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How your attachment style affects your sex life29 Jun 202100:20:12

This is an attachment styles 101 crash course where you can get an overview of this framework and how it affects your sex life. This is a research-supported framework to understand your relationship and attraction dynamics in a whole new light. It’s been life-changing for me, my friends, and my clients.

Having the well-developed emotional intelligence and the right relational tools will allow you to create the best context for an awesome sexuall connection. Knowing your attachment style, and ideally, knowing your partner’s too, is one of those tools. It’s an awareness of your internal wiring when it comes to connection and conflict, and understanding where this programming comes from and what it means for your love life today. Attachment styles affect the way we perceive ourselves as individuals and how we view romantic bonds. They predict how we approach and act in relationships by forming our underlying beliefs and assumptions about love, sex, and connection.

In the meantime, follow us on Facebook and Instagram. We share plenty of memes, resources, and keep you updated!

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Keeping the Spark Alive, Conflicting Closeness Needs, Scratchy Beard During Oral Sex, and Sex Toy Shaming09 Jun 202100:45:18

Sorry for the delay all, was moving this weekend!  

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Excessively Triggered Jealousy of Exes, Broken Condom Drama, Getting Tied Up Too Loosely, and the 3-minute Game05 Apr 202100:51:26

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Getting Full participation in a Foursome, Exes Coming Out of the Woodwork, A Partner’s Mom’s Baby Fever, and How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes29 Mar 202100:42:46

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Finding your Husband on a Gay Dating Site, Staying Friends with a "Cheatee", Validating a Relationship in Non-Sexual Ways, and How to Love Yourself While Single22 Mar 202101:02:18

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Annoying Sex Sounds, Cowboy Concerns, Intro to Anal Fisting, and People Pleasing.15 Mar 202100:51:24

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Cheating With the Person They Mocked, A Lack of Condom Notification, Bad Hearing, and the book Marriage Fitness by Mort Fortel08 Mar 202100:51:52

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Excessive Crying, Inconsiderate Boyfriend, Feelings in a Female-Led-Relationship, and Why We Advocate Therapy!01 Mar 202100:56:42

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New Poly-wog Concerns, Older Sister Sex Shadow, Texting Privacy, and A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle22 Feb 202100:45:28

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A Stationary Boyfriend, Making a Threesome Happen, A Girlfriend Withholding Sex, and What is Shadow Work?15 Feb 202101:00:16

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Live Q&A: Scheduling Sex, Long Distance Relationships, Mail Potato, and so much more!08 Feb 202101:42:52

This is our first Facebook LIVE Q&A, presented in audio form!
We didn't realize downloading the video and exporting the audio would result in such a drastic drop in audio quality, so it's a little crackly and flat sounding :) We will record our audio alongside next time to address this going forward!

This was a BLAST and we will be doing more of these soon!
Thank you for your ongoing support, we love you all <3

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A Messy Love Polygon, A Moody Girlfriend, Learning to Love an Uncut Dick, and Models by Mark Manson01 Feb 202100:47:08

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Why people fake orgasms, and why you never should03 Jun 202100:20:26

Meg dives in this week to examine the psychological underpinnings of faking an orgasm, and explains the importance of self-advocacy and sexual empowerment. Her specialty!

Come back next week when Meg and Fernando answer your letters!

In the meantime, follow us on Facebook and Instagram. We share plenty of memes, resources, and keep you updated!

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Trusting a Remorseful Cheater, Dating your Girlfriend's Friend, A Deadbeat Boyfriend and Polyamory 10125 Jan 202101:01:10

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Distracting Bodily Insecurities, Anal Judgement, Going Braless, and Difficult Conversations18 Jan 202100:43:20

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A Poly Married Mess, Enthusiasm Fadeout, Familial Gay Intolerance, and Hierarchical Poly 10111 Jan 202101:03:58

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Cuckhold Regret, Assessing Attraction, Excessive Phone Usage, and Becoming Nobody by Ram Dass04 Jan 202100:39:18

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A Curious Sugar Baby, Questioning Porn, Poly Hookup Guilt, and Sex on Substances28 Dec 202000:58:04

Link to Youtube Video about Mindgeek and the Porn Industry:
https://youtu.be/WEYB02EZtVs

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Flirting with an Asexual, Teasing Foreplay, Poly on the Rocks, and the Narcissist/Empath Dynamic21 Dec 202000:57:42

22 Stages of Relationship Between An Empath and A Narcissist :
https://themindsjournal.com/stages-relationship-empath-narcissist/

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Dating Your Best Friend's Ex, "Soft" Ghosting, Penetration on a Pedestal, and the RADAR Check-in Tool14 Dec 202000:56:06

RADAR Check-in Tool:
https://www.multiamory.com/radar

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Having Louder Orgasms, Being the "Man," Destabilizing Secondaries, and the book, The Charisma Myth07 Dec 202000:44:12



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Kong Licking-Style Cunnilingus, A Bad Breath Boyfriend, Slippery Shower Sex, and ALL About the G-Spot30 Nov 202000:53:38


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Getting Breast Implants, Getting Kinkier, Peeing While Sitting Down, and the Do's and Dont's of Impact Play23 Nov 202000:51:46

She says it feels wrong to want breast implants, but is she in the right mindset? How does one go from vanilla to kinky? Is it unmanly for a man to pee while sitting down? And our spotlight topic: the do's and don'ts of impact play-- how to hit and get hit safely and sanely!

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Baking a Conflict Cake, Emotional Standoff, An Anniversary Disappointment, and How to have Sex Health Conversations24 May 202101:01:12

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A Big Clit, NRE Sex Imbalance, Decline of Sexual Interest, and Psychoanalyzing Bondage16 Nov 202000:53:52

This guy doesn't know how to approach a bigger-than-normal clit, but is there even a normal?? How to navigate the common situation where a partner is putting most of their sexual energy into a new partner? What does it mean when this man's sexual interest declines over time? And our spotlight topic: Bondage! Why do people love it, what does it mean, what's it all about psychologically??

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Dick Hardening, Unshaved Legs, Recreating Vacation Sex, and the book, Daring Greatly09 Nov 202000:41:50

Why is his fickle dick not always the same hardness? Should she shave her legs to  get more potential dates? How can they bring the sexy vacation vibes home? And our toolbox resource is a book: Daring greatly by Brene Brown.

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Coaxing Therapy, Porn Addiction, Getting More Head, and Safewords02 Nov 202000:51:12

How can she convince her bf to go to therapy? Can this couple rebuild trust despite infidelity and a porn addiction? How can he convince his gf to give him more head?  And our spotlight topic, safewords: when and how to use them, plus some practical (and silly) tips!

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A Jealous Non-Meta, Anal Enjoyment Strategies, A Rockstar Meta, and the Book: The Truth26 Oct 202000:38:42

How does jealousy extend beyond the couple? How can anal sex be enjoyed more? Can she quell her insecurity about her meta who is literally a rockstar? And our toolbox resource, the book The Truth by Neil Strauss.

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Dirty Talk, Poly Oversharing, Housework Imbalance, and How to Hold Space19 Oct 202000:51:10

How can one learn to do more dirty-talk? How to deal with hearing the deets about your partner's other relationship?  How can this couple balance their housework better, and why is it off? And our toolbox skill: how to "hold space."

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Simultaneous Orgasms, Pandemic Dating, Forbidding Masturbation, and Trauma Bonding12 Oct 202001:04:08

How can this couple cum together, and is it important? How to deal with the extra layer of flakiness of dating during the pandemic? Should she stop masturbating because her bf wants her to "save it all for him"?? And our spotlight topic: trauma bonding.

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Creative Face Sitting, Covid Dating Navigation, Work Boyfriend Messiness, and the book: The Body Keeps the Score05 Oct 202000:51:22

How can these ladies get creative with the logistics of face-sitting? How to keep your chin up during pandemic dating? Why shouldn't you shit where you eat? And our Toolbox resource: the book The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.

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Red Flag City, Edging, Haunting Ex-Thoughts, Music Festival Magic, and The Apology Languages28 Sep 202001:04:09

Look at all these red flags! How can he teach his gf to edge him? Can she move past these weird recurring thoughts of her ex?  Was this connection just the magic of a music festival? And our Toolbox resource: the apology languages. 

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Friendship Jealousy, Covid Ghosting, Too Much Chilling, and Aftercare21 Sep 202000:58:26

Can this friend diffuse the jealousy of her friend's partner? What's up with all these covid ghosts?  Is there such thing as too much chilling? And our spotlight topic: aftercare.

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Mosting, Nosebleeds, Revealing Poly to your Kids, Incest Dreams, and Toxic Positivity14 Sep 202001:05:08

What is mosting and why is it awful? Why is this guy getting nosebleeds during sex? How can this parent reveal their poly lifestyle to their kid? What's up with incestuous dreams? And our spotlight topic: toxic positivity.  

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Why you put off dumping your lover, and how to be less cruel when you do19 May 202100:21:36

Meg takes the mic solo this week again! She discusses why we put off breaking up with someone we know isn't a good match, the emotions and dynamics at play at the root of this, and what it all means. She talks about how to more authentically speak your truth in a relationship when feelings are imbalanced, when you have differing needs and hopes for the future. How rejection and worthiness and ego are subtly and counterintuitively at play here, and how you can have a better relationship by learning how to compassionately end ones that aren't right for you.  Come back next week when Meg and Fernando answer your letters!

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A Triggering Event, Secret Cross Dressing, Crush Recovery, Non-Anal Options, and the book Opening Up07 Sep 202001:01:26

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Changing Your Last Name, A Foursome Disaster, Dateception, A Large Unpaid Debt, and How to Handle Rejection31 Aug 202001:16:20

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Meaningful Chores, Healing Too Late, Ascertaining a Rebound, Too Many Partners, and Safety Love Languages24 Aug 202001:08:22

Infographic on Routes of Safety:
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Squirting Revelations, Diva Girlfriend, Coaxing out a Daddy, Sex in Nature, and The Power of Now17 Aug 202000:53:22

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An Unshared Kink, Sexual Shutdown, Psycho-Analyzing Boyfriend, Stuck in the Short-Term, and How to Break Up10 Aug 202001:05:46

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Disclosing being Trans, A Boyfriend Hiring Sex-Workers, Crushing on Your Therapist, New Partners having Poly Tension, and The Ethical Slut03 Aug 202001:05:28

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Moving On, Staying Confident in Dating, Moving for a Lover, A Poopy Orgasm, and How to Receive an Accountability Talk27 Jul 202001:06:00

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Finding your Dad's Porn, "Requiring" High Heels, Dating after Divorce, Falling for a Friend, and How to Have an Accountability Talk20 Jul 202001:11:00

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A Circus Love, Bipolar Excuses, Gender Dynamics in Non-Monogamy, A Charismatic Flake, and Making Marriage Work13 Jul 202001:16:36

Our Toolbox resource this week is:
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
by John Gottman
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Being Too Much, Having your Cake and Eating it too, An Ignored Safe Word, Sneaking Porn, and Ask Versus Guess Culture06 Jul 202001:05:14

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Refusing STI testing, Narcissist Roulette, Crying about Performance Issues, and the book: How to Do the Work by Nicole LePera10 May 202100:52:10

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A Sexy Renaissance, a Friend who can't Read Signals, Lack of Curve Appreciation, Romantic Vacation Aftermath and Types of Emotional Abuse29 Jun 202001:04:36

Spotlight: PDF of Types of Emotional Abuse, from The Mend Project
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The Misconceptions of Promiscuity, Racist Grandparents, Threatening Suicide, Potential Cheating, and Mating in Captivity22 Jun 202001:01:28

Toolbox Book:  Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Ether Perel
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Jealousy, Withdrawn Poly Consent, Cheating as Revenge, Bad Hygiene, and The Spoon Theory15 Jun 202001:03:10

In this week's Toolbox, we will be going over The Spoon Theory.
https://butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/

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Mel - Poly/Alternative Relationship Coach
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An Affection-less Marriage, Accepting Favors and Getting Over Betrayal, and Non-Violent Communication08 Jun 202001:14:42

Our combined Spotlight/Toolbox topic this week is on Non-Violent Communication (NVC), what it is and how to use it!

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships
By: Marshall B. Rosenberg
https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528X


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