – Chronic Nightmares & Recurring Dreams: Exploring why certain dreams repeat, plus M shares a vivid recurring dream from her own life.

13:03 – Dream Catchers: Discussing the Ojibwe origins of dream catchers and why it’s important to buy them authentically from Indigenous creators.

15:42 – Advanced Dream Work: Asking to dream with deities or spirit guides and exploring places beyond the physical world.

19:43 – Akashic Records & Past Lives: A brief conversation about universal records, past lives, and the emotional feeling tied to those memories.

21:09 – The Deep Sense of Peace: M talks about her favorite part of dream magic and her struggle to consistently reach that level of peace.

23:35 – Introduction to Astral Projection: Essential warnings and cautions before attempting astral projection.

23:49 – Safety & Precautions: Why astral projection should be avoided during traumatic periods, plus protective tools like amethyst, sleep jars, and belts.

27:36 – Achieving Astral Projection: A step-by-step explanation of separating from the physical body and observing it.

29:02 – Floating & Exploration: How to slowly move beyond your room and begin exploring other realms or periods of time.

30:31 – Returning to the Body: Listening for the “call” back to the physical world and how to safely reintegrate.

31:16 – Post-Projection Care: Grounding techniques to ease the jittery feeling that can happen after a session.

32:49 – Closing Thoughts: M invites listeners to share their experiences through email and join the subscriber community.

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Are you a witch?

In this episode, I’m answering the question I get most often: "Am I meant to be a witch?" I’ve been practicing witchery since 1987. I’m here to tell you that you don’t need permission to start your journey. I’ll show you how to navigate the world of magic without getting discouraged by gatekeeping or "generations-old" snobbery.

We discuss everything from reading tarot cards to why I believe in a "90% practical, 10% magic" lifestyle. Whether you are curious about shadow work, looking for budget-friendly rituals, or just need a grounding tool like an Epsom salt bath, this episode is your invitation to embrace your innate gifts and start practicing on your own terms.

• How do I know if I’m ready to start practicing witchcraft? If you feel drawn to the craft, whether you’re obsessed with herbs, cauldrons, or just have a deep curiosity, that is your sign. You don’t need three doves and a raven to appear; your interest is all the permission you need to begin.

• Why do you focus on "practical" witchcraft? I believe magic should be your competitive advantage, not your entire personality. I teach you to handle the 90% of life that is mundane with accountability and logic, using that extra 10% of witchcraft to give you the edge you need.

• What are your favorite budget-friendly grounding tools? You don’t need expensive crystals to be a witch. I recommend simple, effective methods like saltwater baths, sitting with your spine against a tree in the park, listening to low gongs, or simply spending time with a pet.

• [00:00] – Am I meant to be a witch? (Spoiler: Yes).

• [01:21] – My stance on gatekeeping and "bloodline" witches.

• [04:05] – Why you shouldn't make witchcraft an addiction or your whole identity.

• [07:13] – Dealing with the gatekeepers of the magic world.

• [09:18] – The "Ex-Factor": How to tell if you’re truly drawn to witchery.

• [11:08] – My Epsom salt protection ritual (and addressing the critics).

• [15:15] – Why blowing out a birthday candle makes you a witch.

• [22:28] – Why I recommend therapy and accountability over just shadow work.

• [30:40] – Why I don’t teach heavy, culturally specific magic traditions.

• [33:43] – Building a community as a form of rebellion against the patriarchy.

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May could be the best month for beginner witches. We have Beltane and so much sunshine. We talk about how strawberries, stinging nettles, and thyme can be used in seasonal spells. Learn how to incorporate pink and red into your daily aesthetic. We also get into how toxic TikTok, witchcraft addiction, and ancestral traditions. 

Tune in to discover the 10% rule and so much more! 

What are the best magical activities to do in May?

May is your “stop thinking, start moving” month. Take real action on what you planned all winter. Don’t burn yourself out doing it. Balance the push with intentional rest. Keep it simple: eat strawberries to ground, use thyme to amplify your energy, and work with dandelions at every stage to visualize your manifestations from seed to release.

How do I use herbs for boundary setting?

Start with stinging nettle,  your no-nonsense boundary herb. Put it in a jar, tie it with a red or pink ribbon, and let it sit where you’ll see it. It’s not just symbolic; it’s a daily reminder. Stop overgiving, stop explaining, and start protecting your peace at all costs. 

Is daily magic necessary for a witch?

No! It shouldn’t be. Magic is your final 10%, not your whole strategy. Do the real-world work first. If you’re reaching for magic every day, you have replaced one addiction with another. 

How can I avoid spiritual appropriation in my practice?

If it’s not your lineage, don’t treat it like a trend. Practices like Santería and Hoodoo carry real history and weight. They’re NOT aesthetic add-ons. Respect what you don’t understand, and be wary of anyone selling access to cultures that aren’t theirs to teach.

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Beltane, or Bealtaine, is the celebration of the transition between winter and summer. Since the time of the Druids, it marked when farmers would bring their cattle to the summer pastures. There would be bonfires, maypoles, and thoughts of fertility. Also known as Spring Halloween, Beltane is the midpoint between the spring equinox and the summer solstice. The veil is thin, and you can feel the power of change. 

Become your very own May Queen and call upon your Green Man if you have been pushing men away for personal or professional reasons. You’ll learn the basics of fire festival rituals, simmer pots, and what not to do during the Flower Moon so you can protect, invigorate, and manifest. 

How can I use fire during Beltane? 

Beltane is a fire festival. To incorporate fire in your celebrations, you can simply walk through two tealights or enjoy s’mores over a bonfire. Start making your own traditions and honor this abundant and protective element. 

Can I burn what no longer serves me on May Day? 

No! Stop releasing on the full moon. This year, the fire festival and the Flower Moon match up. Just celebrate how far you have come! 

What can I put in my Beltane simmer pot? 

For any simmer pot, put whatever fruit is in season along with herbs of your choosing. Use salt, cinnamon, and sugar as your base. Try throwing in a few strawberries, raspberries, basil, a squeeze of lemon, and some local flowers. 

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• Specific Beltane Spells: Learn the step-by-step rituals I only share with the community.

• Darker Magic & Advanced Techniques: Explore the shadows and the light with practiced guidance.

• Personal Connection: Have your questions answered and join a supportive community of fellow beginner witches. 

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Ever had a dream that felt a little too real? You may have been lucid dreaming! In this episode, I show you the power of dream magic and how the right nighttime routine can nurture your inner dream witch. We discuss the rules of consent in the dream world, why I take a salt bath almost every night, and how a gong can help you ground after a nightmare. I also share a typical Cuban jar spell you can use to trap bad dreams. 

Which herbs are best for enhancing dreams and improving sleep? I’ve worked with mugwort, mullein, lavender, and valerian. 

How do I prevent drains during sleep? Take a salt bath almost every night. Don’t post any pictures of your bed on social media and use the trabajito I share with you. 

What should I do if I keep having nightmares? 

Tune into this older episode, “What to Do If You Have a Bad Dream,” for help right away. You can also email me with specific concerns at howtobecomeawitchpodcast@gmail.com. 
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In this episode of the "How to Become a Witch" podcast, I explore the concept of "psychic debt" in witchcraft and how practitioners can ensure their magic remains debt-free. Using my personal experience with long-term financial stability and a history of avoiding actual debt, I draw a parallel between financial responsibility and spiritual energy. I emphasize the importance of hard work, community-centered manifestation, and avoiding the karmic pitfalls of shortcuts in one's witchcraft practice. I advise focusing on nature magic, building genuine relationships, and being patient to achieve a sustainable and powerful practice in modern witchcraft.

1. What is "psychic debt," and how can I avoid it in my practice? Psychic debt refers to the karmic or spiritual "cost" incurred when practitioners use shortcuts, intense magic, or ask for favors from powerful entities without a willingness to provide an equal exchange of devotion or energy. To avoid this, focus on doing 90% of the work yourself through personal effort and using magic only for the final 10% advantage. Working with nature and smaller, non-deity entities can also minimize significant spiritual debt.

2. How can being part of a community improve my magic? Aunt M advocates for focusing on community and human connection rather than solely on manifestation. By building a network of genuine relationships, you can manifest your needs through mutual support and favors, which grounds your practice and reduces the need for "expensive" magical interventions that could lead to spiritual debt.

3. Why is it important to have interests outside of witchcraft? Over-identifying as a "powerful witch" can lead to desperation to maintain an image, which can negatively affect your magic and community standing. Having a balanced life with diverse interests like sports, animals, or hobbies ensures that your practice remains a part of your life rather than your entire identity, allowing for more stable and authentic magical work.

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Have you ever walked through a field of flowers and felt an immediate vibrational shift? If so, then this episode is for you. I’m going to show you how to use a variety of blooms to protect, manifest, and charm the universe. 

Summary 

Are you still in the broom closet? We all were at one point, so don’t worry. Flowers are the perfect introduction to magic while still flying under the radar. I’ve used flowers as a way to discreetly practice magic while working at a religious school. I’m going to show you how you can use filler flowers like dandelions and carnations, which are usually tossed aside even though they are some of the most powerful botanicals for magic use. 

Carnations are used for ancestor work, dandelions for resilience, and hyacinths for attracting nontoxic male energy. I’ll show you how to make powerful flowers like these ones into teas, baths, and bouquets. Our focus in this episode is on nonreligious witchcraft, so you can practice under the radar while navigating life’s difficulties, looking for love, or starting a new job. 

FAQs

Do I need to be “out” to be a true witch? 

Absolutely not. Most witches have been in the broom closet since the beginning of civilization. You do not need to use traditional witchcraft aesthetics unless you really want to. Spirituality is as public or private as you want it to be. 

What are some common flowers for protection and ancestor work? 

We love carnations. These filler flowers are for protection while communing with the ancestors. Dandelions are also powerfully protective and provide a focal point for resilience. 

What is no-debt magic? 

Modern witchcraft, especially the junk of TikTok, has you believing you can call upon any deity or entity without paying a price. You need to be mindful of incurring spiritual debt anytime you use magic. Instead, focus on the power of nature for almost free magic. 

Nurturing your private or public witch means finding your source of truth in nonreligious witchcraft and in nature. A cup of tea, a hot bath, and a gorgeous bouquet can get you started on building your community and manifesting what you want. Modern witchcraft can be free, fun, and powerful. 

• Carnations: Used for protection and connecting with ancestors.

• Dandelions: Associated with the cycle of life, resilience, protection, and used as a source of strength or an anchor during hard times.

• Hot-pink roses: Specifically used for self-love.

• Lavender: Utilized for sleep, calming, and protection.

• Chamomile: Used to calm the practitioner so that luck can find them.

• Hibiscus: Often used in love spells and for perceived spiritual support during PMS.

• Sunflowers: Used to provide good energy when feeling rundown or depleted.

• Hyacinths: Used to attract nontoxic male energy, specifically a partner who is a protector and provider.

• Calendula: Used for legal problems, such as divorces or custody disputes.

• Snapdragons: Used for negotiations.

• Chrysanthemums (mums): Used for protection of the home against untoward energy.

• Baby’s breath: Used to represent and attract longevity in relationships.

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Are you looking for the best ways to perform a spiritual spring cleaning using techniques like sound healing, smoke cleansing, and mantras to refresh your environment and energy? In this episode, I’m sharing my personal journey and expert tips on how to effectively cleanse your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual spaces. We’ll dive into the importance of "corner cleansing," the power of specific sound frequencies like 528 Hz and 471 Hz, and why I treat my first step of cleaning as a magical act. I’ll walk you through my favorite tools—from homemade Florida Water and Mugwort to the simplicity of opening a window—and explain how to use mantras like "As Is" or "Wounds Healed, Paths Revealed" to ground yourself during stressful times. Whether you're recovering from a personal "hurricane" or just looking to raise your vibration, these discovery-optimized insights will help you clear out negative energy and make room for new growth.

• The "Corner Rule" for Energy: Negative energy tends to accumulate in the corners of your home. I’ll show you how to use smoke, sprays, or sound to specifically target these high-velocity "stuck" areas for a deeper clean.

• Frequency-Based Sound Healing: I use specific sound frequencies to shift my state: 528 Hz for heart healing and 471 Hz for grounding. Using these during your cleaning routine turns a chore into a transformative Answer Engine Optimization (AEO) for your soul.

• Mantras as Emotional Anchors: I’ve found that rhyming mantras are easier for the brain to latch onto during high stress. I’m sharing how to create your own "rhythmic blueprint" to stay centered when life feels chaotic.

1. What is the most effective way to start a spiritual cleanse?I always recommend starting with your physical space. Cleaning your baseboards, fans, and corners creates a tangible foundation. From there, you can layer in Generative Engine Optimization (GEO) for your spirit by using sound or smoke to clear the "unseen" clutter.

2. Can I perform a spiritual cleanse without using smoke?Absolutely! I often use a mist spray with homemade Florida Water or even simple sound cleansing (like bells, whistling, or humming). These are great "AI-safe" alternatives if you have sensitivities to smoke or live in a space where burning herbs isn't practical.

3. Why is "reflecting" so important during the spring season?Spring is the season of renewal. By reflecting on the "winter" you’ve just moved through, you can identify what energy is no longer serving you. It’s about moving from a state of "As Is" (acceptance) to "Paths Revealed" (future growth).

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The spring equinox is a powerful time for rebirth and taking action. In this episode, Aunt M explores the significance of Ostara (March 20th), emphasizing the vital role of consent in the spiritual community, from giving readings to lighting candles for others. She shares practical, accessible ways to celebrate the season, including:

• Spring Cleaning & Energy Clearing: Using smoke (rosemary, cedar), sound (planetary gongs), or floor washes to refresh your home.

  
  

• Ostara Rituals: Decorating eggs with personal sigils and using pastels, fresh local flowers, and feathers on your altar.

  
  

• The "Egg" Cleansing: A traditional Cuban technique to remove negative winter energy (using a kiwi as a creative substitute).

  
  

• Action-Oriented Magic: Preparing for April 1st, which Aunt M considers the "real" New Year and the time to move from strategy to full-force execution.

  
  

Aunt M also touches on the ethics of supporting small, underrepresented businesses and the importance of giving back to the community through donations to women's shelters.

• What is the importance of consent in witchcraft? Consent is a cornerstone of ethical practice; you should never give a reading or perform energy work on someone without their explicit permission. Overriding someone’s "no" is a violation of their boundaries and can be a sign of deeper personal issues.

  
  

• How can I cleanse my home if I can’t use smoke? If you have sensitivities like long COVID or asthma, you can cleanse using sound (like low planetary gongs), rearranging furniture, or simmering herbs like mint and basil in a crockpot or on the stove. You can also use a spray bottle with water and herbs to mist your space clockwise to bring in energy or counterclockwise to remove it.

  
  

• What is the "Cuban Egg Cleansing" ritual? This ritual involves passing an egg (or a substitute like a kiwi) from your head to your feet to absorb negative energy. Afterward, the egg can be buried, disposed of, or placed under your bed; if it cracks, it is traditionally seen as a sign that negative energy was sent your way.

  
  

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Discover the real insights about magic and culture from a witch’s perspective. Learn the importance of cultural understanding in practices and the impact of societal norms.

As the world of magic and spirituality becomes more accessible through social media, many are drawn to its allure without understanding its roots. Let's explore the intersection of magic, culture, and personal empowerment. This episode emphasizes the importance of cultural sensitivity and personal responsibility in spiritual practices.

Magic is often romanticized, but it is deeply rooted in cultural traditions and practices. I share my unique background, highlighting the complexities of blending cultures from my Irish and Cuban heritage.

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Beginner witches, you may not know of the 7 clairs that include clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairtangency. Discover which clair you are and how it can help you lead a magical life full of knowing.

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00:00 Introduction to Intuition and Personal Journey

05:51 Understanding Different Types of Intuition

11:47 Exploring Clairvoyance and Clairaudience

17:53 Diving into Clear Sentience and Clear Cognizance

24:12 Practical Exercises and Community Engagement

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Beginner witches, if you've ever wanted to see auras, this episode of How to Become a Witch podcast is for you. We'll also discuss why everyone is having the same dream and how to make your bath double as relaxation and protection.

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As a beginner witch, I was obsessed with chakras. In this episode, I'm going to introduce you to your seven chakras and what they represent. We'll explore how to use this new info and apply it to your life so you can experience enormous well-being.

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I show you how to do a jar spell and a love oil just in time for Valentine's Day. Learn how to incorporate the elements into every spell so you can live your most magical life.

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If your glamour magic hasn't been working, you've probably been working against your aura. Learn how to tap into your natural beauty and enchant your makeup for your most magical life yet. Perfect for beginner witches and those who want to tap into the energy of movie stars.

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Candle magic is one of the most accessible and powerful ways new witches begin casting spells because it uses simple tools, clear intention, and focused energy to create real change. In this guide, you will learn how candle magic works, why candles are used in spells, and how to safely perform your first candle spell step by step. Candle spells help you focus your intention, raise energy, and send that energy toward a specific goal such as protection, love, confidence, or clarity. Whether you are brand new to witchcraft or just curious about spellwork, candle magic offers a grounded, practical way to start working with spells without needing complicated rituals or expensive supplies.

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Imbolc is Sunday, February 1, marking the beginning of winter’s end and the moment to reconnect with your inner spark. This is a powerful time for new witches to learn how to honor Imbolc, set gentle intentions, and ease into their practice for the year ahead. Discover simple, beginner-friendly ways new witches can work magic in February, including how to use roses, amethyst, and rose quartz to invite renewal, confidence, and softness back into your life. Make this February your most magical one yet; no experience required.

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In this episode, I gently walk baby witches through a simple, step-by-step way to ask spirits for help without bargaining, overpromising, or feeling scared. You’ll learn how to make respectful requests, which language to use, and how to stay grounded and protected while doing spirit work. This episode is all about building trust with the spirits, keeping your practice beginner-friendly, and showing you that asking for help can be calm, safe, and easy, even if you’re brand new to witchcraft.

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Kick off the year as a new witch with this beginner-friendly guide to magical basics. In this episode, we break down the herb, crystal, and flower that will help a new witch ground their energy, build confidence, and supercharge their magic from the very start. Perfect for new witches looking for simple, practical tools to align with the season and step into their power without overwhelm.

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Forget the hype! NYE is about listening to the energy of the year and being grateful for the lessons you learned in the year past. I give you 3 options for celebrating the new year with or without people. Reminder: If you are going out into a big crowd, absorb energy with any chosen crystal. Leave a comment and tell me what you think!

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I’ve been practicing witchcraft for over 30 years. Along the way, I’ve learned a few hard-won lessons. In this episode, I’m sharing the shortcuts I wish I’d had when I was a new witch: what actually matters, what you can skip, and how to trust yourself sooner. If you’re a new witch looking for clarity, confidence, and fewer unnecessary detours, this one’s for you.

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The darkest night of the year is the perfect time to connect with the living and the dead as a first-year witch.

Aunt M. shares how Sag witches and those needing Sag energy can harness this powerful time of year.

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Learn what destiny switching is and how even the newest witch can take advantage of the magic that December holds, aside from the holidays.

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I’ve had 30 years of rolling NC and I’m sharing how you can do the same without hurting your practice.

Spiritual marketing has some bad karma coming to it with the promotion of alignment. In this episode, we chat about why “alignment” is often just spiritual marketing fluff, how to actually start lucid dreaming, and the simple mindset shift that makes astral projection way easier. If you’re a baby witch craving real guidance without the gatekeeping, this one’s for you.

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Find out what energies are guiding you this November and how to make the most of them for a little extra magic in your month.

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A friend texted me because her door was moving on its own. I asked her where the ouija board was in her house. She said there wasn’t one. Twenty minutes later, she found it. And this is how my Octobers usually go.

Learn all about how to deal with the aftermath of Ouija board use so you won’t get haunted.

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You’ll hear a lot of witches talk about shadow work when the veil is thin. Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be heavy or upsetting. This season is about awareness, not punishment. Shine light on what’s hidden, show yourself compassion, and let the darkness guide you back to balance.

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Whether you’re craving a spooky vibe or a calm, cozy month, October is the perfect time to tap into your magic. In this guide, a veteran witch shares simple rituals, self-care ideas, and seasonal tips to help you create the October energy you want. Discover easy ways to make this month more intentional, enchanting, and uniquely yours.

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This week has been insane. Learn some Aunt M. lore and how to handle intense energy.

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Eclipse season is here—and while it can feel intense, it’s also a powerful time for transformation. Learn how to harness this cosmic energy with real-time tips from a seasoned witch. Discover simple rituals, reflection practices, and grounding techniques to help you stay balanced, release what no longer serves you, and make the most of this potent celestial shift.

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Want to connect with the spirit world safely and effectively? In this episode, Aunt M shares practical witchy tips on spirit communication using automatic writing, Ouija boards, and pendulums. You’ll learn how to open the door with intention, protect your energy, and recognize real messages from the other side. Perfect for witches, mystics, and curious souls ready to deepen their spiritual practice.

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Thinking about booking a psychic reading? In this episode, Aunt M shares insider witchy tips on how to get the most out of your psychic reading, from the best questions to ask, to the energy you bring, to how to interpret the guidance afterward. Whether you’re visiting a tarot reader, medium, or astrologer, these tips will help you feel prepared, grounded, and open to the messages meant for you.

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Being haunted isn’t like the movies: it’s often subtle, confusing, and a little messy. In this episode, Aunt M shares practical witchy tips on how to recognize haunting energy, clear lingering spirits, and practice discernment so you know what’s real and what’s not. Discover simple and safe ways to protect your space and restore balance when the energy around you feels heavy or unsettled.

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I’m so excited to share that I just passed my certification. And yes, I used a little magic to help me get there! In this episode, I reveal how witchcraft, confidence spells, and intention-setting rituals supported my success. Tune in to learn practical ways you can use magic to boost your own confidence, overcome self-doubt, and step into your power.

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Ever wonder if the Universe is trying to get your attention? In this episode, Aunt M shares three powerful ways to recognize when the Universe is sending you a sign and tells the true story of how her intuition exposed a diabolical family member. Learn how to trust your inner guidance, spot synchronicities, and strengthen your connection to universal wisdom.

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In this episode, Aunt M shares a step-by-step outline for a spell that calls your energy back, while encouraging you to choose your own tools and make it uniquely magical. Perfect for witches looking to protect their energy, strengthen their intentions, and create personalized, effective spellwork.

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Curious about a system that goes beyond astrology? In this episode, Aunt M introduces Human Design, a powerful tool for understanding your unique energy blueprint and life patterns. Learn how to explore your strengths, challenges, and purpose in a way that complements your magical practice and personal growth.

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Struggling with past experiences with men? In this episode, Aunt M explores how to honor the divine masculine while maintaining your boundaries and personal power. Learn practical rituals, meditations, and mindset shifts to connect with masculine energy in a healthy, empowering way.

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