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Connection Is the Cure with Padraig Danaher24 Dec 202401:14:18

Welcome to “Connection Is the Cure”, episode #2 of The Becca Holland Show. In this deeply insightful episode, Becca sits down with Padraig Danaher, a senior occupational therapist with expertise in social work and positive psychology, to explore how connection and nervous system regulation can transform mental and physical well-being. Padraig offers practical tools and compassionate insights to help listeners overcome challenges, release shame, and build a supportive environment for growth.

This episode dives into the transformative power of relationships and community, showcasing how connection can be a powerful remedy for overcoming trauma and finding balance. From practical strategies to cultivate joy and regulate emotions to actionable advice on creating environments that foster healing, this conversation is an actionable guide to navigating life’s complexities.


Episode Highlights and Timestamps:

  • [00:00] Introduction: Becca introduces Padraig and highlights his multifaceted approach to fostering healing through connection, regulation, and personalised care.
  • [02:00] Individualised Care: Why cookie-cutter frameworks fail and the importance of tailored approaches to trauma recovery.
  • [06:30] The Role of Regulation: How nervous system regulation lays the foundation for sustainable behavioural change.
  • [08:00] Environmental Impact: Understanding how relationships and environments influence emotional well-being.
  • [13:00] Gut-Brain Connection: Exploring the links between gut health, emotional regulation, and inflammation.
  • [15:30] Making Regulation Fun: Innovative approaches to embedding regulation techniques into enjoyable activities like outdoor adventures.
  • [20:00] Joy and Play: Rediscovering joy through hobbies and playful activities.
  • [30:00] Community Matters: Building and nurturing connections to combat isolation and foster healing.
  • [42:00] Self-Compassion and Shame: Differentiating guilt from shame and the role of self-compassion in growth.
  • [53:00] The Role of Sleep: Why sleep is critical for hormonal balance and emotional regulation.
  • [58:00] Parenting with Presence: How parental regulation influences children’s emotional and behavioural health, and strategies to lead by example.


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Connect with Padraig Danaher:


Healing From Within with Orla O’Flaherty17 Dec 202401:16:14

From Stress to Balance: Unlocking Hormonal Health with Orla O’Flaherty

Welcome to Healing From Within, an episode of The Becca Holland Show where we explore the powerful connections between physical health, emotional well-being, and sustainable healing practices.

In this episode, Becca sits down with Orla O’Flaherty, a naturopath and herbalist, to discuss the transformative journey of achieving hormone balance through self-awareness, self-compassion, and intentional lifestyle changes.

Orla shares her experiences with endometriosis, thyroid dysfunction, chronic inflammation, and the profound impact of gut health on overall wellness. Topics include nervous system regulation, boundary setting, and how rest can be a game-changer for healing.

This discussion dives into thyroid health, gut health, and the role of nutrition, including the challenges posed by modern food quality and soil depletion. Packed with actionable advice, practical tips, and relatable anecdotes, this episode will inspire you to reconnect with your body and embrace incremental, lasting changes.


Episode Highlights:

  • [00:00] Introduction: Becca introduces Orla and sets the tone for a holistic discussion on health and hormones.
  • [02:00] Orla’s Journey: Navigating misdiagnosis, SSRIs, and finding healing through homeopathy and nutrition.
  • [07:00] Birth Control Insights: Hormonal changes, relationship impacts, and transitioning off the pill.
  • [13:00] Boundaries for Hormonal Health: The link between boundary setting and emotional balance.
  • [22:00] Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT): Using EFT to break cycles of shame and boost self-worth.
  • [32:00] Nutrition for Balance: Small, consistent dietary changes and the importance of micronutrients for hormonal health.
  • [48:00] Gut Instincts: Listening to your body and connecting with gut health for optimal well-being.
  • [58:00] Modern Food Challenges: The effects of soil depletion, food quality, and pesticides on hormonal health.
  • [01:07:00] The Power of Rest: Orla reflects on rest as a foundation for healing and growth.
  • [01:14:00] Key Takeaways: Gradual change, self-compassion, and celebrating small wins for lasting health.


This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in holistic approaches to thyroid health, gut health, and hormonal balance. It’s a reminder that sustainable wellness is about embracing gradual changes, honouring your individual needs, and redefining rest as a vital part of healing.

If you enjoyed this conversation, please share it with a friend who might find it helpful!

Don’t forget to follow Becca on social media at @healthwithholland for more insights.

See you in the next episode!

Follow Orla on Instagram here.

Discover The Becca Holland Show: Launching 17th December10 Dec 202400:00:38

Welcome to The Becca Holland Show!

This podcast is your go-to for real, relatable conversations about women’s health, hormone balance, stress management, and living a sustainable, empowered life.

Hosted by health coach Becca Holland, each episode delivers expert insights and practical tips to help you feel your best through every phase of life.

Launching 17th December—follow now and take the first step toward transforming your health and well-being!


Website: healthwithholland.com

Instagram: @healthwithholland


Master Your Sleep with Tom Coleman21 Jan 202501:23:41

Welcome to Episode #4 of The Becca Holland Show! In this episode, Becca sits down with Tom Coleman, a leading expert in sleep and performance, to explore why quality sleep is the foundation of optimal health. Tom shares invaluable insights on how sleep impacts hormones, energy levels, and overall well-being, offering practical strategies to improve your sleep routine, manage stress at bedtime, and reset your circadian rhythm.

Whether you struggle with broken sleep, constant fatigue, or simply want to feel more energised, this conversation is packed with actionable tips to help you build better habits around rest.

Timestamps to Key Topics:
[00:00] Introduction: Becca welcomes Tom and introduces the focus on circadian health and sleep science.
[01:40] Stress and Sleep: How unmanaged stress dysregulates sleep and affects hormone balance.
[07:43] Circadian Rhythms Explained: Understanding the 24-hour biological cycle and its impact on sleep quality.
[12:15] Women and Sleep: How sleep needs change across different life stages, from menstruation to menopause.
[14:53] The Role of Cortisol: How cortisol rhythms influence energy levels and sleep onset.
[18:28] Social Media's Impact: How phone addiction hijacks dopamine and disrupts healthy sleep patterns.
[24:53] Caffeine and Sleep: The impact of caffeine on sleep cycles and alternatives like Yerba Mate.
[31:10] Temperature's Role in Sleep: How cooling the body at night enhances melatonin production.
[39:58] Building Sleep Routines: Daily habits to promote better sleep hygiene and long-term wellness.
[45:00] Overcoming Insomnia: Strategies to regulate stress and create an optimal sleep environment.
[50:42] Shift Workers and Sleep: Practical advice for those with irregular work schedules.
[59:16] The Power of Light: Using SAD lamps and natural light exposure to regulate sleep cycles.
[1:04:15] Gut Health and Sleep: How microbiome health affects sleep and hormone production.
[1:11:49] The Importance of Joy: Finding flow state and fulfilment to reduce stress and improve sleep.
[1:20:27] Where to Find Tom: Resources and support for improving sleep through his courses and website.


If you’re ready to take your health to the next level, check out The Rebalance Club, Becca’s 12-week program for sustainable lifestyle change and support.

Click here for details!


Where to Connect:
➡️ Follow Becca Holland:
Instagram: @healthwithholland
Podcast Instagram: @thebeccahollandpod
Website: healthwithholland.com

➡️ Follow Tom Coleman:
Instagram: @tomcoleman.ie
Website: tomcoleman.ie

The Mind-Body Connection with Robbie Cassidy07 Jan 202501:29:39

In this engaging episode of The Becca Holland Show, Becca is joined by Robbie Cassidy, an expert in movement and pain management, and host of the Rebalanced podcast. Together, they explore the intricate connections between stress, posture, and chronic pain, offering practical solutions to improve movement patterns and alleviate discomfort.

Robbie shares valuable insights on how emotional and physical stress manifest in the body, the role of nervous system regulation, and how to build resilience through tailored movement strategies.

Whether you're navigating chronic pain, recovering from injury, or simply looking to reconnect with your body, this episode is packed with actionable tips to support your health journey.


Episode Highlights:

  • [0:00] Introduction
    Becca introduces Robbie Cassidy and previews their discussion on pain, posture, and movement.
  • [1:18] The Emotional Connection to Pain
    Robbie explains how injuries often have psychological and emotional components, requiring a holistic approach to treatment.
  • [6:01] Breaking Free from Fear of Movement
    How fear-avoidance behaviors can exacerbate pain and why mindset shifts are crucial for recovery.
  • [13:25] The Power of Words on Recovery
    Robbie discusses the impact of language on the healing process and the importance of positive affirmations.
  • [26:06] Stress, Trauma, and the Nervous System
    Exploring the link between emotional stress and physical pain, including how unresolved trauma can manifest in the body.
  • [33:39] Harnessing Neuroplasticity for Change
    Why familiarity with discomfort often keeps us stuck and how to use neuroplasticity to break negative patterns.
  • [45:41] Managing Inflammation and Recovery
    Understanding how psychological stress and sleep deprivation contribute to inflammation and chronic pain.
  • [1:01:06] Adapting Exercise to Life’s Stages
    Robbie and Becca discuss how to adjust fitness routines to align with hormonal changes, aging, and life demands.
  • [1:14:04] Finding Your Flow State
    The role of hobbies, movement, and creativity in achieving mental clarity and emotional balance.


📣 Loved this Episode?
Join the Rebalance Membership! This monthly program is designed to help you cultivate sustainable habits around mindset, nervous system regulation, movement, nutrition, and circadian health. Gain access to a supportive community of like-minded women and take the first step toward a healthier, more balanced life.

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📌 Connect with Robbie Cassidy

  • Instagram: @robbiecassidy_
  • Podcast: Rebalanced (available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more)


📌 Connect with Becca Holland

Emotional Eating Uncovered with Brian O’hÁonghusa04 Feb 202501:14:27

In this transformative episode, Becca sits down with Brian O’hÁonghusa, a nutrition coach and trainee psychotherapist specialising in CBT, to explore emotional eating, diet culture, and how to rebuild a healthier relationship with food. Brian shares expert insights into why we develop certain eating habits, the role of self-compassion in recovery, and practical strategies to break free from restrictive cycles.

If you've ever struggled with food guilt, binge eating, or feeling out of control around food, this episode is packed with valuable mindset shifts and actionable techniques to help you find balance.

Episode Highlights & Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction – Becca welcomes Brian and introduces the conversation on emotional eating and food psychology.

[02:46] Brian’s Journey – From nutrition coaching to psychotherapy: why combining these fields is essential for real change.

[05:30] Eating Habits: The Root Causes – How upbringing, diet culture, and emotional regulation shape our relationship with food.

[11:23] Feelings Aren’t Facts – How cognitive distortions fuel food struggles and how to reframe your mindset.

[17:07] Breaking the Autopilot Cycle – Practical ways to pause before emotional eating and make conscious choices.

[22:50] Creating Space for Emotions – How mindfulness and regulation techniques help reduce food obsession.

[29:38] Physical vs. Emotional Hunger – Key differences and how to recognise your true hunger signals.

[40:53] Navigating Social Media & Nutrition Myths – How misleading online advice fuels food anxiety.

[46:05] The Power of Joy & Flow State – How daily pleasure and mindful habits reduce cravings and binge eating.

[50:16] Mindful Eating: The 5-10-15 Rule – A simple strategy to slow down, enjoy your food, and prevent overeating.

[57:09] Body Image & Self-Worth – How to separate your identity from diet culture and embrace true health.

[1:03:46] Family Influence on Eating Habits – How childhood experiences and generational beliefs shape our food mindset.

[1:07:30] Challenging Society’s Beauty Standards – Why body ideals are ever-changing and how to define your own version of health.

If you’re ready to take back control of your health, mindset, and relationship with food, check out The Rebalance Membership – a monthly programme designed to help you cultivate sustainable habits around nutrition, emotional regulation, and self-care.

💡 Click here for details!


Where to Connect:

📌Follow Becca Holland

Instagram: @healthwithholland
Podcast Instagram: @thebeccahollandpod

📌 Follow Brian O’hÁonghusa:
Instagram: @brianohaonghusa

Triage Method: www.triagemethod.com

Unlocking the Secrets of Brain Health with Dr Sabina Brennan18 Mar 202501:10:10

In today’s thought-provoking episode, Becca sits down with Dr Sabina Brennan, a renowned psychologist, neuroscientist, and bestselling author, to delve into the fascinating world of brain health and mental resilience. They explore the science behind brain fog, hormonal shifts, and the powerful effects our thoughts have on our reality.

Sabina shares invaluable insights on how our cognitive functions, from memory to decision-making, can be impacted by various factors, including hormonal fluctuations and mental fatigue. With her unique ability to make complex neuroscience both accessible and actionable, Sabina offers practical tips on how to enhance brain function, reduce mental clutter, and optimise our overall mental well-being.

Whether you’ve been struggling with brain fog, decision fatigue, or simply want to learn how to harness the power of neuroplasticity, this episode is packed with expert advice to help you boost your mental clarity and improve brain health.

Episode Highlights & Timestamps: 

[00:00] Introduction – Becca welcomes Dr Sabina Brennan to discuss brain health, mental resilience, and how our cognitive functions shape our daily lives.

[02:15] Understanding Brain Fog – What brain fog really is and why it disproportionately affects women, especially during hormonal shifts.

[09:20] The Role of Hormones – How hormonal fluctuations during menopause, pregnancy, and beyond impact cognitive functioning.

[14:50] Mental Fatigue vs Physical Fatigue – Why mental exhaustion can be more debilitating and the key signs to look out for.

[21:30] Neuroplasticity and Change – How the brain adapts and rewires itself to improve cognitive health and resilience.

[30:40] The Neuroscience of Manifestation – How our thoughts shape our reality and how you can use this knowledge to manifest change.

[37:15] Emotional Regulation and Guilt – How to navigate emotions, especially during hormonal changes, and let go of self-criticism.

[42:30] The Power of Social Connection – Why human interaction is critical for brain health and how isolation impacts cognitive function.

[48:00] Practical Tools for Brain Health – Dr Sabina shares daily strategies to boost brain function and combat mental fatigue.

[54:00] Closing Thoughts – Sabina’s top takeaways for maintaining a healthy mind and navigating life’s challenges with mental clarity.

If you’re ready to optimise your brain health and boost your mental resilience, check out more insights in Sabina's work and learn how to unlock your brain’s potential.

📌 Follow Becca Holland:

Instagram:@healthwithholland

Podcast Instagram:@thebeccahollandpod


📌 Follow Dr Sabina Brennan:Instagram: @sabina_brennan

Website:www.superbrain.ie


Breaking Through Personal Barriers with Mark Fennell04 Mar 202501:13:27

This week, Becca sits down with renowned life coach, mentor, and author Mark Fennell to discuss the profound impact of self-esteem, mindset, and overcoming personal barriers. With over 20 years of experience helping people break free from self-sabotage and anxiety, Mark shares transformative strategies to cultivate lasting confidence and resilience.

They explore how past experiences shape our self-belief, the importance of self-compassion in overcoming anxiety, and how to rewire your brain to move from "stuck" to "unstoppable." If you’ve ever struggled with negative thought cycles or felt overwhelmed by self-doubt, this episode is packed with practical insights and tools to help you build a mindset that serves you.


Episode Highlights & Timestamps: 

[00:00] Introduction – Becca introduces Mark and sets the stage for a conversation on mindset and personal growth.


[03:10] Mark's Journey – From a bullied child to a life coach: Mark’s story of overcoming self-esteem challenges.


[07:50] Breaking Free from Self-Sabotage – The role of fear and identity in self-sabotage and how to conquer it.


[15:30] Building Resilience – How to build mental resilience and face life’s challenges head-on.


[23:12] The Power of Rewiring Your Brain – Understanding neuroplasticity and how it can change your future.


[29:48] The Impact of Anxiety – Mark opens up about his own battle with anxiety and shares tools to manage it.


[35:00] Positive Affirmations: Do They Really Work? – Mark’s take on how affirmations can become powerful if done correctly.


[41:35] The Importance of Boundaries – How setting clear boundaries can enhance self-esteem and protect your energy.


[47:18] Getting into Flow State – How to clear mental clutter and enter a state of creative flow for maximum productivity.


[53:40] Final Thoughts – Mark’s key advice for anyone looking to break free from limiting beliefs and live a more fulfilled life.


Want to learn more about building resilience, overcoming anxiety, and taking control of your mindset?

📌 Follow Becca Holland:

Instagram:@healthwithholland

Podcast Instagram:@thebeccahollandpod

📌 Follow Mark Fennell:

Instagram:@markfennell.ie

Website:markfennell.ie


Cracking the Code on Fertility with Dr Michelle Hone PhD18 Feb 202501:05:23

In this powerful episode, Becca sits down with Dr Michelle Hone, PhD-qualified nutritionist and founder of The Fit Clinic, to break down the most overlooked aspects of fertility and female health. Michelle shares game-changing insights on how nutrition, hormones, and lifestyle choices impact fertility and what women can do to optimise their health—whether they’re trying to conceive or simply want to understand their body better.

They discuss why a proactive approach to fertility is crucial, the effects of stress and diet on reproductive health, and the truth about hormonal balance and cycle tracking. This episode is packed with eye-opening information and practical strategies that will change the way you think about your body.

Episode Highlights & Timestamps:

[00:00]Introduction – Becca introduces Dr Michelle Hone and the conversation on fertility and women’s health.

[02:15]A 360 Approach to Fertility – Why the conventional model is reactive, and how a proactive approach can make all the difference.

[07:30]The Role of Men in Fertility – Understanding the impact of male fertility and why sperm health matters just as much as egg health.

[12:45]Coming Off the Pill – How hormonal birth control affects the body and why reconnecting with your cycle is so important.

[18:20]Cycle Tracking & Nutrition – How to optimise diet and lifestyle based on your menstrual cycle.

[24:55]Stress, Hormones & Fertility – How stress impacts hormone regulation, ovulation, and reproductive health.

[30:40]Blood Tests & What to Ask For – The essential tests for fertility, what they really mean, and why "normal" results can be misleading.

[38:10]IVF & Fertility Treatments – Understanding when IVF is necessary and how to prepare the body for the best possible outcome.

[45:20]The Gut-Fertility Connection – How gut health plays a role in fertility, hormone balance, and overall well-being.

[52:05]Environmental Toxins & Fertility – How endocrine disruptors in food, plastics, and beauty products can affect reproductive health.

[58:40]The Power of Self-Regulation – Why emotional and nervous system regulation is just as important as diet and exercise for fertility.

[1:05:10]Final Thoughts & Where to Find Michelle – Michelle’s biggest takeaways for women’s health and where to learn more from her.

Want to learn more about fertility, hormone health, and optimising your body for conception?

Connect with us:

📌Follow Becca Holland:

Instagram:@healthwithholland

Podcast Instagram:@thebeccahollandpod

📌Follow Dr Michelle Hone:

Instagram:@drmichellehone

@herologyhub

Website:thefitclinicnutrition.com


Rewire Your Thinking with Keith Barry01 Apr 202501:44:41

This week, Becca sits down with Keith Barry, world-renowned mentalist, hypnotist, and brain hacker, for a fascinating deep dive into how the subconscious mind shapes our reality. Beyond his mind-blowing performances, Keith has spent years helping people rewire their thinking, break negative patterns, and create lasting change.

They discuss how to hack the subconscious for behaviour change, the power of self-hypnosis, and why most people are unknowingly programmed by social media and external influences. Keith shares game-changing insights into breaking habits, overcoming self-sabotage, and using the mind as a tool for personal transformation. From extreme hypnosis techniques to practical daily mindset shifts, this episode is packed with real-world strategies to help you take control of your thoughts and behaviours.

If you’ve ever wondered how to rewire your brain for success, resilience, and confidence, you won’t want to miss this one.


Episode Highlights & Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction – Becca introduces Keith Barry and his incredible work in mentalism, hypnosis, and brain hacking.

[03:15] What is Brain Hacking? – How Keith went from magician to subconscious mind expert.

[07:40] The Subconscious Mind Explained – How it controls your behaviours and how to reprogram it.

[12:30] Rewiring Negative Patterns – Keith shares how he helps clients make permanent changes in behaviour.

[18:50] The Science of Hypnosis – Debunking myths and understanding how hypnosis can be used for self-improvement.

[23:10] Overcoming Addiction & Bad Habits – The power of subconscious programming in breaking smoking and weight loss struggles.

[29:20] Instant Behaviour Change? – Keith’s extreme techniques for rapid mindset shifts.

[35:45] Social Media’s Effect on Your Brain – Why what you watch influences your thoughts and self-perception.

[41:30] Raising Resilient Kids – Keith’s insights into parenting, technology, and encouraging curiosity.

[48:50] Hacking Your Sleep for Better Performance – Keith’s top sleep strategies, including binaural beats and the two-kiwi trick.

[56:20] Biohacking, Cold Therapy & Longevity – The latest research on optimising health and mental performance.

[1:04:10] The Power of Purpose & Core Values – How defining your purpose leads to greater fulfilment.

[1:12:30] Final Thoughts – Keith’s biggest takeaways on taking control of your subconscious mind.


Want to learn how to master your mind, break limiting beliefs, and take control of your habits?

📌 Follow Becca Holland:

Instagram: @healthwithholland

Podcast Instagram: @thebeccahollandpod


📌 Follow Keith Barry:

Instagram: @keithbarry

Website: keithbarry.com

Redefining Resilience with Dr Brian Pennie08 Apr 202501:30:54

In this must-listen episode of The Becca Holland Show, Becca sits down with Dr Brian Pennie, a neuroscientist, author, and mental resilience expert whose journey from heroin addiction to academic excellence is nothing short of extraordinary. They explore the connection between metabolic health and mindset, how to build lasting habits, and why true resilience starts with understanding your body and brain.

Brian shares the science behind energy management, overcoming self-sabotage, and the power of belief in shaping reality. They also discuss the impact of movement on mental clarity, the role of fasting in metabolic health, and why discomfort is a tool for growth.

If you’re ready to challenge your thinking, optimise your health, and break free from limiting patterns, this episode is packed with insights you can apply to your daily life.

Episode Highlights & Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction – Becca welcomes Dr Brian Pennie and discusses his transformation from addiction to neuroscience, and how metabolic health became a key part of his journey.

[03:20] Metabolic Health & Energy – Why energy is the foundation for success in life and how to manage it.

[07:40] The Mind-Body Connection – How movement, nutrition, and mindset shape our health and resilience.

[12:30] The Role of Exercise in Brain Health – The neuroscience behind movement, mental clarity, and longevity.

[18:50] Building Resilience & Overcoming Challenges – Why embracing discomfort is the key to growth and transformation.

[23:10] Rewiring Your Thinking for Success – How belief systems dictate our reality and how to shift them.

[29:30] Self-Sabotage & Behaviour Change – How to move past all-or-nothing thinking and make sustainable progress.

[35:15] Fasting, Blood Sugar & Metabolic Health – The impact of intermittent fasting and how to personalise it.

[42:40] The Power of Self-Awareness – How tuning into your body and thoughts can help you make better decisions.

[50:10] The Placebo Effect & the Power of Belief – The science behind how perception shapes physical and mental health.

[56:20] Lessons from Addiction & Mental Strength – How Brian changed his relationship with anxiety and built mental resilience.

[1:05:40] Final Thoughts & Book Recommendations – Brian’s top books for personal growth, mindset shifts, and resilience.

Where to Connect:

📌 Follow Becca Holland:

Instagram: @healthwithholland

Podcast Instagram: @thebeccahollandpod


📌 Follow Dr Brian Pennie:

Instagram: @brianpennie78

Website: brianpennie.com

Watch out for the recent RTÉ documentary series Hooked that aired earlier on this month.

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The Cost of Constant Distraction (And How It’s Affecting Your Nervous System) with Gerry Hussey08 Jan 202601:07:23

Stillness sounds simple, but for many people it feels uncomfortable, frustrating, or even impossible.

In this episode, Becca sits down with Gerry Hussey, human performance coach, author, and the co-founder of Soul Space, for a conversation that feels especially relevant in January, when motivation is low and self-criticism is often high.

Together they explore why modern life pulls us into constant distraction and disconnection, and how that keeps the nervous system stuck in chronic stress. Gerry shares a powerful metaphor for stillness (the “lake” story) and explains why the goal is not to avoid difficult emotions, but to recognise them sooner, stop suppressing them, and return to calm with more awareness.

They also unpack the hidden ways self-talk shapes your nervous system and your choices, including how subconscious beliefs can quietly reroute you back into familiar habits (even when those habits are hurting you). Becca and Gerry talk about identity, why real change often requires discomfort, and how “choose your hard” can become a practical framework for moving forward.

The episode finishes with a grounded reminder that transformation does not start with more pressure, it starts with being a friend to yourself, asking what you truly need, and taking one small, honest step.


Timestamps

00:00 Welcome and why this conversation matters in January

01:16 The truth about “negative” emotions and why stillness feels so hard

03:13 The lake metaphor: how calm creates clarity when life feels chaotic

07:35 Distraction, stress, and what we’re really avoiding

12:34 Gerry’s turning point: anxiety, regulation, and rebuilding from the ground up

17:10 Self-talk, shame, and how your inner voice shapes your nervous system

23:56 Identity change: why real transformation requires discomfort

36:11 Dopamine, habits, and practical ways to reduce “double-jobbing”

43:59 Time, efficiency, and why busyness is not productivity

50:47 Accountability, community, and rebuilding real connection after COVID

58:59 The closing message: self-compassion and taking one honest next step


If this episode resonated, feel free to share it with someone who might need to hear it, and as always, thank you for listening.


You can find Becca over on Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @healthwithholland, where she shares practical education around nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable change.

To explore more resources, courses, and the weekly newsletter, visit https://healthwithholland.com

You can also connect with Gerry Hussey on Instagram at @gerry_hussey, where he shares insights on mindset, performance, regulation, and personal growth.

Gut Health, Mood, and Processed Food with Sophie Morris22 Jan 202601:06:44

In this episode, Becca is joined by Sophie Morris, bestselling author and food educator, for an honest conversation about navigating food in a world where most products are designed to look healthy, not be healthy.

They talk about why reading ingredients is such a powerful skill, how ultra-processed foods quietly shape cravings, mood, and energy, and why so many foods marketed to children are far higher in sugar than parents realise. Sophie shares the thinking behind her 80–20 approach and why fear, restriction, and perfection often backfire, especially for busy parents.

The conversation moves into the realities of family life, from kids’ parties and school rewards to grandparents and “treat culture”, and how language, boundaries, and parental regulation influence children’s relationship with food far more than rules ever could. There’s a strong focus on capacity, doing one level better rather than everything at once, and making choices that support health without adding guilt or pressure.

They also explore the link between ultra-processed foods, gut health, hormones, and mental health, and why cutting back can improve satiety, cravings, and emotional wellbeing in ways people often do not expect. The episode closes with practical, high-impact swaps that make healthier choices feel achievable, even in the busiest seasons of life.


Episode Highlights

  • [00:00] Meet Sophie Morris and why her message has taken off
  • [01:39] Why label-reading suddenly feels urgent (and why her approach lands)
  • [04:40] Hidden sugar in kids’ products and misleading “health” marketing
  • [07:12] The food system is profit-driven, so we have to shop with awareness
  • [09:18] Capacity matters: small swaps when you’re overwhelmed
  • [12:33] Parenting and parties: treats, rewards, and avoiding food obsession
  • [14:44] Language that helps kids: “nourishing foods” vs “fun foods”
  • [18:50] Boundaries, regulation, and breaking generational patterns
  • [25:20] Cycle, stress tolerance, and perimenopause realities as a parent
  • [27:39] Gut health, hormones, mood, and the ultra-processed connection
  • [39:44] The 80–20 rule and why guilt can be more harmful than the food
  • [45:19] Screens, dopamine, and how modern life shapes habits
  • [49:07] “70% of supermarket products are ultra-processed” and what to do about it
  • [52:33] What happens next: clever marketing, reformulations, and staying aware
  • [56:19] Postnatal anxiety, food survival mode, and the role of childcare support
  • [61:37] One high-impact swap for busy families (plus Sophie’s go-to hacks)
  • [66:10] Where to find Sophie and closing thoughts


Connect and learn more

If this conversation resonated, feel free to share it with someone who’s trying to eat well without fear, pressure, or perfection.

You can connect with Becca on Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @healthwithholland, where she shares practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.

You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at https://healthwithholland.com

You can follow Sophie Morris on Instagram at @sophie_morris, where she shares clear, empowering guidance on reading food labels, navigating ultra-processed foods, and making realistic swaps for families.

Sophie’s bestselling book is also linked here.

What Perimenopause Is Actually Doing to Your Body with Zora Benhamou05 Feb 202600:44:26

In today’s episode of The Becca Holland Show, I’m joined by Zora Benhamou - a gerontologist, menopause coach, and host of the Hack My Age podcast. Together, we discuss what actually changes during perimenopause and postmenopause and why so many women feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or “off” despite doing everything they’ve been told should work.

Drawing on ageing science, longevity research, and real-world experience, Zora explains the physiological, psychological, and sociological shifts that occur in midlife, including the early decline in progesterone, changing stress resilience, and why symptoms often begin in the mid-30s rather than at menopause itself.

We discuss why traditional health strategies often fail women during this transition, the importance of nervous system regulation, and why foundational habits like sleep, nutrition, movement, environment, and self-compassion matter more than quick fixes, supplements, or biohacks.

We also talk about the cultural silence and stigma surrounding menopause, global perspectives on ageing, and the nuanced, highly individual decision-making process around Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT). Zora shares why menopause is not a decline, but a transition - and why clarity, confidence, and empowerment often emerge on the other side.


EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00: Introduction: why midlife feels different

00:15: Guest introduction: Zora Benhamou, gerontologist

00:19: What perimenopause and postmenopause actually mean

00:34: Hormones, health, and why symptoms are misunderstood

00:57: Common symptoms and persistent misconceptions

01:50: What gerontology teaches us about ageing

02:43: Hormonal changes beginning in the mid-30s

03:33: Why this phase is a critical window for health

03:59: Foundations of health, longevity, and resilience

04:28: Why “doing everything right” still doesn’t work

09:12: The biohacking pyramid explained

14:40: Environment, stress, and nervous system load

14:58: How habits are built and why they fail

15:27: Self-compassion, regulation, and identity shifts

21:50: Hormone fluctuations and behavioural change

22:35: Changing the menopause narrative

23:31: Global perspectives on menopause

23:53: Shame, stigma, and silence

24:48: Cultural differences in menopause attitudes

30:41: Hormone therapy: benefits, limits, and controversy

32:31: Personalised treatment and individual responses

37:45: Hormone testing and understanding patterns

43:00: Empowerment, clarity, and life after menopause

44:15: Resources and where to find Zora


CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.

If you enjoyed this episode, I’d really appreciate you subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might find it helpful.

You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: healthwithholland.com

You can connect with Zora Benhamou on Instagram at @hackmyage, where she shares evidence-based insights on healthy ageing, menopause, strength training, and longevity for women in midlife and beyond.


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Your Body Already Knows What It Needs: Understanding Women’s Health Through Ayurveda05 Mar 202600:40:44

In today’s episode of The Becca Holland Show, I am joined by Nidhi Pandya, an Ayurvedic practitioner with over 15 years of experience, to explore how Ayurveda views women’s health through the lens of rhythm, regulation, and daily rituals - rather than rigid routines or quick fixes.

As more women feel disconnected from their bodies despite doing “all the right things,” this conversation offers a calmer, more grounded way of understanding health that feels especially relevant in modern, fast-paced life.

In this episode, we discuss how Ayurveda - often described as the science of life - approaches women’s health by working with the body’s natural rhythms rather than overriding them. We explore digestion, energy patterns, daily cycles, and stress sensitivity, and why supporting these systems gently can feel more sustainable than constantly trying to reset or optimise the body.

Nidhi explains how simple, everyday practices - from how and when we eat, to how we wind down in the evening - can support a greater sense of regulation and stability, particularly for women navigating busy lives.

This episode does not promise healing, transformation, or a single “right” way to live. Instead, it offers education and context around how Ayurveda encourages listening to the body, respecting seasonal and daily changes, and prioritising rituals that support consistency over perfection.

We also discuss why rigid wellness routines often backfire, how diet culture can disconnect women from internal cues, and why feeling regulated and supported matters more than following trends. The focus throughout is on understanding, not fixing - and on building trust with your body over time.

This episode is for:

  • Women who feel “off” in their bodies but can’t quite explain why

  • Women over 30 seeking a gentler, more intuitive approach to health

  • Listeners curious about Ayurveda but unsure how it applies to modern life

  • Anyone feeling overwhelmed by wellness rules, routines, or optimisation culture

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:


[00:00] Meet Nidhi and Ayurveda

[00:53] What Ayurveda Covers

[03:38] Fasting Basics Explained

[05:58] Women and Drying Effects

[09:09] Spiritual Fasting Context

[11:16] Consistency Over Extremes

[12:29] Rhythm Versus Routine

[16:19] Six Part Day Rhythm

[17:08] Morning Kapha Rituals

[19:41] Midday Fire Biggest Meal

[21:14] Afternoon Wind Down

[22:05] Evening Meal Cutoff

[22:54] Sleep Repair Window

[23:26] Women Need Morning Sleep

[24:13] Ayurvedic Oil Massage

[25:05] Oil Benefits Explained

[26:22] Sesame Oil Hormone Support

[29:04] Context And Contraindications

[30:45] Local And Seasonal Eating

[33:29] Food Inherent Qualities

[34:38] Warm Moist Gut Principles

[36:39] Cooking Fats Spices Ferments

[38:52] Diet Culture And Wrap Up

[40:20] Where To Find Nidhi


CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.

If you enjoyed this episode, I’d really appreciate you subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might find it helpful. 

You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: https://healthwithholland.com

You can connect with Nidhi Pandya, on Instagram at @my_ayurvedic_life, where she shares insights on Ayurvedic wisdom, digestion, daily rhythms, and how to support the body through a more balanced, intentional way of living.

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Adult Acne Isn’t Just About Skincare: Understanding the Bigger Picture Behind Persistent Breakouts19 Feb 202600:43:58

In today’s episode of The Becca Holland Show, I am joined by Katie Stewart, a holistic nutritionist specialising in adult acne and chronic skin concerns, to explore why so many women continue to struggle with their skin despite doing “all the right things.” This conversation matters now because adult acne is increasingly common in women navigating hormonal changes, chronic stress, and modern lifestyle pressures - yet much of the advice remains surface-level and product-focused.

In this episode, Katie and I discuss why adult acne is rarely just a skincare issue and how internal factors such as gut health, hormone signalling, stress physiology, and everyday environmental exposures can influence skin health over time. Katie explains why quick fixes often fall short and outlines a more systems-based way of understanding persistent breakouts - one that looks at how the body functions as a whole rather than isolating the skin.

This conversation does not promise clear skin, cures, or rapid transformations. Instead, it offers a grounded, educational look at how skin symptoms can reflect broader internal imbalances, and why addressing them often requires patience, context, and realistic expectations.We also discuss the role of marketing in women’s health, and why oversimplified messaging can leave women feeling confused or blamed when solutions don’t work.

What makes this episode different is its emphasis on long-term health framing, nervous system regulation, and gradual lifestyle changes - rather than elimination protocols or rigid rules.

This episode is for:

  • Women experiencing adult acne or recurring skin issues

  • Women in their 30s - 50s noticing skin changes alongside stress or hormonal shifts

  • Listeners seeking understanding and clarity rather than quick fixes

  • Anyone feeling frustrated by conflicting skin health advice

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00: Why adult acne needs a broader conversation

00:21: Introducing Katie Stewart and her approach to skin health

02:09: The core pillars that influence adult acne

03:35: Understanding the liver’s role in overall health (without detox myths)

06:23: When functional testing may be appropriate

16:44: Birth control, hormones, and skin changes

19:19: Endocrine disruptors in everyday products

24:24: How lifestyle differences show up in skin health

26:19: The reality of marketing in women’s health

28:03: Making gradual, sustainable lifestyle changes

29:30: Clothing, materials, and skin sensitivity

37:58: Why skin symptoms often reflect internal stress

38:34: Stress, cortisol, and inflammatory responses

42:58: Final reflections and where to find Katie


CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.

If you enjoyed this episode, I’d really appreciate you subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might find it helpful. 

You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: https://healthwithholland.com

You can connect with Katie Stewart on Instagram at @katiestewartwellness, where she shares evidence-based insights on adult acne, skin health, hormones, and taking a whole-body approach to long-term skin healing.

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Why Gut Health Changes After 35 and What Constipation Is Really Telling You19 Mar 202600:50:51

In today’s episode, I am joined by Roslyn Kent, registered holistic nutritionist and founder of Plants First Nutrition, to explore why so many women notice their gut health changing after their mid-30s, especially when bloating, constipation and sluggish digestion no longer respond to the usual advice.

This conversation matters because a lot of women are doing what they have been told should help. They are eating more fibre, taking probiotics, drinking more water and trying to be “healthy”, yet they still feel backed up, uncomfortable, inflamed or frustrated by digestion that seems to be getting worse rather than better.

In this episode, Roslyn explains why constipation is rarely just a fibre issue and why gut symptoms at this stage of life are often connected to stress, nervous system load, hormone changes, pace of life and the way digestion is functioning overall. We discuss why adding more fibre to a backed-up system can sometimes make symptoms worse, why daily bowel movements do not always mean you are fully emptying, and why so many women are treating gut issues in the wrong order.

What makes this conversation different is that it moves beyond surface-level advice and quick fixes. Rather than focusing only on food rules or supplement protocols, it offers a more complete way of understanding digestion through the lens of motility, nervous system regulation, transit time and lifestyle patterns.

This episode is for:

  • Women dealing with constipation, bloating or sluggish digestion

  • Women in their 30s, 40s and beyond noticing new gut symptoms

  • Anyone frustrated that fibre, probiotics or “clean eating” are not helping

  • Listeners who want a more realistic and whole-body view of gut health

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:00] Meet Roslyn Kent and the focus of this episode

[01:00] Why constipation is more common in women

[02:31] Dysbiosis, gut changes and why symptoms often worsen after 35

[04:43] Why quick fixes miss the real problem

[07:04] Why elimination diets often make gut issues worse

[10:34] The wrong order most people use to fix constipation

[11:04] What constipation actually means

[12:44] Why backed-up stool creates more bloating and gas

[15:00] Why psyllium husk is not always the answer

[17:39] Why rhythm comes before fibre

[19:56] Why plant foods can feel worse before your gut improves

[22:42] Food sensitivities versus poor fibre breakdown

[25:02] The gut-brain axis and why the nervous system matters

[30:13] Why stress changes digestion more than people realise

[32:07] What else might be going on, from thyroid issues to pelvic floor dysfunction

[34:46] Why lifestyle often overrides even a good diet

[38:25] The hidden stressors women are not counting

[44:16] Roslyn’s own daily rhythm for digestion and nervous system support

[50:35] Where to find Roslyn



CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change. If you enjoyed this episode, I’d really appreciate you subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might find it helpful. You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: healthwithholland.com

You can connect with Roslyn Kent on Instagram at @plantsfirstnutrition, where she shares practical education on constipation, bloating, gut motility, fibre, and women’s digestive health.

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Why Your Breathing Is Keeping You Stressed, Tired and Overthinking02 Apr 202601:00:49

Why Your Breathing Is Keeping You Stressed, Tired and Overthinking

In today’s episode of The Becca Holland Show, I am joined by Patrick McKeown, one of the world’s leading experts in breathing and oxygen efficiency, to explore why the way you breathe might be the missing piece in your sleep, stress and overall health.

This conversation matters because so many women are doing the right things. They are working on their mindset, their routines, their nutrition and their nervous system regulation, yet they still feel wired, tired, anxious or unable to switch off.

In this episode, Patrick explains why breathing is not just something you do during a meditation or a stressful moment, but something that is constantly signalling to your brain whether you are safe or under threat. We explore how common patterns like mouth breathing, upper chest breathing and fast breathing can quietly keep the body in a stress response all day and all night.

We also unpack why sleep, anxiety and overthinking are so closely linked to breathing patterns, and why many women are struggling with poor sleep despite being told everything is “normal”. Patrick introduces the concept of upper airway resistance and explains why female sleep is often misunderstood and underdiagnosed.

What makes this conversation different is that it goes beyond surface-level breathwork techniques and focuses on the bigger picture. How you breathe every minute of the day, not just during a 5 minute exercise, is what shapes your nervous system, your sleep quality and your ability to regulate your thoughts.

This episode is for:

  • Women who feel constantly “on” or stuck in overthinking

  • Anyone struggling with sleep, especially waking during the night

  • People who feel anxious despite doing all the “right” things

  • Listeners who want a simple but powerful way to regulate their nervous system

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:00] Meet Patrick McKeown

[00:27]Why breathing is one of the most overlooked tools for health

[01:06] Why modern breathing habits have become dysfunctional

[04:33] The link between chest breathing and the stress response

[05:08] How your breathing signals safety or danger to your brain

[06:06] What dysfunctional breathing actually looks like

[08:35] Why breathwork alone is not enough

[09:44] The real goal of breathing: quieting the mind

[11:07] Why we are never taught how to regulate our thoughts

[13:00] The link between breathing, blood flow and overthinking

[14:58] Why overthinking is not just psychological

[22:20] How nasal breathing reduces rumination and anxiety

[23:02] Why mouth breathing affects sleep and recovery

[24:41] Simple ways to start retraining your breathing

[29:31] Why the nose is designed for breathing and the mouth is not

[31:46] The role of carbon dioxide in energy and oxygen delivery

[33:20] Why nasal breathing improves performance and recovery

[35:43] Why female sleep issues are often missed

[40:28] Why airway resistance matters more than you think

[43:44] Mouth breathing in children and long-term consequences

[47:03] The link between sleep, brain development and breathing

[53:20] How to start changing your breathing patterns


CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.

If you enjoyed this episode, I’d really appreciate you subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might find it helpful.

You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: healthwithholland.com

You can learn more from Patrick McKeown via Oxygen Advantage, his books, and MyoTape, where he shares practical tools for improving breathing, sleep and overall health.


EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
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Why So Many Women Feel Flat, Tired and Disconnected | Miriam Hussey16 Apr 202601:03:02

In today’s episode of The Health with Holland Podcast, I’m joined by Miriam Hussey, pharmacist, yoga teacher, wellbeing educator and author of Light Up. Together, we explore why so many women are doing all the right things for their health on paper, yet still feel tired, flat, disconnected or dysregulated.

Miriam shares why true regulation is not just about food, supplements, movement or breathwork, though all of those matter. It is also about asking a deeper question: what is actually causing the dysregulation in the first place? We talk about the missing layer in modern wellness, the soul, and what happens when women live according to expectation, performance, guilt and pressure rather than what genuinely lights them up.

This conversation covers the link between nervous system health, identity, emotional suppression, purpose, community, self-worth and inner alignment. We also discuss why so many women feel trapped in busy, over-functioning lifestyles, how shame and survival mode can block joy, and why slowing down enough to hear yourself can be one of the most powerful healing practices of all.

This episode is for:

  • Women who feel exhausted, flat or “off” despite doing a lot for their health

  • Women stuck in over-functioning, people-pleasing or productivity-driven patterns

  • Anyone wanting a deeper conversation about regulation, purpose and emotional health

  • Listeners who know the physical tools matter, but sense there is another layer underneath

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:00] Introduction and why so many women still feel off

[01:28] The missing layer in modern wellness

[05:14] What Miriam means by the soul

[07:05] The body, the mind and the soul connection

[09:01] Why stillness, yoga and breath help you reconnect

[12:05] Two women, two lifestyles, and what real health looks like

[13:16] Community, connection and modern disconnection

[14:28] How modern life has left women run ragged

[17:05] Motherhood, values and questioning the default path

[21:08] Guilt, pressure and the impossible standards women carry

[24:07] What energy are you living in right now?

[27:48] The body always shows when something is off

[30:01] Carving away what is not really you

[31:03] Why you need stillness to hear yourself

[34:10] Ego versus essence and how to tell the difference

[37:26] Why healing takes patience and honesty

[40:49] Shame, guilt and the emotions women suppress

[45:33] Self-criticism, identity and rewiring old patterns

[50:08] Why emotions must be felt, not avoided

[59:07] Masculine and feminine energy, and where to find Miriam

CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

Becca & Health with Holland:

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.

If you enjoyed this episode, I’d really appreciate you subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might find it helpful. 

You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: https://healthwithholland.com


Miriam Hussey:

You can connect with Miriam Hussey on Instagram at @miriamhussey_, where she shares insights on integrative health, nervous system regulation, emotional wellbeing, and living in alignment with your body, mind and soul.

You can also check out her book Light Up, out now, where she explores the connection between mind, body and soul, helping you step out of the ‘always on’ cycle and restore balance, purpose and overall wellbeing.



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Why You Keep Going Back to Old Habits with Paul Scanlon30 Apr 202600:58:05

In today’s episode of The Health with Holland Podcast, I’m joined by Paul Scanlon, speaker, mentor and author who has spent decades teaching self-awareness, emotional intelligence and authentic living. Together, we explore why so many women struggle to make lasting change, even when they know exactly what they “should” be doing.

Paul explains why behaviour change is not about more discipline, stricter routines or better plans, but understanding the beliefs, labels and patterns shaping your life since childhood. We talk about how most people live on autopilot, repeating the same habits and emotional patterns without realising why.

This conversation covers the role of the ego, why it keeps you stuck, and how reconnecting with your body and intuition can change the way you make decisions. We also explore why change feels uncomfortable, how your environment influences your identity, and why the people around you may resist your growth.

We dive into emotional intelligence, why your feelings are not facts, and how past experiences shape your reactions. Paul shares how to build self-awareness, break familiar patterns, and make small changes that actually last.

This episode is for

  • Women who feel stuck in the same habits, patterns or cycles despite trying to change
  • Women who are constantly overthinking and disconnected from their intuition
  • Anyone who knows what to do but struggles to follow through
  • Listeners who want to understand the deeper psychological side of behaviour change


EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:00] Why change doesn’t last[02:12] How labels from childhood shape your identity[04:30] Belief systems formed before age eight[06:10] Behaviour change vs belief change[08:05] Living on autopilot and lack of self-awareness[09:42] Ego vs intuition and safety[11:35] Overthinking vs reconnecting with your body[15:40] How others hold you back[17:05] False self vs authentic self[18:50] What actually lights you up[20:12] Why most people feel disconnected from joy[21:45] Seeing your future self through others[23:10] Identity shifts and environment[25:20] Finding your people and leaving old environments[27:05] Readiness vs information[28:40] How your internal world shapes your life[30:15] Social media and mental influence[32:10] Emotional intelligence and understanding reactions[36:00] Past experiences shape current triggers[38:10] Building self-awareness[40:05] Why staying stuck can feel safer than changing[42:00] The inner critic and how it forms[44:20] Why positive thinking alone doesn’t work[46:00] Behaviour change, habits and emotional patterns[48:00] When relationships hold you back[50:00] Why we stay in familiar patterns (Stockholm syndrome)[52:00] Finding supportive environments and your “tribe”[54:00] Living in alignment[56:30] Self-determination, regulation and creating better days[59:30] Final reflections


CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

Becca Holland

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.

If you enjoyed this episode, I’d really appreciate you subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might find it helpful. 

You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: https://healthwithholland.com

Paul Scanlon

You can connect with Paul Scanlon on Instagram at @paulscanlonuk, where he shares insights on self-awareness, emotional intelligence, identity and authentic living.

You can also learn more about his work at paulscanlon.com, including his books, speaking and mentoring.

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Why Your Body Needs Less Pressure and More Nourishment | Clare McKenna14 May 202600:52:33

In today’s episode of The Health with Holland Podcast, I’m joined by Clare McKenna, presenter of Alive and Kicking on Newstalk, integrative health coach, breathwork teacher and author of Would You Be Well? Together, we explore why so many women feel exhausted by wellness advice, health trends and rigid plans, and how to come back to what actually supports your body in real life.

Clare shares her own journey from chasing diets, fitness trends and external answers to learning how to listen to her body, simplify her health and build a more compassionate relationship with food, movement and wellbeing. We talk about why there is no magic pill, why the wellness industry can make women feel like they are constantly failing, and how to start tuning into your own internal compass again.

This conversation covers nervous system health, gut health, intuitive eating, weight loss injections, self-criticism, food rules, exercise, joy, community, spirituality and the simple daily rituals that help women feel more grounded, energised and well.

This episode is for:

  • Women who feel overwhelmed by wellness trends and conflicting health advice
  • Women who want more energy without another strict plan
  • Anyone trying to improve their relationship with food, body and exercise
  • Listeners who want a more realistic, compassionate approach to feeling well


EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:00] Clip

[00:27] Introduction to Clare McKenna

[00:57] Why wellness trends can feel exhausting

[02:11] Taking an aerial view of your life

[03:36] Cutting through wellness overwhelm

[05:49] Your internal compass vs outside noise

[07:13] Why there is no magic pill

[09:45] Weight loss injections and the nuance women need

[13:58] Algorithms, diet hype and health confusion

[17:10] Balanced meals and real energy

[18:25] Gut health and the add-in mindset

[21:41] Why you need to slow down to speed up

[22:53] Daily rituals that nourish you

[25:11] Holding space for yourself

[26:38] Rest, intuition and shame

[28:13] A no-shame approach to wellness

[29:07] Catching self-criticism

[29:49] Truth, logic and listening to yourself

[31:45] Reframing the comfort zone

[33:20] Creating new neural pathways

[34:49] Food rules and undernourishment

[38:32] Moving beyond calorie culture

[39:30] Movement for mental health

[41:07] Rigid biohacking and what it misses

[42:46] Why joy fuels healthy change

[45:32] Mind, body and soul wellness

[46:41] Community, ritual and spiritual wellbeing

[51:46] Learning as a way to get unstuck

[52:33] Where to find Clare


CONNECT & LEARN MORE:

Becca Holland:

You can connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube - @healthwithholland, where I share practical education on nervous system regulation, women’s health, and sustainable behaviour change.You’ll also find courses, resources, and more podcast episodes at: https://healthwithholland.com

Clare McKenna:

You can connect with Clare McKenna on Instagram at @Claremckennapresents. Her book Would You Be Well? is available now...


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Why So Many Women Feel Dismissed In Perimenopause with Dr Christine Maren28 May 202600:56:53

In this episode, Becca is joined by functional medicine physician Dr Christine Maren to unpack what is really happening in the female body during perimenopause.

Together they explore why perimenopause often acts as an “unmasking” phase, revealing underlying issues like thyroid dysfunction, autoimmune disease, gut imbalances, histamine intolerance, chronic stress and nervous system dysregulation that may have been building quietly for years.

They discuss the powerful connection between hormones, gut health, the immune system and emotional suppression, and why so many women are being told their symptoms are “normal” when their bodies are clearly asking for support.


This conversation also dives into:

  • Hashimoto’s and thyroid dysfunction in midlife women
  • Histamine intolerance and why wine suddenly affects you differently
  • The gut-thyroid-hormone connection
  • Why under-eating and over-exercising backfire in perimenopause
  • The impact of chronic stress, people pleasing and emotional suppression on female health
  • Why women need more nourishment, muscle and rest in midlife
  • How to stop ignoring the signals your body is sending you

If you’ve been feeling exhausted, inflamed, anxious, disconnected from yourself or like your body suddenly “changed overnight”, this episode will help you understand why.


Episode Highlights

[0:00] Why Perimenopause “Unmasks” Hidden Health Issues

[2:05] Why Modern Women Are Hitting Burnout Earlier

[3:27] You Do NOT Have To Suffer Through Perimenopause

[5:05] Fertility, Hormones & Thyroid Problems In Midlife

[6:19] Autoimmune Disease & Hashimoto’s In Women Explained

[8:18] Chronic Stress, Trauma & Systemic Inflammation

[10:08] The Gut-Hormone-Immune System Connection

[12:18] Why Quick Fixes Rarely Solve Chronic Symptoms

[13:54] High Functioning Women & Hidden Burnout

[15:40] The Pressure Women Feel To “Do Everything”

[18:47] Emotional Suppression, Stress & Autoimmune Disease

[20:23] Why Women’s Symptoms Are Often Dismissed

[22:09] Thyroid Medication, T3, T4 & Root Causes Explained

[26:26] IBS, SIBO & The Missing Gut Health Conversation

[29:07] Histamine Intolerance In Perimenopause Explained

[32:22] Alcohol, Sleep Problems & Hormone Health

[35:03] Why Women Gain Weight In Perimenopause

[37:35] The Truth About Carbs, Metabolism & Thyroid Health

[40:22] Fatigue, Under-Eating & Slow Metabolism In Women

[43:06] The Best Exercise & Nutrition Approach For Midlife Women

[45:20] Resentment, Boundaries & Female Burnout

[48:39] Why Perimenopause Requires A Different Approach To Health

[52:53] The First Steps If You Don’t Feel Like Yourself Anymore


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